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Doing It Anyway
by Jess Hugo
The podcast for high achieving women who do it anyway. Hosted by Jess Hugo, known for her 20kg transformation and her grounded, no fluff approach to discipline, confidence, and self-trust. This show is about navigating a full life: ambition, identity shifts, relationships, routines, and showing up for yourself when things aren’t perfect. Expect honest conversations about growth, consistency, and becoming the woman who leads her life, not just her schedule. New episodes every Wednesday.Connect with me on IG @itsjesshugo or visit https://msha.ke/successwithjess
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How To Actually Glow Up: The Habits That Changed My Life
Every few months there’s a new glow up trend telling you the secret to becoming your best self. A new supplement, a new morning routine, a new aesthetic, or a new list of things you “need” to do to finally become the version of yourself you’ve been dreaming about.But when I look back at my biggest glow up, losing 20kg, rebuilding my confidence, changing careers, becoming more comfortable in my own skin, and creating a life that actually feels aligned, almost none of it came from those things.In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m sharing the glow up advice I actually agree with and the lessons that genuinely changed my life. Because the biggest transformation wasn’t just physical. It was learning how to trust myself, take action before I felt ready, and stop waiting for confidence to magically appear.We’re talking about what actually creates a real glow-up, including why confidence isn’t something you find, it’s something you build through the promises you keep to yourself. I share why waiting until you feel motivated, confident, or ready can keep you stuck, and how taking small actions creates the evidence that you are capable of becoming the person you want to be.I also talk about the systems and routines that supported my personal growth, from creating structure around my goals to building habits that made becoming my best self feel sustainable instead of overwhelming. Because the things that change your life are usually not the most exciting things you see online. They’re the simple things you consistently do when no one is watching.We’ll dive into why your future self matters, how to think beyond the next few months, and the habits you’re building now that will shape your health, confidence, and lifestyle long term. I share my thoughts on fitness, nutrition, understanding your body, building strength, and moving away from quick fixes towards creating a lifestyle that actually supports you.This episode is for anyone who wants to level up, create their dream life, improve their mindset, build confidence, become healthier, and stop waiting for the “perfect time” to start.Because the biggest glow up isn’t changing how you look.It’s becoming someone who believes in herself enough to do the things that scare her, take up space, and create a life she’s proud of.Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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Confidence Isn't Something You're Born With
We hear a lot about confidence, but what if confidence isn't actually the thing you need first?For a long time, I believed confidence was something you either had or you didn't. I thought the confident girls were somehow different; that they were naturally more outgoing, more secure, less self-conscious, and less afraid of being judged. But the older I've gotten, the more I've realised that confidence isn't a personality trait. It's a by-product of keeping promises to yourself, building self-trust, and collecting evidence that you can handle uncomfortable things.In this episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the relationship between confidence, routine, mental health, and why so many of us feel disconnected from ourselves without fully understanding why. Often, when we're feeling anxious, overwhelmed, unmotivated, or stuck, we assume something is wrong with us. In reality, we've usually drifted away from the habits and routines that help us feel grounded, capable, and like ourselves.We talk about why structure can have such a powerful impact on anxiety, why motivation is one of the least reliable things to build your life around, and how simple things like movement, sleep, nutrition, and meaningful social connection can completely change the way you experience your day-to-day life.I also touch on a side of confidence that doesn't get spoken about enough: the ways we hide when we don't feel good about ourselves. Whether it's avoiding photos, always being the one behind the camera, hiding your body, or convincing yourself you'll start fully living once you've fixed something about yourself, many of us spend years waiting to become confident before allowing ourselves to be seen. The problem is that confidence rarely arrives before action. More often than not, it comes afterwards.Some of the most confident I've ever felt came from doing things I previously would have talked myself out of. Not because the fear disappeared, but because every experience became proof that I was capable of showing up anyway.If you've been feeling disconnected from yourself, struggling to trust yourself, or waiting for confidence before taking action towards the life you want, I think this episode will really resonate with you.In this episode we discuss:• Why confidence is built, not born• The connection between routine and mental health• How structure can reduce anxiety and overwhelm• Why motivation isn't enough for long-term growth• Building self-trust through small daily actions• The hidden ways we avoid being seen• Getting out of survival mode and feeling like yourself again• Creating a life that feels aligned, grounded, and fulfillingWork with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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The Small Habits That Instantly Reset My Mood When Life Feels Chaotic
In this episode of Doing It Anyway, we’re talking about the small, almost unglamorous habits that completely change how life feels when everything feels chaotic, overwhelming, or slightly off track.This isn’t about a full life reset, strict routines, or “become a new person in 30 days” energy. It’s about the tiny things that bring you back to yourself in real time. The habits that don’t take motivation, just awareness, and make the next hour, day, or week feel lighter, clearer, and more like you again.If you’ve been feeling stuck in your routine, low on motivation, constantly scrolling, overthinking everything, or like you keep waiting for a “fresh start” that never really comes, this episode will shift the way you think about self improvement, mindset, and consistency.We go through the small daily habits that quietly regulate your energy and help you feel more grounded, focused, and confident without needing to overhaul your entire life.From protecting your mornings so you’re not instantly pulled into everyone else’s world, to reducing decision fatigue around food and routines, to building self trust through the promises you keep to yourself, this episode is really about learning how to feel good again without making life harder than it needs to be.We also talk about why clarity often comes from movement, not thinking harder, and how creating something to look forward to can completely change your mindset and the way you show up in your life.The real takeaway isn’t the habits themselves. It’s learning what brings you back to yourself when life feels messy, busy, or a little out of alignment, and building a version of self improvement that actually fits into your real life as a woman in your 20s.If you’ve been wanting more confidence, structure, discipline, and ease without burning out or overcomplicating everything, this one will land.Work with meInstagram
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Nobody Has Their 20s Figured Out: The Career Advice I Wish I Had in My Early 20s
In this episode of Doing It Anyway, we’re talking about something almost every woman in her 20s quietly struggles with but rarely says out loud, feeling behind in life, second-guessing your career choices, and wondering if you’re meant to have it all figured out by now.Whether you’ve changed degrees, started working young and felt lost, questioned your career path, or constantly find yourself comparing your timeline to everyone else’s, this episode will completely reframe how you see your 20s.Because the truth is, your 20s are not meant to be a perfectly mapped out career path or a straight line of success. They’re a season of learning through experience, building self trust, and figuring out who you are by actually living, not just planning.We talk about the pressure of uni, early career expectations, comparison culture, and that underlying fear that everyone else is “ahead” while you’re still trying to figure things out. But underneath all of that, there’s a deeper pattern, how insecurity can quietly shape your decisions, hold you back from opportunities, and affect everything from networking to confidence in the workplace.This episode is really about zooming out and realising that nobody actually has their 20s figured out, even if it looks like they do. And more importantly, how confidence isn’t something you magically gain after choosing the “right” path, it’s something you build by trusting yourself while you’re still figuring it out.If you’ve been feeling lost in your career, unsure of your direction, or like you’re constantly behind in life, this conversation will help you feel grounded, less alone, and more willing to take messy action anyway.Because your 20s aren’t about getting everything right, they’re about learning to back yourself while nothing feels fully certain yet.Work with meInstagram
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The Truth About My Health Lately (Neurologist Update)
In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m opening up about a side of my life I haven’t fully shared online yet.Over the past few months, I’ve been navigating neurologist appointments, MRIs, blood tests, nerve stimulation testing, medication side effects, PCOS, autoimmune concerns, and trying to understand what’s actually been happening with my body and brain behind the scenes.I talk about the mental load of health anxiety while still trying to build a business, show up online, chase your goals, maintain relationships, and become the best version of yourself when life feels uncertain.This episode is for the girls in their 20s who feel like they’re constantly trying to hold it all together while silently battling things nobody else sees. The girls who are ambitious, driven, trying to level up, create their dream life, and take messy action… but are also exhausted, overwhelmed, and figuring things out in real time.We chat about:• My neurologist update & diagnosis• MRI scans, nerve testing & autoimmune investigations• The side effects of long term medication• PCOS, hormones & the impact on my mental health• Health anxiety & spiralling thoughts• Learning to trust my body again• What this season has taught me about resilience• Continuing to build your dream life even when things feel hardI wanted this episode to feel honest, grounding, and real because healing, growth, confidence, and success are rarely linear.You do not need to have your entire life figured out to keep moving forward.Sometimes becoming the best version of yourself looks like showing up scared, overwhelmed, emotional, uncertain… and doing it anyway.WORK WITH ME:msha.ke/successwithjess INSTAGRAM:@itsjesshugo
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I Know What To Do… So Why Can’t I Actually Do It?
If you’ve ever thought “I know what to do… so why can’t I actually stick to it?” this episode is for you.In today’s Q&A episode of Doing It Anyway, Jess answers the real health, fitness, confidence, food, and consistency struggles women in their 20s are secretly dealing with right now. From binge eating at night, emotional eating, and all or nothing thinking, to gym anxiety, ADHD routines, PCOS weight loss, relationship weight gain, motivation struggles, consistency, body image, and building healthy habits that actually fit real life.After asking her audience to anonymously submit the things they genuinely struggle with when it comes to weight loss, food, confidence, routines, and becoming their best self… one theme kept coming up:“I know what to do… so why can’t I actually do it consistently in my real life?”This episode feels like one big honest coaching session for the girls who are tired of constantly “starting over,” feeling guilty around food, struggling with motivation, feeling overwhelmed by fitness advice online, and trying to balance work, relationships, social life, health goals, and self-improvement all at once.Inside this episode:• Binge eating and feeling out of control around food• Emotional eating, food guilt, and “starting again Monday”• Staying consistent with workouts when you’re mentally exhausted• Gym anxiety and beginner overwhelm• PCOS, energy, hormones, and sustainable fat loss• ADHD-friendly routines and simple habits that actually stick• Relationship weight gain and getting back to feeling like yourself again• Creating healthy routines that survive real life instead of perfect conditions• Building confidence, discipline, balance, and becoming your best self without obsessionThis episode is for the girls who want balance AND results. The girls who want to feel confident in their body, stop obsessing over food, create healthy routines that actually last, and become the version of themselves they keep dreaming about.Because healthy habits should support your life, not take over your life.Have a question or topic you want featured in a future episode? Submit it anonymously here: Question BoxWork with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: @itsjesshugo
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I Walked Away From the 'Secure' Job - Here’s Why ft. @tianaleighw
In this guest episode of Doing It Anyway, we go behind the scenes of what it actually looks like to outgrow comfort, make messy decisions, and choose growth over security in your 20s.This conversation unpacks the real story of leaving a stable job inside the fitness industry, navigating identity shifts, building a business, and realising when something that once felt “right” no longer aligns with where you’re going.We talk about:Working a “safe” gym job while trying to grow a business on the sideThe moment she realised her job was holding her back from expansionWhy comfort and security can quietly keep you stuckWhat it really feels like to quit something that still makes sense on paperBalancing business, bodybuilding prep, and everyday life pressureIdentity shifts that happen when you start choosing yourselfThe emotional and practical reality of outgrowing your current seasonThis episode is for the girl in her 20s who feels that internal pull, knowing she’s meant for more, but feeling scared to let go of what’s familiar.Because sometimes growth doesn’t look clean or planned.It looks like choosing yourself before you feel ready.And doing it anyway.FIND MY IG & WAYS TO WORK WITH ME HERECONNECT WITH TIANA HERE
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The Self Sabotage Cycle Keeping You Stuck in Your 20s
Ever notice how you can stay consistent for a few weeks… start seeing results… feel more confident in your body… and then suddenly fall off?This isn’t a lack of discipline. And it’s definitely not because you “just need to try harder.”In this episode of Doing It Anyway, we’re breaking down why self sabotage happens right when your fitness journey starts working, and why so many women in their 20s struggle to stay consistent once they begin seeing progress.Because the truth is, it’s not the start that’s hard… it’s maintaining the result.We dive into:Why you lose motivation after a few “good weeks”The small habits that slowly unravel your progressHow pressure increases when you start seeing results (and why it makes you pull back)The identity gap that keeps you stuck in old patternsWhy maintaining results feels harder than chasing themThe most common self-sabotage behaviours in fitness and weight lossYou’ll also learn how to break the cycle:How to stay consistent even when things are going wellWhy structure matters more than motivationHow to shorten the gap between slipping up and getting back on trackThe mindset shift that helps you build sustainable resultsThis episode is for the girl who knows she can start… but keeps falling off before she becomes the version of herself she’s working towards.Because real progress isn’t about proving you can start.It’s about becoming someone who knows how to stay.FIND MY IG & WAYS TO WORK WITH ME HERE
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This Is What Growth Actually Looks Like in Your 20s
Welcome to a new era of Doing It Anyway, this episode is a real, behind the scenes look at what it actually takes to evolve, rebrand your life, and step into your next level in your 20s.Because growth isn’t always loud or aesthetic… sometimes it looks like fixing your weaknesses, trying new things that you’re not naturally good at, and letting go of the version of you that no longer fits where you’re going.In this episode, I’m sharing how the podcast rebrand is really going, what I’m currently working on behind the scenes, and the mindset shifts that are helping me elevate not just my fitness, but my life and business as a whole.We talk about:Strengthening your weaknesses instead of avoiding them (and why this is where real confidence is built)Trying new forms of movement like Pilates, mobility work, and training your body differentlyWhy removing limitations and doing things “just because” can completely change your identityHow I’m using my own growth to elevate my online coaching servicesThe reality of scheduling, instructors, and building structure into your routineDetaching from certain mindsets and gaining perspective on your lifeWhat I’ve noticed about negative, “salty” energy, and why it has nothing to do with youThis episode is for the girl who knows she’s ready for more, more growth, more confidence, more alignment, but needs to understand what that actually requires.Because levelling up isn’t about doing more.It’s about becoming someone different.FIND MY IG & WAYS TO WORK WITH ME HERE
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Why You Keep 'Starting Over' After Every Holiday (And How to Finally Break the Cycle)
If you feel like every holiday, birthday, or weekend turns into a cycle of “stay on track”… then “get back on track”… this episode is your wake up call.Because here’s the truth:If your routine falls apart every time life gets social. it’s not you, It’s your approach.In this episode of Doing It Anyway, we’re breaking down why so many women in their 20s feel like they’re constantly starting over with their fitness, weight loss, and routines, especially after events like Easter, Christmas, birthdays, or even just a weekend out.You’ll learn why the “all or nothing mindset” is keeping you stuck, how fear based fitness messaging has normalised the idea of “falling off track,” and why discipline isn’t actually your problem.We’re diving into:Why you feel guilty around food after social eventsThe real reason you keep restarting your fitness journeyHow “stay on track” culture is sabotaging your consistencyWhy your routine only works in perfect conditions (and how to fix it)The identity shift that allows you to stay consistent without restrictionThis episode is for the girl who is already going to the gym, already trying, already caring, but still feels like she’s never fully “there.”Because the goal isn’t to be perfect.It’s to build a routine that actually fits your life, so you never feel like you have to start again.FIND MY IG & WAYS TO WORK WITH ME HERE
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Imposter Syndrome Isn’t What You Think (And It’s Holding You Back) ft Denisa Feng
From High School Teacher to Store Owner: The Decision That Changed Everything.Thinking about a career change or wondering how to start a business while working full time?In this episode of Doing It Anyway, Jess sits down with entrepreneur Denisa Feng, founder of Hugh & Hyde, to talk about what it really takes to leave a safe career and build something of your own.Denisa’s journey didn’t start in business. After studying science and working as a high school teacher, she began a small ‘side hustle’ creating personalised gifts at markets and centre pop ups. What started as a passion project quickly grew into something bigger, eventually leading to the opportunity to open a brick and mortar store in the Hills.But the decision wasn’t simple.In this conversation, Denisa shares the behind the scenes reality of choosing between a stable career and taking a huge risk, navigating self doubt, learning the “unsexy” side of business, and building a brand that focuses on meaningful gifting and community.We also dive into the truth behind imposter syndrome, why discomfort isn’t always a sign you’re unqualified, and how to reframe fear as a signal that you're stepping into growth.If you’ve ever felt stuck between the life you should choose and the one you actually want, this episode will leave you thinking differently about risk, passion, and what’s possible.In this episode we talk about:• Leaving a secure career to start a business • Turning a side hustle into a brick and mortar store • The difference between self doubt and imposter syndrome • What founders actually learn behind the scenes • Why passion alone isn’t always enough to build a business • The importance of support systems and relationships when chasing big goals • Building a team and creating a strong workplace culture • Balancing ambition with reality when making big life decisionsThis episode is perfect for anyone in their 20s-30s navigating career choices, considering entrepreneurship, or trying to figure out what the next chapter of their life could look like.Sometimes the biggest opportunities appear when you’re not looking for them. The real question is whether you’re willing to back yourself when they do.Connect with me:Work with meInstagramConnect with Denisa:Instagram: @denisafeng_LinkedIn: Denisa FengHugh & Hyde: www.hughandhyde.com.au
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Feeling Behind in Your 20s? The Pressure to Have It All Figured Out
Ever feel like you’re behind in your 20s… even when you’re actually doing pretty well?In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m having a real, unfiltered life update chat about the pressure to have your life figured out, and why it feels like everyone else is moving faster than you. We’re talking societal timelines, hustle culture, social media comparison, and how we’ve gone from one “expected path” to feeling like we need to do everything at once.I also share a recent client story that perfectly highlights how quickly we move the goalpost, going from achieving something huge straight into “okay… but what’s next?” energy. If you’ve ever struggled to actually stay in a good season without feeling like you should be doing more, this one will hit.This episode dives into:why you feel behind in your 20s (even when you’re not)the pressure of having your life figured outhow social media fuels comparison and timeline anxietythe impact of hustle culture on your mindsetlearning to stop rushing your life and actually enjoy where you areIf you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stuck in comparison, or like you’re constantly chasing the next thing, this is your reminder that you’re allowed to slow down and build a life you actually enjoy living.You’re not behind. You’re just being exposed to everything at once.Connect with me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/Links
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How to Get Into Social Media with NO Experience (Step by Step) ft Mon Ricco
If you’re in your 20s feeling stuck, unfulfilled in your job, or questioning your next move… this episode will change the way you think about starting over.In this guest episode, I sit down with Mon Riccio (@socialhousesyd) to unpack how she went from working a low paid gym reception job… to building her own social media business with creative freedom, flexible hours, and clients she actually loves working with.We get real about what it actually takes to build a business in your 20s, the messy middle, the burnout, the self-doubt, and the pressure to “figure it all out.”This isn’t a highlight reel. It’s the behind-the-scenes of doing it anyway.We talk about:How to get into social media management with no experienceWhy building a portfolio matters more than a degreeThe truth about running your own business (no one talks about this)Pricing your services + backing yourself (even when people push back)Balancing freedom, burnout, and always being “on”Why your personal brand doesn’t matter as much as you think (unless it’s strategic)Outsourcing content vs doing it yourselfHow to start when you feel lost, behind, or unsure of your next moveIf you’ve been waiting to feel “ready” before starting something new… this is your reminder that confidence comes after action, not before it.This episode will help you stop overthinking and start building a life that actually feels aligned.Because the girls who get where they want to be?They’re not the most certain.They’re the ones doing it anyway.—Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/Connect with Mon: @socialhousesyd
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How to Reset Your Goals Without Starting Over (90 Day Check In)
If your 2026 goals already feel off track… this is your sign to reset, not give up.It’s officially been 90 days since January 1st, aka the time most people stop checking in with their goals. In this episode of Doing It Anyway, we’re doing a real, honest 90 day goal check in, and more importantly… a habit reset that actually works for your lifestyle.Because let’s be honest, you didn’t “fail.”Your routine just stopped matching your life.In this episode, I’m breaking down:How to reset your goals without starting from scratchWhy “falling off” is normal (and what to do instead)The biggest reason your routine isn’t sticking (hint: it’s not discipline)How to build a realistic fitness routine for busy girls in their 20sSimple habit shifts to stay consistent during winter, busy work weeks & low motivation phasesHow to stop all-or-nothing thinking with food, workouts & your routineThe truth about goal setting vs real life (and how to adapt without spiralling)We also get into:Navigating busy seasons, social life & still seeing progressWhy your goals from January might not fit your life anymoreHow to identify self-sabotage patterns (and actually fix them)Creating a routine that works even when you’re tired, busy, or unmotivatedIf you’ve been feeling like you’ve “lost momentum” with your fitness, routine or life goals… this episode will help you get back on track without burnout, restriction or starting over.Because you don’t need a new plan.You need a plan that actually fits your life.Work with me 1:1Connect with me on instagram
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From 9-5 Life to Running 3 Businesses (Even When She Wasn’t Ready) ft Tiana Whetnall
In this guest episode of DOING IT ANYWAY, we dive into what it really looks like to go from corporate life to building multiple businesses; without having everything figured out.If you’re a girl in your 20s feeling stuck in your career, overwhelmed by where to start, or scared to take the risk… this is your permission slip to stop overthinking and start doing.We talk about the messy middle of starting a business, balancing a 9-5 while growing something on the side, and the reality of hitting a point where you need to choose between time and money.You’ll hear the honest timeline of building a marketing business from scratch, navigating career pivots, and why “just start” is still the most underrated advice.We also get into:- How to start a business while working full time- The real reason you feel stuck in your career- Balancing a side hustle without burning out- Imposter syndrome and backing yourself anyway- Knowing when to leave your job (and when not to)- Building multiple income streams in your 20s- Why everything feels “oversaturated” (and why it doesn’t matter)- The mindset shift that makes taking risks easierThis episode is for you if you’re ready to stop waiting until you feel “ready” and start building your dream life now.Because the girls who get there?They’re not the most confident.They’re just the ones who started.Connect with me:Work with me: Instagram: Connect with Tiana:Personal Brand: Content Studio:
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The 12 Week Year: The Goal Setting Method That Actually Works
If you already feel behind on your goals this year, this episode is going to change the way you plan your life.Because the truth is… most people fail their goals not because they’re lazy, but because 12 month goals are too long. Motivation fades, life gets busy, and suddenly the routine you promised yourself in January disappears by March.In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m breaking down the 12 Week Year method; a simple system that helps you stay consistent with your fitness goals, social life, friendships, and work without feeling overwhelmed.Instead of trying to overhaul your entire life for a whole year, you’ll learn how to treat 12 weeks like its own mini year so you can create urgency, focus, and real momentum.I’m sharing exactly how to plan your next 12 weeks so you can build routines that actually stick, whether that’s getting consistent in the gym, making time for your friendships, or finally getting on top of work and life.Inside this episode we talk about:• Why annual goals fail (and why motivation disappears after January)• The 12-Week Year framework for building momentum• How to balance fitness, friendships, social life, and work• A step-by-step way to plan your next 12 weeks of goals• Weekly habits that help you stay consistent even when life gets busy• How to track progress without obsessing over perfectionIf you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly trying to get your life together but never quite sticking to your routines, this episode will give you a realistic way to stay consistent without sacrificing your social life or burning out.Because the goal isn’t to be perfect. It’s to keep showing up and doing it anyway.Connect with me - Work with me:Instagram:
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Being Made Redundant at 24 & Starting Over Again ft. Lilly Moussa
What happens when you land your dream job… and then lose it in your 20s?In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m joined by freelance social media and content strategist Lilly Moussa, who shares the real story behind building a career in the social media industry, working with major brands, landing a role at TikTok, and then unexpectedly being made redundant.We talk about what it actually looks like to build a career in social media, marketing and content creation, from unpaid internships and agency work to freelancing and personal branding.Lilly opens up about the emotional reality of being made redundant in your 20s, navigating imposter syndrome, and deciding to bet on herself by returning to freelance work and growing her own business.In this episode we cover:• What it’s really like working in social media and marketing• Landing a role at TikTok and working with major brands• The emotional reality of being made redundant in your 20s• Freelancing vs working full time in the social media industry• Why personal branding and LinkedIn helped create new opportunities• Building a freelance business as a content strategist• How to avoid burnout while growing your career• The future of social media, content creation and marketing trends• Advice for anyone wanting to work in social media or marketingIf you’ve ever felt like you’re behind, unsure about your career, or worried that one setback could derail your future, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the biggest redirections lead to the best opportunities.Your 20s aren’t about having everything figured out. They’re about trying things, learning fast, and doing it anyway.Connect with me:Work with meInstagramConnect with Lilly:Instagram: @lilly.moussaLinkedin: Lilly Moussa
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The Year Started With a Health Scare… But I Chose Discipline Over Drama
The last few months have been chaotic behind the scenes.In this episode of Doing It Anyway, I’m sharing a raw life update about a recent health scare, navigating the medical system, and what it actually looks like to stay consistent when life feels messy and uncertain.After dealing with unexplained headaches, facial changes, scans, doctor appointments and multiple specialist referrals, I found myself in a situation where there were more questions than answers. Blood tests were clear. Brain scans were clear. Yet something still wasn’t adding up.Instead of letting the stress, uncertainty and frustration completely consume my year, I made a decision that I talk about a lot on this podcast: keep showing up anyway.In this episode we talk about:• Navigating a health scare in your 20s• The frustrating reality of getting medical answers• How easy it is to let life derail your goals• The difference between motivation and discipline• Why consistency matters more than perfect circumstances• How fitness and movement can support your mental health during stressful seasons• The mindset that helped me maintain a 20kg weight loss long term• Why building sustainable habits is the key to lasting confidence and body transformationSo many women believe they need the perfect routine, perfect motivation, or a perfectly calm life before they start working on themselves.But real life doesn’t work like that.This episode is your reminder that progress doesn’t come from waiting for the perfect moment. It comes from showing up imperfectly and doing it anyway.If you’re a woman in your 20s trying to build confidence, improve your health, stay consistent with fitness, or become the best version of yourself, this conversation will resonate deeply.Work with me: InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, make sure to follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share it with a friend who needs the reminder to keep showing up.Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is do it anyway.
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Building a Business While Still Having a Social & Dating Life ft. Jessie Morgan
From gym floor grind to building a thriving online coaching empire, Jessie Morgan knows what it takes to grow a business that actually works long term; without sacrificing your life. At 31, she’s living on her own terms, dating openly, saying no to societal pressures, and building a business that supports the lifestyle she wants.In this episode, Jessie shares her journey from fitness coaching to business mentorship, revealing the strategies, mindset shifts, and habits that allowed her to scale her income, maintain a social life, and even navigate the modern dating world, all while staying true to herself.We dive into the realities of entrepreneurship: handling self-doubt, making fast business decisions, designing high-touch offers, and creating a structure that allows for freedom, fun, and flexibility. Whether you’re a coach, side-hustler, or aspiring entrepreneur, Jessie’s story is a blueprint for building a business that works for your life, not the other way around.What you’ll learn in this episode:How to scale your business without burning out or losing your social lifeManaging self doubt and building confidence in your business and decisionsDesigning offers and programs that actually convertBalancing business growth with dating and relationships on your own termsWhy it’s okay to say no to societal timelines and pressuresTune in for actionable insights, real life stories, and inspiration to build a business and life that’s unapologetically yours.Connect with us:Connect with Jessie: @itsjessiemorgs , @trainwithjessWork with meConnect with me: @itsjesshugoDisclaimer:This video discusses sensitive topics, including experiences of domestic violence. Viewer discretion is advised. If you are in Australia and would like support, you can contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au for confidential information and counselling.
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Introducing Doing It Anyway
In this special 5 minute episode I take you behind the scenes of my internal thoughts. I am so excited to share some news with you - we've changed the podcast name to Doing It Anyway! I will be diving into the reasons behind this change and what this means for our community and the direction of this podcast.Expect the same great content you've always loved, with even more focus on helping you live your dream life, with perspectives from guest experts who have 'made it' - from 'doing it anyway'.This episode is all about keeping you in the loop and getting you excited for what is to come. Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. Let's build your dream life together. Connect with me / join the broadcast
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Why I’m So Exhausted With PCOS (Even Though My Blood Tests Are ‘Normal’)
PCOS fatigue and brain fog can feel incredibly confusing; especially when your blood tests are normal and you’re doing everything “right.”In this episode, I open up about the exhaustion I’ve been experiencing lately while living with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.From feeling fine in the morning to suddenly needing a two hour nap after light activity, I share what PCOS fatigue actually feels like, the brain fog that comes with it, and the patterns I’ve started noticing in my body.If you’ve ever felt physically heavy, mentally foggy, or completely drained despite eating well, exercising, and looking “healthy” on paper, this episode will help you feel seen and understood.Inside this conversation, I talk about:• What PCOS fatigue actually feels like• The difference between normal tiredness and hormonal fatigue• Why you can still experience symptoms even when blood tests look normal• The frustrating reality of doing everything “right” but still feeling exhausted• The brain fog that can come with hormonal and metabolic imbalances• Possible contributors like inflammation, energy regulation, nervous system stress, and blood sugar fluctuations• The small experiments I’m starting to trial to better understand my bodyThis episode isn’t about having all the answers, it’s about learning to listen to your body, being curious instead of critical, and understanding that fatigue isn’t always about laziness or discipline.If you’re navigating PCOS symptoms, brain fog, or unexplained fatigue in your 20s, this conversation will remind you that you’re not crazy, you’re not lazy, and your body might simply be asking you to pay attention.LinksWork with meInstagram
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Why You Feel Paralysed (And It’s Not Laziness)
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, unmotivated, or completely paralysed by simple tasks… this episode is for you.In this raw and honest solo episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m talking about nervous system regulation, burnout, overwhelm, phone addiction, goal paralysis, and why you cannot force clarity from a dysregulated state.For years, I thought breath work, nervous system resets, sound baths, journaling and all the “woo woo wellness” stuff wasn’t for me. I judged it. I avoided it. Until I realised I was constantly operating in fight-or-flight and calling it “being productive.”We dive into:• Why high-achieving women in their 20s feel chronically overwhelmed• How phone scrolling and unread notifications keep you stuck in stress mode• The connection between your nervous system and your goals• Why women’s hormonal cycles matter in productivity and burnout• How to reset your nervous system in under 5 minutes• A simple brain dump method to regain clarity and alignment• Why you must regulate before you hustleIf you’ve been stuck, procrastinating, doom scrolling, or feeling like you “should” be doing more with your life but can’t seem to move; this is your reminder that nothing is wrong with you. You just need to regulate first.You can’t build your dream body, career, or life from a dysregulated state.It’s time to breathe, reset, and then… do it anyway.Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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Pilates, HIIT or Strength Training? What Actually Gets You Toned
If you’ve ever walked into a gym class and felt completely out of place, overwhelmed by fitness trends, or unsure where to start, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we’re breaking down the truth about group fitness classes, HIIT workouts, Pilates, and strength training, and why so many women in their 20s feel confused, intimidated, or stuck when trying to build their dream body.From instructors acting as motivators vs. form coaches, to the hidden injury risks in high-intensity classes, we’re unpacking what actually works for sustainable fat loss, muscle tone, and long term confidence.Inside this episode, we dive into:• The real difference between strength training vs HIIT for body recomposition• Why many “beginner” classes aren’t truly beginner friendly• The role of instructors: motivation vs proper form correction• Pilates for flexibility vs strength training for a toned physique• How group classes can leave women feeling insecure or overlooked• Why online coaching and personalised programs can accelerate results• Where to start if you feel overwhelmed by macros, protein, and gym cultureIf you’re a woman in your 20s who wants to lose weight, tone up, and feel confident walking into any gym; without feeling judged or confused, this episode will help you cut through the noise and take back control of your fitness journey.Because becoming your best self isn’t about doing what’s trendy.It’s about doing what actually works for you.Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/AFTER HOURS BROADCAST ^^^
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Why High Achieving Women Lose Their Fitness Without Even Noticing
If you are high achieving, career driven, and constantly juggling work, social plans, and life admin, but your fitness feels like the first thing to fall apart, this episode is for you.In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we are talking about why high performing women often lose their fitness without even noticing and why burnout in fitness is not a failure, but a predictable signal of misalignment.This conversation is for girls in their 20s who are disciplined, capable, and ambitious, yet feel stuck in cycles of stopping and starting their health routines. Not because they do not care, but because their fitness has not been built to survive real life.In this episode, we cover: • Why fitness is usually the first thing to burn out for high achieving women • How over commitment and perfectionism quietly sabotage consistency • The role of misinformation and influencer culture in early burnout • Why copying every program or routine without a system leads to exhaustion • The mental loops that create friction, including shiny object syndrome and over complication • Why waiting for the perfect time, plan, or outfit stops action • The misalignment trap between ambitious lives and unrealistic fitness routines • How burnout is predictable, preventable, and fixable • What sustainable fitness actually looks like for busy, high performing womenThis episode will help you reframe fitness burnout as information, not failure, and understand why your results have stalled without blaming your discipline or motivation.If you want to keep your life ambitious and still feel strong, confident, and consistent in your body, this episode will change how you approach fitness in your 20s.Work 1:1 with me:https://msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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Messy Hot Girl Fitness: How to Build a Body That Survives Life, Brunch, Travel & Stress
If you keep falling off track the moment your life gets busy, social, or slightly chaotic, this episode is for you.In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we are talking about the messy hot girl approach to fitness and why perfection, aesthetic routines, and influencer energy are not what actually build a body that lasts.This conversation is for girls in their 20s who want to feel strong, confident, and toned, but also want to enjoy brunch, dates, travel, work stress, and real life without feeling like they are constantly starting over.We break down why waiting for the perfect plan is actually a form of procrastination, why matching gym sets do not equal results, and how flexibility will take you further than restriction ever will.In this episode, we cover: • Why perfection is the enemy of progress in fitness and health • How perfect planning often leads to procrastination and burnout • The difference between flexibility and restriction when it comes to results • Why influencer aesthetics create false signals of authority • Why matching sets, trendy workouts, and supplement routines are not what move the needle • How to build a body that survives brunch, dates, travel, and work stress • Why messy consistency beats intense motivation every time • How to let fitness work around your life, not control itThis episode will help you reframe “messy” as a strategic approach, not chaos, and show you how to build habits and systems that actually stick when life gets busy.If you want a body that feels good, looks strong, and fits into your real life, not one that collapses the second things get imperfect, this episode will shift how you approach fitness in your 20s.Work 1:1 with me:https://msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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You Don’t Need Another Plan, You Need to Get Unstuck
If you feel like you are doing everything right but nothing feels anchored, this episode is for you.In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we are talking about why consuming more information might actually be the thing stalling your results. Not because you are lazy. Not because you lack motivation. But because too many voices, plans, and opinions have quietly diluted your progress.This conversation is for girls in their 20s who want to become the best version of themselves but feel stuck in a loop of saving workouts, screenshotting meals, buying programs, half starting them, and moving on the moment something shinier appears.We talk about why this pattern is not a discipline problem, but a hierarchy problem. And why the glow up you want does not require more intensity, motivation, or hustle. It requires selective loyalty and authority over who you listen to.In this episode, we cover: • Why consuming more information can block real results • How following multiple coaches and trends dilutes progress • Shiny object syndrome and why it feels productive but keeps you stuck • The difference between aesthetic authority and real strategy • Why good bodies do not always equal good coaching • How internet fitness rewards what looks good, not what integrates into real life • Why this is not a motivation issue, but an authority transfer issue • How to rebuild trust in one approach so results can finally compoundThis episode will help you understand why past plans have not worked, without shaming you, and give you a clearer framework for choosing what to follow, what to ignore, and how to actually move forward feeling grounded and confident.If you are tired of starting over, chasing trends, and feeling like your growth never sticks, this conversation will shift the way you think about progress in your 20s.Work 1:1 with me:https://msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/itsjesshugo/
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Running Through the Airport at Final Boarding Call (A HGW Life Catch Up)
Navigating your 20s can feel messy, overwhelming, and non stop; even when you’re doing “all the right things.” In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re talking about what life actually looks like behind the scenes when you’re building a career, a body you feel good in, and a version of yourself you’re proud of.From nearly missing my flight to the Sunny Coast, running through the airport on my last boarding call, to reflecting on why January burnout hits harder than we expect, this episode is a real catch-up on life, growth, and embracing your messy era without losing momentum.We chat about:Why even professionals need support (and why getting help actually elevates your confidence, brand, and results)Burnout in your 20s and how it sneaks up when you’re high achievingShiny object syndrome vs intentional focusStretching, moving your body, and breaking up long workdays for better energyNavigating PCOS symptoms while still showing up for your goalsDiscipline habits that actually stick (40 day Opal streak, reading 10 books in a month 👀)The difference between being a hot mess and being humanAnd yes… the Sunny Coast guy who slid into my DMsIf you’re a girl in your 20s who wants to become the best version of herself; without burning out, overhauling her entire life, or pretending she has it all together; this episode will feel like a deep exhale.This is your reminder that growth doesn’t have to be perfect, linear, or aesthetic to be powerful.InstagramWork 1:1 with me
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Stop Playing Small: Become the Girl Who Follows Through
If You Keep Restarting Every Monday… Listen to This Before 2026 Gets Busy | Navigating Your 20sDo you find yourself caught in the endless Monday-reset loop, always starting over but never following through? In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, I break down why you keep restarting, how your brain and body resist change, and how to finally break the pattern.We dive into:How your nervous system and body are wired for comfort, making change feel unfamiliar and uncomfortableWhy abandoning your goals isn’t laziness—it’s conditioned survival behaviour that keeps you stuckHow identity, not motivation, drives long-term success; stop seeing yourself as someone who “tries again” and start seeing yourself as someone who follows throughThe power of leaning into feelings, communicating, and creating safety around changeReal client stories showing how coaching, support, and consistent action shift identity and break old patternsA clear, compassionate path forward to stop the restart loop and finally achieve the career, body, and lifestyle you wantIf you’re a girl in your 20s ready to stop playing small, break old patterns, and make consistency your baseline, this episode is for you.✨ Connect with Jess:Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: @itsjesshugo
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Setting Standards, Not Numbers: The 20s Growth Mindset
Struggling to step into your best self in your 20s? In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m breaking down how I create my 2026 goals without sharing specifics, so you can learn the blueprint for intentional growth, protecting your energy, and stepping into the identity you want.We cover the pillars of intentional goal-setting:Identity: How to make decisions quickly, protect your energy with boundaries, and show up as someone who values herselfCareer & Business: Focusing on impact, consistency, creativity, and working with self-aware women who communicate and growPersonal Life: Routines, non negotiables, and creating standards that support your growthHealth & Body: Prioritising strength, energy, and alignment over numbers or aestheticsRelationships: Holding standards for support, connection, and boundariesLifestyle: Designing a meaningful, intentional life that feels aligned with your vibeI also share why you shouldn’t share the specifics of your goals too early; privacy is power. Grounding your goals, avoiding validation seeking, and letting your actions speak first is the key to sustainable growth.If you’re a girl in her 20s who wants to step into her identity, protect her energy, and create a life she’s proud of, this episode is for you.✨ Connect with Jess:Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: @itsjesshugo
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How to Build Discipline & Finally Become That Girl
Feeling stuck, “lazy,” or undisciplined even though you know you want more? On this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re talking about how to build discipline, set non negotiables, and become that girl; without overcomplicating your life. I break down 5 tangible tips and non negotiables that create lasting habits, shift your identity, and make it easier to consistently show up for yourself.We dive into:Why your environment is secretly exhausting you and making discipline feel impossible (hello, micro-decision fatigue)How clearing your wardrobe, desk, apps, and camera roll can set your brain up for successThe power of small, intentional habits: from sleep routines to strength training to an “everything notebook”Creating non negotiables that aren’t chores; they’re identity shifts that signal to your brain who you’re becomingWhy consistent action, not perfection, is the real secret to thrivingHow to prioritise yourself when nobody else is invested in your growthIf you’re a girl in your 20s who wants to stop feeling overwhelmed, stop people-pleasing, and finally build a life where discipline feels effortless, this episode is your blueprint.Connect with Jess:Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: @itsjesshugo
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The Truth About Boyfriends Who Can’t Handle Your Growth
Ever notice how the moment you start levelling up, setting boundaries, or chasing your goals, your boyfriend seems… off? In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re diving deep into how the men in our lives; especially boyfriends; can unconsciously try to keep us small. From subtle judgment to discomfort around your ambition, your growth can trigger fear in those who are used to predictable dynamics.We talk about:Why supportive partners aren’t always the norm, and how societal patterns have made some men uncomfortable with independent, ambitious womenHow phrases like “I love you the way you are” can actually be toxic when they give permission to stay stagnantRecognising when your boyfriend, friends, or family are unconsciously sabotaging your growthSetting clear boundaries: asking for encouragement instead of unsolicited opinionsWhy your standards, routines, and ambition can highlight where others fall short; and how to navigate that without guiltThe importance of protecting your energy and nervous system while pursuing your dreamsI also share personal stories and observations from my 1:1 clients and my own life, showing how partners can react when a woman starts levelling up; and what you can do to make sure your growth isn’t hindered by those closest to you.If you’re a girl in your 20s ready to stop shrinking for others, protect your boundaries, and chase your dreams unapologetically, this episode is for you.Connect with Jess:Work with me: msha.ke/successwithjessInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/success.withjess/
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The 2026 Goal Reset for Girls Who Don’t Have Their Sh*t Together (Last Minute Life Audit)
If you’re in your 20s and feeling like you haven’t got your life together yet; breathe. This episode is your last-minute 2026 goal-setting reset. I’m sharing a bite-sized, no-pressure ritual to set intentions that actually stick, without burnout, over-planning, or perfection.We work through six pillars of your life; lifestyle, body & health, work & business, travel & experiences, relationships & connection, and mindset & personal growth, with simple reflection prompts you can answer in 20 minutes.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:How to reflect on 2025 without guilt or comparisonHow to set goals that align with who you’re becomingWhy outgrowing goals is normal and growth is progressQuick, practical prompts to start your year feeling grounded and in controlHow to create routines that actually stick without chaos or overwhelmThis episode is for the girls in their 20s who want clarity, confidence, and structure heading into 2026. You’ll leave ready to design your dream year, even if you’re “last-minute” like me.Connect with me here @success.withjess
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How I Lost 3.5kg in 10 Weeks Without Tracking Every Calorie
Today’s episode is for the girls in their 20s who want to lose weight, feel confident, stay social, and NOT sacrifice their entire personality just to see progress. I’ve quietly lost 3.5kg of fat over the last 10 weeks; during my birthday, a Melbourne trip, weekends in Newy, eating out, being busy, being human, and honestly… it’s been the easiest fat loss phase I’ve ever done.I didn’t post about it, didn’t track every gram, didn’t spiral after dinners out, didn’t start over every Monday. I simply built fat loss into my lifestyle instead of turning it into a full-time job; and it worked.In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly what I did differently, what I kept the same, the mindset shifts that made this cut feel effortless, and the habits that helped me stay consistent through travel, events, and zero routine. You’ll hear how I’ve stopped overcorrecting, stopped chasing motivation, and started acting like the version of me who already has her dream body, calm, confident, and in control.We also chat about pressure, competitiveness, self-trust, balance, and why your results often improve the moment you stop micromanaging your life. If you’ve ever wanted a glow-up that doesn’t feel suffocating, this is your episode.You’ll walk away with the exact strategies I used: daily walks, 80% protein consistency, realistic strength training, not spiralling after meals out, and focusing on energy instead of perfection. Because fat loss isn’t just calories; it’s mindset, identity, and the way you show up for yourself.This is your sign that you can lose weight and live your life. You don’t have to choose between progress and fun. You just need a strategy that fits your real life, not a textbook.If you want results like this - consistent, sustainable, and still social. Come work with me inside Toned & Trendy. We build your dream body and lifestyle at the same time. Apply here: msha.ke/successwithjessConnect with me here @success.withjess
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No Service, One-Night Stays & A Not-So-4-Star Hotel
Take a hot girl walk with me as I catch you up on life, travel, routines, mindset shifts, and everything it actually looks like to build your dream life in your 20s; without the hustle culture burnout. In today’s episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m sharing the behind the scenes of our 2,400km road trip from Sydney to Melbourne, booked almost entirely night by night, completely out of routine, and honestly… the most chaotic and grounding adventure in a long time.I break down the reality of planning a last minute trip (yes, finding one night stays was a nightmare), how we chose each location, what it was like travelling with no service, the must-see stops across NSW and VIC, and the lessons that always hit when you’re out of your comfort zone and living life a little more spontaneously.Whether you’re craving a reset, building confidence through new experiences, or figuring out how to actually enjoy your 20s while growing into the best version of yourself ; this episode gives you stories, mindset shifts, and the gentle push you probably need.Plus… the 4-star hotel that absolutely was not giving 4-star energy.If you’re a girl in her 20s who wants healthier habits, a happier life, and the confidence to take up space, this one’s for you.THE VLOG IS UP: https://youtu.be/jxLSqZBVdJ0 Connect with me on IG @success.withjessWork with me
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The Real Reason You’re Bloated (It’s Not Antibiotics)
In today’s episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re unpacking one of the wildest wellness trends I’ve seen lately: the absolute fear of antibiotics… from the same girls who are skipping breakfast, living off iced lattes, and haven’t eaten a vegetable in three days.This isn’t a “gut health panic” episode; it’s a reality check. I’m breaking down what antibiotics actually do, why they’re not the villain, how your gut truly works, and what’s actually ruining your digestion (hint: inconsistent habits, zero fibre, stress, iced lattes as meals… you get it).We’re talking misinformation from wellness influencers, why “gut resets” and greens powders don’t magically fix bloating, how antibiotics impact your microbiome, and the simple habits that matter way more for long-term gut health. I also walk you through what to do before, during, and after antibiotics to protect your gut, all based on real-world experience coaching hundreds of women.If you’re confused about gut health, tired of wellness culture fear-mongering, or constantly bloated and don’t know why, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and actual education… not chaos.This is for the girls in their 20s who want to feel energised, strong, consistent, and in control of their health without falling for TikTok trends or extremes. Your gut isn’t fragile; it’s just tired of never knowing when its next real meal is coming.If you’re ready for guidance, structure, and a fitness routine that helps you actually become your best self in 2026, apply for Toned & Trendy here: www.successwithjess.com.auConnect with me on Instagram: @success.withjess
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How to Set Your 2026 Goals (and Actually Stick to Them This Time)
This episode of Navigating Your 20s is your 2026 reset; a full-body, full-life, glow-up strategy for girls in their 20s who want structure, momentum, and a year that actually feels aligned. If you’re ready to set goals you actually stick to (not the usual “eat healthy, save money, travel more” that disappear by February), this is where we get intentional.I’m walking you through my 6 goal-setting pillars; Lifestyle, Travel & Experiences, Work & Career, Body & Health, Relationships & Connection, and Mindset & Personal Growth, the exact framework I use to level up year after year. We’re talking morning routines that stick, boundaries that protect your peace, weight loss and energy goals that actually feel doable, career clarity, solo travel confidence, relationship upgrades, and the mindset identity shift that makes everything else click.If you want 2026 to be your strongest, calmest, most confident year; the year you stop winging it and start building the version of you you’ve been talking about, this episode is your roadmap. Grab your journal, get honest with yourself, and let’s make 2026 the year you step into your next level.
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Why You Feel Behind in Your 20s (Even When You’re Not)
You know that weird feeling when your life looks fine on paper; but it still doesn’t feel right? Welcome to life dysmorphia, the 20 something epidemic that no one’s talking about.In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, Jess dives into why so many of us feel like we’re “falling behind” even when we’re doing everything right. We unpack the comparison traps, the “grass is greener” mindset, and the pressure to have it all figured out before 30.You’ll learn how to:- Recognise when you’re stuck in a life dysmorphia loop- Stop sabotaging your 20s with perfectionism and overthinking- Build self-trust and confidence without needing constant validation- Reconnect with the version of you that’s already doing enoughWhether you’re overthinking your career, doubting your relationships, or constantly questioning your timeline; this is your reminder that you’re not behind, you’re just human.Work with meInstagram
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How to Build a Toned Body Without Tracking Every Calorie
Are you stuck counting every calorie, obsessing over MyFitnessPal, and feeling like your entire day revolves around food? You’re not alone; but girl, it doesn’t have to be this way.In this week’s episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re breaking down how to finally enjoy food again; without undoing your progress, losing structure, or falling back into all or nothing patterns.I’m sharing the mindset shifts, practical tips, and real life client results that prove you don’t need to track forever to look and feel amazing. You’ll learn how to fuel your body intuitively, balance your meals without weighing every gram, and build self-trust that no app could ever give you.We’ll talk about:How to move beyond MyFitnessPal culture & stop obsessing over caloriesHow to structure your meals for balance, fuel & energy; without trackingThe connection between gut health, hormones & your relationship with foodWhat progress actually looks like when you stop trackingReal client results: less bloating, clear skin, more confidenceIf you’ve ever felt stuck in the “tracking trap,” or you’re scared that stopping will undo all your progress; this episode will give you the roadmap (and reassurance) you’ve been craving.Work with meInstagram
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Community, Chaos & Confidence - My Latest Life Update
We’re on a hot girl walk, baby; so get your headphones in, grab your coffee, and let’s chat life updates, balance, and being that girl in your 20s.In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m catching you up on everything from my two Newy trips and birthday dinner debrief to the community walk that reminded me how powerful connection is; and yes, even that chaotic VR experience with literal children (lol).It’s one of those episodes where we talk about everything and nothing all at once; the messy middle of growing up, finding confidence, and learning how to do life your way.We’ll dive into:How to actually enjoy your social life without losing your balance or progressWhy community and connection will always beat self-isolationMy birthday reflections; what I’m celebrating, and what I’m leaving behindReal talk on burnout, body image, and building confidence through self-trustIf you’re a girl in your 20s who’s figuring it all out; your health, habits, friendships, career, confidence; this episode will make you feel seen, grounded, and inspired to keep growing.Work with meInstagram
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Our Mums & The Skinny Me Teas: Healing from 2000s Diet Culture
In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re diving deep into something every girl in her 20s has felt but rarely talks about; how our mums, the 2000s diet culture, and those “skinny tea” ads shaped the way we see our bodies today.From Special K challenges and carb-shaming to the constant “I was your size at your age” comments; our mums were doing their best with the information they had, but many of us grew up absorbing toxic food rules and body standards that still impact us today.I share real stories, insights from my own coaching clients, and practical steps to start breaking the cycle; healing your relationship with food, finding balance, and learning to fuel your body without guilt.We’re talking:Unlearning inherited food rules (“carbs make you fat,” “thin = healthy”)Rebuilding self-trust with your bodyCompassion for our mums while still choosing to do things differentlyReflection prompts to help you rewrite your own food storyThis isn’t about blaming our mums; it’s about awareness, healing, and empowering the next generation to grow up confident, nourished, and free.Work with meInstagram
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Story Time: The Salon Experience That Shook Me
In this week’s episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m bringing you along on a hot girl walk story time; because sometimes the most random moments teach you the biggest lessons.From finding out I’m allergic to gel nail polish (yes, shellac hates me), to being a lifelong nail biter trying to glow up, to sitting in the salon chair wondering why my hair looked so bad; this episode is equal parts funny, relatable, and painfully real.We talk:The time it takes to commit to beauty standards and treatments How the smallest things (like nails and hair) can impact your confidence, self-image, and identityThe uncomfortable but freeing side of owning your insecurities instead of hiding them (yes I bite my nails, sue me)Why not every “glow-up” experience feels like one at first (and that’s okay)Whether you’ve ever left the salon feeling worse than when you went in, or you’re navigating your own messy 20s glow-up, this episode is a reminder that confidence isn’t found in perfect nails or hair ; it’s in backing yourself through the awkward phases.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKWork with meInstagram
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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Cycles (and How to Break Them)
If you embrace it, your 20s become less about scrambling for belonging and more about choosing the right people to let in.In your 20s, loneliness feels scary; but it can actually be the season that changes everything. In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we dive into why seasons of loneliness are essential for growth, self discovery, and building confidence.I unpack:Why running overseas, finding a new boyfriend, or blowing up your life won’t “fix” the cycleHow loneliness teaches you who you are without validation from friends, guys, or familyThe difference between chasing dopamine vs. creating genuine connection with yourselfHow solo dates, new routines, and healthier habits help you stop rotting in bed and start thrivingWhy this “healing season” is actually the soil where better friendships, relationships, and boundaries growIf you’ve ever felt disconnected, stuck in the same friendship cycles, or unsure who you are without external validation; this episode will give you the tools to reframe loneliness into confidence, independence, and self trust.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKWork with meInstagram
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What I Learnt at an Influencer Event (As a Non-Influencer)
This week on Navigating Your 20s, I’m giving you a life update and sharing my unfiltered POV of attending influencer events… as a non-influencer. Spoiler: everything looks glossy online, but behind the scenes it’s curated, messy, and not always what it seems.I dive into:What influencer events really feel like when you’re not “one of them”The struggles we all face with comparison, boundaries, and believing everyone else “has it better”How to stop wasting energy on things that don’t matter and choose bigger, better problemsWhy fun, happiness, and alignment are my ultimate non-negotiables in life and businessHow boundaries actually help you show up as the best version of yourselfIf you’re in your 20s, navigating the pressure of social media, comparison, or just trying to figure out what truly makes you happy; this episode will hit home.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKInstagramWork with me: msha.ke/successwithjess
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How to Keep the Weight Off Without Obsessing & Yo-Yoing
In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, we’re unpacking the real reason you keep yo-yo dieting and why it feels impossible to stay consistent. If you’ve ever dropped off your fitness goals as soon as life got messy, hit your weight loss target then slid back into old habits, or felt frustrated by constant “starting over”… this one’s for you.I break down:Why motivation is always highest at the start of a diet (and why it never lasts)The maintenance phase no one talks about—but is the real secret to keeping resultsHow I’ve kept 20kg off without obsessing or falling into all-or-nothing thinkingThe mindset + mental health shifts you must make if you want consistencyHow to make food decisions based on how they make you feel, not just caloriesThis isn’t about quick fixes or fad diets; it’s about finally building confidence, self-trust, and the lifestyle that makes you feel amazing in your 20s.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKWork with meInstagram
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Why Your Opinions Are Your Superpower (and Not a #Problem)
This week, I’m pulling back the curtain and taking you behind the mic of Navigating Your 20s. I share why I started this podcast in the first place (spoiler: my brain literally can’t hold all these ideas), how losing 20kg cracked open a whole new identity for me, and why my opinions are actually the reason I’ve built such a powerful community of girls in their 20s.We dive into:Why your personal brand is really just your values in actionThe confidence shift that happens when you stop people-pleasingHow I balance coaching, boundaries, and showing up for myself and my clientsThe reality of navigating setbacks (like getting sick after going too hard) without losing yourselfThis episode is for every girl in her 20s who wants to build confidence, live in alignment, and glow up without falling into toxic hustle culture or fad diets.And remember; this isn’t just my podcast, it’s ours. Drop your anonymous questions, stories, and struggles below. Together, we’re writing the guide to our 20s.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKInstagramWork with me: msha.ke/successwithjess
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How to Stop Wasting Time + Money
Navigating Your 20s is the go to podcast for ambitious women in their 20s who want to build confidence, create their dream body, and stop settling for average. In this episode, Jess (fitness coach + nutritionist) breaks down the truth about online coaching, why so many women see zero results inside cookie-cutter programs, and what you should actually expect when you invest in premium, high-level support.We’ll talk about:Why quick fixes and surface-level check-ins don’t create lasting resultsThe red flags in the fitness + nutrition industry every girl in her 20s should knowWhat high-quality, life-changing coaching actually looks likeA powerful client story that proves it’s never “too late” to get resultsHow to take radical responsibility in your 20s for your body, your habits, and your glow-upIf you’ve ever been burned by a coach, felt stuck in the cycle of “trying everything,” or want to finally create a toned, confident body without sacrificing your social life; this episode is for you.ANON QUESTIONS/THOUGHTS/FEEDBACKWork with meInstagram
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Sh*t I Wish I Knew in My Early 20s (Fitness, Confidence, Career & More)
Your 20s are full of lessons you wish someone told you earlier; from fitness and confidence to career, creativity, and even unexpected opportunities. In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m sharing the biggest things I’ve learned in the past few years that have completely changed my body, mindset, and lifestyle.Inside, we’ll talk about:Why living in a calorie deficit year round is destroying your progress (and what to do instead)The truth about confidence: why it doesn’t come from waiting, but from putting yourself out thereHow to stop shrinking your creativity and finally create without caring what people thinkCareer lessons that helped me attract the most aligned clients and opportunitiesHow saying “yes” more often in your 20s can open doors you never imaginedIf you’re a girl in your 20s who wants to become the best version of yourself; strong, confident, creative, and thriving, this episode will give you the permission slip and practical tips to start now.👉 Got a question you’d love me to answer on the podcast? Drop it anonymously here.
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Why Fat Loss Alone Will Never Give You the Body You Want
If you’ve ever lost weight… only to gain it straight back, felt bloated the second you added carbs, or thought maintenance was just a “waste of time”; this episode is going to change how you see fat loss forever.Today we’re diving deep into reverse dieting, the maintenance phase, and why living in a calorie deficit 24/7 is the exact reason you keep plateauing, regaining weight, and losing confidence.Inside, I’ll break down:Why reverse dieting is often more important than the fat loss phase itselfThe science behind water retention, bloating, and carb intake during maintenanceHow to actually sit at your maintenance calories without panicking about weight gainThe biggest mistakes women in their 20s make when jumping in and out of dietsHow to create results that last (so you’re not starting over every summer)Whether your goal is toning up, losing 5-10kg, or feeling confident in your clothes again, this episode will help you finally understand the missing piece that every quick-fix program leaves out.If you’re ready for sustainable fat loss, balanced energy, and long-term body confidence, this is the episode you cannot skip.
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If We Were on a Hot Girl Walk Right Now: The 6 Minute Reset That Changed My Mental Health (And Could Change Yours)
If we were on a hot girl walk right now… this is exactly what I’d be telling you... ranting back & forth about this silly little life. It really isn't that deep.This new monthly segment is raw, unfiltered, and full of the realisations, rants, and tough love you need in your 20s. In today’s chat, we dive into why relying on other people to change will always leave you anxious and unsettled, how to take responsibility when life feels overwhelming, and why self-belief is the number one thing holding you back from your dream body and dream life.I also get into the messy truth about:✨ Outgrowing relationships when they’re not evolving with you✨ Why cost of living isn’t the excuse you think it is for feeling stuck✨ Family and friends who don’t “get it” (and why that doesn’t matter)✨ The biggest lie you’re telling yourself about being “lucky” vs. putting in the workThis is your sign to stop waiting for external validation and start building the version of you you’ll be proud of. Plug in your headphones, hit play, and let’s walk through it together.
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How to Lose 5kg by Summer: The 12-Week Game Plan
Ready to lose 5kg by summer without burning out or giving up your social life? In this episode of Navigating Your 20s, I’m giving you a 12-week game plan that actually works for girls in their 20s who want to feel confident, toned, and consistent in their fitness journey.We’re breaking down how to:Find your maintenance calories (and how to actually test it!)Create a realistic calorie deficit without starving yourselfBuild an easy to stick to workout routine (3–4 sessions per week max)Balance upper and lower body training with steps and minimal cardioUse nutrition as fuel without obsessing over trackingStay consistent even when the scale isn’t moving day to dayIf you’re struggling with motivation, tired of “all or nothing” plans, or just want a simple blueprint for fat loss that fits around uni, work, and your social life; this one’s for you.💌 Don’t forget: If consistency is your biggest struggle, grab my Consistent Queen Bundle linked below; it’s designed to help you finally stick to your goals.BUNDLEMY LINKS
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
The podcast for high achieving women who do it anyway. Hosted by Jess Hugo, known for her 20kg transformation and her grounded, no fluff approach to discipline, confidence, and self-trust. This show is about navigating a full life: ambition, identity shifts, relationships, routines, and showing up for yourself when things aren’t perfect. Expect honest conversations about growth, consistency, and becoming the woman who leads her life, not just her schedule. New episodes every Wednesday.Connect with me on IG @itsjesshugo or visit https://msha.ke/successwithjess
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