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The 4NCulture Podcast
by David Fequiere
Witty banter, unbiased opinion and transparency are what you'll find as David explores the relativity between relationship and religion.
Episodes
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W.M.D.
What if the biggest things distracting you from your purpose aren't always bad things? In this episode of The 4NCulture Podcast, we're breaking down W.M.D.—Weapons of Mass Distraction—and how everyday habits, relationships, social media, entertainment, and even well-intentioned commitments can…
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Friends-In-Law
What happens to your friendships when you get married? In this episode of The 4NCulture Podcast, we explore the often-overlooked relationship between marriage and friendship. From setting boundaries and protecting your spouse to navigating opposite-sex friendships, unsolicited advice, and friends...
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Freedom of Religion & Speech
What happens when your Christian beliefs collide with a culture that doesn’t agree with you? In this episode of The 4NCulture Podcast, we dive into the complicated conversation around free speech, religious freedom, and what it means to openly express your faith in today’s world. From debates...
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I Now Pronounce You...Full!
What’s a wedding without the food? 😂 In this episode of The 4NCulture Podcast, David and Tanya dig into one of the biggest—and sometimes most debated—parts of the wedding: the food! From buffet vs. plated dinners to wedding cake, late-night snacks, cultural traditions, and those questionable...
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I Said Yes...Then I Said Nevermind Part 2
In this episode, we’re joined by our newlywed friends Kason and Chelsey for a real, honest, and fun conversation about the journey from engagement to marriage. We unpack why some women become bridezillas, the pressure and expectations that can come with planning a wedding, and what can happen…
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Should Parents Apologize?
In this episode, we tackle a question that often sparks debate: Should parents apologize to their children? Does saying “I’m sorry” undermine a parent’s authority, or does it teach children what accountability and healthy relationships look like? We discuss the difference between apologizing for…
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Passwords In Marriage: Privacy v. Secrecy
How much privacy should married couples have, and when does privacy cross the line into secrecy? In this episode, we unpack the difference between having healthy personal boundaries and intentionally hiding things from your spouse. From phone passwords and private conversations to finances,...
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I Said Yes....Then I Said Nevermind
What happens when the wedding is planned, the ring is on, and suddenly you realize, “I don’t think I can do this”? In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable reality of engagement breakups—why people call off weddings, the difference between normal cold feet and serious red flags,...
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Lost in Translation
Translators play a vital but often overlooked role. They must listen carefully, interpret accurately, and deliver the speaker's message in real time without changing its meaning, tone, or spiritual impact. This responsibility becomes even more challenging when pastors speak rapidly, use cultural...
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Can We Stop Treating Sex In Marriage Like It's Non-Spiritual?
God created it. Scripture celebrates it. Yet many married couples still carry shame instead of seeing intimacy as one of God's good gifts. In this episode, we're unpacking what the Bible really says about marital intimacy, holiness, and why passion and purity were never meant to compete.
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Red Flag Five: Mama's Boy
Can a man love his mother too much? In this episode of the 4NCulture Podcast, David and Latanya unpack one of the most overlooked relationship red flags: the Mama's Boy. This isn't about men who honor and respect their mothers—that's biblical and healthy. It's about men whose emotional…
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Red Flag Five:Broke Boy Behavior
In this episode, David and Tanya unpack the warning signs of the Fiscally Irresponsible Man—the man whose poor financial habits can quietly become one of the biggest threats to a healthy relationship. From chronic debt and impulsive spending to a lack of planning and accountability, they discuss...
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Red Flag Five: Non-Committal
Why do some men avoid commitment, even in healthy relationships? This episode explores the psychology, experiences, and cultural influences behind commitment issues. Through honest conversations, and real-life stories, we unpack modern dating, emotional availability, and what it really takes to...
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Red Flag Five: The Unfaithful Man
Cheating isn't always about sex. It often begins with small compromises, hidden conversations, emotional attachments, and a gradual erosion of trust long before a physical affair ever happens. In this episode, we unpack the mindset, patterns, and warning signs of the unfaithful man. We explore…
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Red Flag Five: The Manipulator
In this episode, we take a deep dive into one of the most dangerous dating archetypes you'll ever encounter: The Manipulator. From gaslighting and guilt trips to subtle control tactics disguised as love, we unpack the warning signs many people overlook until they're emotionally invested. We…
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Where's Your Wife?!?!?
In tonight's episode we tackle a question that often raises eyebrows but rarely gets discussed openly: Why do some married men consistently show up in certain spaces without their wives? Whether it's social gatherings, networking events, church functions, or online interactions, what message is...
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Preparing Lunch For My Husband
In a fast food driven world, making home cooked meals might seem like the last thing you want to do. But as the main cook in the home, wives are responsible for setting the nutritional tone for our family and creating healthy food habits that prioritize health over satisfying unhealthy cravings....
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Baby Names
Your next episode is all fun and laughs until somebody realizes their name means “warrior,” but they still can’t fight off bad decisions. In this lighthearted conversation about baby names, we’re diving into the meanings behind popular names, family traditions, cultural trends, and those uniquely...
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Gas & Oil Prices
In this eye-opening episode, we break down how rising gas prices create a ripple effect that touches nearly every part of our lives. From budget airlines like Spirit Airlines, which must navigate soaring fuel costs while trying to keep fares affordable, to farmers who rely on diesel-powered...
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Generational Curses & Bloodlines: Story of Abraham
In this episode, we dive into the powerful and often overlooked theme of generational sin through the bloodline of Abraham. Known as the father of faith, Abraham’s story is usually told through the lens of obedience and covenant. But beneath that is a pattern of deception that quietly echoes...
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Bloodline:Story of King Ahab
In this episode, we examine the tragic legacy of King Ahab and how rebellion, idolatry, compromise, and unchecked sin can move through a bloodline when left unbroken. We explore how Ahab’s choices didn’t end with him, but impacted his household, his descendants, and even how his daughter mirrored...
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Generational Curses: Story of David
In this powerful episode, we explore the weight of bloodlines through the story of King David: a man after God’s own heart whose legacy was marked by both divine favor and generational consequence. From his rise to kingship to his moral failures, David’s life didn’t just shape his own destiny; it...
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Gambling Addiction
This episode takes a real, unfiltered look at gambling addiction; what it actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, and how easily it can take hold. We break down the emotional drivers behind the behavior, from the rush of winning to the dangerous cycle of chasing losses, and why it’s never...
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Drug & Alcohol Addiction
This episode dives into the complex reality of drug and alcohol addiction. What it looks like beneath the surface, how it quietly reshapes behavior, relationships, and identity, and why it’s so difficult to break free from. We explore the emotional and psychological triggers that fuel dependency,...
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Sex Addiction
Sex addiction doesn’t always look like what people expect; it’s not just about frequency, it’s about compulsion, secrecy, and using sex as an escape rather than a connection. Outside of relationships, it can show up as constant casual encounters, excessive porn use, or chasing validation through...
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Screen Addiction
In this episode, we dive into the topic of screen addiction and its growing influence on daily life. With smartphones, social media, streaming platforms, and endless notifications competing for our attention, it’s easy to become dependent on screens without realizing it. The discussion highlights...
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Right Person, Wrong Time 2
Meeting the right person at the wrong time always sucks. They seemingly have everything you're looking for, but family, finance, and poor health often get in the way of that happy ending.
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Is Marriage Low Hanging Fruit?
The sanctity of marriage has changed in the West. Nowadays it's mainly seen as a piece of paper, an immigration loophole, and something you can easily get out of. But tonight, we set the record straight.
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How Married Are You?
In celebration of Valentine's day, tonight's episode gets deep and emotional as we look back over our love and celebrate the future.
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Praise & Worship: Singers
When it comes to praise and worship singers are widely considered as the front line. Their voices echo God's sovereignty and proclaim his goodness and unwavering love. This episode does a deep dive into the responsibilities, expectations, and obligations of a singer. You won't want to miss this!
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Praise & Worship:Musicians
Tonight's episode is the second installment of our praise and worship series where we discuss the role of a musician, their ambition, professionalism, and spirit-led playing.
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Praise & Worship: Band
Tune in as we discuss the roles and responsibilities of the band as they pertain to praise and worship.
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Is College A Scam?
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the controversial question: *Is college a scam?* From skyrocketing tuition to questionable returns on investment, we unpack the myths, motives, and money behind the modern college system. Tune in as we challenge the norm and explore whether higher...
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Date Night
This episode is for married couples who have felt disconnected lately. Work has been busy, the kids have been needy, and it feels like you're on autopilot. It's time to reconnect with your partner in more ways than one. Tune in!
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Haitian Cuisine & Nutrition
Haitian food has always been and will always be top-tier cuisine, but when it comes to nutrition, it leaves something to be desired. Follow along as we discuss how haitian cusiness has affected our upbringing and faith. Afterwards we'll recommend healthy alternatives to enjoying food we all know...
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Stigmas Of A Big Girl
This episode is close to my wife’s heart as she shares her journey navigating body stereotypes, diet culture, and healing her relationship with food—especially the difference it made when she invited God into her weight loss journey.
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Church Hurt
If you spend enough time in church, you're bound to feel offended. Sometimes, it comes from a saint, a friend, a spouse, or a minister. And if we allow it to metastasize into bitterness, we'll ultimately leave our assembly. In this episode we disscuss these types of church hurt along with how to...
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Misleading Sisters
When it comes to relationships, women often struggle with knowing a man's real intent. And it's often due to misplaced emotions and empty promises. Tonight, we attempt to get to the root of it all.
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15 Marriages To Avoid Part V
To wrap up this series, we're discussing the dangers of arranged marriages, prophetic marriages and jones effect marriages. Stay tuned for bonus content!
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15 Marriages To Avoid Part IV
This episode will cover the negative effects of marrying someone out of pity, someone you're unequally yoked to, and someone's potential. We'll also share moments from the Single's Summit.
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15 Marriages To Avoid Part III
In this episode, we explore the complex world of circumstantial marriages—unions formed out of necessity rather than love. Whether driven by family expectations, financial stability, legal advantages, or unexpected life events, these marriages often come with unique challenges and unspoken...
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15 Marriages to Avoid Part II
In the 2nd installment of '15 Marriages to Avoid', we're discussing shortsighted marriages and the potential repercussions they come with. Tune in!
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15 Marriages To Avoid Part 1
Tonight's episode covers 3 types of marriages that fall under the self-gain category; immigaration, celebrity, and monetary.
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Youth Retention
Covid-19 has always been viewed as the primary reason why a significant amount of youth left the church. But a lack of spiritual development, both in the home and at church, have proven to be just as problematic.
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Pre-marital Counseling
In this episode, Tanya and I discuss the benefits of pre-marital counseling, share the constructive criticisms we've learned to offer each other, and recommend books with helpful tools for both singles and couples.
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Happy Anniversary
On this episode, we talk about marital expectations, adjustments partners have to make, and lessons we've learned along the way.
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Singleness Part 2
Tonight's episode picks back up where we left off. We discuss the need for youth seminars, mentorship, and more female representation.
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Singleness Part 1
Being a Christian single can be daunting at times, hopeless even. With all the excitement surrounding marriage, people typically overlook the complexities they face. Tonight, Nabimie Ducas and Godson Odige aid me in tackling the many challenges singles face as well as shedding light on the…
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Burdens of Essential Saints
In the wake of COVID-19 churches were forced to pivot towards technology in order to better reach the people of God. As a result, a select few were enlisted to help shoulder that burden. Essential Saints. Marguerite Elysee joins us to discuss the role in it's entirety, and to offer words of...
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Private Support v. Public Support
Tonight's episode is centered around public and private support as they relate to friendships, relationships and churchships. Kason Laventure joins us again to delve into the psychology behind why people support the way they do.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Witty banter, unbiased opinion and transparency are what you'll find as David explores the relativity between relationship and religion.
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David Fequiere
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Witty banter, unbiased opinion and transparency are what you'll find as David explores the relativity between relationship and religion.
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