Spiritually Homesteading | How to Lose Your Religion & Keep Your Jesus

I've been there. You look at the ashes of your former spiritual practices and wonder when it is time to move on? You wonder if it is even worth the journey? Beauty waits on the other side. Let's talk about that. #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions 

Biblical is a word that a lot of believers like to use to persuade and confirm their message or beliefs. But what if they are missing a significant piece of that formula?  #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions 

A lot of times Biblical and spiritual abuse is masked as "biblical authority," let's unpack the implications on why ignoring the Bible (even if you hate reading the Bible) is not in your best interest. #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

There are a lot of different types of people who have a lot of different opinions about the Bible. And based on where you are in your journey, whether you are deconstructing or reconstructing or just looking to grow your faith, it can get complicated really quickly. Especially since every source may or may not be wanting to help you the way you were hoping they would.  Like applying a theory framework that helps with literature, here are a few ways you can look at the Bible and Bible guides.    #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Let's address the elephant in the room: Christians have a reputation for hypocrisy. The accusation isn't new, and honestly, it's often deserved. But before we pile on religious folks exclusively, we need to recognize something crucial: hypocrisy isn't strictly a Christian thing. It's a human thing. So why does Christian hypocrisy feel so pervasive? Here are four reasons that go deeper than "they're just bad people." Message here: laurafarhy.com | Catch up on Youtube   #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber   

Throughout history, merging church and state has consistently led to oppression, violence, and the corruption of both institutions. But there's a practical question that exposes the fundamental problem: Which version of Christianity would become official? Which Bible—Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox? Which denomination sets the doctrine? The moment you try to establish Christianity as a state religion, you're forced to choose one interpretation over thousands of others, effectively making the government an arbiter of theology. History shows this always ends in persecution—of other Christians, of other faiths, and of dissenters. Ironically, separation of church and state doesn't weaken faith; it protects it from being weaponized, diluted, and controlled by political power.   #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Can you deconstruct your faith without losing Jesus? Absolutely. In this episode, Laura Farhy shares a practical four step framework for examining everything you've been taught about Christianity while keeping what truly matters. Learn how to identify what's really keeping you from God, define who Jesus actually is beyond religious tradition, and get curious about your beliefs without fear. Perfect for anyone healing from church hurt, questioning their faith, or seeking authentic spirituality. Read the companion blog post with journaling exercises at laurafarhy.com. You can lose your religion and keep your Jesus. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber   

What did Jesus actually stand for? As Tolstoy said, the message of Jesus really isn't complicated—but the church, religious institutions, and humanity have overcomplicated it. In this episode, we get back to basics. Jesus taught three core principles that encompass everything: Love God, love others as yourself, and serve others before yourself. That's it. Really. We explore the vineyard parable where a landowner sent messenger after messenger—all killed—before finally sending his son. This reveals why Jesus came: not as a brutal sacrifice to satisfy divine wrath, but to personally embody what God has been trying to tell us all along. Love God means making God your identity system instead of reaching for capitalism's illusions. Advertising doesn't sell products—it sells false identities. You're not buying a car; you're buying the image of success. When God becomes our source of identity, we stop falling into worldly traps. Love others as yourself creates accountability. If you want grace, extend grace. If you want mercy, show mercy. Treat people the way you want God to treat you. Serve others first embodies the "superhero mentality"—always looking for ways to save, support, and encourage others, even at personal expense. Jesus frustrated the Pharisees because they loved their laws more than the people those laws were meant to protect. Sound familiar? We're quick to be offended without considering intentions. We police everyone's behavior instead of monitoring our own. If we all focused on our own words and actions, many of our political and social problems would disappear. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber   

Satan isn't in the Bible. At least not the way you think. The horned figure with a pitchfork ruling over hell? That's a medieval invention, not biblical teaching. In this episode, we explore what the Hebrew word "satan" actually meant to the original audience of the Old Testament. Instead of a proper name for the embodiment of evil, "satan" simply meant "adversary" or "opponent"—someone or something working against you. This completely changes how we read familiar passages. In the book of Job, "the satan" isn't the devil battling God; it's a divine authority figure testing Job spiritually. The serpent in Genesis wasn't a talking snake that should have alarmed Eve; it was understood as a divine or magical being from another realm, which is why conversation with it seemed normal. We discuss why reading ancient Jewish texts with modern Christian theology makes us miss essential meaning, how the concept of Satan evolved over centuries, and what Jesus might have actually meant when he told Peter "Get behind me, Satan." This isn't about diminishing faith. It's about reading Scripture the way it was meant to be read and understanding what the original audience believed versus what church tradition has taught us. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Jesus was Jewish. This isn't symbolic or metaphorical—Jesus was fully, authentically Jewish. So why have we separated Christ from his cultural and religious roots? In this episode, we tackle why Jesus's Jewishness matters for understanding the Bible. From Judd Apatow's confusion about seeing Jesus in a spiritual vision ("I'm Jewish—why would I see Jesus?") to our cultural habit of depicting Jesus as European, we've lost sight of essential context. Jesus lived in the Middle East. He would have looked more like an Indian or Arab person than the pale, blue-eyed depictions in churches. But beyond physical appearance, his entire worldview, teaching methods, and mission were rooted in Jewish tradition. He was a Rabbi. He taught in synagogues. He observed Jewish festivals. He fulfilled Jewish messianic prophecies. We explore why Christianity didn't create Jesus—Judaism did. Jesus existed because of the covenant with Abraham and the promises made to the Jewish people. Understanding this transforms how we read Scripture, interpret parables, and grasp Jesus's confrontations with religious leaders. If you want to read the Bible more accurately and understand Christ more fully, you need to reclaim the Jewishness of Jesus. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Deconstruction vs. deconversion—they're not the same thing, but people use these terms interchangeably all the time. If you're questioning your faith, understanding the difference matters. Deconstruction means taking apart your beliefs to understand them better, to separate truth from tradition. It's like deconstructing a salad—you identify each ingredient (kale, goat cheese, grilled chicken, pickled onions) to understand what makes it delicious. You're not rejecting the salad; you're learning what's essential versus what's just garnish. Deconversion is different. It's the process of leaving faith entirely. You're not examining beliefs to refine them—you're dismantling them because you no longer believe. You're quitting. As a millennial, I've watched every institution I was told to trust fail spectacularly: the church, government, healthcare systems, financial industries. We were taught to fall in line and trust authority, but these systems—run by flawed humans—have let us down repeatedly. This creates a crisis: Can we put our hope in traditions just because "that's how we've always done it"? These questions drive deconstruction. We're not abandoning faith—we're trying to figure out what's actually true versus what's institutional baggage. We explore the philosophy behind deconstruction (Jacques Derrida), why Christianity didn't create Jesus (it was created IN RESPONSE to Jesus), and the irony of people calling something deconstruction when it's actually something else. Deconstruction assumes there's something worth keeping—you're refining, not rejecting. When you're ready to walk away entirely, that's deconversion. Both journeys are valid, but honesty about which path you're walking matters. Are you deconstructing—seeking clarity within faith? Or deconverting—seeking departure from faith? Know which path you're on. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Is God a man? It's a question most Christians avoid, but the answer matters more than you think—especially for people who've been hurt by earthly fathers. In this episode, we tackle why Christianity has spent centuries emphasizing God's masculinity and what that means for people seeking authentic connection with the divine. We explore how the word "Father" can be comforting for some and traumatic for others, and why God intentionally uses both paternal and maternal imagery throughout Scripture. You'll discover that God describes himself as mother in the Old Testament, that Jesus takes on the role of bridegroom while believers are the bride, and that God transcends human gender categories entirely. God is neither male nor female—and somehow embodies the fullest expression of both. If thinking of God as exclusively male creates distance in your relationship with the divine, this episode offers permission to explore maternal or gender-neutral imagery. Because God wants connection, not conformity to outdated linguistic conventions. Perfect for anyone deconstructing faith, wrestling with patriarchal church structures, or simply curious about the gender of God. Message me⁠⁠ here ⁠⁠ Catch up on ⁠⁠YouTube here⁠ #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Have you ever wondered if the greatest battles are the ones you choose not to fight? In this episode of Spiritually Homesteading, Laura Farhy shares a transformative Zen story about a warrior who won every battle without ever drawing his sword. Discover why peaceful resistance is so challenging, what Jesus really understood about conflict, and how to discern which battles deserve your energy. This honest, vulnerable conversation explores the tension between standing up for yourself and choosing not to engage with people determined to misunderstand you. Perfect for spiritual seekers, those navigating faith transitions, and anyone learning to find peace in a reactive world. Message me here Catch up on YouTube here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber   

What does biblical manhood really mean? In this episode, we strip away the complexity and get to the heart of what Jesus actually taught about masculinity. Biblical manhood isn't about toxic masculinity or cultural stereotypes—it's about three core principles: love God, love others as you love yourself, and serve others before yourself. We explore how consumerism tries to sell us false identities, why the Golden Rule creates powerful accountability, and what servant leadership actually looks like. Drawing from Jesus's interactions with the Pharisees, we discuss how rules became more important than people—and how we're making the same mistakes today in our political and social environments. If you're seeking clarity on biblical manhood without the cultural baggage, this episode offers a refreshingly simple framework rooted in Christ's teachings. 📧 Message me at laurafary.com 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Laura Farhy ✨ Uncomplicating Christianity, one conversation at a time #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Why you need to know Christianity's rules before breaking them. Just like artists master techniques before taking creative liberties, faith requires the same wisdom. 🎨 Check us out on Youtube Send you questions or comments here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

The truth about mega pastors and celebrity church culture. We blame the leaders, but are we part of the problem? Let's have an honest conversation. 🎤 Check us out on Youtube Send you questions or comments here #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

5 types of toxic Christians you need to avoid. If you've experienced church hurt, you've probably encountered these harmful behaviors. Let's talk about it. 🚨 Check us out on Youtube Send you questions or comments here   #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christianfaith #christianityexplained #deconstructingfaith #deconstructedchristian #exvangelical #leavingchurch #reconstructingfaith #christianityexplored #faithcrisis #faithhabits #faithquestions #christianyoutube #christianyoutuber 

Should Christians hide their faith in public spaces? Let's talk about authentic Christian identity beyond religious performance. This might challenge everything you thought about public expression of faith. Check us out on Youtube Send you questions or comments here

Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, Catholic, Pentecostal, Non-Denominational... walk through any city and you'll see dozens of different Christian churches. So which Christian denomination is correct? Which one would Jesus choose? And why can't Christians just agree on what they believe? If someone's ever told you that Christians seem pretty disunified, they're not wrong. We all start at the same place (Jesus), but where we go from there? Completely different directions. And today, I'm breaking down why that's actually okay. In this video, we explore: ✅ How Christian denominations formed throughout history ✅ What denominations actually disagree about (and what they don't) ✅ The brilliant food analogy that makes everything click ✅ Why Jesus is like the nutritionist of Christianity ✅ How to find YOUR denominational home without the guilt ✅ The essentials every Christian agrees on (spoiler: it's simpler than you think) THE BEST ANALOGY: Think about food and diet culture. Europeans prioritize quality and experience. Americans prioritize convenience. Both nourish their bodies, just differently. Denominations work the same way - different approaches to practicing faith in God. THE CORE TRUTH: Jesus and the Apostles Creed are your essential nutrients. That's your non-negotiable foundation. How you practice those essentials? That's between you and God. Some people thrive with liturgy, others need contemporary worship. Neither is wrong. REAL TALK: There's no "correct" denomination. Baptists aren't more saved than Catholics. Methodists aren't closer to God than Pentecostals. It's about finding the faith community where YOU can genuinely connect with God and grow. Stop stressing about finding the "right" church and start focusing on finding YOUR church - the one where you can authentically grow in your relationship with Jesus.   Related Topics Baptist vs Methodist vs Presbyterian Catholic vs Protestant differences Which Christian denomination is right How to choose a church denomination Christian denominations explained Are all denominations the same What is non-denominational Christianity Church denomination quiz Differences between Christian churches What denomination was Jesus READ THE FULL BLOG POST: [laurafarhy.com] Confused about denominations? Drop your questions in the comments! Whether you're church shopping, curious about Christianity, or just wondering why there are so many different kinds of churches, let's talk about it. SEO Tags #ChristianDenominations #WhichChurchIsRight #BaptistVsCatholic #ChurchDenominations #ChristianityExplained #ChoosingAChurch #ProtestantVsCatholic #NonDenominational #FaithQuestions #ChurchShopping #ReligionExplained #TypesOfChristianity #ChristianBeliefs #FindingAChurch #DenominationDifferences LIKE this video if it helped clarify denominations for you SUBSCRIBE for more practical faith conversationsSHARE with someone who's confused about which church to attend Let me know in the comments: What denomination are you? Has your denominational preference changed over time? What matters most to you when choosing a church? More Videos You'll Love: Why Are Christians So Judgmental? The Truth About Hypocrisy Why Does God Allow Suffering? The Real Answer Does God Hate Women? Biblical Truth About Sexism Quick Denomination Overview What They All Agree On: Jesus is Lord and Savior The Bible is God's Word Salvation through faith in Christ The Apostles Creed essentials What They Disagree On: Baptism practices (infant vs. adult) Women in leadership roles Alcohol consumption Worship style preferences Church government structure The Bottom Line: These differences are about HOW to practice Christianity, not WHETHER the core beliefs are true. For New Christians If you're new to Christianity and overwhelmed by all the options, start here: Find a church where people genuinely love Jesus and love each other. Where the Bible is taught clearly. Where you feel welcomed and can ask questions. The denominational label matters way less than the community's authenticity. For Church Shoppers What works for you spiritually might change over seasons. I've been through multiple denominations throughout my life. What deepened my faith in one season didn't work in the next. That's normal. God stays the same, but our relationship with Him evolves. For Non-Christians Watching Christianity isn't as divided as it looks from the outside. Yes, we have different denominations. But we all worship the same Jesus, follow the same Bible, and believe the same core truths. The denominational diversity is actually beautiful - it means there's space for different personalities, cultures, and ways of connecting with God. This video explains why there are so many Christian denominations, which denomination is correct, and how to choose a church that's right for you. Whether you're comparing Baptist vs Catholic vs Methodist churches, trying to understand Protestant vs Catholic differences, or just church shopping for the first time, this guide will help you navigate Christian denominations with confidence. PERFECT FOR: New Christians, people raised in one denomination curious about others, church shoppers, non-Christians trying to understand Christianity, anyone confused by denominational differences.

Does God hate women? Is Christianity sexist? Is the Bible patriarchal? These questions consumed me for 10 years and nearly destroyed my faith. Then I discovered something about Mary that changed everything. God didn't have to use a woman to bring Jesus into the world. He could have materialized Jesus as a full-grown man. But He didn't. He chose to package the most important information in human history inside the body of a woman. And that choice? It's God's feminist statement. In this video, we explore: ✅ Why I knelt before a statue of Mary and what God revealed to me ✅ The shocking truth about women in Jesus's ministry (it's not what you think) ✅ How Mary bookends the entire Gospel story with another woman ✅ Why Sarah is just as important to Judaism as Mary is to Christianity ✅ The demonic lie that tells women God is withholding something from them ✅ What the Bible ACTUALLY says about God's view of women THE POWERFUL TRUTH: The first person to know about Jesus's existence was a woman. The first person to witness His resurrection was a woman. Women bookend the entire Gospel. That's not an accident. REAL TALK: Jesus was constantly surrounded by women. Women funded His ministry. Women followed Him to the cross when male apostles abandoned Him. Women came to anoint His body. Jesus's entire life from beginning to end was marked by women's presence, compassion, and ministry. THE LIE WE'VE BEEN TOLD: Any person who makes a woman feel like her relationship with God is insignificant because of her gender is preaching the same lie Satan told Eve in the Garden - that God is withholding something from you. This isn't about bashing men or the church. This is about seeing what scripture actually says about women's value in God's eyes. And it's way more beautiful than you've been told. Related Topics Does God hate women Is Christianity sexist Mary mother of Jesus feminist Women in the Bible Biblical feminism Does the Bible support women Christianity and women's rights Patriarchy in Christianity Women in ministry Mary Magdalene true story Biblical womanhood truth God's view of women READ THE FULL BLOG POST: [Link to blog] If you've ever questioned your value as a woman in Christianity, or if you've been told women are "less than," drop a comment. Let's reclaim what scripture actually teaches about women's worth. SEO Tags #DoesGodHateWomen #ChristianityAndWomen #MaryMotherOfJesus #BiblicalFeminism #WomenInTheBible #IsChristianitySexist #ChristianFeminism #MaryMagdalene #WomenInMinistry #BiblicalWomanhood #FaithAndFeminism #ChristianWomen #GodAndWomen #ReligiousPatriarchy #BibleAndWomen LIKE this video if it changed how you see women in scripture SUBSCRIBE for more truth that the church doesn't always teach SHARE with every woman who's been told she's "less than" Let me know in the comments: How has the church treated you as a woman? Have you been told God values men more? What would change if more people understood Mary's role in God's plan?

Why Are Christians So Judgmental? The Brutal Truth About Religious Hypocrisy Video Description "If God is so good and Christianity is supposed to change your life, why are Christians such hypocrites?" This is the question keeping millions away from church, and today we're giving you the honest answer. As a Christian myself, I'll tell you something controversial: My biggest problem isn't with atheists or agnostics. It's with other Christians. And if you've been hurt by judgmental Christians, this video is for you. In this video, we explore: ✅ Why Jesus spent more time calling out religious people than converting non-believers ✅ The shocking truth: Christian hypocrisy isn't actually a Christianity problem ✅ How modern Christians have become the Pharisees Jesus opposed ✅ Why power corrupts people in every institution (not just churches) ✅ What real Christianity actually looks like (hint: it's not about being right) ✅ The #1 barrier keeping people from faith in America today THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH: Jerks exist everywhere. Cops on power trips. Corrupt attorneys. Abusive bosses. You don't need to be religious to be a hypocrite. You just need to be human with access to power. JESUS'S BIGGEST ENEMIES: The Pharisees had all the answers. They knew scripture inside and out. They had prophecies describing exactly who the Messiah would be. But when Jesus showed up? They rejected Him because He threatened their power and control. THE MODERN PHARISEE PROBLEM: Many Christians today believe they're entitled to God's grace while withholding it from others. They think they're on some divine VIP list. But that's the opposite of what Jesus taught. This isn't about bashing Christians. This is about calling out the hypocrisy that's driving people away from faith and getting back to what Jesus actually stood for: love, humility, and service over status and control. Related Topics Why are Christians so judgmental Christian hypocrisy explained Pharisees in modern church Why I left Christianity Toxic Christianity Religious trauma What did Jesus actually teach Are all Christians hypocrites Church hurt and healing Deconstructing faith READ THE FULL BLOG POST: If you've been hurt by judgmental Christians or if you ARE a Christian wondering why the church has such a bad reputation, let's talk about it in the comments. This conversation needs to happen. SEO Tags #ChristianHypocrisy #WhyAreChristiansJudgmental #ToxicChristianity #ReligiousHypocrisy #ChurchHurt #ModernPharisees #WhatJesusActuallyTaught #ChristianityExplained #Deconstruction #FaithQuestions #AuthenticChristianity #ReligiousTrauma #ChristianApologetics #BiblicalTruth #honestfaith LIKE this video if you've ever been hurt by a judgmental Christian SUBSCRIBE for more honest conversations that the church won't have SHARE with someone who's been turned away from faith by hypocrisy Let me know in the comments: Have you experienced Christian hypocrisy? How did it affect your faith? What would authentic Christianity look like to you? More Videos You'll Love: Why Does God Allow Suffering? The Real Answer Does God Hate Women? Biblical Truth About Sexism Why Are There So Many Christian Denominations?

Why Does God Allow Suffering? If God Is Good, Why Is There Evil and Pain? Video Description If God is so good, why does He allow suffering? Why do bad things happen to good people? This is the hardest question in Christianity, and today we're diving deep into why God allows pain, tragedy, and evil in the world. In this video, we explore: ✅ Why our choices create suffering (and how they affect future generations) ✅ The surprising reason God doesn't fix every problem ✅ How pain creates community in ways nothing else can ✅ What the Bible actually says about living in a fallen world ✅ Why entitled thinking makes suffering harder to accept ✅ The honest truth: we don't have all the answers (and that's okay) THE HARD TRUTH: We don't live in a good world where bad things occasionally happen. We live in a bad world where good things sometimes break through. Understanding this changes everything. REAL TALK: Some suffering comes from bad choices we make. Some comes from choices previous generations made. And some suffering? It's just the reality of living in a broken world. But God doesn't leave us alone in it. KEY INSIGHT: Pain has a unique power to connect us as human beings. When we suffer, we reach out to each other in ways we never would otherwise. Shared pain creates authentic community that joy and abundance simply can't. This isn't about giving you easy answers or oversimplifying complex theology. This is about wrestling with the reality of suffering while holding onto faith in a good God. Related Topics Why do bad things happen to good people Problem of evil explained Christianity and suffering Does God care about my pain Theodicy for beginners Why God allows tragedy Christian response to suffering Faith during hard times God's goodness and human suffering READ THE FULL BLOG POST: laurafarhy.com If you're wrestling with why God allows suffering, you're not alone. Drop a comment below with your thoughts or questions. Let's have this conversation together. SEO Tags #WhyDoesSufferingExist #ProblemOfEvil #ChristianApologetics #FaithAndSuffering #WhyBadThingsHappen #GodAndSuffering #ChristianAnswers #BiblicalTruth #FaithQuestions #ChristianityExplained #GodIsGood #DoesPainHaveAPurpose #TheologyOfSuffering #FaithInHardTimes #ChristianFaith LIKE this video if it helped you think differently about suffering SUBSCRIBE for more honest conversations about faith SHARE with someone who's asking these hard questions Let me know in the comments: What's helped you most when dealing with suffering? How do you reconcile God's goodness with the pain you see in the world? More Videos You'll Love: Why Are Christians Such Hypocrites? Does God Hate Women? Biblical Truth About Sexism Why Are There So Many Christian Denominations? This video explores the Christian perspective on suffering, the problem of evil, and why God allows pain in the world. Whether you're a believer struggling with doubt, someone questioning Christianity, or just curious about theological answers to life's hardest questions, this conversation is for you.

Gratitude and Connection: A Message to Our Community When I first started this podcast, I wasn't sure if anyone would resonate with what I had to share. I had a hunch based on conversations throughout my life, but there's always uncertainty when you put your authentic self out there. To every listener, subscriber, and person who has rated, reviewed, and engaged with this content—thank you. Your presence has been truly life-giving. What's transformed this into something special is realizing we're not alone. The situations I've faced, the struggles I've navigated, the challenges I'm working through—so many of you have experienced or are experiencing these same things right now. There's something deeply healing about that realization. By allowing me to share my heart with you, you've given me something invaluable: purpose and connection. This platform has become a space where we explore our circumstances together, creating moments of genuine understanding that might be hard to find elsewhere. Thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart. 

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Did you know we are on Youtube , too? Have you ever found yourself in a moment of deep doubt, questioning whether God is truly good? You're not alone. This fundamental question—Is God good?—is one that Christians throughout history have wrestled with, especially during seasons of uncertainty, pain, or confusion. But what if we're asking the wrong question entirely? #deconstructingchristianity #progressivechristianity #christianfaith #christianpodcast #jesusmessage

Did you know we are on YouTube, too? The truth is, your faith cannot depend solely on Sunday services or charismatic leaders. You need to learn how to spiritually homestead—to grow and maintain a vibrant relationship with God that can withstand any crisis happening inside the church walls. #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith

Watch this video on YouTube, too! How do you know if your faith is shallow or deep? It’s a question many Christians avoid asking themselves, yet it’s one of the most important reflections we can make on our spiritual journey. Understanding where you stand in your relationship with God can transform how you navigate life’s challenges and grow closer to Him. #progressivechristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #faithingod #jesusmessage

Watch this video here: Faith deconstruction is one of the most challenging journeys anyone can face. If you're questioning your beliefs or have already started the process, this video could save you years of unnecessary pain. In this deeply personal episode, I share the 7 crucial things I wish someone had told me before I began deconstructing my faith. Whether you're just starting to ask hard questions about your religion, feeling lost in the middle of deconstruction, or supporting someone going through this process, these insights will help you navigate this difficult but important journey. Remember: There's no "right" way to deconstruct. Be patient with yourself, seek support, and know that questioning doesn't make you broken - it makes you human. #faithdeconstruction #religioustrauma #atheism #agnostic #exvangelical #deconstructionfaith #religiousquestioning #doubt #spirituality #freethought #progressivechristianity #christianpodcast #christiandeconstruction #churchhurt

Wrestling with certainty in an age of conspiracy theories and information overload Do any of us really ever truly know that anything is ever really truly true? This might sound like a ridiculous question, but in our current age of social media, AI, and endless information streams, it's becoming increasingly relevant. Let's talk about it. #deconstructingchristianity #progressivechristianity #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christiandeconstruction #christiandoctrine #faithjourney

What You'll Learn: ✓ The actual biblical definition of false teaching ✓ How to spot legitimate false teachers vs. honest theological differences ✓ Why questioning church practices doesn't make you a false teacher ✓ Red flags of people misusing this label to control others ✓ How to protect yourself from false accusations during faith deconstruction       #christianpodcast #christianfaith #christiandoctrine #deconstructingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #progressivechristianity #faithconversations

What is heresy? Today we're breaking down what heresy actually means versus how it's often misused to silence spiritual truth seekers.       #Heresy #ChristianTeaching #FaithDeconstruction #Theology #ChristianDoctrine #SpiritualGrowth #biblicaltruth #deconstructingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #organizedreligion #christianpodcast #christianfaith #progressivechristianity

What if Christianity isn't real? What if I've built my life on a lie? I've asked these questions too. Here's why I still choose faith anyway - and it's not the Sunday school answers you might expect. 🙏 #faithjourney #doubt #belief #christianpodcast #jesusmessage #progressivechristianity #deconstructingchristianity #deconstructingfaith

Discover the shocking truth about what happens when people leave organized religion for DIY spirituality. Based on a recent NPR investigation, this video explores the hidden challenges faced by "nones" - people who've abandoned traditional faith for alternative spiritual paths.

Deconstruction saved my faith, but some deconstruction communities are destroying people's hope for healing. In this honest video, I'm exposing the toxic patterns I've witnessed in faith deconstruction spaces that claim to offer healing but actually keep people stuck in bitterness. #faithcrisis #deconstructing Get Your FREE 7 Day Deconstruction Guide Here

Is it possible that generational trauma and father wounds are destroying faith in churches across America!?! Learn how your childhood attachment to your parents affects your relationship with God. #deconstructingchristianity 

So, you need to fight with God? This isn’t the most comfortable topic, but it’s an important one. Processing difficult emotions with God is part of a healthy spiritual life. Let's talk about it! ⁠

Many people are asking: “What if I want to hold onto Jesus but I’m not sure about organized religion?” This question leads to an even more fundamental one: What do you need to believe to call yourself a Christian? What do you need to “keep your faith in Jesus” and lose your religion?  Get your free 7 Day Deconstruction Guide Here

Free 7-Day Deconstruction Workbook & Guide  Doctrine and theology might sound intimidating. But if you’re a Christian in a faith-crisis, (or a follower of Christ) who thinks about God, asks questions about your faith, or discusses spiritual matters with others, congratulations—you’re already doing theology. Let's discuss!

Some Christians view deconstruction as something dirty or dangerous, even labeling it as a liberal agenda designed to destroy the church and God. But that is not what deconstruction is at all. Let's talk about it. Get your FREE 7 day Deconstruction to Reconstruction Guide & Workbook Here laurafarhy.com

Through the lens of deconstruction, we question the traditional frameworks of sin, ask what Jesus actually taught, and consider how a more loving, liberating understanding might change everything. If you’ve ever felt crushed by the weight of sin language, this one’s for you.

In this episode, we confront the painful reality of how many LGBTQ+ individuals have been treated by the church. We unpack the hypocrisy of preaching love while practicing exclusion, and ask hard questions about what it truly means to follow Jesus. If you've ever felt rejected, conflicted, or disillusioned by the church’s stance on sexuality, this conversation offers space for honesty, healing, and hope.

For many believers—and even those who’ve walked away—this question hits deeply. The truth is, we’ve been doing the same spiritual “song and dance” for generations. But is that still serving us today? Let’s talk about it. laurafarhy.com

Is it time to get rid of the church as we know it? In this episode, we take an honest look at the role of organized religion in today’s world—wrestling with its failures, its fading relevance for many, and whether something better could (or should) take its place. Whether you're disillusioned, devoted, or just curious, this conversation invites you to rethink what "church" really means.

Many people today have complicated—sometimes painful—feelings about the Bible. If that’s you, you’re not alone. I’ve been there too. For a long time, I hated the Bible. It felt like a weapon, one that had been used to control women, silence questions, and justify injustice. I wanted nothing to do with it. Let's talk about Bible trauma.

I know some of you may not feel ready (or ever willing) to step foot in a church again. You might not want to read the Bible or join a Bible study. I get it. So here are a few resources to keep your faith soil fertile and healthy.

Whether it’s harmful theology, hypocrisy, or outright abuse, church hurt is real. And I get it—when a place that was supposed to offer healing ends up being the source of pain--the natural response is to walk away. But I want you to ask yourself: Are you walking away from Christ, or just from Christianity? Because the two are not always the same. Let's talk about it! laurafarhy.com

Let’s talk about the uncomfortable truth: many of us have real, valid issues with how we’ve experienced faith communities. And many of us carry secret doubts we’re too afraid to speak out loud. But here’s what I’ve learned: God is not afraid of your questions. He doesn’t need us to protect Him. Let's talk about it. laurafarhy.com

This episode talks about how my faith fell a part and how I was able to build it up stronger than ever before. There is a catalyst to every faith deconstruction story. What is yours?  laurafarhy.com 

This podcast exists for the spiritually curious, the disillusioned, and the hopeful. If you’ve been hurt by the church but haven’t lost your hunger for Jesus, this space is for you. For more resources and information head on over to laurafarhy.com