Head, Heart & Whole

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Head, Heart & Whole

Head, Heart & Whole is a podcast for conscious people who want to create a better life for themselves - one that feels just as good as it looks and they genuinely love waking up to.Hosted by Sarah Scully-Leaf, it brings together the science and the spiritual, the mind and the body, and the doing with the being.You’ll hear grounded conversations and be given practical tools on emotional regulation, boundaries, healing patterns, rewiring your subconscious, creating fulfilling relationships... and what it really takes to bridge the gap between knowing to embodying.

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    EP18: When You Can Feel You’re On The Edge Of Your Next Level But Its Not Here Yet

    In this episode, we unpack the uncomfortable space between who you were and who you’re not yet. I break down the signs you’re on the edge of your next level before your external reality has caught up. I share what’s really going on in this in-between phase - why relationships fall away, why your preferences change, and why you start craving something different without fully knowing what it is yet. We get into the discomfort that comes with this space, how doubt creeps in, and why so many people either stall or try to go back to what’s familiar instead of moving forward.We cover:Signs you’re “on the edge” of your next level (and why they’re often misinterpreted) The identity shifts required to actually step into what’s nextHow subconscious reprogramming and your nervous system play a role in making this happen (or staying where you are).What im moving through right now exactly in relation to thisWhy things start to fall away without anything going “wrong”What to do with the discomfort and emotional turbulence in this stage How to move through this without outsourcing your decisions or collapsing into doubtSay Hi on instagram - I love hearing from you @sarahscullyleafMy 1:1 mentorship The Elevated Woman is designed to help you create a life you’re absolutely OBSESSED with waking up to. We do the internal work so the external reality matches what you want! Check the details here or book a free connection call to see if its a mutual aligned fit

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    EP17: From Party Girl To 3 Years No Alcohol: My Journey To Sobriety & Why I Quit Drinking

    In this episode I pull back the curtain and share my raw, real and messy journey with alcohol - my days as a party animal in corporate law, joining the party scene in Bali, and my tipping point knowing something had to change.I share the greatest (and surprising) benefits of now being 3 years with no alcohol, and whether I think ill ever drink again.I shareMy journey from party girl to completely soberWhy I quit drinking - including the shame pit I went into after my last night drunkWhy i went from no “no alcohol” to “sober”The surprising benefits of not drinkingWhat it’s been like dating soberThe most life-changing question you can ask yourself if you drink alcohol Say Hi on instagram - I love hearing from you @sarahscullyleafGO DEEPERJoin me inside The Elevated Woman - a 1:1 mentorship for changing your life to being “okay” or “good enough”, to one you absolutely thrive in and are excited to wake up to each and every day.Friendship is just one of the pillars we look at!

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    EP16: Losing Friends As You Do The Work - How To Know When To Walk Away & How To Meet Aligned People

    “What do I do when the people I love no longer feel aligned but the new haven’t come in yet?” is one of the most commonly asked questions I get.This episode is broken into two parts:The first part is how to meet new, aligned people, based on exactly what I did moving overseas at 31 without knowing a single person, (to now having friendships of a depth and capacity i didnt even know was possible to have).The second part is how to navigate the relationships already in your life - how to know when it’s time to walk away, when it simply needs a conversation with a boundary, and how to accept people who are now in a very different chapter of life to you.Navigating changes in friendships as we grow is a challenge we all face, and this is a practical conversation designed for you to come back to over and over.Say Hi on instagram - I love hearing from you @sarahscullyleafGO DEEPERJoin me inside The Elevated Woman - a 1:1 mentorship for changing your life to being “okay” or “good enough”, to one you absolutely thrive in and are excited to wake up to each and every day.Friendship is just one of the pillars we look at!

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    EP15: Chasing Success And Validation As A Form Of Safety - Stripping, Fitness and the Journey to Self Love with Jade Marrey

    I’m joined by Jade Marrey for a really honest conversation about self-love, chasing success and how to feel secure and enough within yourself.Jade shares very candidly her journey through stripping, fitness, plant medicine and becoming an author – and how what can look like ambition or success on the outside can often be a deeper search for safety, belonging or validation.We talk about what actually means to build self-love, how to grow it more deeply within yourself, and why so many people are still chasing things outside of themselves even after years of personal growth.We also unpack the duality of how to know when something is genuinely growth-oriented or from a wounded part still trying to prove something, be chosen, or feel enough. If you’ve ever struggled with not feeling enough or you know there’s a part of you that you need to love more deeply - this episode is for you.Key Talking PointsHow to actively cultivate self-love in your lifeThe role of chasing success, achievement and validation to try to create safetyHow to know when something is genuinely growth-oriented versus from a wounded part still trying to prove something, be chosen, or feel enoughWhat it looks like to outgrow identities that once felt safeThe role of body image and shame in your self-love journeyThe importance of forgiveness as an act of self-loveHow judging others mirrors the way we judge ourselvesConnect With JadePre-order her book Stripped to the Soul on Barnes & Noble or Amazon Jade’s instagramTo work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP14: Self-Awareness Isn’t Enough: How To Break The Patterns You Keep Repeating (& How I Healed My PTSD)

    Have you ever sworn you were “done” with something - a job, a relationship, a pattern… and then found yourself right back in it? This episode is a deep dive how to break the patterns you keep repeating over and over again.I share my story of being in unhealthy relationships - cheating, arguing - until i met my ex-boyfriend in what would become a physically abusive relationship. I go deeply into my journey afterwards of PTSD, trying to healing with talk therapy, and what it took to actually heal - not just cognitively process it. This is an episode about creating the life you want from a lived reality - where your level of knowledge and awareness matches your day-to-day behaviour and relationships in your life.Key Talking Points:Why you keep looping in the same patterns and how to finally break themThe trap and prison of self-awareness when you know better but can’t act differentlyHow to know what’s yours to heal and what’s someone else’s responsibilityWhy “making the right choice” feels impossible in the momentMy experience living with PTSD - the symptoms, behaviours and how I would act in ways I wasn’t proud of.What Western therapy gave me and where it left me stuckHow somatic work and breathwork changed things that intellectually processing never couldThe difference between knowing what to do and actually becoming the person who does itLinks and Resources MentionedFor Breath Different, Feel Different  (POD10 for 10% off)To work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP13: How to Be More Confident (& Why It's A Skill, Not A Personality Trait)

    Confidence affects every area of your life. Your relationships. How you feel about your body. Whether you advocate for a pay rise or go after work opportunities. Yet so many people still think it’s something you either have or you don’t.Its not - It’s a skill that can be developed and in today’s episode, I give you a step-by-step process to build it.I approach this from a nervous-system level, so you’re not forcing yourself to change or trying to “act confident.” Instead, you’re building confidence in a way that actually feels good, strengthens self-trust, and creates something embodied and sustainable.Key Talking Points Why confidence isn’t something you do or don’t have, but a skill that can be developedThe specific, tangible foundations confidence is actually built onHow your relationship with your body directly impacts how confident you feelWhy broken promises to yourself erode confidenceThe nervous-system piece most people miss when trying to “be more confident”The difference between forcing confidence and building real self-trustWhy “imposter syndrome” isn’t real and what’s really underneath itThe link between confidence, expression, and how you show up in work, dating and lifeLinks and Resources MentionedLearn more about or apply for The Elevated WomanBook a free connection call with meTo work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP12: From Wanting To Hurt My Kids to Grateful for No Childcare - TEW Client Spotlight Series: Bonnie Wicks

    Today one of my client’s, Bonnie Wicks shares openly about a period of her life where she was so overwhelmed and burnt out she was having intrusive thoughts about wanting to hurt her kids. She was constantly overstimulated, reactive and on edge. What she needed wasn’t more parenting strategies. It was to regulate her nervous system and shift the internal state driving her reactions.Through our work together inside The Elevated Woman, Bonnie moved from frenetic, urgent energy and daily reactivity to a home and business that feel more easeful, manageable and joyful. More recently, Bonnie found herself genuinely excited to have five weeks with no childcare – and in this episode we unpack exactly how she got here.This conversation is honest, grounded and a powerful example of what changes when a mother learns to regulate herself.Key Talking Points:How Bonnie went from intrusive thoughts about hurting her kids to feeling excited for five weeks with no childcareThe shift from frenetic, burnt out urgency to a far more regulated and patient baseline in running a business and a home.Why you can’t regulate your kids, but regulating yourself changes everything. The specific practice Bonnie still uses to help her in high-stress moments including supporting a child with autism, ADHD and ODDThe single belief uncovered in hypnotherapy that changed the way she experiences motherhood and businessWhy The Elevated Woman has been one of the top 5 most influential experience of Bonnie’s lifeLinks & Resources MentionedThe Elevated Woman - details and application formBook a free connection call for The Elevated Woman to see if it’s an aligned fit (this call is with me)Connect With BonnieInstagram WebsiteBrand, Business & Becoming PodcastTo work with Sarah: Book a free connection call with me for The Elevated WomanThe Elevated Woman - details and application formTo book in a hypnotherapy session - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP11: From A Burnt-Out Lawyer to Building a Business in Bali: The Exact Process to Create Your Version of Success (& What I'd Do Differently)

    I’m taking you behind the scenes of the life you see now and walking you through the exact process I used to create it. I share the honest story of going from a burnt out corporate lawyer with PTSD and zero clarity on what was next, to building a business and life in Bali that I genuinely love waking up to.This is not a “just follow your dreams” conversation. It is the actual three step process I use with clients to create change faster than I did on my own. We talk about getting clear on what you want, identifying what is between you and that life, and how to take action that your nervous system can actually sustain. I also share a personal update from a recent low period and how I moved through it without abandoning myself or blowing up my life and business.If you are highly self aware, doing all the right things and still feel stuck in the same patterns, this episode will show you where change actually happens and how to start creating your version of success.Key Talking Points:The honest backstory behind my move from law into business and life in Bali (and the exact process i used to build it)What i’d do differently if i was doing it all over againWhy clarity does not come from waiting and how to actually get clear on what you wanWhat is actually between you and the life you want (not what you’ve convinced yourself)What aligned, inspired action really means and how to take action your nervous system can sustainWhy doing this alone keeps you in trial and error and what changes when you have the right supportThe core wound I had to shift to create the life this beautiful life i have nowLinks and Resources MentionedThe Elevated Woman - details and application formBook a free connection call for The Elevated Woman to see if it’s an aligned fit (this call is with Sarah)Replay for The Mission & Meaning Roadmap To work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP10: Why You’re Stuck At Your Current Level (& The Biggest Block You Need to Overcome to Level Up)

    >> FREE WORKSHOP: The Mission & Meaning Roadmap <<This episode is for the woman who can feel she's on the edge of her next level. A knowing that something deeper is meant for you but you’re struggling to create it.You can feel that you’re not realising your potential or in work truly meant for you. And while your life might feel good for the most part, and your work gives you some flexibility… you don’t love it.This episode is the number one block between you and creating the life that you want and why until you move through it, it’s almost impossible to create a life that is actually fulfilling your potential.I share what my early days of business were actually life (including what my mum begged me to stop doing), and what was actually involved in creating a life I feel fulfilled and free in.Key Talking PointsWhy you stay in a “good enough” lives for years, even when it’s not fulfilling, exciting and you know you’re meant for moreHow i romanticised being a business owner and what the early days of business were really like (including what my family said to me)The number one block why you don’t have the life you want yetThe two things you need to wake up excited about your day and your head to hit the pillow at night contentMy journey from corporate law, burnout and PTSD to living my darma in Bali and spending my days however i choose toThe role of your nervous system in what you move toward, what you avoid, and what you stay stuck inWhy clarity doesn’t come from more thinking (and what it does come from)The trap of consuming personal development content instead of actually implementingLinks and Resources Mentioned>> FREE WORKSHOP: The Mission & Meaning Roadmap <<To work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP9: Creating Financial Abundance: The Inner Work AND The Strategic Work Required for Wealth with Kim Kent

    In today’s episode with Kim Kent, money coach and financial advice disruptor, we start the episode by answering the controversial question, which is more important to create wealth - the inner work or the strategic work?This episode is a deep dive on both - the step-by-step inner work and the strategic work needed to create huge financial abundance in your life. We unpack how your nervous system and subconscious beliefs affect your ability to create wealth and why that alone isn’t enough, without structure to support it.We also unpack the practical side of money that most people avoid or oversimplify - how you relate to budgeting, the way your accounts are set up, the order money leaves your life, and how and when to prioritise saving or investing to build long-term wealth.Key Talking Points:Inner work vs strategic work and why financial abundance needs bothThe core money wound underneath your scarcity and why no amount of money ever feels enoughWhy making money is different to holding money (and what actually changes that)The “Person A to Person B” gap. Why self-sabotage kicks in right as things start improving.What to do when you feel wobbly around money - how to create safety without bypassing reality.What matters most between budgeting, saving and investing (and why “budgeting” can feel like punishment if you attach restriction to it).Both of our investments preferences - Stocks vs real estate vs cryptoBoth of our personal preferences what we invest in (stock vs real estate vs crypto)Kim’s personal numbers - property numbers, how much money she made last month, and even how much money she has in her bank accountConnect with KimWebsite - www.kimkent.netInstagram - www.instagram.com/kimkent__/Free savings cheat sheet - www.kimkent.net/savingscheatsheetTo work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP8: Lessons To Take Into 2026 & How To Set Yourself Up For A Better Year

    In this episode, I walk you through the exact prompts and questions I took myself through to extrapolate my key lessons and personal growth points from 2025, along with my own answers. This is done in a way for you to do the same alongside me, making sure you get the lessons out of 2025 you're meant to.I also share, very vulnerably and honestly, my biggest challenges in 2025 and what I would have done differently had I realised them sooner.From there, I teach you how to set yourself up to reach your goals in 2026, in a way that works with your nervous system, so you don’t burn out or fall off by February.Key Talking PointsThe exact prompts to extrapolate your biggest learnings and lessons from 2025My biggest challenges in 2025What to bring into 2026… and what needs to stay behindHow to set goals for 2026 in a way that doesn’t lead to burnout or failureHow many focus areas to have for your goals (& how many is too many)Links and Resources Mentioned>> To book a free, connection call with Sarah click here <<Note: this is not a coaching call. This is to see if it’s a suitable fit to working together.To work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanTo create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP7: 5 Steps to Finding Your Passion For Something Again

    Have you ever gotten a job, a partner, something you really wanted… and you felt happy for a little while but before you know it… that spark has gone? This episode is a very practical, step-by-step how-to process to help you find that passion again. I share very truthfully and vulnerably about my own current experience with fitness, so you can see exactly how to apply this process to your life.Key TakewaysThe 5 Step Process to create more passion, joy and a ZING for what you’re doingHow to use the past as clues for what you’re creatingThe role your self-talk in the experience you’re having and how to shift itSetting yourself up for enjoyment of something and common pitfalls to avoid.Links MentionedHHW Episode on Force vs Discipline vs DevotionTo work with Sarah: To create your own health habits for a lifetime - Health That HoldsFor deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP6: The Two Habits That Have Changed My Life (& How To Apply Them To You)

    In this episode of Head, Heart & Whole, I’m sharing the two daily habits that have made the biggest impact in how I live, feel and experience life. These aren’t quick fixes or once-off practices, they're simple habits I’ve done consistently for years that have changed everything from my focus and energy to how calm and present I feel each day.You’ll learn:The two daily habits that transformed my life (and how to build them into yours)What to do when resistance or “what ifs” come upHow to start small and build new habits graduallyHow to start small and make it sustainable for your lifestyleIf you’ve been craving more peace, presence and energy in your everyday life, this episode will give you a practical place to start.Resources To work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) here

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    EP5: How Do I Know When to Rest and When to Push Through? Force vs Discipline vs Devotion

    This episode explores the very common conflict of knowing when to rest and when to keep going. If you’ve ever struggled to tell whether you’re honouring your body or avoiding discomfort in showing up, this conversation will help you find that balance. This episode is a very practical “how-to”, where I break down:How to identity and know the difference between force, discipline, and devotion How to create habits from devotion rather than forceHow to identify when a pattern needs shifting vs when it’s just an isolated off dayWhy pushing harder doesn’t create consistencyHow to stop trying to create change at the times you’re most depletedCreating a reward system that aligns with your identityLinks and Resources MentionedBLACK FRIDAY SALE: use code BFS30 for 30% off any of:Health That HoldsBefore Health Can HoldSupport Your CycleCode BFS30 at checkout will give you 30% off any until 11:59pm AEDT 1 December.Or bundle all 3 together here.1:1 work with Sarah: For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP4: How To Have More Fun (& Why You Need To)

    In this episode of Head, Heart & Whole, we’re talking about something most adults don’t realise they’ve lost … fun.So many people are going through life doing what they “should” be doing. Ticking boxes. Working hard. Taking care of your health. But when was the last time life actually felt fun? Like you were genuinely enjoying the process of living and excited to wake up each day, not just trying to get through it?This episode is an honest look at how the lack of fun is draining your energy and how bringing it back can really change how you feel in your body, relationships, and everyday life.You’ll learn:How to bring fun back into your life (without finding “more” time for it)The difference between fun and joy (and why both matter)How to easefully integrate fun into your everyday lifeWhat fun looks like when you’re on a personal growth or healing journey (it’s not about forcing “high vibes”)Simple, practical ways to start bringing more fun into your weekIf you’ve been feeling flat, uninspired, or like life’s become a list of things to get done, this episode will be really helpful for you.Links and Resources MentionedWorking with SarahFor deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP3: Why You Care What Other People Think (& What To Do About It)

    In today’s episode of Head, Heart & Whole, I unpack the real reason you care what other people think and what to do about it.This episode goes deeper than “fear of judgment.” Because what’s actually happening underneath isn’t about caring less, it’s about healing the root causes that make you care in the first place.You’ll learn how to identify what’s really driving this pattern, how to stop avoiding the emotions that come with being judged and practical ways to feel more free being seen.We cover:The two root causes of why you care what others thinkHow your nervous system links belonging to safetyWhy it’s not fear of judgment How to stop oversharing your decisions when you’re still finding clarityThe two questions I use when someone judges or comments on my lifeSomatic and subconscious tools for real, lasting changeWhat to do when you can’t control who you’re informing (like sharing online as part of your work)Links and Resources MentionedBreath Different, Feel Different here (POD10 for 10% off)For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor hypnotherapy session email [email protected] To work with Sarah: For Breath Different, Feel Different (POD10 for 10% off)For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP2: Overcoming Overwhelm And The Weight of Having to Do It All Yourself

    This episode of Head, Heart & Whole is a very practical episode on why you struggle with overwhelm and I offer a very different lens to moving through it. It’s not easy managing it all - work, family, friends, money, health, life admin… while trying to squeeze in fun and connection. In this episode, I unpack how rumination keeps you looping in overwhelm, why your body reacts before your mind and practical ways to create more ease and spaciousness so decisions get easier.Key Talking Points or Themes (Bullet Points)What overwhelm actually is and what to do when you're feeling itThe number one question i ask myself that reduces overwhelmTop down vs bottom up approaches to healing and why it mattersOverthinking vs critical thinkingFinding your body’s unique stress signatureHow transformational breathwork healed my overwhelm (& my PTSD)Creating systems in your life and work to take the load offLinks and Resources MentionedBreath Different, Feel Different here (POD10 for 10% off)Let’s Get Spiritual podcast episode on the nervous systemTo work with Sarah: For Breath Different, Feel Different (POD10 for 10% off)For deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] create health habits - Health That HoldsFirst access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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    EP1: From Corporate Law and PTSD to a Life of Freedom and Building a Business in Bali

    Welcome to the first ever episode of Head, Heart & Whole and a re-introduction to me, as I am now. In this episode, I’m sharing some of the most pivotal parts of my life I’ve been too fearful to share until now.This episode starts with the decision to end Let’s Get Spiritual and move into solo podcasting, and then takes you on a vulnerable, honest journey of what it’s really taken to become the woman I am today.I shareWhat it was like growing up in the public eye and the fear of judgement and being torn apart online this createdMy first experiences with mental illness as a teenager.The cycle of chasing achievements and still never feeling enoughNavigating burnout and PTSD while working as a corporate lawyerThe “5 week trip” to Bali that turned into a new lifeBuilding a business from scratch and making my holiday my everyday lifeThe role of somatic breathwork and hypnotherapy in becoming the women I am todayHow difficult my spiritual awakening was and the hard decisions it forced me to make.Where I am now, how I’m feeling, and what I’m currently navigating behind the scenes.Links and Resources MentionedWorking with SarahFor deep 1:1 transformation - The Elevated WomanFor one-off sessions - email [email protected] access to Sarah’s group breathwork events (limited spots) hereTo connect with Sarah on instagram click here.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Head, Heart & Whole is a podcast for conscious people who want to create a better life for themselves - one that feels just as good as it looks and they genuinely love waking up to.Hosted by Sarah Scully-Leaf, it brings together the science and the spiritual, the mind and the body, and the doing with the being.You’ll hear grounded conversations and be given practical tools on emotional regulation, boundaries, healing patterns, rewiring your subconscious, creating fulfilling relationships... and what it really takes to bridge the gap between knowing to embodying.

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Sarah Scully-Leaf

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