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MikeMehlman.net

by Mike Mehlman

Sup guys. If you're a reader of my blog, mikemehlman.net, then hopefully you'll enjoy this podcast experience. This is sorta just an "audio experiment" for the time being. Maybe you'll find this podcast boring as fuck. Or maybe you'll get some value out of it. Either way, I'm humbled and grateful for your time.

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  1. Why you're not exchanging with more girls on the cold approach

    Read full article that goes with this podcast here: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/06/25/why-youre-not-exchanging-with-more-girls-on-the-cold-approach/

  2. The #1 factor that determines how much SEX a male has

    See full article that pairs with this podcast: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/06/11/the-1-factor-that-determines-how-much-sex-a-male-has/

  3. 5 things you should DO on the cold approach

    See full article that pairs with this podcast: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/06/08/5-things-you-should-do-on-the-cold-approach/

  4. 81 girls' contacts in 9 hours of daygame

    See full article that pairs with this podcast: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/05/28/81-girls-contacts-in-9-hours-of-daygame/

  5. How to overcome insecurities about appearance

    Watch this podcast in video form on YouTube here. -- Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This short clip briefly addresses how we can make strides...

  6. Why the most affectionate girls will ghost

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This short clip briefly addresses why you should never be surprised when a girl who you think is interested in...

  7. "How can I improve my self-esteem?" (DIFFERENT from growing confidence)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've discussed in a lot of my content about how to improve confidence. In this current clip I compare that…

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  8. Why most guys who seem promising STOP approaching women

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This is an advanced-level clip discussing why most guys who demonstrate some initial efficacy with approach...

  9. Tinder: How to maximize dates/hookups (the unfair but effective way)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this clip I address two main points about dating apps: 1) Why girls will swipe right/up for you and then…

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  10. "How do I make a woman feel desired beyond just sex?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this clip I address a question I received about how to make a woman feel desired beyond just sex. That is,...

  11. How to be your most attractive with women (not the answer you expect)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've been talking about for at least the past couple years about how the male is his most attractive when he…

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  12. "How much do looks and age matter for male SMV?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this short clip I respond to a question about to what extent age matters in relation to the male's ability…

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  13. "Are 'rapport dates,' where I can't pull, sometimes worth it?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net Scenario 1: Girl who's your type agrees to a 5pm date via text. She says however that she has to meet a friend...

  14. "Do girls like older guys? Do 'old' guys get rejected more?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This clip is in response to a question I received about rejection in relation to age. I thought the Q was a...

  15. "Are my REJECTION PERCENTAGES too high? Do YOU get rejected a lot?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this short clip I talk about the extent to which rejection is normal. I've made lots of content discussing...

  16. Approaching in a new country with a language barrier

    Gaijin Guide to Japanese Daygame (My Japanese daygame book): https://www.amazon.com//dp/1718170394 Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I had been...

  17. "Are your dates with plates different from your first dates?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about before how to get a girl back on a date, including driving the point that the ideal date is...

  18. "Can you talk about ego and getting rejected by women?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net Someone asked a question on my last YouTube video about how ego relates to rejection. I wouldn't ordinarily...

  19. The #1 trait that determines a male's ability to be successful with women

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video I discuss, as the title clearly states, the #1 trait that determines a male's ability to be...

  20. "What do you think about CALLING girls to arrange a date?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about in prior content the general ideas of soup texting and how to arrange a date. In this…

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  21. The most BETA, excuse filled comment I've ever seen

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've written a longer form article on this video, which you can read here:...

  22. "HOW LONG should I wait to text her?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I had written previous content back in 2017 on when/how to text girls. My answer at the time was...

  23. Worst missed opportunity / The number-one way to lose a girl

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I had actually written about this a little in my 2017 in my post, 'Absolute biggest myth in history,' but in...

  24. The repercussions you'll face if your approach volume DECLINES

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net One of the natural phases a male will progress through as he approaches women over time will be that of...

  25. ONE CONCRETE STEP to handle rejection better

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this short clip I talk about one tangible and concrete step the male can take to handle rejection better....

  26. "Why am I still not seeing results even after many thousands of approaches?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This will probably be one of my least popular videos and posts because the answer is not what most guys would...

  27. "How do I create many simultaneous plates?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about in a prior article about how to establish a repertoire of plates. This current post is more…

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  28. "How is it possible that a male who's made thousands of approaches can still be needy?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In the last clip I made, I talked about why a male who's made many thousands of approaches in the macro, who...

  29. "I've made many thousands of approaches. Why do I still feel tension sometimes?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this clip I talk about why a male who's very confident and who has made many thousands of approaches can...

  30. How to maintain her commitment when she knows you're polygamous

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This is a raw, longer-form articulation of my thoughts on a topic that is pretty tough to discuss in a short,...

  31. Why PUAs lie about rejection

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video I talk about why PUAs downplay rejection and over-emphasize positive outcomes in dating. One of...

  32. How to overcome rejection like it's NOTHING

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net The purpose of this short clip is to discuss two easy ways to handle rejection better, which in turn will...

  33. One great way to stay YOUNG

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net Some guys might be like, "Wait, what? What does this clip have to do with approach/dating?" If you've followed...

  34. How to get her contact IF SHE'S RUSHING

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video I discuss a short point on how one can calibrate on the cold approach when the girl seems...

  35. When you should NOT delete a girl's contact

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about before how it is normal and predictable female behavior for a girl to decline your invite to...

  36. THREE THINGS you should NEVER DO on the cold approach

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video I talk about three Don'ts of cold approach - i.e., three things you should never do on the cold...

  37. "Should I use direct or indirect openers?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about before how the most attractive way you can introduce yourself to a girl is by just walking…

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  38. "How do I reduce my approach anxiety?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video I break down approach anxiety into essentially two different types: that experienced by the…

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  39. Only picked up 37 GIRLS' CONTACTS in 5 hours

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This short post covers two main points: 1) female non-receptiveness is the male non-approach (I've written a...

  40. What most determines the Male Sexual Market Value (SMV)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This post is a short update of a longer article on sexual market value (SMV) I wrote a couple years ago. My...

  41. How to pick up 68 GIRLS' CONTACTS in one afternoon

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net In this video and article I talk about how to pick up high volume of contact acquisitions through daygame...

  42. WHAT IT MEANS when you get GHOSTED (not the answer you expect)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net This topic is going to be met with probably a high degree of pushback and criticism by many guys. There will…

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  43. How to generate the HOOKUP once she's at your place (BEDROOM GAME)

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net Incessancy is an understatement when referring to the number of times the past year guys have been asking me…

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  44. One of the biggest ROOKIE ERRORS on the cold approach

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net If you go out to the city to approach and have 2-3 hours to kill, it's a big big rookie error to take a girl's...

  45. How to GET A GIRL BACK with you on the date

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net The ideal date is no more than 30 minutes in length and takes place at a cafe or tapioca place. The shorter…

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  46. The RECIPE for becoming more forward and calibrated in dating

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net One of the questions guys ask me is about what becoming more confident feels like. What should they expect to...

  47. If I want to CONNECT with a girl, how does that relate to how I should behave?

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I've talked about how the male is his most attractive when he is fully deregulated (i.e., 100% winging his...

  48. How pushy should you be on the cold approach. And is that needy?

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net My views have heavily evolved since I wrote The Direct Approach article back in 2017. In that article, I…

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  49. Why do other guys have higher conversion rates than I?

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net I took a look at the comments on the last YouTube video and one seemed to get a little attention, which was...

  50. Why are my percentages with girls so low? What am I doing "wrong?"

    Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/ Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net One of the questions I hate seeing/hearing the most from guys is, "What am I doing wrong?" "Mike, my…

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Sup guys. If you're a reader of my blog, mikemehlman.net, then hopefully you'll enjoy this podcast experience. This is sorta just an "audio experiment" for the time being. Maybe you'll find this podcast boring as fuck. Or maybe you'll get some value out of it. Either way, I'm humbled and grateful for your time.

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