Couch Chats with Kam

Existence is a lot harder than it sounds. The complex emotions inherent in human relationships is one of the most important—and most difficult—aspects of life. This week, we talk about heartache, the self-betrayal wound, and how adopting a playful attitude of curiosity can make practicing our humanity feel a bit less daunting. We have a conversation with my higher self, who is the part of myself I felt betrayed by. She explains why the doing the difficult thing is worth the discomfort.

Ever had a panic attack or felt overwhelmed to the point of breakdown? In this episode, I share my higher self’s take on why fear is actually a rite of passage. I chat about my experience of confronting fear, and instead of giving up, moving through it. We ground to ease anxiety and take a couple of deep breaths together to reset the nervous system. Fear is not easy, but it’s a part the human experience. Here we go.

Leave the lights on for this episode—it is not for the little ones... though I lived it as a small child, growing up in a haunted house. I talk about a couple of the ghost sightings I will never forget, my maternal lineage of seers and witches, and how I broke the black magic in my bloodline through ritual. I had so much fun being paranormal in the last episode, I decided to do it again. Trigger warning: I use the word blood and mention demons.

Apparently, not everybody chats with their alien counterparts or shares UFO sightings at family reunions. Let’s flip that script.In this week’s chat we are discussing middle selves—the parts of us who have incarnated in higher dimensions or in other star systems that don’t require passing through the veil of forgetfulness. These parts of ourselves have more direct access to our higher self, and are helping us to make the higher self connection since we are incarnated in the furthest extremes of expansion—aka the highest degree of separation from Source.I walk you though the method I was shown for creating an etheric Pleiadian starship—a telecommunication orb—to align your heart with your star family in order to DM your peeps. If you find this notion interesting, or love the Pleiadian sentiment, try it! There could be a connection you’re unaware of.Stick around to the end to hear my personal UFO sighting and a wild abduction story !!! Yes, this episode is a fun one. Enjoy!

“Breathe” is the advice I got from three different guides this week, as I was burning hot with the planetary pile-up in Aries. Then, during an akashic reading for a client, I was shown how wealth is a reflection of your energy levels. Pluto, the god of wealth, showed me how this is linked to the breath—the most fundamental energy exchange we partake in. And instead of just talking about it, I guide you through a quiet moment to connect with your breath and expand into more enjoyment. If you stick around until the end, I share my experience with building sacred spaces in the chakra system. This practice has changed my life and I hope it inspires you to go within and expand your horizons. Enjoy!

Move over, cuz mama’s getting on the couch! … Sometimes it’s good to get a reminder of how far we’ve come—and I got a first-hand glimpse into my shadowy past this week when I came down with a case of the grumps. Luckily, I didn’t let it manifest into a full-on rage like a past version of myself may have done.This episode is about how I turned things around with the help of Mary Magdalene, Mars, and My Little Ponies?? We talk about boundaries, values, prison and punishment. We take a look at how I’ve mistreated myself and others, while gently practicing grace through these not-so-pretty moments.Last week I promised you two meditations—I’m selling them as a bundle for $10 on my website at:http://Ritualizelife.com/meditationsThank you for your support and I hope this week’s topic hits home. If it did, let me know by sending me a DM on Instagram @ritualizelifeOk, babes, enjoy our chat!

Join me on the couch as we continue our chat about routines, this time from the perspective of our feminine elements—including why your body is your greatest ally in defining the routines that support you. I’ll share the story about how my life and routines completely changed when a health-scare made me look at the relationship I have with my body—and the moon revealed the shadow state I was living in, like a waking nightmare. But that’s not how it’s meant to be. The Earth, including our bodies, is meant to be a paradise. We also talk about water and flow—and why the number 1 routine you need to adopt right now is a Quick Check. All that plus a channeled message from my higher self and the element of earth in this week’s couch chat.