Growing The Leader Within

This is an amazing LIVE interview with a group of GGM Leaders with Grief Support Groups of their own. Each one has been through deep losses personally, and now they are able to share with others what they have learned and overcome.  Twelve real life questions and the answers shared by each one from their own experiences through the valley of the shadow of death.  If you have lost a loved one, this lesson is for you.  It begins with the beautiful new release of Dr Gayla's latest song,  'In His Hands'.Enjoy! www.griefguideministries.com 

The biggest gap after the shock and initial adjustments begin to happen is the challenge of feeling lonely.  This painful cloud that follows one in grief will remain unless change happens.  This lesson gives the key to the unlocking of a new future that can become whole and healed.  But there is a locked door to be unlocked and YOU already have the key to do so.  This is a valuable lesson of wisdom and hope for every person who feels alone in their grief with the loss of their loved one.An amazing story is told in this lesson that will help!  www.griefguideministries.com 

Feel like you have been through a train wreck?  You may have been emotionally!  But there are two rails that you can nail down ahead of you that will cause you to start moving forward.  This lesson will touch your heart, strengthen your resolve, and teach you a new simple verse that is life changing!  This lesson needs to be heard over and over.  Dr Gayla shares how the train wrecks in her life brought her to deeper understanding of life, love and losses. Includes her latest song, 'Laying New Track' an incredible song of hope!www.griefguideministries.com 

Dr Gayla was on her way to another Memorial Service when an amazing experience was given to her.  This changed the paradigm and emotions of that day! She shares what happened to her on this episode.  This is revelational knowledge that can shift one's heart and mind from the earthly realm of troubles, to the peaceful knowledge of truth.  This lesson begins with her song called,  'The Hands of Today' and her latest song aptly named, 'Flip the Switch' in honor of her husband's favorite genre of music.  It's message is unforgettable.   This lesson is life changing and for men and women who are experiencing the loss of a loved one.  This is a coping skill that can help.www.griefguideministries.com 

Widowhood Part 2 charts the pathway in front of a widow that brings hope and a clear choice about what to do now.  Widowhood at any age, has four decisions to be made by each woman who has lost her husband.  This lesson can be heard again and again to provide a solid foundation about 'what to do next'.  It's very encouraging and life giving about steps to take from tragedy to triumph. www.griefguideministries.com 

If you are grieving today, I want you to approach this lesson as if you have been admitted to the Intensive Care Unit of a hospital. In the ICU, every available resource is focused on helping a person stabilize, recover, and heal. That is the heart behind this lesson and the mission of Grief Guide Ministries. Through biblical principles and proven healing processes found in God's Word, we seek to help you move from the pain of loss toward loving wholeness. Right now, you do not need to have all the answers or know exactly how to move forward—you simply need a safe place to begin. Consider this lesson your spiritual and emotional ICU, designed to help stabilize your heart and mind so healing can begin. Within these teachings, you will discover ten important directives that can guide you through the early stages of grief and help you start the journey of healing from the inside out.This lesson is complete with a new song called, Be Happy for Me.www.griefguideministries.com 

You are changing, evolving, adjusting, and growing. Learning to accept these changes takes time. It is a process, and with time, that process becomes progress.The heart and mind do not quickly keep up with the drastic changes that come after loss. For me, simply learning to “be” helped me slowly find joy in each day again. Over time, those small joys began to include the new changes in my life.Widowhood is not just about “getting through” the loss. It is about learning how to adjust to a new realm of life.Step by step, these major changes will begin to make room for you. This lesson is Part One of a two-part lesson called Widowhood - the layers of adjustment. In this podcast lesson, Dr Gayla will share:Four types of days you may experienceSix areas to focus your mind and heart onEach step will help you understand where you are, what you are feeling, and how to continue moving forward with grace, strength, and hope.www.griefguideministries.com 

This amazing information begins with a original song written by Dr Gayla 'See Ya'll Soon', and ends with another one of her songs, 'Above the Pain'.   The subject of death and what God's Word says about it, is a critical part to begin to heal after the loss of a loved one.  You CAN begin to heal after hearing this lesson 'How to Overcome Death'.  Be sure to share this one with others!  This contains important information not recorded before. But this has the power to  change your life and your future forever.  You DO NOT have to remain in the pain of grief.  Listen and learn the truth.  Her music is available on all platforms.www.griefguideministries.com 

What is the real reality after you lose a loved one?  And how do I  keep my faith while going through loss?  'This is Not the End' is a inspiring lesson of truth and historical records to build your faith upon.  The mysteries of life  and death are in another realm, but this is NOT the end! Though loss and death can feel like the final chapter, the hope we have in Jesus reminds us that this life is not all there is. Jesus conquered death through His resurrection, breaking the power of the grave and opening the door to eternal life for all who believe in Him. What feels like goodbye on earth is, for those in Christ,  just a temporary separation—not a permanent ending. Because of His victory, we can hold onto the promise that love lives on, hope remains, and a glorious reunion awaits. In our deepest sorrow, we are comforted by the truth that Jesus turned the darkest ending into the most beautiful beginning.  This is a lesson to be listened to again and again!The original song on this episode is  by Dr Gayla Holley is called 'This is not the end'.  Available on all music platforms.  The book The Horizon is available on Amazon. www.griefguideministries.com 

When a Pastor goes to Heaven, his wife is often left carrying not only the weight of deep personal grief, but also the responsibility of continuing to lead and shepherd the church they built together. In the midst of mourning the loss of her husband, she may also struggle with the loss of identity, purpose, and the life she once knew as a ministry partner. Yet even in this painful season, God remains faithful to guide her steps, strengthen her heart, and remind her that her calling and her life are not over. The Lord is able to breathe new hope into broken places, giving wisdom for each day, comfort for every tear, and direction for the road ahead. Though the journey through grief is difficult, God’s promises assure her that she is not abandoned, and that a new season of purpose, healing, and strength can still rise from the ashes of loss.  This interview will greatly encourage the hearts of every widowed ministers wife.  Music 'Sacred Secrets' by Dr Gayla Holley is available on every major platform.  GGM Books and materials are available on Amazon.  Find out all the details on our website.  www.griefguideministries.com 

Every year birthdays come around and when the missing loved one is gone to Heaven, it can be a difficult day to forge through.  That is until now!   This lesson is all about what happens to the 'special days' in Heaven.  You will want to write this information down and use it for your own family.  This is how to honor and celebrate the lives of those we will love forever, and that await us on the other side. We learn about Earthday Birthdays in this lesson.   Let your loved one's birthday bring you purpose and meaning instead of unending loss from now on.  The special song at the end is called, 'This is Not the End' produced by Dr Gayla Holley, available for downloading on all major platforms.www.griefguideministries.com 

When someone is walking through loss and grief, it’s important to recognize that vulnerability can make them a target for scams and fraud. The Assistant  District Attorney of Montgomery County, Jamie Sulla, is interviewed by Dr Gayla, to gently remind individuals to be cautious with personal and financial information, especially when approached by unfamiliar callers, emails, or messages claiming urgency or offering unexpected benefits. Learn how to verify identities before responding, avoid making quick decisions under pressure, and consult a trusted family member or advisor when unsure. Taking a moment to pause, verify, and seek support can help protect those in grief during a time when clear thinking may feel difficult.  This is a VERY important lesson to listen to.  You don't have to become a victim due to scammers and fraud. The beautiful ending song is a Country Western song named,  'Healing Feelings' produced by Dr Gayla Holley www.griefguideministries.com 

When the pain you have been dealt is more that you think you can bear, here is what to do.  When professionals cannot sustain you and bring healing to your heart, here is what to do.  This lesson 'All is Well' gives strength and fortitude from the only One who actually can.  The behind the scenes story of 'It is Well with my Soul' is proof of the  incredible care God has for those who are suffering unspeakable losses.  This lesson will strengthen your heart. www.griefguideministries.com 

Dr Gayla shares some of her private supernatural experiences that have happened through the deep losses in life.  This is a riveting  lesson and sure to open your eyes to the deeper meanings in life. Seeing without your eyes is a very important spiritual truth that will transform any loss into a new beginning. Also included at the end of this episode is her next original song called Sacred Secrets. www.griefguideministries.com 

Today you stand at a important crossroad in your life.  The path that you are walking on has turned into two directions under your feet.  These two paths are going in different directions. The difference between these two frameworks is one word.  It’s  perspective.  Both are decisions we make along this trail of life we are walking.  And both walkways bring personal decisions for us to make concerning ‘where to from here,’ This is a very important lesson and can change your life for the better!www.griefguideministries.com 

When a beloved saint of God departs for Heaven, there is a sacredness that can be felt in the room. Psalms 116:15 says, Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.  So the best way to have a meaningful funeral for them, is to show honor and dignity at their Homegoing Service.  This lesson gives the details and a useable template in how to plan a meaningful funeral for them.  The information found here is helpful in knowing the details that need to be included for the final services.  This information is very useful and needs to be heard by all families trying to know what to do next. The template is on our website listed below and can be downloaded for a $5 handling fee.  Here are the 12 important parts to plan a meaningful funeral. www.griefguideministries.com 

Valentines Day usually brings up sadness for all those who lost someone they loved.  This lesson is about the Love that can still be shared from one's heart. Here are 20 ways and actions to take, that will cause the meaning of Valentines  Day to still be good, instead of creating  ValenTears for each one in loss!  You will want a pen and paper to write down all of these ideas that can soften the outlook of this day and bring joy to every heart. www.griefguideministries.com 

How does one develop a excellent attitude, and a positive mindset even in loss?  There are ways to progress internally that develop us, in spite of deep losses in life. It all depends on what we are focused upon.  This lesson can cause inspiration to spark intentional growth in the heart of every person in loss.  Even with negativity around, what has our attention can strengthen us and birth an excellent spirit within no matter what we have been through in life. www.griefguideministries.com 

Even though death is a part of the human experience, we don't handle this major change very well without consistent and good support.  Self care that is consistent and forms healthy habits, provides a stable way to get started towards healing.  Your self care is the most important responsibility on your healing journey. This lesson points the way to healthy habits to begin. www.griefguideministries.com 

Front Row at the Funeral is the most unusual lesson!  Come sit next to me, as I uncovered the truth and the astonishing visions and experiences I have had while helping my loved ones ascend to Glory.  Every Christian who has lost someone they love needs to hear this!!  www.griefguideministries.com 

Can you relate to this lesson?  LOL it's based on the reality of two lives and how things that were painfully sad changed for them.  Seasonal Sadness is a thing - but with help from this lesson you don't have to just 'get through' the holidays. It's going to make you smile... listen to this!Come on Scrooge... It's not Grinchmas... it's Christmas!www.griefguideministries.com 

There are seven skillsets that you may have already used in the past.  This lesson will help you to discover them again and learn to use them in this chapter in your life. This is critical information in learning how to rebuild a life after loss! www.griefguideministries.com 

What do I say when people are insensitive and make remarks and questions about my loss?  This lesson is a clear teaching about what you should say back when a triangular trigger hits you from three sides!  A powerful lesson that will give you keys on what to do. www.griefguideministries.com 

Listen in on a live class that is being taught to a group of single christian men and women.  Single's can have a purpose and a destiny sent by God because solo travelers in life often are called to accomplish great works in the world.   Special dreams that only single people can accomplish for the good of others. Listen to Pastor Alan from Generations Church and be inspired!  Listen to the goals and dreams that other singles have had and accomplished in life.  While others were being formed for the ordinary, have you been forged for something special?  www.griefguideministries.com 

Pastor Alan Latta from Generations Church in Granbury Texas teaches a class for singles in his home church.  This live lesson is all about what the Apostle Paul wrote in  I Corinthians 7 for singles.  It's eye opening and very informative. You are sure to enjoy hearing this... no matter how being solo in life has been your experience.  Our lessons for life, love and loss include these valuable verses.  www.griefguideministries.com 

This is a LIVE interview at KHOC - recorded at the iconic Houston Texas radio station on the Foxy Affect Show.  Dr Gayla shares details about how GGM changes the pain of grief into healing and brings a new tomorrow.  Looking at grief God's way, can bring a fresh perspective and inspiration to all of God's children in progressive grief.  Jesus came to heal the broken hearted... even yours! www.griefguideministries.com 

This is a LIVE interview with successful single women, who opened their hearts and lives and shared what it means to be happy alone in life.  Their wisdom covers all sorts of subjects and it's sure to be an encouragement to every single woman from going through widowhood, to being divorced to 'never have been married' too!  Their laughter and honestly is refreshing and you are going to love this episode. Also at the end of the lesson, you will hear about the book called 'SuperWoman Singles' that is available on Amazon.  It's a book that offers down to earth advice, written by several of the women who are on this interview ... enjoy!   www.griefguideministries.com 

This interview with Rev. and Chaplain, Don Bettis, captures his experience of when he died and went to Heaven for just a brief taste of what is there!  Hearing what happened to him is sure to be inspiring and bring comfort over missing loved ones.  It's very special and I'm so glad he was able to share his experience with us!www.griefguideministries.com 

This is a sensitive and transparent interview with Pastor Susan Young from California, who shares the personal story of losing her husband due to suicide.  Her inspirational experience will encourage every family member who is dealing with the grief of losing someone they love to suicide.  Also... Happy the Dog attended this interview and his support was appreciated. www.griefguideministries.com 

There are different beliefs and interpretations of what happens to believers after they die.  But this amazing testimony is from Dr Gayla and she shares an amazing conversation she had with God when she was a young pastor's wife! When a Christian falls 'asleep' the body goes back into the ground.  But the spirit and soul goes back to God. It's a clear understanding for every believer to find peace within.  www.griefguideministries.com 

This episode is filled with wisdom for those who have come to a broken place in  life.  There are four transitions in brokenness  that happen, before something is formed into a blessing.  This lesson will change your perception and develop a clearer sense of what to do with the shattered pieces, and how God is working internally to bring you to a new sense of self, and regulated peace again.  This is a valued position that God has brought you to, for the advancement of your life into a new realm of purpose. www.griefguideministries.com 

Bishop Doug Young suffered the loss of his wife due to medical mistakes that happened.  A young father of two children at the time, through the major loss of his wife, uncovered some valuable truths about 'how could God let this happen' in his grief. Then God asks him a question!!  His revelation and understanding will enlighten your own journey through grief.  This episode will be listened to again and again as it reveals the answers to our painful questions in losing someone we love.  www.griefguideministries.com 

This is a LIVE interview with a qualified Minister who helps churches to understand the preparations that need to be in place for a church in case of the loss of it's Pastor.  Minister Gentry Anderson provides wisdom and guidance in this area that would give  supportive care to the Pastor's family should he pass away.  Every Pastor and his wife, and the church leadership team needs to hear this episode!  www.griefguideministries.com 

The death of a teenager is a loss that lasts a lifetime to the family.  Hear the personal story of the accident that changed everything for his mother and dad, and how to learn to cope with the grief that won't go away. Hear about the death, grief, loss, cope, dying, accidental death, shock of loss, mourning, finding hope, eternal life, destiny and faith in Jesus.  This frank conversation can help every mama know her feelings are felt by every mother who has lost a teenager in life. A special thank you to Pastor Melissa Lewellen for sharing your heart with all of our listeners.  She and her husband Bishop Ric Lewellen, pastor their church together, providing genuine care for the needs of their congregation and community.  www.griefguideministries.com 

This open and frank conversation is about losing a 18 year old son and the process of following God in the midst of this traumatic loss.  God's Timeline provides wisdom by the personal experiences of Bishop Ric Lewellen and his wife. A must listen for those who have lost a son or a daughter in life.  We honor you Brent and trust that  this testimony about you will encourage many!www.griefguideministries.com 

A VERY important conversation with Bishop Rick Lewellen about the bomb of death that goes off in the lives of believers!  Why the church at large does not talk much about death except for a funeral.  Bishop Rick's wisdom is so very needed.  This lesson will help bring understanding to everyone who hears this!  The 'Bomb Word' lesson talks about death, life and the church!  His wisdom will strengthen every person both in leadership and in loss.www.griefguideministries.com 

Part Two ...  Dr Gayla shares her personal journey of how she handled the huge process of letting go of her 'yesterday home'.  This is all about releasing 95% of her belongings and leaving a 17 room house for her new beautiful suite of 3 rooms!This lesson records her personal journalling pages of different days during this major life change. It's informative and interesting and you are sure to get some ideas for your own journey in life! www.griefguideministries.com 

The secrets to downsizing ones lifestyle and how to turn the 'physical page' of reality are here in Part One of this fascinating lesson of life.  Knowing when and how to change out of a home is found in the Art of Letting Go.  Dr Gayla shares her personal journey of how she began the huge process of letting go of her 'yesterday home'.  This is all about letting go of 95% of belongings and leaving a 17 room house for an upstairs suite of 3 rooms!www.griefguideministries.com 

Ever hit a 'brick wall' that you could not get around or control? This interview tells the real experiences of Chaplain Lang Cassidy who found that uncrossable mountains turn into miracles in God's hands.  From his own loss of his mother at 5 years old, to the tragic loss of his daughter to drugs and suicide, as well as he also suffered the 'widow maker' heart attack and died three times!  His miraculous story will make you marvel at God's attention to the details that have happened to him. This is a inspiring testimony of his life and how he is impacting many lives through his work, his Chaplaincy with the League City police dept. in providing care for those in trauma,  as well as in his own ministry of Matthew253540.  His wife Jessica shares part of this story and she works side by side with him in ministry.  You will love this couple and their experiences through life. www.griefguideministries.com 

Pastor Alan Latta, the Senior Pastor of Generations Church in Granbury Texas  teaches his entire congregation a valuable principal about the value and power of lamenting.  This is a transparent and open testimony of how he went through a personal and difficult experience in life and how he learned a valuable principal about life, love and loss. This is a live lesson... it's sure to help you in your own journey while lamenting as well. www.griefguideministries.com 

It's time for a self check... often we become so focused on our broken heart, we never see what the experience actually has taught us.  We can be in denial, or the ‘never agains’ decisions or the curses of retaliation, or just keep living in the bitterness of the whole wretched mess, but none of these can ever bring healing to the broken places in our lives. People who have been through countless losses over life and who have come out on the other side with internal fortitudes, a deeper trust in God, and many creative abilities that were found inside the problems were able to do so because...?? This lesson holds a secret about those who have studied their losses, learned from them, discovered the strengths that were found even inside a broken heart.  You too can find that  a new and better version of self is being built behind the scenes.  And it's often without our own knowledge at the time.  What a great lessons this is for all those who are ready to discover what broken has built. www.griefguideministries.com 

"And do not turn aside after empty things that cannot profit or deliver, for they are empty."  This is a  strong direction to follow in life, and here are the two words we can internally live life by each day.   Contention is a real place to live within. You are right… this unfortunate thing happened and one can choose to stay unhappy about it in that reality.  Stay right there. But then…. Contentment is a word too, but with a very different outcome! One of peace because I decided to let go of all my yesterdays and its people that were in my life then.  Replay or Replace is a very REAL word that can set you free!www.griefguideministries.com 

I am beginning to look around me at this new place in life and realize… ‘hey wait a second… all of these things are a lot of responsibility I have to take care of all the time.’  The 45 years of history my late husband and I have lived around the world, had put it’s fingerprints all over our lives, and now all of it remains mine to take care of.  What do I really want to do with these...Is it time to downsize my oversized life? Listen and see if it resonates in your own life too!www.griefguideministries.com 

Yesterday has a powerful pull on us, and wants to keep our hearts tied to what WAS every single day.  All it takes is one passing thought, and we are looking behind us again. And we don’t often pull back to ‘today’ but instead can set down and start to stew right there… by opening cans of worms that only provoke our peace.  But here is a statement of trust and truth, that according to the Word of God…The further one grows in progressive grief, the easier it can get to stay in the present, and begin to build a future ahead.  But often the temptation is to tie our yesterday over to our tomorrow and when we see the gap, we cannot fathom how our lives can go on without them. This lesson will help you relate to Dr Gayla's personal experience as well as encourage you with wisdom for the 'now' place in life. www.griefguideministries.com 

There are certain truths to be learned about how to handle loneliness and this lesson reveals them clearly.  And also the 8 heart to heart questions to ask yourself about being lonely, will offer very helpful support to guide along the pathway after loss.  Dr Gayla shares personal details in this lesson that you will want to hear!www.griefguideministries.com 

Do you realize that there are different practices once learned, that can help you along the healing journey through loss?  There are new habits to be formed that can actually stabilize the broken heart.  This lesson contains 14 such protocols that will certainly make a huge difference if practiced daily. www.griefguideministries.com 

Do you have to deal with technology issues, mechanical challenges or construction 'things' that have become messed up?  Dealing with these various troubles when you are a widow can seem like a mountain!  Listen to this very practical lesson and find some ideas about how to handle things the next time something goes array at your house.  These twelve steps include very useful information!www.griefguideministries.com 

A mother/daughter conversation about discovering and using one certain word to create a theme for the entire year.  Using this skill has made a difference in both off their lives for decades!  In this personal conversation, Dr Gayla and her daughter Angela,  reveal how to find that word in life. Sooo GOOOOD! Oh! And here is the link to get the Vision Word Planner on Amazon.  https://a.co/d/7hzaI6FStart your year by launching with direction and focus!www.griefguideministries.com 

We all know we need to 'turn the page' after the loss of a loved one has happened some time ago.  But how to do this?  This lesson is all about digging beneath the surface of what we usually do... and discovering a way to do just that! Take time, and write some notes mentally as well as on paper, here is a proven way that helps. www.griefguideministries.com 

There are very important gifts that can only be given by you... to you. No one can give them to you this Christmas. They are priceless and beyond worth all seven of them! Write these down... they can change your life permanently for good. www.griefguideministries.com