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Send us Fan MailEveryone is talking about ibogaine like it’s the cure for addiction.I’m telling you why I’m saying no.You’ve probably heard the buzz.A “breakthrough.”A “reset.”Maybe even the answer your family has been praying for.Ibogaine is everywhere right now. Podcasts. Headlines. Conversations between people who are desperate for something to finally work.So let’s talk about it.In this episode, I give you my honest, unfiltered answer to the question I’ve been asked more than anything lately:Is ibogaine the solution?And my answer might not be what you expect.Not because I’m closed off.Not because I’m against new approaches.But because I’ve seen what happens when hope moves faster than truth and families pay the price.Inside this episode, I break down:What’s actually true about ibogaine right now, not the hypeThe real risks most people are not talking aboutWhy this is especially dangerous for the exact population it’s being marketed toA personal story that changed how I evaluate treatments foreverIf you’re a parent, spouse, or loved one trying to make the right decision in the middle of chaos, this matters.Because when you’re desperate, everything can start to sound like the answer.This episode will help you slow down, think clearly, and make a decision you won’t regret.Hit play before you make your next move.Support the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailSeventeen years ago, I was a difficult, entitled client who had already failed four treatment centers. HR Brown owned the place where I finally got sober. He pulled me into his office one day, told me part of his story, and handed me his 12-year sobriety coin. He asked me to make a deal: in 12 years, I’d give that coin to a newcomer, and he’d hand me his 24-year coin. That moment planted hope in me when I had none.This episode is that conversation. HR shares the night he had a gun in his mouth, the Easter morning he didn’t know was Easter when he finally surrendered, and the spiritual nudges that have shaped his life and ministry. We talk about why the physical side of addiction is only 10% of the problem, what families need to hear when their loved one says “I mean it this time,” and why recovery happens in relationships, not institutions.If you’ve ever felt like God couldn’t possibly love you back, or you’re loving someone who keeps breaking promises, this one is for you.Show NotesGuest: HR Brown, founder of Renaissance Ranch and the man who helped me get soberIn this episode:•(01:00) How HR and I first crossed paths in treatment•(03:47) “I believed in God. I just didn’t think He believed in me.”•(05:39) The night HR had a gun in his mouth and the angels he believes saved him•(07:12) “Help me, help me, help me.” HR’s Easter morning surrender•(10:58) The people who carried hope: Steve and Monk, the 300-pound biker•(12:58) Why your loved one isn’t lying when they break the promise•(16:12) Living life in 15-minute increments during active addiction•(18:16) Why physical addiction is only 10% of the problem•(19:19) The vision behind Renaissance Ranch•(23:24) My spiritual anorexia and how the Ranch fed me•(28:44) The 12-year coin moment that gave me hope when I had none•(29:56) HR reveals he felt a nudge to give me that coin•(31:36) Acting on spiritual promptings without rehearsing them first•(34:15) The deal: “In 12 years, we meet back up”•(38:34) The Easter basket and the note that called me a leader•(42:54) HR’s wife at the golf tournament•(48:26) “She was mine before she was yours.”Worth marking:•Hope is contagious. You catch it from people who already have it.•Judge early recovery by what people do, not what they say.•When your loved one says “I want help,” have a bed lined up. If they’re serious, they’ll go.•You don’t get them sober and you don’t get them drunk. Stop carrying what isn’t yours.•Spiritual nudges work when you act on them before you talk yourself out of them.HR is in my book. I wrote about him in Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover.Resources:•HR’s nonprofit, The SOLida Foundation, mentorship and scholarships for people leaving treatment: thesolidafoundation.org•Unhooked on Amazon and Audible•brickhouserecovery.com•liveunhooked.comShare this with one person who needs to hear it. That’s how the nudge keeps going.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailYou’ve tried everything. Nothing’s working. And somewhere in the back of your mind, you’re wondering if you’re making it worse. This episode is for you. Jason Coombs breaks down the Desperation to Decision Ladder: a five-rung framework that maps exactly where your loved one is in their journey toward change, and what your role actually looks like at each rung. Practical, honest, and built from lived experience.Show Notes:In this episode of the Brick House Recovery Podcast, Jason Coombs, person in long-term recovery and founder of Brick House Recovery, breaks down one of the most practical frameworks he’s developed for families who love someone struggling with addiction. If you’ve tried everything and feel like nothing’s working, this one’s for you.Episode Highlights[01:00] Three questions that stop families in their tracks[02:30] Why being in long-term recovery doesn’t automatically make you an expert at helping others[04:17] The pattern Jason sees over and over with families, and why love alone isn’t enough[05:08] Why the sickest person in the room ends up setting the rules for everyone else[06:37] Introducing the Desperation to Decision Ladder: a five-rung framework for understanding change[07:10] Rung 1: The Pain Gets Loud, and why softening it is the worst thing you can do[11:22] Rung 2: The Denial Weakens: you can’t break it with a speech, but you can stop competing with reality[13:32] Rung 3: Truth Breaks Through: the gift of desperation and why addiction is the only disease that lies about itself[15:57] Rung 4: Willingness Appears: why this is a window, not a door, and how to show up when it opens[20:21] Rung 5: Commitment Is Chosen: why it has to be theirs, and what happens when you want it more than they do[23:02] The two journeys happening at once: external signals vs. the inner work that actually matters[25:01] Two real outcomes, divorce and staying together, and why both can be a win[27:19] Applying the five rungs to yourself, because you have your own ladder to climb[32:39] Naming the disease: why Jason called his addiction “Sancho” and how that changes everything[35:32] Dancing instead of wrestling: how to have hard conversations without locking horns[39:49] The Goldilocks Zone: love and law, justice and mercy, enabling and abandonmentJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a woman’s heart finally gets the space to heal? Jason sits down with Melanie Meszaros, co-founder of Heart of a Woman retreats, to talk about the three core desires every woman carries, what fathers can do to protect their daughters, and why restored hearts don’t just change women — they change entire families.Show NotesThere’s a metaphor I keep coming back to after this conversation: a river that’s been dammed up. The water doesn’t disappear — it just stops flowing. And the world downstream goes dry.That’s what Melanie Meszaros helped me see about the feminine heart.Melanie is the co-founder of Heart of a Woman retreats, a certified professional coach, and someone who stumbled into her calling the way most of us do — through a door she didn’t plan to open. She was “voluntold” into this work, and the world is better for it.In this episode we go deep on:•The three core desires that shape a woman’s heart — and why wounding hits hardest where longing runs deepest•What fathers can do right now to speak worth into their daughters (this one hit close to home for me as a dad)•A word for the mothers who’ve quietly decided their child’s addiction is their fault•Simple daily rhythms that create space for real heart restoration•Why three days at an intensive retreat can accomplish what years of small doses can’tMelanie also shares what happened at her own family’s Sunday dinner after she did her own heart work — and it’s one of the most beautiful moments we’ve had on this show.Resources mentioned:•The Inheritance by Graham Cooke — a 10-minute audio Melanie recommends listening to daily for 30 days•Captivating by John and Stasi Eldredge — the foundation for the three core desires•Heart of a Woman Retreat — October 8–10, 2026 (first 10 registrants get $100 off — promo code is 2026Brick100 )•Boise Alumni Fireside Chat — April 25th at 1:00 PMThe Inheritance Video mentioned:https://youtu.be/FgzXXKjaPZA?si=Ktr5AISPQzmPUg0m•Scholarships available at theheartofawoman.netConnect with Melanie:📧 [email protected]🌐 theheartofawoman.netConnect with Jason:📖 Unhooked — available on Amazon and Audible🌐 brickhouserecovery.comSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhat if the most loving thing a family can do is stop helping? In this raw solo episode, Jason Coombs shares the unfiltered story of his addiction, his parents’ breaking point, and the family therapy moment that changed everything: “Get off the beach.” If you’re exhausted from absorbing the waves of someone else’s addiction, this episode was made for you.There’s a moment in almost every family’s addiction story where love and enabling look identical. You can’t tell them apart. That’s not weakness — that’s the nature of the disease.In this solo episode, Jason pulls back the curtain on the season of his addiction that nearly destroyed his family, and the unexpected turning point that started their healing — long before his own sobriety began.This one is personal. And it might be exactly what you need to hear today.🌊 The tsunami metaphor — why every decision an addict makes eventually crashes onto the family shore🔥 The night Jason confessed to his parents, and how their loving response quietly reinforced his denial🪑 The family therapy session that gave his parents three words that changed everything: “Get off the beach”🔐 The Cracker Barrel boundary — changed locks, restricted access, and the manipulation that finally didn’t work👶 Nathan’s birth and the painful gift of placing his son for adoption — the why that grew bigger than the addiction🌭 The hot dog stand conversation 72 days into sobriety that launched the mission behind Unhooked🎣 How family members get “hooked” — managing probation, covering for their loved one’s boss, softening every consequence💡 Jason’s five-principle boundary framework — a practical roadmap for exhausted families. “For the first time, my parents understood that to love me did not mean to rescue me. It meant setting boundaries. It meant getting healthy. It meant getting off the beach and taking their life back.”TIMESTAMP GUIDE:∙[00:59] The survivors of the Titanic — why shared pain creates unlikely community∙[01:21] The tsunami wave analogy explained∙[03:28] The confession on the fireplace bricks — and the response that reinforced the disease∙[06:12] “Get off the beach” — the family therapy moment∙[08:38] The Cracker Barrel boundary conversation∙[10:23] When the manipulation stopped working∙[10:48] Nathan’s birth and the adoption decision∙[13:53] The hot dog stand and the birth of Unhooked∙[20:16] How families get hooked without realizing it∙[21:12] Why pain is the engine of change∙[29:14] The five-principle boundary framework∙[33:59] Writing down what you “hear that isn’t said”RESOURCES MENTIONED:📘 Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover — available on Amazon and Audible💻 Live Unhooked Course + Community — brickhouserecovery.com📞 Brick House Recovery — 208-286-4274Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailThere’s a moment most families never forget.It’s not the first time they found the pills. It’s not the arrest, or the call from the hospital, or the Christmas that fell apart. It’s quieter than that. It’s the moment they realize that everything they did out of love, the bail, the hotel rooms, the money on the jail books, the middle-of-the-night rescues, may have been feeding the very thing trying to destroy their child.That’s where this episode begins. And it doesn’t stay there.In Episode 50 of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs delivers one of the most personal and practically powerful coaching sessions he’s ever recorded. This isn’t a lecture. It’s a living room conversation with someone who has been on both sides of the wreckage, the addict and the son, and who has spent years turning that wreckage into a roadmap for families who are still in the middle of it.In this episode, you’ll hear:∙Jason’s mother Janna share her testimony, from enabling in desperation to loving without losing herself∙A rarely shared chapter of Jason’s personal story, including his childhood sensitivity, co-occurring diagnoses, and a newly discovered Auditory Processing Disorder that finally explained decades of struggle∙How Jason became entangled in Utah’s largest OxyContin drug ring and watched the news story break on the very TV station where he worked∙Jennifer Chase, Brick House team member and a mother walking her own road, asking one of the most honest questions of the episode: “How do they feel loved when I tell them I can’t get them a hotel room?”∙A practical breakdown of the Stages of Change model and why expecting action-stage behavior from a pre-contemplation-stage person is a setup for heartbreak on both sides∙Why relapse is not a moral failure. It’s a stage, and understanding that changes everything∙Jason’s personal recovery beyond sobriety, including compulsive behaviors the recovery world doesn’t always talk about∙Why faith over fear isn’t just spiritual advice. It’s the most effective influence strategy a family member can adoptThe truth this episode keeps returning to:You cannot love someone into recovery. But you can learn to love them in a way that stops blocking it.Janna Coombs didn’t find that truth through a program or a checklist. She found it the hard way, through years of trying to fix what she couldn’t fix, until she finally put down the weight of an outcome she was never meant to carry.“If you don’t have hope one day,” she says, “just think of Jason’s story and take some of my hope. Miracles can happen.”That’s the heart of this episode. Not a promise that it gets easy. A promise that it gets possible.Resources mentioned:∙Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover by Jason Coombs, available on Amazon and Audible∙Fight the New Drug, fighthenewdrug.org∙Brick House Recovery, brickhouserecovery.com∙Stages of Change Model, Prochaska & DiClementeConnect with Jason:📧 [email protected]📞 208-286-4274🌐 brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen Helping Hurts: The Gift of Desperation in Family RecoveryIn this episode, Jason Coombs tackles one of the hardest truths in family recovery: sometimes helping actually hurts.Drawing from Chapter 6 of Unhooked, Jason shares his personal rock bottom and explains why desperation is often the turning point that families try hardest to prevent. When we rescue, soften consequences, or step in too soon, we may delay the very pain that could finally lead someone to change.This is a hard episode. But it’s an honest one. And for families exhausted by the cycle of addiction, enabling, fear, and second-guessing, it offers clarity.Jason walks through why rock bottom is not always the end. Sometimes it’s the beginning. He also shares the small act of love from his mother that broke through the darkness—and why boundaries and compassion have to work together.In this episode:Why families must stop interrupting natural consequencesHow desperation can become the doorway to real changeThe difference between loving someone and rescuing themWhy boundaries feel brutal at first—but matter deeplyHow one simple text reminded Jason he was still lovedThe role of hope when your loved one seems too far goneTimestamps:[00:30] Jason’s rock bottom and the “gift of desperation”[01:40] Why natural consequences matter in recovery[03:21] The vision that revealed two possible futures[06:14] The text from Jason’s mother that cut through the darkness[07:45] Four truths about desperation, pain, and change[11:45] Reflection questions for families and individuals[14:19] Understanding your role—and your limitsKey takeaway:Families cannot force change. But they can stop delaying it.Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is let pain do its work.Resources:Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.Learn more at BrickHouseRecovery.comSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this deeply personal episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs sits down with Donna Pope, Executive Director of Heart to Heart Adoptions and an adoption advocate with more than 25 years of experience.Together, they explore the rarely discussed intersection of adoption, addiction, and purpose through both professional insight and lived experience. Jason shares his perspective as a birth father in long-term recovery, opens up about his son Nathan, and reflects on the meaning that can grow from a story still being written.This conversation is honest, emotional, and full of hope for birth parents, adoptive families, and anyone navigating recovery.In this episode:[01:00] Jason introduces Donna Pope and shares why adoption is central to both his life story and recovery story[03:00] The Venn diagram of purpose, adoption, and addiction[07:45] Donna’s origin story and the beginning of Heart to Heart Adoptions[09:01] Monica’s story: addiction, placement, jail, faith, and extraordinary recovery[15:42] Josh’s pivotal question: why was he placed for adoption, but not his older brother?[21:35] How common addiction is in adoption stories[25:27] Nature, environment, and whether substance use disorder gets passed on[30:58] Why attachment is at the heart of both adoption and healing[33:10] The painful decision to send a 17-year-old to residential treatment[37:23] The response from Donna’s brother that changed everything[38:01] Where to follow Donna’s work and what’s coming with Adoptions.comKey themes from this episode:The rarely heard voice of the birth fatherWhy voluntary placement can be an act of courage, not abandonmentHow recovery can reshape families across generationsThe questions adoptees carry and why honest conversations matterWhy attachment and consistent presence matter so much in both adoption and recoveryHope for families walking through addiction, adoption, or bothJason also reflects on what it has meant to remain present in Nathan’s life, and how adoption became part of the deeper story God used in his own recovery journey.Connect with Donna Pope:Heart to Heart Adoptions: hearttoheartadoption.comVoices of Adoption PodcastChoosing AdoptionAdoption UtahEternal Family AdoptionsAdoptions.comJason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.Learn more about Brick House Recovery at www.brickhouserecovery.com.Support the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen a family is living through addiction, most of the focus falls on parents and spouses. But siblings carry their own kind of heartbreak, confusion, and hope.In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs is joined by his brother Cory, his sister Melissa, and co-host Jennifer Chase for an honest conversation about the sibling experience in family recovery. They talk about loving someone from a distance, learning the difference between helping and fixing, and discovering that recovery can change the whole family, not just the person struggling.You’ll hear how distance sometimes became a healthy boundary, why education helped replace judgment with compassion, how trust was rebuilt slowly over time, and what actually helped their parents during the hardest seasons. This episode is a reminder that showing up with love, honesty, and presence can matter more than having the perfect words.If you have ever wondered what siblings feel, what they carry quietly, or how family healing really happens, this conversation will stay with you.Show Notes In Episode 47, Jason sits down with his brother Cory and sister Melissa to explore a side of family recovery that often goes unspoken: the sibling perspective. Together with Jennifer Chase, they unpack what it was like to love someone through addiction, support their parents from different distances, and watch recovery reshape the entire family system.In this episode, we discuss:Why family recovery can begin even before trust feels fully restoredHow geographic distance created natural boundaries during the chaosThe different ways siblings process fear, confusion, and loveHow education helped replace anger and judgment with understandingWhy trust is rebuilt slowly, honestly, and over timeWhat actually helps parents in crisis and what does notWhy listening matters more than interrogatingHow simple acts of presence can become powerful turning points in recoveryEpisode Highlights: [01:26] Jason reframes family recovery as a process separate from sobriety [03:29] How distance became a protective boundary for sibling relationships [09:22] Jennifer shares what she hopes to learn from a sibling perspective [10:08] Cory reflects on a brotherly bond that never broke [13:50] Cory shares the impact of attending Jason’s treatment graduation [17:34] Melissa opens up about once believing Jason could “just stop” [18:46] How reading recovery literature and attending family group changed Melissa’s understanding [22:11] Why trust-building happens slowly and rarely in a straight line [24:32] Cory explains how Jason’s recovery work became a mirror for his own growth [30:22] What helped and what did not when supporting their parents [38:41] Why listening matters more than asking more questions [43:01] Jason closes with a reflection on showing up with love and nJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 46: How Do I Navigate Relapse? - Understanding the Cycle of ChangeRelapse is one of the most feared words in a family’s recovery vocabulary. It shatters trust, reignites fear, and leaves everyone asking the same desperate question: Why would they go back after everything they’ve been through? In this raw and revealing episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs pulls back the curtain on his own relapse story and reframes how families can respond when their loved one stumbles. The answer is not panic. It’s not control. It’s surrender, and it looks nothing like giving up.Episode Highlights[01:00] Jason introduces the topic: How do I navigate relapse?[02:25] Jason recounts his personal history of loss, homelessness, failed rehabs, and incarceration[03:24] The drug court graduation that ended with a devastating relapse in Wendover, Nevada[05:14] How the removal of external motivation exposed the power of the addict voice[07:26] The escalation from one Long Island iced tea to cocaine, debt, and a violent confrontation with a dealer[09:39] A participant shares her perspective on surrender and “making friends with the worst case scenario”[11:14] Why behaviors don’t always mirror someone’s true stage of change[13:19] Jason reads from his book Unhooked on the cycle of relapse and shame[16:32] The story of Grace: how a holiday relapse became a springboard to lasting action[22:14] Relapse, ambivalence, and the deep identity ties to substance use[25:29] Applying recovery principles as a family member and advocate[28:30] Introduction to the seven steps of surrender[30:11] Why surrender is hopeful, not hopelessThe Day External Motivation DisappearedJason opens this episode with a story that most families will recognize in some form. He had done the hard thing. He completed drug court. His felonies were reduced to misdemeanors. His parents took him to lunch, gave him gifts, told him they were proud. By every external measure, he had made it.Then a coworker invited him to celebrate in Wendover, Nevada. One Long Island iced tea seemed harmless. He never really got in trouble for alcohol, after all. But the drink triggered what he describes as an allergic reaction, both physiological and mental. That single drink ignited a craving that ended the night with a thousand dollars gone, a club ejection for disorderly conduct, and a cocaine binge. By the next morning, shame had already begun feeding the cycle again.What Jason wants families to understand is this: the promises were real. The commitment was genuine. But when external motivation lifted and internal ambivalence remained, the disease found its opening. Families often smack their foreheads and ask, What were you thinking? The honest answer is that thinking had very little to do with it.Why Relapse Happens aSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 45: Jason Coombs on That Sober Guy Podcast with Shane RamerA wide-ranging conversation on recovery, faith, fatherhood, identity, and the daily work of staying sober.In this episode, you’ll hear:How a legitimate injury and pain pills turned into a life-consuming spiralThe collapse of an OxyContin supply chain and why heroin surged nextWhat it’s like to survive homelessness in a brutal winterThe moment a text from Jason’s mom disrupted a suicidal night“The gift of volition” and why lasting change has to become personalA simple reflection practice that builds momentum instead of shameThe difference between the “smaller story” and the “larger story”A faith-rooted decision framework: study it out, choose, then take it to GodWarrior Heart Retreat and the three pillars that wake a man’s heart up againHow Jason now supports families who feel exhausted, scared, and aloneTimestamps[01:00] Crossover episode intro: That Sober Guy Podcast with Shane Ramer[01:43] Year-end reflection: journaling victories and lessons[08:11] Emotionally shut down, risk-taking, anxiety/ADHD self-medicating[12:05] The OxyContin ring and the spiral that followed[16:06] Homelessness, felony charges, surviving winter on the streets[17:21] Court-mandated treatment, five rehabs, psychosis before sobriety[23:07] The text from Mom that interrupted a suicidal moment[24:26] “Volition”: why internal motivation outlasts external pressure[26:13] From selling hot dogs to a calling to help families[30:26] Stepping out of the smaller story into the larger story[36:10] 12 Steps as a pathway to conscious contact and guidance[40:37] Decision-making: study it out, choose, take it to God[44:32] Warrior Heart pillars: battle, adventure, beauty[52:14] Retreat impact: stripping the crust, restoring identity[56:50] Resources for families: book, podcast, free toolsQuotes worth revisiting“External pressure can work for a season. Internal motivation is what lasts.”“You don’t just get out of the hole. You get outfitted to climb.”“A plan beats panic. Support beats isolation.”Resources mentionedBrick House Recovery: https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/Unhooked (book): https://a.co/d/0dqd21uTWarrior Heart Retreat: https://awarriorheart.com/That Sober Guy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/that-sober-guy-podcast/id887845353For families who feel stuckIf you love someone who’s struggling, you’re not powerless and yoSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhy You Say You Want Peace… But Refuse to Do the One Thing That Brings ItMost families say they want peace.But when it comes time to grieve the loss of the relationship they hoped for…they tighten their grip instead.In this deeply honest episode, Jason reveals:Why control disguises itself as loveHow fear keeps families emotionally hookedThe grief step most people skipWhy surrender is not giving upAnd how to finally reclaim your life — even if your loved one hasn’t changedThis episode is both confronting and freeing.If you’ve been strong for far too long…this one will hit home.⏱ Episode Highlights[01:01] Why families show up strong, not weak — and how control hides behind love[03:12] Step 1: The Hula Hoop Principle — what’s yours and what’s not[05:23] Step 2: Facing your worst fear without catastrophizing[07:12] Step 3: Letting go of attachment to specific outcomes[09:04] Step 4: The grief stage most families avoid (and why it keeps you stuck)[11:30] Why families say they want peace but refuse to grieve[14:59] The five stages of grief explained through Jason’s personal loss[20:57] Step 5: Trusting something bigger than your fear[21:37] Step 6: Holding onto hope while releasing control[22:37] Step 7: The daily practice of surrenderWhat You’ll Learn✔ The difference between surrender and enabling✔ Why fear creates the very outcomes you’re trying to prevent✔ How grief breaks the control cycle✔ How to be okay — even if they don’t change✔ A 14-day surrender blueprint to begin reclaiming your peaceA Personal Note from JasonYou don’t have to wait for your loved one to recover before you recover your life.That’s not selfish.That’s sane.Surrender is not giving up on them.It’s finally picking yourself back up.Resources & Support📖 Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover — Available on Amazon & Audible🌐 Learn more about family recovery support at:https://www.brickhouserecovery.comSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailYou set the boundary. They break it. Again. And somehow, you end up feeling like the bad guy.If you’ve ever tried to hold the line with an addicted loved one—only to second-guess yourself, give in, or get gaslit—this episode is for you.In Episode 43 of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason unpacks the BOUNDARY Framework—a practical, compassionate tool for setting and holding boundaries that actually work. Through a powerful real-life story about a woman named Grace, you’ll see how relapse and resistance aren’t always failures—they might just be the painful catalysts for lasting change.Whether you’re deep in the cycle of enabling, drowning in guilt, or exhausted from carrying the weight of someone else’s choices, this episode offers clarity, direction, and hope. Learn how to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and stop rescuing someone who isn’t ready to change.You’ll discover:The hidden reason your boundaries keep getting ignoredHow to respond calmly—without becoming a doormatWhy “natural consequences” matter more than ultimatumsThe most misunderstood stage of change (and why it matters)What it really means to “Get off the beach”And most importantly: how to put yourself first… without giving up on them.🎯 This is one of the most requested topics from families—and it could be the mindset shift you’ve been praying for.📌 Show Notes:In this episode:[00:00] Intro: Setting boundaries in quicksand[03:17] Grace’s story: When relapse becomes resolution[10:08] The 5 stages of grief in addiction recovery[14:40] Why boundaries fail (and how to fix them)[19:02] The BOUNDARY Framework (step-by-step)[34:11] “I’m not leaving the relationship—I’m leaving this conversation.”[37:26] What putting yourself first really meansLinks & Resources:👉 Free resources for families: brickhouserecovery.com/unhooked👉 Read the book Unhooked: https://a.co/d/08ZF46B4👉 Need support? Learn more about our Family Recovery Program https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked-order-formSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan Mail🎙️ “When Numb Isn’t Working Anymore – The Battle to Live Fully Alive” with Doug NielsonIn this soul-stirring Part 3 of the Warrior Heart series, Jason Coombs sits down with licensed psychotherapist and Warrior Heart co-founder Doug Nielsen to uncover what really keeps men stuck in cycles of addiction, burnout, and emotional disconnection—and what it takes to break free.Drawing from decades of clinical experience, personal recovery, and transformative men’s retreats, Doug shares a raw, powerful framework for reclaiming agency, healing the heart, and living fully alive. This isn’t about behavior change—it’s about identity, faith, and the courageous journey back to who you were created to be.Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or simply feel like you’ve lost touch with your purpose—this conversation will wake something up inside you.🔥 Episode Highlights:[02:59] Warrior Heart changed Jason’s life[07:35] “I want to live fully alive… and help others do the same.”[13:18] Disconnection from God as the root of addiction[15:26] Why the heart is the real battleground[22:18] Counterfeit adventure and the pain of false validation[26:29] The nobility of divine masculinity[31:40] Why clarity often comes in silence and solitude[34:03] Practical outcomes from Warrior Heart retreats. 💡 Key Themes:Take Life by the Helm: Doug introduces a powerful framework of anchors, compasses, and the North Star to help men rediscover direction, purpose, and peace.The 3 Core Desires: A battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to pursue. When these are unmet, men settle for counterfeits—substances, status, or thrill-seeking.Agency & Identity: Recovery is a return to the present moment, where God speaks and where real change begins.The Power of Retreat: Jason shares how a single Warrior Heart weekend created clarity in his relationship with his daughter—and how silence and nature cut through the noise of everyday life.🙏 Final Takeaway:Recovery isn’t just about getting clean. It’s about remembering who you are, whose you are, and what you were made for. Doug’s message is clear: You are not broken. You are noble. And it’s time to come home.📚 Resources Mentioned:For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100Book: Take Life by the Helm by Doug Nielsen https://a.co/d/fbs3GxtWild at Heart by John EldredgeUnhooked by Jason CoombsSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailDropping the Pose Is Where Healing Starts.I used to think most men were struggling with behavior.But a lot of the time, they’re struggling with hiding.In Part 2 of the Warrior Heart series, I sit down with Duane Crabtree, Executive Director of Warrior Heart, to talk about the mask men wear and why most of us don’t even see it.What looks like confidence is often fear.What looks like strength is often self-protection.We talk about porn, people-pleasing, compulsive behaviors, and the quiet search for validation that drives so many men.We also get practical about what it means to fight for your beauty.Not with grand gestures.With presence, safety, and emotional intimacy.This episode is for men who are tired of performing.And for women who want to understand what’s really happening behind the silence.In this episode, you’ll hear:What “the poser” is and why it hides in plain sightThe two questions every man is asking and why taking them to people keeps him stuckHow fatherlessness shapes every man, even with a good dadWhat women actually need and how it differs from what men assumeSimple ways to battle for her heart without slipping back into the poseA sacred moment of brotherhood and grief that changed how I showed up for my familyThis is Part 2 of 3.If Part 1 opened the door to identity, this one shows what happens when a man finally stops faking it.For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100Support the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailRecovery doesn’t end when you get sober.For many men, the real work starts after the crisis passes.In Episode 40 of Get Unhooked, Jason Coombs shares why long-term sobriety still isn’t the same as emotional and spiritual freedom. After years in recovery, he found a new layer of healing through Warrior Heart Bootcamp, a three-day, phone-free men’s retreat designed to help men reconnect with God, brotherhood, and their true identity.This conversation is a window into the male heart.And it’s not just for men.Women will better understand the silent weight many men carry, the fears they rarely voice, and why safety and vulnerability matter so much in lasting recovery. You’ll also meet Chris Bennett, known as the “Hulk of Hope,” whose story of shame, fatherlessness, and transformation became a turning point not only for him, but for his marriage and family.This is Part 1 of a 3-part series on identity, healing, and what happens when men stop performing and start getting honest.In this episode, we cover:Why sobriety can plateau without deeper inner workThe vow of silence and why solitude changes menThe three core desires of a man’s heart: battle, adventure, beautyFather wounds, shame agreements, and the search for validationWhat creates real safety for vulnerability in marriageTo close this episode with Chris and Autumn Bennett, I want to give you a clear path forward. If something in their story stirred hope, conviction, or even discomfort, pay attention to that. Those are often the signals that real change is available, if you are willing to take the next right step.Listen or share the episode here: https://share.transistor.fm/s/35eda14eIf you want to connect with Chris Bennett and explore his coaching services: https://chrisbennettcoaching.com/To learn more about the men’s Warrior Heart Bootcamp: https://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100And if you want to explore additional resources and the Unashamed Unafraid community: https://unashamedunafraid.com/Thank you for listening to Get Unhooked. If this conversation helped you, share it with someone you care about, and remember: you do not need a perfect plan. You just need to take the next right step.Support the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailOn day 73 of sobriety, Jason Coombs was standing outside a hardware store in Salt Lake City wearing an apron and grilling bratwursts for minimum wage.He was trying not to be seen.The shame was loud.Then one conversation flipped the script and launched a new life built on purpose, service, and usefulness.In this episode, Jason shares the exact moment he stopped treating sobriety like the finish line and started living recovery as a daily decision. We talk about how relapse patterns usually begin with emotions long before substances, how one simple question can interrupt the spiral, and why purpose shows up in the process, not after everything is fixed.This is for anyone rebuilding after relapse, walking through recovery, or loving someone who is.Episode Highlights (timestamps)[00:00:31] Introduction: Beyond Sobriety to Transcendence[00:01:25] The Hot Dog Stand Reality Check[00:02:43] The Ego Death Moment[00:04:30] Recognizing the Relapse Pattern[00:05:22] The Serenity Prayer in Action[00:07:01] The Conversation That Changed Everything[00:08:11] Discovering Purpose Through Usefulness[00:10:23] The Tree-Cutting Metaphor[00:12:12] What Can You Change Right Now?[00:13:40] Stepping Stones of Purpose[00:15:21] When Work Becomes Play[00:17:07] Purpose Happens in the Process[00:19:20] Transcendence Is a Decision, Not a Destination[00:23:24] Sharing Your Story With WisdomJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan Mail📢 We’re re-releasing our second most downloaded episode of the year — and for good reason.Why don’t our loved ones listen — even when we know they’re hurting? In this powerful solo episode, Jason Coombs, host of The Get Unhooked Podcast, reveals the surprising truth:👉 It’s not about the right words — it’s about the right connection.With raw stories, faith-driven insights, and actionable tools, Jason breaks down how families can stop chasing control and start building real influence through trust and rapport. You’ll learn how to create safety, reduce shame, and become the kind of person your loved one can actually hear.What you’ll walk away with:The difference between trust and rapport — and why it mattersHow to use the PACE method (Partnership, Acceptance, Compassion, Empowerment)Jason’s story of helping a pregnant, homeless loved one detox on his couchThe right way to respond to relapseHow faith, not fear, becomes the foundation for influenceWhether you’re supporting someone in addiction or navigating emotional sobriety yourself, this episode is a guide to transforming conversations, restoring connection, and becoming a healing presence in the chaos.🎧 Links & Resources:🔗 Listen to Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or find it on Amazon🏡 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com🙏 Connect deeper with the podcast community at www.liveunhooked.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen Bree Crabtree’s husband, Jeff, got sober, she thought their marriage might finally be okay. But behind closed doors, she was planning to leave him. What happened next turned both their lives — and recovery journeys — upside down.In this unforgettable conversation, Jeff and Bree open up about the messy, nonlinear path of healing, the identity crisis families face after addiction, and the spiritual and emotional work that saved their marriage after sobriety.Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or are navigating your own personal transformation — this episode will challenge, comfort, and inspire you.Why listeners couldn’t stop sharing this one:Bree’s raw confession: “I couldn’t trust his sobriety for years…”The moment Jeff responded to her divorce request — with total surrenderThe daily habits that rebuilt their trust and changed everythingHow they turned pain into purpose with their business, Lighthouse TattooDon’t miss what thousands have called the most honest, hope-filled conversation on recovery this year.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan Mail“Want to Start the New Year with Purpose? It Begins with How You Finish This One”As the year winds down, it’s easy to focus on what didn’t get done. But what if you could finish with peace — and start the new year with purpose?In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares a powerful, faith-fueled reflection and goal-setting process to help you get honest without shame, celebrate victories no one else saw, and partner with God to co-create a life that truly aligns.Whether you’re in recovery or supporting someone who is, this 5-step framework will help you reflect with grace and move forward with clarity, calm, and conviction.What You’ll Learn:A 5-step reflection process for growth, not guiltWhy emotional honesty leads to emotional sobrietyThe power of small wins (that no one claps for but matter most)A faith-first approach to setting meaningful goalsHow to use the “rocks vs. gravel” principle to prioritize what mattersWhy Seemingly Unimportant Decisions (SUDs) are anything butTime-Stamps:[01:00] 5-step year-end reflection[04:10] Redefining victory in recovery & life[12:49] Emotional honesty = Emotional sobriety[16:55] The “big rocks” approach to planning[24:41] The V-L-G method: Victory, Lesson, Gratitude[30:08] Why daily choices matter more than resolutionsKey Quote:“It’s not the bears in the forest that take us out. It’s the ants at the picnic.” — AA WisdomMentioned in This Episode:Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover by Jason CoombsThe Emotional Raincoat journaling toolLearn more at brickhouserecovery.comPerfect For:Individuals in recovery ready for a fresh startFamilies supporting someone in addictionFaith-based listeners who want more than surface-level goalsAnyone who’s tired of resolutions that don’t stick👉 If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, share it, and leave a review — it helps others Get Unhooked.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailThe Moment Jason Finally Believed He Could Recover—And What Got Him ThereWhat does it take to believe in a future you can’t see?In this heartfelt episode, Jason Coombs shares the exact moment something shifted inside him—when someone else’s belief lit a spark that he couldn’t find on his own. Pulled straight from Chapter 11 of his book Unhooked, Jason recounts a powerful story of surrender, grace, and the kind of hope that doesn’t wait to be felt—it’s chosen, one painful step at a time.If you’ve ever tried everything to help someone you love recover… and you’re still not okay… this episode is your lifeline.Inside This Episode:A game-changing moment five weeks into treatmentWhy real hope is not wishful thinking—it’s practicalThe 3 components of hope (and how to activate them)What it means to model recovery even when they’re not readyHow surrender can look like strength, not giving upYou can’t control their choices. But you can find peace. And it starts with choosing hope—even when it feels impossible.🎧 Listen now and discover what got Jason through his darkest moment—and how it can get you through yours.For those seeking additional support, Jason's book "Unhooked" is available on Audible and Amazon, and Brick House Recovery services can be found at brickhouserecovery.com.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhat if the best way to love them... is to let them fall?You’ve begged. You’ve prayed. You’ve bailed them out—again. And still, they won’t change. But what if you’ve been fighting the wrong battle?In this unforgettable episode, Jason shares the moment that finally shattered his resistance during his fifth treatment attempt—and it wasn’t because someone “fixed” him. It was because everyone stopped trying.Discover how:A peer’s raw confrontation cut deeper than any therapyA counselor’s simple question flipped the script: “What are you willing to do for your sobriety?”His parents’ refusal to rescue him became the greatest act of loveA letter to God—filled with rage—broke open a spiritual healing he didn’t know he neededIf you're tired of doing everything for them… maybe it’s time to do something for you.🎙️ Episode 34: The Rules That Broke Me Open This one might hurt. But it might also heal.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 33: Drink Like a Gentleman? Understanding Relapse and Emotional SobrietyRelapse doesn’t always begin with a needle or a pill—it often starts with a lie.In this raw and revealing episode, Jason Coombs shares the gripping story behind his most devastating relapse, just days after graduating drug court. What should have been a victory lap became the gateway to a nine-month spiral of cocaine, heroin, and despair. Based on Chapter 33 of his book Unhooked, this episode breaks down the deceptive nature of “milestones,” the dangerous idea of “drinking like a gentleman,” and why emotional sobriety matters just as much—if not more—than physical sobriety.Whether you’re walking alongside an addicted loved one or navigating your own recovery, this episode offers deep insight into the relapse cycle, emotional ambivalence, and the hidden inner battles that can derail even the most determined individuals.In this episode:Jason’s relapse after drug court graduation and why milestones can be misleadingHow rationalizations like “drugs were the problem, not alcohol” pave the road to relapseThe concept of emotional sobriety—and why clean time isn’t the whole pictureWhat families need to understand about the Stages of Change and relapse“Grace’s” Christmas Eve relapse and how it helped her commit to sobrietyThe Four C’s of family awareness and Seven Steps to SurrenderHow to love someone without losing yourself in their chaosAnd the moment of divine intervention that changed everythingIf you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did they relapse?” or felt paralyzed by fear, guilt, or confusion, this episode is for you.Grab Jason’s book Unhooked on Amazon or Audible.Learn more about Brick House Recovery at brickhouserecovery.com.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode, Jason unpacks one of the most transformative frameworks for families who love someone struggling with addiction—and feel like nothing they’ve tried is working. If you’ve ever said “Why don’t they just stop?” or found yourself rescuing your loved one (again) despite your best intentions, this episode is for you.Jason walks you through:What’s really happening in the addicted brain (and why logic doesn’t work)How to spot the Stages of Change—and why it mattersWhy “just one area of resistance” can derail the whole recovery processHow to set boundaries without abandoning your heartThe difference between enabling and empoweringWhat it means to take your life back... even if your loved one isn’t readyThis episode is especially powerful for the family member who’s exhausted, discouraged, and wondering if hope is even still possible. It is.📌 Highlights:[00:31] Reconsidering what you think you know about addiction[04:18] The "lightbulb moment" from Jason’s client and mentor story[07:03] The Stages of Change explained (in real language)[21:24] Why rescuing blocks internal motivation[25:35] Practicing “Vitamin N” (No) and emotional integrity[30:07] Jason’s 30-minute “vow of silence” challenge to reconnect with your larger story🔑 Key Takeaway: Natural consequences aren’t punishment—they’re one of the only things strong enough to wake up a brain that’s been hijacked by addiction. When you stop rescuing and start aligning with reality, you not only create space for their transformation—you start experiencing your own.💬 Listener Love: “This episode helped me realize I’ve been stuck in my own stage of change around enabling. It gave me permission to let go, and a framework to do it with peace.” —Podcast listener📘 Resources:Read Jason’s book Unhooked on Amazon or listen on AudibleExplore the Live Unhooked experience at brickhouserecovery.comJoin the Brick House Recovery community for ongoing support and toolsJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this raw and deeply personal episode, Jason Coombs shares the sacred moment that changed the trajectory of his life—from self-destruction in active addiction to becoming a man with purpose. Through the emotional lens of his son Nathan’s birth, Jason unpacks the concept of “the gift of volition”—that pivotal shift when internal motivation finally replaces external pressure.Whether you’re someone struggling with addiction or a family member watching someone you love spiral, this episode will move you. You’ll hear the story of a man who relapsed on his way to a family trip, got a text that he was going to be a father, and spiraled deeper before finally choosing a new path. A path rooted not in fear, but in purpose.You’ll learn why love alone isn’t enough to save someone—and why families can’t force change, but they can prepare the soil for it. Jason offers profound insight into the power of spiritual surrender, the role of purpose in healing shame, and how relapse isn’t failure—it’s part of the process for many.This isn’t just a story about addiction. It’s a story about transformation. It’s for anyone clinging to the hope that something more is possible.Episode Highlights:The Bear Lake relapse and the birth of internal conflictThe life-altering text message: “She’s pregnant—and the baby is yours”The NICU visit that sparked a sacred shiftWhat Jason means by “the gift of volition” and why it’s the key to lasting changeWhy family love matters—but isn’t the whole equationFinding God’s unconditional love through fatherhoodWhy relapse doesn’t mean failure—it means the person is still in processA powerful closing metaphor: Why families are farmers, not saviorsIf you’re a family member who’s tried everything to help someone get sober—this episode is for you. And if you’re struggling yourself, it’s a reminder that if you’re still breathing, there’s still hope.📘 Get Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon🌐 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan Mail🎙️ Episode 30: Silencing the Inner Critic – Understanding the Addict VoiceIn this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Jason Coombs reflects on the one-year anniversary of his father’s passing—and what emerges is a raw, real conversation about one of addiction’s most cunning enemies: the inner critic, or what Jason calls the “addict voice.”Families often wonder: Why can’t they just stop? Why don’t they believe us when we tell them they’re enough? This episode offers real answers—and a powerful framework for recognizing how internalized shame and toxic self-talk keep people stuck in destructive cycles, even when they want to change.Jason draws from his own recovery journey, his Iron Man training, and Chapter 7 of his book Unhooked to reveal how the addict voice operates like Gollum—manipulative, believable, and brutally loud—while the real self is quiet, kind, and often drowned out. Whether you’re someone struggling with addiction or a loved one who feels helpless on the sidelines, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on beneath the surface.🔑 What You’ll Learn:Why the addict voice is so believable—and how to spot itWhat well-meaning “encouragement” often misses (and what actually helps)The life-changing question that stopped Jason in his tracks: “If I talked to you the way you talk to yourself, would we be friends?”A Hindu practice called Genshai—and how it can change everythingHow mirror affirmations, cold plunges, and encouraging others can actually rewire your brain👪 For families: This episode will help you stop spinning your wheels trying to fix what’s not broken in you. Learn how to stop rescuing and start reconnecting—so you can influence from a place of peace, not panic.👤 For individuals: If your own self-talk has become a weapon, Jason gives you practical, compassionate tools to stop the spiral and start healing.💡 Big takeaway: The inner critic drains energy. Encouragement—even to yourself—creates strength. Whether you’re in recovery, supporting someone who is, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you tools to silence the voice that says you’re not enough…and finally hear the one that’s been whispering truth all along.📚 Want to go deeper? Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Amazon and Audible. For more resources or to find support for your family or loved one, visit brickhouserecovery.comSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 29 – When Loving Them Means Letting Them Fall Jason on why boundaries aren’t rejection—they’re redemption.What if the most loving thing you can do… is let go?In this episode, Jason Coombs unpacks one of the hardest lessons in family recovery: sometimes love means stepping back and allowing natural consequences to run their course. Sharing his own story of homelessness, addiction, and the night everything broke open, Jason explains why rock bottom—while painful—is often the starting point for real transformation.You’ll hear:Why rescuing can prolong addictionThe truth about “the gift of desperation”How boundaries create space for breakthroughA simple text that pierced through the darknessWhat families can do when they feel powerlessIf you’ve ever wrestled with when to step in and when to let go—this episode will help you find clarity, courage, and hope.📕 Want more? Get Jason’s book “Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover” on Amazon or Audible.🌐 Visit brickhouserecovery.com to learn more.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen addiction takes control, it doesn’t just destroy the person using — it pulls everyone around them into the chaos. In this powerful episode, Jason Coombs explains the spiral — that heartbreaking stage when addiction hijacks logic, love, and trust — and shows families how to stop getting dragged down with it.If you’ve ever felt torn between helping and enabling, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to step back without giving up. Jason shares practical tools for detaching with love, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your own peace while your loved one finds their bottom.In this episode:Why promises keep breaking — and what’s really happening in the brainHow to recognize when you’re getting pulled into the spiralThe truth about rescuing: why helping often hurtsThe “Emotional Raincoat” — a mindset that lets you stay loving without losing yourselfWhat it means to be powerless over them but powerful over youIf you’re exhausted from trying to fix someone else’s addiction, this episode will show you how to find peace, strength, and hope — even when they’re still in the spiral.👉 Resources:Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com.If you or someone you love is in crisis, call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailThe Essential Ingredient — Why Consequences Are the Most Loving Thing You Can DoDescription:What if the most loving thing you could do for your addicted loved one… is let them feel pain?In this powerful episode, Jason Coombs opens Chapter 4 of The Brick House Way and pulls no punches: without consequences, there is no change. Families often believe love means rescuing, softening the blow, or giving one more chance. But those well-meaning instincts? They may be keeping your loved one sick.Inside this episode:Jason’s personal story of hitting bottom—prison, homelessness, and losing everythingWhy “change happens at the speed of pain”The Get Off the Beach metaphor that changed everything for his parentsHow rescuing rewires the brain to expect escape instead of growthWhy boundaries aren’t punishment—they’re protectionSimple boundary examples families can set todayWhether you’re a parent, spouse, or friend, this episode will challenge you to rethink what real love looks like in the face of addiction. Because sometimes love sounds like:“I won’t stop you from facing the weight of your choices… but I’ll still be here when you’re ready to rise.”Resources:Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.Explore support options at brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 26: "The 4 Questions That Can Unhook You from Obsession"If your loved one’s addiction has taken over your thoughts, your sleep, and your sanity — this episode is for you. Learn the four simple questions that can free you from mental obsession and restore your peace. Listen to Episode 26 of Get Unhooked now, wherever you get your podcasts.PODCAST DESCRIPTIONIt’s not just their addiction keeping you up at night — it’s your thoughts about it.In this mind-opening episode of Get Unhooked, Jason Coombs introduces Byron Katie’s transformative framework The Work — four powerful questions that can help you stop spiraling in fear, guilt, and “what ifs.”Whether you're obsessively tracking your loved one’s behavior, stuck in a loop of self-blame, or emotionally drowning in their addiction, these four questions can help you break free — without abandoning love or hope.Inside the episode:The number one thought that traps families in suffering — and how to flip itHow to stop trying to control what you can’t (and start healing what you can)What “radical acceptance” actually means — and why it’s not giving upThe mindset shift that turns fear into calm, chaos into clarityA personal story that shows how accepting what is can change everythingThis episode is a must-listen for anyone caught in the exhausting cycle of fixing, pleading, and over-functioning. If you’ve tried everything and still feel stuck, start here.The 4 Questions That Can Unhook You from Obsession You can’t control their addiction. But you can learn to live free — no matter what they do.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 25: Why They Won’t Listen (And How to Fix It)“People don’t recover in programs—they recover in relationships.”You can’t help someone who doesn’t feel safe with you.In this episode, Jason Coombs reveals the real reason your loved one may resist change—even when the consequences are obvious. Spoiler: It’s not about logic, advice, or control. It’s about what the relationship feels like.Programs don’t change people. Trust and connection do. Jason shares why rapport opens the door to healing—and trust keeps it open long enough for change to walk through.Whether you’re watching your loved one spiral, or trying to rebuild from another relapse, this episode gives you a new way to engage that actually works.What You’ll Learn:✔️ The difference between trust and rapport (and why you need both) ✔️ How the PACE method helps you build influence without enabling ✔️ The story of Amanda: a real-life example of connection over control ✔️ How to stop reacting in fear—and start responding with strength ✔️ Why relapse doesn’t mean failure (and what it can mean) ✔️ Practical daily habits that rebuild emotional safety ✔️ What to say when they don’t want to talk📣 Free Webclass for Families:How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover—Without Wasting Another Dime on What Doesn’t Work If you’ve tried everything and nothing is working, this is for you. Learn what actually helps—and what quietly sabotages recovery (even with the best intentions). ➡️ Register at www.liveunhooked.com📚 Resources:Jason’s book: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover – on Amazon or AudibleLearn more about faith-based recovery and support at www.BrickHouseRecovery.comSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailRegister for Warrior Heart Bootcamp // Use Code UNHOOKED100 for $100 off!🎙 Episode 24 — Why They Keep Slipping: The One Truth Families Miss About RelapseYou watched them take the first step. You hoped this time would be different. Then out of nowhere… they slipped again. Why?In this eye-opening episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs unpacks the most overlooked truth about relapse — and why families so often misread what’s really happening when their loved one "falls off track."You'll learn:What relapse actually means in the recovery processWhy your loved one may be in two different stages of change at the same timeHow ambivalence (not defiance) drives the maddening back-and-forth behaviorAnd the one shift families can make that changes everythingJason also shares raw personal stories — including how he ignored finances and gained 90 pounds after getting sober — to show how recovery impacts all eight life domains, not just substance use.If you’ve been caught in the cycle of hope, disappointment, and confusion, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and the tools to finally support your loved one without losing yourself in the process.👉 This is the episode every family needs to hear.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 23: Hyper Sensitive? The Secret to Reframe Emotional Vulnerability to Heal From AddictionWhat if the trait you’ve spent years hiding could actually be your greatest strength?In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares how hypersensitivity—often seen as a flaw—can become a powerful tool for healing, empathy, and connection. Through his own story of addiction and recovery, Jason shows how emotional sensitivity is not a weakness to overcome but a superpower to embrace.Highlights include:Why sensitivity often leads to perfectionism and people-pleasingHow addiction is less about rebellion and more about seeking reliefThe “allergy analogy” that reframes addiction without shame or judgmentReflection questions for families to better understand what addiction solves for their loved one—and for themselvesJason’s journey is a reminder that recovery begins with honesty, not perfection. If you or your family have ever felt “too sensitive,” this episode will help you see that the very thing you’ve been running from might be the key to lasting transformation.📘 For deeper insights, check out Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon.🌐 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 22: “What Hooked Him?” The Hidden Moment That Starts the Addiction SpiralWhat if the addiction didn’t start with a party, a choice, or even curiosity—but with a moment his brain responded differently than yours would have?In this raw and eye-opening episode, Jason Coombs breaks down “the hook”—the invisible turning point when substance use becomes something much more powerful and dangerous. He opens up about his own experience, the voice inside that addicts wrestle with, and why some people can walk away after using… while others get trapped instantly.Whether you’re a mother, spouse, or loved one desperate to understand what happened to him, this episode will give you a new lens. You’ll learn:What “the hook” actually is—and why it’s not about willpowerThe internal battle between the addict voice and the rational mindHow mental health issues like ADHD and anxiety make addiction more likelyWhy some people spiral faster—and how to spot the signs earlyHow empathy (not enabling) becomes the turning point for healingIf you’ve ever asked yourself, “What happened to him?”—this is your answer.Featuring tools and insights from Jason’s book Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover, and his work at Brick House Recovery.https://a.co/d/g2LT2phListen now, and share with someone who feels lost and alone in their loved one’s addiction.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen addiction takes hold of someone you love, it can feel like your whole life is consumed with fear, anxiety, and constant exhaustion. In this episode, Jason Coombs shares how one simple but powerful tool—a daily affirmation—can transform the way you respond to the chaos of addiction in your family.Drawing from his own journey through depression during his wife’s cancer battle, Jason reveals how morning routines and affirmations helped him rebuild resilience, restore peace, and show up differently for the people he loves. Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or family member walking alongside an addicted loved one, these practices can help you reclaim your strength and hope.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:[00:30] The Miracle Morning framework for rising above daily challenges[04:44] The SAVERS method: six daily practices for mental wellness[08:08] How the Ideal Life Vision Course reshaped Jason’s future[14:24] Seven affirmations for seven days of intentional living[17:29] The meta-affirmation: I am healing[18:02] A question that will change how you speak to yourself[20:32] Understanding “Genshai” — never making anyone feel small (including yourself)[22:49] How to receive compliments with gratitude instead of deflection[25:32] Why authentic communication builds trust with addicted loved onesPractical Takeaways for Families:Start small: 10 minutes of silence, affirmations, or journaling each morningUse the seven-day affirmation framework to reset your mindsetTry the mirror exercise to shift your self-talkPractice Genshai—treat yourself and others in ways that never make anyone feel smallEven when your loved one isn’t ready for recovery, you can find healing, peace, and strength for yourself. As Jason reminds us: “The future is bright and beautiful when we commit to daily practices that align us with our highest selves.”📘 Grab Jason’s book Unhooked at https://a.co/d/c357XBzwww.brickhouserecovery.com for more tools and resources.📖 Explore Dan McCormick’s book and affirmation framework at affirmiam.com.🎓 Register for Jason’s free web class at www.livunhooked.com to learn how to break free from the cycle of addiction in your familyJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailAfter 31 years without a drink, bestselling author and recovery coach Arlina Allen realized something powerful: sobriety alone doesn’t guarantee freedom.In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs sits down with Arlina to explore what recovery really means beyond abstinence. Arlina shares her journey of hitting bottom at 25, the tough love that saved her, and the simple daily practices that keep her grounded today. Together, they unpack why the 12 steps are so often misunderstood, why emotional sobriety matters just as much as physical sobriety, and how to move from merely surviving to truly living.What you’ll learn in this conversation:Why abstinence doesn’t automatically equal recoveryThe role of mentors and hope in long-term healingHow “I statements” can transform relationshipsPractical routines that keep recovery sustainable (without perfectionism)The real gift of emotional sobriety—and why it matters for families, tooAbout Arlina Allen: Arlina is a Certified Coach, bestselling author of The 12-Step Guide for Skeptics, and host of The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast. She is also the founder of Sober Life School, where she helps people achieve sobriety and create lives they love. With 30 years of research and personal experience, Arlina brings deep insight to the process of transformation. Originally from Sunnyvale, CA, she now lives in Idaho with her husband of 30 years, their two sons, and their silly English Bulldog, Teddy.Whether you’re in recovery yourself or love someone who is, this episode is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical takeaways you can start using right away.👉 Ready to go deeper? Register for Jason’s free webclass for families and individuals at www.liveunhooked.com📍 Learn more at the12stepguideforskeptics.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen Faith Feels Forced, Recovery Shuts Down—Here’s What Works InsteadFamilies often hear that spirituality is essential for recovery—but what happens when your loved one resists it at every turn? In this heartfelt episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares how his own hardened ego and spiritual resistance nearly cost him his life in treatment. What finally broke through wasn’t pressure, lectures, or rules—it was unconditional love.Jason recounts his fifth attempt at treatment, where pride, shame, and defiance collided with a group that refused to let ego poison recovery. At the breaking point, he packed his bags to leave—but an unexpected moment of divine intervention stopped him. What followed was a vision that revealed God’s love in a way he could finally receive.For families, this story offers a crucial insight: faith cannot be forced, but it can be nurtured. Validation, patience, and steady boundaries become the soil where a spiritual awakening can finally take root.Episode Highlights[00:01:18] Treatment as a Mirror – Why group living exposes hidden defenses and becomes a training ground for real life.[00:05:01] Ego vs. Willingness – Entering treatment arrogant, rule-breaking, and masking fear with pride.[00:07:48] Protecting the Culture of Recovery – How Jason’s peers (including his brother) confronted his ego head-on.[00:11:36] The Fork in the Road – Packed and ready to leave, Jason faces divine intervention that keeps him in treatment.[00:16:33] Spiritual Anorexia – Why “force-feeding faith” doesn’t work, and the power of gentle encouragement.[00:18:28] A Vision of Nathan’s Face – The breakthrough that revealed God’s unconditional love.[00:21:40] Hope for Families – Trusting that God’s providence is always at work, even when change feels delayed.Key Takeaways for FamiliesFaith can’t be forced: Pushing spiritual conversations often makes resistance stronger.Validation melts walls: Simple acknowledgment of where your loved one is can open doors pressure never will.Ego is fear in disguise: What looks like arrogance often masks shame and insecurity.Secrets keep people sick: Encourage safe spaces for honesty and truth.Boundaries create space for growth: Small, consistent commitments can nurture lasting transformation.ClosingJason’s story reminds families that spirituality isn’t about coercion—it’s about creating the conditions where God’s love can be received in His timing. Families can’t force awakening, but they can nurture it by validating, holding boundaries, and trusting that God is already at work.For more encouragement, read Jason’s book Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover (Amazon & Audible) and find family support resources at brickhouserecovery.com.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 18: “The Night I Packed My Bags to Relapse… and the Secret That Kept Me Sober”In Episode 18 of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs takes listeners back to his fifth and final treatment center experience at age 31. This episode reveals the pivotal moment that changed everything - a moment balanced precariously between walking away from recovery forever and embracing the uncomfortable truth that would save his life.Episode Highlights[00:27] Jason introduces the person-centered approach and the "oxygen mask" principle [03:43] Defining success as earning respect and trust from those closest to you [05:39] The reality of being in his fifth treatment center with previous failures [08:49] The dangerous mindset of thinking you have "treatment figured out" [13:48] The miraculous moment of falling asleep instead of leaving treatment [15:08] Kris's direct confrontation: "You gotta feel it to heal it" [16:16] The two non-negotiable requirements to stay in treatmentThe Moment Everything ChangedJason's story reaches its climax at what he calls "the jumping off point" - that critical moment where addiction either claims another victim or loses its grip forever. After four failed treatment attempts, Jason arrived at his final program thinking he had mastered the art of appearing compliant while remaining unchanged.But this treatment center operated differently. The staff refused to coddle or enable. They wouldn't co-sign his manipulation tactics. Most importantly, they challenged him to step outside his comfort zone.The pivotal night arrived when Jason packed his belongings in anger, ready to walk 20-30 miles downtown for drugs. What happened next defies logical explanation - he simply fell asleep. "I don't even remember thinking about falling asleep," Jason reflects. "The reality is it may have well has been and probably was [divine intervention] because I don't remember thinking about falling asleep."The Power of Therapeutic ConfrontationUpon waking, Jason encountered Kris, a counselor who would deliver the message that changed his trajectory. Her approach wasn't gentle or accommodating. Instead, she offered stark clarity:"I could tell you're struggling, but I want you to feel it. In fact, you have to. You gotta feel it. You gotta heal it. Don't run from your emotions anymore."Kris presented Jason with two simple requirements if he wanted to stay:Follow the rulesMake amends to the patients he had wrongedThese weren't suggestions or therapeutic recommendations. They were boundaries - clear, firm, and non-negotiable. Kris risked losing a client and the associated revenue, but she prioritized Jason's genuine recovery over financial considerations.The Speed of Change and PainJason introduces a fundamental principle that governs transformation: "We change at the speed of pain." This concept explaiJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailEpisode 17: She Planned to Leave Him After Sobriety—Then This Happened…with Jeff & Bree Crabtree.  Recovery doesn’t end at sobriety—it begins there. In this raw, hope-filled episode, Jeff and Bree Crabtree return to share what happens after the first year, after the promises, and after the chaos settles… or doesn’t.🔹 Bree opens up about the moment she planned to leave Jeff—even after three years sober.🔹 Jeff reveals the daily routines that helped him transcend recovery “ceilings.”🔹 Together, they unpack how trust, communication, and faith transformed their marriage, family, and even their business.🎯 This episode isn’t just for individuals in recovery—it’s for families walking through the long game of healing.⏱️ Episode Highlights:[00:31] Follow-up with Jeff & Bree[04:59] Breaking through recovery plateaus[12:58] Bree’s moment of truth: “I was going to leave him.”[21:15] The long road to rebuilding trust[34:03] The turning point at 3 years sober[40:59] Their daily spiritual + recovery routines[51:06] How recovery influences their tattoo business✨ Whether you’re married to someone in recovery or navigating your own healing, this episode gives tangible hope—and a reality check.📍 Jeff & Bree’s business:Lighthouse Tattoo | Boise, IdahoWebsite: lighthousetattooidaho.comInstagram: @lighthousetattoo.idEmail: [email protected]📚 Get Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon🌐 More resources: brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailRewind 90 days ago to when I Couldn’t Get  Out of My Funk—Until I Did This One ThingI was stuck. Stuck in compulsive overeating. Stuck in brain fog. Stuck in a post-surgery slump. And with the Ironman on the horizon, I knew something had to change.In this episode, I walk you through my first-ever 3-day fast—from the mental battles on day one to the surprising spiritual clarity on day three. This wasn’t just a detox. It was a wake-up call that reset my body, mind, and soul.If you’re feeling stuck in your own life, this might be the spark you need.➡️ Listen in and find out how doing less helped me find more.If you’re ready to break free from the cycles keeping you stuck—whether it’s with food, substances, or just the noise of life—I want to invite you to go deeper.Join me for a free webclass at liveunhooked.com, where I walk you through the same framework I use at Brick House Recovery to help people not only get sober—but stay unhooked for good. This is the deeper work that transforms relapse into lasting change.Also, if you haven’t already, check out my book Unhooked—it’s available on Audible and Amazon. And if you or a loved one are looking for treatment or support, visit us at brickhouserecovery.com.💡 Short Description for the WebclassDiscover how to stop enabling addiction and start creating real, lasting change. In this free webclass, Jason Coombs shares the proven framework behind The Brick House Way and the “Get Unhooked” system to help individuals and families experience breakthrough—not burnout.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Jason Coombs shares the exact 3-step framework that finally brought peace to his family—and has helped countless others stop the cycle of enabling, anxiety, and burnout.Through powerful stories, practical tools, and the unforgettable “get off the beach” metaphor, you’ll learn how to:✅ Recognize and exit the B-E-A-C-H cycle (Blame, Enabling, Anxiety, Control, Hopelessness)✅ Support your loved one without sacrificing your own well-being✅ Build a daily “emotional raincoat” to protect your peace✅ Understand the six stages of change and why your efforts keep backfiring✅ Apply the 3 phases of surrender when nothing seems to be workingThis episode features Jason’s personal story, a raw family moment involving his cousin Amanda, and practical tools your family can use starting today.If you’re exhausted, discouraged, or wondering if anything will ever change—this episode might be your turning point.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhy does helping hurt? In this episode, Jason Coombs unpacks the 3 common family mistakes—enabling, rescuing, and bargaining—and reveals the system that finally brought peace to his home. Hear raw stories from his mom and Archie Swenson, and discover how the Live Unhooked Family System™ helps families move from chaos to clarity.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen your loved one relapses, it feels like the ground gives way beneath you—again. You might wonder: Did we miss something? Did we fail? Is there any hope left? In this episode of Get Unhooked for Families, we challenge the panic and shame that so often accompany relapse and offer a new lens to see what it really means.You’ll hear how relapse isn’t the end—it’s often the turning point. Jason and the team explore how relapse can resolve ambivalence, why it’s a natural (though painful) part of the process, and how families can respond in a way that promotes healing, not control.If you’re feeling stuck, exhausted, or defeated, this episode will help you step off the emotional rollercoaster—and step into peace, clarity, and purpose.Highlights Include:The unexpected value of relapse on the path to recoveryTwo surrender processes: the individual’s and the family’sWhy doing “everything right” doesn’t always bring the results you hoped forWhat to celebrate (even now), and what to let go ofThe difference between boundaries and control—with real-world examples🎧 Listen in to find out why your response matters more than you think—and how to find peace even when things feel messy.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailDid you know that recovery isn’t just about the person struggling—it can ripple through and heal an entire family?Most families facing addiction feel heartbreak, frustration, and helplessness. What if the path to healing starts with one person—and the lessons learned go far beyond sobriety?In this episode, you will:Discover the story of the Newport Beach weekend that changed Jason’s relationship with his dad and familyHear how one person’s commitment to recovery and boundaries can inspire hope for everyone involvedLearn the 10 most powerful recovery tips Jason gives anyone in early sobriety—plus how families can support lasting changeUnderstand why emotional sobriety, empathy, and small daily decisions are at the heart of real healingGet practical wisdom on overcoming shame, negative self-talk, and the challenges of rebuilding trust___Quick Preview of Jason’s Top 10 Recovery Tips:Stick with the winners: Surround yourself with people who are growing and honest.Watch your SUDs: Notice the “seemingly unimportant decisions” that can trigger setbacks.Practice Gen Shy: Never treat anyone—including yourself—in a way that makes them feel small.For it is in giving that we receive: Service to others is key.Practice Namaste: Honor the divine within yourself and others.Convalescence: Give yourself time to truly heal.Feel it to heal it: Allow yourself to experience and process emotions.Chase emotional sobriety: Balance neglected areas of your life.Find new fishing holes: Keep your recovery fresh with new connections and experiences.What is to give light must endure burning: Growth comes through facing—and enduring—hardship.___If you’re a parent, sibling, or love someone in addiction, this episode is for you.Jason’s story is proof that healing is possible, hope is real, and you’re not alone.🎧 Scroll up ⬆️ and hit play now to learn how one person’s recovery can bring light to an entire family.Resources & Support:Free Webclass for Families: liveunhooked.com/familyFree Webclass for Individuals: liveunhooked.comJason’s Book: Unhooked (on Audible & Amazon)More recovery programs: brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan Mail“Can One Person’s Recovery Heal an Entire Family?” A Tribute to My Dad, and the Weekend That Changed EverythingEpisode Description: This episode is deeply personal. It’s more than a conversation—it’s a tribute to my father, Dr. Douglas Coombs, who was not only my dad, but my best friend. He graduated this life last summer, and I’m honored to share this recorded moment with him, alongside my sister Melissa Jones.Together, we talk about how addiction impacted our family from the inside out, and how healing became possible—not through quick fixes or ultimatums, but through boundaries, vulnerability, and the slow rebuilding of trust.You’ll hear about:The weekend in Newport Beach that changed everythingHow my dad and I reconnected after years of distanceWhat it really looks like to set boundaries that protect, not punishAnd how emotional sobriety can ripple through an entire family systemIf you’re a parent, a sibling, or someone who loves a person struggling with addiction, this episode will speak to the pain—and the possibility—of recovery that goes beyond the individual. My dad’s wisdom, humility, and quiet strength shaped my own journey. This is one way I get to honor that.Listen now on your favorite podcast platform or right here on YouTube.🎓 Free Webclass:For Families: www.liveunhooked.com/familyFor Individuals: www.liveunhooked.com/individual📚 More Resources: Grab my book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon Visit www.brickhouserecovery.com for addiction recovery programs and supportThis episode is for every family who’s ever held onto hope through heartbreak. I see you. And you’re not alone.Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Get Unhooked, we welcome Jeff and Bree—real-life warriors in recovery and marriage. Jeff shares his experience of hitting rock bottom, finding God, and rebuilding his life. Bree vulnerably walks us through the pain of loving an addict, and the spiritual and emotional journey she had to take to find her voice, her boundaries, and ultimately, herself.This is a conversation about surrender—not just to recovery, but to the process of becoming whole. Whether you're the one struggling or you love someone who is, this episode offers powerful perspective and encouragement.👉 Subscribe and share if this message speaks to you.🔗 Get Jason’s book Unhooked on Amazon or Audible🌐 Learn more: brickhouserecovery.comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailWhen a loved one struggles with addiction, it doesn’t just impact them—it shakes the entire family to its core. In this powerful episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs sits down with the real experts: mothers who have lived through the chaos, grief, and heartbreak of a child’s addiction journey.In their own honest, unfiltered words, these courageous mothers reveal what they wish they had known sooner—the mistakes they made, the boundaries they finally learned to set, and the powerful shift from enabling to true support.You'll hear raw reflections on:Facing the pain of "losing" the child they once knewOvercoming the guilt and shame that addiction brings to familiesLearning that real love sometimes means stepping back, not stepping inFinding peace even when their loved one’s path remains uncertainThe practical tools and mindset shifts that changed everythingIf you’re a parent, family member, or someone who loves an addict, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and empowered. You’re not alone. There’s a way forward—and it doesn’t require sacrificing your own sanity or happiness.🎯 Subscribe to the channel for more real conversations, practical strategies, and inspiration for families navigating addiction recovery.🔔 Join our community and access weekly coaching calls, resources, and Jason’s book Unhooked at BrickHouseRecovery.com.Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:06 - Facing painful questions about your child 6:33 - Counterintuitive parenting strategies 11:31 - Grieving the child you once knew 14:16 - When pride turns into painful honesty 19:49 - Emotional depletion and finding renewal 21:32 - What families truly wish for most 25:07 - How to connect with a support communityJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn this illuminating episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Combs interviews his mentor and "book whisperer" Bridget Cook-Burch about transforming personal experiences into powerful published works. As a New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestselling author, Bridget reveals the process of creating transformational books—from initial concept to final publication—while Jason shares insights from his own journey writing "Unhooked."Episode Highlights[04:01] Jason reflects on the various motivations behind writing a book, from professional credibility to changing lives[08:05] Bridget explains that great storytelling requires vulnerability: "In the darkness often lies the seeds of your greatest glory"[13:27] The critical importance of creating a timeline to see patterns and meaning in your life experiences[15:31] The powerful shift from writing for yourself to writing specifically for your readers[19:11] Bridget shares how author Melissa Moore wrote for one specific "avatar" yet reached countless others[32:05] Winston Churchill's quote about writing being a journey from "toy" to "tyrant" that you eventually "fling to the public"[44:01] Jason reveals how his book "Unhooked" helped parents who lost their son to an overdose find peace[51:33] The origin story behind Bridget's Inspired Writers Retreat and her promise to help others tell their storiesWriting for Your Avatar: The One Person Who NeedsYour MessageA critical shift occurs when writers move beyond self-expression to focus on serving readers. Jason describes his own breakthrough when reading "Millionaire Messenger" by Brendan Burchard:The Hero's Journey FrameworkBoth Jason and Bridget reference Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey as an essential structure for transformation stories.The Writing Timeline: A Churchill-Worthy WarningFor those expecting a quick process, Winston Churchill's quote offers sobering perspective:"To begin with, it's a toy, then an amusement, then it becomes a mistress, then it becomes a master, and then it becomes a tyrant. And in the last stage, just as you were about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster and fling him to the public."Jason candidly shares that his book appeared on his vision board for ten consecutive years before publication. Rather than being discouraging, this timeline allowed for deeper insights and experiences to inform the work.Action Steps for WritersCreate a personal timeline to identify patterns and meaning in your experiencesIdentify your specific "avatar"—the one person who needs your message mostWatch "Finding Joe" documentary to understand the hero's journey frameworkConsider reading "Aspire" by Kevin Hall for an example of layered storytellingStart with vulnerability rather than trying to appear perfectBegin writing sessions with inSupport the showJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailIn a compelling episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs celebrates 16 years of sobriety while revealing his proven three-step process for making critical decisions when supporting addicted loved ones. Through candid conversations with coaching session participants and reflections from his book "Unhooked," Jason provides a roadmap for families struggling with the complex terrain of addiction recovery.Episode HighlightsJason outlines his three-step decision-making process: research thoroughly, make the best decision possible, and seek spiritual guidanceJason emphasizes keeping a "personal revelation journal" to document insights and breakthroughsImportant reminder that addiction is a mental illness requiring treatment - "they're sick needing to get well, not bad needing to get good"Jason reflects on his 16-year sobriety journey that began March 19, 2009"Instead of looking for God's hand in our lives, look for his fingerprints" - finding guidance in seemingly small momentsThe Decision-Making Framework That Changes EverythingJason outlines a straightforward yet profound approach to making decisions when helping someone battling addiction:Research thoroughly – Weigh the costs, benefits, risks, and rewards of each optionMake the best decision possible with the information availableSeek spiritual guidance through prayer, asking for discernment if the chosen path aligns with divine willThe final key? Follow through on the course of action once determined.The Overlooked Power of Journaling Personal RevelationsJason emphasizes an essential practice for lasting recovery: maintaining a "personal revelation journal" to capture insights during moments of clarity."These calls aren't just a one hour of, 'okay, I feel better now. Now what?' Think of these calls as opening up the channels of light and love to heaven and to your higher power," Jason explains.He recommends:Writing "PR" (personal revelation) in margins to mark significant insightsReviewing past journals regularly to recognize patterns and growthRecording "aha moments" to reference during difficult timesFrom Selling Hot Dogs to Saving Lives: Jason's JourneyMarch 19, 2009 marks the beginning of Jason's sobriety journey. His path from selling hot dogs outside Home Depot to founding Brick House Recovery illustrates the unexpected ways recovery unfolds."At the time I was like, my whole life squandered and I'm starting over," Jason recalls of his early sobriety at 31. "I was comparing myself to others that I'd gone to school with that were on their fourth kid and were vice presidents in their comJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us Fan MailFear is a Lack of Mental Discipline: The Fear-Faith Connection in Supporting Loved Ones with AddictionIn this "Get Unhooked Podcast" episode, Jason Coombs (Brick House Recovery) discusses Chapter 11 of "UNHOOKED" – the Hope chapter. He explores establishing boundaries, effective communication, and transforming struggles into service opportunities.Key Moments2:26 "Fear is lack of mental discipline" - Mental choices precede emotional responses6:10 "Empathy isn't empathy without boundaries" - Proper boundaries bring hearts closer8:03 Faith vs. fear - Challenges refine us "like a rolling stone down the river"10:08 Service as path out of fear - Helping others alleviates obsessive thinking13:03 "True recovery is identity change" not just abstinence19:03 Two categories of fear - Not getting what we want; losing what we have29:04 Testimony - Service transforms self-obsession into purpose32:14 Recovery coach certification opportunitiesMental Discipline: Foundation for ChangeJason establishes that managing addiction – whether our own or supporting others – begins with mental choices, not emotional reactions. "Every day, what I have control over is how I choose to view any situation," he emphasizes.Three Guiding PrinciplesBoundaries enhance empathy – Referencing Brené Brown, Jason shows how boundaries actually bring hearts closerFaith as mental discipline – Contrasting faith (cultivated mindset) with fear (default state)Service as freedom – Serving others provides the fastest path out of fearIdentity Change: The "Sober Secret"True recovery requires identity transformation beyond abstinence. "A lot of people can get sober, but the true recovery is identity change," Jason explains, sharing his transition from seeing himself as a failure to recognizing his qualification to help others.Understanding this distinction helps family members better support the whole-person transformation essential for lasting change.Understanding FearJason identifies two core fear categories that drive anxiety around addiction:Fear of not getting what we wantFear of losing what we haveService: The AntidoteParticipants share how serving others transformed their journeys. One notes: "Serving with other struggling parents has made such a difference. All my things about myself get lost in being of service."Actionable TakeawaysPause before responding emotionallyEstablish empathy-enhancing boundariesIdentify your loved one's stage of change before communicatingDistinguish between sobriety and recoveryFind service opportunities to escape fearJoin recovery communities for shared strengthResourcesGet Unhooked podcast on major platformsJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.comhttps://awarriorheart.com/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/$100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100