The Divorce Circle

In this episode, Sabeena is joined by relationship coach Cindy Stibbard to explore how to assess whether your relationship is truly aligned with your future.They discuss Cindy’s Relationship Audit framework, common communication challenges, dating after divorce, and how to recognize whether you’re with the right partner.If you’re navigating a relationship, separation, or starting over, this conversation offers practical insights to help you move forward with clarity.Please follow and share our episodes with anyone who may need assistance with a divorce or separation.Looking for resources for your own divorce or separation?https://www.divorcecircle.ca/About Cindy Stibbard:Cindy Stibbard is a certified relationship and divorce coach who helps high-functioning, successful women gain clarity when they feel stuck in their relationships — especially when facing the difficult question: should I stay or should I go?Through her work, Cindy supports individuals navigating emotional disconnection, indecision, and major life transitions, helping them separate fear from truth and make confident, aligned decisions about their future. Her approach combines practical strategy with deep emotional insight, drawing on her training in psychology, attachment theory, and relationship dynamics. Cindy’s work is also shaped by her own personal experience — having navigated divorce and significant life loss — giving her a grounded, real-world perspective on what it takes to rebuild and move forward with clarity and confidence. 🔍 Cindy’s Relationship AuditCindy’s signature tool, The Relationship Audit, is designed to help you understand where your relationship truly stands before making any major decisions.It evaluates key areas like communication, trust, emotional connection, and long-term alignment — giving you a clear, structured view of whether your relationship is repairable or ready for change. 👉 Take the Relationship Audit here:https://the-relationship-audit.lovable.app

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena sits down with Dr. Maryam Zeineddin to explore how perimenopause and menopause impact not just the body — but identity, emotions, and major life decisions.Many women in midlife experience changes in sleep, mood, and energy without fully understanding why. At the same time, they may begin questioning relationships, priorities, and their sense of self — sometimes leading to major life transitions like separation or divorce.Dr. Zeineddin explains what is happening physiologically during this stage, how hormonal shifts affect emotional well-being, and why this period can feel so disorienting. The conversation also explores how this phase can become an opportunity for self-awareness, boundary-setting, and reconnecting with who you are.If you’re navigating midlife changes or trying to better understand your body and emotions during this stage, this episode offers clarity, reassurance, and insight.If you’re navigating separation or divorce, you don’t have to do it alone. The Divorce Circle offers trusted resources, expert guidance, and support for women and men across British Columbia and Canada — covering legal, financial, parenting, and emotional aspects of divorce.👉 Explore available resources here:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/👩‍⚕️ About Dr. Maryam ZeineddinDr. Maryam Zeineddin is a family physician based in British Columbia with a focus on whole-body health — integrating physical, emotional, and lifestyle factors into patient care. Her approach recognizes the deep connection between hormonal health, mental well-being, and life transitions, particularly for women navigating perimenopause and menopause.Dr. Zeineddin works with patients to better understand the changes happening in their bodies and to support them in feeling more balanced, informed, and empowered through all stages of life.

Supporting women and men navigating divorce in British Columbia and across Canada with trusted legal, financial, parenting, and life-planning guidance.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, host Sabeena Bubber is joined by financial and insurance advisor Rosy Jallad, founder of BMI Advisory Group, to explore how thoughtful insurance planning can protect your financial future when life takes unexpected turns.Many people think about insurance only after a major life change — but the reality is that disability, illness, and financial disruption can happen long before retirement. Rosy explains how disability insurance, life insurance, and long-term financial strategies can help protect income, safeguard family stability, and create financial resilience during uncertain times.They also discuss the role of whole life insurance policies, planning for children’s financial futures, and how insurance can be integrated with broader financial strategies — including tax-efficient planning for business owners and professionals.Whether you’re navigating divorce, rebuilding financially, or simply trying to make smarter long-term financial decisions, this episode offers practical insights into protecting both your lifestyle and your family’s future.🎧 Listen to The Divorce Circle Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or your favourite podcast app.👩‍💼 About Rosy JalladRosy Jallad is a financial and insurance advisor with BMI Advisory, specializing in strategies that combine insurance with smart financial planning. Her work focuses on helping individuals, families, and business owners protect their income, manage financial risk, and build long-term financial stability.Rosy works with clients to design insurance solutions — including disability coverage, life insurance, and corporate planning strategies — that help safeguard families and businesses against unexpected life events.Learn more about Rosy Jallad here:👉 https://bmiadvisory.ca

Divorce changes more than your relationship status — it changes your entire financial and legal landscape.In this episode of The Divorce Circle, Sabeena speaks with estate lawyer Nicole Garton, founder of Heritage Trust Company, about why thoughtful planning isn’t just about wealth — it’s about peace of mind.If you are:• Recently divorced• Supporting adult children• Part of a blended family• Concerned about protecting your assets• Unsure if your will still reflects your lifeThis conversation is for you.We explore how to avoid common estate planning mistakes that can create conflict, unintended consequences, or financial harm for the people you love most.Because protecting your future means planning for more than just today.

Divorce often forces difficult financial decisions — including whether to sell your home or liquidate assets to reach a settlement.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena speaks with Jenn DiSpirito from HomeEquity Bank about how the CHIP Reverse Mortgage works and when it may be a practical financial tool during or after divorce.They discuss:• Qualification requirements (including age and home ownership)• How reverse mortgages differ from traditional loans or HELOCs• Whether you retain ownership of your home• How accessing home equity can help avoid selling investments or property• Why reverse mortgages are not just for retireesThey also address common misconceptions — including the myth that a reverse mortgage “takes away” your equity — and explain how repayment works.If you’re approaching 55 and navigating divorce, this conversation offers practical, grounded insight into one possible strategy for maintaining stability without monthly payments.🌐 Learn more: https://www.divorcecircle.ca/

Divorce doesn’t end when the paperwork is signed.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena sits down with Divorce and Empowerment Coach Vanessa Gladden to explore what rebuilding actually looks like after divorce — especially for women who find themselves over-functioning, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of who they are now.They discuss:• When someone may need a divorce coach (even after the divorce is finalized)• Letting go of emotional baggage and resentment• Burnout from “holding it all together” for children• Reconnecting with yourself through small, daily actions• How clarity comes from consistency — not dramatic life changesIf you’re navigating life after divorce and feeling lost, stuck, or depleted, this episode offers grounded insight and practical guidance for rebuilding your confidence and direction.🎥 Watch the full video version on YouTube by searching The Divorce Circle Podcast🌐 Explore resources and support: https://www.divorcecircle.ca/

Navigating divorce often means facing big financial questions — especially when it comes to housing, credit, and your ability to move forward independently.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena is joined by accredited mortgage professional Luisa Hough to answer some of the most common and misunderstood questions about mortgages after divorce. Together, they explore whether you can qualify for a mortgage on your own, why personal credit matters more than many people realize, and how first-time home buyer rules apply after separation.This conversation is designed to help women and men across British Columbia and Canada better understand their financial options after divorce — with clarity, realism, and practical guidance.Follow The Divorce Circle Podcast so you don’t miss future episodes focused on legal, financial, and life-after-divorce support.Learn more and access additional resources at divorcecircle.ca

Supporting women and men divorcing in British Columbia and across Canada with trusted legal and financial guidance, child custody and parenting insights, and support for navigating life after divorce.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena is joined by Kathryn Basran, Family Lawyer at SBRB Law, to discuss key legal considerations in divorce and separation. Kathryn brings extensive experience in family law and helps clarify what individuals should understand when navigating separation, parenting arrangements, and related legal processes in British Columbia.Together, Kathryn and Kathryn discuss the realities of what court, and litigation look like when it comes to divorce in British Columbia, and Canada, including process, costs, as well as the emotional toll it can take on everyone, including children.BE SURE TO FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBEIf you’re watching this because you’re navigating separation or divorce, you don’t have to do it alone. The Divorce Circle offers trusted resources, expert guidance, and support for women and men across British Columbia and Canada — covering legal, financial, parenting, and emotional aspects of divorce.You can explore available resources here:👉 https://www.divorcecircle.ca/ so you never miss an episode — and please like, share, and comment to support the channel.

Supporting women and men divorcing in British Columbia and Canada with legal and financial advice, child custody and parenting issues, as well as navigating your future after divorce.In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I’m joined by Jill McLennan, Divorce Coach, and Paralegal with Joyce Law, whose legal services include family law and estate administration matters, personal injury, and insurance defence, and welcomes enquires regarding any civil legal needs facing its clients.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode!  As well as share, like and comment.Specifically, in this episode Jill and Sabeena discuss: how lawyers bill, and how working with a divorce coach can actually save you money in the long run, during your divorce and separation in British Columbia, and Canada. As well as the overall role a divorce coach plays in the process, and how to locate and interpret all the legal documents you may require for your divorce. As well as, the empowerment financial literacy, even basic financial literacy, can provide you during the process, and why relying on old habits and patterns can hold you back from moving forward with strength and confidence.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit The Divorce Circle website:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/About Jill: Jill was the Valedictorian of Vancouver Career College Class of 2014 where she obtained her Paralegal Degree. After graduation, Jill worked at Bacchus Law Corporation assisting BC companies incorporate and get listed on the Canadian Stock Exchange. Jill then became paralegal for Lorne MacLean, K.C. at MacLean Family Law assisting in all aspects of family law files from consultations to trial preparation. From March 2020 to June 2023 Jill was Office Manager and paralegal at Pettit & Company assisting founder Timothy Pettit until Joining Joyce Law in June of 2023. At Joyce Law, Jill's focus is on providing Divorce Coaching support services helping clients through the divorce process, providing paralegal services, and managing the Joyce Law office.https://www.joycelaw.ca/

Happy Holidays to everyone, wherever you are, and however you celebrate!It’s that time of year again – the holidays. For many, it’s a time of joy and togetherness. But we also know that for some of you navigating a divorce or separation, this season can bring up a unique, and complicated, set of feelings. And while, the holidays can sometimes amplify feelings of loneliness or highlight the changes you’re experiencing, remember, this is just a chapter in your journey, not your entire story. And we are here to walk with you, to remind you of your strength and resilience.What follows is an episode from The Divorce Circle Podcast that came out close to the launch of this podcast, where I talk about changing family dynamics, relationships pre and post-divorce, co-parenting now as an individual, and many more topics with Registered Clinical Counsellor Alyson Jones, who has vast experience both as a therapist, as well as a parenting coordinator. But I encourage you to go through our catalogue of episodes that have been released and listen, or re-listen to them to help you navigate this journey.Please like and subscribe to The Divorce Circle Podcast wherever you get your podcasts, and please share with anyone you think may benefit from the experience.Have a great holiday season, and remember, think of this episode as a warm hug, a friendly voice reminding you that brighter days are ahead. It’s about finding pockets of peace, celebrating small victories, and trusting that you have the capacity to create a beautiful new beginning.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode! As well as share, like and comment.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit The Divorce Circle website:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, it’s Part 2 of my conversation with Seth Allen, founder and portfolio manager for Cadence Financial Group, part of Raymond James, where we discuss finances, credit, and wealth strategy for people getting separated and divorced in British Columbia, and Canada.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode!  As well as share, like and comment.Specifically, in this episode we discuss: making a new financial reality for yourself post-divorce, how to move forward if you haven’t been the financial driver in the relationship, handling RRSPs and trust accounts for children, spotting financial red flags in a proposed divorce settlement, among many other topics.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit The Divorce Circle website:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/About Seth: Seth has over 25 years of industry experience, including 15+ years with Raymond James, and is entrusted with the complexities of cross-border wealth management, the safeguarding of Cadence Financial’s clients' assets through prudent financial planning, and resilient investment strategies. He is one of the Global Top 50 Advisors with Raymond James Financial Inc., and holds an MBA in Global Asset Wealth Management. Fun fact: Seth began his first franchise at the young age of 13.https://www.cadencefinancialgroup.com/

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I’m joined by Seth Allen, founder and portfolio manager for Cadence Financial Group, part of Raymond James, to discuss divorce and wealth strategy: what you should be thinking about in terms of your finances, your credit and ability to get credit within a separation, and overall financial literacy, during and after separation and divorce in British Columbia, and Canada. .We discuss the first financial steps you should take when initiating a divorce, writing or rewriting a financial plan for your future, the most common financial mistakes people make when divorcing in British Columbia, and Canada, and how a divorce can impact your financial portfolio, among other topics.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE! If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit The Divorce Circle website:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/About Seth: Seth has over 25 years of industry experience, including 15+ years with Raymond James, and is entrusted with the complexities of cross-border wealth management, the safeguarding of Cadence Financial’s clients' assets through prudent financial planning, and resilient investment strategies. He is one of the Global Top 50 Advisors with Raymond James Financial Inc., and holds an MBA in Global Asset Wealth Management. Fun fact: Seth began his first franchise at the young age of 13.https://www.cadencefinancialgroup.com/

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, it's Part 2 of my conversation with Jen Murtagh, co-founder of Maturn, an organization dedicated to shifting the narrative and support systems around maternity leave in Canada — so that more working mothers can continue to advance in their careers and retain positions of leadership with greater support from employers, partners and like-minded mothers along the way.We discuss coparenting and the disagreements that can arise, and how to handle them. Also, how to blend families together if you remarry, as well as balancing a career along with being a mother and getting divorced, and dealing with any feelings of shame surrounding going back to work.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE! If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit The Divorce Circle website:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/About Jen: With over 20 years of experience in corporate and nonprofit sectors, Jen is a recognized leader, strategist, and advocate for gender equity, known for her heart-centered approach to leadership. As a former C-suite executive, Jen has led national campaigns and raised millions for causes including anti-bullying, vulnerable youth, and women’s health and equity. She has been recognized as a Business in Vancouver Forty Under 40 and a Greater Vancouver Board of Trade Women of Promise, and continues to be a dedicated voice for advancing women in leadership.https://maturn.com/

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I am joined by Jen Murtagh, co-founder of Maturn, an organization dedicated to shifting the narrative and support systems around maternity leave in Canada — so that more working mothers can continue to advance in their careers and retain positions of leadership with greater support from employers, partners and like-minded mothers along the way.We discuss what life is like after divorce, going from full-time mom to sharing custody of the kids, the resilience required to navigate divorce when you can sometimes lose relationships with friends, supporting children through separation and divorce in British Columbia and Canada, as well as many other topics.BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE! If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit my website. Link in bio!About Jen: With over 20 years of experience in corporate and nonprofit sectors, Jen is a recognized leader, strategist, and advocate for gender equity, known for her heart-centered approach to leadership. As a former C-suite executive, Jen has led national campaigns and raised millions for causes including anti-bullying, vulnerable youth, and women’s health and equity. She has been recognized as a Business in Vancouver Forty Under 40 and a Greater Vancouver Board of Trade Women of Promise, and continues to be a dedicated voice for advancing women in leadership.

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I am joined by Candace Nancke, FCPA, FCGA & Partner at Loren Nancke Chartered Professional Accountants, who brings her expertise on taxes, financial planning and wealth management to our discussion about the critical role accountants play while you are going through a separation or divorce in British Columbia and Canada. We also discuss: how to understand taxes, asset division during a divorce in Canada, and British Columbia, common mistakes divorcing couples make, as well as how to establish a strong financial foundation moving forward. BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE! If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit my website. Link in bio!About Candace: As the firm’s Partner, Candace’s dynamic, forward-thinking approach and commitment to outstanding service provides the roadmap for the firm’s continuing growth. Her strengths include the ability to deliver sharp analysis to clients in a clear, direct manner for their smart, steady growth. Candace oversees all firm operations with a collaborative leadership style that focuses on putting people first.Candace is a participant in CPA Canada’s 3-year In-Depth Tax Course, Canada’s leading tax program. She has made significant contributions to advance the standards for accounting professionalism and played a pivotal role in the 2013 CPA merger as Chair of the Board of Governors of CGABC and as a member of the Transition Steering Committee. Candace continues to actively serve on the Discipline and Member Recognition Committees for CPABC. In recognition of her contributions to the profession and the community, she has received multiple awards and has been designated as a Fellow of the Chartered Professional Accountants (FCPA/FCGA), one of the highest honours awarded to Canadian accountants.

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I am joined by Registered Clinical Counsellor, and Clinical Director of Alyson Jones & Associates, Alyson Jones, who specializes in helping families and children through difficult transitions. Join Sabeena and Alyson as they discuss how ex-partners need to understand that children need both parents in their lives for success later on in life, as well as the negative impact court, and the surrounding divorce court experience in British Columbia and Canada, can have on anyone, child or adult. Alyson also outlines how to model a healthy relationship for children during and after the divorce process in BC and Canada, and the overall importance of mental health support for children when their parents are separating and divorcing. Sabeena juxtaposes advice she received from friends during her own divorce, as compared to that of mental health professionals.SUBSCRIBE to receive notifications on every new episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast. In future episodes we will be speaking with lawyers, financial advisors, divorce coaches, mental health professionals, psychologists, accountants, and everyday people who have been through the journey you are undertaking.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit my website. Link in bio!Alyson Jones has been practicing in the psychological field for over 20 years and is a true visionary in this field. Throughout the years, Alyson’s no nonsense approach has impacted many lives along the way. She has always focused on improvement and ways to make counselling a more practical and effective experience for her clients. Alyson believes that counselling is not just problem based, but an opportunity for growth.

In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I am joined by Registered Clinical Counsellor, and Clinical Director of Alyson Jones & Associates, Alyson Jones, who specializes in helping families and children through difficult transitions. Join Sabeena and Alyson as they discuss the dangers of staying in a toxic or negative relationship for the sake of the children in the family. As well as how to explore healthy dialogue with your kids surrounding divorce in British Columbia, how we should never take advantage of the resilience of children, while understanding the capacity they have to thrive in dual homes, and when to talk to children about an impending parental separation or divorce.SUBSCRIBE to receive notifications on every new episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast. In future episodes we will be speaking with lawyers, financial advisors, divorce coaches, mental health professionals, psychologists, accountants, and everyday people who have been through the journey you are undertaking.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit my website. Link in bio!Alyson Jones has been practicing in the psychological field for over 20 years and is a true visionary in this field. Throughout the years, Alyson’s no nonsense approach has impacted many lives along the way. She has always focused on improvement and ways to make counselling a more practical and effective experience for her clients. Alyson believes that counselling is not just problem based, but an opportunity for growth.

In Part 2 of my conversation with family law expert, Karen Redmond, we discuss many issues that impact anyone going through a divorce in British Columbia. Including: co-parenting during and after mediation and divorce, how to put yourself in the proper mindset, or shift your mindset to prepare for divorce, how to help children emotionally during separation and divorce, as well as issues surrounding inherited properties, and whether kids can, and do, have a say in parenting plans.Also discussed: how financial disclosure should work during mediation and divorce in British Columbia, and how to feel and stay empowered in yourself when trust in the divorce process is low.SUBSCRIBE to receive notifications on every new episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast. In future episodes we will be speaking with lawyers, financial advisors, divorce coaches, mental health professionals, psychologists, accountants, and everyday people who have been through the journey you are undertaking.If you require more resources to guide you through the divorce process, visit my website. Link in bio!About Karen: when it comes to the practice of family law, Karen Redmond believes there is a better way. After twenty years of courtroom litigation, where she witnessed families torn apart by the adversarial process, Karen’s desire to help and not harm has taken a place of precedence in her law practice. Her current focus is primarily on mediation, where she facilitates collaborative conversations crafted to meet the needs of each family, and the individuals involved.0:00 - Can Relationships Improve After Divorce3:40 - How Does Financial Disclosure Work During Divorce?5:30 - How Do Parenting Plans Protect Children Emotionally?9:50 - Inheritances, or Inherited Property10:51 - Co-Parenting Advice During and After Divorce13:37 - How to Stay Empowered During Divorce and Separation16:31 - Navigating Mindset Shifts During Divorce and Mediation18:25 - Fun, Rapid-Fire Questions

In the very first episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, I am joined by attorney Karen Redmond, who specializes in family law.We discuss the benefits of mediation and collaborative law, as opposed to litigation, when it comes to your divorce.SUBSCRIBE to receive notifications on every new episode of The Divorce Circle. In future episodes we will be speaking with lawyers, financial advisors, divorce coaches, mental health professionals, psychologists, accountants, and everyday people who have been through the journey you are undertaking.About Karen: when it comes to the practice of family law, Karen Redmond believes there is a better way. After twenty years of courtroom litigation, where she witnessed families torn apart by the adversarial process, Karen’s desire to help and not harm has taken a place of precedence in her law practice. Her current focus is primarily on mediation, where she facilitates collaborative conversations crafted to meet the needs of each family, and the individuals involved. Need more resources? Check out The Divorce Circle website link in the bio!

Welcome to The Divorce Circle Podcast with me, Sabeena Bubber. This is a space where we bring real conversations, expert advice, and heartfelt stories to help you navigate one of life’s biggest transitions. Whether you’re considering separation, moving through divorce, or rebuilding your future, this podcast will give you the tools, knowledge, and confidence to take your next steps. Together, we’ll explore financial literacy, legal insights, co-parenting, new beginnings, and the empowerment that comes with moving from we to me. No matter where you are on your journey — this podcast is here for you!