Why We Should Normalise Being Bad at Our Hobbies ... (EP 21)

Welcome to Episode 21 of the Empower Sounds podcast! 🎙️ This episode is a little different—I had a spontaneous moment of inspiration and wanted to share my thoughts with you all. Grab a cup of tea, settle in, and let’s talk about why it’s okay to be bad at your hobbies and how embracing imperfection can bring so much joy.Key Takeaways:❤️ The importance of hobbies for pure enjoyment, not productivity: I rediscovered my love for painting recently and realized that it’s not about being good at something but enjoying the process. We often forget that not everything has to be productive or serve a higher purpose.❤️ The struggle with perfectionism: So many of us stop doing things because we aren’t great at them. I shared how my paintings didn’t match the Pinterest images I was referencing, and it led to frustration. But here’s the thing—it’s okay! It’s about the act of creating, not the final product.❤️ Link to neurodivergence: As someone diagnosed with dyspraxia, I’ve always had challenges with sports, feeling like I didn’t fit in. I referenced my conversation with Nidhi from Episode 20, where we discussed how neurodivergent individuals often struggle with activities, but pushing through that discomfort can lead to real joy and growth.❤️ The cultural pressure for success: We live in a world that celebrates expertise, but not everything in life needs to be mastered. I encourage you to let go of the need to be great at something just to enjoy it.❤️ Letting go of the fear of failure: I spoke about gym anxiety and how I hesitated to join run clubs, thinking I’d be the worst one there. But I did it anyway and had an amazing time. Sometimes we just need to step out of our comfort zones and allow ourselves to be beginners.Actionable Steps:Make a list of hobbies you’ve always wanted to try: Whether it’s painting, dancing, or playing an instrument, jot down things you’ve always been curious about but haven’t pursued because of fear or lack of time.Set small goals: You don’t need to commit hours every day. Start with 15 minutes once a week. Just a little time to enjoy the process without the pressure to get better.Invite a friend: If trying something new on your own feels intimidating, invite a friend to join you. Doing it together can make it more fun and less anxiety-inducing.Let go of judgment: When you start a new hobby, don’t judge yourself if you’re not great at it. Remember, the point is to have fun, not to be perfect.Celebrate the process, not the product: Remind yourself that joy comes from the act of doing, not from the final result. Embrace being bad at something—it’s liberating!Let’s take this challenge together—share your hobby list with me at @empowersoundspodcast Instagram. I’d love to hear what new things you’re trying, and remember, it’s about having fun, not being perfect!Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram at @empowersounds and on TikTok at @empowersoundspodcast for more updates, behind-the-scenes content, and empowering stories. To learn more, visit: linktr.ee/empowersounds.Inquiries: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.