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Love, Brie
by Brianne Hogan
Welcome to Love, Brie! I write about dating for a living… and somehow, I’m still figuring it out. Join me, Brianne Hogan, as I navigate heartbreak, hookups, and awkward romantic chaos in my 40s. Confessions, laughs, and hard-earned lessons guaranteed—because even a dating expert doesn’t always get it right.
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modern dating advice: why i write about love, rejection, and connection
Hi! I'm back! at least for this week. Today's episode is a little more personal and raw!!! I’m sharing why I became a dating and relationships writer in the first place—and how my perspective on love, connection, and modern dating is evolving in real time. From where I think dating is headed to...
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why dating younger men isn’t a trend: Leslie Morgan Steiner on age-gap relationships and love after 40
In this episode of Love, Brie, we’re spilling all the tea on dating younger men, age-gap relationships, and what love after 40 and 50 really looks like. I chat with Leslie Morgan Steiner, bestselling author and modern-love maven, about how dating younger men liberated her, challenged society’s...
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what 2025 taught me about dating and myself
In this episode, I reflect on my 2025 dating journey and the lessons learned along the way. From navigating textuationships to dating outside my usual type, I share how I embraced intentional dating and learned to value genuine connection. I explore why good grammar doesn’t replace real-life...
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how a single 42-year-old woman enjoys the holiday season
n this episode of Love, Brie, I’m diving into what it really feels like to navigate the holidays as a single 42-year-old woman — and how to actually enjoy it. If the season has ever made you feel behind, lonely, or like you need a partner to make things “magical,” this episode is your reminder…
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365 orgasms in a year with Annette Benedetti
On this episode of Love, Brie, I chat with Annette Benedetti, a Portland-based sex and intimacy coach and host of the globally acclaimed podcast Talk Sex With Annette (ranked in the top 2.5% worldwide!). Annette shares her bold and fascinating personal experiment: having an orgasm every single…
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i hate the early stages of dating (just make me your girlfriend)
I don’t do well in the early stages of dating—and I’ve finally accepted it. In this episode of Love, Brie, I share what I’ve realized about myself: I thrive as someone’s girlfriend, but the back-and-forth uncertainty of “getting to know you” is draining. I get candid about my own dating life, the...
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the soft girl's guide to cuffing season
This week on Love, Brie, we’re entering our Soft Girl Cuffing Season Era. Inspired by my recent Substack essay, I’m embracing this season with softness, warmth, and playful receiving energy — no chasing, no forcing, just trusting that the right connection will meet me where I am. In this episode…
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modern dating nightmares, ghosting, and emotional vampires with Rory Uphold
Does dating often feel like a horror movie? On this episode of Love, Brie, I sit down with author and podcast hotst Rory Uphold (Crimes of the Heart, Sundance Fellow, TV writer) to talk about her upcoming book A FINAL GIRL’S GUIDE TO THE HORRORS OF DATING. We dive into ghosting, love-bombing...
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the new rules i’m setting for love, sex, and dating
Confession: I swiped like a maniac on dating apps last week — and realized my needy energy was sabotaging my love life. In this episode, I get real about the subconscious patterns that make me overextend, chase the wrong men, and stay stuck on the ones who aren’t right for me. I share how I’m...
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let's make dating fun again!
Dating used to terrify me. I didn’t know what I wanted, I was scared of rejection, and honestly? I was scared of letting someone into my life. But somewhere along the way, I realized dating doesn’t have to be a chore — it can actually be fun. In this episode of Love, Brie, I talk about how to…
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sexuality after 40: pleasure, health & liberation with jenna switzer
This week, I’m joined by holistic sex coach and yoga instructor Jenna Switzer for a liberating conversation about sexuality in our 40s and beyond. We talk about why this stage of life can feel so freeing, how to care for ourselves and our pleasure, and what it means to put our sexual health and...
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why rejection in dating is actually a good thing
Rejection stings, but it’s not the enemy—it’s actually a sign you’re on the right path in dating. In this episode of Love, Brie, I share how I’ve learned to reframe rejection as something to be proud of, not ashamed of. Every “no” isn’t proof that you’re failing—it’s proof that you’re showing up...
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why i don’t get nervous before first dates + my new yahoo canada dating column
Hi friends! Big news — my very first dating advice column with Yahoo Canada is out, and I couldn’t be more excited to share it with you. In this episode of Love, Brie, I talk about what it was like stepping into that advice-columnist role (spoiler: it feels a little surreal!) and why the old…
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dating apps, matchmaking, and the best cities to find love with matchmaker Cassindy Chao
Dating these days is…a lot. From endless swiping on Hinge and Bumble to awkward talking stages that never seem to end, it can feel like finding love is a full-time job. That’s why I brought in matchmaker Cassindy Chao for this week’s episode of Love, Brie. We break down what a matchmaker actually...
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dating as a relationship writer: what it’s really like
What’s it really like to date while writing about relationships, love, and modern dating trends? In this episode, I share my personal experiences navigating the dating world as a relationship columnist and writer. I dive into the challenges of dating, from first impressions to online dating, and...
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red flags in dating I missed (even as a relationships writer)
Even relationship writers can miss the obvious red flags in dating. In this episode, I share the relationship blind spots that kept me from seeing the signs of unhealthy relationships, the dating mistakes I made, and why they were so easy to overlook at the time. You’ll hear how hindsight changes...
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traveling isn't a personality (and my current thoughts on dating apps)
In this episode of Love, Brie, I’m diving into the messy, performative world of modern dating apps — from why I don’t think they’re a fit for me to what I’ve noticed about the lack of real connection they often create. I talk about how “traveling” has somehow become a placeholder for personality,...
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i have a dating advice column! + an update on my dating life
In this episode of Love, Brie, I’m officially announcing my brand new dating advice column with Yahoo! Canada -- and yes, it’s specifically for those of us navigating love and lust in our 40s. I also give some juicy updates on my personal love life, including the latest on the surgeon…
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fyi: he's not going to change once he's in a relationship
Let’s have a little come-to-Jesus moment, shall we? In this episode of Love, Brie, I’m delivering a much-needed pep talk for anyone hanging onto the hope that maybe he’ll change once he “commits.” Spoiler alert: he won’t. If he’s confused now, if he’s inconsistent now, if he’s not choosing you…
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why i'm choosing to believe i'm in my meeting season
today I’m talking about something I'm calling: my meeting season. That subtle, sacred shift from simply being single to knowing, or at least hoping, that you're entering the season where love shows up. The season of “almosts” turning into “oh, this could be something.” I woke up feeling a little...
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unlocking love & money blocks with energy healer Missy Toy Ozeas
In this powerful episode of Love, Brie, I’m joined by intuitive energy healer Missy Toy Ozeas to explore how our subconscious blocks around love, dating, and even money are deeply interconnected. This conversation is part of my “Single Series” (originally aired on my previous podcast), and it’s…
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intimacy without commitment, like a grown-up
In this episode of Love, Brie, I’m diving into one of the most overlooked parts of modern dating: how to do intimacy without commitment — and do it like a grown-up. Too often, casual connections lack the honesty, respect, and emotional maturity that make them feel good for everyone involved. I…
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you don't want him obsessed with you, trust me
You don’t want him obsessed with you — you need to be obsessed with you. This week on Love, Brie, I’m diving into the dating trend that’s taken over TikTok and beyond: women saying they only want a man who's “obsessed” with them. And honestly? That energy is not it. Here’s the thing — you don’t...
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breakup bodies, self-love & moving for you: a conversation with Bangs
What does it mean to have a “breakup body”—and can it be more about healing than revenge? In this episode of Love, Brie, I sit down with certified life coach and spin instructor Bangs to talk about the powerful connection between movement, self-love, and being single. We unpack the myth of the...
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don't date like a black cat, date like a human
In this solo episode of Love, Brie, I go on a bit of a rant (surprise!) about the state of modern dating and what I’ve been noticing lately — more detachment, more aloofness, and a lot less actual connection. It feels like everyone is trying to date like a black cat: cool, mysterious…
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why dating outside your type might be exactly what you need
In this quick solo episode, I dive into what happens when you start dating outside your “type”—and no, I’m not just talking about looks. I’m talking energy, patterns, and the familiar dynamics we subconsciously gravitate toward. I share my own experiences with breaking the cycle, what I’ve…
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how to fall in love with your life (and yourself) with Laura Sylvester
From my Seriously Single podcast archives: Okay guys—this one is for all my single girlies (and anyone who needs a reminder that you are the love of your life). I sat down with self-love and empowerment coach Laura Sylvester, and wow—this conversation felt like a warm hug and a cosmic nudge back...
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ghosted, anxious, and looking for answers (I’ve been there)
Okay, let's talk about ghosting. It sucks. It's confusing, destabilizing, and can leave you spiraling, looking for validation and answers that might never come. In this solo episode, I share my own story of being ghosted — the anxiety it triggered, the constant urge to overanalyze and seek...
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let’s talk about masturbation: solo sex, pleasure, and ditching the shame with Sexologist Jordan D'Nelle
May is Masturbation Month, and we're going all in. In this episode of Love, Brie, I’m joined by certified sexologist and pleasure advocate Jordan Nelle for a candid, empowering conversation about solo sex, self-pleasure, and why it’s time we stop whispering about masturbation — especially when it...
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the best dating tip ever: stay single as long as possible
In this episode of Love, Brie, I share what I believe is the best dating tip ever: stay single as long as possible. Yep, you read that right. In a world that constantly pressures us to pair up, I’m making a case for embracing your single era — not just surviving it, but thriving in it. We get…
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why dating with detachment changed everything for me
In this episode, I get personal about something that’s changed the way I date — and honestly, the way I see myself: dating with detachment. Not in a cold or disinterested way, but in the most self-loving, self-honouring way possible. I share where I used to be — dating from a place of anxiety,...
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living with parents, single in your 40s, and navigating modern dating with Simone Paget
In this episode of Love, Brie, I sit down with Canadian writer Simone Paget to talk about life in your 40s, being single, and the experience of living with our parents as adults. We recorded this episode last year when the podcast was still called Seriously Single, so while some things have…
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quit shitting on dating apps and take your power back
In this straight-talking episode of Love, Brie, I’m calling it out: it’s time to stop shitting on dating apps and stop complaining about them. If you're stuck in a loop of frustration, blaming the apps for every dating woe, or constantly declaring that “dating is the worst” — this is your big...
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navigating first love & heartbreak with author Lisa Phillips
First love. First heartbreak. Two experiences that shape the way we love, connect, and heal. In this episode of Love, Brie, I sit down with Lisa Phillips, author of First Love: Guiding Teens Through Heartbreak and Relationships, to explore what makes these early relationships so impactful. I…
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how to actually make friends as an adult
Making friends as an adult can feel intimidating, but what if it’s not as hard as we think? In this episode, I dive into the art of building real friendships—not just meeting people, but actually forming meaningful connections. Inspired by last week’s episode on meeting people “in the wild,” this...
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yes, you can meet people in the wild—but you have to make it happen
A lot of people say, “Just get off the apps and meet people in real life.” Cool. But how? Because simply showing up somewhere—joining a hobby group, going to a coffee shop, or sitting at a bar—doesn’t magically mean you’ll meet someone. You actually have to make things happen. In this episode…
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dating securely: how i'm learning to trust myself in love
In this episode, I dive into how my approach to dating has evolved and why I’m now dating from a more secure and confident place. I share my personal journey of unlearning old patterns, setting better boundaries, and truly trusting myself in relationships. From recognizing red flags earlier to...
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why we're all feeling stuck right now
Feeling stuck this year? Same. It's not just you -- there's a major energetic shift happening and a lot of us are questioning what's next. Blame astrology, numerology, or just life being life, but this "in between phase" is actually a big sign of change. In this episode, I break down why so many…
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hi! and welcome to Love, Brie! xoxo
Hi! It's been a while! i know...lots to catch up on! Including my new podcast title... Love, Brie! So why Love, Brie? Well...I get into all of that, including what you can expect from the show moving forward. Basically, this is all about love, connection, and cultivating the life you love and are...
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how to meet people in real life and NOT on the dating apps
you guys know I hate the dating apps and I know I'm not alone! I hadn't been on apps for 10 years and I definitely met and slept with people, so it's possible! I'm spilling my secrets on how to meet people in real life and not on the dating apps from hobbies to work to, yes, even exes! plus my...
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how to heal, feel, and let that shit go (with author & podcaster Rachel Kaplan)
let's learn how to build emotional resilience and improve our self love! and we learn how to do that with this week's guest, psychotherapist, TEDx Talker, and podcaster Rachel Kaplan. Rachel is the author of the new book Feel, Heal & Let That Sh*t Go and in today's episode we talk about what that...
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how can you be single without it becoming your identity
i'm sharing this episode on my couch, talking out loud how i feel about being single as my identity, and why I don't like that or want that, and how i think we could change it -- if you identify with what I am talking about! + a TAROT CARD pull about the one thing you want to change in your life...
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what it's like to be a single and childfree woman (with podcaster Pip Brown)
i loove love this episode! this episode has it all! we talk about healing! we talk about what we love most about being single! we talk about being childfree and single, and why. we talk about why we're so glad we didn't get married! we talk about why single women's achievements should be…
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what to do when you don't feel chosen + TAROT CARD PULL
do you sometimes feel like you're not chosen? ugh. me too. it's been a lifelong battle of mine from friendships to relationships, and it's a tough one. in this vulnerable episode, i share my struggles with not feeling chosen, how i deal with it, my advice for those who are feeling the same, and i...
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how to travel solo as a single person (with travel entrepreneur & single gal Katie Johnson)
traveling solo is the best! and definitely not an experience to be missed, especially as a single person! whether you've traveled solo before or not, this is THE episode for you. On the show we have Katie Johnson, an entrepreneur, expert solo traveler, and single woman. We talk about the safety...
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ROMANTICIZE YOUR LITTLE LIFE
It's that time of year again when the days get shorter and colder (for most of us, anyway). we all need to feel warm and cozy, and we all deserve to experience some romance. the good news is -- we don't need to be in a relationship to experience any of that! in today's episode, I share what I've...
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changing your beliefs about being single and celibacy (with Lucy Meggeson)
in today's episode we get honest about how powerful our own thoughts are when it comes to embracing being single. For example if you keep thinking being single is shit, then guess what? It will be. But our guest, Lucy Meggeson, is here to help you shift your perspective on your single status by...
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i finally joined a dating app
I joined a dating app this summer. This is something I didn’t think I would do. I swore up and down to friends and family, to even my dating coach, that I wouldn’t do it. “I like meeting men in the wild,” I said over and over again. “It’s more organic that way. It feels more aligned to me.” (This...
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dating over 40 (with Gurki Basra)
dating over 40 is the best!! seriously! and today's guest Gurki Basra is here to tell you why. hint: it's all about knowing who you are and taking the time to create the life you want. Gurki is 42 years old and single and reluctantly became the first reality TV star for Netflix when she signed up...
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i don't want to be single anymore
SEASON 2 is BACK WITH A BANG! Brianne Hogan doesn’t want to be single anymore! Lock up your sons! Here she comes! Well, okay, maybe it’s not quite like that. Although in my world, it is quite the revelation since the most significant thing about me, for the majority of my life, is that I’m…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Love, Brie! I write about dating for a living… and somehow, I’m still figuring it out. Join me, Brianne Hogan, as I navigate heartbreak, hookups, and awkward romantic chaos in my 40s. Confessions, laughs, and hard-earned lessons guaranteed—because even a dating expert doesn’t always get it right.
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Welcome to Love, Brie! I write about dating for a living… and somehow, I’m still figuring it out. Join me, Brianne Hogan, as I navigate heartbreak, hookups, and awkward romantic chaos in my 40s. Confessions, laughs, and hard-earned lessons guaranteed—because even a dating expert doesn’t always get...
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