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If your intrusive thoughts have ever convinced you that you're secretly dangerous- welcome to Harm OCD. This is the subtype that makes loving, gentle people terrified of their own minds.This week Jess and Laura dig into one of the most misunderstood and shame-soaked corners of OCD- where caring deeply about not hurting anyone gets twisted into "proof" that you might. Harm OCD can include a fear of harming others, yourself, or a fear that harm will/has come to others because of you- this episode explores it all.We talk about what these thoughts actually sound like, why "possible" doesn't mean "probable," and why your brain treats a passing thought like a five-alarm fire. We also get into the messier stuff- anger, allergy and poisoning fears, and the compulsions that quietly creep in when you're trying to "just be sure." Plus: what real exposure work looks like for harm OCD, how to rebuild trust in yourself, and why badly-pitched exposures can do more harm than good.As always, there's Brain Spam, an Exposure Lab, a listener question, and a bit of social media chaos courtesy of Laura.Trigger warning: Please note that this episode contains discussions around harm and suicide, so please listen with caution.Podcast by:Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime Stamps:00:34 What we cover today01:26 Hellos and introductions02:42 Brain Spam07:02 What harm OCD thoughts sound like08:06 Compulsions in harm OCD 08:57 Harm OCD misunderstandings10:00 What if you experience anger with harm OCD?11:14 Common harm OCD themes12:29 Possible vs probable13:56 The meaning of harm OCD themes16:10 Why does it feel so real?18:10 How do we know you won't hurt someone?19:45 OCD vs actual risk of harm 24:15 Common compulsions for harm OCD28:44 Allergy and poisoning fears 29:39 What does therapy look like for harm OCD?33:31 Harm exposures or behavioural experiments 35:07 Trusting yourself again37:00 How exposures can be pitched wrong 39:00 Building up exposures and behavioural experiments 41:55 Harm OCD summary43:15 Laura's social media backlash 44:30 Next episode teaser 45:40 Compassionate work and rebuilding your life47:28 Question from the listeners 49:15 Exposure Lab53:20 Goodbyes  Get in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer:This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

What does the latest OCD research actually tell us, and what does it mean for the people living with it and treating it? This week Jess and Laura dig into the key findings from the recent Orchard OCD International Conference, translating the science into something genuinely useful.They cover a lot of ground: the economic cost of OCD, which brain areas are involved and what that means for treatment, early signs in children, the genetics of OCD, body-focused repetitive behaviours (BFRBs), and what mental health medications are actually targeting (and what questions you should be asking). Plus: mouse models, psychedelic research, PANDAS, secondary OCD, and what healthy lifestyle factors like sleep, diet, and exercise actually do for OCD symptoms.Jess also shares her pet peeves from the research (you'll want to hear those), and they round things off with listener questions, Weekly Wins, and an Exposure Lab challenge.Podcast by:Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps:00:00 Overview of the episode01:00 Introduction and hellos 02:30 Brain Spam05:30 Superstitions and OCD08:10 Disclaimer 08:30 OCD's cost on the economy09:20 Brain areas involved in OCD10:57 Early detection, OCD signs in children15:42 Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours: skin picking and hair pulling 19:57 How much OCD runs in families21:30 What are mental health medications targeting and what types should we ask about?25:33 Mouse research and implications29:30 Psychedelic research and an OCD holiday33:20 Onset ages of OCD and OCD genes32:20 Secondary OCD and PANDAS38:40 Healthy living and OCD; sleep, diet and exercise 39:45 How therapy can use this information48:20 Sleep disorders in OCD49:11 Neuroplasticity to help OCD51:00 Jess' pet peeves from the research53:00 Question from the listeners53:48 Weekly Wins54:42 Exposure Lab55:33 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer:This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

For the first time ever, there are international guidelines for how OCD should be treated — and in this episode, we break them down.Fresh from the Orchard OCD International Conference, Jess and Laura unpack what these landmark guidelines actually say: which treatments are recommended, in what order, and what this means for people with OCD and the clinicians supporting them. From ERP and medication through to TMS and DBS, the guidelines bring global consensus to questions that have long been answered differently depending on where you live or who you see.Before they get there, they cover what the conference revealed about OCD neuroscience — brain imaging showing OCD as a network problem, gene mapping progress, biomarkers, and what the research says about how psychological treatments work on a neurological level. There's also a section on OCD in childhood, apps and neuroimaging, and Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours.This is Part 1 of a series covering the conference — and it's a good one to start with.As always: Brain Spam, Weekly Wins, and a look at what's coming next.Podcast byLaura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonCaveatBefore we get started, a quick disclaimer. This episode is intended for educational and informational purposes only. We discuss a range of medical and therapeutic interventions used in OCD treatment, including medication and neuromodulation approaches such as TMS, DBS and tDCS. However, we are not medical doctors or prescribing professionals, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical advice or a recommendation to pursue any particular treatment.We also mention some commercially available products and technologies. These references are provided for information only and should not be interpreted as an endorsement or recommendation to purchase or use them.If you are considering any medical treatment, medication, or intervention discussed in this episode, please consult a suitably qualified healthcare professional who can advise you based on your individual circumstances.Timestamps:00:34  Extra disclaimer02:26  Catch up02:48  Introduction to the episode04:00  Brain Spam08:33  Who are Orchard OCD?13:25  Takeaways about OCD treatment choice16:00  OCD treatment and costs18:34  OCD in childhood and brain changes20:00  Apps and neuroimaging20:49  OCD as a brain network problem22:26  Exposure Response Prevention (ERP) and cognitive therapy work24:00  Metacognitive Training24:40  Biomarkers and precision psychiatry25:30  Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours27:39  The International Guidelines for OCD Treatment46:30  How the guidelines can help people with OCD49:25  How we plan to use the guidelines52:40  What next?54:06  Possible next episode themes56:01  Weekly Wins58:00  GoodbyesLinks:Orchard OCD: https://www.orchardocd.org/Orchard OCD Registry: https://orchardocdregistry.org/CANMAT/ICOCS International Guidelines for OCD: https://icocs.org/2025-canmat-icocs-international-guidelines-for-the-management-of-patients-with-ocd/Get in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

This week Jess is joined by Joshua Munn, a therapist specialising in OCD and ADHD, for a conversation that's long overdue on this podcast. They get into how to tell OCD and ADHD apart (spoiler: it's not always straightforward), why adapting ERP for ADHD brains actually makes therapy better for everyone, and how ACT and compassion-focused approaches fit into the picture. Expect honest chat about rejection sensitivity, executive functioning, hyperfixation shame, and why the goal was never a neurotypical brain anyway.Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonSpecial guest Joshua Munn, OCD and ADHD specialist therapist Website: www.therapywithjosh.co.uk Social media: @therapywith_josh on Instagram and @therapywithjosh on TiktokTime stamps:00:00 What to expect this episode 01:44 Introduction to Josh02:50 Why Josh started working with OCD and ADHD03:40 How to differentiate OCD and ADHD05:50 Not aiming for a neurotypical brain06:20 Rejection sensitivity and OCD09:00 Imposter syndrome in ADHD and OCD10:30 What executive functioning difficulties people may notice12:40 ADHD adaptions for OCD therapy 17:00 What ACT therapy is and how it works with OCD and ADHD22:00 Neurodivergence and parenting 25:33 Making ERP more ADHD friendly 27:30 Visualising characters for OCD29:20 OCD leading to low mood in ADHD31:00 ADHD and boredom34:33 Neurodivergence and OCD Venn diagrams36:56 Attention training and music 39:10 Hyperfixations and shame39:35 Healthy guilt vs OCD guilt42:52 Josh's favourite tips for OCD and ADHD45:20 Session adaptions for people with ADHD48:00 Being mindful of how much OCD content you consume 50:36 Considerations for medication 53:49 Question from the listeners 56:22 Exposure Lab58:00 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

If you've found yourself Googling "does my child have OCD?" at 11pm, this episode is for you.This week, Laura takes the lead whilst her and Jess take a dive deep into OCD in children and young people — what it looks like, how it hides, and what actually helps. Whether you're a parent trying to make sense of what you're seeing, a young person wondering if what you're experiencing has a name, or a teacher noticing something feels off — this one's for you.They cover the signs parents and teachers often spot first (including one you really might not expect), the most common OCD themes in younger people, and how to have those early, important conversations without making things worse. There's also a genuinely hopeful message for young people who are in the thick of it right now.On the practical side: how to find a good therapist (and the questions to ask to make sure they actually know their stuff), what to expect from therapy sessions, how ERP works with younger clients, what to do if your young person refuses help, family accommodations, and co-regulation — because OCD is a whole-family thing.Plus: listener questions, the Exposure Lab, a brilliant book recommendation for the trickiest of situations, and Laura's reassurance game which is exactly as chaotic as it sounds.Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTimestamps:01:35 – Hello and Greg's Anatomy facts04:13 – Introduction to OCD in children and young people07:05 – Just Checking merch07:47 – Brain Spam 🧠12:44 – Signs a parent might notice in their young person18:22 – Key OCD themes in children and young people22:49 – What early signs can a teacher spot?26:50 – Jess's message of hope28:05 – Laura's tip for young people who think they have OCD31:50 – How to talk to your child about OCD concerns36:40 – Family accommodations39:18 – Co-regulation and modelling for your young person40:40 – What if your young person doesn't want help?43:38 – An amazing book for parents in this situation46:00 – Tips for finding the right therapist47:00 – What to expect in therapy and what gets shared with parents49:00 – How ERP works with young people52:00 – What if someone isn't ready for ERP?55:48 – OCD onset and how to access help1:00:30 – Tips on what you can request1:02:14 – Medication for OCD1:02:44 – Advocating as a parent and key resources1:04:45 – Questions to scope out a good therapist1:06:30 – Listener questions1:08:52 – Exposure Lab1:12:40 – Weekly Wins1:13:26 – Goodbyes📚 Resources mentioned:Because We Are Bad – Lily BaileyNatasha Daniels' videosHow Josh Defeated the Worry Villain- www.reimaginetherapy.co.ukCan I Tell You About OCD? – Amita JassiOCD Tools to Help You Fight Back – CBT workbook for young peopleBreak Free from Childhood Anxiety and OCD – Eli LebowitzThe SPACE ProgrammeLaura's website: Counselling Service North London | Laura Mole Counselling | England OCD-UK: ocduk.orgOCD Action: ocdaction.org.ukGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

If you Googled something terrifying about your baby and ended up here, you're in the right place. This week Jess and Laura are talking about one of the most misunderstood and underdiagnosed presentations of OCD — perinatal OCD. Whether you're pregnant, postpartum, or supporting someone who is, this one's for you.We get into why OCD loves to latch onto the thing you love most, what's actually happening in your brain and body during the perinatal period, and why so many people suffer in silence.We talk about that fear directly, and what advocating for you actually looks like.From the most common perinatal presentations to what therapy actually looks like in this season of life — including why regulation comes before challenging OCD — this episode covers the full picture. We also talk maternity leave grief, secure attachment, parenting values, and we close with a note from someone who has been where you might be right now, and come out the other side.You are not a bad parent. Your thoughts are not your character. And you are not alone in this.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps00:36 Shout out to followers01:10 Things you might have Googled with perinatal OCD02:26 Introductions and shout out to Josh Fletcher09:48 Introduction to perinatal OCD10:44 Brain Spam13:30 Prioproceptive input15:50 Matrescence and mental health20:00 Increased responsibility and vulnerability to OCD22:05 Hormone shifts and OCD23:52 Why OCD latches to the baby24:30 Traumatic births and what you expect to feel26:50 Birth planning and expectations29:40 Preparing for pregnancy with OCD31:30 Perinatal mental health team involvement23:45 Building a village36:07 Main OCD presentations in OCD38:30 How common these intrusive thoughts are39:20 What makes it OCD42:30 Why we need more awareness of this44:00 What if they report things to social services?46:00 How we can advocate for you48:00 What risk do we check more?49:33 Options for support50:55 Therapy for perinatal OCD; how it looks52:00 Regulation before challenging OCD54:00 Grieving maternity leave ideas and living like you value58:21 Secure attachments and OCD1:01:50 Prioritising parenting values1:04:03 Responsive self-care lists1:04:40 A note from someone who is recovered from perinatal OCD1:05:23 Questions from the listeners1:08:25 Key takeaways for perinatal OCD1:09:00 Helpful resources and support websites1:10:24 Exposure Lab1:12:48 Weekly WinsGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd and her perinatal page @jess_the_therapy_mumPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.Resources mentioned:Jess’ perinatal mental health Instagram: @jess_the_therapy_mumBirth Rights: Birthrights - your human rights during pregnancy and maternity care OCDUK: OCD-UK | A national OCD charity, run by, and for people with lived experience of OCD IOCDF Perinatal OCD Resource Centre: Perinatal OCD Resource Center To Help People Find Relief Maternal OCD UK: Welcome to Maternal OCD Postpartum Support International: Postpartum Support International - PSI The Breastfeeding Network (medication guidance): Drugs in Breastmilk factsheets - The Breastfeeding Network

Got OCD questions? Same. This week Jess and Laura tackle the listener mailbag from Laura's Tiktok live— covering how to get tested for OCD, accessing treatment, the serotonin myth, the OCD-ADHD connection, contamination OCD, and false attraction. Laura shares an insight into her feelings around her own OCD journey. There's also a free children's resource on neurodivergence, a children's book on intrusive thoughts, and Jess' entirely predictable over-preparation for an OCD research conference. Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps00:00 Hello chat01:29 Introductions 07:30 Children's book for intrusive thoughts09:30 A free resource for children to understand neurodivergence 12:30 OCD research conference and Jess' over-preparation14:33 Brain Spam18:18 Laura's Tiktok live for questions19:52 How do you get tested for OCD 24:44  How do I get help for OCD?32:44 Is OCD just a lack of serotonin?37:56 Can OCD and ADHD correlate?46:40 I can't touch anything my family have touched because I know it will kill them- how do I stop that?47:55 I feel like myself intrusive thoughts reflect real feelings, they feel so real51:20 Can you explain false attraction and false urges?54:35 Exposure Lab1:01:00 Teaser for next week and goodbyesFor the book mentioned in the episode today, you can find it at www.reimaginetherapy.co.ukGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

This week Jess and Laura tackle one of the most stigmatised “taboo” OCD subtypes around — POCD, - and because we don’t want to get shadow banned, we will refer to it as “PDF File” – but we are not using this term as avoidance, or to avoid triggering anyone - just so you know! It shows up most as intrusive, unwanted sexual thoughts, images, doubts, words about children. This is the one that sends people spiralling in shame and silence instead of reaching out for help. They break down what it actually is (and crucially, what it isn't), why groinal responses happen, what recovery looks like, and why the fact that these thoughts horrify you matters more than you think. This is an episode that will not only help you to feel less alone, but it will highlight exactly how to ask for help, and where to get it. Plus, Jess finally gets Laura crying on the podcast.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps01:39 Hellos and introductions02:59 Brain Spam07:00 Peadophilia vs POCD10:45 A message for people supporting those with POCD17:58 How can pOCD look? And a little note on incest thoughts28:37 What is a groinal response and why does it happen?35:10 Shame in POCD41:54 Recommended help and resources 46:20 When POCD pairs up with other themes49:10 What does recovery look like?51:10 Statistics about types of thoughts53:23 Final tips55:40 Weekly Win58:52 Exposure Lab1:02:00 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Description:⚠️ Content warning: this episode contains discussion of suicidal ideation and themes that some listeners might find distressing. pOCD — pedophilia-themed OCD — is one of the most misunderstood and stigmatised subtypes out there, and Molly Lambert has lived it. In this episode, Molly shares what her intrusive thoughts actually looked and felt like: from existential anxiety to fears about being a paedophile, magical thinking, emotional checking, and the spiral that nearly broke her. She talks honestly about suicidal ideation, how TikTok helped her find her way, what it took to finally share her thoughts with others — and what acceptance can actually look like on the other side.Laura, Jess and Molly also dig into how common pOCD really is, why it tends to hit the people it does, how therapy helped, and why Molly now advocates publicly for OCD awareness (including how she handles the inevitable backlash). Plus: postpartum mums and pOCD, the role of drinking and distraction, and Molly gets involved in the Brain Spam feature 🧠 Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistFeaturing Molly Lambert, OCD and mental illness advocateEdited by Christian NicksonTimestamps:01:00 Hellos01:30 Introducing Molly Lambert02:57 What were Molly's thoughts like? From existential anxiety to paedophile fears05:20 Magical thinking and checking emotions09:20 When the pOCD started to spiral14:40 How common is pOCD and why does it happen?16:45 Thinking about suicide17:30 What helped Molly realise it was OCD?19:30 How drinking and distractions fit in20:50 How TikTok helped23:45 Other themes sneaking in25:30 Starting to share the thoughts with others28:30 Sharing with family30:10 Advice for sharing — and Molly's experience of others' reactions31:20 Therapy for Molly's OCD35:47 Pursuing an OCD diagnosis41:15 What acceptance can look like45:00 Laura's OCD Doris46:00 OCD help needs to be personalised47:15 Molly's advocacy work for OCD53:12 How Molly deals with negative feedback online58:00 Postpartum mums and pOCD1:04:50 How do Molly's friends and family help?1:07:00 Where to find information and support1:12:12 What did 15-year-old Molly need to hear?1:14:33 Brain Spam1:18:50 Wins of the Week1:20:00 Avoidance in pOCD1:20:25 Exposure Lab1:22:30 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and TikTok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD Instagram and Tiktok pages: @jess_helps_your_ocd and @ocdtherapylauraPlease check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Are you a terrible person, or does your brain just really, really want you to think so? This week Jess and Laura get into moral scrupulosity OCD — the subtype where intrusive thoughts aren't about harm or contamination, but about your fundamental character, your values, and whether you've done something unforgivable.Laura gets personal about her own moral OCD compulsions (yes, really), and they unpack why this subtype hits so differently — the shame, the thought-action fusion, and why reassurance-seeking feels almost morally necessary in itself. Plus: a detour into horse willies, a neurodivergent shout-out, and an unexpectedly deep dive into manifesting.🧠 Brain Spam, an Exposure Lab, and a listener question about supporting a loved one with moral OCD round things out nicely.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Laura MoleTime stamps00:43 Stuff you might Google with Moral scrupulosity OCD02:50 Introduction and catch up09:00 Brain 🧠 Spam14:30 Horse willies15:30 What moral OCD is18:00 Laura's moral OCD compulsions 26:30 Why does it feel so bad?28:11 What if i have actually done something bad?31:35 Differences in therapy to help moral OCD; tolerating uncertainty, compassion, and thought-action-fusion. 40:46 Autistic shout-out42:00 OCD irony44:25 Manifesting and OCD50:22 Question from a listener: Supporting a loved one59:02 Exposure Lab1:02:45 Upcoming episode themes 1:03:23 Goodbyes Get in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Ever wondered what goes on behind the therapy room door? This week Jess and Laura answer your questions about therapist life — from why therapy costs what it does to whether we actually have our own therapy (spoiler: yes). It's honest, a little unfiltered, and probably not what you'd expect. Dive in and get to know us better, and listen to what we worry about in OCD therapy too.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps:00:00 Introductions and hellos04:30 Today's themes05:14 Brain Spam13:00 Question for a therapist: what are you writing?18:18 Therapy costs and the ick27:26 People selling OCD dreams32:20 What if you don't like your therapist?39:55 Do therapists have therapy?43:50 How we juggle work and look after ourselves48:00 EMDR therapy for OCD50:57 How does your therapist feel?57:00 What your therapist finds hard when working with OCD1:00:40 Therapist Weekly Wins1:03:15 Exposure Lab1:08:40 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Do you love your partner? Are you sure? What about now? Still sure? If your brain won't stop cross-examining your own feelings, this one's for you.In this episode, Jess and Laura dig into relationship OCD (rOCD) — the subtype that turns love into a courtroom and your own mind into the world's most annoying prosecutor. We cover what rOCD actually looks like, why it's so easy to mistake for genuine doubt, and how it gets you stuck in a loop of checking, reassurance-seeking, and mental reviewing that makes everything worse (classic OCD, honestly).We also get into retroactive jealousy, false memories (yes, including the "did I actually kiss someone at that party in 2009?" variety), where our weirdly perfectionist ideas about relationships come from, and how different treatment approaches can help you stop taking your brain spam quite so literally.Plus: The rOCD trap, some extra considerations for this subtype, and a surprise cameo in the Exposure Lab.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps:00:00 Relationship OCD Google searches02:47 Intro and hello04:40 Brain Spam07:20 Why relationship OCD? 07:42 What is rOCD and what does it look like? 12:45 What might someone with rOCD do?15:00 Where we get perfectionist views of relationships 19:49 The relationship OCD trap23:20 Retroactive jealousy 24:00 Did I just kiss that person? And other false memories27:20 Is this OCD or normal doubt?36:19 How do we work with rOCD? 40:00 How different approaches can work for OCD47:30 Extra considerations for this subtype of OCD1:02:34 Exposure Lab and Peter's cameo1:05:55 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Ever watched someone you love spiral and had no idea what to do — so you just… answered the question? Yeah. This week we're talking directly to the OCD support squad: partners, parents, siblings, and anyone else who's been accidentally colluding with OCD while trying to be a good human.We cover why OCD feels the way it does (brain spam, basically), the sneaky reassurance traps even the most well-meaning loved ones fall into, what to actually say instead, and how to look after yourself in all of this. Warm, honest, occasionally chaotic, and featuring Laura's chunky rims and some words that made Jess blush.Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistEdited by Christian NicksonTime stamps:00:40 Introductions and chunky rims02:30 What we are covering and upcoming episodes 03:50 Brain spam07:20 Recap of the OCD cycle10:15 How OCD feels to someone with it13:46 An example of what OCD is like for the person18:00 Example of the impact of OCD on their loved one20:02 Family accommodation and reinforcing the OCD22:15 Reducing reassurance in a gradual and supportive way26:42 Expectations and time frames for dropping reassurance 27:45 The reassurance trap and sneaky reassurance 30:30 Phrases to use instead of reassurance 31:15 The reassurance book33:42 Validating the emotion, not the thoughts34:30 Reassuring the person, not the OCD phrases 35:45 Managing the shame of a 'failed' exposure 36:40 Balancing care vs colliding with OCD when you need to manage your own emotions 39:07 Attending a therapy session41:19 How to support exposures or behavioural experiments 47:18 Helping to advocate for a loved one with OCD49:50 Neurodivergent considerations52:10 Support for the supporter54:00 What if the loved one doesn't want help?57:18 What people with OCD want you to know 1:00:15 Do's and dont's 1:02:48 OCD Wins of the Week1:04:13 Exposure Lab1:06:15 Goodbye! Get in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Convinced you'll be the one person who does Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) wrong? This one's for you. Jess Hayes and Laura Mole walk through how ERP actually works — who picks the exposures, how scary they need to be, and why you genuinely cannot fail — plus what happens when therapy ends.Exposure and Response Prevention is all about exposing yourself to your OCD fears (exposure) and then making active choices in not engaging in compulsions and avoidance (response prevention) to challenge the OCD, and it is often referred to as the 'gold standard' of OCD treatment. This episode explores why it can be a helpful approach, and future episodes will discuss some alternatives. Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapistandJessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapistandChristian Nickson, editorTime stamps:02:00 Brain spam05:20 OCD brains need to obsess07:20 Compassionate other voices 09:20 ERP as the gold standard, what is it?10:45 Amygdala, the brain, and the threat response 15:44 How ERP fits into cognitive behavioural therapy18:40 Which CBT treatments are unhelpful for OCD21:45 Brody and their contamination OCD24:20 How might ERP look like for Brody?26:30 What we don't do with ERP27:10 Do you have to immediately do exposures?27:30 Who picks the exposures? 28:30 You are in control and what to do if you aren't ready?29:28 You can't fail your ERP31:15 How scary should exposures be? How Brody tackles ERP34:29 What to do to make ERP work?36:00 How family and other support can help 41:10 What comes after therapy?43:00 When does ERP not work? 46:34 ERP is imperfect 49:05 Questions from the listeners: ERP and medication51:20 Key takeaways for ERP for OCD51:55 OCD Weekly Wins52:56 Exposure Lab feedback55:20 Exposure Lab for contamination OCD56:20 Thank you and goodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Come with us, Laura Mole and Jess Hayes, as we explore the 'checking' in 'Just Checking'. You get to hear about a day in the life of Shenrique, as we talk all about how they check to make sure that they aren't a bad person, then take a lesson from vampire superstitions to break the OCD loop. As always, you also get a look into our brain spam, and get to shout out your weekly OCD wins too. Time Stamps:01:30: Dramas through our week07:00: What OCD Doris has been up to10:30: Interoceptive differences in neurodivergence and health anxiety13:15: Brain spam18:48: Our story telling about checking clients23:00: Epstein files, me too and OCD23:20: Shenrique's checking compulsions in case they are a bad person27:50: What checking actually does28:40: Shout out to Elyse Myers 30:00: The OCD cycle and what keeps it going31:25: Vampires and OCD to show what to aim for37:49: Hierarchies and values-based erp lists40:40: Do we have to do an exposure to everything on the list? 43:55: How do we help Shenrique?45:40: More tolerance, not more certainty 46:40: OCD wins of the week51:00: Questions from the listeners: OCD diagnosis53:00: Exposure lab feedback from imaginal exposure54:50: Exposure lab for checking 56:40: OCD being a big anxiety diverter58:00: Goodbyes Get in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Join us, Laura Mole and Jessica Hayes, to really pick apart an OCD subtype that isn't talked about much. False memories and real-event OCD gets explored in this episode, you'll get to understand mental and invisible compulsions, and you even get a look into Jess' dog frustrations and Laura's big brain fails to get to know us more. We hope you have as much fun with it as we did. Time stamps:00:30 Jess talks Dobby the house elf02:30 Introduction to real-event OCD02:58 Exposure feedback from our self-care09:10 Using our support systems 10:00 Spoon theory 12:30 How we felt releasing the podcast13:50 Brain spam 19:00 Real event OCD and false memories, how it works19:50 Why memory is unreliable, despite what your OCD says24:00 Sexual shame memories 25:30 Mental compulsions and what they do26:40 Laura starts buffering 30:45 Cancel culture and real-event OCD32:40 Why is guilt there?35:00 Perfect morals and values37:00 Over-apologising and OCD39:00 Mental compulsions vs just thinking 44:20 What is pure O?44:58 Can ERP work for mental compulsions? 46:20 The mental load of OCD48:10 What we aim for in therapy for OCD49:15 Dropping anchor to help with rumination53:47 OCD wins of the week55:00 Exposure lab100:00 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

In this episode, we go through some of the wider factors that can make someone more susceptible to OCD, and some things that might have made previous therapy unsuccessful. Laura Mole talks through a way to build some self-compassion and Jessica Hayes shares some tips for those who are neurodivergent too. As always, we talk things through with a bit of humour and a whole lot of validation. So grab a brew, settle in, and listen to some friends get passionate about OCD. Time Stamps00:40 Introduction and hello01:20 Exposure lab feedback05:30 Brain spam- our intrusive thoughts feature13:40 Jess' book for children to protect people from OCD15:55 Coping skills to tolerate exposures18:04 Laura gets lost18:35 Window of tolerance and why ERP is sometimes too hard20:25 How self-care fits into OCD therapy22:32 Responsive self-care vs self-care compulsions30:00 A list for when your amygdala is driving the bus and how loved ones can help32:40 Self-esteem and how this plays into OCD35:00 Neurodivergent self-regulation and sensory needs41:20 Building self-compassion to help OCD44:20 Laura's self-compassion exercise 49:40 OCD Wins of the Week52 :00 Exposure Lab54:30 GoodbyesFor the book referenced in the episode, you can find it at www.reimaginetherapy.co.ukGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

Join us, Laura Mole and Jessica Hayes, as we start to challenge myths around OCD and share some tips around what help can look like. Just two friends having a chat about something we are passionate about, hopefully in a way that makes you feel heard. You can listen to Laura pranking Jess and come along for the ride while we firm up some new features, and give you some food for thought around OCD too. Time Stamps00:00 Intro and Laura's prank03:26 Our training and approaches07:12 Things our d*ckead brains have said this week11:28 Resources for you12:00 Exposure feedback13:30 Therapist competencies and OCD help17:35 You have to be tidy to have OCD, right? And other myths24:35 OCD and the thousand chamber gun27:50 OCD risk assessing, trust and personality traits36:00 What if, just in case37:20 Useful questionnaires40:25 Helpful places to start challenging OCD41:00 When things can be helpful vs reinforce the OCD47:20 Exposures for the week52:00 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

An episode where you get to know us, Jess Hayes and Laura Mole, and our wonderful guest host, Jess Marriner. Grab a coffee and listen to three friends and therapists talk all things OCD and let us share some interesting insights you might not have considered. Prepare for some swearing, tangents, and genuinely useful knowledge too. Time Stamps:00:00 Intro and theme03:00 Things our d*ckhead brains said this week09:30 Visualising differences in OCD15:00 Dreams in OCD, important?16:30 Manifestation and other social media trends19:10 Life as an OCD therapist23:15 OCD search for certainty 24:00 How to know if it is OCD34:30 What compulsions do we see?36:15 What we want to hear from you39:50 Taboo topics and Jess H's inappropriate surveys42:30 Exposures from us45:00 GoodbyesGet in Touch:Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us:Email us at [email protected] us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpodFor our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocdPlease check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing Content Warnings:We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Disclaimer This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.