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Nat's Podcast
by Nat LaJune
More of an audio blog than a podcast, I write about sex and sexual abuse, relationships, and sometimes channeled messaging, dreams, and other psychic things as it comes up. An extension of TikTok and other social media outreach, this is a way I transmute energy into something positive that I hope will help others on a similar path. natlajune.substack.com
Episodes
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Manipulative Male Coach
I had an unexpected guest on Threads this week, a relationship coach! I didn’t immediately recognize him as a coach, but could tell he was very familiar with abusive tactics. I posted, “Being single means I never have to have sex if I don’t want to.” A lot of people responded and it was nice to…
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Maybe It's Menopause
Maybe it’s menopause, maybe it’s Maybelline. Maybe she’s seeing someone else. Maybe she just hates sex, she’s asexual. Maybe she’s a lesbian. Maybe she just can’t take accountability. Men have peppered my comments over the years with all kinds of “excuses” for what’s wrong with their wife to…
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How to Help Victims of Abuse
Shortly after my ex-husband moved out, texted me from ALDI. I had locked his keys in his truck and needed me to help. By the time I got there he had called a friend who was coming to help. But for 10 minutes he sat in my car in the rain reminding me why I had asked him to leave. Once his friend…
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Memories & Manipulation
“Emotional manipulators often say they have a ‘bad memory’ to avoid taking responsibility.” On threads, I’m confronted again by my own “bad memory” and now I’m talking about it again. I don’t like to talk about it publicly. It’s a level of vulnerability that I’m still not healed from and might...
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Men Using Sex for Emotional Connection
“How are you so warm?” His cheek resting on my chest, he marveled at my softness as I listened to him share a childhood memory about his Dad and a Brooks & Dunn song. I had my phone out and was playing songs in the candlelight and I had just put on the Kacey Musgraves version of Neon Moon. We…
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Every Protest Matters
Leading up to the election last year, I listened to black women talk about sitting out of protests. They said it wasn’t safe. It was the first time I’d heard them talk about this. They reminded me of my privilege as a white woman. Working through my emotions around it, I felt shame for never…
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Weaponizing Sex
The accusation of “weaponizing sex” loomed over me my entire marriage. Every headache, backache, or just not in the mood, I worried I’d be accused. Every cold, flu, and pregnancy, I feared I would be called abusive for “using sex as a weapon” against my husband. And then I discovered “excuses” as...
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Getting Coldplayed
Before you start reading this, did you know you can listen to it on Spotify and iTunes? Click over and subscribe and save time by listening in the car or while doing the laundry. This week we saw a CEO Andy Byron caught cheating at a Coldplay concert, and then we saw the internet blow up with…
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Limerence, Rumination, and Psychic Intuition
Getting my wisdom teeth pulled was one of my more traumatic experiences from childhood. Although I’ve mostly healed from what happened that day, there’s one part that sticks with me—a reminder that who I am is different from who people say I am. After my mouth had been gutted by the dentist with...
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What is a Download and How Does it Resonate?
What does it mean for something to "resonate" with you? If a tarot card reader says, "Take what resonates, leave what doesn't," what are they really saying? Let’s take a look at what it means for something to resonate, and how you can take it or leave it. On TikTok, the psychic community commonly...
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What if he just wasn’t that into you?
After a breakup, a lot of women spend weeks and even months questioning the reality of their relationship. When I went through a breakup a couple of years ago, people in my comments were quick to tell me “He just wasn’t that into you.” And what I tell women today is the same thing I said in a…
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Psychic S**t
Psychics don’t always know what they know. Last summer I was getting new tires on my car and I signed up for a Goodyear card before I went in for my appointment. I had the money, but there were rewards so I planned to pay it off as soon as the charge was posted to the card. When the day of the...
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Capacity for Love
In 1999 I was in the nosebleed seats of an LA stadium getting ready to watch Greg Laurie speak at the Harvest Crusade. He was a prominent pastor who held events that were a sort of religious pep rally for God. People would travel from all over to go to these things, so when a new church friend...
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Energy Drain
The cafe is bustling after the first real week of sunshine we’ve had this Spring. It’s more crowded than usual, so I’ve taken a smaller table in the corner to leave the bigger ones for larger parties. As I’m writing, I feel eyes on me. I can’t tell you how I know they’re looking my way, other…
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27 Love Languages
When I began talking about sexual coercion, the most common argument from men was that “a man has needs.” The second most common was, “Well, maybe his love language is physical touch.” At the time, I would cringe when they said it. My stomach would churn and it was the first time I had begun to...
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The Fairy & The Gargoyle III: The Fairy’s Mirror
The first F&G story was completely channeled, coming to me quickly. I think it was meant to get a ball rolling, like it was a story I was meant to tell but I was dragging my feet and something was picking me up, dusting me off, and handing me the words to write. Part two came in bits and pieces…
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Fearful Avoidant
When I was putting my book together, I found a poem I had written shortly after Navy Guy broke up with me. I was talking to a number of avoidant men and feeling all kinds of sympathy for him when I read my own words and saw avoidance in me too. Nothing But Now When I first saw you I dropped my...
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Channeling Men
Last night I was a man. It’s not the first time I’ve had a dream in which I found myself in a man’s body. I’ve channeled masculine energy before, but it’s different in a dream. It’s more three-dimensional, more human. Masculine and feminine energies are just energy. It’s not directly related to...
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Energetic Cost
As I’ve been unmasking the last few years I’ve been paying attention the ways I "spend" energy. I'm also learning about ways I "earn" or renew energy. It costs me less energy to be myself than to be what other people expect of me. When I’m living for the expectations of others, I never seem to…
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Love in the Wild
Before the TikTok ban I had a saved collection of videos depicting loving moments entitled “Love in the Wild”. I intended to share these but an election, inauguration, and an ice storm in my town put it on hold. I’d like to get back to it. A couple’s pole dance shows the art of balance and...
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TikTok: Back to the Beginning
Sunday mornings are my “church” as I drive across town to a favorite local coffee shop to write. Last Sunday was a little more urgent as I had thoughts about the TikTok ban that happened the night before. I spent two hours writing about “How to Survive a TikTok Ban (from a creator who was banned…
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When It's Selfish to Give
To make it all worse, I’m the type to hide from people who are inclined to offer me money when I don’t have it, so I tend to ghost my parents when things are tight so I don’t accidentally let on something is wrong. Imagine someone who feels this way about love. If you give them a hard time for...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
More of an audio blog than a podcast, I write about sex and sexual abuse, relationships, and sometimes channeled messaging, dreams, and other psychic things as it comes up. An extension of TikTok and other social media outreach, this is a way I transmute energy into something positive that I hope will help others on a similar path.
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Nat LaJune
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