Love on Top

Episodes

1. 12

   Is Love Really Not Enough?

   “Love is not enough.” It’s a phrase many of us have wrestled with, sometimes quietly, sometimes painfully. Some of us have concluded that love must need assistance, that surely we need more than love to survive, to remain, to heal. For more, click this episode. You won’t regret it!

   Feb 4, 2026

   12m
2. 11

   Love Is Not an Interview

   Lately, many of us feel socially exhausted, not because we don’t love people, but because connection has started to feel like an evaluation. In this episode of Love On Top, we explore why meeting up with friends can feel draining, why conversations often lose their spark, and how comparison…

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   Jan 28, 2026

   6m
3. 10

   Why Dating Feels So Exhausting

   Why does effort in love feel so risky today? Why has dating turned into strategy instead of sincerity? In this episode, we explore how fear, past pain, and emotional self-protection have reshaped modern dating. We talk about why people withhold effort, why vulnerability feels dangerous, and how...

   Jan 21, 2026

   10m
4. 9

   2025 Residue

   Before we crossed into 2026, many of us paused, some out loud, some quietly within ourselves, and acknowledged the same truth: 2025 was not gentle. It was a year marked by heavy lessons. A year that demanded endurance, patience, and a kind of courage we didn’t know we possessed until we had no...

   Jan 14, 2026

   11m
5. 8

   You Have No Reason To Not Be Confident

   When you know who you are, there is no reason to doubt yourself. Knowing your identity is your strength. Once you are aware of who you are, no one and nothing can try and give you a false identity. Knowing yourself leaves no room for false negative opinions to shape you. Reclaim your identity…

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   Nov 26, 2025

   16m
6. 7

   Problem In-Laws

   Today we’re talking about enmeshment—a pattern that quietly strains many marriages. Enmeshment is when the boundaries between family members become blurred or almost non-existent. It’s when parents or in-laws remain so emotionally involved that a married couple struggles to form their own…

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   Oct 12, 2025

   10m
7. 6

   How to Protect Your Marriage

   Many people treat singleness as a punishment, a waiting room, or a season of envy and idleness. But singleness is not a curse—it is a time of preparation. When you step into marriage, you should not enter spiritually half-naked. You are walking into a covenant instituted by God, and that requires...

   Oct 3, 2025

   11m
8. 5

   My Marriage is Falling Apart

   Marriage is a covenant—and the enemy hates covenant. He knows that when two people come together in God’s design, there’s fruitfulness, there’s unity, there’s legacy. So he tries to shake it up with distractions—grief, fear, financial stress, health scares—anything that takes your focus away from...

   Sep 26, 2025

   8m
9. 4

   Becoming Before Belonging

   People say things like: “When I get married, I’ll become more patient.” Or “Once I have a husband or a wife, I’ll learn how to serve and sacrifice.” Some even think marriage itself will fix habits like selfishness, pride, irresponsibility, or avoidance. But let’s pause here—because the truth is,...

   Sep 17, 2025

   8m
10. 3

    Consulting God Before Marriage

    Many of our relationships fail because we’re trying to be our own experts, bypassing God's wisdom, His will, and His design. It’s only birthed more broken relationships. So, let’s go back to the beginning. Let’s return to Genesis. That’s where we rebuild. Genesis doesn’t just tell us how...

    Aug 27, 2025

    14m
11. 2

    Before You Say 'Yes' — Listen to This

    Social media has become one of the loudest voices in how we view love and relationships, and in many ways, how we think we should show up in them. But here's the truth: that influence can be dangerous.

    Aug 20, 2025

    18m
12. 1

    Preparation Before Partnership

    We often pray for the partner, but not for the preparation. In this episode, I share the lessons I learned when God revealed that my way of loving wasn’t as selfless or rooted as I believed. From relearning how to pray, to understanding Godly intentions, to inviting the Holy Spirit into every...

    Aug 12, 2025

    16m