So, Anyway
by Brittany Tomkiewicz + Jessica Quinn
So, Anyway is an audio diary–style podcast hosted by two best friends capturing real conversations about life as it’s happening. Part life debrief, part unfiltered reflection, we talk through career ambition, staying single, dating disasters, intuition, burnout, friendships, and the quiet inner knowing that you’re meant for something more. From funny and uncomfortable moments to the ones you don’t realize matter until later, these are honest, unscripted conversations seen through our eyes. Created + Produced by Brittany Tomkiewicz + Jessica Quinn
Episodes
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S2 Ep 1: Same Couch, New Chaos
We're back, baby! Season 2 is officially here, and after seven months away from the couch, we have a lot to catch up on. Since we last recorded, there have been weekends upstate, a very long New York winter, career milestones, unexpected travel extensions, and one particularly chaotic trip to...
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S1 Ep 9: Messy, Honest—But Ours (Final Episode)
Most friendships aren’t built in perfect moments—they’re built in chaos, honesty, and everything in between. In our season one finale, we’re reflecting on how it all started: two friends hitting record, figuring it out as we went, and accidentally building something deeper along the way. From...
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S1 Ep 8: Triggered
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be triggered and where the responsibility lies when someone’s behavior bothers us. Using a recent experience, we reflect on self-awareness, accountability, and when it’s best to simply let things go. The conversation also explores lessons we'd give our...
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S1 Ep 7: Different Doesn’t Mean Behind
This week we’re catching up—Mexico City, Long Beach Island, and Jess stepping into full-time dog duty with ZoZo. Somewhere between travel stories and puppy chaos, the conversation naturally shifts to something deeper: expectations. Why do we sometimes assume that other people should want what we...
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S1 Ep 6: Success on Your Terms
A quote about deserving success sparks a bigger conversation about ambition, comparison, and the pressure to always want more. We talk about the tension between believing "why not me?" while also questioning what success actually costs—and whether chasing the next thing sometimes pulls us out of...
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S1 Ep 5: The Cost of Becoming
This is one of those conversations about the in-between—the part of life that doesn’t look polished yet, but is doing the most work. We talk about the moments that feel awkward, vulnerable, and a little embarrassing, but somehow end up being the exact ones that shape who you become. If life were…
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S1 Ep 4: The Couch Chronicles
Someone you care about goes quiet, and your mind fills in the blanks. In this episode, we unpack the spiral—intuition vs. anxiety, and how silence can turn into intrusive thoughts. We talk why communication is the fastest way to calm the story in your head.
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S1 Ep 2: For the Record
In this audio-only Episode 2, we open with a few honest disclaimers—vocal fry, evolving opinions, and why this podcast is really a time capsule for our future selves. We talk about the tension between living fully in the present while still dreaming, planning, and pushing toward what’s next....
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S1 Ep 3: The Cost of Choice
In Episode 3, we talk about how changing your mistakes would mean changing yourself—and why making decisions is so hard when you’re afraid of disappointing people. We unpack the reality that hurt and disappointment are unavoidable, then ease into funny (and painful) dating stories, bad decisions,...
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S1 Ep 1: The Story of Us
Episode 1 kicks things off with an honest conversation about marriage, babies, and why staying single for so long has felt like a gift. We talk choosing career and growth over settling, trusting our timing, and the quiet belief we’ve always had — that we’re destined for something more, even if we...
About this show
So, Anyway is an audio diary–style podcast hosted by two best friends capturing real conversations about life as it’s happening. Part life debrief, part unfiltered reflection, we talk through career ambition, staying single, dating disasters, intuition, burnout, friendships, and the quiet inner knowing that you’re meant for something more. From funny and uncomfortable moments to the ones you don’t realize matter until later, these are honest, unscripted conversations seen through our eyes. Created + Produced by Brittany Tomkiewicz + Jessica Quinn
Hosted by
Brittany Tomkiewicz + Jessica Quinn