Why You Strive To Be Perfect episode artwork

EPISODE · Jun 8, 2023 · 10 MIN

Why You Strive To Be Perfect

from Intelligent Intoxication · host Terri Bradway

Psychotherapist and best-selling author helps her students and clients manage these five types of Inner Critics: Restless Inadequate Perfectionist Guilty Victim “The PERFECTIONIST Inner Critic keeps you dependent on constant achievement in order for you to feel worthy and validated.  You believe if you don’t succeed, you are flawed, inferior, incompetent and inadequate.  Your Perfectionist Inner Critic thinks the way to motivate you is to criticize you and compare you to others so that you will keep striving to be better and better .” Joann Kleinman I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice striving to be the best? When do you equate success with worthiness? When do you hustle for control? When do you notice getting over-fixated on your image? How were you expected to perform as a child? I highly encourage you to take Joanna Kleinman’s Inner Critic Assessment here: Inner Critic Assessment Find Joanna’s podcast here: Dethroning the Inner Critic podcast Find Joanna’s book here: Dethroning Your Inner Critic book   If you have something you’d really love to hear on the podcast, I would be giddy and grateful to hear all about it: [email protected]   I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call: Chat with Terri...    SUBSCRIBE to my weekly Wednesday newsletter… it’s more of a mini-course intended to intoxicate your self-awareness, satisfaction, and success.  www.terribradway.com/newsletter   When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE.  Your Review Matters... thank you!   If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me: Work With Terri

Psychotherapist and best-selling author helps her students and clients manage these five types of Inner Critics: Restless Inadequate Perfectionist Guilty Victim “The PERFECTIONIST Inner Critic keeps you dependent on constant achievement in order for you to feel worthy and validated.  You believe if you don’t succeed, you are flawed, inferior, incompetent and inadequate.  Your Perfectionist Inner Critic thinks the way to motivate you is to criticize you and compare you to others so that you will keep striving to be better and better .” Joann Kleinman I invite you to consider these questions: When do you notice striving to be the best? When do you equate success with worthiness? When do you hustle for control? When do you notice getting over-fixated on your image? How were you expected to perform as a child? I highly encourage you to take Joanna Kleinman’s Inner Critic Assessment here: Inner Critic Assessment Find Joanna’s podcast here: Dethroning the Inner Critic podcast Find Joanna’s book here: Dethroning Your Inner Critic book   If you have something you’d really love to hear on the podcast, I would be giddy and grateful to hear all about it: [email protected]   I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call: Chat with Terri...    SUBSCRIBE to my weekly Wednesday newsletter… it’s more of a mini-course intended to intoxicate your self-awareness, satisfaction, and success.  www.terribradway.com/newsletter   When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE.  Your Review Matters... thank you!   If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me: Work With Terri

NOW PLAYING

Why You Strive To Be Perfect

0:00 10:51

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Two Guys and a Podcast Esch & Akins In this Podcast We are Two Southern Guys that are trying to defy that Southern Stereotype, we are here for the Blue Collar and White Collar People, we are proof Conservatives and Liberals can be friends and have intelligent conversation, we like to have fun and talk on many topics. Politics, Sports, Movies, The Paranormal and everything in between. Explicit STAB! Cuts John Ross and Jesse Jones It's like the STAB! Podcast, except small and easier to swallow. It's STAB! Cuts!STAB! brings together writers, stand ups and other regional gems to partake in a darkly intelligent live comedy panel show. Described as "Incisive wit that cuts to the bone." by the Sacramento News & Review, STAB's! off-beat format allows panelists 24 to 48 hours to create their own unique takes on various random prompts. Ranging from the online dating profile of The Virgin Mary to the tourism guide of Super Mario Brothers Level 1-1, STAB! is a celebration of all things everything; it's like a jazz funeral for the collective conscience.Find us on iTunes, Stitcher, SoundCloud and YouTube. Explicit Parents Who Think Danusia Malina-Derben The Parents Who Think podcast interrupts our parenting status quo. Join Danusia Malina-Derben entrepreneur, author and mother of 10 for no-holds-barred debates between intelligent parents with diverse perspectives as they deliver raw and unfiltered opinions on crucial parenting dilemmas. Whether you see yourself as a mainstream parent or embrace 'marginalized' views, PWT injects clarity into the hard realities of parenthood. Agreement is not the goal in the show; it's about finding your unique path in the messy, real-world chaos of raising kids. Flex your agency, think, and redefine modern parenthood with Parents Who Think. Explicit Horror Soup: A Horror Movie Podcast Caleb Soup Do expect: discussions about strange and amusing occurrences in horror moviesDo not expect: intelligent reviewsWe're hardly ever right… unless we’re talking Amityville. We know everything about every Amityville ever made and we've never been wrong about anything that has even the slightest association to the house, story, or lore of Amityville. Explicit

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Intelligent Intoxication?

This episode is 10 minutes long.

When was this Intelligent Intoxication episode published?

This episode was published on June 8, 2023.

What is this episode about?

Psychotherapist and best-selling author helps her students and clients manage these five types of Inner Critics: Restless Inadequate Perfectionist Guilty Victim “The PERFECTIONIST Inner Critic keeps you dependent on constant achievement in order...

Can I download this Intelligent Intoxication episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!