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EPISODE · May 23, 2026 · 28 MIN

Stop Asking “Why Me?” And Start Asking This Instead

from Sincerely, Self · host Lexi Benitez

This week on Sincerely Self, Lexi gets personal and shares the unexpected reason behind missing last week’s episode… a broken ankle.But instead of focusing on “Why is this happening to me?”, Lexi dives into a powerful mindset shift: What if life is happening FOR you instead of TO you?In this raw solo episode, she opens up about burnout, constantly living in “go mode,” feeling overwhelmed by work and responsibilities, and how being forced to slow down became an unexpected wake-up call.From manifestation and subconscious beliefs to purpose, abundance, grounding, and finding meaning in difficult seasons, this episode challenges listeners to rethink the obstacles in their own lives and ask:Could my setback actually be setting me up for something bigger?In this episode:* The embarrassing story of how Lexi broke her ankle* Why perspective changes everything* Signs you may be living on autopilot* Burnout and the pressure to constantly work* Abundance mindset vs scarcity mindset* Why purpose matters more than productivity* Manifestation and subconscious beliefs* Grounding practices and reconnecting with yourself* Questions to ask yourself during difficult seasonsBooks mentioned:* Think and Grow Rich* Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1 evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍 Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

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