The Bravest Move in Recovery: Addressing Hurt Without Blame

What if the fastest way out of resentment, anxiety, and emotional spirals was the one thing most of us avoid? In this episode, Finn and Dr. Sarah break down why speaking directly to the person who upset you is one of the most powerful tools in codependency recovery. With real-life stories, humor, and practical guidance, they show how confronting discomfort leads to clarity, intimacy, and emotional freedom—and why avoiding the conversation costs you far more in the long run.TakeawaysMaking up stories in your head creates resentment, not safetyAvoidance is a core codependency pattern that keeps you stuckSpeaking directly builds intimacy—even when it feels riskyPreparation matters: regulate before you communicateShort-term discomfort creates long-term emotional freedomKey Timestamps[00:01] Why we avoid the person who upset us[00:03] The danger of making up stories in your head[00:05] Deciding if a relationship is worth addressing[00:07] How to prepare emotionally before the conversation[00:10] Speaking without blame or defensiveness[00:12] Choosing courage over gossip and resentmentNotable ResourcesDr. Sarah Michaud – Author of Co CrazyFollow @leavingcrazytown on YouTubeWebsite: https://drsarahmichaud.com/If this episode hit home, subscribe, rate, and review Leaving CrazyTown—and share it with someone who’s been stuck rehearsing conversations instead of having them.Leaving CrazyTown is a raw, real-talk podcast hosted by Finn and Dr. Sarah Michaud, two recovering addicts turned relatable guides on the wild ride of codependency healing. Each episode dives deep into the chaos of dysfunctional relationships, identity loss, and emotional recovery—with humor, honesty, and hope. Subscribe and buckle up—we’re leaving CrazyTown.