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In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, I'm talking about something I didn't realize I was still working through: being seen again without giving myself away. I've been showing up more on social media, sharing my life, creating reels, rebuilding my business, and putting my voice back into the world. From the outside, it probably doesn't look like I have a problem being seen. But this week I realized there's a difference between visibility and accessibility. Two comments on social media brought an old pattern right to the surface. One pulled me into an exchange that left me feeling completely knocked out of my own energy. The other gave me the opportunity to do something very different: say nothing. And that silence taught me a lot. I'm taking you back to some of my experiences building my business and online community beginning around 2017, when I learned some incredibly painful lessons about trust, boundaries, giving away my power, and what can happen when we mistake sharing our light for giving everyone access to it. I also talk about the temptation to turn negative comments into content because controversy gets views, engagement, and attention—and why I'm realizing that simply isn't the kind of online space I want to build. This season of showing up again isn't about defending myself, convincing people to understand me, or becoming a keyboard warrior. It's about learning that I can be seen without being consumed. I can be misunderstood without correcting the misunderstanding. And someone else's judgment does not require my participation. Maybe protecting your energy isn't about closing yourself off from the world. Maybe it's learning how to open the doors without letting everyone inside. 🎧 In this episode: The difference between being visible and being accessible Why social media engagement has brought up old wounds for me What two very different comments taught me this week How I used to unknowingly give my power away Why I'm no longer interested in defending myself online Choosing authenticity over drama—even when drama gets more views Learning to hold your light without needing to defend it I no longer need to defend my light. I need to hold it. Come Back to Yourself Here

Have you ever felt like life suddenly starts moving faster? Like doors begin opening, old chapters start closing, and everything you've been waiting for finally begins falling into place? In this first episode of The Hawaii Diaries, Shelby shares the deeply personal story behind her 42-day countdown to Hawaii and why this journey became so much more than a vacation. Joe and Shelby are traveling to Hawaii to lay his mother's ashes to rest, but the trip didn't begin when they booked the flights. It began months earlier through grief, healing, unexpected moments of closure, and learning to trust divine timing. Shelby shares why they waited nine months after Joe's mom's passing before making the trip, how an unexpected journey back to her childhood hometown of Tulsa helped her close a chapter she didn't realize she was still carrying, and why everything suddenly accelerated after the Lion's Gate portal. If you've been experiencing rapid life changes, spiritual awakening, synchronicities, or feel like you're preparing for a new season in your life, this episode will remind you that sometimes life prepares you long before you arrive at your destination. This is the beginning of the Hawaii Diaries—a real-time audio journal documenting the emotional, spiritual, and personal journey leading up to Hawaii. ✨ A Little Something for You If you're new here, I'd love to give you something to continue your journey. My free audio, Why You Feel So Different, was created for those moments when life changes, emotions feel overwhelming, or you simply don't recognize yourself anymore. It's a gentle reminder that there isn't anything wrong with you—you may just be in the middle of becoming someone new. You can listen for free at shelbycarino.com Connect with Shelby 🌐 Website: ShelbyCarino.com 📩 Join the email community for exclusive updates, behind-the-scenes reflections, and encouragement delivered straight to your inbox.

This is the final episode of The Awakening Series on ShelbyRADIO. After all the intensity, growth, and emotional shifts that come with awakening… what does life actually look like on the other side? In this episode, Shelby explores what happens when things begin to settle — when awareness becomes grounded, relationships become aligned, and life starts to feel clear again. If you've been moving through awakening and wondering if it ever gets easier… this episode will give you that perspective. You'll learn: What life feels like after awakening Why things begin to feel calm and stable How your awareness shifts without emotional overwhelm What relationships look like in this phase How self-trust becomes natural again This isn't the end of your growth. It's the beginning of living it. Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. The more we speak up, the more we reclaim our energy and truth. 🔔 Subscribe to ShelbyRADIO for weekly spiritual insights 📖 Dive deeper into this work with Shelby's book The Art of Process 🔗 Want more from Shelby? Follow Shelby on Instagram @shelbycarino Explore her full curriculum, private sessions, or join the spiritual school at:🌐 www.shelbycarino.com

After awakening, there comes a moment where you begin to question everything… Including yourself. In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, Shelby explores what it means to rebuild self-trust after your identity, relationships, and awareness have shifted. If you've been second guessing your decisions, overthinking everything, or looking outside of yourself for answers… this episode will help you understand why. You'll learn: ·       Why awakening disrupts self-trust ·       What trust actually means ·       How overthinking affects your decisions ·       What breaks self-trust over time ·       How to begin rebuilding trust in yourself This isn't about becoming someone new. It's about returning to who you are. Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. The more we speak up, the more we reclaim our energy and truth. 🔔 Subscribe to ShelbyRADIO for weekly spiritual insights 📖 Dive deeper into this work with Shelby's book The Art of Process 🔗 Want more from Shelby? Follow Shelby on Instagram @shelbycarino Explore her full curriculum, private sessions, or join the spiritual school at:🌐 www.shelbycarino.com  

There's a part of awakening that doesn't get talked about enough… The exhaustion. In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, Shelby explores spiritual burnout — what it is, why it happens, and how to move through it. If you've been feeling emotionally drained, overwhelmed, or tired of constantly processing your growth… this episode will help you understand why. You'll learn: What spiritual burnout actually is Why awakening can become overwhelming How awareness overload affects your nervous system What people do wrong during this phase How to allow integration instead of forcing growth This isn't a setback. It's part of the process. Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. The more we speak up, the more we reclaim our energy and truth. 🔔 Subscribe to ShelbyRADIO for weekly spiritual insights 📖 Dive deeper into this work with Shelby's book The Art of Process 🔗 Want more from Shelby? Follow Shelby on Instagram @shelbycarino Explore her full curriculum, private sessions, or join the spiritual school at:🌐 www.shelbycarino.com

There's a deeper layer to awakening that many people don't expect… As you begin to grow, change, and become more aware — emotional patterns begin to surface. And for many, that leads back to one place: The mother wound. In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, Shelby explores how the mother wound forms, why it shows up during awakening, and how it impacts your relationships, identity, and emotional responses. You'll learn: What the mother wound actually is How it shapes your identity Why it becomes visible during awakening How it shows up in your current relationships How awareness begins the healing process This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what shaped you… so you can consciously choose what comes next. Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. The more we speak up, the more we reclaim our energy and truth. 🔔 Subscribe to ShelbyRADIO for weekly spiritual insights 📖 Dive deeper into this work with Shelby's book The Art of Process 🔗 Want more from Shelby? Follow Shelby on Instagram @shelbycarino Explore her full curriculum, private sessions, or join the spiritual school at:🌐 www.shelbycarino.com

One of the most confronting parts of awakening isn't just what you feel internally… It's what starts to happen in your relationships. In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, Shelby breaks down why your connections begin to shift, feel different, or even fall away as you go through a spiritual awakening. If you've noticed that conversations feel forced, certain relationships feel draining, or you no longer connect the way you used to — you're not alone. And you're not doing anything wrong. You're changing. Shelby walks you through: ·       Why relationships are built on identity — and what happens when that identity shifts ·       The energetic changes that affect how you relate to others ·       Why you may feel guilt or responsibility when relationships change ·       What people often do wrong during this phase of awakening ·       How to navigate relationship shifts without losing yourself This episode will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface… so you can move through it with clarity instead of confusion. 🎧 Series Note This episode is part of The Awakening Series on ShelbyRADIO, guiding you through the emotional and energetic stages of transformation. 🔜 Next Episode The Mother Wound and Awakening Understanding the deeper root behind many relationship patterns and emotional triggers. Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. The more we speak up, the more we reclaim our energy and truth. 🔔 Subscribe to ShelbyRADIO for weekly spiritual insights 📖 Dive deeper into this work with Shelby's book The Art of Process 🔗 Want more from Shelby? Follow Shelby on Instagram @shelbycarino