Possessing the pauses

Welcome to The Parent Pause, otherwise known as the tiny sacred space wedged somewhere between “Where’s your other shoe?” and “Did you remember to email the teacher?” Parenting can often feel like one long to-do list that regenerates itself overnight (how do they eat so many snacks?).But tucked between the tasks are these flickering, almost-missed moments - the breath between the breakfast dishes and the school run. And in those slivers of time, something magical can happen: your attention returns to you. Your body gently taps you on the shoulder and says, “Hey... we’re feeling something. Could we maybe tend to that before the next snack emergency?”What if we didn’t brush past those pauses? What if we claimed them - softly, intentionally - as ours? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kimmccabe.substack.com/subscribe