Cross Transformation- Realize Who You Are
by Dr. maryam saligheh
Maryam is an evangelist, published author, & spiritual healer offering faith based healing. Born into a Muslim family, Maryam encountered Jesus when she was 8 years old. Her mum had mental health problems & never sought professional help. Maryam's dad was unavailable and could not come home due to her mum's mental health. As part of Maryam's healing, she understood that her mum had Borderline Personality Disorder as well as Narcissistic Traits. On her journey with Jesus, she has gained insights on how to heal childhood & attachment traumas, through the Holy Spirit.
Episodes
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Borderline Personality Disorder and Love
A borderline experiences of love is very different to what love is. This occurs due to a number of reasons, including their chronically practiced emotions and feelings, their expression of wanting to feel loved e.g. tantrums, abandonment fear, and loneliness. In this episode, I am talking about…
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Narcissist: Getting Triggered
Narcissism is all about the spirit of self importance and not feeling less than anyone else or having been compared with others. In this episode, I am outlining the four critical points that can provoke narcissistic rage. Hopefully this episode will help you with your situation. May you be…
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Can a Narcissist Love You?
Can a narcissist love you? In this episode, I am talking about a narcissist’s emotional state, their feelings, and what love is to them and whether they can love you. Narcissistic personality disorder has a great impact on individual’s capacity to love. Hopefully you’ll find this episode helpful....
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Finding Purpose & Meaning of Life in Grief
Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Are you feeling lost in life? Are you trying to find yourself again? In this episode I am talking about how the grieving process can be difficult but how it can lead to finding our purpose and the meaning of life. Not only that, in grief, we learn to…
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Narcissist and Borderline: Grief & Loss
Going no contact with a parent or a caregiver is a very difficult decision to make, especially when they have got a mental health problem. A narcissistic mother or a narcissistic dad, maybe a borderline mother, I had to go no contact with my mother to set boundaries. My mother is now saying...
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Forgiving a Narcissist
A narcissist abuses in many different ways which may include infidelity and cheating. In this video I am talking about what forgiveness is, and why we would attract a narcissistic relationship, a toxic relationship which may also result in being cheated on. When we understand the subconscious…
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Letting Go of a Narcissist
A narcissistic partner doesn’t go away because they don’t understand boundaries and closures. Let her go or let him go, if a narcissist, so you can begin healing traumas and moving on with your life. In this video, I am talking about how to let go of a narcissistic partner or an ex, to do that…
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Free Will: Consciousness or Ego
Free Will is not determined by our ego, it’s about us as a consciousness who is in alignment with God’s consciousness and Christ consciousness. In this video, I am sharing how Jesus answered my question about free will. As an evangelist being led by God from one town to the next, I couldn’t...
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Let Them Go: Toxic Family
Domestic violence, abuse, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, manipulation and many more… Did you have toxic parents? A toxic family is not a healthy one to be with. We need to learn to let go of wanting to stay connected with them. Toxic mother or a toxic dad? We don’t have to have a...
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I Hate Myself: Healing Traumas
Self-hatred is ego’s statement and we can only heal it by looking at its root in our childhood. Rejection is the root of self-hatred and in this episode I explain how it happens. Hopefully you’ll find this episode helpful. God bless you
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Forgiveness: Abusive Parents
Do I have to forgive my parents? In this video I am talking about whether we need to forgive our parents. Maybe they were narcissistic, abusive, or they distorted your reality. Our ego wants to convince us that we need to forgive others. Otherwise we are not good human beings. Is that true?...
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Overthinking
How to stop overthinking? Overthinking things in our minds is a coping mechanism for an earlier trauma that we haven’t healed, ego projects those traumas onto our current reality. An over-thinker is constantly battling with childhood traumas, without having the awareness of how to break free from...
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Self-awareness
As a consciousness we need to create self-awareness which ego does like. In this video I am talking about creating awareness quoting the Gospel of Matthew and what Jesus says about planting a seed. Awareness is a seed that a farmer sows, we need to choose a good quality soil so that our awareness...
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Ego & Self awareness
Self awareness or awareness can be disguised by our egos. Awareness leads to healing traumas. In this episode, I am talking about how ego can influence our awareness and also what type of self-awareness can lead to healing. As a consciousness we are meant to journey with the consciousness of God....
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Ego & Healing Traumas: Reversing the 3 step program
Ego identifies us with traumas, ego avoids healing traumas. Whether healing childhood traumas, losses, or attachment trauma; we need to access the script in the unconscious mind to heal ourselves. In this episode, I am talking about reversing ego’s program. May you be blessed. God bless you
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Let It Go: Ego and Guilt
Let it go is not an easy act when it comes to ego and guilt. Today, I am talking about why do we find it difficult to let go. I am sharing the Word with you explaining the role of ego and guilt. Ego is dead so it holds on to anything dead, we need to allow the ego to bury its own dead which is…
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Healing Traumas: They Had Anxiety & Shame
Ego communicates our parents’ traumas with us. Healing traumas to our ego is to internalise fear, the fear we experienced when they were anxious or disgusted. In this episode I am talking about anxiety and shame that your parents may have had and the impact on you. May you be blessed. God bless you.
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Ego & Healing Traumas: The 3 step program
Ego accesses the unconscious to read the childhood script. Ego’s approach to healing is done in 3 steps. To look after our mental health and general well-being we must understand our ego. Of course, some of us are only interested in psychology but we must embrace our spiritual aspect so we can…
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Anxiety: Ego’s Role
Feeling anxious? It’s good to understand anxiety from ego’s perspective. Managing our anxiety is much easier when we understand ego’s role. In this video I am talking about ego and how it plays a role in feeling anxious. Remember that God is Within us and he is present with us. May you be blessed...
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People Pleaser: Stop It
Ego loves people pleasing. People pleasing is not to have grieved our childhood losses. Love and search for it is the reason why we tend to people please. In this video I am talking about healing people pleasing by understanding the unconscious and the script that is being read. Hopefully you…
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I Am Not Loved in Relationships
Love is what we all want to experience. Loving yourself, feeling loved, falling in love. Ego keeps reminding us that we are not loved, but truly that’s ego’s projection of not allowing us to communicate love to ourselves and with ourselves. In this episode I am talking about how not feeling loved...
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Healing Jealousy
How to stop being jealous? Are you jealous or is your partner insecure and jealous? Surely the ego won’t allow us to heal jealousy. In this episode I am talking about the emotions and feelings that are the root of jealousy and why the ego doesn’t allow us to let go of jealousy. Also, how the...
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How to Love Yourself?
Self love and how to love yourself can be quite challenging from ego’s perspective. In this episode I am explaining how ego does it’s best to make us feel loved through the negative emotions. Feelings and emotions are very powerful, when negative, ego dwells on them and tells us that negative...
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What Is Life?
What is life and what is the meaning of life? Ego has its own perceptions but life is the consciousness who is on journey with God to realise the mind of Christ. We need to heal our traumas so we can understand the meaning of life, instead of perceiving the reality only. May you find this video...
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How to Control Your Emotions?
Self control is an important part of healing childhood traumas especially when dealing with attachment styles. By having a discipline we may not be able to control our emotions but healing works every single time. Emotions and feelings are powerful, especially negative emotions. The ego uses them...
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Healing Codependency
Are you a codependent? Are you struggling with creating boundaries? In this episode I am talking about how to stop being codependent, the root of codependency, and how you can heal yourself. A codependent enters partnerships that are toxic or the other partner is struggling with a form of…
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Announcement for This Year
Hi everyone, I hope you are enjoying this year and looking forward to the journey of healing within. This year, I will be posting my content in alignment with my YouTube channel on a daily basis. So stay tuned as the first episode of this year is about to be released.
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How to Control Your Emotions: Feeling Angry
To heal shame, we must look for the emotion of anger. Maybe you have been trying to manage your anger, to control your anger. In this episode, the final episode of 2022, I am talking about identifying shame and healing it through anger, frustration and rage. Share your insight on this topic, you...
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Overcoming Depression
Are you feeling depressed? Are you trying to find out how to deal and cope with depression? Are you trying to come out of anxiety and depression? In this video I am talking about how to overcome depression and heal depression by realising who we are. “No one has ever seen God, but the one and…
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Transforming Emotional Pain
Are you feeling hurt by someone or a situation? Feeling hurt is a symptom of an unhealed trauma in us. How to heal myself when feeling hurt? By realising the trauma and how you are wired up with other people. Maybe your ex hurt you, you see you can always blame, but that ex partner or spouse was...
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Finding God in Your Life
Are you trying to come out of a crisis? Maybe your are going through tough times, or experiencing crisis, searching for God and trying to find him. In this video, I am talking about how to find God? Do we really need to find him? be blessed. If you would like to book a healing session with me...
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How to Find Who You Are?
How do I discover myself in life? How do I find myself again? We do ask the above questions hoping to find an answer to them. May be you are feeling depressed or anxious. Have you believed that your feelings define who you are? Are you struggling with your identity? Are you searching for who you...
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How to Forgive Yourself?
Are you feeling guilty about your mistakes? Do you find it hard to forgive yourself? In this video, I am explaining how to forgive yourself and to move out of guilt. I hope that you enjoy this video. Feel free to share your journey of healing, how did you come out of guilt? I now have a new…
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How to Be Yourself?
In this week’s episode, I am talking about how the need to be safe can result in not being ourselves. When we look for the desire to be safe outside of us, we will end up attracting difficult people, insecure people. In our dealings with them, we become what they want so we can be safe, so we…
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Blaming God for Our Life
Have you heard of this? “it’s God’s fault.” How often do we blame God for our situation? It’s God’s fault that I was sexually abused, it’s God’s fault that I lost my loved ones in a car accident. I do understand we grieve when we experience a loss. But, pain and grief must not become our…
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Your Purpose Is Within
Are you searching for your purpose in life? Are you wondering how to find your purpose in life? In this week’s podcast I am sharing why our purpose is Within not Without. I hope that you enjoy this podcast. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link below:...
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Trusting God with What You Want
Do you find it difficult to trust God with what you want? Are you disappointed or discouraged? Maybe you don’t know how to trust God with your situation. In this week’s podcast I am sharing my experience on how to trust God with your heart’s desires. Thank you for listening to Cross…
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Healing Resentment & Scarcity
Do you find it difficult to be generous? Do you find it hard to tithe and to trust that God will provide? In this week’s podcast I am talking about healing resentment so we can give and receive money, but more importantly realising God’s grace and abundance in our life. Please rate Cross...
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Healing Our Anxiety with God
Are you challenged by anxiety? Are you coping with a mental health condition? In this week’s podcast I am sharing the Word of God on how to heal our anxiety. I hope that you enjoy this episode. If you like this channel, please rate Cross Transformation on Spotify. God bless you
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How to Hear from God?
Do you find it difficult to hear from God? Do you feel your prayers have not been answered? In this week’s episode I am sharing my thoughts and experience on how to hear God’s voice. How to realise that your prayers have been answered. Make sure to check my YouTube channel, I have got create...
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How to Find Out What My Purpose Is in Life?
Are you searching for your purpose in life? In this episode I am sharing my experience on what can block our awareness of realising what our purpose is. You are born to live a life of purpose, grant yourself what you deserve. Please share the episode if you’ve found it helpful. God bless you.
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Rescuing Others
Are you a co-dependent, do you find yourself walking into toxic relationships? Are you suffering from love addiction and dependency on abusive relationships? Do you date narcissist individual, people with addiction or those with avoidant attachment trauma? In this episode, I share my own journey…
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The Four Stages of a Crisis
In this episode we talk about the different stages of a crisis, the emotions, feelings, and perceptions that we may experience. We also, talk about pain and how it relate to a crisis. If you are going through a crisis, this podcast may help you to identify the stage you are in to understand your...
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Identity, Crisis, and Communication
Understanding a crisis is significant and it comes down to who we have believed we are and how we have identified ourselves. Having a breakthrough is to have communicated with ourselves who we are and not how much pain we have experienced in life.
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Healing the Impact of Borderline Personality Disorder
Have you ever been in a relationship with Borderline’s? In this episode I am sharing characteristics of borderline’s and how to implement strategies that can help you transform the traumas of such a relationship. I will be sharing my experience of having lived with borderline personality since my...
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Recognise Fear: Choose Love
Our emotional DNA determines our choices in life, it also gives meaning to our observations. Is your blue print made of fear and the need to survive? Do you find yourself making decisions out of fear or the need to survive? God tells us “Don’t fear”…. Let’s heal our emotional DNA and make choices...
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Healing the Anxious Attachment Trauma
Understanding our attachment style will help us with our interpersonal relationships. Also, by healing our attachment trauma we can improve the quality of our life because we learn to regulate our emotions and to trust the process of life. Find out how you can heal the anxious attachment trauma...
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Embrace the Shift to Love
Are you experiencing chronic anxiety and depression? Are you stuck in guilt or shame? Are you wondering how to change your thoughts and emotions towards someone or an event in your life? Or are you doubting your abilities in life? In this podcast we talk about the steps that we can take to depart...
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The Emotional Mastery of God
What is your internal state? Is it one of empowerment or victimhood? Is it one of abandonment or knowing that you are a child of God? Ever wondered how to shift your emotional state? Have you considered where you have invested your love? In this episode we are introducing a biblical technique…
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Transforming Self-hatred
The self that we hate, is the self that we perceive as to have been abandoned and has not been worthy of love. What’s worthy of love? Whose love are we craving? Are we following the self or transforming the self?
About this show
Maryam is an evangelist, published author, & spiritual healer offering faith based healing. Born into a Muslim family, Maryam encountered Jesus when she was 8 years old. Her mum had mental health problems & never sought professional help. Maryam's dad was unavailable and could not come home due to her mum's mental health. As part of Maryam's healing, she understood that her mum had Borderline Personality Disorder as well as Narcissistic Traits. On her journey with Jesus, she has gained insights on how to heal childhood & attachment traumas, through the Holy Spirit.
Hosted by
Dr. maryam saligheh