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SOUL FUELED ✨️ AF
by Aubrey Conley
Soul Fueled ✨️AF is a podcast for women and Mommas who’ve faced trauma, walked away from toxic family and relationships, and fought through medical, mental, emotional, and spiritual battles. Hosted by Aubrey Conley, a psychosomatic practitioner- it’s a raw, healing space for nervous system regulation and repair- teaching women how to reclaim their voice, break generational patterns, and live soul-led lives with fierce clarity and truth.
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Ep 138 The Peacekeeper's Burnout✨️AF
Are you the unofficial referee, therapist, emotional support human, and peacekeeper in your house? Whew... this one's for you. In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF, we're calling out the exhausting habit of reading the room, walking on eggshells, and feeling like it's your job to keep everyone else happy. Spoiler alert: it's not. Aubrey dives into how childhood survival patterns and generational trauma train our nervous systems to scan for danger, manage other people's emotions, and mistake carrying everyone for love. You'll learn how to recognize when your "helper" part is actually running the show, how to stop passing these patterns on to your kids, and how to begin rewiring your nervous system with simple, practical tools. Plus, you'll be guided through a powerful EFT tapping exercise to help you finally put down the emotional weight that was never yours to carry. It's time to stop refereeing everyone else's game and come home to yourself. Www.aubreyconley.com Give this podcast 5 stars! [email protected]
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Ep 137 Welcome to the Rabbit Hole: Nervous system, Trauma & Healing ✨️AF
What the Hell Do I Actually Do? (And Why It Changes Everything) Have you ever wondered why you feel anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck even when life looks “fine” on the outside? In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey Conley dives into the connection between childhood experiences, trauma, emotions, the nervous system, and the healing journey back to yourself. Learn how the moments we experience as children can create emotional patterns, survival responses, and beliefs that follow us into adulthood. Aubrey shares her personal healing journey, the modalities that transformed her life, and how they became the foundation of her Radical ✨️ Wellness Method and S.O.U.L. Sessions (Strengthening Our Unseen Layers). Discover how somatic, trauma informed, nervous system work can help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom. You are not broken. Your body has been protecting you. It’s time to come home to yourself. [email protected] Give this podcast 5 stars! Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep136 Stop Forcing. Start Flowing. Trust the Rearrangement.
When life doesn’t go according to plan, it’s easy to believe something is wrong with you. But what if the chaos is actually a rearrangement? In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey explores the power of trusting life’s unexpected shifts, releasing the need to force outcomes, and learning the difference between control and flow. Through personal stories, including her breast cancer journey, nervous system regulation, EFT tapping, and parts work, Aubrey shares how to reconnect with your body’s wisdom during seasons of uncertainty. If you’re a woman navigating change, burnout, transitions, closed doors, or feeling lost in your 40s, this episode is a reminder that you are not broken—you are being redirected. Learn how to calm your nervous system, trust divine timing, and embrace the beautiful process of becoming. Www.aubreyconley.com. [email protected]
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Ep135 Rebuilding Self TRUST.
In this Soul Fueled ✨️ AF episode, we go beneath the surface of boundaries and into the deeper conversation of self-trust, nervous system healing, and your Soul-Self. Through a real client tune-up session, we explore how trauma is stored in the body, why healing isn’t linear, and how past experiences can resurface in present-day relationships as anxiety, hesitation, or self-doubt. You’ll learn how what often looks like a boundary issue is actually a permission issue—your body learning to trust your inner knowing again. We unpack the teenage parts of us that learned to question themselves, and how those patterns still show up at 40, 52, and beyond. This episode also includes a grounding EFT and parts work practice to help you reconnect with your intuition, soften nervous system overwhelm, and return to your Soul-Self—the quiet, steady voice of truth within you that has always been there. Www.aubreyconley.com [email protected]
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Ep134 Your Body is Keeping Score.
Momma, real healing isn’t pretty, it isn’t Instagram-ready, and it sure as hell isn’t about ignoring what’s inside you. In this episode, we dive into nervous system regulation, mind-body awareness, and the messy, honest work of meeting all the parts of yourself—including your younger self. I share my own story, rituals, and how reparenting can help you finally release the grief, stress, and patterns your body has been holding onto. Feeling your sh*t? That’s the point. And it’s where real freedom begins. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep133 Why We Pull Away—and What Helps Us Return
In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF, Aubrey Conley explores the powerful difference between isolation and community, and what is really happening in the nervous system when we withdraw during difficult seasons of life. Whether you're navigating grief, illness, burnout, overwhelm, trauma healing, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself, it's easy to retreat and shrink your world in the name of safety. Aubrey shares how isolation can begin as healthy rest but slowly become a pattern that keeps us disconnected from the support, belonging, and co-regulation we need to heal. Through personal reflections, including her recent involvement with The Friends of Einstein, she discusses the courage it takes to step back into community and why safe connection is essential for emotional wellness and nervous system regulation. If you've been feeling stuck, withdrawn, or alone, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and a gentle invitation to reconnect—with yourself, your community, and life itself. ✨💛 [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep132 Build the Bigger Table: Breaking Generational Fences
Have you ever felt like you didn't make the cut? Like everyone else got the invitation, the seat at the table, the phone call, the acceptance—and somehow you were left standing on the outside looking in? In this deeply personal episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF, I'm diving into abandonment wounds, generational trauma, nervous system responses, family dynamics, guest lists, weddings, graduations, and what really happens inside us when belonging feels uncertain. I'm sharing a recent experience that activated my own abandonment wound and how the Radical ✨️Wellness work helped me stay present instead of spiraling. We'll explore the difference between families that build bigger tables and those that build higher fences, how inherited patterns shape our relationships, and why so many of us confuse exclusion with our worth. If you've ever questioned where you belong, felt unseen, unchosen, or struggled with people-pleasing and approval-seeking, this conversation is for you. Pull up a chair, Momma. We're talking healing, belonging, and what it means to stop abandoning yourself and finally come home to you. ✨️💛 [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep131 Triggered or Patterned?
In this powerful episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey dives deep into nervous system healing, trauma responses, and the life-changing moment when survival patterns become conscious awareness. “At Some Point, It Stops Being Your Trauma and Starts Being Your Pattern” explores how unresolved emotional patterns show up in relationships, motherhood, stress, communication, and the body. Through raw storytelling, nervous system education, EFT tapping, and parts work, this episode helps women and mommas recognize automatic reactions like shutting down, people-pleasing, overexplaining, emotional reactivity, and emotional avoidance. Aubrey guides listeners into the transformative pause between trigger and response—the moment where healing and cycle breaking truly begin. This episode is for women and mommas ready to stop living on autopilot, reconnect with themselves, regulate their nervous systems, and create lasting emotional change from a place of self-awareness, safety, and presence. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep130 Who are you without survival mode?
What if the version of you you’re trying to become… is actually who you are without survival mode? In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨️AF, we go beyond “healing the past” and into something deeper—meeting the part of you that never got to fully move forward. So many people say they just want to move on, but the truth is, you can’t outgrow a version of yourself that still doesn’t feel safe. We break down how survival mode lives in the body, not just the mind, and why insight alone isn’t enough to create real change. You’ll explore how parts of you can stay stuck at the age trauma occurred—and how that quietly shapes your reactions, relationships, and identity. This episode includes a powerful EFT tapping sequence to help your nervous system begin to release survival patterns and open to safety. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep129 We’re Not Just Raising Kids—We’re Wiring Their Nervous System
This episode dives into the truth about raising children in today’s fast-paced, overstimulating world and why nervous system regulation is the foundation of healthy parenting. We explore the difference between raising kids who depend on you versus raising emotionally resilient adults who can think, feel, and navigate life with confidence. You’ll learn how a child’s nervous system shapes their behavior, relationships, and long-term well-being—and why teaching regulation is no longer optional, it’s essential. This conversation breaks down generational patterns, conscious parenting, and the powerful role co-regulation plays in emotional development. If you want to raise calm, confident, and capable children, it starts with understanding your own nervous system and modeling safety, boundaries, and emotional awareness. This episode is for parents ready to break cycles, build resilience, and raise children who won’t just survive the world—but thrive in it. Subscribe and Rate 5 stars! [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com.
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Ep128 The Mother Wound, Father Wound & the Man In-between.
Episode 128 of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF dives deep into the mother wound and father wound in men—and how these patterns shape emotional availability, communication, and connection in relationships. If you’ve ever felt confused by his shutdowns, defensiveness, or distance, this episode gives you the language and nervous system insight to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. We explore how childhood wounds impact a man’s ability to feel safe in love, why you can often see the pattern before he can, and how to support your partner without losing yourself. This is not about fixing him—it’s about empowering you with tools, clarity, and grounded boundaries. If you’re ready to break cycles, deepen connection, and lead with emotional awareness, this episode will change the way you see your relationship—and yourself. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com.
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Ep127 Let me know if you need anything...Is a cop out.
In this raw and honest episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we break down why the phrase “let me know if you need anything” often falls flat—and can actually place more pressure on someone already struggling. When people are navigating grief, trauma, illness, or overwhelm, they don’t have the capacity to identify their needs, let alone ask for help. This episode challenges passive support and invites you into a deeper, more intentional way of showing up. Through personal experience and real-life perspective, Aubrey shares what true support actually looks like—taking action, offering specific help, and being present without waiting for permission. If you’ve ever wanted to support someone but didn’t know how, or you’ve felt alone in your hardest moments, this conversation will shift your perspective. It’s time to stop asking—and start showing up. Subscribe, give this episode a 5 star review. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep126 When the Universe Confirms- What you Already Knew.
Not everyone in your life has your best interest at heart—and sometimes the universe has to remind you. In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey dives deep into a horoscope that hit her like a cosmic wake-up call. She breaks down how to spot hidden agendas, trust your intuition, and protect your energy without guilt. From uncomfortable truths in relationships to empowering boundaries that honor your peace, this episode is a masterclass in self-preservation and spiritual clarity. If you’ve ever felt drained by others or second-guessed your gut, Aubrey’s raw, real, and soul-led guidance will give you the clarity and courage to protect your inner sanctuary. Tune in and learn how to thrive while keeping your peace sacred—because your energy deserves nothing less.
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Ep125 Your Fire is Big Enough
In this episode of SOUL FUELED ✨️ AF, Aubrey shares her journey nine weeks post double mastectomy from triple negative breast cancer and the guilt, shame, and relief that came with choosing not to do chemotherapy. We talk about the ways women minimize their own experiences, compare their struggles, and undo their own validation — and how stepping out of that pattern can regulate your nervous system and accelerate healing. Aubrey guides a short nervous system practice to help you come back into your body, honor your fire, and release comparison. This episode is for every woman who’s walked through her own fire, faced her fears, and is ready to reclaim her power. If you’ve ever wondered how to honor your journey without judgment, this conversation is for you. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep124 Senioritis, Anxiety & Big Feelings: How Moms Can Hold Space & Help Their Teens Thrive
Senior year is exciting, exhausting, and full of uncertainty — and yes, senioritis is real. In this episode of SOUL FUELED ✨️ AF, Aubrey Conley dives deep into what’s happening in your teen’s mind, heart, and nervous system as they navigate the final months of high school. The structure they’ve relied on for years is shifting, familiar routines are ending, and big life decisions feel overwhelming. Aubrey shares practical strategies for moms to hold space for big feelings, reduce stress, and support healthy emotional expression. Learn how to listen without judgment, honor exhaustion, validate their inner child, and try simple nervous system exercises — even on car rides — that calm both you and your teen. This episode is for mothers ready to ease anxiety, strengthen connection, and guide their teens through senior year with patience, presence, and calm. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep123 Breaking Generational Cycles Through Self-Love
In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we’re talking about Radical Self-Love — not the surface-level kind, but the daily, embodied practice of ending the war within yourself. I’m sharing how true self-love is a nervous system practice, not just a mindset shift, and how learning to relate to your inner parts with compassion changes everything. We’ll explore Ahimsa — the practice of nonviolence — and what it means to stop attacking yourself in your thoughts, your words, and your expectations. I’ll walk you through practical tools from my own journey (and my book Broken Open) that help you build safety from the inside out. Plus, we’ll do a short grounding meditation and EFT tapping sequence together so you can feel this work in your body. If you’re ready to soften the self-criticism and choose kindness over force — press play. [email protected] Subscribe and give 5 🌟 Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep122 Living in the Gray
What do you do when life doesn’t give you a clear answer? In this deeply honest episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF, Aubrey opens up about living in the gray — the in-between space where clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but a decision is still required. While sharing her experience navigating uncertainty after a triple-negative breast cancer diagnosis, this episode expands far beyond medicine. It’s about trusting your body, regulating your nervous system, and advocating for yourself when the pressure is high. Whether you’re facing a health decision, questioning a relationship, navigating motherhood, or standing at a crossroads in your career or finances, this conversation is for you. You’ll hear why the gray is not a failure, but a threshold — and how learning to pause, ground, and listen can change everything. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unsure, or silenced in a season of uncertainty, this episode will remind you that your voice matters and you are worthy of choosing yourself. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep121 Wintering: A Sacred Season
Wintering: A Sacred Season is a deeply embodied episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF that explores what happens when the body demands rest and healing. In this episode, Aubrey Conley shares her personal journey of being forced to slow down after a double mastectomy from triple-negative breast cancer, and how winter—both literal and internal—became a container for nervous system regulation, somatic healing, and emotional restoration. This conversation dives into the wisdom of the body, the role of isolation in healing, and why slowing down is not failure, but biological and spiritual necessity. Through gentle grounding, breathwork, and EFT tapping, listeners are guided back into safety, compassion, and trust within their bodies. If you’re navigating illness, burnout, grief, or a season of deep exhaustion, this episode is an invitation to honor rest, regulate your nervous system, and allow healing to unfold in its own time. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Subscribe!
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Ep120 Dancing My Way Through Recovery
Dancing My WayThrough Recovery is an intimate, embodied episode of Soul Fueled ✨️AF for women navigating change, loss, and becoming. In this episode, Aubrey Conley shares how ballet—rooted in her body since early childhood—resurfaced as a powerful healing language during breast cancer recovery and life after a double mastectomy. What began as discipline, posture, and dedication at the barre became a way her nervous system remembered safety, resilience, and self-trust. This conversation is for women who are moving through illness or recovery, closing a business or chapter of life, redefining identity after motherhood, healing from trauma, grieving a former version of themselves, or quietly preparing for a future version they can’t yet name. Through somatic wisdom, body memory, and deep reflection, Aubrey reminds us that healing isn’t linear—and that sometimes the body leads us home before the mind understands why. Share this podcast with a women in your life. Subscribe and give 5 stars [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep119 Through Sunshine & Shadows
In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we’re talking about what it really means to rest—without guilt. For women and Mommas who have spent a lifetime taking care of everyone else, slowing down can feel uncomfortable, even wrong. I’m sharing honestly from my own healing season, five weeks post double mastectomy after triple-negative breast cancer, and what this experience is teaching me about surrender, grace, and listening to my body. From the invisible weight of recovery to the pressure of “looking fine” on the outside, this episode isn’t about complaining—it’s about awareness. We explore how mental healing doesn’t always match physical recovery, why the nervous system needs rest to truly heal, and how choosing peace doesn’t require explanation. This is an invitation to soften, sit down, and honor your healing—through sunshine and shadows. Subscribe and rate this podcast 5 stars! [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep118 After the Diagnosis: The Quiet Weight My Husband Carries.
In this deeply personal episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey sits down with her husband for an honest, unfiltered conversation about what life has been like since her triple negative breast cancer diagnosis in November 2025—and the December 23rd mastectomy that followed. This is the story rarely told: the partner’s experience. The holding mode. The quiet fear. The weight of being a husband, a father, a caretaker, a supporter—while wrestling with faith, uncertainty, and the pressure to stay strong. Together, they explore the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual ebbs and flows of this season, including the moments that broke them open and the ones that reshaped how they see life, love, and time itself. This episode isn’t about answers or silver linings. It’s about truth. Because while a battle may be won, the fight isn’t over—it’s simply changed form. And once you’ve been here, you don’t see the world the same way again. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep117 Lets Talk About Wealth.
Your health is your wealth, period. In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey Conley shares her raw, lived experience battling triple-negative breast cancer and how she’s built resilience, vitality, and strength through holistic wellness practices. Learn practical strategies to protect and invest in your body: weights, yoga, proper nutrition, detoxing, saunas, and mindful movement. Aubrey dives into why walking alone isn’t enough, why alcohol and toxins sabotage your health, and how simple mindset shifts—like “just bite the head off” for desserts—can transform your energy. From emotional boundaries to spiritual alignment, this episode gives actionable tools to prioritize your well-being, reclaim your true wealth, and thrive in every area of life. Tune in for a no-nonsense, empowering discussion that will inspire you to take control of your health, elevate your vitality, and live fully. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep116 Crying, Laughing, and Surviving: Walking the Wild, Bumpy Middle of Life, Motherhood, and Healing
Hey Momma, welcome back to SOUL FUELED ✨️ AF. In this episode, I get raw about being two weeks out from a double mastectomy and dead in the middle of a journey I didn’t choose. I talk about the bumpy, stomach-dropping ride of healing, the grief of missing ordinary life, and the messy, beautiful truth that you cannot do this alone. From my husband begging me to surrender and let myself be held, to the sacred love wrapped up in a meal train, I share what it really means to receive help, lean into love, and trust your body while it recalibrates. This episode isn’t about sugar-coating pain—it’s about living it, feeling it, and finding moments of grace and humor along the way. Crying, laughing, and surviving—this is for every woman navigating the wild middle of life, motherhood, and healing. Subscribe give this episode 5 stars [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep115 Facing Mortality, Cancer, Courage & Listening to my body.
In this deeply personal episode, Aubrey shares her raw, unfiltered journey after being diagnosed with triple-negative breast cancer. With honesty, courage, and soul-led truth, she explores what it means to face mortality, listen to the inner whisper of the body, and trust that healing is more than physical. This episode dives into Radical Wellness, stored trauma, stress, inner child healing, and the belief that the body holds and releases what the soul is finally ready to let go of. Aubrey speaks candidly about fear, love, motherhood, and the moment life cracks you open and asks you to live fully—right now. She also delivers a powerful wake-up call about presence, preventative care, and why getting a mammogram matters more than excuses or fear. This conversation is raw, real, emotional, and hopeful—offering courage, clarity, and a blueprint for women standing at their own threshold of transformation.In this raw and deeply personal episode, Aubrey opens up about her triple-negative breast cancer diagnosis and what it truly means to face mortality and consciously choose life. With honesty, courage, and soul-level reflection, she shares how listening to her body’s wisdom has reshaped everything—from how she understands healing to how she shows up as a mother, partner, and woman. This conversation explores the connection between stress, trauma, inner-child healing, and the body’s ability to hold and release emotional imprints. Aubrey speaks candidly about fear, presence, preventative care, and the wake-up call that cancer brings, including a powerful reminder to stop delaying your health and get the mammogram. This episode is not about toxic positivity or fighting the body—it’s about compassion, trust, courage, and honoring the body as an ally in healing. A vulnerable, real conversation meant to awaken, empower, and remind women to live fully, now. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep114 A New Year Doesn’t Change Your Life… But Your Habits Will
A new year doesn’t automatically change your life — your habits do. In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we cut through the “new year, new me” hype and get real about what actually transforms your life: consistent daily habits, self-care practices, and nervous system-friendly choices. We dive into why your nervous system isn’t fooled by resolutions, how tiny actions compound into massive change, and why identity matters more than outcomes. Learn practical tips for building habits that stick, reclaiming your energy, setting boundaries, and showing up for yourself even when no one is watching. If you’re ready to stop waiting for a date to change your life, take control of your habits, and finally create a life that feels aligned, empowered, and soulfully fulfilled, this episode is for you. Start your transformation today — one choice at a time. [email protected]
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Ep113 Walking with eyes wide open.
Hey Momma, welcome back to Soul Fueled ✨ AF! In this episode, we’re diving deep into the strangers we pass every day—in grocery stores, car lines, at work, and everywhere in between. You never truly know what someone is carrying beneath the surface—they may look like they have it all together, but inside, they could be at their breaking point. We explore invisible struggles, nervous system work, and the power of tiny gestures like a smile, a nod, or just slowing down to notice. Using Radical Wellness insights, we break down how these small moments of presence and compassion ripple out, not just changing someone’s day but shifting your nervous system and even generational energy. Learn practical ways to walk awake, offer human connection, and practice empathy that transforms both you and the world around you. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Subscribe and give us a 5 star review!
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Ep112 2025 The Year of the Snake...If it fell apart, it was supposed to.
Hey Momma. If 2025 has felt like the Universe threw you in a spin cycle and walked away — this episode explains why. We’re diving deep into the 9-year cosmic spiritual completion cycle (2016–2025) and what it truly means to reach the end of an era. I break down the spiritual mechanics of “Year 9,” why 2025 is the Year of the Snake, and how Snake energy asks us to shed, transform, and step into our next chapter. I share real stories from this year — navigating family challenges, closing an 18-year business, releasing financial weight, and experiencing the emotional and spiritual unraveling that comes with deep endings. This episode is for mamas, wives, and women who feel stretched, cracked open, or pushed to their limit and need to understand the purpose behind it all. It’s raw, real, cosmic, and deeply healing. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Subscribe and Rate this podcast 5 stars!
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Ep111 You can miss someone and not want them back.
Hey Momma, welcome back! In this episode, we’re exploring a truth many women wrestle with: you can miss someone and still not want them back in your life. We dive deep into what’s happening in your nervous system — from attachment patterns to comfort responses — and why your body often confuses familiarity with safety. You’ll learn why the ache you feel doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice, and how to honor your feelings without breaking your boundaries. I also share a radical reframe: you’re not missing them, you’re missing the version of yourself that existed in that relationship. This episode is for every woman navigating love, loss, and self-loyalty, helping you understand your nervous system, reclaim your power, and embrace emotional maturity with clarity, compassion, and courage. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Subscribe and give this podcast a review!
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Ep110 If they wanted to, they would...But what if they can't.
In this episode, we’re unpacking the popular phrase “If they wanted to, they would” — and flipping it on its head. What if the people you wish would show up for you… genuinely can’t? We dive deep into nervous system capacity, silent seasons of struggle, emotional bandwidth, and the real reasons people disappear or disconnect even when they love you. I share my own journey from 2020–2025 — a wild, exhausting, spiritual-completion cycle that pushed me into survival mode — and what it taught me about compassion, boundaries, and unmet expectations. We explore how to see others more clearly without abandoning your own needs, and close with a guided meditation and parts-work practice to help you soften the ache and reconnect with your body. If you’re craving honesty, healing, and a whole new lens on “showing up,” this one’s for you. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep109 The DL about Estrangement
In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey dives deep into The DL about Estrangement, exploring what it truly means to step away from family for the sake of survival, mental health, and emotional wellness. She shares her personal journey of walking away from her own family, alongside her husband’s experience, revealing the complex mix of grief, relief, and freedom that comes with no contact. Aubrey discusses the realities of breaking generational cycles, the emotional weight of letting go, and the life-changing clarity that emerges when you reclaim your power. She also highlights Oprah’s recent podcast on estrangement, emphasizing why listening to these stories can help you understand the choice from the inside — whether you face it personally or encounter it in others. This episode is raw, honest, and healing, offering guidance, insight, and support for anyone navigating or witnessing estrangement in their life. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Subscribe and give this podcast 5 stars!
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Ep108 History Speaks Volumes
Not every reaction you get is about you — sometimes it’s guilt, projection, or old patterns showing up. In this episode of SOUL FUELED ✨️AF, Aubrey dives into the power of paying attention to people’s historical behavior versus their reactions in the moment. She explores how to spot those who truly have your back — the Silent Champions quietly honoring and defending you behind the scenes — versus the ones whose sudden intensity is more about them than you. Learn how to protect your energy, trust your intuition, and read the patterns that reveal who really belongs in your life. If you’ve ever been shocked by someone’s reaction or felt drained by performative concern, this episode gives you clarity, boundaries, and the wisdom to focus on the people who are consistent, loyal, and real. [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep107 Life in Training
In this episode, LIFE IN TRAINING, on SOUL FUELED ✨️ AF, Aubrey dives into how everything you’ve lived through—physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even in your nervous system—is preparing you for what’s next. From heartbreaks and detours to moments of growth and triumph, every challenge is training you to face life’s next chapter with strength, clarity, and resilience. Momma, this episode is about honoring your journey, embracing the lessons, and trusting that even the hardest moments serve a purpose. Whether you’re navigating uncertainty, processing emotional pain, or seeking alignment in your life, Aubrey reminds you that nothing has been wasted. Your life is in training, and when the next chapter arrives, you’ll meet it fully alive, fully embodied, and fully empowered. SUBSCRIBE and give a 5 star 🌟 rating. Email [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep106 The Messiness of Marriage and the Power of Repair
Marriage isn’t always easy — it’s messy, emotional, and full of challenges. In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey Conley dives into the realities of maintaining intimacy, connection, and vulnerability in relationships. She shares her personal healing journey and the lessons she’s learned walking alongside other women and mamas. From understanding that marriage isn’t 50/50, to the importance of forgiveness, repair, and the little everyday acts that keep love alive, this episode explores how couples can navigate conflict, weather storms, and rebuild trust. If you’re ready to break cycles, embrace vulnerability, and strengthen your connection with your partner, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover why the power of repair is what transforms messy moments into lasting love. Www.aubreyconley.com [email protected]
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Ep105 The Space Between Holding Others and Holding You.
In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨️ AF, “The Space Between Holding Others and Holding You,” we dive straight into the raw truth of what happens when you’re constantly holding space for everyone else but never for yourself. This is the messy middle — the space between emotional strength and self-abandonment, between showing up for others and forgetting your own body, breath, and needs. I talk about the exhaustion, the avoidance, and the shadows we run from when we refuse to sit with ourselves. We explore why stillness feels terrifying, why yoga asks more of us than most people can tolerate, and how your inner landscape will keep calling you back until you finally listen. If you’re a woman or mama who gives and carries and supports until your own nervous system is screaming, this episode is your reminder: you deserve to be held too. Come meet yourself in the space between. Www.aubreyconley.com [email protected]
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Ep104 My daughter’s journey. Life, love and plasma.
In this deeply personal episode 104 "My daughter’s journey. Life, love and plasma," Aubrey shares her daughter’s journey living with a primary immune deficiency. Her body doesn’t naturally make the antibodies she needs to fight infections, so we rely on life-saving plasma treatments to keep her healthy. Aubrey opens up about the emotional ups and downs of parenting a child with an invisible disability, the fierce advocacy it requires, and how this journey has transformed her into a vigilant, protective, and resilient Momma. We also explore the incredible impact of plasma donation, how you can help save lives, and the gratitude we feel for donors who make her health possible. From navigating healthcare to honoring the donors who give selflessly, this episode is a heartfelt look at love, life, and the power of community in supporting children and adults with immune deficiencies. Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep103 People can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves.
In episode 103 of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, host Aubrey Conley dives deep into the truth that people can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves. Through the lens of Radical ✨️Wellness, Aubrey explores why most people don’t do the inner work, how emotional capacity shapes connection, and what it means to choose from clarity instead of pain. Learn how to recognize when someone’s nervous system simply isn’t ready to meet you deeply — and how to stop taking it personally. This conversation is for women and mommas who are healing trauma, breaking generational cycles, and learning to trust their intuition again. You’ll walk away with tools to set loving boundaries, honor your truth, and meet yourself at the depth you’ve been asking others to. Tune in for grounded wisdom, reflection prompts, and soulful empowerment to live, love, and lead from radical self-awareness. Www.aubreyconley.com [email protected]
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Ep102 Stop Giving People Access to You.
In episode 102 of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we dive deep into protecting your energy in the digital age and in real life. If you find yourself sitting at tables with people who whisper behind your back, or noticing creepers on your social media who drain your joy, it’s time to break the cycle. Your social media and your life are sacred spaces for self-expression, creativity, and authentic connection — not for those who feed on insecurity, jealousy, or comparison. We explore what’s happening in your nervous system when you allow these energies in, and what’s happening in theirs. Learn how to recognize these patterns, reclaim your power, and curate a digital and physical world that supports your growth. This episode is for women, moms, and soul-led individuals ready to set boundaries, release energy vampires, and surround themselves with real, authentic connections. Www.aubreyconley.com [email protected]
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Ep101 Permission to do what lights you up.
In this Soul Fueled ✨ AF episode, Aubrey speaks directly to the mommas and women who are holding it all together while trying to stay connected to their own light. She dives into the deeper meaning behind putting up Christmas tree, lights early — not as rushing the holidays, but as an act of self-trust, nervous system care, and emotional nourishment. Through her own story of moving her decorating date earlier each year to bring warmth and joy into her home, Aubrey reminds mommas everywhere to listen to their inner voice and follow what feels good. Whether it’s lights, music, or quiet moments of peace, this episode is your permission slip to nurture yourself, create beauty in your space, and honor what your soul is asking for. Subscribe and give this podcast 5 stars [email protected] Www.aubreyconley.com Let's go deeper! Reach out for 1:1 S.O.U.L. sessions
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Ep100 Understanding Emotional Avoidance
In this episode on Soul Fueled ✨️AF "Understanding Emotional Avoidance," Aubrey Conley, Radical ✨️ Wellness Alchemist, explores emotional avoidance — the unconscious habit of avoiding uncomfortable feelings like sadness, anger, or fear. Learn how your nervous system responds when you distract, numb, or overwork to stay safe, and why avoidance is actually a protective mechanism. Aubrey guides you through recognizing the layers of emotion inside — the “onion” of feelings — and teaches practical ways to become aware, gently feel, and release what’s been held inside. Perfect for women and mamas ready to stop running from emotions, reclaim their inner freedom, and cultivate self-compassion. Discover how to move from avoidance to presence, integrate your emotions safely, and step fully into your Radical ✨️ Wellness journey. Subscribe! Aubreyconley.com
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Ep99 Healing the Echo of Our Parents.
In episode 99, "Healing the Echo of Our Parents" on Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we explore how the way you treat your parents as an adult often mirrors how they treated you as a child. This conversation is not about blame — it’s about awareness, nervous system healing, and breaking generational patterns. We dive into why old survival responses like fight, flight, freeze, or fawn show up in adulthood, how your body stores emotional memory, and how awareness can help you reparent yourself. We also explore conscious parenting — how the way you show up with your children influences how they treat you and others, and how you can choose to break cycles so your kids can thrive in healthy relationships. Tune in for actionable guidance, emotional insight, and a short EFT tapping session to release old patterns, reclaim your voice, and foster freedom, connection, and emotional resilience across generations. Subscribe and give this podcast 5 Stars. aubreyconley.com
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Ep98 Something Wonderful is About to Happen.
In this episode 98, Something Wonderful is About to Happen, and Yeah, I’m Talking to You, Aubrey Conley — Radical Wellness Alchemist and host of Soul Fueled ✨ AF — speaks to every woman and momma ready to step out of survival mode and back into her power. This conversation explores how one simple mantra can rewire your brain, regulate your nervous system, and shift your mindset from fear to flow. You’ll learn how to open your energy to healing, self-growth, and manifestation by expecting the wonderful — not waiting for the other shoe to drop. Aubrey shares how this practice helps women and mommas reconnect to joy, softness, and curiosity in everyday life. If you’re craving more ease, alignment, and radiant energy, this episode is your reminder: something wonderful is about to happen… and yes, beautiful — she’s talking to you. Subscribe! Share! Www.aubreyconley.com Follow on Ig @aubreyconley
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Ep 97 Walking Through Shadow to Remember Your Light
In Episode 97 of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we dive deep into the shadowy layers that creep into everyday life and explore how women and mamas can navigate fear, anxiety, and unseen darkness while staying rooted in their light. Aubrey shares a heartfelt conversation with a dear friend about the fourth dimension — the in-between space of shadow and divine flow — and how recognizing and working with this energy can transform your life. This episode guides you through understanding the darkness, becoming the light stronger than fear, and practical tools like somatic exercises and tapping to release heaviness and reconnect with your inner divine light. Perfect for women seeking spiritual growth, nervous system regulation, inner child work, and empowerment. Subscribe! Share! Www.aubreyconley.com Follow on Ig @aubreyconley
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Ep96 The Highs, The Lows and Lessons in-between.
"The Highs, The Lows and Lessons in-between." In this Soul Fueled ✨ AF episode 96, we dive deep into the highs, the lows, and the lessons that shape your life. For women and mommas navigating the chaos of daily life, this episode reminds you that growth is never accidental. Every triumph, every heartbreak, and every person in your path has a higher purpose — even the moments that feel overwhelming or fleeting. Learn how to find the silver lining, honor your human emotions, and recognize the hidden lessons in the details surrounding you. Whether you’re on top of a mountain or in the middle of a storm, this episode is your guide to trusting the journey, embracing impermanence, and stepping into your power. Listen in and discover how everything you experience is shaping the extraordinary woman you’re becoming. Www.aubreyconley.com Ig @aubreyconley
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Ep95 Sorry, not sorry. Reclaiming Me in My 40s...
Episode 95 "Sorry, not sorry. Reclaiming Me in My 40s." In this cheeky, real, and unapologetic episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey Conley dives into midlife reclamation for women and mommas — taking back the pieces of yourself you gave away to be liked. From voice and boundaries to creativity, sensuality, and joy, this episode shows how to stop people-pleasing, embrace your truth, and reclaim your power in your 40s and 50s. Perfect for women and mommas ready to own their authentic selves, stop shrinking, and live boldly. Www.aubreyconley.com Ig @aubreyconley
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Ep94 Be Grateful? Let’s Talk About That…
Episode 94 Be Grateful? Let’s Talk About That… “Be grateful.” We’ve all heard it — but what happens when those words sting instead of soothe? In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨AF, Aubrey gets real, raw, and unapologetic about what gratitude actually means beneath the surface. She unpacks how “just be grateful” can poke at shame, guilt, and grief — and how to shift from forced positivity to embodied gratitude that lives in your bones. You’ll learn how your nervous system, body, and inner world respond to gratitude, how to build comfort inside the chaos, and why sometimes the most sacred thing you can do is simply breathe and notice your heart still beating. This is gratitude redefined — trauma-informed, compassionate, and soul-anchored. Subscribe, Dive Deeper aubreyconley.com and follow on IG @aubreyconley
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Ep 93 Showing Up Is the Hardest Part-and the Most Sacred One
Episode 93 Showing Up Is the Hardest Part-and the Most Sacred One In this raw and real episode of Soul-Fueled ✨ AF, Aubrey breaks down why it’s so damn hard to get motivated—and why motivation is lying to you. We dive into the truth about discipline, the nervous system, and how showing up for yourself is the ultimate act of self-love. You’ll learn why movement is medicine, how discipline is a muscle you build, and why taking care of your body, mind, and spirit must become a non-negotiable in your life. This episode will light a fire under you to stop waiting for motivation, start honoring your body, and finally show up with strength, clarity, and purpose. Subscribe to this podcast Follow on Instagram @aubreyconley Ready to go deeper? Www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep92 Roadblocks or Redirectors?
Episode 92 Roadblocks or Redirectors Discover how to overcome life’s obstacles, turn challenges into opportunities, and embrace new directions. A soulful, empowering podcast on growth, healing, resilience, and clarity when life redirects your path. 🔔Subscribe, Give this podcast 5⭐️ Follow on IG @aubreyconley 👉Ready to go deeper? Hop over to www.aubreyconley.com for more Radical ✨️ Wellness Email Aubrey: [email protected]
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Ep91 Stress is a Messenger, Not the Enemy.
Episode 91 "Stress is a Messenger, Not the Enemy" In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we dive into what stress really is, how the nervous system responds, and why being “triggered” isn’t about judgment but about a part of you that’s asking to be seen. We’ll break down everyday stressors, big life crises, and the cycles of seasons we all move through. Together, we explore how Radical ✨️ Wellness, IFS parts work, and EFT help you name, hold, and transform stress so you can return to clarity and your soul self. This is real, raw talk about being a woman, navigating womanhood, and facing the things most people don’t say out loud. 👉 Subscribe, drop a 5-star review, follow me on IG @aubreyconley, and if you’re ready to go deeper, hop over to www.aubreyconley.com
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Ep90 Step in, Speak Up: Channeling Your Masculine Energy as a Woman
Episode 90: "Step in, Speak Up: Channeling Your Masculine Energy As a Woman." In this episode, we’re getting real about your inner masculine energy—the part of you that speaks up, sets boundaries, and takes action. We’ll break down the difference between masculine and feminine energy, show you when to lean in, and when to chill in your feminine flow. Think of it as your inner warrior meets your inner goddess—strong, fierce, and unapologetically you. I’ll share tips on speaking confidently, protecting your energy, and taking decisive action without losing your intuition or creativity. If you’re loving this episode, subscribe, drop a five-star review, follow me on Instagram @aubreyconley and check out my website aubreyconley.com for more Radical ✨️ Wellness tools, inspiration, and a little cheeky empowerment. Time to step into your warrior-goddess energy—you got this!
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Ep89 Stop Pushing, Start Trusting-The Art of Surrendering
Episode 89 "Stop Pushing, Start Trusting- The Art of surrendering." In this episode of Soul Fueled ✨ AF, we explore the power of surrender in wellness, as women, in motherhood, and healing. I share a personal yoga story that taught me how to let go, trust, and surrender even more, peeling back layers of ego, fear, and vulnerability to access freedom, clarity, and alignment. Learn practical tools to soften your nervous system, release control, and embrace stillness through breathwork, mantras, and daily practices. This episode is for anyone ready to stop pushing, trust the journey, and reclaim their voice, power, and peace. Discover how surrender can be your superpower in life, parenting, and self-healing. Subscribe to this podcast give a 5-star review. Hop over to aubreyconley.com Follow on IG @aubreyconley
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Soul Fueled ✨️AF is a podcast for women and Mommas who’ve faced trauma, walked away from toxic family and relationships, and fought through medical, mental, emotional, and spiritual battles. Hosted by Aubrey Conley, a psychosomatic practitioner- it’s a raw, healing space for nervous system regulation and repair- teaching women how to reclaim their voice, break generational patterns, and live soul-led lives with fierce clarity and truth.
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