Build the Life You'd Marry

Do you date with boundaries and self-esteem? Dating changes completely when you stop approaching it from insecurity and start showing up like a high-value woman who actually knows her worth. In this epsiode, I’m getting real about what it looks like to date with boundaries, self-respect, and a grounded identity in God, especially when it comes to things like last-minute plans, emotional attachment, and giving away your time and energy too easily. I share my own messy dating journey, the mistakes I made, and the shifts that helped me stop spiraling in anxiety and start building real peace in how I approach relationships.We also talk about mindset because honestly, that’s where everything starts. How you see yourself, how you see God in your dating life and the part you let him play. I walk through practical tools, journal prompts, and resources that helped me around dating. If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or just tired of dating feeling heavy, this episode will challenge you, ground you, and point you back to God.Resources & LinksAll the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. RightAll the Rules for the Digital Generation31 prayers to your future husbandJanelle Lynnae (Her insta)Connect with MeFollow me on InstagramJoin my Newsletter

A conversation with my very first guest Ari Sanchez on honest prayer, intimacy with God, and what it means to build a personal relationship with Jesus.Ari is someone who genuinely radiates Jesus, and every time I’m around her, I leave wanting to be closer to God. She lives what she talks about, and one of the biggest things she’s taught me is what it looks like to actually talk to Jesus throughout your entire day like He’s your best friend.Some of the things this episode covers are:Honest prayer and what it looks like to bring your real self to God How honesty creates intimacy in your relationship with GodHow to stop projecting worldly relationship patterns onto your relationship with God How to get more out of reading the Word of GodAnd so many other things!If you’ve ever felt distant from God, struggled to pray, or wanted a deeper relationship with Him, this conversation will shift your perspective on God and how to have a closer relationship with Him.

What does it actually look like to be a Jesus girl in a world that is always pulling you in a million different directions?I share 10 truths that I really believe shape the life of a woman who is rooted in Jesus, from letting God write your love story, to knowing your worth, guarding your heart, trusting His timing, and learning how to live from a place of peace instead of pressure.I also walk through 10 prayers you can pray when you feel the lies of the world creeping in. These are prayers you can come back to in your dating life, in seasons of waiting, in insecurity, and honestly just anytime you feel overwhelmed or unsure of who you are.My hope is that this episode helps you feel closer to Jesus and reminds you that you do not have to do life on your own strength. You can actually live as a Jesus girl, fully held by Him.Resources & LinksFREE DOWNLOAD: Jesus Girl Journal Connect with Cloe ElizabethFollow me on InstagramJoin my Newsletter

If you’ve been feeling stuck, heavy, burnt out, or just not like yourself lately, this episode is for you. In today’s girl chat, I’m opening up about the rut I’ve been walking through, the shame and pressure I’ve been carrying, and how I’m learning that I don’t have to pull myself out of it alone. We’re talking surrender, finding your worth in God instead of productivity or appearance, and practical ways to reconnect with Jesus when you feel disconnected from yourself. I’m also sharing the exact things helping me in this season from journaling prayers and worship playlists to community, gratitude, and creating routines that bring me back to God.Resources & Links: Pause App: Mediation & Prayers DOWNLOAD ON APPLEDOWNLOAD ON ANDROIDSong: Psalm 23Podcast: Christ with Coffee on Ice

Giving ALL the advice I wish I could give my 18-year-old self about confidence, dating, learning people's names, routines, and faith! And wishing I could tell my younger self that the goal isn't to be the prettiest girl in the room but the woman that's deeply rooted in God.Alsooo...BIG NEWS: guests are officially coming to the podcast!! So look forward to that!!Resources & LinksHush by Linda ClemonsHow to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale CarnegieOpal App (social media app blocker)Connect with ME:Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

Since life is honestly so chaotic, you’re going to go through a lot of different seasons like constantly. And because of that, your routines can’t be something rigid that you set once and hope magically works forever.They have to evolve with you.In this episode, I’m walking you through exactly how I personally adjust my routines when life shifts, when I fall off, or when something just stops working. I’m also breaking down how I get back on track quickly without discouragement or starting over from scratch every time.And the step-by-step walkthrough for all of this is inside the free guide below so you can actually implement it as you go.Resources:STEP BY STEP 5AM GIRLY GUIDEActivate your Future SelfConnect with Cloe ElizabethFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

The secret to becoming a 5am girl isn’t discipline, it’s creating a morning you actually love.In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to create a morning routine that feels peaceful, productive, and rooted in God without overwhelm.Everything I wish I knew… step-by-step.Resources:FREE STEP BY STEP 5AM GIRLY GUIDEConnect with Me:Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join My Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

To become a 5am girly, you gotta become an 8pm girly. So... after years and years of struggling with waking up early and failing at actually doing a nighttime routine, I'm breaking it step by step of how to do this!!Everything I WISH I had back then is in this episode, and I’ve also linked a guide below with all the tools and a step-by-step plan, so you have something tangible to help you build your own routine.Resources & Links: STEP BY STEP 5AM GIRLY GUIDEJOIN MY NEWSLETTERAMAZON FRAMESALL TIME FAV PLANNER(IPAD PLANNERS)ALARMY: MY FAV ALARM APPROUTINERY APP: (TRACKING ROUTINE)MEL ROBBINS 5 SECOND RULECitations: BAYLOR UNIVERSITY

This 5AM GIRLY SERIES is about teaching you exactly how to go from the girly who snoozes her alarm to the girl who wakes up at 5am every morning and builds in time for God and personal development!This is quite literally everything I wish I had known after spending 3 years trying to figure this out.We are diving into...how to create a nighttime routinehow to create a morning routinehow to evolve with your routines and stay consistentall the habit stacks that are my FAVORITEand EVERY SINGLE TOOL that’s helped me along the wayYou’re not gonna want to miss out on the next episodes....Links & Resources: FREE 5 AM GIRLY STEP BY STEP GUIDEMiracle Morning Hal Elrod Book

Going through a breakup right now? This episode is for you.If you can’t stop thinking about him…If your heart feels heavy…If you’re questioning everything…First of all you’re not crazy.This episode is going to walk you through what’s actually happening in your brain during a breakup, why it hurts so deeply, and how to start healing in a way that’s intentional, healthy, and rooted in God.Because heartbreak isn’t just emotional… it’s biological, psychological, and spiritual.We’re talking about:why you feel addicted to your ex (and why you keep thinking about him)what’s happening with dopamine, cortisol, and your nervous systemhow to stop the cycle of overthinking and emotional spiralsAnd then I get real with you.I share my own breakup stories like “he’s amazing but not my person” one and what each of them taught me.And most importantly, I give you a practical breakup healing toolkit to heal in the healthiest way!Because you’re not just “getting over him”You’re rewiring your brain, healing your heart, and becoming the woman God is calling you to be.And one day you’re going to be so grateful this didn’t work out.Resources & LinksShelby Sacco Breakup Podcast EpisodeConnect with ME:Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

Would you actually marry yourself?Like really… if someone had your mindset, your habits, your relationship with God, your self-talk… would you choose them?This episode is a little bit of a wake-up call—but in the best, most loving way.Because this isn’t about shaming yourself or feeling like you’re “not enough.” It’s about getting honest, raising your standards, and becoming the kind of woman you’d be so proud to be.We’re talking about:how to get clear on the kind of man you actually wantwhy your standards matter more than you thinkand how to start becoming that woman right nowI also walk you through a powerful exercise to build your “dream man” list and turn it into a roadmap for your own growth, plus a practice that will completely shift how you see yourself and your future.Because you’re not just waiting for the right person…You’re becoming her.Resources & LinksThe Let Them Theory by Mel RobbinsActivate Your Future Self by Mimi BouchardLink to Song for Lyrics “Rest of My Life” by Lunar VibesLetter from Your Future Self Concept by Brian - Fitness CoachConnect with MEFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

There was a season of my life where I genuinely thought God was disappointed in me.I wasn’t praying enough. I didn’t want to read my scriptures. I would go to church, but my heart felt completely disconnected. And instead of running to Him, I felt like I had to come to him all "put together” first.My relationship with God started to feel like a checklist… like I was performing for His love instead of actually experiencing it.But everything shifted when I realized this truth:God is not waiting for a better version of you.He is madly in love with you right now.In this episode, I’m sharing the perspective that completely changed how I see God and how I started building a real, personal relationship with Him.I also walk you through 7 small habits that have transformed my relationship with God in the most simple, practical ways from praying in the car, to finding a comfort song, to actually wanting to spend time with Him.If you’ve ever felt spiritually numb, distant, or like you’re “not doing enough”… this episode is for you.You don’t have to earn His love. You don’t have to clean yourself up first. You just have to come to Him.He’s not frustrated with you… He misses you. Connect with MEFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2

Okay my girl… welcome to the very first episode 🥹This episode is all about what this podcast is, who I am, and why I care so deeply about helping you build a life you’d actually want to marry.If you’ve been feeling stuck in your singleness, like you’re just waiting for life to start, or you’re constantly thinking about relationships, dating, and when it’s finally going to happen for you… I see you. I’ve been there.But here’s the shift we’re making:This season isn’t something to survive. It’s something to step fully into.In this episode, I’m sharing a little bit of my story, how God has completely carried me through some really hard seasons, and why I believe your single season is actually preparing you for something so much bigger than you can even see right now.And then we’re diving into 5 truths every single Christian woman needs to hear the kind of truths that will challenge you, ground you, and help you start becoming the woman you’re meant to be right now, not “one day.”We’re talking about:Why you attract what you are (not just what you want)How to prepare for the marriage you actually desireWhat it really looks like to root your identity in GodHow to stop making relationships an idolAnd how to start truly loving your life in this seasonMy hope for you is that you leave this episode feeling seen, encouraged, and honestly… a little fired up to grow.God is doing something in you right now.Let’s start building the life you’d marry!!Connect with MEFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_cloeelizabeth_Join my Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/buildthelifeyoudmarrypodcast/page2