You're Not A Bad Parent, they're just having big feelings

Some days, it feels like everything your child is feeling gets fired straight at you, meltdowns, moodiness, upset after upset. And it’s easy to start wondering if you’re doing something wrong.But here’s the truth: you’re not a bad parent. You’re not the problem. Your child having big feelings doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means they’re growing, struggling, and you’re the one they trust enough to fall apart around.It’s not easy to stay steady when someone is unraveling in your direction. But the fact that you’re still there - listening, holding the space, loving them through it - is huge. It matters.So today, give yourself a bit of what you wish they could give you: a thank you, a little kindness, a moment of softness. You deserve it.You're not the cause of your child’s feelings. You’re the steady presence they’re leaning on. And that’s a quiet kind of strength.You’re doing better than you think. Thanks for pausing with me. Take care till next time. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kimmccabe.substack.com/subscribe