Drive Time with Matt

I asked a simple question:“What’s one thing you weren’t prepared for in life?”I expected funny answers… and I got a few.But what really came through… was real life.Loss. Grief. Time. Unexpected hardship.This episode is different. It’s real. And it might hit close to home.🎙️ New episode: The Things Nobody Prepares You For#RealTalk #LifeLessons #Grief #Faith #Podcast

Grief is something we all face—but few of us understand.In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we take an honest look at what grief really is, how it shows up in everyday life, and why it’s more than just sadness. From unexpected emotional waves to silent struggles like numbness and anger, this conversation breaks down the reality of loss in a relatable and grounded way.More importantly, we explore a Biblical perspective on grief—one that doesn’t dismiss pain, but meets it with truth, hope, and the reminder that we’re not alone in it.If you’ve ever struggled with loss, felt stuck in your emotions, or wondered how faith and grief intersect, this episode is for you.

We’ve all had them—neighbors that make you pause, wonder, or straight-up question what you just saw. In this episode, I take you back to my college days, where one particular neighbor turned an ordinary dorm hallway into the setting of one of the strangest experiences I’ve ever had.What started as a normal late night quickly turned into a moment that was equal parts confusing, awkward, and unforgettable… involving a trash can and behavior I still can’t fully explain.But this episode isn’t just about one weird story—it’s about the people we live around, the things we overlook, and those moments that stick with us for years.Because sometimes, it’s not the big events we remember… it’s the strange neighbors we never forget.

Are we being informed… or influenced?In this episode, I dive into the world of legacy media and ask a tough question: when does reporting cross the line into shaping narratives? From sensational headlines to selective storytelling, it often feels like the goal isn’t clarity—it’s control, ratings, and influence.This isn’t about picking sides—it’s about thinking critically. Are we consuming information, or is it consuming us?Let’s talk about it.🎙️ New episode out now—tune in and decide for yourself.#Podcast #Media #TruthMatters #ThinkForYourself #DriveTimeWithMatt #StayInformed

Nobody prepares you for getting older.One day you’re fine… the next you throw your back out tying your shoe. Your eyesight starts playing games. You pull a muscle reaching for bacon. And somehow… you’ve got ear hair showing up uninvited like it pays rent.But it’s not just the physical stuff.It’s the quiet shift in conversations. The doctor visits that feel a little more “serious” each time. The realization that life moves fast—and maybe faster than we expected.This episode is real, honest, and a little funny… because if we don’t laugh about it, we might cry.On this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we’re talking about the stuff nobody warns you about when it comes to getting older—the surprises, the frustrations, and the moments that make you stop and think.If you’ve ever pulled a muscle doing something that should’ve been easy… this one’s for you.🎙️ New episode out now.

Why is it that we’ll struggle for HOURS…get frustrated… make things worse……and STILL not ask for help?It’s not because we don’t need it.There’s something deeper going on.New episode of Drive Time with Matt drops today.#DriveTimeWithMatt #MensMindset #PersonalGrowth #RealTalk #SelfAwareness

Ever been in a meeting where you knew something needed to be said… but nobody spoke up?Yeah… we’ve all been there.In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we’re diving into the real reasons people stay silent at work. It’s not just fear—it’s culture, leadership, past experiences, and sometimes just plain exhaustion.When people don’t feel safe, valued, or heard, they stop talking. And when that happens, good ideas die, problems grow, and frustration builds.So why don’t people speak up? And more importantly—what can we do about it?Let’s talk about it.

Ever sat through a “leadership training” and thought…“This is great… but the people who actually need this aren’t even in the room.” 🤔Yeah… you’re not the only one.In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we’re getting real about:* Why leadership training often misses the mark* The gap between what’s taught vs. what actually happens* And why everyone answers “aspirationally”… instead of honestlyIf you’ve ever left one of those sessions feeling frustrated instead of inspired… this one’s for you.

We can be our own worst enemy! Why do we listen to that negative voice in our heads! It keeps us from doing or really living.

Tired of the mind games, mixed signals, and pretending everything’s fine when it’s not? In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we’re calling it out for what it is—exhausting. “Stop the Games” dives into the subtle ways we manipulate, avoid honesty, and complicate our relationships, whether it’s at home, at work, or within ourselves.Matt breaks down why we play these games in the first place, how they slowly erode trust, and what it actually looks like to live with clarity, confidence, and straight-up honesty. If you’ve ever felt frustrated trying to read between the lines or caught yourself holding back what you really mean—this conversation is for you.It’s time to drop the act, say what needs to be said, and start showing up real.

Not all conflict is loud. Sometimes it’s the sighs, the sarcasm, the “I’m fine” when everything clearly isn’t. Passive aggressiveness is one of the most confusing—and frustrating—forms of communication we deal with every day.In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we break down what passive aggression really is, why people use it, and how it quietly damages relationships at home, at work, and everywhere in between. We’ll talk about how to recognize the subtle signs, what’s actually going on beneath the surface, and most importantly—how to respond without getting pulled into the cycle.If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling off but couldn’t quite explain why, this episode is for you. Let’s bring clarity to the conversations that never quite get said out loud.

This isn’t about biscuits! Haaha. I just about choke on one this morning. But really, where in life do you need to be more passionate? Life is too short to half way live or do something.

We all think about it at some point… but what will Heaven actually be like? In this episode, we take a real, honest, and sometimes lighthearted look at eternity. Will there be time? What will we do all day? What kind of worship will we experience—and will it ever get old? And yes… what about the food?Drawing from what the Bible actually says (and what it doesn’t), this conversation explores the mystery, the hope, and the beauty of Heaven in a way that feels both grounded and personal. This isn’t just theology—it’s about perspective. Because the more we understand where we’re headed, the more it can change how we live right now.Hop in, take the drive, and let’s talk about forever.

Encouragement sounds simple… until you actually try to do it. In this episode, we dig into why lifting others up doesn’t always come naturally. From pride and comparison to insecurity and fear of saying the wrong thing, there are real barriers that keep us quiet when we should be speaking life into others. We’ll unpack what holds us back, why our words carry more weight than we think, and how a few intentional moments of encouragement can truly change someone’s day—or even their direction. If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up, this one’s for you.

Your words carry more weight than you think.In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we dive into how the things you say—or don’t say—shape the people around you. From your kids to your coworkers, your voice has the power to build confidence or create doubt. The question is: how are you using it?

I actually think encouragement is one of the most underrated leadership skills out there.And a lot of us? We’re failing at it.

Man… nobody sat me down for this one. There was no class, no handbook, no “Hey bro, heads up—this is coming.” 😂One minute everything’s normal… next minute I’m googling, “Why is my wife hot… then cold… then mad… then laughing… then asleep?”I thought I was in trouble.Turns out… I’m just along for the ride.In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional rollercoaster, the things I definitely got wrong, and how I’m learning (slowly 😅) to stop trying to fix everything and just show up better.Fellas—if you’ve ever said, “I have no idea what just happened…” this one’s for you.Hop in… and let’s ride. 🎙️

No one told me that one day…. Doing nothing….would be the best! We are all on the go all the time. Man, sometimes it is nice to slow down and do NOTHING! I remember when i would call that boring!! I am eating those words now!

There is a a fee things no one told me about. One of those is your circles get smaller as you get older? Not always sad but can be lonely.

Nobody tells you how expensive life really is… until you’re in it.In this episode, we’re talking about the real cost of adulthood — and it’s not just bills. From groceries, gas, and unexpected expenses to the pressure of providing, raising a family, and trying to stay ahead… it adds up fast.If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and thought, “How is it this much just to live?” — this one’s for you.

Nobody told me….I would be this tired? What is that?!?!

At the end of the day… what really matters?In this powerful episode, we step back and take an honest look at how we spend our time, what we prioritize, and whether we’re truly living in a way that reflects what matters most. It’s easy to get caught up chasing success, money, and the next milestone—but what if we’re missing the things that actually last?This is your reminder to stop, reflect, and make sure you’re not trading what matters most… for something that doesn’t.Join the conversation and email Matt at [email protected]

You can be in the room… and still miss the moment.In today’s world, distractions are everywhere—and being fully present has become harder than it should be. In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we talk about what it really means to show up, why it’s so difficult, and how easily we can lose moments that actually matter.Because the truth is, you don’t lose your life all at once… you lose it in moments you weren’t paying attention to.Email me at [email protected]

Being a man comes with pressure—and a lot of it goes unspoken.In this episode, we dig into the weight of responsibility, expectations, and the constant need to provide, lead, and hold it all together. It’s an honest conversation about what that pressure looks like, how it shows up in our lives, and how it can quietly take a toll if we don’t address it.If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying more than you let on… this one’s for you.

What does joy actually look like for a man?In a world where we’re wired to provide, fix problems, and keep moving, it’s easy to go through life without ever slowing down long enough to recognize the joy that’s already there. We chase the next goal, the next paycheck, the next milestone… thinking that’s where it lives.But what if we’ve been missing it all along?In this episode of Drive Time with Matt, we’re getting real about the difference between happiness and joy—and why so many men struggle to experience it. From the pressure we carry to the distractions that pull us away from what matters most, this is an honest look at how joy shows up in everyday life… and how easily we overlook it.This one’s about slowing down, being present, and recognizing that the moments we’ll one day wish we had back… are the ones we’re living right now.Hop in and ride along.

Hahahaha I have no idea what is going on?!?! Car probs, cat probs, just crazy life right now! Anyone else?

On this episode of Drive Time, we’re talking about what makes an entertainer truly great—the kind that pulls you in, fires you up, and keeps you coming back for more.

Hop in and listen as I tell you about my experience auditioning for American Idol. Also, have you watched this season?! MAN!!! You got to listen to this season!

What is it about fear and worry that keeps us stuck? In this episode, we dive into the quiet ways fear shows up in our lives—holding us back from opportunities, growth, and even joy. Through honest reflection and real-life perspective, we unpack why we let “what ifs” control our decisions and how that mindset can slowly steal the life we’re meant to live. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by overthinking or hesitant to take the next step, this conversation is for you. It’s time to confront fear, challenge worry, and start living with purpose instead of hesitation.

More of our “adventure “ yesterday, stranded on I-40!

I mean, you can’t make this stuff up! Come find me somewhere on I-40 west! Ugh!!!

Just checking back in after our cruise last week! Hard to come back!

A little bit of history in Miami! All before we get on the boat for our Spring Break cruise!!!

Short episode! On the beach in Miami. Beautiful day!

Let vacation commence! In the Santa Fe!!!!

Lord have mercy! It has been a day. Getting ready to go on vacation comes with stress. Today didn’t disappoint……

Bonus info for cruises! 🚢

Oh vacation time is always a good time! Sometimes we need a vacation from our vacation. It doesn’t had to be that way!

Just reminiscing about the past pets I have had. I miss having a dog! So bad!

Transitions sound simple on paper—but in real life, they can feel like everything is shifting under your feet. Whether it’s a new season, a new role, or an unexpected change, transitions force us to let go of what’s familiar and step into the unknown. And that space in between? That’s where doubt, fear, and growth all collide. In this episode, we dive into why transitions are so challenging—and how they can shape us in ways we never expected.

What would you say to your younger self

The story of the infamous sugar cake that my mom received after her surgery! Good times!

9 years ago we had a tough thing happen in our family. Sometimes you just don’t get over things. Grief is a process.

What are some crazy food combinations that you like?

Oh man, what a crazy but fun weekend! Girls joint bday party, photo sessions, church, and small group! Easter’s coming!! Are you ready?

We out here trying to live and have a couple of dimes left!!!

Well we all know negative people, sometimes it’s us. But we cannot live in that state! We also can’t remain around people like that.

Growing up on the farm and excitement going to the county livestock auction!

We all get tired and there are many things that can cause this! Some are funny and some are just normal life! 😂 hang in there!!

Sometimes you feel emptied, tired,….nothing left to give. Keep going.