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Why you're not exchanging with more girls on the cold approach

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The #1 factor that determines how much SEX a male has

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5 things you should DO on the cold approach

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81 girls' contacts in 9 hours of daygame

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How to overcome insecurities about appearance

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Why the most affectionate girls will ghost

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"How can I improve my self-esteem?" (DIFFERENT from growing confidence)

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Why most guys who seem promising STOP approaching women

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Tinder: How to maximize dates/hookups (the unfair but effective way)

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"How do I make a woman feel desired beyond just sex?"

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How to be your most attractive with women (not the answer you expect)

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"How much do looks and age matter for male SMV?"

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"Are 'rapport dates,' where I can't pull, sometimes worth it?"

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"Do girls like older guys? Do 'old' guys get rejected more?"

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"Are my REJECTION PERCENTAGES too high? Do YOU get rejected a lot?"

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Approaching in a new country with a language barrier

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"Are your dates with plates different from your first dates?"

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"Can you talk about ego and getting rejected by women?"

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The #1 trait that determines a male's ability to be successful with women

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"What do you think about CALLING girls to arrange a date?"

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The most BETA, excuse filled comment I've ever seen

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"HOW LONG should I wait to text her?"

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Worst missed opportunity / The number-one way to lose a girl

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The repercussions you'll face if your approach volume DECLINES

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ONE CONCRETE STEP to handle rejection better

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"Why am I still not seeing results even after many thousands of approaches?"

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"How do I create many simultaneous plates?"

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"How is it possible that a male who's made thousands of approaches can still be needy?"

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"I've made many thousands of approaches. Why do I still feel tension sometimes?"

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How to maintain her commitment when she knows you're polygamous

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Why PUAs lie about rejection

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How to overcome rejection like it's NOTHING

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One great way to stay YOUNG

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How to get her contact IF SHE'S RUSHING

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When you should NOT delete a girl's contact

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THREE THINGS you should NEVER DO on the cold approach

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"Should I use direct or indirect openers?"

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"How do I reduce my approach anxiety?"

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Only picked up 37 GIRLS' CONTACTS in 5 hours

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What most determines the Male Sexual Market Value (SMV)

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How to pick up 68 GIRLS' CONTACTS in one afternoon

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WHAT IT MEANS when you get GHOSTED (not the answer you expect)

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How to generate the HOOKUP once she's at your place (BEDROOM GAME)

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One of the biggest ROOKIE ERRORS on the cold approach

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How to GET A GIRL BACK with you on the date

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The RECIPE for becoming more forward and calibrated in dating

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If I want to CONNECT with a girl, how does that relate to how I should behave?

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How pushy should you be on the cold approach. And is that needy?

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Why do other guys have higher conversion rates than I?

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Why are my percentages with girls so low? What am I doing "wrong?"

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What's more contributory to NON-NEEDINESS, # of plates, or raw approach volume?

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Is it normal for girls to decline to meetup even if we've already hooked up?

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If I'm persistent through texting, is that NEEDY?

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Do I need MONEY for a better sex life?

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How to maintain your plates

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How to overcome fear of others' opinions and judgments

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Rejection provides value

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How to be your most attractive

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Confidence comes from adversity

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Lousy date. But getting her home anyway

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How to be more confident

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"Mike, do you leave immediately after getting her contact?"

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English for sex prostitution swap

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Like a fucking mouse

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Rejections with big surrounding audiences

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Using condoms

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Most rejections you take the girl won't even look at you

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More abundance = more "blind" dates

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Rare genuine reversal of female state

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Double Masakis

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How to win the friends over

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Telling a girl how old you are

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"Deer in the headlights" vs genuinely unreceptive

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“Unreceptive” girls who are actually receptive

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"How high energy are you when you open girls?"

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"After you open her, do you keep walking or stop?"

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Girls who see you out with other girls

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What to do if your date's late

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Forgetting a date's name

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"How aggressive should I be when opening girls?"

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"Does the city you approach in matter?"

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Satisfying girls in the bedroom

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You can't get high on your own supply

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Approaching with a massive surrounding audience

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Approaching a girl who's with her DAD

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Stop hanging out with loser beta guys

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Not having time to approach is always a bullshit excuse

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Message every number you get

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Badonkadonk ass

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Asking her back to your place

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Have you ever ditched your date?

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Girls who jump away and run away

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Approaching in front of girls who just reject you

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A slightly unusual approach

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"Mike, should I approach girls who are with guys?"

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Girls who wanna take it

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Scary! I have to go!

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The most efficient date possible

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Reacting negatively to harsh rejections

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Rejections will never go away. No matter what.