When Sobriety Isn’t Enough: Patti Clark on Relapse, Loneliness & Coming Home

Episode DescriptionWhat happens when you’ve done “everything right” in recovery — and it still isn’t enough? In this deeply honest conversation,  Dr. Sarah sits down with author Patti Clark to explore long-term sobriety, relapse after 13 years, emotional bottoms, motherhood shame, loneliness, and the quiet moments that can pull us back into addiction. Patti shares the raw truth behind her relapse, the power of connection, and why recovery is about becoming whole — not perfect.TakeawaysWhy relapse often begins long before the drinkHow loneliness can become an emotional bottomThe hidden shame many mothers carry in addiction and recoveryWhy connection — not discipline — sustains sobrietyHow creativity and writing can support emotional healingKey Timestamps01:00 Patti’s recovery origin story and family alcoholism11:00Loneliness, disconnection, and leaving meetings13:00Relapsing after 13 years sober18:00Motherhood, shame, and hidden drinking24:00Emotional bottoms and forgiveness37:00Writing The Recovery Road Trip and “now what?” recoveryNotable Resources & Guest LinksThe Recovery Road Trip by Patti ClarkWebsite: https://pattyclark.orgTikTok: @recoveringwomanInstagram/Facebook: Patti Clark, AuthorIf this episode resonated, subscribe, rate, and review Leaving CrazyTown — and share it with someone navigating recovery, relapse, or emotional burnout.Leaving CrazyTown is a raw, real-talk podcast hosted by Finn and Dr. Sarah Michaud, two recovering addicts turned relatable guides on the wild ride of codependency healing. Each episode dives deep into the chaos of dysfunctional relationships, identity loss, and emotional recovery—with humor, honesty, and hope. Subscribe and buckle up—we’re leaving CrazyTown.