Magnetic Communication

Send us Fan MailOverwhelmed and burned out? You're not alone. This episode is for anyone running on empty who needs to stop but can't figure out how.Sandy is 11 days out from a 10-day Vipassana silent meditation course. She has an active book campaign running, a Speak Brave cohort mid-flight, and a business that doesn't know it's about to lose its CEO. And she's going anyway.This is Episode 4 — the final episode in the Going Silent series.In this episode you'll learn:— Why 75% of workers are burned out in 2026 and the real driver that might surprise you (DHR Global 2026 Workforce Trends Report)— The honest conversation Sandy had with Kris about why she's really going — and the question about worthiness she'd never said out loud before— The Silence Inventory exercise that creates powerful insight in just 5 minutes— The Instant EQ Guided Reset — an 8 minute guided tool to shift you into a calm headspace quickly— What Sandy is witnessing in her Speak Brave June cohort — and the question it's asking her— The huge surprise that happened in the first hour of Sandy's Connected Conversations pre-order launchJoin the journey! Pre-order Sandy's new book, Connected Conversations at publishizer.com/connected-conversations before August 15th and get a whole bunch of bonuses. Sandy's free guided silence session and the Instant EQ Reset Audio tool are both inside the Best Chapter community on Skool. https://www.skool.com/bestchapter

Send us Fan MailThe EQ tool to help you pause before you react, that's what you're walking away with today. And once you understand how you're wired, you'll see why pausing has always been harder than it looks.Sandy is 15 days out from a 10-day Vipassana silent meditation course. No phone, no talking, ten hours of meditation a day. She signed up curious and a little brave. Then she read three books about what she actually committed to. This episode is her honest, slightly panicked, completely real reaction to what she found.This is Episode 3 in the Going Silent series.In this episode you'll learn:Why you're wired to react — and what the Stanford marshmallow test reveals about how you're builtWhy Sandy's lowest EQ score is and what her Experience and Achievement Emotional Magnets have to do with thatWhat observational non-reaction means and why it's the most confronting thing she's read about this courseThe connected conversation Sandy had with Kris on the beach in Tofino — and the one question that stopped everythingWhy everything that's ever scared Sandy has turned out to be the thing that changed her mostThe EQ Switch — the 3 step neuroscience backed tool to pause before you react

Send us Fan MailHow to quiet your inner critic isn't about positive thinking or pushing the voice down. It starts with understanding the two modes that keep feeding it — and most of us have been running both without knowing it.Your brain cycles between craving — the reaching, the not yet, not enough, not there — and aversion — the avoiding, the deciding not to look at the thing directly. A monk spent a lifetime naming them. A CEO discovered the same truth with two questions he does every morning before he picks up his phone, and within weeks described a shift in how he leads, listens, and shows up at home.This is Episode 2 in the Going Silent series. Sandy is 3 weeks out from a 10-day Vipassana silent retreat — no phone, no talking, ten hours of meditation a day — and she's bringing you along the whole way.In this episode you'll learn:What craving and aversion are and how they show up in your job and your relationshipsWhy your inner critic gets loudest the moment things go quietWhat Thich Nhat Hanh calls Radio NST and why 30 to 50 percent of your day is running itWhat the first three days of Vipassana involve and why it starts with the nostrilsThe First and Last Thought practice: two questions that shifted everything for one CEOHow to find out in 30 seconds what your mind is actually running right now

Send us Fan MailWhat if the thing driving your ambition and the thing making you feel like you're never enough are the same voice?I just confirmed my spot in a 10-day Vipassana Meditation course starting July 1st. Ten days of complete silence, no phone, no family, no talking, no writing, four in the morning wake-up bell, ten hours of meditation a day. There's nothing serene about why I said yes. I said yes because thirty years of achieving hasn't quieted the voice, and I want to know what will.This is Episode 1 in the Going Silent series. Over the next four episodes I'm bringing you along as I prepare for the most challenging thing I've signed up for. Then on July 1st I go quiet, and when I come back I'll share what I found.In this episode you'll learn:What Vipassana actually is and what it teaches about how the mind worksWhy craving and aversion show up in every difficult conversation you haveThe difference between ambition and the program your inner child is still runningThree questions to sit with this week to start shifting your self-talkWhy silence might be the most powerful communication tool any of us has

Send us Fan MailPoor communication ends more relationships than infidelity or money and most couples don't see it coming until they've already drifted.I've been married twice before this marriage. The first one lasted four months. The second one lasted seven years. Neither one ended because we stopped loving each other. They ended because we stopped communicating and I didn't understand that until I was standing in the wreckage asking myself how it kept happening.A YourTango survey of 100 mental health professionals found that 65% named communication breakdown as the number one driver of divorce. Not finances or affairs. The way couples talk to each other — or stop — is what does the most damage.In this episode I share what drift looks like before it gets loud, and the five small daily habits you can use to keep connection close when life keeps pulling you apart.Topics covered:Why poor communication is the leading cause of relationship breakdownWhat drift is and how it starts before you notice itThe 5 daily habits that keep connection closeEmotional Magnets, understanding what your partner actually needs to feel safe and seenWhy novelty and curiosity are the antidote to driftYour relationship doesn't need a grand gesture. It needs this episode.

Send us Fan MailThe last episode on neck body language broke comment records.So Sandy's back with more because you asked, and because the most popular BLOG post on her website still has gems worth pulling out.In this episode, Sandy shares a handful of face and neck body language tips you can use in your very next conversation. Today. From the smile that actually changes your tone of voice, to the connection cue that disarms even the most guarded person in the room, to the one posture shift high achievers use to project confidence before they've said a word.You'll also hear the story of a woman Sandy spotted at a networking event - hand on neck, shoulders in, eyes down - and what happened when Sandy walked over and used exactly these signals to make her feel safe.No complicated techniques. No performance tricks. Just small, specific awareness that changes how people experience you.And the part Sandy loves most, how you experience yourself.

Send us Fan MailThere is a gesture your body makes when you're stressed or overwhelmed and you're probably doing it without knowing it. And it's telling everyone in the room that you're not as confident as you want to appear.In this episode, Sandy breaks down what the neck-touch gesture actually means, why your nervous system gives you away before you've said a word, and what FBI counterintelligence agent Joe Navarro says you should do the moment you catch yourself doing it.You'll also hear about Andrea, a woman in a meeting Sandy noticed mid-session and the one question Sandy asked that brought her straight back into the room. No intervention. Just the right question at the right moment. That's emotional intelligence in real time.Plus: why catching this signal in yourself is the skill that actually changes how you communicate and how to use it to show up with more confidence and a lot more presence.Your body is already in the conversation. This episode helps you understand what it's saying.