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EPISODE · Feb 10, 2026 · 1H 12M

Sheleana Aiyana | Toxic Love: How Your Hormones Keep You Addicted To Bad Partners

from Wellness + Wisdom Podcast · host Josh Trent

Why do we lose ourselves in love, repeat painful relationship patterns, and mistake intensity for intimacy instead of becoming whole within ourselves first?Josh Trent welcomes Sheleana Aiyana to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 800, to explore why self-abandonment drives relationship chaos, how attachment wounds and the mother wound shape romantic bonds, what becoming the one truly means, how grief and motherhood catalyze deep healing, and why divine union begins with reclaiming self-trust, presence, and inner wholeness before partnership.In This Episode, Sheleana Aiyana Uncovers:(01:15) Why We Lose Ourselves In Relationships(06:40) Your Soul Came Here to Learn(11:10) Becoming The One(16:10) Awakening Through Relationships(20:50) Mother Wound(25:45) True Depth of Transformation + Healing(32:10) When Motherhood Reopens It Heals Your Wounds(38:55) What Is The Role of A Parent?(46:55) Life Feels Heavy When You Abandon Yourself(53:45) Relationship Rebirth(01:03:05) What Is A Divine Union?👉 ⁠⁠⁠Get the full SHOW NOTES + resources HERE!⁠⁠🍄 A fully legal psychedelic microdose? YES!EONS' DIALED is derived from the Amanita muscaria mushroom (WITHOUT hallucinogenic experiences). DIALED  works on the subconscious level, helping to overcome limiting beliefs and negative habits, all while promoting a balanced circadian rhythm and having beneficial effects on mental health without the risks. Save 20% on DIALED with code "JOSH20"🔥 The Ultimate Fat-Burning Keto SupplementUnlock next-level ketosis with BiOptimizers kAPEx, a 100 % plant-based enzyme stack that spikes AMPK activity by up to 300 %, ramps up ATP production, and wipes out keto-flu fatigue before it starts. Save 10% on BiOptimizers with code "JOSH10"Josh's Trusted Products | Up To 40% OffShop All ProductsSleepBiOptimizers Sleep Breakthrough - 10% off with JOSH10Zyppah Anti-Snoring Mouthpiece - 20% off with the code JOSHMitoZen Super SandMan Ultra™ (Melatonin Liposomal)+ | 10% off with WELLNESSFORCELuminette Light Therapy Glasses - 15% off with JOSH15Cured Nutrition CBN Night Oil - 20% off with JOSHNatural EnergyMTE - Save 20% with JOSHTruKava - Save 20% with code JOSH20Drink Update - Save 25% with discount code JOSH25EONS Mushroom Coffee - 20% off with the discount code JOSH20EnergyBITS - 20% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEBUBS Naturals - Save 20% with JOSH20Fitness + Physical HealthDetox Dudes Online Courses - Up to $500 off with discount code JOSHKineon - 10% off with discount code JOSH10Create Wellness Creatine Gummies - 20% off with discount code JOSHBioPro+ by BioProtein Technology - Save $30 OFF WITH CODE JOSHDrink LMNT - Zero Sugar Hydration: Get your free LMNT Sample Pack, with any purchaseHealthy HomeSunHome Saunas - Save $200 with JOSH200JASPR Air Purifier - Save 10% with code WELLNESSZyppah Anti-Snoring Mouthpiece - 20% off with the code JOSHHoly Hydrogen - $100 off with discount code JOSHSimplyO3 - 10% off with discount code JOSH10LEELA Quantum Upgrade + Frequency Bundles - Get 15 days free with code JOSH15TrulyFree Toxic- Free Cleaning Products - Get 40% off + Freebies with code WELLNESSFORCEMental Health + Stress ReleaseMendi.io - 20% off with the code JOSH20NOOTOPIA - 10% off with the discount code JOSH10CalmiGo - $30 off the device with discount code JOSH30QUALIA - 15% off with WELLNESSFORCEApothékary - 15% off on orders over $75 with JOSHTRENTPersonal Care⁠The Wellness Company's Emergency Health Kits + More - Save 10% with code JOSHFarrow Life - Save 20% with JOSH🙌 ⁠⁠Intelligence of Nature - NOW 35% off Skin Support with the code JOSH35⁠⁠Young Goose - Save 10% with code JOSH10Mindfulness + MeditationBREATHE - 33% off with the code PODCAST33Neuvana - 15% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEEssential Oil Wizardry - 10% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEFour Visions - Save 15% with code JOSH15Lotuswei - 10% off with JOSH

Why do we lose ourselves in love, repeat painful relationship patterns, and mistake intensity for intimacy instead of becoming whole within ourselves first?Josh Trent welcomes Sheleana Aiyana to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 800, to explore why self-abandonment drives relationship chaos, how attachment wounds and the mother wound shape romantic bonds, what becoming the one truly means, how grief and motherhood catalyze deep healing, and why divine union begins with reclaiming self-trust, presence, and inner wholeness before partnership.In This Episode, Sheleana Aiyana Uncovers:(01:15) Why We Lose Ourselves In Relationships(06:40) Your Soul Came Here to Learn(11:10) Becoming The One(16:10) Awakening Through Relationships(20:50) Mother Wound(25:45) True Depth of Transformation + Healing(32:10) When Motherhood Reopens It Heals Your Wounds(38:55) What Is The Role of A Parent?(46:55) Life Feels Heavy When You Abandon Yourself(53:45) Relationship Rebirth(01:03:05) What Is A Divine Union?👉 ⁠⁠⁠Get the full SHOW NOTES + resources HERE!⁠⁠🍄 A fully legal psychedelic microdose? YES!EONS' DIALED is derived from the Amanita muscaria mushroom (WITHOUT hallucinogenic experiences). DIALED  works on the subconscious level, helping to overcome limiting beliefs and negative habits, all while promoting a balanced circadian rhythm and having beneficial effects on mental health without the risks. Save 20% on DIALED with code "JOSH20"🔥 The Ultimate Fat-Burning Keto SupplementUnlock next-level ketosis with BiOptimizers kAPEx, a 100 % plant-based enzyme stack that spikes AMPK activity by up to 300 %, ramps up ATP production, and wipes out keto-flu fatigue before it starts. Save 10% on BiOptimizers with code "JOSH10"Josh's Trusted Products | Up To 40% OffShop All ProductsSleepBiOptimizers Sleep Breakthrough - 10% off with JOSH10Zyppah Anti-Snoring Mouthpiece - 20% off with the code JOSHMitoZen Super SandMan Ultra™ (Melatonin Liposomal)+ | 10% off with WELLNESSFORCELuminette Light Therapy Glasses - 15% off with JOSH15Cured Nutrition CBN Night Oil - 20% off with JOSHNatural EnergyMTE - Save 20% with JOSHTruKava - Save 20% with code JOSH20Drink Update - Save 25% with discount code JOSH25EONS Mushroom Coffee - 20% off with the discount code JOSH20EnergyBITS - 20% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEBUBS Naturals - Save 20% with JOSH20Fitness + Physical HealthDetox Dudes Online Courses - Up to $500 off with discount code JOSHKineon - 10% off with discount code JOSH10Create Wellness Creatine Gummies - 20% off with discount code JOSHBioPro+ by BioProtein Technology - Save $30 OFF WITH CODE JOSHDrink LMNT - Zero Sugar Hydration: Get your free LMNT Sample Pack, with any purchaseHealthy HomeSunHome Saunas - Save $200 with JOSH200JASPR Air Purifier - Save 10% with code WELLNESSZyppah Anti-Snoring Mouthpiece - 20% off with the code JOSHHoly Hydrogen - $100 off with discount code JOSHSimplyO3 - 10% off with discount code JOSH10LEELA Quantum Upgrade + Frequency Bundles - Get 15 days free with code JOSH15TrulyFree Toxic- Free Cleaning Products - Get 40% off + Freebies with code WELLNESSFORCEMental Health + Stress ReleaseMendi.io - 20% off with the code JOSH20NOOTOPIA - 10% off with the discount code JOSH10CalmiGo - $30 off the device with discount code JOSH30QUALIA - 15% off with WELLNESSFORCEApothékary - 15% off on orders over $75 with JOSHTRENTPersonal Care⁠The Wellness Company's Emergency Health Kits + More - Save 10% with code JOSHFarrow Life - Save 20% with JOSH🙌 ⁠⁠Intelligence of Nature - NOW 35% off Skin Support with the code JOSH35⁠⁠Young Goose - Save 10% with code JOSH10Mindfulness + MeditationBREATHE - 33% off with the code PODCAST33Neuvana - 15% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEEssential Oil Wizardry - 10% off with the code WELLNESSFORCEFour Visions - Save 15% with code JOSH15Lotuswei - 10% off with JOSH

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