Summer of Me
by Kendra Henderson
Meet Kendra. She's a 35-year-old divorced mom of five, and her life is every bit as chaotic as you'd expect. Growing up with a therapist for a mom, tying the knot at 21, and giving life to 5 kids on 10 years, Kendra's life took a tumultuous turn through a journey of soul-searching, separation, divorce, and dating. Despite feeling underqualified, she's overexperienced and here to share her stories. Listen weekly to learn from them, laugh at them, or simply feel a little less alone. You're listening to "Summer of Me."
Episodes
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Teen Slang and Family Chaos
If you're looking for information about any of the following phrases: aura, ball knowledge, chopped, rage bait, and unc, this episode is for you. This week, Kendra sits down with her two oldest kids, Baylor and Bellamy, to chat about life as teenagers, what's in, and what the hell they're saying....
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I'm Choosing Discipline This Year (Here's Why)
In this episode of Summer of Me, Kendra shares her vulnerable word of the year – discipline. After observing that many successful people rely on organization and routine, she is practicing doing small "annoying" tasks immediately to close loops and reduce mental stress. She also commits to daily...
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The Real Reason Breakups Hurt So Much
In this powerful episode of "The Summer of Me," we explore the intricate process of how to get over a breakup . It's often not the person we miss, but the identity and personal growth, and opportunities we experienced within that relationship. Drawing on her personal experiences after divorce…
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The Cost of Being Easy to Love
In this episode, Kendra opens up about her personal journey with being "easy to love" and how this mindset impacted her relationships. She discusses the importance of self-improvement and personal growth, encouraging listeners to prioritize their own self-worth. Kendra's insights aim to foster a...
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Finding Companionship in Unexpected Places
This week, Kendra is talking about companionship, reflecting on her personal journey from loneliness to finding solace and connection beyond romantic partners. She emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and the significance of fostering deep relationships with friends and family.…
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Micro-Abandonments: What They Are and How to Overcome Them
Today, Kendra is exploring the concept of microabandoning: the small, repeated decision to overlook your own needs. She explains how this can lead to full self-abandonment, causing significant emotional and physical stress. Kendra gives strategies for combating micro-abandonments, and encourages...
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5 Signs You've Disappeared, and How to Find Yourself Again
Feeling lost, but you aren't sure what steps to take to find yourself again? In this episode, Kendra shares some signs of self-abandonment and her best tips for getting back on track. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-worth, and identifying your desires, even if they differ...
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Divorce Hot Takes and Silver Linings
In this episode of the Summer of Me, Kendra deep dives into the unexpected and often overlooked positive parts of divorce. From the freedom to eat and buy whatever you want, to having the bed to yourself, Kendra shares her personal silver linings and encourages listeners to embrace their new...
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Becoming Magnetic: Understand the Laws of Attraction and Master Your Self-Worth
This week, Kendra is talking all about becoming magnetic and playing the main character role in your life. She explains the law of attraction and attachment theory, particularly in the context of dating. Kendra shares practical advice, like labeling emotional triggers, redirection responses, and...
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Identity Crisis: The Moment I Realized I Lost Myself - The Summer of Me Podcast
Welcome back to The Summer of Me! In case you're new here, Kendra is diving deep into her personal journey, navigating through self-abandonment, divorce, and the realization that she needed to reclaim her own identity. Reflecting on her wake-up call, Kendra is here to encourage women to…
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100 Days to Go!
In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson emphasizes the importance of maximizing the last 100 days of the year to create significant life changes. She discusses how one decision can alter the trajectory of your life, encouraging listeners to take immediate action rather than waiting...
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EPISODE 44: You have AGENCY
In this empowering episode of "The Summer of Me," host Kendra Henderson delves into the concept of "Main Character Energy." Discover how to reclaim your identity and prioritize yourself amidst the demands of life. Kendra shares personal insights and practical tools to help you step back into your...
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Episode 43: Unlearning Survival Mode
In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra delves into the journey of unlearning survival mode and embracing peace and safety. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, Kendra explores the challenges of retraining the body and mind to recognize safety, offering practical tools and hope…
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Episode 42: My Hannah Montana Life
The episode delves into what the host, Kendra, terms "Hannah Montana Syndrome," exploring the duality of life as a single parent. Kendra shares personal experiences and insights into the challenges and emotional complexities of living two separate lives: one as a parent and the other as an...
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Episode 41: The Blueprint
In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra shares her transformative journey from feeling lost in her identity to embracing empowerment and self-discovery. After navigating a life-changing divorce, Kendra realized the importance of prioritizing herself and created a blueprint to help other…
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More isn't a Dirty Word
In this episode of 'The Summer of Me', Kendra discusses the societal pressures and guilt women often feel about wanting more in life beyond motherhood. She emphasizes that wanting more—whether it be in terms of career, personal growth, or self-identity—is not only acceptable but necessary for a...
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Episode 40: Erica Wright - Relationship Coach
In this episode, Kendra Henderson and Erica discuss the transformative journey of relationship coaching, focusing on parts work therapy, self-awareness, and emotional healing. They explore the importance of understanding one's relationship to self, the role of body movement in processing…
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Episode 39: My Morning Detachment List
In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson explores the concept of detachment, emphasizing the importance of letting go of expectations and outcomes to achieve greater happiness. She shares personal insights and practical techniques for practicing detachment, including visualization...
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All About Me (and you!)
In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson dives deep into the journey of self-discovery, encouraging listeners to explore their identities, passions, and personal values. She shares her own experiences of losing herself in relationships and the importance of returning to one's true...
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Episode 36: Detaching from Deep Feelings
In this episode, Kendra returns to her podcast, sharing her journey of personal growth, motherhood, and navigating the complexities of dating as a single parent. She reflects on her past experiences, the challenges of feeling deeply, and the importance of detachment in managing emotions. Kendra...
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Creating Christmas Traditions with Kids
It's the most wonderful time of the year, and Christmas is coming up quickly!! This week, Kendra dives into her family's favorite holiday traditions. Christmas Adam, Jammie Cocoa Christmas, gift exchanges, Elf on the Shelf, and SO much more. Kendra shares the importance of gratitude and giving…
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Time Blocking for Busy Parents
We're getting practical this week! In this episode, Kendra chats about time blocking: what it is, how you do it, and how it makes a difference in her daily life. Inspired by Rob Dyrdek and his busy lifestyle, Kendra shares how she prioritizes her tasks, builds predictable routines and…
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Family Traditions: Halloween and Thanksgiving
The holidays are right around the corner, so what better time to talk about them! Today's holidays: Halloween and Thanksgiving. She discusses how her kids split major holidays between parents and how that affects her personal plans. Kendra shares some of her favorite traditions, where they came...
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Navigating the Messy Middle
Happy Thursday from the messy middle! Kendra dives into a discussion on vulnerability, imposter syndrome, and what to do when you're just trying to get through the 'messy middle' of life. Kendra shares the importance of positive affirmations and mantras, and tools to build your dream life with...
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Q+A Live (2)
You asked, so Kendra is back for another segment of Q+A! She covers content creation, managing a toxic work environment, relationships, her faith, and more. Dating with children, income streams, and maintaining intimacy in relationships, no topic is off-limits and Kendra is an open book. Don't…
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Rom-Coms and Love Lessons
This week, Kendra is talking rom-coms: specifically one of her new favorite Netflix series, "Nobody Wants This" (caution: there will be spoilers). From the importance of emotional maturity and self-awareness, and being open to change, Kendra breaks down the pieces of the show that feel like the...
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Surviving A Breakup
Today, Kendra is talking about all things breakup. In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra shares the struggles of coping with heartbreak, the challenge of taking her own advice, and the journey of self-recovery while managing life and responsibilities. Throughout the episode, she shares...
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From Lovers to Friends
In this episode of 'The Summer of Me', Kendra welcomes her old friend and ex-boyfriend, Jason 'Jay' Lewis. They reminisce about working together, their brief dating stint, and how they remained close friends. Jason shares his experiences on divorce, co-parenting, and the profound changes that…
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So You're Getting A Divorce
In this episode of 'Summer of Me,' Kendra reflects on the challenges of divorce: the emotional hardships, unexpected triggers, and how she found comfort along the way. She emphasizes the importance of leaning on your community, asking for help, and finding your strength. Kendra also shares how...
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Healing Your Body with Dr. Jake (Part 2)
ra is back for part 2 with Dr. Jake! In this conversation, Jake shares his best tips for managing stress and allowing our bodies to enter a state of rest. How do we identify the feeling of stress? How does that manifest in our bodies? What are the most effective techniques and exercises to build...
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Healing Your Body with Dr. Jake (Part 1)
In this episode of 'The Summer of Me,' Kendra welcomes Dr. Jake Hyde to discuss his unique approach to holistic healing. Kendra shares how she connected with Dr. Jake through friends who recommended him for his effective treatment methods for physical manifestations of emotional stress. Dr. Jake...
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Divorced Moms Club
In this episode of 'The Summer of Me,' Kendra tackles the topic of single motherhood. She shares her personal journey from considering divorce, dealing with mom guilt, and negotiating co-parenting arrangements, to finding empowerment and balance as a single mother. Kendra emphasizes the…
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Monthly Routines
You loved the lists, so Kendra is back with another helpful episode: her monthly routines. To maintain a successful, organized life, what is Kendra doing at the end of every month to keep herself on track? She covers budgeting practices and her favorite app to track expenses. She dives into her...
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Group Therapy: Blending Families
Round 4 of Group Therapy! Today, Kendra and her mom (Nitro Nana, a licensed therapist), discuss the challenges and dynamics of blending families. Kendra shares her experience growing up in a blended household, her parents' multiple marriages, and her own journey with introducing a new partner to...
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Group Therapy: Anxiety and Boundaries
It's time for another group therapy session! Kendra is back with her mom, Nitro Nana, to dive into all things anxiety and boundaries. Nana (a therapist with 20+ years of experience) gives incredible advice on finding the right therapist for you, the differences between regular anxiety and anxiety...
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How to be Sexy
Things are getting HOT this week! ;) Kendra is back to talk all things confidence, and how to be and feel more sexy! Learning to level up your sexiness starts from within, and, as cliche as it sounds, you have to be unapologetically yourself. Tune in to hear Kendra's best tips and tricks for...
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Q+A Live!
Tune in, this is a fun one! On this week's episode of "Summer of Me," Kendra is answering ALL your questions! (Well, all the ones she has time for). From how to tackle a weekend in Nashville to the ungodly prices of nightstands, she's giving you her spitfire answers and hot takes with true...
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Dating After Divorce with Rachael James
Getting back into the dating scene after divorce is intimidating! That's why Kendra and Rachael are here to help out! Both having been married young and divorced in their 30s, they give REAL insight into overcoming the challenges of starting over. The pair share their personal experiences of…
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5 Things That Will Change Your Life
If you need some life advice, this episode is for you. This week, Kendra is diving into lessons that have drastically changed her life, or at least live rent-free in her head. From listening to others' podcasts to quotes from therapy, these 5 mantras truly helped Kendra through life's toughest...
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Skibidi Rizz with Baylor and Bellamy
This week's episode is extra special, as Kendra is joined by 2 of her 5 favorite people, her oldest kids, Baylor and Bellamy. They all share their experiences moving from Seattle to Nashville, the impact of the divorce, and how they adjusted to their new life on the other side of the country....
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New City, New Me: Tips for Moving and Finding Your People
Moving to a new city is life-changing and can be scary. It might feel overwhelming, demanding, and lonely. But you are not alone. In this episode of "Summer of Me," Kendra shares her journey of relocating from Seattle to Nashville, leaving behind all of her family and friends. This decision was…
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Love and Loss with Emily Weisband
This week, Kendra introduces her friend Emily, a Grammy award-winning songwriter, who opens up about her experience with miscarriage and the power of embracing vulnerability. They dive into the universality of pain and the importance of sharing our struggles to help others feel less alone.…
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There's A List For That
Happy Thursday. Kendra is here to cover one topic today: lists. Ranging from creative to productive, her lists of lists will lead you down a new-found path of organization in life. Stumped on what movie to watch? Not anymore. Need something to feel happy? Here are your favorites. What's for…
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Group Therapy: All Things Marriage with Nana
Group therapy with Nana is back! In case you missed episode 8, Nana is a licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience. In this episode, we dive into the nuances of marriage and relationships, and the challenges of marriage therapy! Nana explains her reluctance towards marriage therapy,...
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Making Money (without selling n*des)
YOU DON'T HAVE TO SELL YOUR NUDES. No shade, but there are other ways to make money, I swear! In this week's Episode of "Summer of Me," Kendra talks about her financial journey through childhood, adulthood, and post divorce. From always having a job, making side incomes, participating in an MLM,...
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Tough Times and Safe Places to Fail with Rae Ann Kelly
Welcome to another episode of "Summer of Me," feat. Kendra's friend, Rae! Rae dives into her journey, being recruited as a D1 soccer player and getting pregnant during her freshman year. We dive into her previous toxic relationship, raising a baby while battling the trials of college, finding her...
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Inside the Nest: A Deep Dive into Bird Nesting
In the latest episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra let you into the chaotic world of her time bird nesting. Exploring the tumultuous journey of separation and co-parenting, sharing the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges she faced during her unconventional family arrangement. From drowning…
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Group Therapy: Exploring Grief and Loss with Nana
Welcome to the first session of "Group Therapy" with a special guest, Nitro Nana, Kendra's mom, who is a therapist with expertise in grief and loss. They discuss the concept of grief as the expression of love after a loss, and the stages of grief, and finding meaning. Nana emphasizes the…
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Mom Guilt: Self Care isn't Selfish
It's a struggle many of us know too well: Mom Guilt. From feeling like she's blowing up her kids' lives to navigating the complexities of co-parenting, Kendra opens up about the challenges of feeling like she's not doing enough. The pressure to be a "perfect parent" is real and can contribute to...
About this show
Meet Kendra. She's a 35-year-old divorced mom of five, and her life is every bit as chaotic as you'd expect. Growing up with a therapist for a mom, tying the knot at 21, and giving life to 5 kids on 10 years, Kendra's life took a tumultuous turn through a journey of soul-searching, separation, divorce, and dating. Despite feeling underqualified, she's overexperienced and here to share her stories. Listen weekly to learn from them, laugh at them, or simply feel a little less alone. You're listening to "Summer of Me."
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