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Reclaiming Bossy
by Maahika Singh
If you're bossy and in pursuit of building a bold and brilliant life, career, and collection of side quests, you're in the right place. I'm Maahika, and Reclaiming Bossy is for ambitious women in their 20s navigating career, money, and identity, the messy middle nobody really posts about. Real conversations with founders, creators and leaders, plus honest solo episodes, health, wealth and happiness.Originally Empower Sounds, we are now streamed in 65+ countries with 3 international seasons, come join our global community. New episodes every Wednesday <3
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3 Years of Podcasting Knowledge in 22 Minutes, 7 Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner
Three years ago, I uploaded the first episode of Reclaiming Bossy from my bedroom with no network, no production experience and absolutely no idea what I was doing. Now, the podcast has reached listeners in 65+ countries, taken me to record seasons in Amsterdam and Madrid, introduced me to incredible founders, creators and experts, and, after three years of showing up consistently, has finally been monetised. This episode is everything I wish someone had told me when I started.If you’re thinking about starting a podcast, creating content online, building a personal brand or growing your business through storytelling, these are the seven lessons I learned through trial and error, hundreds of hours behind the microphone and making plenty of mistakes along the way. The good news? You don’t have to learn them the hard way, I am ungatekeeping everything I know.If you’d like support bringing your own story to life, that’s exactly what we do at Empower Sounds Media. We work with founders, creators and brands on storytelling, personal branding, podcast strategy and production, content creation and digital marketing, helping you build a brand people remember without having to figure it all out alone.WORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan. :https://calendly.com/maahika/mentorin...Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding...Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discover...Collaborations + enquiries: [email protected] the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA...Follow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life. : https://substack.com/@bossybehindthes...Bossy and Brown magazine https://www.bossyandbrown.comTIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro: Celebrating three years of the podcast and un-gatekeeping content creation secrets02:10 Know your audience: Designing your ideal viewer and understanding who you're talking to06:14 Provide a transformation: Making sure every video solves a problem or gives clear value07:54 Packaging matters: Why you can't treat titles and thumbnails as an afterthought10:52 Keep gear simple: Starting small and why you don't need expensive equipment right away14:14 Chase 1% improvements: Obsessing over small upgrades instead of waiting for perfection17:34 Never stop learning: Building a "learn list" and putting in the reps to grow19:25 Devotion over discipline: Having faith in your vision and centering your process around joy21:32 Outro: Reflecting on the journey and what's coming next for the podcastI hope you find this useful and will take this as your sign to start. Whether you’re creating your first video, launching a podcast, growing a business or simply trying to share your ideas with more confidence, I hope this episode reminds you that consistency beats perfection, storytelling matters and the best time to start is before you feel ready.
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This Is Your Sign to Start That Thing...
This is your sign to start the idea you’ve been letting live in your notes app or imagination for far too long. Whether it’s a business, podcast, newsletter, YouTube channel, creative project or something else, this episode is to trust your ideas and stop overthinking.In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of creating and launching the very first edition of Bossy & Brown in just one month, and sharing the mindset shifts that helped me stop overthinking and start building.When I was born 23 years ago in Mumbai, my mum was told she was “crazy” for celebrating the birth of a baby girl. Hearing that story, I knew from a young age that I wanted to create work that made celebrating women feel obvious and normal.Three years ago, I started Reclaiming Bossy from my bedroom as a university student with no network, no capital and no expertise. Just a microphone and a belief that more women deserved to have their stories heard. Since then, the podcast has grown into a community spanning 65+ countries, with seasons recorded in Amsterdam, Madrid and beyond. Bossy & Brown was born from that same mission. For South Asian Heritage Month, I put out a call for South Asian founders, creators, artists and writers. Within 48 hours, more than 300 comments and messages poured in from people across the UK, India and the global diaspora. There were simply too many incredible women to fit onto the podcast so I created the magazine as the next step.The first edition is centred around one idea: you can’t love the flower and hate the root.Inside, you’ll find conversations on entrepreneurship, AI, Ayurveda, astrology, identity, fashion, food, skincare and relationships, alongside personal essays on rebuilding your life, overcoming trauma, breaking cycles and becoming the boldest version of yourself.I hope this episode gives you the confidence to stop waiting for permission and finally launch the idea that’s been waiting for you.Timestamps00:00 Intro: Announcing the launch of the Bossy & Brown magazine00:48 Representation: Creating the media and stories I wanted to see growing up02:37 Giving momentum: Why actioning your ideas is the ultimate form of self-love03:23 The ideas garden: How to organise, collect and nurture your creative inspiration05:11 Making space: Creating the table when you don’t feel represented06:05 Authentic visibility: Why the right people can’t find you if you’re being someone else07:45 Community service: Showcasing the wisdom of South Asian experts and creators09:39 Micro grants: Giving back to South Asian founders, creators and builders10:58 Confidence through action: Why building evidence matters more than applause11:13 Three-year anniversary: How starting a podcast in my bedroom changed my life12:24 Rich aunt lore: Building a life full of stories, experiences and communityBossy and Brown magazine https://www.bossyandbrown.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life. : https://substack.com/@bossybehindthes...WORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan. :https://calendly.com/maahika/mentorin...Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding...Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discover...Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA...Follow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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If You Had a Big Sister, She Would Tell You This ...
This week is a big moment on the podcast. Reclaiming Bossy is turning three years old, and I’m turning 23.To celebrate both birthdays, I wanted to sit down and share the 22 biggest lessons I learned at 22. I don’t have a big sister, so in many ways I’ve had to learn a lot of these lessons the hard way. Through building a business, going to therapy, travelling, making mistakes, creating nearly 100 podcast episodes, and having hundreds of conversations with incredible guests, these are the ideas that have shaped who I am becoming.If you’ve listened to even one episode over the past three years, thank you. Whether you’ve been here since episode one or you only found Reclaiming Bossy last week, thank you for letting me be a small part of your journey. Here’s to the next chapter.Share this with someone who needs big sister advice today :)TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro: 22 things I learned at 22 and celebrating three years01:27 Authenticity: Finding yourself and repelling the wrong people04:13 Relationships: Trusting the right people to stay and letting the wrong ones go08:20 Failure as data: Learning from your flop moments09:35 Making space: Why everything in life requires time and capacity13:06 Don't quit, rest: Understanding the seven types of rest14:17 Healing is a journey: Going back to therapy and dropping the shame17:29 The arrival fallacy: Giving yourself permission to exist between achievements19:53 The fear of success: How to regulate yourself when big wins happen22:04 Hard work vs. alignment: Why struggle isn't the most important ingredient24:44 Visibility is currency: Creating inbound luck and opportunities26:47 Jealousy as data: Breaking the scarcity mindset and the "it girl" narrative28:18 The timeline curse: Falling in love with the dream, not the deadline31:00 Self-validation: Giving yourself permission and breaking the validation loop32:18 Confidence is built on action: Why evidence matters more than applause33:30 The 70 percent rule: Beating perfectionism and acting before you overthink35:17 You only need one yes: Depersonalizing rejection and building resilience39:41 Embarrassment is a choice: Being unapologetically yourself and backing your vision40:48 You can always start again: Reshuffling the deck to create a better lifeTHINGS MENTIONEDBossy and Brown magazine preorderhttps://www.bossyandbrown.comLearn more about Bossy and Brownhttps://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/indian-bossy-brown-girl-summer-b3015509.htmlMy Substack article about endingshttps://maahikasingh.substack.com/p/happy-endings-are-overrated-heres?r=60u9vn&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewerFail Smarterhttps://www.hachette.co.uk/titles/dougal-shaw/fail-smarter/9781805228240/My Substack article about therapyhttps://theopenletters.substack.com/p/i-failed-my-healing-journey?r=60u9vn&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewerAmsterdam season of Reclaiming Bossyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcgUd5P1H3A&list=PLwjRDHUFHp3gyg9Fp1HBSTfMn-lG2DGi6BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life. : https://substack.com/@bossybehindthes...WORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan. :https://calendly.com/maahika/mentorin...Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding...Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discover...Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA...Follow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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You Have More Free Will Than You Think: Here’s How to Use It
Today’s episode is a reminder that you are the main character of your own life.In this episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m breaking down how to “free will max”: building the money, time, boundaries, self-trust, community and energy that give you more freedom to design a life you love,We get into identifying your core values and your “why”, defining success on your own terms, setting boundaries around what you will and won’t tolerate, building financial literacy, thinking differently about your 168 hours each week, delegating, protecting yourself from burnout and breaking the cycle of constantly looking to other people for validation.If you’re feeling stuck, burnt out, directionless and want to design a more happy life, this episode is for you.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro: How to maximise your free will and personal agency00:50 The funding gap and the reality of being the first in your lineage03:28 Step 1: Identifying your core values and finding your “why”06:07 Step 2: Setting boundaries and deciding what you won’t tolerate08:33 Step 3: Designing your own version of success11:07 Money is a tool: Building financial agency and financial literacy13:52 You have 168 hours: How to spend your time and pay yourself first18:00 Delegating tasks and understanding what your time is worth19:30 The energy audit: Protecting your energy and preventing burnout22:04 Stop waiting for permission: Breaking the validation loop24:40 Why you need a community of builders around you26:17 Reclaiming “Bossy” and launching Bossy and Brown magazineWhat’s one way you’re maximising your free will right now? Comment below, I want to hear yours. Please also send this episode to someone you want to free will max with.THINGS MENTIONEDThe Bossy and Brown Magazine (info/pre-order): https://www.bossyandbrown.com168 hours book: https://lauravanderkam.com/books/168-hours/The Finance Season: https://youtu.be/u583FCbmLEY?si=dnDNySkTZxkbx0_IBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Story Behind the UK's First Desi Cocktail Brand with Danika Hossain
Danika Hossain co-founded Bhangra Blends, the UK's first South Asain inspired ready-to-drink cocktail brand, taking it from home-tested recipes to retail shelves and a £167k raise, all straight out of university.We talk about the origin story behind Bhangra Blends, building a product from kitchen experiments to commercial manufacturing, and raising funding as young South Asian female founders. Danika breaks down startup jargon most people are too embarrassed to ask about (SEIS, cap tables, FMCG), why every founder needs an advisory board, and how she's kept her friendship with her co-founder intact through the chaos of building a business. We also get into brand building, rebranding without fear of being "annoying," and choosing organic growth over chasing every opportunity. If you've ever wanted to start a business but have no idea where to begin, this episode is for you.Timestamps00:00 Intro: Meet Danika, co-founder of Bhangra Blends00:19 Introducing the UK's first Indian-inspired cocktail brand00:51 The origin story of Bhangra Blends01:55 The product development journey from home testing to retail03:24 Raising £167k and the commercial manufacturing process05:00 Breaking funding barriers as a young South Asian female founder06:45 Startup jargon busted: SEIS, Cap Tables, and FMCG10:45 Why you need an advisory board and how to build one14:05 How to maintain a friendship with your co-founder16:34 Balancing startup life and personal relationships in your 20s18:13 Business expectations vs. reality and advice to younger self21:07 Creating a vibrant brand aesthetic and community24:00 Rebranding and getting over the fear of being "annoying"26:04 Focusing on organic sales and relationship building29:08 Building resilience through the highs and lows of businessConnect with Danika/ Bhangra Blends https://bhangrablends.comhttps://www.instagram.com/bhangrablends/?hl=enhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/bhangra-blends/Send this episode to someone who you want to try Bhangra Blends with the next time you order Indian takeout :)BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Being a "Good Girl" Is a Scam , Here's Why (With Sangeeta Pillai)
Sangeeta grew up in the slums of Mumbai, fought her way out of an arranged marriage, and became the founder of Soul Sutras and the multi-award-winning Masala Podcast, the UK's biggest South Asian feminist platform. In this episode we go deep on the mother wound, generational trauma, and the specific kind of shame South Asian women are raised to carry. We talk about reclaiming the word "bossy," growing up under patriarchy in Mumbai, immigrant shame, healing her relationship with her mother, leaving India for London, and re-rooting in Kerala to find belonging. We also get into redefining South Asian culture on your own terms, the stigma around loneliness, building genuine community, the "man hater" label thrown at feminists, real male allyship, breaking scarcity mindset, and reconnecting with your body and pleasure.If you've ever felt like tired of being “good” this one is for youTIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 – Introduction: Meet Sangeeta Pillai00:00:46 – Reclaiming The Word Bossy & Speaking Up00:02:31 – Growing Up In Mumbai & Overcoming Patriarchy00:04:53 – The Societal Function Of Shame00:07:05 – Unpacking Cultural Shame As Immigrants00:09:36 – Healing The Mother Wound & Generational Trauma00:13:58 – Leaving The Motherland & Moving To London00:16:50 – Re-Rooting And Finding Belonging In Kerala00:20:22 – Redefining South Asian Culture On Your Own Terms00:24:35 – The Hidden Stigma And Shame Around Loneliness00:28:13 – Evolving Identity And Outgrowing Old Spaces00:29:29 – How To Build A Genuine And Intentional Community00:33:37 – Navigating The "Man Hater" Label As A Feminist00:37:18 – How Men Can Show Up As True Allies To Women00:39:15 – Breaking The Scarcity Mindset Among Women00:41:48 – Learning To Relax, Let Go, And Receive Abundance00:44:35 – Reconnecting With Your Body & Calming Your Nervous System00:47:25 – Expanding Your Lexicon Of Pleasure As A Woman00:50:24 – Conclusion: Where To Find Sangeeta Follow and Connect with Sangeeta:Sangeeta’s Website https://soulsutras.co.uk/about-sangeeta-pillai/Follow Sangeeta on instagram https://www.instagram.com/soulsutras/?hl=enConnect with Sangeeta on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/sangeeta-pillai-soul-sutras-398a821a?originalSubdomain=ukMasala Podcast : https://open.spotify.com/show/7eCWGNxaofWADklejsML95BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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London Supper Club Chef Reveals The Most Underrated Cuisine You Need To Try
What does it mean to reclaim your culture through food?Sohini Banerjee is a chef, food writer, and the founder of Smoke and Lime, a Bengali supper club bringing London's Desi community together one dinner at a time. This episode is part of our South Asian Heritage Month season and it is one of my favourites we have made.We talk about Bengali culture, the gentrification of South Asian food, the assimilation struggle of growing up British South Asian, and how Sohini built a freelance food business from scratch by simply refusing to shrink herself or her cooking.If you have ever been told your food smells, your culture is too much, or that STEM is the only acceptable path, this one is for you.Timestamps00:00 Intro: Welcome to Reclaiming Bossy01:04 Meet Sohini: Chef and Smoke & Lime founder02:01 Exploring the Bengali community and its nuances04:18 Unique aspects of Bengali culture and arts05:21 The story behind Smoke & Lime Supper Clubs07:03 The gentrification of South Asian food and zero waste10:38 Misconceptions and the Matcha vs. Chai debate11:56 Overcoming the assimilation struggle14:06 Growing up British South Asian18:10 Rediscovering Desi identity away from home20:07 Reclaiming brown womanhood through food23:31 How to get started hosting supper clubs25:44 Navigating privacy when hosting strangers at home29:44 How to price your supper club and know your worth32:24 The brown female tax and defending your rates35:06 Content creation advice: don't take it too seriously36:56 Letting go of opinions and being authentic38:54 Rapid fire: Bengali artists you need to know40:05 Why Desi cooking is all about the vibes41:22 Stop villainizing carbs42:17 Advice to my younger self: ditching STEM stereotypes42:46 What it means to reclaim being "bossy"43:50 Where to find Shohini and her supper clubs45:27 Final thoughts and outroGuest LinksSohini's Website: https://sohinibanerjee.com/ Smoke and Lime Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smokeandlime/ Sohini's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sohini-banerjee-smoke-and-lime-0b5a2215a Sohini's About Page: https://sohinibanerjee.com/about/ Sohini's Substack: https://sohinibanerjee.substack.com/If you enjoyed this episode and learning about Bengali culture, send it to someone who you think would love it. And if you ever get the chance to eat Sohini's food, do not think twice.BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Glow Up Guide Every Brown Girl Needs...
The only glow up guide you need if you are a young brown girl.I spent most of my childhood wishing I could glow up. Wishing I looked different, had a different name, fit differently into the world around me. This episode is the conversation I needed at 14 and nobody gave me.This is not a skincare routine. This is the brown girl glow up that starts on the inside and works its way out.If you are listening to this as a brown girl, share your journey with me. How did you learn to embrace your beauty ? What are your glow up tips ? Is 2026 the year of the Brown Girl ?TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 – Introduction: The Confession00:00:53 – Growing Up Brown In A White Town00:02:39 – The Pressure To "Glow Up" And Fit In00:03:52 – Reclaiming Your Name And Identity00:06:07 – Rejecting Eurocentric Beauty Standards00:07:01 – Doing A PhD In Yourself & Finding Your Style00:08:26 – Are You Changing For You Or Your Environment?00:10:25 – Stop Waiting To Look Perfect To Enjoy Life00:11:14 – Being A Trophy Vs. Being A Treasure00:13:38 – The Difference Between Self-Maintenance And Self-Care00:14:44 – Anchoring Your Worth Beyond Your Appearance00:15:40 – Rapid Fire Brown Girl Beauty Tips00:17:24 – Maximalism: Accessorize And Enjoy Your Beauty00:17:44 – South Asian Heritage Month & Upcoming EpisodesBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Everything You’re Too Scared To Ask Your Accountant
If you’re building a business, freelancing, starting a side hustle, or feel anxious about managing money, this episode is for you.This week on Reclaiming Bossy, I’m joined by accountant, founder and creator Emily Vass to ungatekeep the financial side of running a business and answer all the questions you are too scared to ask. This is the conversation I wish someone had sat me down and explained earlier as it would have saved me so much money, time energy and unnecessary stress.Today We talk about:● How to financially prepare before starting a business● Creating personal and business runways● Budgeting when your income changes every month● Taxes, VAT, dividends and paying yourself properly● Revenue vs profit (and why they’re not the same thing)● How to confidently price your services● Managing money anxiety as a founder● Knowing when to hire an accountant● Building a profitable business sustainably● The emotional side of money and self-worth● Why founders often underchargeTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction01:05 Meet accountant & founder Emily Vass01:28 Finance jargon explained simply02:34 Leaving corporate to start a business03:40 Creating a financial runway before quitting your job05:16 Business runways, money pots & burn rate explained06:59 Overcoming money anxiety as a founder07:38 How to budget when your income changes every month09:43 Revenue vs actual profit10:24 When should founders start paying themselves?11:40 When to hire an accountant13:24 How to organise your business finances properly14:24 Taxes every founder needs to understand15:26 Corporation tax, VAT & dividends explained17:07 Capital gains tax & long-term planning17:47 Salary vs dividends explained18:59 Pension contributions & tax efficiency21:49 Managing salary + dividends while living in London25:39 Why founders undercharge27:33 How to price your services properly29:38 Calculating your freelance day rate35:21 Money shame, confidence & founder anxiety39:42 Reclaiming the word “bossy” as a founderConnect with Emily:Instagram & TikTok: @emilyvassWebsite: nourishedaccounting.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Pitch Method I Used To Win £1,000 In 90 Seconds For My Business (Steal My Method)
On today’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m sharing the story of how I won £1,000 in 90 seconds through pitching and why learning how to pitch yourself is one of the most valuable skills you can build in your career, business and life.Whether you’re applying for jobs, building a business, growing a personal brand, trying to get clients, or simply learning how to speak about yourself with more confidence, this episode is for you.We talk about:- How to structure a strong pitch- Creating a hook that grabs attention- Understanding the problem you solve- Why knowing your audience matters- Building confidence through evidence- Communicating your value more clearly- How pitching applies to jobs, friendships, dating, content creation and businessIf you’ve ever struggled to talk about yourself, doubted whether you’re “qualified enough”, or felt scared to put yourself out there, I hope this episode reminds you that you probably know more than you think you do.Timestamps00:00 Intro: How I won £1,000 in 90 seconds00:37 Welcome to Money Month01:10 Why pitching is a life skill01:55 How my business journey started02:26 The pitch competition that changed everything02:39 Overcoming limiting beliefs before pitching03:11 How to pitch yourself clearly03:12 Start with a strong hook03:46 Identify the problem you solve04:39 Create a clear solution05:25 Example: my viral “learn to learn” video06:01 Know who you’re speaking to07:27 Test, iterate and improve your pitch08:51 Build confidence through evidence09:48 Back yourself and collect the receipts10:20 Communicating confidence clearly11:03 Know what you want and what you don’t want11:54 Why we are always pitching12:37 How pitching can create opportunities13:19 Pitch yourself in the comments13:35 Final thoughtsIf you like this episode send it to a friend who would benefit from learning about pitching :)BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Is Fundraising Like Dating? A VC Explains How To Actually Raise Money
On today’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m joined by Vanesa Pazos from Noba Capital to ungatekeep venture capital and break down what actually happens behind the scenes of raising money.If you’ve ever wondered how founders get funded, what investors are really looking for, whether you actually need VC investment, or how to confidently pitch yourself and your ideas, this episode is for you.We talk honestly about the things that often feel confusing or intimidating when it comes to fundraising and career growth, from networking and rejection to female founders, leadership, and building opportunities before you feel fully ready.We talk about: Breaking into venture capital through a “squiggly career” pathWhat investors actually look for beyond just a good idea How founders can pitch themselves and raise money more effectively Common mistakes founders make when fundraising Building genuine relationships and networking authenticallyNavigating rejection and hearing “no” Female founders and bias in business spaces Hiring, leadership, and building strong team cultures Understanding whether VC funding is actually right for your business Balancing ambition, motherhood, and personal lifeTIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 – Introduction00:03:00 – Entering VC Through A “Squiggly Career”00:05:33 – Why Investors Back Founders, Not Just Ideas00:06:50 – What Makes An “A-Player” Founder00:08:00 – How To Pitch Investors Effectively00:10:08 – Female Founders, Bias & Building Traction00:11:16 – How To Start Learning About Investing00:14:04 – The Story Behind Empower Her00:16:04 – How To Ask For Help & Build Genuine Connections00:18:18 – Why “No” From Investors Isn’t Always Final00:20:08 – Do You Actually Need VC Funding?00:22:25 – Why Fundraising Is Like Dating00:24:46 – Biggest Red Flags Investors Notice00:27:41 – Balancing Motherhood, Career & Leadership00:33:29 – Hopes For The Next Generation Of Female Founders00:36:03 – Reclaiming The Word “Bossy”Connect with Vanesa:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanesa-pazos/Noba Capital: https://www.nobacapital.comGet involved: https://www.nobacapital.com/get-involved?referrer=luma&utm_source=lumaBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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I Read 30 Books On Money, Here’s How You Can Actually Get Rich
In this episode of Reclaiming Bossy, we’re kicking off Money Month, a series all about money, career growth, entrepreneurship, investing, confidence, and trying to build financial security in your 20s.I’m sharing some of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from reading 30+ books on money, business, psychology, habits, productivity, and wealth as a 22-year-old navigating starting a business, managing my money and living in London.If you have ever avoided opening your banking app, felt behind financially compared to everyone online, or struggled with money anxiety, this episode is for you.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro00:33 Welcome to Money Month01:38 My personal money journey at university02:15 Reading 30+ finance & career books03:27 Why I hate the phrase “girl math”04:08 Money is emotional, not just logical04:24 Attachment styles & money habits05:09 Building healthier financial habits05:22 The 12 Week Year & financial goal setting06:03 Tracking spending without shame07:21 Best budgeting & money tracking apps07:58 Automating savings & investments08:44 Paying yourself first09:54 Reframing limiting beliefs around money10:52 Atomic Habits & financial growth11:07 Weekly “money homework” habits11:45 Why talking about money matters12:34 Being busy doesn’t always make you money13:03 Productivity vs actually generating income14:14 Working hard vs working strategically14:31 Focus on your core competencies15:23 Spending in alignment with your values16:50 Setting boundaries around money17:54 Courageous money conversations increase income18:44 Curating your environment & mindset19:12 Your environment shapes your income20:18 Building systems instead of relying on discipline20:50 Final thoughts on building financial confidenceSome Of The Books Mentioned In this Episode:1) The Psychology of Money2) The 12 Week Year3) Atomic Habits4) Money: A User’s Guide5) Working Hard, Hardly Working6) We Need To Talk About Money7) 168 HoursIf you want to go deeper into some of the ideas from this episode, I’ve linked a few resources for you…Here are some reflections and summaries on some of the books mentioned in this episode over on my LinkedIn there are 12 summaries on there: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maahikasingh/recent-activity/articles/For my London girls trying to navigate the cost of living crisis, career anxiety, and the reality of building a life in this city, I also loved this article: https://londonistcitykeys.substack.com/p/broke-in-london-theres-an-app-forComment what else you want to see for this finance season and send this to a friend who wants to feel more confident about money and let me know if you want reading recommendations.BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How To Build Self Trust Again After A Flop Era
This episode is for you if you are going through a “Flop Era’ In this episode of Reclaiming Bossy Madrid Season, I’m joined by Tatiana, founder of Deep Chats, for an honest conversation about self-trust, moving abroad, navigating uncertainty in your twenties, and finding your people when life doesn’t go to plan.After experiencing redundancy and navigating a season of uncertainty, Tatiana rebuilt her life in Madrid and created Deep Chats, a community focused on meaningful conversations and genuine connection.We talk about trusting yourself before you have all the answers, embracing awkwardness, creating authentic community, and why some of your most confusing seasons can actually become the beginning of something better.If you’re navigating change, feeling behind, trying to rebuild trust in yourself, or questioning whether you’re on the right path, this episode is for you.We talk about:● Building self-trust through trial and error● Moving abroad and navigating uncertainty in your twenties● Coming out of a “flop era” and sitting with difficult emotions● Learning to trust life’s timing● Finding your people and building authentic community● Journaling, affirmations and practical mental health tools● The power of silence and meaningful conversations● Breaking social scripts and asking better questions● Learning how to talk about yourself more positively● Starting something before feeling fully readyTIMESTAMPS00:00 - Introduction and welcoming Tatiana00:44 - Tatiana’s background, moving to Madrid, and starting Deep Chats01:39 - Navigating your twenties and the uncertainty of moving abroad03:49 - Tangible ways to build self-trust through trial and error05:48 - Trusting life’s timing and adopting a spiritual perspective07:45 - Filtering through the wrong crowds to find your true community09:06 - Dealing with a “flop era” and sitting with difficult feelings11:07 - Practical tools for mental health: journaling and affirmations12:32 - The power of silence and the concert story15:27 - The journey of creating Deep Chats and embracing awkward silence17:51 - Breaking the social script to have more intentional conversations20:24 - Asking better questions to learn from others21:34 - How to talk about yourself authentically and practice positive self-talk23:13 - Where to find Tatiana and Deep Chats online23:39 - Reclaiming the word “bossy” as a female business ownerConnect with Tatiana:Tati: https://www.instagram.com/tatianafyodorov/Deep Chats; https://www.instagram.com/havedeepchats/https://linktr.ee/deep.chats?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGny8RyuS295HMG5TIRMpm7DidMo87ezXmWfgSdWFPU-jmtdSMnEMl4jfTDgHQ_aem_E6yLaNHXU3-RMwrfLK7PEgBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How To Get A Self Employed Visa In Spain & Build Your Dream Creative Career
On today’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m sitting down with Nena, a fashion photographer who moved to Madrid and built her creative business from scratch while navigating the Spanish freelance visa process, finding clients through social media, and learning how to back herself in a completely new country. If you’ve ever dreamed about moving abroad, becoming self-employed, building a creative career, or starting over in a new city, this episode is for you.We talk about the realities of becoming self-employed in Spain, writing a business plan for a creative visa, building a portfolio, networking as an introvert, freelancing in the creative industry, and how to stop waiting to feel “ready” before putting yourself out there.This episode is full of practical advice for creatives, freelancers, digital nomads, and ambitious people trying to build a life that feels more aligned, independent and exciting.TIMESTAMPS00:00 - Introduction and welcoming Nena00:50 - Nena’s background and journey into fashion photography02:20 - Navigating the Spanish visa process and becoming self-employed03:51 - Advice for international expats dealing with Spanish bureaucracy05:34 - The creative community in Madrid vs other cities06:41 - Networking and making friends as an introvert abroad07:28 - Transitioning from student work to a professional portfolio08:46 - Getting your first freelance clients through social media09:34 - Overcoming the fear of embarrassment online11:10 - Writing a business plan for a creative visa13:37 - Learning business skills as a creative freelancer15:37 - Protecting your mindset and mental health as a freelancer16:34 - Dealing with imposter syndrome on big production sets18:46 - Ignoring criticism and taking small brave steps20:16 - Founding Swap Party Madrid and building community events21:31 - How to become more action-oriented with your goals22:35 - Where to find Nena online22:56 - Reclaiming the word “bossy” as a woman in business23:53 - Final reflections and episode wrap-upFollow/ connect with Nenahttps://www.instagram.com/artisticmind.n.p/https://www.threads.com/@artisticmind.n.p?xmt=AQG0raAAprmUhuEwOQ6cxrxawvB0cSCNl4Ml1V4F2BVVUxEBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How To Build A Global Remote Business And Real Life Community As A Digital Nomad
What does it really look like to build a business that gives you freedom, flexibility, and community at the same time?In this episode of the Reclaiming Bossy podcast, I’m joined by Laura Smyth, founder of Butterfly English Education and Found Her Madrid, to talk about how she built a fully remote language learning academy with a team of 20+ teachers whilst also creating an in person community for women in Madrid.We talk about the reality of scaling an online business, building systems that allow you to work remotely without burning out, and why community still matters so much in a world that is becoming increasingly digital.This is a conversation about creating a business and lifestyle that actually feels aligned, whether that means working across time zones, running events in a new city, or building a team you trust.If you are interested in entrepreneurship, remote work, online business, community building, digital nomad life, or creating more freedom in your career, this episode will give you both practical advice and a lot of reassurance.Timestamps00:00 - Introduction to the episode00:23 - Laura’s background and introducing her two businesses00:56 - The burnout that inspired her to start a language academy01:31 - First steps to starting a business and getting fully booked03:01 - Why you should hire before you’re ready03:39 - How to choose the right team and the “hire slowly, fire quickly” rule04:49 - Navigating difficult conversations and letting go of a friend05:50 - Scaling to a team of 20 using Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs)06:51 - Using AI to build out your business structures and systems07:24 - Running a remote company with zero daily meetings08:34 - Trusting your team and avoiding micromanagement09:28 - Managing a global team across multiple time zones10:17 - Time management and structuring a schedule to run two businesses10:53 - Why Laura built the “Found Her” community in Madrid11:31 - How to get people to show up to your very first event12:26 - Creating an English-speaking community in a Spanish-speaking city14:10 - Applying lessons from your first business to your second14:55 - What Laura wishes she did differently when starting out15:24 - Where to find Laura and the Found Her community online15:42 - Final advice on building a life and business you love16:09 - Reclaiming the word “bossy”16:33 - Actionable homework for starting a local community17:07 - Actionable homework for launching an online business17:36 - Conclusion and outroFollow Laura / Butterfly English / Found Her MadridLaura’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurasmyth/Laura’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura.inmadrid/Found Her Madrid: https://www.instagram.com/foundhermadrid/Butterfly English Education: https://butterflyenglisheducation.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Before You Book Your Flight to Madrid, Listen to This Episode (The Ultimate Madrid Guide)
What if Emily in Paris was actually set in Madrid and was culturally accurate?In the first episode of the Reclaiming Bossy Madrid season, I sit down with Maddy, the creator behind Maddy in Madrid, to talk about what building a real life abroad actually looks like beyond the romanticised TikToks and Netflix versions.We talk about the reality of moving to Madrid, learning Spanish as an adult, making friends when you know nobody, navigating culture shock, understanding the unspoken social rules in Spain, and creating a life that feels exciting and authentic.This episode is part Madrid city guide, part deep dive into identity, reinvention, and what happens when you stop waiting for “someday” and actually move abroad.We also get into the cafés worth working from, the rooftop bars and picnic spots locals actually go to, how to find community in Madrid, and why embracing the culture instead of recreating your old life abroad changes everything.If you’ve been dreaming about moving abroad, taking a solo trip, becoming a digital nomad, or building a slower and more intentional life overseas, this episode will either make you book the flight or finally give you the honest guide to doing it properly.TIMESTAMPS00:00 - Introduction and moving to Madrid00:50 - Maddy’s background and learning Spanish01:54 - Embracing a new culture vs. Emily in Paris03:12 - Why English speakers struggle with learning languages05:16 - Advice on making friends in a new country07:12 - Biggest culture shocks in Spain08:27 - Best coffee shops for working, dates, and relaxing11:26 - Finding Madrid’s authentic hidden gems12:41 - Cultural norms and respecting the Spanish way of life15:21 - Representing Spain online and navigating expat stereotypes17:15 - Dealing with reverse culture shock and homesickness19:07 - Advice for taking the leap and moving abroad20:03 - What people get wrong about Spain and Americans21:16 - Best bars, rooftops, and picnic spots in Madrid23:58 - Communities to join to make friends26:15 - What’s next for Maddy26:51 - Reclaiming the word “bossy”Connect with MaddyWebsite: https://maddyinmadrid.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddyinmadrid_/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddyinmadridBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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If You Still Don’t Understand Blockchain, You Need To Listen To This Conversation.
Have you ever wondered what the hell blockchain actually is and why it’s useful? If so, this episode is for you…In this episode of the Reclaiming Bossy podcast, I’m joined by Marieke De Ruyter De Wildt founder of Open food Chain, to break down how blockchain technology is transforming global food systems.With over 25 years of experience in agri-tech and having worked across more than 50 countries, Marieke is building the infrastructure for a more transparent, sustainable, and resilient food system using Web3 and blockchain. We talk about what blockchain actually means (in simple terms), why traceability in food supply chains matters, and how technology can create trust between farmers, businesses, and consumers.This is a conversation about building in complex industries, navigating global systems, and what it really looks like to be a woman in tech, agriculture, and innovation.If you are interested in entrepreneurship, sustainability, emerging tech, or building something impactful across industries and borders, this episode will completely shift how you think about both technology and the future of food.We also explore the challenges of scaling blockchain in real-world industries, working across cultures, and why the next generation of founders needs to understand both storytelling and systems.Timestamps00:00:00 - introduction00:01:32 - explaining blockchain and food traceability jargon00:03:22 - the reality of food safety and immutable data00:04:20 - supply chain transparency and new regulations00:05:11 - why not all data is good data00:06:32 - balancing data transparency with privacy00:08:15 - overcoming the intimidation of tech as a founder00:09:40 - finding tech communities and the power of meetups00:10:47 - leaving your bubble to hire the right people00:12:17 - the difference between a corporate job and entrepreneurship00:13:35 - busting the romanticized myth of startup culture00:15:05 - building confidence and finding mentors00:17:10 - timeboxing to balance founder life and personal life00:19:05 - making fun a core part of business culture00:19:40 - how living in 50 countries shifts your perspective00:21:22 - the future of tech, AI, and food regulations00:23:40 - the truth about fair trade and premium food certificates00:25:31 - simple diet advice for overwhelmed consumers00:26:03 - where to connect with marike online00:26:27 - reclaiming the word bossy and taking up space00:27:39 - homework for leaving your comfort zone00:28:44 - summary and final thoughtsFollow Marieke / Open Food Chainhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/marieke-de-ruyter-de-wildt/https://www.openfoodchain.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How to Shoot Your Shot and Actually Get a Yes (The Exact Strategy I Used to Build a Global Podcast)
In this episode of Reclaiming Bossy, we’re breaking down the art of shooting your shot and how to reach out, build genuine connections, and get people to actually say yes to you.This episode is part of the Amsterdam season, where I take you behind the scenes of how I created an international podcast series from scratch. No huge budget, no established network in the city, no perfect plan, just an idea, a vision, and the willingness to go for it.We’re talking about how I reached out to founders in Amsterdam, built relationships from nothing, and turned that into a full podcast season, but more importantly the mindset and strategy behind creating your own opportunities.If you’re trying to grow your network, build something meaningful, or stop waiting and start doing, this episode will give you both the confidence and the tools to start.Timestamps00:00:00 - introduction00:01:06 - the fear of asking and getting rejected00:01:49 - reaching out to amsterdam founders00:03:55 - advice for cold outreach online00:04:45 - humanizing your approach00:05:37 - bringing value and joy to collaborations00:06:58 - the importance of knowing what you want00:07:40 - doing a weekly energy audit00:08:45 - making vision board bingo grids00:10:06 - rewiring limiting beliefs00:11:08 - creating an opportunity radar00:12:49 - homework for the episode00:13:17 - reframing rejection as data00:14:50 - summary and final adviceKey takeawaysYou don’t need permission to create opportunities.People are more open than you think if you approach them right.Rejection is data, not a reflection of your worthHumanise your approachIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with someone who needs to shoot their shot this week.BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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What Is Jamu? How a 1,300-Year-Old Wellness Practice Became a Global Brand
What is Jamu? How do you turn a 1,300-year-old wellness practice into a global brand?In this episode of the Reclaiming Bossy podcast, I’m joined by Anna Uspessij, founder of Good Jamu, to break down how she built a wellness business rooted in culture, identity, and authenticity.We talk about how Anna transformed a traditional Indonesian healing ritual into a fast-growing European brand, without diluting its meaning for Western markets. This is a conversation about building something real in a world full of trends.If you are interested in wellness, entrepreneurship, personal branding, or how to build a brand from scratch, this episode will give you both the mindset and the strategy to start.We also explore the difference between ritual and routine, cultural appreciation vs appropriation, and what it actually takes to scale a business while staying aligned with your values.Timestamps00:00:25 - introduction00:00:40 - introducing anna and good jamu00:01:17 - what is jamu00:02:23 - the meaning and history of jamu00:03:37 - jamu as a community ritual00:05:01 - the inspiration behind goed jammel00:06:34 - advice on starting a business00:08:55 - cultivating resilience as a founder00:10:53 - finding founder communities00:12:03 - introducing cultural heritage to a new market00:15:37 - storytelling and explaining a new product00:17:16 - building confidence as an entrepreneur00:19:47 - designing a business around your values00:22:25 - deciding on flavors and scaling00:26:01 - international expansion00:27:47 - marketing and building a community00:29:15 - what's next for good jamu00:30:03 - final advice for entrepreneursFollow Anna/ good jamGood Jamu: goodjamuhttps://goodjamu.com/en?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnJigniDe_KzLA_EAtdphd-oT5q8Y45hW-mxGd6UrQJDFwfgWisszV0O0HzOM_aem_xvW_llJqZf_fYDAlMH1TGABUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How I Created an International Podcast Season With No Money, No Network & No Sponsors
In this episode of the Reclaiming Bossy podcast, I share how I created an international podcast season in Amsterdam from scratch, without funding, connections, or a clear plan. This is a behind the scenes look at what it really takes to turn an idea into something real, and why overthinking is often the only thing holding you back.This episode is for anyone who has been putting off a passion project, waiting until the timing feels right, or believing they need more resources before they start. If you have an idea that will not leave you alone, this is your sign to take action.We also explore the concept of “just doing things,” and how shifting from overthinking to action can completely change your trajectory. I share practical ways to break out of perfectionism, build momentum, and start creating before you feel ready.In this episode, we cover how to start a podcast with no money, how to build something internationally without a network, and how to take action even when you feel unprepared. If you are interested in podcast growth, personal branding, entrepreneurship, or building something from scratch, this episode will give you both the mindset and the strategy to begin.This Amsterdam season features conversations with some of the most exciting female founders and creatives across the city so stay tuned and subscribe.Timestamps00:03:45 - my mission00:05:30 - why are we here?00:08:30 - producer reveal00:12:55 - getting creative00:16:00 - getting going and getting goodThings MentionedErifili: one of the bossy gals and previous podcast guests, here is her episode: https://youtu.be/Nu2L24RkXQQ?si=MiL2favl4ljiqKoRHer essay “literally Just Do Things” :https://erifili.substack.com/p/literally-just-do-thingsThe Musician who made this podcast’s music : @elizabethgounariMy Lovely Co producer for this season: @plamenkalinikovBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Post Uni Hangover Cure for Anyone Who Feels Lost in Their Twenties
Feeling lost after university? Yes me too, you are not alone…In this episode, we’re talking about the post uni hangover, that weird, deflating, confusing period after finishing university where you have no idea what is next for you. If you’re navigating uncertainty, comparing yourself to everyone around you, or questioning what’s next, this episode is for you.I share my own experience of finishing uni, feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, and unsure of my path, and how I moved through it to start building my life and career.This is your reminder that you’re not behind, you’re just getting started :) Timestamps 00:02:30 - feeling deflated00:05:30 - comparison is the thief of joy00:09:00 - burn-out00:10:30 - life audit00:14:00 - year recapWhat we cover:• Why you might feel deflated after finishing university• Comparison and the pressure of everyone else’s timelines• Burnout after years of constant output• How to do a simple life audit to reset your direction• Reflecting on your year and what you actually want next• Why your career doesn’t have to be linear (kaleidoscope careers)• Small, practical ways to move forward without spirallingThings mentioned in the episode:Recommendations of a cool kaleiscope careers:The assistant director to Netflix’s top boy, also a writer and actor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jP_TpZEeSTwThink day :https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gO0bvT_smdMErifili’s book and episode to design your life and career: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nu2L24RkXQQBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Are Women Actually Funny? The Truth No One Talks About With Lynne Parker
How do you build confidence, find your voice, and stop shrinking yourself in rooms you’re meant to lead?In this episode of The Reclaiming Bossy Podcast, we’re talking about confidence, self expression, women in comedy, and overcoming self-doubt with Lynne Parker, founder of Funny Women.If you’ve ever struggled with imposter syndrome, fear of judgement, or felt like you were “too much” or “not enough,” this episode will change how you see your voice, your humour, and your power.Lynne Parker is the founder of Funny Women, a platform that supports and empowers women in comedy through workshops, competitions, and community. She has helped thousands of women build confidence, step into visibility, and take up space unapologetically.In this conversation, we explore how comedy can be a tool for confidence, communication, and identity, and why humour is one of the most underrated skills for personal and professional growth.timestamps 00:01:00 - what is Funny Women?00:07:00 - what does it mean to be funny?00:08:30 - why did you start00:22:00 - which venues are doing a good job00:31:00 - how do you build a portfolio?00:34:30 - what if you don’t like social media?00:45:00 - how do you show up for yourself?00:54:00 - being shamed for being loudConnect with LynneLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lynneparker/Funny Women: https://funnywomen.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Only Way You Will Ever Stop Caring What Others Think About You...
In this episode, we’re talking about how to actually stop caring what people think about you…I always hear people say they want to stop caring what others think. But I’ve started to realise that a more helpful way to think about it is this: stop seeking validation and permission.Wanting acceptance isn’t a bad thing. We are wired for connection and belonging. The problem is when other people’s opinions become the biggest stakeholder in your life and start shaping your decisions more than your own values and desires.In this episode, I share some of my own experiences with validation and permission across different areas of life, including health, relationships, and work. From struggling with body image and external validation growing up, to navigating dating and rejection, to building a career and learning to trust my own ideas instead of constantly asking for approval.We talk about why rejection is often about alignment rather than worth, how to self validate instead of constantly looking outward, and why living your life based on your own joy and values is the real goal.If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting for the right time, the right validation, or someone else’s permission to move forward, this episode is for you.Your homework this week is to ask yourself where in my life am I still seeking permission and asking for validation & how can I start to self permit and validate a bit more ?Timestamps 00:02:30 - asking for permission00:04:30 - permission in health and beauty00:11:30 - permission in relationships00:16:00 - validation00:18:00 - career00:22:00 - rewiring limiting beliefsBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Why Your Business Isn’t Making Money (And the Strategy That You Need Instead)
What does good strategy actually look like, and why do so many businesses get it wrong?In this episode, we’re talking about business strategy and why it is often the difference between growth and stagnation. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the idea of strategy, or wondered how founders and companies actually make clear decisions about where they are going, this conversation is for you.I’m joined by Sam Cooper Gray, the founder and Chief Owl of The Wisdom Studio, a strategy consultancy that helps scaling SMEs and global organisations design practical strategies that actually get implemented. She is also the founder of the national campaign Women Are Good Business, which reframes women not as a diversity initiative but as one of the biggest economic opportunities of our time.She is the Chair of The Gender Index and sits on the board of the Invest in Women Taskforce, where she works to increase funding and opportunities for female founders.In this conversation we talk about the investment gap facing female founders, why more women starting businesses could transform the economy, and the role strategy plays in building sustainable, profitable companies. We also get practical about cashflow, delegation, attracting female clients, and the mindset shifts that happen when you move from being an employee to running a business.This episode is for anyone who wants to better understand strategy, build a stronger business, or rethink how women are valued in the economy.Timestamps00:01:00 Why is there an investment gap?00:04:00 What about if you don’t think business is for you?00:10:00 Being an employee vs being a CEO00:12:00 Attracting female clients00:19:00 Strategy and why it matters00:23:00 Troubleshooting your strategy00:29:00 Talking about money00:35:00 Cashflow00:38:00 The skillset of a female founder00:41:00 Delegating00:47:00 A Beginner’s Guide to Being a Grown UpConnect with SamLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samcoopergray/The Wisdom Studio: https://www.thewisdomstudio.co.ukWomen Are Good Business: https://www.womenaregoodbusiness.comPodcast: A Beginner’s Guide to Being a Grown Up – https://www.youtube.com/@ABeginnersGuidetoBeingaGrownUpThe Gender Index: https://www.thegenderindex.co.ukBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Are you overthinking? Try These 10 Antidotes to feel better …
If you are an Olympic over-thinker, this episode is for you. Give me 19 minutes and I will help you overthink less.These are 10 antidotes that have helped me as someone whose brain can spiral, analyse, catastrophise, and create five parallel universes before breakfast. In this episode, I share the exact exercises I come back to when I am spiralling, procrastinating, doubting myself, replaying conversations, or creating worst-case scenarios that have not even happened.In this episode, I talk about: The worst case vs best case scenario exercise (and why setting a literal timer changes everything)The limiting belief reframe that exposes the story under the spiralWhy your environment is a cue for your thoughts and how to interrupt the patternSomatic regulation tools like EFT tapping, breathwork and movementWhy doing the one thing you are procrastinating on calms your nervous system instantlyvoice-noting or journalling before sharing with others (yes, I have a 57 minute voice note on my phone)Why getting out of your head and into your body is non-negotiableHow to build a “portfolio of proof” when imposter syndrome hitsWhy almost no decision is irreversibleThe 51 percent rule for making aligned decisions without perfect certaintyTimestamps:00:02:00 - 1: entertain your overthinking00:03:00 - radical optimism 00:05:00 - 2: reframing limiting beliefs 00:06:00 - 3: write things down00:07:00 - 4: the 51% rule00:07:30 - 5: no decision is irreversible 00:08:30 - 6: collect data on yourself 00:09:20 - 7: don’t rush00:10:40 - 8: leave your environment00:12:10 - 9: anxiety is physiological 00:13:30 - 10: create a procrastination list00:18:30 - 11: acting is not completingBreathwork episode mentioned : https://youtu.be/RHavhtLMC7c?si=RQwvrxKNprYSKFrvIf this helped you even a little bit, send it to a friend who lives in her head too.BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Every Woman Should Know This About Sex by 25
On this week’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, we’re joined by sex and relationship therapist Chantal to answer the questions our community is sent in by our listeners. The awkward ones. The quiet ones. The ones you might not say out loud.We talk about sex, shame, confidence, solo pleasure, porn, hookup culture, desire changes, communication, condoms, consent and everything in between. This is honest, grounded and judgement free. If you’ve ever felt confused, behind, insecure or just curious about your sex life, this episode is for you.WHAT WE COVER• What sex and sexology actually mean• Solo sex and self connection• Shame around desire• Body confidence and performance anxiety• Orgasm and desire difficulties• Porn and media expectations• Dating in your twenties• Communication and consent• Condoms, contraception and sexual safety• Rapid fire most Googled sex questionsTIMESTAMPS00:01:00 - what is sexology?00:02:00 - how did you get into it?00:05:00 - what do you wish everyone knew?00:06:00 - solo sex00:09:00 - reclaiming our pleasure00:12:00 - the backpack00:13:00 - the secrecy 00:18:30 - the wheel of consent 00:22:00 - what is chemistry?00:27:00 - comparison and social media00:31:00 - myth busting00:36:00 - gadgets 00:47:00 - condoms00:50:00 - stealthing00:56:00 - rapid fire questionsCHANTAL’S LINKSThings mentioned:https://thepelvicpeople.com/collections/all-products/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-ringshttps://calexotics.com/inspire-silicone-dilator-kit-5-piece-set/https://uberlube.com/collections/our-productshttps://www.wheelofconsent.org/aboutChantal’s Website: https://chantalgautiertherapy.com BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Work-Life Balance Is a Myth, Try This Instead…
What if I told you that you can actually have it all at once, just not in the way we have been taught to think about work life balance? If you constantly feel behind, overwhelmed, or like you are failing at having it all, this episode is for you. In 2026, in our hyper connected world, the traditional idea of work life balance feels like a constant tug of war. We have been sold this image of perfect equilibrium. But life does not work like that.In this episode, I unpack why chasing work life balance might actually be the thing keeping you stuck and burned out. I talk about a different way of thinking about time, energy, and focus that feels far more sustainable. Instead of trying to balance everything at once, we talk about flow. About seasons. About designing your life around your actual energy rather than an unrealistic standard.Inside this episode, I talk about Why work life balance is outdatedHow to do a life audit and see what is actually draining youWhy life works in seasons and how to stop fighting thatHow to do an energy audit using the theatre theory for relationshipsHow to spot a calendar mismatch that is quietly exhausting youTimestamps 00:01:20 - do a life audit 00:02:30 - life works in seasons00:08:30 - do an energy audit and the theatre theory00:11:40 - calendar mismatchI hope this resonates and that you are kinder to yourself after this. If you have any questions or stories you want to share, reach out to me on socials :)BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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A Bossy Girl’s Guide to Overwhelm: 9 Easy Antidotes to Feel Instantly Better.
This episode is a bossy girl’s guide to overwhelm…I get overwhelmed really easily as a neurodivergent founder juggling a business, a podcast, admin, friendships, life and about a million open tabs in my brain. This episode is for anyone who gets overwhelmed easily, is juggling a lot, feels mentally overloaded, struggles with perfectionism, or just wants some simple ways to feel better without fixing their whole life.Links mentioned:AI Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-V2Bz67k50London Coffee shop Recs : https://www.empowersoundsmedia.com/product-page/the-cafe-nomad-databaseTimestamps For This Episode00:01:30 - 1: prioritise00:04:00 - 2: admin hour00:05:00 - AI to help with overwhelm00:07:00 - 3: energy accounting00:08:00 - 4: make a second brain00:11:15 - 5: regulate your nervous system00:15:44 - 6: morning pages00:17:00 - 7: reframing exercise00:21:00 - 8: body doublingI hope these help, comment down your favourite ones below and let me know what your antidotes to overwhelm are. If you have any questions or stories you want to share, reach out to me on socials :)BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Anti Hustle Business Model More Women Need to Know About
What if success didn’t mean burnout?In this episode, we’re talking about building a business that works for you, not against you. If you’ve ever felt resistance to hustle culture, rigid 9–5 structures, or the idea that growth has to come at the expense of your wellbeing, this conversation is for you.Sam shares her journey of creating a home-based domestic cleaning business designed around flexibility, and how that business later evolved into a franchising model that allows other women to build sustainable, values-led businesses in their own way.We talk honestly about courage, limiting beliefs, emotional regulation as a founder, self-validation, and what it really looks like to design work around your life (especially as a mum), rather than forcing your life to fit your work.This episode is especially for anyone who wants to create a business that feels aligned, calm, and supportive without buying into hustle culture.Timestamps00:01:00 – The backstory: how the business began and why flexibility mattered from day one00:06:00 – How did you find the courage to do it your own way?00:12:30 – Limiting beliefs that show up as you grow00:15:00 – How to regulate your emotions and stay sane as a founder00:19:30 – Learning to self-validate instead of seeking external approval00:28:00 – Being a founder mum00:31:00 – Work-life balance (what it actually looks like)00:37:00 – Franchising: a different way to grow00:53:00 – What I wish I knew before getting into franchisingConnect with SamLinkedin : https://www.linkedin.com/in/sam-acton/Domestic Angels: https://domestic-angels.comBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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A Bossy Girl’s Guide to Breakups : How To Get Your Spark Back ...
This episode is for anyone going through a breakup who feels like they don’t have a big sister to sit them down and tell them it’s going to be okay.I don’t have a sister myself, but I’m incredibly lucky to have the most supportive friends and community of bossy gals around me. A lot of the things I share in this episode are things I learned through those conversations, through experience, and through sitting with the discomfort instead of running from it. I wanted to share this episode for anyone else who is going through heartbreak feeling overwhelmed, ashamed, or alone.In this solo episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m sharing my first-ever breakup, Before I talk about how I’m working through the breakup now, I walk through the things that really helped me go into the difficult conversation with more regulation, clarity, and compassion. This isn’t about blame or revenge bodies or glow-ups, or “bouncing back.” But on how to trust that everything will work out.If you’re heartbroken, trying to hold it together, or quietly grieving the future you imagined, this episode is for you. You don’t have to do this alone. You can do it with me.If you have a friend going through it right now send this episode to them as a digital hug.Timestamps:00:01:30 - shame00:02:30 - how to get into it00:03:00 - emotionally regulate yourself00:05:00 - boundaries00:06:30 - it’s okay to feel grief09:30:00 - gratitude is important00:10:30 - you can’t fail if don’t try00:14:00 - forgive yourself00:16:30 - let yourself lean on your friends00:20:00 - be a better friend and person yourself00:23:00 - there’s no point winning a break up00:28:00 - harvest season is comingIf you have any questions or stories you want to share reach out to me on socials :)BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Pitch Competition Strategy: How Hanan Tantush Built a Brand Through Grant Funding
In this episode we are joined by Hanan Tantush, award winning founder of Intotum, an adaptive fashion brand dedicated to creating clothing that works with disability. Hanan started Intotum after seeing her grandfather struggle to find clothes that worked around his disability and stoma bag. What began as a personal insight turned into a pioneering inclusive fashion business recognised on Drapers 30 Under 30, featured at London Fashion Week, and awarded major startup prizes.This conversation is for founders, creatives, designers, and anyone with an idea but no blueprint. Hanan shares exactly how she built something that did not exist, including how she approached market validation, pitching, and building with grant fundingYou’ll learn how to:• identify and validate a problem that others haven’t solved• frame and pitch your idea to win grant funding at multiple stages• fund your business through competitions and grants • design with and for the community you serve• overcome self doubt and build credibility without a pre existing marketThis episode combines strategic insight and lived experience to help you think differently about creating and funding your first product or startup.Time stamps:00:01:00 - what’s adaptive clothing00:05:00 - learn by talking to people00:06:30 - the jump from designer to founder00:10:30 - how to tackle the founder blues00:12:30 - the arrival falacy 00:19:30 - pitching00:27:00 - criticism 00:30:00 - fashion week00:37:00 - finances00:41:00 - refining your delusionBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Why You Should Add Breath Work To Your 2026 Reset ...
If you add one thing to your 2026 reset, let it be breathwork.In this powerful and grounding episode, I’m joined by Lucy a breathwork and mindset coach who works with executives, leaders, and global companies to help them regulate their nervous systems, shift deeply ingrained patterns, and lead from a more embodied place.Lucy specialises in conscious connected breathwork, but in this conversation we go far beyond just one technique. We explore how different styles of breathing impact the mind, body, and nervous system, how breathwork connects to different centres in the body, and why real, lasting change isn’t just something you think your way into, it’s something you embody.This is a conversation about why breathwork is having such a moment, how breath can shift your mindset faster than thought alone, the link between breath, emotional regulation, and leadership, and why embodiment is missing from so many “mindset” conversations.This episode was something I personally needed as I build my 2026 reset, and breathwork is now a non negotiable practice I’m bringing into my year.If you’ve been doing the mindset work but still feel stuck, dysregulated, or disconnected from your body, this episode will change how you think about change itself.Connect with LucyInstagram: @lucyscarlettcoacheshttps://beacons.ai/lucyscarlettcoachesBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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2025 Wrapped: 12 Lessons You Might Need to Hear before 2026…
Inspired by Spotify wrapped, this is my 2025 wrapped. Instead of stats or numbers, I’m sharing the 12 biggest lessons I learned this year, one from each month.2025 was a full year. I launched my company, grew and evolved this podcast, brought it into video, built a team, graduated university top of my class, ran a half marathon, travelled across different countries, and got into my first relationship. A lot changed, quickly. But more than the milestones, this year taught me things I couldn’t have learned any other way. About starting before you feel ready. About choosing yourself. About rejection, self talk, receiving, failure, and taking space when you need it.I wanted to share these lessons not as advice, but as reflections I wish I’d heard earlier and that I think might be useful wherever you are right now. Whether you’re building something, navigating change, or figuring yourself out as you go, I hope this episode gives you clarity, perspective, or simply the reminder that you’re not behind.If this episode resonated, I’d love to know, What was one lesson 2025 taught you? Comment below and let me know :) Lastly a massive thank you for being part of my 2025, I cant wait for 2026, let me know what else you want to see/hear on the pod! Timestamps00:03:19 January You have to get going and then you get good00:04:30 February There’s a difference between I love you and I choose you00:08:49 March You get to choose who you are00:14:10 April There’s no one grading your work00:16:49 May Rejection is redirection00:23:12 June For life to surprise you, you have to make space00:27:02 July Personas Vitiminas00:28:25 August Learn how to receive00:31:13 September Leave your environment and reflect00:31:20 Dean’s List episode mentioned00:36:00 October The way you talk to yourself is so important00:39:00 November Depersonalising failure00:42:00 December Congratulate yourselfBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Truth About Becoming a Lawyer: Ungatekeeping the Solicitor Route
🎧 An Important note before you listenWe’re really sorry about the sound quality on this episode. We experienced a few technical issues during recording but the conversation itself was so valuable and informative that we decided to continue and share it anyway. Thank you for bearing with us me and the production team are working in a new studio for the next season so stay tuned… But welcome to todays chat: If you’ve ever wondered how to become a lawyer, what a training contract actually involves, or how to figure out what kind of lawyer you want to be, this episode is for you.In this episode of the Reclaiming Bossy podcast, I sit down with Suman Khurana, a qualified solicitor, to break down the real, practical steps to becoming a lawyer in the UK. We talk through the solicitor route in detail, including training contracts, rotations, and what happens after qualification, as well as Suman’s personal journey into law.This conversation is especially helpful for students, graduates, career switchers, and anyone considering a future in law who wants clarity beyond what universities or job descriptions usually tell you.In this episode, we cover:• How Suman became a lawyer and her journey into law• The different pathways to becoming a solicitor• What training contracts are really like and how they work• How rotations help you decide what type of lawyer you want to be• The arrival fallacy and why qualifying isn’t the final destination• How to find and secure a job after your training contract• Honest advice for navigating the legal profession early onTimestamps00:01:00 - How did I become a lawyer00:09:00 - The path to becoming a lawyer00:19:10 - Training contracts00:33:02 - Arrival fallacy00:35:00 - Finding a jobConnect with SumanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suman-khurana-402618149/BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Why Your Vision Board Isn’t Working, Here’s What to Do Instead…
If you’ve ever made a vision board, this episode is for you.And if you’ve never made one, it’s definitely for you…I’ve been making vision boards for over 12 years, and they remain one of the most powerful tools I use to ground my goals, visualise my future, and stay aligned with what I’m building.In this episode, I share how vision boards really work, why I create them every quarter, and how to use them as a creative, expansive practice rather than something stressful or rigid. I’ve helped friends, family, and founders create vision boards over the years, and I truly believe this is a tool everyone in this community can benefit from.Whether you’ve never made a vision board before or you’ve been doing them for years, this episode will give you new perspectives, practical tips, and permission to make the process more fun.If you’ve ever put something on a vision board and felt disappointed when it didn’t happen, we talk about that too. Sometimes the magic is in the scenic route.And yes, we talk about vision board bingo.I’m hosting a vision board bingo event today, so stay tuned for videos from that. If you make a vision board after listening, send it to me on Instagram. I really want to see them, especially if you do the bingo.Timestamps00:34 What vision boards are and why they matter01:29 How vision boards actually work03:56 How to start and why digital vision boards can be better04:40 Why I make seasonal vision boards every quarter08:30 Why gratitude is essential to manifestation10:30 When things on your vision board don’t happen11:50 The scenic route to your goals13:13 A real manifestation success story20:20 Why fun is part of the process21:50 Vision board bingo22:55 The vision mission strategy outlook24:20 Why vision boards can be life changingBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How Ina Raised $2.7 Million to Solve a Problem Women Face Daily...
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of harassment, physical assault, and violence in public spaces, including a personal account of an attack that led to the founding of eNOugh. While the conversation ultimately centres on empowerment, innovation, and reclaiming safety, please prioritise your wellbeing while listening.If you are not in the emotional space for this topic today, here are two alternative episodes you may prefer:Alternative Episodes:How to Use AI to Transform Your Life, Career & Glow Up With AI Founder Ideja Bajrahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-V2Bz67k50A Generalist’s Guide to Starting and Scaling Multiple Businesseshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HZCS7evfcMIf you are ready for this episode however, lets dive in:What does it take to build a tech startup that solves one of the world’s most urgent problems: safety? In this powerful and deeply relevant episode, I sit down with Ina Jovicic, CEO and co-founder of eNOugh, the London based startup building the world’s first AI safety badge, a wearable “mini AI bodyguard” designed to detect and deter threats in real time.After surviving a violent street attack in central London, Ina turned her experience into a mission: use AI and hardware innovation to make cities safer for millions of people.In this episode, we explore:• How to fall in love with the problem, not the idea• The reality of early stage startup life beyond the glamorisation• How to filter noise and evaluate advice• What makes a strong co founder relationship• Building a high trust team around a mission that matters• How eNOugh raised $2.7M for an AI/hardware product• Founders’ mindset: how to stay sharp, decisive, and mission-driven• Why safety tech is overdue for innovation• How the eNO badge could redefine safety for millions of people worldwideThis episode is for anyone building something meaningful, navigating the startup world, or searching for the courage to turn a difficult experience into long term impact.Timestamps00:01:04 – eNOugh’s backstory00:04:00 – The problem you’re in love with00:08:30 – Where do you begin with a hardware AI startup00:11:00 – How to separate useful vs. irrelevant advice00:15:00 – The founder space being glamorised00:21:00 – The team and finding co-founders00:30:00 – Keeping a good relationship with co-founders00:38:00 – Fundraising 101Connect with Ina and eNOughWebsite: https://www.enobadge.com/homeeNO Badge Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enough.badge/Ina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ina-jovicic/Ina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ina_founder/BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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How to Use AI to Transform Your Life, Career & Glow Up With AI Founder Ideja Bajra
If you have ever felt intimidated by AI or unsure where to start, this episode is for you. We talk about how AI can be your personal assistant, study partner, content strategist, and life optimisation tool. In this episode, I sit down with Ideja Bajra founder of Edvance Ai, to break down how you can use AI to make your life easier, smarter and more efficient.We cover everything from how to prompt properly, to using AI for learning languages, to ethical questions, to how AI can help you build confidence as a founder. If you are in your 20s building your life, career, brand or confidence, this episode is your practical guide.Timestamps00:02:00 - ideas AI origin story00:06:30 - alternative platforms to use ai00:08:30 - how to prompt better00:10:00 - ChatGPT modes and how to best use it00:12:00 - how to use ai to learn languages00:15:00 - unconventional ai uses (scottish reel dancing)00:17:00 - is AI making people dumber?00:23:00 - is AI use ethical00:29:00 - creating content with AI and how to make it work for you00:32:30 - imposter syndrome / journaling00:37:30 - being bossy and being a founderThe Prompt Ideja Uses to Get Shopping DiscountsCopy and paste this prompt at checkout to scan for real, currently active discount codes:“Act as a real-time discount scanner.Assume I am at the checkout page on [Reformation] RIGHT NOW (today’s exact date) and want to know if any currently active, verified promo codes or discount opportunities exist specifically for [Reformation] orders.Your task:1) Search the web as of today for:Active promo codesFirst-order discountsNewsletter sign up codesStudent or young-person codes (UNiDAYS, StudentBeans)Referral codesSeasonal sale codesCredit card or bank offers (Amex, Revolut, etc)Browser-verified codes (Honey, Capital One Shopping, Rakuten)UK-specific or EU-specific offers if relevant2) Only include codes that are confirmed to work now. No expired codes or coupon-farm fakes.If you find codes, list:The exact codeThe percentage or amount offSource of verificationAny conditions such as minimum spend, new customer only, exclusions”Things Mentioned by IdejaLovable: https://lovable.devAI BooksRaising AI: De KaiCode Dependent: Madhumita MurgiaCo-Intelligence: Ethan MollickAtlas of AI: Kate CrawfordPeople to Follow on LinkedInAllie K MillerEthan MollickAI NewslettersThe Rundown: https://www.therundown.ai/Superhuman: https://www.superhuman.ai/The Neuron: https://www.theneurondaily.com/AI ToolsChatGPT: https://chatgpt.com/Perplexity: https://www.perplexity.ai/Claude: https://claude.ai/newLovable: https://lovable.dev/Connect with IdejaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/idejabajra/Instagram : idejabajraTikTok: ideja!BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Easiest Way to Learn Any Language: How I Taught Myself Spanish From 0 to Fluent…
What if I told you that learning languages is actually really easy, you just need to find a method that works for you not the one the school system forced on everyone?Most of us grew up believing that learning a language is hard because school taught it in the most unnatural way possible: memorising endless vocab lists, doing grammar drills, and never actually using the language in real life. But that’s not how humans learn languages at all.In this episode, I break down the simple, natural system I used to go from zero Spanish → B1 completely self-taught, and then B1 → C1 fluent when I lived in Spain. No tutors. No expensive courses. No pressure.This is what worked for me with Spanish but I´m sure it applies for other languages too, and I want to try it next with Portuguese If you haven’t yet, listen to my “Learning to Learn” episode, it will make this whole process even easier and is mentioned as part of this language learning method: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_SEwAn1SUgTimestamps 00:01:39 - Why do you want to do it?00:02:35 - What type of learner are you? 00:04:30 - Link to Learning to Learn episode00:04:35 - Create your world in this language00:06:30 - Vocabulary is Russian Doll - Circle #100:07:30 - Circle #2 - what do I like talking about?00:12:30 - Spanish Resources00:13:00 - The formula of Consistency00:15:50 - Balance input and output00:17:30 - Taking it a step furtherBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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A Generalist´s Guide to Starting and Scaling Multiple Businesses...
In today’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I sit down with Danielle Le Seur, a founding member of Nineten58 and one of the most dynamic generalist builders in the London tech ecosystem.Dani’s journey is full of grit, curiosity, and reinvention, from running a chicken business in South Africa as a kid to now helping ambitious partners turn high-leverage ideas into world-class software.At Nineten58, Dani co-builds across everything from AI infrastructure and realtime systems to agentic workflows, payments & fintech, and scalable platforms, but today’s conversation goes way beyond the technical.This episode is really about how generalists build:how you learn fast, how you make mistakes without collapsing, how you balance relationships, how you handle comparison and founder loneliness, and how you reclaim that inner bossy energy while building a life you’re proud of.If you’re a multi-hyphenate creative, an early-stage founder, or simply someone trying to make sense of your ambition Dani’s story will resonate deeply.⏱️ Timestamps00:02:27 – Jargon00:05:20 – Dani’s background00:08:30 – On being a generalist00:12:00 – Learning to learn & making mistakes00:17:00 – Making time for relationships00:20:00 – Comparison00:23:00 – Founder loneliness & the emotional side00:25:00 – Feeling bossy00:30:00 – Being serious vs playful00:43:00 – Relaxation & boredom🔗 Connect with DaniLinkedIn: Danielle Le SeurBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Things I Do To Fill Up My Cup: My Antidotes For Seasonal Depression...
If you’ve been feeling drained, uninspired, or like life has been on autopilot lately, this one’s for you.In this episode, we talk about what it really means to put your own oxygen mask on first, reconnect with yourself, and find ways to fill up your own cupWe dive into practical tools and mindset shifts to help you fill your cup again and prevent burnout, especially as the days get darker and colder. 9 Ways to Fill Your Cup Again1.Identify your cup drainersDo an energy audit. Notice what activities, habits, or relationships leave you feeling empty. Awareness is the first step to change.2. Morning pagesWrite it all out. Morning pages help clear mental chaos and reveal the thought patterns that keep looping so you can rewrite your script.3. Creative restRest isn’t just naps or Netflix. There are seven types of rest, and creative rest is one of the most powerful. Sing, dance, paint, move. Create for the joy of it, not the outcome.4. Get out of your head and into your bodyMovement shifts energy. Whether it’s walking, dancing, or trying new forms of exercise, move because it feels good not as punishment.5. Solo adventuresReconnect with independence. Spend intentional time alone. Explore new places, take yourself on dates, and rediscover your curiosity.6. Personas vitaminasIn Spanish, personas vitaminas means “vitamin people”, the ones who nourish your soul. Take inventory of who uplifts you and make time for them.7. Buffer timeStop filling every moment. Create space in your schedule to simply exist. Even five minutes of stillness can prevent overwhelm.8. Romanticise your lifeFind joy in the everyday. Light a candle, make your coffee slowly, look for beauty even in the grey days. Remember: you’re co-creating your life.9. Side quests and learningMake time for curiosity. Learn random things just because they excite you. Leave room for life to surprise you.TimestampsTimestamps 00:01:00 - why it’s important00:02:00 - what doesn’t fill up your cup00:07:00 - morning pages00:11:00 - Creative Rest00:14:00 - Get our of Your head and into your body00:17:00 - Solo Adventures00:20:00 - Vitamin People00:24:00 - Buffer time00:27:30 - Romanticise your life00:29:30 - Side Quests & Learning00:32:30 - Let life surprise youBUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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Its time for rebrand, heres why ...
Its time for a rebrand, this is the start of a new era…For the last two and a half years, this podcast existed under the name Empower Sounds. It was about giving women a platform to share their stories. But somewhere along the way, I outgrew it, and it outgrew me.This episode is the story of that evolution. It’s about what happens when you realise you’ve built something that no longer reflects who you are and how to grow with itI’m talking about rebranding in every sense: your work, your image, your identity. Because the truth is, you’re allowed to reinvent yourself as many times as it takes to feel like you again.It’s also about the word bossy, the one so many of us were called growing up and how reclaiming it became the heartbeat of this next chapter.If you’ve ever felt like you’re in between versions of yourself, or that you’ve outgrown your current brand, this episode is for you.Timestamps/ Chapters00:00:40 – The Story Begins: How It All Started00:01:00 – What Empower Sounds Was and What It Taught Me00:05:00 – The Era of Reclaiming Bossy: Owning the Label00:10:00 – The Art of Rebranding: When and How to Pivot00:12:00 – Journal Prompt: What Have You Outgrown?00:15:00 – The Five Types of Visualisation and Reinvention00:19:20 – Perfectionism: The Silent Brand KillerYou’ll Learn- How to know when it’s time to rebrand or evolve- The difference between quitting and outgrowing- How to reframe “bossy” into leadership energy- Why your brand is meant to evolve as you do- The mindset shift that makes change feel excitinginstead of scaryElizabeth (the musician behind the intro/outro track) :elizabethgounariEnjoyed this episode? Share it with a friend, subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a conversation. BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREERBossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenesWORK WITH MECreator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.Book a Strategy Session : https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07Book a discovery call : https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1Join the next personal branding sprint : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=headerFollow The Podcast/ Connect With MePodcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossyPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sMy TikTok: @maahika.sCollaborations + enquiries: [email protected]
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The Truth About Leaving a Corporate Job to Become a Tattoo Artist (With Kimberley Verana)
What happens when you walk away from a “safe” corporate path to build a creative life from scratch?In this week’s episode, I sit down with Kimberley Verana, a UCL Geography graduate who left recruitment to become a tattoo artist. We talk about what it really takes to start over in your 20s ,from battling imposter syndrome and finding your artistic voice to navigating the unpredictable reality of a self employed life.Kim opens up about the courage it takes to trust your instincts in an oversaturated industry, stay authentic on social media, and build a creative career that actually feels like you.We also explore how being an Asian woman in tattooing challenges stereotypes around success and respectability, and why representation in creative industries matters more than ever.Whether you’re a creative in your 20s figuring it out, a freelancer learning to value your work, or someone craving a story about bravery and purpose, this one’s for you.Key Themes & Timestamps:00:00:50 – Context & background00:03:40 – Cultural background and tattooing00:10:00 – First steps into the tattoo world00:15:20 – Perfectionism and creative growth00:20:40 – Dealing with rejection00:22:00 – How do tattoo apprenticeships work?00:30:00 – Customer service and building client trust00:37:00 – Social media and comparison00:40:00 – The fear of being seen00:42:00 – Finding your creative gang and community00:47:00 – Kim’s list of creative accounts to follow Topics We Cover- From recruitment to tattooing: the leap from a corporate career to a creative one storytelling- . Finding your voice in a crowded, trend-driven industry- Freelance realities: pricing, time, and valuing your worth- Authenticity vs. oversaturation online- Being Asian & creative: breaking stereotypes and reclaiming respectability- Storytelling through tattoos: turning emotion into art- Community, mentorship & self-beliefMentioned in This EpisodeKim’s Suggested Creative Accounts to Follow on instagram:- @Kaiferjoseph- @the_rinayang- @badcatclub_- Sophfloyd- Kaylatayla_- Blumme_- Zackkravits Connect with Kim:- Instagram: kimberleyverana- Portfolio / Booking: https://kimberleyverana.comhttps://tally.so/r/wLo4k2?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacsGOhRL4bfweJdJSY6s_y6SJ0eCPCWeLxuotfyRu6m1eglVGStCH8MAPIv0Q_aem_QRPLfn0urixeT8cuv3pF5Q💌 Connect with the pod:- Instagram: @reclaimingbossy- TikTok: @reclaimingbossy- Host: @maahika.s- For collaborations email : [email protected]
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I Graduated Top of My Class AND Had Fun at Uni, Here’s How You Can Too...
In todays episode, I share exactly how I graduated top of my class at university, made the Dean’s List whilst starting my business, podcast, joining societies, studying abroad and still having a fun social life. I’ll walk you through the strategies, study habits and mindset that made it possible. If you’re a student (or soon will be) and you want to excel academically without giving up fun, community and the things you love, this one’s for you.Timestamps 00:02:00 - context00:04:30 - save time in ways that work for you00:07:20 - essays tips00:14:00 - bring your personality in00:16:50 - data collection00:21:00 - get people to read your work00:24:00 - grades and self worthWhy listenThis episode is not just about high grades. It’s about thriving in university life, creating friendships, doing societies, and still excelling academically. Im going to share how I did it without spending 50 hours in the library every week. It’s proof you don’t have to pick between fun and achievement. You can have both :)Stay connected / Join the communityPodcast instagram : @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sPodcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossyMy tiktok: @maahika.sFor collaborations and inquiries:[email protected] this episode? Share it with a friend who’s studying or about to start university. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a conversation. If you found this helpful, leave a review and let us know which tip you’ll try first. Let’s grow this community of high achievers who live fully and succeed in all areas of their lives :)
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How To Get Paid to Exist, Advice From A Professional Speaker...
On todays episode of the podcast, I speak with Bhavika Jagwani about how you can become a paid speaker, and talk about things that matter to you. We also talk about how to build more safety and confidence as you step into visibility. We explore nervous system regulation, money mindset, self acknowledgement, fear of being seen, and the power of speaking your truth.Timestamps / Chapters00:00:07 – childhood and background00:02:17 – what’s a speaker?00:09:48 – self-confidence and self-acknowledgement00:12:52 – safety, home and work focus00:25:32 – power00:29:05 – becoming a speaker through passion00:42:00 – how to start00:49:00 – money00:51:20 – fear of being seenWhat You’ll LearnHow to position speaking as a viable paid pathTechniques for regulating your nervous system so you can speak from groundednessPractical first steps even if you feel unqualifiedHow to shift your beliefs about money and value in speakingWays to lean into visibility and vulnerability despite fearContent Warning / Sensitive TopicsThis episode includes discussion severe mental health, and issues around safety, vulnerability, and emotional depth, if these topics are sensitive to you I recommend listening to another more chill episode: Alternative Episodes You Might Also Like:The fear of being seen :https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Jtf7dTfsTUGrowing on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrIKlZDqQ7EImposter syndrome : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syq50U2N6ZAConnect with Bhavika:Email: [email protected]: https://www.instagram.com/powerwithbhavika/Website: https://www.bhavikajagwani.comLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bhavika-jagwani/?skipRedirect=trueFollow the podcast/me to stay updated with the community Podcast instagram : @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sPodcast TikTok: @empowersoundspodcast My tiktok: @maahika.sLinkedIn: Maahika SinghFor collaborations and inquiries:[email protected]
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your fear of being seen is stopping you from living your dream life, heres why...
On today's episode of the pod I talk about the fear of being seen. This is something that has been something I have struggled with despite talking on camera for a few years now and something I think everyone should work on because it has impacts not just for content and visibility in the media , but also your ability to speak up at work or in your friendships and relationships.In my experience this fear comes from a safety and worthiness wound, and I share more about those today and what am doing to heal them both. I hope this resonates and if you liked the episode please leave a comment and let me know what you think down below.Timestamps00:00:17 - What would you do if you had no fear?00:04:47 - Where does it come from? 00:08:39 - Worthiness side of being seen00:11:00 - Insecurities00:14:20 - insecurities are infectious 00:22:00 - the “cool girl” monologueFollow the podcast/me to stay updated with the community Podcast instagram : @reclaimingbossyMy Instagram: @maahika.sPodcast TikTok: @empowersoundspodcast My tiktok: @maahika.sLinkedIn: Maahika SinghFor collaborations and inquiries:[email protected]
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How Samraddhi Awasthi Grew Her YouTube Channel from 0 to 262K Subscribers (advice for creators)
For today’s episode, I’m so excited to be joined by Samraddhi “Sam” Awasthi 22, South Asian, queer, post-LSE, London based (and sometimes everywhere else). She’s built a space of unfiltered honesty around study abroad, YouTube growth, identity, mental health, and creative life design, so I wanted to sit down and hear her story of being on YouTube almost 10 years and growing from 0 to 262K in that time…Together, we dive into:How she went from 0 to building a YouTube communitySetting multidimensional goals as a creatorBalancing multiple career paths while creatingWorking with big brands, developing your creative instinctHow to push past caring what people think, building a thick skinBoundaries, loneliness, mental healthNavigating queerness, rejecting labels, growing up onlineAdvice & encouragement for you, wherever you are in your creative journeyIf you’re here from Sam’s community, welcome :)))Feel free to hang out, suggest content you want to hear, or tell me your burning questions. This podcast exists to help young women & creators design the templates for their dream lives, because life is too short to live someone else’s playbook.I would be super grateful if you could follow and drop a comment with your biggest takeaway. Let’s grow together.⏱ Timestamps0:00 Intro1:14 Sam’s backstory5:40 Going from 0 to growing on YouTube8:21 How to set goals as a high achiever9:45 Why you should set multidimensional goals as a creator11:30 Going to LSE and studying abroad whilst creating16:50 Building other career paths as a content creator21:50 Working with big brands22:30 Why creators are mini founders24:50 How to develop your creative instinct27:30 How to stop caring what people think29:30 How to develop a thick skin31:00 Boundaries as a creative36:00 Navigating loneliness46:00 Getting mental health help50:40 Navigating queerness and growing up on the internet54:00 Labels and rejecting the labels that society gives you58:00 Advice to people starting their journey🔗 Links & ConnectSam on YouTube: @samraddhiSam’s Instagram : @samraddiStudy content: @samstudystationFollow the podcast on instagram @empowersounds Follow the podcast on TikTok @empowersoundspodcast Enjoying This Episode? Like, subscribe, and share with someone that wants to grow on YouTube
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The Antidote To Imposter Syndrome (how I started a business at 21) ...
Imposter syndrome almost stopped me from launching my business and podcast while still at university. In this solo episode, I share the exact mindset shifts and strategies that helped me overcome self-doubt, build confidence, and take bold steps as a young entrepreneur.If you’ve ever felt like you’re not good enough, that you don’t belong in the room, or that you’re “faking it”, this episode is for you... Timestamps00:00:45 – Intro00:04:00 – Imposter syndrome is trying to help you00:05:00 – Strategy #1: Reframing limiting thoughts00:07:00 – Strategy #2: Trophy cabinet of wins00:10:20 – Good company and creating community00:14:00 – Your inner hater00:15:30 – Learning to learn00:18:00 – Delusion and self-deprecation00:21:00 – How to feel physically betterListen if you’re a:- Student balancing uni and big dreams- Young founder or entrepreneur in your 20s- Creative who wants to stop holding yourself back- Anyone ready to stop feeling like a fraud and start owning your successIf you liked this video, let me know what else you want to see and comment below or send me a message:Instagram → empowersoundsTikTok → empowersoundspodcastInstagram → maahika.sTikTok → maahika.s For collaborations and enquires please contact : [email protected]Enjoying This Episode? Like, subscribe, and share with someone who’s struggles with imposter syndrome
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Beating the Men in Lycra Epidemic: Luca Kuhn on Cycling Fashion for Women
Why should women settle for cycling gear designed with men in mind?In this episode of Empower Sounds, I sit down with Luca Kuhn, founder of LUCA, the women’s cycling apparel brand redefining what it means to ride in style, comfort, and confidence.What started as an ick with the “men in Lycra epidemic” became the spark for Luca to create something new a fashion-forward cycling brand built for women, by women. Today, LUCA is more than apparel: it’s a community, a movement, and part of the women’s cycling revolution. What You’ll Learn in This Episode1. The “ick” that inspired LUCA and how frustration can fuel innovation2. Why women need cycling apparel that goes beyond men’s designs in smaller sizes3. The rise of CycleClubs and why they’re the new RunClubs4. How LUCA blends performance, fashion, and confidence in every piece5. Luca’s journey from cyclist to founder and lessons from building a purpose driven brand6. The importance of representation, community, and safe spaces in cycling Why This Matters1. The cycling apparel market was valued at $2.19B in 2024 and is forecasted to hit $3.36B by 2032.2. Women’s cycling clothing alone was valued at $1.23B in 2024 and expected to double by 2033.3. Yet, only 9% of UK women cycle weekly compared to 21% of men showing the need for better products, infrastructure, and representation.LUCA is stepping into that gap with stylish, functional gear and building a movement in the process.🔗 Connect with LUCAWebsite: https://www.rideluca.comInstagram: Ride_lucaInstagram (personal): lucakuhnTiktok: Ride_Luca🎧 Connect with Empower Sounds/MePodcast instagram : @empowersoundsMy Instagram: @maahika.sPodcast TikTok: @empowersoundspodcast My tiktok: @maahika.sLinkedIn: Maahika SinghFor collaborations and inquiries:[email protected]#WomensCycling #CyclingApparel #FemaleFounders #CycleClubs #CyclingFashion #Empowerment #StartupStories
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Give me 17 minutes and you will never have a boring conversation again ...
Ever wondered how some conversations just flow and others don’t? After speaking to over 100 guests entrepreneurs, artists and leaders through my podcast and other work, I’ve discovered what truly makes a conversation captivating, memorable, and easy. In this episode, I’m breaking it down for you in just 17 minutes.In this episode, you’ll hear:Why most conversations feel awkward and how a simple mindset shift can make them more funSome of my tricks to have more interesting conversations Tricks I use with my podcast guests for more interview style conversationsIf you liked this video, let me know what else you want to see and comment below or send me a message:Instagram → empowersoundsTikTok → empowersoundspodcastInstagram → maahika.sTikTok → maahika.s for collaborations and enquires please contact : [email protected] This Episode? Like, subscribe, and share with someone who’s tired of small talk and wants to have more interesting conversations.Drop a comment: What’s the most interesting conversation you’ve ever had and why ?
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The Founders Playbook: How to Build, Fund and Pitch Your Startup
If you’re a founder, or dreaming of becoming one, this episode is your essential starter pack. I’m joined by Hattie Willis, founder of GuessWorks and If We Raise, to break down everything you need to know about building, funding, and sustaining a company…We begin by stripping away the jargon and exploring the different types of entrepreneurs and what it really means to be a founder. From there, we dive into the world of investors: the types you’ll encounter, whether raising is right for you, and the red flags and green flags every founder should watch for.Pitching is another area we go deep on, how to pitch to clients, your team, and, of course, investors, with practical advice you can put into action immediately. We also unpack the funding gap, what it means for women and underrepresented founders, and how to address it. Finally, we close with a conversation on founder wellbeing because building a business shouldn’t come at the cost of your health and happinessThis conversation is as close as you’ll get to a founder’s playbook. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to refine your approach, this episode is your go-to resource for building smarter, pitching better, and thriving as a founder.The biggest myths and jargon in entrepreneurship (and what they actually mean)How to identify what type of founder you areThe key differences between raising and bootstrapping and how to know which path is right for youRed flags and green flags when working with investorsHow to pitch effectively to clients, teams, and investorsWhy the funding gap exists and how founders can navigate itPractical strategies for protecting and prioritizing founder wellbeingGuessWorks: https://www.guessworks.conot my first guess instagram https://www.instagram.com/notmyfirstguess/?hl=enIf We Raise: https://www.ifweraise.com/aboutLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hattie-willis-2b47b376/?originalSubdomain=ukInstagram: Maahika.stiktok: Maahika.sinstagram: empowersoundstiktok: empowersoundspodcastfor collaborations and enquires please contact : [email protected] you enjoyed this conversation, don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review so more founders can find these insights.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
If you're bossy and in pursuit of building a bold and brilliant life, career, and collection of side quests, you're in the right place. I'm Maahika, and Reclaiming Bossy is for ambitious women in their 20s navigating career, money, and identity, the messy middle nobody really posts about. Real conversations with founders, creators and leaders, plus honest solo episodes, health, wealth and happiness.Originally Empower Sounds, we are now streamed in 65+ countries with 3 international seasons, come join our global community. New episodes every Wednesday <3
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