Grace for the Tryhard

Over the past few years, I’ve learned what’s best for me when it comes to goal planning for a new year is choosing a word of the year. Choosing a word to focus on feels more balanced than picking intense, strict goals. God has showed me something every year related to these words since I started this practice. And this year, I’m feeling led into gentler way of living. My good friend, Brooke, and I talk in this episode about:- A prayer retreat we took together that led me to my word of the year- How learning to take care of ourselves helps us love others more fully- An image God gave me at the beginning of 2025 that has started my year with hope for the futureIt’s never too late to pick a word to focus on, whether it’s for a year, a quarter, or even a week! I hope this episode helps you see how valuable you are and that taking care of yourself is just as important as (if not more!) than producing.Follow Grace for the Tryhard on Instagram!Watch on YouTubeWebsiteListen on Apple PodcastsListen on Spotify

Tryhards need fun to remember their worth isn’t in accomplishments.😍 On this episode, Bryce, Britt, and Lindsay play a get-to-know each other game We’re Not Really Strangers. Britt gives a performance no one saw coming and the tryhards share on the challenges and joys of having friendships in your twenties. Enjoy this cozy episode!Follow Grace for the Tryhard on Instagram!Watch on YouTubeWebsiteListen on Apple PodcastsListen on Spotify

We all have choices every day. Choice can mean we have power, control, and freedom. It means we aren’t stuck with one option. It also means there are consequences of our choices. In the beginning of the Bible, we see the first humans had a choice: to trust and believe God or trust and believe a snake. Most of us know, they chose the snake and there were some not-so-fun consequences. We all make mistakes and bad choices, but our good God gives us an opportunity to respond to our choice. Will we cover, hide, or blame others for our mistakes? Or will we take responsibility?Taking responsibility is hard, especially when our worth is tied up in how we perform. But when our identity is in Jesus and His final work on the cross, we can take responsibility for our mistakes and it can actually produce connection. In this episode, I share the impact it can make in our community when we take responsibility and fight for right relationship with others. Hope you enjoy!Follow on Instagram!Watch on YouTube!

BB is joining Lindsay again with another Grace Chat…but this time we’re talking about books. This episode covers some life updates and some thoughts on the books we are currently reading. Enjoy! Follow Grace for the Tryhard on Instagram!Watch on YouTubeWebsiteListen on Apple PodcastsListen on Spotify

In this episode, Kenji Kuriyama shares what he learned in partnering with Jesus to create a culture that reflects the Kingdom of God at Indiana University. We talk about the challenges in wanting an already established culture become more healthy and what our role is (and isn’t). Bryce also shares some examples of when he influenced the culture of his previous jobs by staying strong in his identity and convictions. Many tryhards want to change the world. And Jesus gives us authority and power to influence the world we are in. But, one upside-down reality of the Kingdom of God is a mustard-seed of faith can move mountains. We may never see the mountains move, but God sees every act of faith and obedience and He celebrates them! We can step into cultures and make an impact, but we will be crushed if we think we can transform it all. God can and does transform cultures and we can be a part of that.Let's let go of needing to be the hero and accept our role as influencers. Not IG influencers, but people-influencers. Jesus is enough. Jesus is faithful. He is changing hearts, changing lives, and changing cultures by His Holy Spirit. And we, get to be along for the ride. Follow Grace for the Tryhard on Instagram!Watch on YouTubeWebsiteListen on Apple PodcastsListen on Spotify

Trendy diets. Clean food. Bikini bodies. 👙 It’s easy to see our society values physical appearance. It is also easy to get swept up in putting too high of a value on physical appearance or health which can start to shift our theology. “I am good, when I eat good. My body is good, when I exercise.” We start creating morality behind our food choices and the way our body looks. But, God has a different perspective about how we look at food and our bodies. God wants us to have abundant life. He deemed our bodies good when He created them in His image. He wants us to love ourselves because He loves us and made a good creation. As we learn to receive His love and rest in the new, unshakeable identity He has given us, we desire to care for our bodies. In this episode, I talk with registered dietitian, Aubrey Golbek, about how to look at our bodies and food through the lens of the gospel. 🤸‍♀️ Aubrey is passionate about helping people understand how the gospel and grace impacts our everyday life, such as our relationship with food. She shares about how she felt giving her patients diets was never leading them to true freedom, so she started searching the Bible to see if God had another way. He gave her a deeper revelation of grace and she saw how God could transform and heal our thoughts about and relationship with food. So many women let the enemy determine their worth with how their body looks. 😠 I stayed in that bondage for years until Jesus set me free. I want that freedom for every woman I know. I hope this episode inspires you and encourages you to notice your thoughts about food and your body. Maybe there is more freedom God wants to give you in this area of your life. He loves you so much and wants you to experience all the joy and abundance He has for you. 😊 Enjoy this episode!Follow Aubrey on Instagram!Grace-Based Food and Body Resources

Whether you are twenty, thirty-seven, or fifty-nine…this episode is for anyone who had expectations for the decade they are in that haven't come to fruition. I turned 29 this May and I share what I thought my twenties would be like and how they turned out to be vastly different. While I was disillusioned, the person I became through my turbulent twenties, is someone I am proud of. God met me in my mess and grew a foundation that couldn’t have been grown in “just having fun” in my twenties. I hope this episode helps you to give yourself grace for the season of life you are in and be encouraged that God is growing something beautiful through the unexpected. Watch on YouTubeListen on Apple PodcastsListen on SpotifyGrace-based Food and Body Image ResourcesThe Dr Stefani ShowGrace, Food, and Everything in Between by Aubrey GolbekJoyful Health Co.

In this episode, my dear friend Bryce shares his experience starting to go to counseling and being diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). He shares how his view of faith growing up meant not trusting doctors or seeking medical help. This episode dives into how Bryce’s view of mental health support, medication, and faith has morphed in the past few years and how his relationship with God has grown in seeing Him as a counselor. Enjoy! Find Grace for the Tryhard on other platforms:WebsiteYouTubeApple PodcastsSpotifyInstagramFor questions, episode topic suggestions, and interview requests please contact [email protected]

In this episode, Brittany shares her experience with anxiety. She shares what it was like growing up in tense situations and how she’s learned to process her emotions, since starting counseling. Brittany even shares how she chose courage, in a needed confrontation and how that experience led to joy. Enjoy!Find Grace for the Tryhard on other platforms:WebsiteYouTubeApple PodcastsSpotifyInstagramFor questions, episode topic suggestions, and interview requests please contact [email protected]

Purpose. Fulfillment. Identity. Topics that humans have been pondering since the beginning of time. Why am I here? What am I living for? How should I live my life? On today’s episode, I share with a group of college students what I believe we were designed to do with our lives: glorify God. Sounds overly spiritual and maybe boring at first glance, but we read a passage and see how exciting living for God’s glory can be. I share a vision God gave me when I got saved that changed how I saw the world and it took me on a wild adventure. We end with some practical steps on how to put God at the center of your life and the eternal joy that comes with it. Enjoy!Tom Brady Interview Find Grace for the Tryhard on other platforms:WebsiteYouTubeApple PodcastsSpotifyInstagramFor questions, episode topic suggestions, and interview requests please contact [email protected]

I learned many things in 2023, but I wanted to share the top 5 things I learned to inspire you to reflect on what 2023 taught you. Read all 23 things I learned in 2023WebsiteInstagramDivine Pivots in Life - The Connected Life Podcast23 Things I Learned in 2023 - Blog PostOrange FloatOrange Float WeddingsWedding Tips by JoShampooing YouTube Video 1Shampooing YouTube Video 2What are color seasons?Colour Analysis Studio

In this finale of our three part conversation, Andrea and I talk about her current season of life: law school. She shares how purposeful it’s been to see how she can reflect God’s love to those on death row by being a listening ear and treating them with dignity. She has also learned how to trust God when outcomes don’t seem to turn out justly. She shares her perspectives of mercy and justice after studying law and being in the field for three years. Hope you enjoy! Part One of the InterviewPart Two of the InterviewA Beautiful Story of Mercy and Redemption@graceforthetryhard graceforthetryhard.com

In Part Two of this three part series, we continue Andrea’s story after her study abroad experience into the “real world” after college. When things didn’t go according to her plan, God walked her through the process of learning her worth was not in the things she accomplishes, but rather in who He says she is. This episode is for anyone who is discouraged or disappointed that their life hasn’t turned out as they planned. Andrea’s story will show you how God can (and wants to) strategically use your most messy seasons to grow rooted confidence you couldn’t find anywhere else. Enjoy!

In this episode, Andrea and I share our experience meeting each other when we studied abroad in The Netherlands. Our story shows God’s intricate hand in our lives and care for our physical, relational, and spiritual needs. We share what we learned through accepting we weren’t in control of everything in our lives and how it grew our faith and relationship with Jesus. I hope this episode expands your view of God and encourages you to follow Him out of your comfort zone into a greater adventure you couldn’t create on your own. A Map of MaastrichtFollow GFTH on Instagram!

Today, I talk with the woman who helped give me the encouragement needed to start and continue this blog and podcast, Stephanie Pomerenke. A wife and mom of 1 (soon to be 2!), Steph identifies as a tryhard and knows the struggle of finding your worth in striving. She shares how receiving the love of God more deeply and intimately has helped her to let go of “needing to do big things for God”. We also talk about our friendship, our love of bubble tea, and two singers who have connected Steph and I. I hope this episode encourages in your walk through life and lets you know, that you’re not alone. Steph’s Favorite Steffany Gretzinger AlbumSteph’s Favorite Steffany Gretzinger SongMy Favorite Steffany Gretzinger Album My Favorite Steffany Gretzinger SongMy Favorite Amanda Cook AlbumAnonymous by Alicia Britt CholeFollow GFTH on Instagram! @graceforthetryhardFor more podcast episodes and blog posts go to graceforthetryhard.com

This episode is the beginning of my conversation with the Liby’s before the previous episode, Forgiveness in Action with The Liby’s. Get to know Kovenant and Gabe a little more as we talk about Hoosier basements, the Barbie movie, Christopher Liby: auctioneer extraordinaire, and they share their stories. This episode is filled with laughs and Kovenant and Gabe’s testimonies of God's faithfulness in the their lives. Forgiveness in Action with the Liby’[email protected]

In this episode, Kovenant and Gabe share their process in learning to forgive. Their experiences reveal their mindset of how personal identity influences their choice to forgive (AKA: who I am through Christ and who I want to be determines my choice to forgive, to do the hard thing, to confront my enemy.) 🤯 We also discuss the importance of accountability with those who have hurt us. Gabe shares a painful experience with a pastor and his process of forgiving them and setting healthy boundaries to protect his heart moving forward. Kovenant also shares the confidence and self-respect she gained and as she chose to be brave, humble confront a past boss, and continuously forgive them. If you struggle to forgive (which, let’s be honest, we ALL do), this episode is for you! Hope you laugh a little, reflect a lot, and grow with us ✌️For anyone wondering what a VHS is…Matthew 6:14-15Isaiah 55:8-9Honesty by Bethel Music feat. Sydney AllenForgiveness ResourcesWill God only forgive me if I forgive others? - NT WrightIf I Fail to Forgive, Will God Not Forgive Me? - John PiperScriptures on Forgiveness

In this episode, one of my closest friends, Jessica, and I have an organic conversation about friendship, boundaries, sabbath, and perfectionism. We’ve been friends now for nine years, and I’ve always wondered why Jess so easily rested in God’s grace and experienced His love. When Jess was a child, her church emphasized intimacy with God and worship, which helped her to trust His love for her and rest in His grace. Even though there are many areas where Jess naturally rests in God’s love and grace, there are certain areas where she wants control and order. Jess shares how God is helping her to see her desire for control in these areas and how He’s helping her to let go and trust Him through rest. If you enjoy hearing best friends chat and share how God is sanctifying them, this episode is for you! There are many nuggets of wisdom in this episode, so sit back, relax, and enjoy.BEMA PodcastThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComerFight Hustle, End Hurry PodcastSabbath Poems by Wendell Berry

In this episode, I share a method, created by Lara Casey of Cultivate What Matters, I discovered a few years ago that transformed my view of goal-planning. I share how I used to create goals motivated by insecurity and dependent on personal striving and how those always led me to self-disappointment and exhaustion. I gave up on goal planning once I understood the gospel, until a friend introduced me to a new way of looking at goals, growth, and sanctification. I share what makes this method different and how it is fueled by grace and dependent on Jesus and I also share my grace-based goals for 2023. Hope you enjoy!Podcast Episodes that Introduced me to Cultivate What Matters:How to Set Goals for 2020, Part 1How to Set Goals for 2020, Part 2How to Set Goals for 2020, Part 3How to Set Goals for 2020, Part 4To learn more:Cultivate What MattersPowerSheets Goal Planner (the product Lara created use her goal planning method!)Follow us on Instagram or Facebook @graceforthetryhardMusic from Soundstripe: Furthermore by Reveille

In this episode, I share how God has been showing me what it means to embrace your weakness and how we can find true strength when we do this and depend on God. Plus, a special guest at the end of the episode!Follow us on Instagram or Facebook @graceforthetryhardMusic from Soundstripe: Furthermore by Reveille

In this episode, I talk with a good friend named Matt who was transformed by Jesus in college around the same time as me. He tells us his story and how he reignites his passion for Jesus and discipleship years after Matt’s first encounter with Him. We talk about Matt’s appreciation for tryhards and how many tryhards have a great heart, but just go too far when they find their identity in how they perform. We end the conversation talking about Matt’s interest in house churches and how to use the method of the early church to impact our cities and nation. Enjoy!Follow us on Instagram or Facebook @graceforthetryhardMusic from Soundstripe: Furthermore by Reveille

In this episode, Imani shares a bit of her story and how she started to change herself to win the approval of others. Through a difficult transition to a new city and school, she started to believe the lie that she wouldn’t be loved or accepted if she was her authentic self. We talk about how in college, God met Imani and helped her to see, through community, the lies she was still believing, even though her circumstances had changed. We talk about dreams Imani has for her life and how she wants to help others experience God’s love. Hope you enjoy!Follow us on Instagram or Facebook @graceforthetryhardMusic from Soundtripe: Furthermore by Reveille

What is the Grace for the Tryhard Podcast? Lindsay, the creator of GFTH, shares how she wants this podcast to be focused on learning how to experience God's grace together and knowing God more through hearing how He is impacting different individuals' lives.Follow GFTH on Instagram and Facebook @graceforthetryhard