Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan MD

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Access Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Eli and Alexandra say most women's nervous systems will reject a deep, present man on sight.Most of what gets sold as polarity work falls apart the second you bring it home, into a marriage, into parenting, or into a Tuesday night with bills to pay.Eli Buren and Alexandra Roxo are two of the very few teachers in this space I trust to talk about masculine and feminine dynamics as something you live, not perform. Eli has been mentored by David Deida since 2004. Alexandra is the bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess and Dare to Feel.I've known Eli for about a decade, and he was the one who first told me to be careful about forcing my relationship into the polished version of these teachings.This conversation goes there. What immature masculine and immature feminine actually look like in a body. Why a deep, present man can feel disarming when your nervous system isn't trained to receive him. How rupture, repair, and trauma show up inside a real partnership with a child in the next roomThere are red flags they want you to watch for in polarity teachers. We name them.You’ll learn:[0:00] Introduction[10:48] Why men's awareness and presence have become urgent currencies in a virtual world[24:39] Women reject the deep men they say they want, and Alexandra almost did too[29:39] How leaning on your looks, job, or competency exposes your immature feminine[35:23] Translating polarity from the retreat high into paying bills and taking out the trash[40:06] Bank accounts and breasts: the surface level where most couples get stuck[49:35] Words kill the polarity, and trauma imprints require more than practice[1:02:25] What Eli transmits to his daughter through tone, touch, and humming through the belly[1:10:24] Why "emotionally flexible" describes a mother's presence better than "regulated"[1:18:21] The red flags Alexandra and Eli see in other polarity teachers right now[1:23:42] Blending therapeutic somatic work with polarity practice waters both down 👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:Aware Parenting Method | WebsiteFind more from Eli and Alexandra:Eli Buren | Website | InstagramGathering of Forces Men’s Weekend in Topenga, CA, October 2-4 | WebsiteDojo of Awareness Men’s Online Practice Series | WebsiteAlchemy of Love (Eli and Alexandra's three-month online program) | WebsiteAlexandra Roxo | Website | InstagramF*ck Like a Goddess by Alexandra Roxo | Book or AudiobookDare to Feel by Alexandra Roxo | Book or AudiobookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Discover Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking here.  Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Access Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Bitcoin isn't an investment, it's the first real way to save money through decades.Bitcoin is the most significant invention any of us has seen in our lifetime, and most people still think it's a scam. Scott Dedels, co-founder of Block Rewards, host of The Block Reward Podcast, and author of The Dao of Bitcoin, spent fifteen years in traditional finance before that frame collapsed for him.I've come to notice that the people I tend to align with on medicine, history, and sovereignty often share one thing in common. They understand Bitcoin in a way that goes far past price charts.Scott's turning point came in 2020, when the lockdowns quieted the hustle long enough for him to ask what money actually is. What he found made it impossible to keep advising clients the way he had been.We get into why fiat currency is engineered to lose value, why saving has been replaced by investing, and why he describes Bitcoin as a fixed measuring tool for time and energy.If the math of your life feels heavier than it used to, this conversation explains why.You’ll learn:[0:00] Introduction[4:02] Why the lockdown in Canada became the spiritual inflection point for a finance bro[9:54] The father wound at the threshold of inquiry, and why deconstructing money runs root-chakra deep[16:03] Stockholm syndrome, the coincidence of wants, and the state monopoly on what money is[25:42] Why inflation is state-sponsored theft of your finite time and energy[30:10] Digital scarcity as the most significant invention any of us have been alive for[37:19] Why Bitcoin mining is civilization-level infrastructure, not a climate disaster[45:44] Can the state capture Bitcoin, and what gold confiscation in 1933 tells us[55:20] Why Bitcoin is the first real innovation in timekeeping in seven hundred years[59:51] How the mechanical clock and fiat money commoditized time, and what reversing it feels like👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:The Price of Tomorrow by Jeff Booth | BookTrezor (Hardware wallet for Bitcoin storage) | WebsiteCoinbase (Cryptocurrency exchange platform) | WebsiteBlock Rewards (Bitcoin payroll software company) | WebsiteFind more from Scott:Scott Dedels | LinkedInLantern Bitcoin | Website | XThe Dao of Bitcoin by Scott Dedels | BookAge of Time by Scott Dedels | BookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Discover Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking here.  Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Being right with your husband might be the single most corrosive thing you do in your marriage.This episode comes out of the audacious questions women in my private containers ask me, and this one cuts straight into the psychology of why so many of us were trained to argue, observe, and keep a mental ledger from childhood.There’s this thing I call litigator-level skills, the kind you develop growing up in a household where being right was how you avoided punishment and stayed loved. The problem is that those exact same skills poison an intimate relationship.The victim triangle keeps people trapped in cycles of blame, defense, and scorekeeping. Intimacy cannot survive a zero-sum game, and real partnership begins where the need to win ends. Finding your husband right is less about agreement and more about releasing the reflex to make him wrong.Beneath the need to be right is often a protector carrying an old job: preventing punishment, rejection, or loss of love. One simple parts work question can reveal what that protector is so afraid would happen if it stopped keeping score. Submission and surrender are not acts of self-abandonment. They are masteries that become available when control is no longer confused with safety.You’ll learn:[0:00] Introduction[2:27] The litigator-level ledger we carry into adulthood as a trauma response[4:13] Submission, surrender, and the sacred technology of the man-woman dyad[6:52] How to disarm conflict by finding him right, even just for the fuck of it[9:35] Why losing respect for your husband begins the end, usually through infidelity👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Find more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Discover Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.Access Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Learn how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Real Change Financial here. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Access Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Can you really “improve” yourself?I spent years convinced I could save the world from the bad guys, then years convinced I could save myself through deep inner work, coaching, and retreats. What I found on the other side wasn't a better me. It was a different relationship to my own badness and wrongness, and a suspicion that progress itself might be an illusion.It’s time we unpack a few things… the good-bad split, why rejecting one pole pulls you straight toward it, and why my sovereign lawfulness journey exposed the same extractive shadow I'd assigned to the IRS.I'll share what my daughter said that cracked my activist armor, why I now prize awareness and relaxation over certainty, and what it means to live by spontaneity, curiosity, and the principle of maybe.If you've ever invested in fixing yourself and still touched the nihilistic question of "is this it", I made this for you.You’ll learn:[0:00] Introduction[2:06] From saving the world to turning the activist lens inward[5:54] The self-improvement double bind nobody in the wellness industry will name[8:02] The good-bad split and why we keep attracting what we reject[11:00] "Mama, you're afraid of so many things", the day my daughter broke the spell[14:16] Why the IRS and the sovereignty movement carry the same vampiric energy[18:27] What if you're not actually better than your mom?[20:58] The villain crown practice and the power of holding "maybe"[24:39] Why trusting your impulses matters more when money removes every constraint[28:38] Surrender, the cosmic wink, and trading progress for presence[33:33] Professional patients, functional medicine, and the loop that leads nowhere👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:Take a deeper dive with Kelly's Awakened Activism Masterclass.Find more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Learn how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Real Change Financial here. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Learn more about Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.Most of what gets labeled psychosis isn't psychosis at all.My guest, Anneke Sips, spent over 25 years inside Dutch psychiatry as a psychiatric nurse, crisis worker, and trauma therapist before founding Network Yoga Therapy and writing Wisdom of Psychosis. She knows the isolation rooms, the forced injections, and the court proceedings from the inside. She also knows what happens when you stop reaching for restraints and start actually listening.We talk about the day-to-day reality of psychiatric wards that most people will never see, the choreography of medication compliance, the way fear in the provider creates the danger they claim to be managing, and the deep fear, especially in women, of being found crazy.If you've ever wondered what would happen if the person across from you didn't flinch when you described your inner world, this is that conversation.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction[07:32] Psychiatric systems can train people to identify with illness instead of healing[12:48] Medication becomes the default response before deeper causes are explored[18:55] Experiences labeled psychosis may reflect profound inner shifts[24:04] The mainstream definition of psychosis shapes personal identity[29:51] Mystical experiences overlap with psychiatric diagnosis more than most realize[36:11] Stigma keeps people silent about experiences outside the norm[41:48] Supporting someone in crisis without forcing a clinical narrative[48:10] Years inside institutional systems can erode self-trust[01:00:01] Caregiving reveals the emotional cost of carrying too much alone👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:LEAP Institute, Dr. Xavier Amador | WebsiteInternal Family Systems | WebsitePolyvagal Theory | WebsiteBook a session with Anneke here and use the discount code BROGAN75.Find more from Anneke:Anneke Sips | Instagram | WebsiteWisdom of Psychosis by Anneke Sips | BookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here. You can head to LOTUSWEI and use Kelly15 for 15% off.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Matrimony and weddings are not what society made us believe.Stephen Jenkinson is a Harvard-trained theologian, author, and founder of the Orphan Wisdom School, whose work has spanned dying, elderhood, storytelling, and now matrimony.Most modern weddings last fifteen minutes. He spent close to a year preparing each one he officiated, and the ceremony itself ran six to eight hours.He didn't set out to study marriage. Young people came to him asking for something they couldn't name… nothing that sounded like a top-40 song or looked like a fairy tale. He started paying attention to the strange shards still left in the standard wedding: the aisle no one sits in, the procession, the throwing of food, the giving away.What he found changes the conversation. Matrimony, he argues, has nothing to do with celebrating love between two people. It's about mothering culture, and patrimony is its structural counterpart. One builds the house, the other moves in and makes it a home for the wider world.This episode goes into what a real wedding looks like when guests become witnesses, why the personal vow may be the weakest part of the ceremony, what patriarchy actually means before it became a slur, and why "celebration of love" may be the phrase that hollowed the whole thing out.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction[02:10] How young people pleading for a real wedding pulled Stephen into matrimony work [09:23] Treating wedding traditions like archaeological shards reveals what we've lost [18:40] The nuclear family became the default after Christianity dismantled elders and kinship [28:12] The difference between wedding, marriage, and matrimony… and why patrimony has no holy state [38:59] Reclaiming the word patriarchy from sloth and virtue signalling [48:38] Why "celebration of love" turns guests into spectators instead of witnesses [59:36] What a six to eight hour ceremony with reversed seating and real petitions looks like [1:22:23] What a couple planning a wedding should consider before the big day👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:Once in Europa by John Berger | BookGet Stephen's book Matrimony: Ritual, Culture, and the Heart’s Work here.Find more from Stephen:Orphan Wisdom | Website | Instagram | FacebookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here. How can you learn to handle physical pain with a holistic approach?Most people treat physical pain like an enemy to silence as fast as possible. I used to think the same way, until three rib injuries forced me to spend entire nights with the sensation.What I found challenges the assumption that pain is a constant, unending stream. It actually moves in micro-undulations, and there's a specific somatic practice that lets you feel that.This episode walks through pendulation, a somatic experiencing technique I practice with my coach, Whitney. It's a tool for staying with sensation instead of running from it.I'm drawn to this method over natural pain remedies, CBD, or other supports I could reach for. The interest isn't in eliminating sensation. It's in learning what's actually happening inside my body.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction[00:07] What to do when you'd normally reach for a pill[00:22] Why I avoided chronic pain until this past year[00:47] The somatic experiencing practice called pendulation[01:24] Why pain is not a constant stream of torture[02:08] What changes when you stop resisting physical sensation[02:31] Step-by-step: how to pendulate through physical pain[03:26] Why a born skeptic was surprised this worked[03:43] Why I skip CBD, DMSO, and other natural options 👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:Healing with DMSO by Amandha Dawn Vollmer | Book or AudiobookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom here: KellyBroganMD.com What if caretaking a man's emotions isn't kindness at all, but a strategy you've been running since childhood to stay safe?I'm sitting with this question today, on my own, unpacking why so many of us soften every “no”, manage every reaction, and absorb the emotional weight of interactions we didn't fully consent to. The root isn't generosity. It's self-protection wired into a female body navigating a world where physical aggression is always on the table.I'll get into the father wound, the "I'll get him to see" reflex, and the specific moment when disgust signals a split you've been ignoring. I'll also share a story about a silk dress, a freezing recording studio, and what fawning looks like when you can't even ask for a blanket.If you can name one push-pull dynamic in your life right now, this is the conversation about why you're still in it, and what the cost has actually been.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction  [01:10] Why caretaking men's emotions is a strategy, not kindness  [03:00] The anatomy of the "poor bargain" and the inner pimp that overrides your no  [06:30] How to spot a trauma bond by the push-pull dynamic in your life  [10:45] The father wound as a wound of unsafety, and the woman it builds  [14:30] The "I'll get him to see" pattern and why it keeps you stuck in your head  [16:15] The land of no pity and what resolves victim consciousness  [19:45] Presenting your raw feelings and letting men solve the problem  [22:00] The silk dress story: what fawning looks like in real time  [26:30] Closing reflections on self-trust, boundaries, and clean no 👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Related Reclamation Radio episodes:Joel Schafer: Are You REALLY Awake or Are You Dreaming? | Spotify or AppleResources mentioned:David Deida | WebsiteFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here. Discover Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking. Go to Juvent and use code KELLY300 at checkout to get $300 off your purchase. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Get your tickets to Kelly's live Audacious Embodiment weekend in Miami, FL here.Is the mental health system really helping people feel better?Laura Delano is an author, speaker, and founder of Inner Compass Initiative, a nonprofit devoted to helping people make informed decisions about psychiatric drugs and how to taper off them safely. She has spent over a decade working with individuals and families around the world seeking guidance and support for psychiatric drug withdrawal.A label can start to shape your life before you even realize it. I heard Laura’s story of being diagnosed with bipolar disorder in adolescence and how that diagnosis led to ongoing experiences with psychiatric diagnosis and the use of psychiatric drugs.What unfolds is not only a personal account, but a look at how patient identity can expand while a life contracts, even in the presence of consistent compliance and care. Years of trying to do treatment “right” led to being told she had treatment-resistant mental illness, a conclusion that carried devastating implications about what was possible.She began to question the treatment she had trusted and realized she had handed over her authority to make sense of her own experiences. What she arrives at now is a different orientation, centered on reconnecting to an inner compass, where information is shared freely, and people are supported in making their own decisions about their lives.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction[03:36] Why Laura wrote Shrunk, and the conversation she wanted to spark [09:01] The mirror moment at 13 that pulled her into the mental health system [13:58] Why the borderline diagnosis was the one she couldn't stomach [19:48] How becoming the perfect patient made everything worse [29:32] The moment she realized the system she trusted was a system of control, and why Whitaker's data sealed it [35:20] What withdrawal actually cost her, and who she became on the other side [47:31] How her family held on while she shed the identity of designated patient [52:45] What she did when a suicidal woman called her instead of going to the hospital, and where community support has limits [01:05:44] What the Inner Compass Initiative is, and what it's trying to do differently 👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:Part 1 of ICI's Companion Guide to Psychiatric Drug Withdrawal | WebsitePart 2 of ICI’s Companion Guide to Psychiatric Drug Withdrawal | WebsiteAnatomy of an Epidemic by Robert Whitaker | BookIatrogenesis | WikipediaGerman New Medicine | WebsiteFind more from Laura:Laura Delano | XLaura Delano | InstagramLaura Delano | FacebookLaura Delano | WebsiteInner Compass Initiative | WebsiteUNSHRUNK: A Story of Psychiatric Treatment Resistance | BookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here. You can head to LOTUSWEI and use Kelly15 for 15% off.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking. Go to Juvent and use code KELLY300 at checkout to get $300 off your purchase. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here.Get your tickets to Kelly's live Audacious Embodiment weekend in Miami, FL here.How can you possibly live a healthy life when everything around you is toxic?Troy Casey came out of a Versace modeling career in Milan after realizing the industry was robbing his soul. What followed was ayahuasca in the Amazon, 11 Vipassana retreats, and a commitment to make a real difference in how people take care of their health.He’s open about the parts of the journey nobody posts: the black mold years, the divorce, the accusation during cancel culture, and the decision to go celibate and work on himself.Troy and I talk about what a man’s mission actually demands of him, why feminism destroyed the family, and why hookup culture is a dead-end road. He also gets specific about raising a 14-year-old daughter and an 18-year-old son in a world of fentanyl-laced everything and pornography on tap.His answer is presence, staying close to his kids, and saying things most dads avoid.You’ll learn:[00:00] Introduction[04:38] From modeling to Miami excess: Troy's life before the awakening[10:02] How sobriety, Vipassana, and ayahuasca in the Amazon gave birth to Certified Health Nut[18:16] Black mold, abandonment, and the inner work beneath the mission[30:45] How feminism and hookup culture broke the family[35:20] What the Amazon awakened in Troy about fatherhood, legacy, and procreation as a prime directive[47:17] Marriage as a sacred covenant and where the divine feminine narrative led him astray[54:14] Why Troy's mission and his role as a father are the same thing, not competing priorities[01:04:28] The celibacy window: sexual energy, self-work, and the blueprint for Troy's next relationship[01:15:22] Taking the toxic load seriously without the neurosis that reads as fragility👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources mentioned:Confessions of an Economic Hit Man by John Perkins | Book or Audiobook Vipassana Meditation as Taught by S.N. Goenka | WebsiteChek Institute | WebsiteTony Robbins | WebsiteLoren Johnson | WebsiteJohn Perkins | WebsiteSeventh Generation | WebsiteFind more from Troy:Certified Health Nut | InstagramCertified Health Nut | WebsiteCertified Health Nut | FacebookCertified Health Nut | TikTokReal Ones Community | Website#Rippedat50: A Journey to Self Love by Troy Casey | Book or AudiobookFind more from Kelly:YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MDInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.You can head to LOTUSWEI and use Kelly15 for 15% off.Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking. Go to Juvent and use code KELLY300 at checkout to get $300 off your purchase. Click here to schedule your call with Josh or Ken today.