The Intimacy Inquiry

Listening to Desire: Dark Nights, Relationship Myths, and Pleasure-Based Intimacy with LiYana SilverA transformational coach and author of "Feminine Genius" LiYana Silver discusses how she helps clients—especially women—rebuild self-trust, body connection, and desire after heartbreak or divorce, and explains why many people can’t safely access what they truly want. She outlines three common relationship myths: the “myth of romance” (partner above all else), the “relationship escalator” (preset steps toward longevity), and the belief that love equals merging and self-erasure, particularly for women. The conversation reframes divorce as not inherently a failure and emphasizes validating devastation before moving through phases of transformation. LiYana describes couple work as identifying entrenched patterns rooted in wounds, doing individual healing, and learning communication skills, while also normalizing shifts in sexual spark over time. They explore pleasure practices, de-centering orgasm and penetration, creating safer erotic conversations, reconnecting to bodily yes/no signals, parenting amid social media and pornography through open dialogue, and her own self-care and future goals, including a forthcoming divorce-focused book.00:00 Meet the Coach00:43 What Do You Do02:27 Finding What You Want04:46 Three Relationship Myths09:57 When It Falls Apart15:28 Divorce Is Not Failure16:24 Dark Night or The End21:12 Being Yourself in Love25:25 Raising Kids Online29:47 Talking About Sex31:08 Listening to Your Body32:07 Body Truths and Intuition34:53 Yes No Body Signals41:26 Relationship Escalator Talks46:05 Pleasure Practice and Shame53:39 Beyond Performance Sex57:36 Therapist Self Care01:00:26 Future Vision and Closinghttp://liyanasilver.com/maphttps://www.facebook.com/liyana.silverhttps://www.instagram.com/liyana_silver/https://liyanasilver.substack.com/

Ashmita Arora on Spiritual Awakening, Presence, and Breaking Repeating PatternsSpiritual teacher and transformation guide Ashmita Arora discusses her intuitive practice supporting people through grief, heartbreak, burnout, disconnection, and awakening by helping clients identify the root of repeating patterns and create lasting inner shifts in safe, confidential spaces. She reflects on early sensitivity, anxiety about death and OCD-like repetitive thoughts, and how later miscarriages, family stress, and physical symptoms led her into meditation and a pivotal “pop” experience that opened intuitive communication and channeling, which she initially feared was postpartum psychosis. Arora critiques Western avoidance of death and a standardized, memorization-based education system, arguing AI will push people toward creativity, intuition, and individuality. She emphasizes presence over multitasking, describes common stuck patterns rooted in fear, guilt, and obligation, and explains relationship growth through communication, evolving “many relationships” within one partnership, and nonjudgment toward monogamy.00:00 Meet Ashmita Arora00:50 Formative Years Reflection01:32 Early Magic and Death Anxiety04:08 Why We Avoid Death Talk08:06 School Dread and Body Signals09:35 Meditation Pop Awakening13:57 Education AI and Creativity20:52 Birth of Intuitive Practice24:15 Patterns Beyond Self Help27:33 Intimacy Needs and Wholeness32:14 Media Pressure and Burnout35:21 Fluid Balance Mindset36:36 Phones vs Presence39:47 Slow Down Before Burnout41:08 Mindful Pleasure Analogies42:35 Energy Amplification Manifesting45:21 Tuning Frequency Intuition48:30 Protecting Your Energy53:19 Evolving Relationships Communication59:52 Monogamy Personal Choice01:01:44 Future Path and Closinghttps://www.ashmitaarora.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_intuitive_practice/

Lacey Kelly on Unbecoming, Belonging, and Reclaiming Wholeness in a Hyper-Stimulated WorldTrauma therapist and author Lacey Kelly, founder of the Unbecoming Hub, discusses her work at the intersection of psychology, nervous system science, and existential questions of identity, burnout, and belonging. She reflects on being an anxious, ungrounded teen drawn to philosophy and meaning, and says she first felt at home in herself in her late twenties after an autoimmune illness and stepping off the “hamster wheel” of self-fixing. Lacey defines “unbecoming” as releasing constant striving to become someone else and returning to a grounded home base of ease and inherent wholeness. The conversation critiques self-help culture, isolation and loss of “third spaces,” and how technology provides accessible but often unsatisfying connection. They explore AI companions and attention addiction, the decline of religion/spirituality and shared meaning, therapy’s tendency to pathologize normal existential distress, and a practical step: get curious about the fear of stopping self-improvement and question the premise that you are the exception to inherent worth.00:00 Meet Lacey Kelly00:43 Teen Years Curiosity01:51 Finding Home In Self02:53 What Unbecoming Means04:24 Why We Feel Broken07:40 Tech Connection Paradox11:59 AI Companions And Loneliness17:56 Attention Economy Starts Young25:11 Presence Memory And Phones28:38 Smartphone Regret Ahead29:11 Self Fixing Hurts Love30:42 Self Help Relationship Rules32:16 Spiritual Wholeness Seat34:56 Losing Religion Meaning38:08 Nature Reconnection Wisdom43:08 Unbecoming Hub Future46:52 Therapy Pathologizing Trap52:23 Returning Without Shame54:33 Try Unbecoming Curiosity56:09 Closing Thanks Farewellhttps://www.theunbecominghub.com/https://theunbecominghub.substack.com/

Alexandra Beller on Body Image, Somatics, and Creating Embodied ArtChoreographer, educator, and author Alexandra Beller discusses her early experiences coming of age in the 1980s amid intense diet culture, bullying, and body shaming, while finding wholeness and spiritual aliveness through dance. She describes how her body type limited casting and training opportunities, the power critics once held, and how joining choreographer Bill T. Jones’ company broke industry norms but increased public scrutiny of her body. Beller reflects on building chosen family in dance, developing internal guardrails for self-worth, and learning to receive praise without taking criticism as truth. She explores menopause as a neurological and personal rewiring that strengthened consent and self-advocacy, and shares creating a pivotal work based on her preverbal child’s developmental movement. She explains her somatic approach to helping clients access body-held emotion and why she wrote a book to support artists, creativity, and inner-critic work.00:00 Meet Alexandra Beller01:09 Teen Years and Body Image04:38 Disordered Eating Pressures06:08 Rejection and Breaking In09:42 Critics Then and Now11:58 Dance Community and Self Worth16:06 Learning to Receive Praise19:31 Love Mirrors and Self View21:22 Menopause Rebellion and Renewal25:22 Healthcare Gaps and Finding No29:10 Starting a Dance Company31:41 A Work Where Words Fail34:03 Baby Movement as Spiritual Research38:04 Inner Child Onstage40:25 Why We Stop Moving42:26 Undoing School Body Locks45:51 Nature As Sensation47:56 Breastfeeding And Wholeness51:16 Helping Clients Embody53:38 Somatic Patterns And Emotion56:43 Why Write The Book58:32 Writing Flow And ADHD01:02:19 Vulnerability In Print01:04:39 Pruning Ego And Therapy01:06:14 Next Decade And Good Life01:08:22 Closing Thankshttps://www.alexandrabellerdances.org/https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.beller.73/https://www.youtube.com/@alexandrabeller9868https://www.instagram.com/alexandrabellerdances/https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandra-beller-0a56a57/https://www.tiktok.com/@thelabanista?lang=en

Embodying Pleasure: Patty Alfonso on Erotic Innocence, Nervous System Healing, and Expanding IntimacyPatty Alfonso, an “erotic priestess” and creator of the Embody Her mentorship, explains her trauma-aware, body-based approach to helping women integrate pleasure, power, and truth by reconnecting with the body rather than living solely “from the neck up.” She and the host discuss somatic healing for trauma responses, technology-driven disconnection, and how patriarchy and mixed cultural messages shame women’s sexuality while exploiting it. Patty shares her personal path from a sex-silent upbringing to feminine embodiment through S Factor movement, and reframes erotic energy as creative life force connected to nature and “womb wisdom.” They explore expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration, introduce erotic blueprints as a framework for pleasure, and emphasize communication, community support, and discernment in relationships, including ethical polyamory. Patty offers resources at pattyalfonso.com/innocence.00:00 Meet Patty Alfonso00:43 What Is An Erotic Priestess02:08 Living In Your Head05:44 Trauma Lives In The Body08:37 Her Path To Sensual Movement12:12 Patriarchy And Pleasure21:06 Grounding Orgasmic Energy24:47 Erotic Living Everyday32:39 Redefining Sex As Pleasure34:24 Erotic Blueprints Explained37:45 Shame And Self Exploration41:18 Can Women Have It All43:04 Rebuilding Community Support44:47 Feminine Values and Balance46:49 Womb Wisdom Beyond Motherhood49:30 Erotic Innocence Mindset50:04 Monogamy vs Polyamory59:45 Kink and Safe Sex Talks01:04:04 Erotic Energy Fuels Life01:08:24 Sensual Blueprint Senses01:12:08 Discernment in Partnership01:17:58 Future Visions and Pilgrimage01:21:57 Closing and Listener Offerhttps://www.youtube.com/@PattyAlfonsoTVhttps://www.pattyalfonso.com/innocencehttps://www.facebook.com/pattyalfonsohealerhttps://instagram.com/thepattyalfonso

Cidney Green on Sexual Liberation, Non‑Monogamy, and PowerOn Intimacy Inquiry, the host speaks with Cidney Green, creator of viral Atlanta alt orgy events, the Pussy Over Pain Movement, and author of the upcoming book All Three In Me.Green describes her private self as playful and affection-seeking, contrasts her teenage prudishness and dependence on male validation with an early fascination with sex, and discusses porn as entertainment rather than education. She argues society’s comfort with violence but discomfort with sex stems largely from religion and that sexual shame suppresses personal power, especially for women.Green explains her path into polyamory via a poly Facebook group and an open relationship, framing monogamy as illogical and historically tied to property and womb control. She shares why she wrote the book, reactions to her sex-party notoriety, her views on nudity, self-care practices, sex magic/manifestation, fantasies she hasn’t fulfilled, and her long-term desire for a compound with two to three husbands.00:00 Meet Cidney Green00:41 Who Is Cidney Really01:45 Teen Years And Validation03:58 Early Sexual Awakening06:31 Why Violence Wins11:43 Porn As Entertainment17:18 Sexual Shame And Power20:19 Defining Sexual Freedom22:41 Discovering Non Monogamy28:13 Monogamy And Womb Control31:35 Writing All Three In Me35:20 Backlash And Going Viral40:18 Book Cover Meanings42:11 Nudism And Authority44:41 Body Shame Learned Early46:33 Europe vs UK Nudity48:29 Strip Clubs and Odd Laws51:09 Private Sex Shops Era51:56 Evolving Sexual Needs53:39 Sex Magic Manifesting58:02 Porn Preferences Unfiltered01:00:11 Fantasies Threesomes and Anal 01:04:56 Pleasure Patriarchy and FGM01:09:04 Religion Rape Culture and Orgasm Gap01:14:55 Self Care and Saying Yes01:17:31 Hollywood Casting and Poly Love01:20:37 Wrap Up and Farewellhttps://www.all3inme.com/https://x.com/thecidneyghttps://www.youtube.com/@thecidneyghttps://www.instagram.com/cidney_green?igsh=MTRlczF5eGpvOHcxaA==https://www.tiktok.com/@cidneygreen?_r=1&_t=ZP-94wGESSy5D4

Radical Honesty, Modern Intimacy, and Sex Work: Elizabeth Romanova on Stigma, Boundaries, and IndependenceLondon-based escort and adult content creator Elizabeth Romanova, a single mother to a 15-year-old, discusses her decade-plus in sex work, her choice of “radical honesty” at home, and how she navigates stigma and judgment by avoiding online comments. She describes exploring different parts of the industry (escorting, porn, webcamming, OnlyFans) and valuing creator control, travel, and flexible work. Romano explains client motivations—from married men seeking intimacy to lonely single men wanting companionship—and how she sets boundaries, including refusing condomless sex and blocking unsafe requests. She reflects on trust, spotting lies, and the difficulty couples have discussing desires, which she links to cheating. She outlines self-care, peer support among sex workers, the business side (marketing, tax, accountants), legal caution when touring, and her focus on supporting her daughter toward university while feeling happy and independent.00:00 Meet Elizabeth Romanova01:38 Why She Stays02:14 Exploring Sex Work03:49 OnlyFans Control04:53 Porn Industry Shift06:06 Honesty With Daughter07:59 Handling Stigma Online10:51 Married Clients Needs14:13 Emotional Boundaries16:24 Dating As Sex Worker19:06 Safety And Hard Limits22:28 Trust And Intimacy Talk27:13 Dating Men vs Women27:45 Redefining Masculinity28:58 Equality and Independence30:42 Intimacy Beyond Sex32:18 Self Care Routines33:23 Industry Friendships35:34 Business Side of Sex Work38:23 Setting Boundaries41:00 Staying Legal on Tour42:05 Future Plans and Parenting45:31 AI and Career Security46:14 Happy Ending and Farewellhttps://www.vivastreet.co.uk/escort/gbhttps://www.adultwork.com/dlgExtRatings.asp?U=4386722

From Sexual Shame to Sovereignty: Pleasure, Communication, and Unlearning Conditioning with Jocelyn SilvaEmpowerment coach and sex educator Jocelyn Silva shares how growing up Catholic in the San Fernando Valley shaped intense shame-based messages about sex, and how a positive first sexual experience and feminist activism led her to leave the church and become a sex educator with Coochie La, teaching comprehensive sex ed in low-income communities. She and the host discuss how shame and political forces restrict bodily sovereignty, why online information and porn can mislead young people, and how reframing “sex” as “pleasure” reduces performance pressure. Silva explains signs of performative sex, how stress and lack of emotional safety affect desire, and how clients can shift limiting beliefs using a thoughts-feelings-actions framework. She emphasizes scripts and mediated conversations to help couples speak desires, build distress tolerance, and address compatibility, and she outlines hopes to keep traveling, create retreats, write a book, and expand her community.00:00 Meet Jocelyn Silva00:43 Catholic Shame Messages03:10 Is Sex Education Improving04:56 Power Shame Control07:13 Porn Information Overload11:48 From Repression To Educator16:12 Redefining Sex As Pleasure19:44 Performative Sex Signs22:44 Feeling Broken And Healing26:49 Sex Differences Myth27:52 Social Conditioning Clash29:12 Same Gender Dynamics31:33 Breaking Cultural Scripts33:18 Rewiring Beliefs CBT37:06 Aging Bodies New Sex38:59 Speak Your Desires41:13 Sharing Kinks Safely43:38 Vulnerability Money Sex44:59 Place Shapes Intimacy47:50 Disconnecting Tech Era50:04 Coach Boundaries Self Care52:17 Future Vision Wraphttps://www.jocelynsilva.com/https://www.instagram.com/iamjocelynsilva/https://substack.com/@therelentlesslover

Healing Trauma, Reclaiming Self-Trust, and Building Real Connection with Tori JenaeTrauma-informed relationship and confidence coach Tori Jenae shares how complex childhood trauma shaped her nervous system and dating patterns, including perfectionism, control, low-grade anxiety, and avoidant “push-pull” intimacy. She explains how early attachments create “love maps,” why trauma is stored in the body, and critiques talk therapy that stops at the mind, emphasizing somatic work and safety in relationship as key to healing. Tori recounts leaving home at 17, breaking a family lineage of addiction, and finding safety with her ex-husband, with whom she was married for 20 years. The conversation also covers antidepressants and holistic health factors, the loneliness epidemic and monetized intimacy, what healthy intimacy feels like, ways couples rebuild connection, and her “Reclamation Method” and ABCs of healing: awareness, beliefs, and clearing.00:00 Meet Tori Jenae00:48 Early Trauma Signs02:57 Love Maps and Attachment05:07 Breaking Family Cycles09:32 Resilience and Purpose12:40 Learning to Trust16:56 Healing Through the Body21:43 Holistic Mental Health28:38 Loneliness and Lost Intimacy32:14 Loneliness Needs People32:31 Dating Apps Reality Check34:08 What Matters Most35:04 Stop Living Through Phones37:33 Success Yet Unworthy40:33 Happiness Inside You43:06 Reclamation Method Basics45:34 ABCs of Healing51:08 Therapist Boundaries54:12 Healthy Love Today55:41 Rekindling Long Term Intimacy01:02:16 Never Stop Dating01:03:17 Planning the Future01:04:44 Closing Thankshttps://www.torijenae.com/opt-in-d7dec567-5a03-4245-b2fa-929599de006ahttps://www.torijenae.com/https://www.instagram.com/tori.jenae/https://www.linkedin.com/in/tori-jenae-ma-psych-a6051766/

Elana Auerbach on The Sure Thing: A Weekly Pleasure Practice for Lasting IntimacyElana Auerbach, a sensuality guide and educator, discusses her book and “The Sure Thing” love experiment: a simple weekly pleasure practice designed to help couples replace sex struggles and performance pressure with reliable intimacy, desire, and joy.She shares her personal history of dissociation, sexual awakening, and her purpose as a “priestess of love and connection,” explaining how a 12-year desire mismatch with her spouse shifted after they committed in December 2020 to a weekly Saturday practice focused on connection rather than goals or orgasm. The conversation covers redefining sex beyond penetrative acts, addressing shame as “the elephant in the bedroom,” building the ability to ask for what you want, and how regular pleasure practices can improve relationships, family life, and community well-being. She also touches on consent, solo practice, non-monogamy as a choice, and future plans to expand the book’s reach and create audio guided visualizations.00:00 Meet Elana Auerbach00:57 Book Arrival Surprise03:05 Teen Years Awakening06:54 Calling and Priestess Path07:56 Creating Weekly Practice14:30 Why It Works19:50 Redefining Sex and Pleasure26:46 Practical How To Start29:00 Preparing and Rituals32:28 Requests and Knowing Wants34:09 Inviting Partner In34:39 Inviting Your Partner35:54 Solo Pleasure Practice36:46 Shame In The Bedroom38:37 Naming And Healing Shame42:35 When Desire Changes46:46 Ask For What You Want50:00 Pleasure Changes Everything54:38 Designing Your Sure Thing59:17 Monogamy Or Choice01:01:21 Whats Next And ClosingA special gift for listeners to the podcast:A guided journey to deepen with your wild, sensual self and connect with your passion and desire!https://guide.surethingexperiment.com/wild-sensual-selfWebsite: https://surethingexperiment.com/FB: facebook.com/ElanaAuerbachAuthorIG: https://www.instagram.com/elana.auerbach/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elana-auerbach-387875b3/

Embodiment, Consent, and Leaving a Sexless Marriage: Skylar Lyralen Kaye on Queer Intimacy and Self-LoveNon-binary, gender-fluid writer and solo performer Skylar Lyralen Kaye discusses their work on intimacy, queerness, and mental health, and describes a day-to-day life grounded in solitude, meditation, yoga, hiking, and paddleboarding after moving from the US to Portugal, which they find safer, more peaceful, and less achievement-driven.They redefine success as quality of life, joy, love, and inner peace, and explain how embodiment practices and theater training helped release trauma-held “armor,” highlighting limits of talk therapy and the importance of somatic work. Skylar recounts leaving a 35-year sexless marriage in their sixties after recognizing asexuality, grief-related disconnection, and awakening sexual energy, then navigating queer online dating, boundaries, and consent. They share how they handle vulnerability in memoir/performing through craft, distance, and universality, and emphasize self-love through integrating shadow and inner parts while embracing a quieter, happier future.00:00 Meet Skylar Kaye00:45 Daily Life and Solitude02:15 Portugal vs America05:02 Redefining Success09:37 Embodiment Breakthrough13:20 Somatic Healing Beyond Talk19:24 Social Media and Self Worth22:01 Leaving a Long Marriage29:12 Dating Again and Boundaries32:56 Consent Culture in Practice38:57 Sharing Intimacy on Stage39:52 Gut Check Boundaries41:57 Memoir Not Diary43:36 Queer Story Duty46:04 Learning Self Love52:11 Nature Connection57:16 Aging Wisdom Access01:04:23 Bridging Generations01:09:48 Why Publish Memoir01:15:36 One Step Unstuck01:19:42 Future In Portugalhttps://lyralenkaye.com/https://www.instagram.com/lyralenkaye/?hl=enhttps://lyralenkaye.substack.com/

Bridging the Desire Gap: Somatic Intimacy, Communication, and PleasureDr. Laura Jurgens, a certified sex and relationship coach and creator of the Desire Gap Bridge Method, discusses how her background in science and personal trauma informed her somatic, body-based approach to helping couples navigate libido mismatches, which she says affect about 80% of long-term couples. The conversation explores how people attach painful meaning to desire differences, why stereotypes about which partner wants more sex are often wrong, and how narrow, patriarchal definitions of sex and inadequate sex education push people toward porn-based scripts and performance, shame, and disconnection. Jurgens emphasizes pleasure-focused intimacy, moment-to-moment embodied consent, reconnecting with the body, and practicing difficult conversations in a low-stakes setting to reduce pressure and build vulnerability. She explains how one partner changing can shift the relationship system, addresses empty-nest transitions and aging, and warns that AI may worsen disconnection because human regulation relies on tone and body language.00:00 Meet Dr Laura Jurgens00:56 Her Path to Coaching02:58 Why Desire Gaps Happen05:23 Redefining Sex as Pleasure08:30 Sex Ed and Porn Myths12:05 Consent Is Moment to Moment14:37 Why Somatic Work Works19:03 Healing Desire and Fantasy21:44 Talking About Different Sex23:32 Practice Conversations Safely29:42 Being Seen Without Shame32:55 One Partner Can Shift System39:33 Authentic vs Performative Desire41:07 Performance vs Authenticity42:32 Relearning Safety and Pleasure44:25 Stop Tolerating Touch47:59 Mind Reading Myth49:04 Arousal Curves and Foreplay51:14 Empty Nest Intimacy Reset55:44 Aging Bodies New Tools59:30 Client Crushes and Boundaries01:02:54 Transformations in Coaching01:06:31 Empathy and Self Care01:10:19 Future Mission and Hope01:13:36 AI vs Human Connection01:19:26 Closing Reflectionshttps://laurajurgens.com/https://www.facebook.com/ljurgens00/https://www.instagram.com/laura.jurgens.coach/?hl=en

Caasi O’Day on Being “Too Much,” Somatic Healing, and Treating the Clients Others AvoidLicensed clinical social worker Caasi O’Day, founder of Las Vegas practice Polarized Parts, shares her path from being a “lost cause” teen in a small Iowa town—angry, self-harming, using drugs, and distrustful of therapy—to becoming a clinician known for radical honesty, dark humor, and working with clients often judged or labeled “treatment resistant.”She explains why she centers nonjudgment, authenticity, and self-disclosure, and outlines DBT’s four modules (mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness) alongside internal family systems and somatic work. The conversation explores intimacy, attachment, rejection fears, her fast engagement and later divorce (requested June 2024), and her practice of taking a year off dating after breakups.O’Day discusses ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, her own first experience (panic attack, then joy after letting go of control), and the importance of integration and body awareness. She also covers therapist self-care, private practice boundaries, and future plans for more somatic workshops, teaching, and nature-based offerings, ending with what she’d tell her 16-year-old self: “You are not too much.”00:00 Meet Caasi O'Day01:09 Early Life Template02:25 Acting Out and Therapy05:31 Sent Away and Too Much06:56 Becoming the Therapist09:37 Working With Outcasts12:13 DBT Skills Breakdown14:56 Nonjudgmental Client Care19:21 Intimacy and Self Worth23:53 Marriage Divorce and Growth28:47 Talking About Sex Safely34:39 Curiosity Over Assumptions34:57 Erotic Communication Skills37:41 Puberty And Mixed Signals41:10 Receiving Honest Feedback43:05 Desire Changes Over Time44:20 Somatic Clues In The Body46:53 Beyond Talk Therapy51:39 Ketamine And Integration58:00 Therapist Burnout Boundaries01:01:59 Rebuilding And Future Vision01:05:26 Advice To The Sixteen Year Old Cassihttps://polarizedparts.com/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61587040433132https://www.instagram.com/polarized_parts

Transforming Conflict into Intimacy: Valerie Greene on Attachment, Communication, and Lasting LoveValerie Greene, a transformational life coach and relationship specialist, discusses how she helps women and couples turn conflict into deeper intimacy using emotional healing modalities and practical communication tools. She reflects on her formative years, including a fraught relationship with her emotionally unavailable father and a spiritual but also emotionally unavailable mother, and how early experiences shaped her insecurity and later passion for relationship work. The conversation explores why modern culture often disconnects people from feelings (industrialization, nuclear family pressures, technology), and how skills like emotional awareness can be learned through neuroplasticity, self check-ins, and nonviolent communication. They cover dating challenges for high-achieving women, masculine vs feminine energy in dating, and how to assess values and emotional availability—especially on apps—while avoiding text-based pseudo-relationships. The episode also addresses sexual intimacy, shame, changing desire over time, and creating safety to talk about sex, including planning for difficult scenarios. Valerie shares guidance for people starting new relationships after long partnerships, discusses monogamy vs polyamory (including Polysecure), offers daily connection practices like love languages and rituals of reunion, and ends with advice she would give her 16-year-old self: prioritize self-liking, attend to feelings and needs, and be herself.00:00 Meet Valerie Greene: Transformational Coach & Relationship Expert00:56 Would 16-Year-Old Valerie Recognize Her Today?02:07 A Fraught Father-Daughter Dynamic & Learning Conflict Language06:23 Mom’s Spirituality, Inner Child Work & Learning to Feel Feelings11:15 Why We Lost Emotional Attunement: School, Industry & the Nuclear Family16:36 Tech, Tablets & the Imagination Gap in Kids26:09 Rewiring Emotional Skills: Neuroplasticity, Check-Ins & NVC Tools27:07 From Toxic Cycles to a Healing Partnership: Her Relationship Journey31:46 High-Achieving Women, Secure Attachment & Balancing Masculine/Feminine Energy40:48 Dating Apps Done Right: Filters, Values, and Getting Off the App Fast47:38 The Real Source of Couple Conflict: Needs vs. Strategies (Not the Dishes)52:12 Setting Up the Next Topic: Physical Intimacy, Desire Gaps & Obligation52:52 Intimacy Beyond Penetration: Redefining What ‘Counts’53:24 Breaking the Silence: Shame, Stress & Talking About Desire55:28 Body Image, Libido Shifts & Self-Acceptance Work56:16 When Sex Changes: Expanding the Menu & Passionate Marriage Mindset58:25 Avoidance Patterns & Why Couples Need a Safe Space to Talk01:01:02 Relearning Pleasure: Self-Exploration, Journaling & Normalizing Change01:01:59 Planning for the ‘What Ifs’: Scripts for Erections, Pain & Staying Kind01:04:19 Desire Evolves: Food Analogy, Gottman Research & Regulating Fear01:08:43 Starting Over After Long Relationships: Grief, Growth & New Intimacy01:15:49 Monogamy vs Polyamory: Attachment, Safety & What Actually Works01:24:17 Daily Connection Rituals: Love Languages, Check-Ins & Deeper Questions01:28:00 Advice to My 16-Year-Old Self: Self-Liking, Needs & No-Regrets Wrap-Uphttps://coachvaleriegreene.com/free-strategy-session/https://coachvaleriegreene.com/

Existential Kink, BDSM, and Reclaiming Intimacy: with Tina EstrellaCertified existential kink coach and former professional dominatrix Tina Estrella shares her path from years of substance abuse, self-harm, and misdiagnoses to discovering she’s on the AuDHD spectrum and shifting toward nervous-system-informed, somatic, parts-based work.She recounts a pivotal “bathroom floor” moment—hearing a clear inner voice ask, “Tina, what are you doing?”—that sparked self-responsibility and a rapid decision to stop destructive behaviours, despite the social upheaval of reinventing her life. The conversation explores her BDSM work (starting as a professional sub, later domme), emphasizing consent, boundaries, and how submission can feel freeing—especially for people burdened by constant control and productivity.Tina explains existential kink as a parts-based, meditative practice of finding the hidden “turn-on” in unwanted patterns so they lose charge in real life. They discuss how societal norms, patriarchy, and productivity culture shape shame around sex and identity, why many relationships struggle with “should,” and the need to build skills for uncomfortable conversations about desire. Tina highlights pleasure practice, self-knowledge, and nervous system care as foundations for better intimacy, and envisions intimacy becoming increasingly moment-to-moment, self-approved, and quality-focused.00:00 Meet Tina Estrella: Existential Kink Coach & Former Dominatrix01:12 Teen Years, Family Roots & Feeling ‘There’s More’02:47 Misdiagnoses, ADHD Realization & Why Labels Can Trap You05:26 The Bathroom-Floor Wake-Up Call: “Tina, What Are You Doing?”10:32 From ‘Why Me?’ to ‘What Am I Doing?’—A Practical Path Out of Loops12:29 Quitting Addictions Fast: Closing the Door & Reinventing Your Life15:05 Sober in the Club: Identity, Energy, and Not Needing Substances18:41 Entering BDSM Professionally: From Sub to Domme (and Why It Helped)24:33 Why Submission Can Feel Like Freedom: Yin/Yang, Presence & Permission31:19 From Dungeon to Coaching: Training, Skillsets & Building the Practice34:39 What ‘Existential Kink’ Means: The Origin Story & Money Patterns37:32 Meditation for ‘Existential Dread’ Kink: Let the Charge Fizzle Out38:54 Why Society Labels Us ‘Broken’: Control, Capitalism & Suppressed Authenticity43:44 Redefining Success Beyond GDP: Rest, Joy, and Real Productivity45:28 IFS Meets Intimacy: Performance, ‘Shoulds’ & Talking About What You Want49:30 Uncomfortable Conversations as a Skill: Timing, Practice & Coaching Support54:22 Redefining Sex as Pleasure: Consent Culture, Boundaries & Better Sex Education01:01:59 Know Thyself: Nervous System Care, Pleasure Practice & Sexual Blueprints01:07:55 When Pleasure Opens Old Pain: Feminine Conditioning, Tears During Sex & Power of Sexual Energy01:10:25 Tattoos, Grounding, and a 10-Year Vision for Intimacy (Closing)https://tina-estrella.com/https://linktr.ee/tinaestrella

Creating, Maintaining, and Rebuilding Long-Term Intimacy with Bella Krutik Bella Krutik, a relationship nervous system and feminine embodiment coach, shares how she helps successful women and men rebuild trust, intimacy, and long-term connection. She reflects on her formative years as a rule-following, approval-seeking “good girl,” shaped by a first-generation Australian/Latvian immigrant family culture of playing small and staying safe. Bella describes marrying at 20, divorcing four years later, then repeating similar patterns in a second marriage (people-pleasing, self-abandonment, blame, weak boundaries). Years after separating and divorcing her second husband (the father of her son), they reconciled and rebuilt a deeply honest, connected partnership after both did substantial work: she trained as a feminine embodiment coach; he stopped drinking, attended therapy and men’s circles. They discuss how unrealistic cultural narratives about “perfect love” reduce self-responsibility and make normal human flaws look like red flags. Bella explains embodiment as shifting from living “neck up” into the body—tracking felt sensations, releasing “frozen tension,” and learning to respond rather than react in conflict. The episode also covers signs of “flatmate” relationships (logistics-only talk, screens, intimacy dropping), redefining sex as broader intimacy, practical reconnection via intentional touch and deeper conversations, gratitude as a practiced muscle, and how high-achievers must soften and drop control at home. Bella outlines how she helps clients discern whether to stay or leave without “should,” and how she protects herself by holding sessions in a “container” and using embodiment practices afterward. 00:00 Meet Bella Krutik01:08 Formative Years03:24 Immigrant Family Culture: Playing Small, Staying Safe05:11 Embodiment & Learning Through Mistakes07:04 Early Relationships: Unaware Patterns & a First Marriage at 2009:49 Second Marriage, Same Patterns: The Myth of the ‘Ideal Partner’12:43 Reconciliation After Divorce: Inner Work, Boundaries & Vulnerability15:54 Society’s ‘Perfect Love’ Script19:15 What Feminine Embodiment Means in Practice (From Head to Body)25:29 Holding Pain to Access Pleasure31:08 From Lovers to Flatmates35:41 Redefining Sex: From Performance to Intimacy37:24 Rebuilding Connection: Touch, Presence, and Turning Off Distractions39:45 The Gratitude Practice: Training Your Brain to See the Good43:42 Imperfect Love: Slipping, Repairing, and Embracing Messy Emotions45:12 High Achievers at Home50:28 Stay or Go? Untangling ‘Should’ and Taking Responsibility55:03 Protecting the Helper: Holding a ‘Container’ for Clients’ Trauma57:50 What’s Next: Career Vision, Partnership Without Remarriage, and a Possible Book01:05:41 Final Reflections & Farewellhttps://bellakcoaching.com/https://www.instagram.com/bellakcoaching/https://www.facebook.com/isabel.krutik

Lauren Venables on Safety, Somatics, and Dropping the Guard to Create Deeper IntimacyLauren Venables, a Sydney-based feminine embodiment and intimacy coach who supports high-achieving women in feeling safe enough to drop their guard and receive intimacy, pleasure, and devotion through somatic practices, nervous system work, trauma-informed coaching, grief, and relational healing. Lauren shares how she was shy, perfectionistic, and afraid to be seen as a teen despite being a dancer, and how bullying and a lack of safety in relationships shaped her early intimacy and self-expression. She describes a major turning point after a nine-year relationship that lacked passion and polarity, followed by years of mindset work before discovering body-based nervous system practices. She emphasizes creating safety in the body to support boundaries, communication, consent, and deeper intimacy, and outlines a practical approach for discussing desires with a partner: get clear on what you want, regulate through breath and somatic awareness, then speak from vulnerability without blame. The conversation explores redefining sex as intimacy and pleasure rather than penetration and performance. They address shame in the body, releasing emotion through somatic validation and feeling sensations, and the importance of self-pleasure for understanding desire and communicating preferences. The host and Lauren discuss how BDSM/kink communities often model clearer communication and boundaries, and they examine how mainstream porn and sexualized media can distort expectations and harm self-worth. Lauren reinforces that it’s never too late to reconnect with libido, especially by restoring safety amid burnout, hormones, or menopause. She also describes practitioner self-care, energetic boundaries, mentors, nature grounding, and her future aims to follow her “aliveness,” and continue living what she teaches through ongoing learning.00:00 Meet Lauren Venables: Embodiment, Intimacy & Nervous System Safety00:51 From Shy Teen to Confident Coach03:15 Dancer in Her Head: Perfectionism, Bullying & Fear of Being Seen04:43 Why High-Achieving Women Keep Their Guard Up in Love07:06 Safety, Discernment & Finding Your Yes/No in the Body08:24 When Success Masks Coercion: The Hidden Side of “Having It Together”11:03 Lauren’s Turning Point13:31 Learning to Ask for What You Need: Masculine Safety & Being Held16:02 How to Talk About Desire Without Shame: Somatic Prep + Vulnerable Language20:06 Redefining Sex as Intimacy: Beyond Penetration, Toward Connection23:11 Feminism, Polarity & the Craving to Be Led (Without Losing Power)26:13 Boundaries Without Walls: Discernment, Nervous System Clarity & Shame Release30:38 Meeting Shame with Validation: Somatic Tools to Let It Dissolve33:08 Why We Rush Self-Pleasure (and What We Miss)34:12 Know Your Desire: Self-Exploration & Communicating Needs35:46 What Kink Communities Get Right: Consent, Boundaries & Debriefs37:58 Learning to Love Yourself Through Body Work39:09 Porn, Media & Sexual Scripts: The Impact on Self-Worth42:59 1:1 vs Group Work: Safety, Shame, and Going Deeper44:48 “You’re Never Too Old”: Reclaiming Libido by Creating Safety49:13 The Body Keeps the Score: Integrating Mind + Somatic Healing51:04 Holding Space Without Burnout: Practitioner Self-Care & Boundaries53:40 Grounding in Nature + Looking Ahead (Practice, Love, and Closing)https://www.laurenvenables.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurenvenables1/

Navigating Modern Therapy and Relationships with Briana BassIn this episode, Briana Bass, a licensed professional counselor associate and board-certified clinical psychologist, shares insights from her unique background, combining high-level corporate experience and work in addiction centers.She discusses the transformative power of modern, evidence-based therapy in addressing the challenges of today's high-pressure world. Briana reflects on her formative years and explains how modern therapy differs from traditional approaches by focusing on real-world issues such as chronic stress, gender roles, political climate, and technology.She also touches on the loneliness epidemic, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of authenticity and communication in building deep, meaningful relationships.00:00 Introduction to Briana Bass00:45 Briana's Formative Years02:35 Modern Therapy Explained04:57 Challenges of Modern Life07:33 The Impact of Technology on Relationships16:41 Loneliness in a Connected World17:30 Deepening Emotional Intimacy22:25 Navigating Life Transitions24:10 Navigating Life's Changes Together25:02 The Power of Communication25:41 Rebuilding Connection26:04 Emotional Regulation and Vulnerability27:34 Practical Tips for Reconnecting30:23 The Impact of Modern Dating38:47 Challenges of High-Pressure Environments40:33 Balancing Personal and Professional Life43:01 Maintaining Mental and Emotional Health45:18 Final Thoughts and Reflectionshttps://brianabass.org/

Rebuilding Self-Trust with Brylye Collins: Navigating Love, Life, and LeadershipIn this episode, Brylye Collins, a relationship coach, talent leader, and founder of Building with Bry, shares her journey from a corporate HR and talent acquisition background to empowering singles in finding intentional relationships. Drawing on over 20 years of experience, Brylye discusses the importance of self-trust and clarity in dating, her transition from traditional corporate roles to relationship coaching, and the unique challenges high-achieving professionals face in their personal lives.Brylye also talks about the value of embracing one's individuality outside of societal labels, the drawbacks of relying on dating apps, and the importance of practicing self-care and intentional living. Additionally, she introduces her upcoming workbook and single empowerment retreats aimed at helping individuals reconnect with themselves before pursuing relationships. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of modern dating, the importance of realistic expectations, and fostering genuine connections.00:00 Introduction to Brylye Collins01:27 Career Journey and Transition 03:18 Founding Rose Talent Consulting04:52 Building with Bry: Personal Empowerment05:40 Reconnecting with Yourself09:45 Challenges in Modern Dating17:19 Matchmaking Insights and Practices21:37 Client Expectations and Realities24:51 Evaluating Client Readiness26:30 The Lessons in Meeting People27:09 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships28:23 The Impact of Modern Communication on Relationships31:22 The Importance of Thriving Solo33:26 Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery35:02 Handling Intimacy After Long-Term Relationships36:59 Empowerment Retreats and Workbooks43:01 Balancing Personal Wellbeing45:57 Finding the Right Relationship50:25 Final Thoughts on Relationships and Self-Growthhttps://www.buildingwithbry.com/http://instagram.com/buildingwithbry.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/brylyecollins/https://www.tiktok.com/@bryduffy?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Embracing Pleasure and Power: A Deep Dive with Dr. Jordin WigginsIn this insightful episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, a naturopathic doctor, author, and pleasure and intimacy coach, shares her revolutionary approach to women's sexual health and wellness. As the CEO of the Pleasure Collective and host of the Amazing Pleasure Principles podcast, Dr. Wiggins combines her 13 years of holistic medical experience with personal insights as a sexual abuse survivor to help high-achieving women reclaim their pleasure. She discusses her journey, the impact of hormone health on sexual desire, and the systemic issues in women's healthcare. Dr. Wiggins also emphasizes the importance of pleasure in all aspects of life and offers practical advice for women to receive and enjoy more from their lives. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the deep connections between pleasure, health, and overall well-being.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jordin Wiggins01:20 Formative Years and Early Influences03:24 Hormone and Sexual Health Journey05:23 The Pink Canary and Rediscovering Pleasure07:01 Challenges in Women's Health and Hormone Therapy09:35 Super Traits and Their Impact on Relationships21:39 Expanding the Definition of Pleasure26:35 Medical System Gaps and Women's Health35:05 Receiving in Life and Relationships39:13 The Value of Support and Compensation39:56 Embracing Sensation and Tantra40:34 Emotional Shifts and Relationship Dynamics41:58 Navigating Perimenopause and Hormone Therapy44:09 Pleasure-Centered Relationships46:35 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships49:07 Self-Discovery and Authenticity51:35 Protecting Mental Wellbeing54:26 Healing from Abuse and Rebuilding01:01:17 Recognizing Coercive Control01:04:12 Starting the Journey to Deeper Intimacy01:07:35 Future Plans and Final Thoughtshttps://form.typeform.com/to/p9OQD3F5?typeform-source=www.upwork.comhttps://www.thepleasurecollective.com/https://www.facebook.com/jordin.wigginshttps://www.youtube.com/@thepleasurecollectivehttps://www.instagram.com/drjordinwiggins/https://www.linkedin.com/in/drwigginsnd/https://www.tiktok.com/@drjordinwiggins

Reclaiming Intimacy: Xanet Pailet's Journey from Sexless Marriage to Passionate CoachIn this episode, Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, shares her transformative journey from a 26-year sexless marriage and a successful career as a healthcare executive to becoming a somatic sexologist and author. Pailet discusses her immersive healing retreats, her approach to trauma-informed body-based sexuality, and the importance of emotional and physical intimacy. She offers practical insights into how couples can reconnect and rekindle their passion, emphasizing the roles of empathy, safe communication, and somatic experiences. As she gears up for the release of her new book, 'The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit,' Pailet provides valuable advice for those seeking to improve their intimate lives.00:00 Introduction to Xanet Pailet01:04 Personal Journey and Formative Years02:00 Challenges in a Sexless Marriage05:41 Awakening and Self-Discovery09:37 Transition to a New Career13:05 The Importance of Pleasure and Intimacy15:12 Modern Challenges to Intimacy24:32 Tools for Improving Intimacy27:46 Expectations vs. Reality of Couples Retreats28:57 Tools for Emotional Safety and Empathy30:19 Physical Aspects of Intimacy31:18 Navigating Empty Nest Syndrome35:19 The Importance of Somatic Experiencing43:20 Future Plans and New Projects48:35 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries51:19 Taking Action to Reclaim Intimacyhttps://howtoimprovemylovellife.com/https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/https://www.youtube.com/@thepowerofpleasure8132/featuredhttps://www.facebook.com/xanetpailethttps://www.linkedin.com/in/xanet-pailet-2b464671/

Exploring the Complexities of Sexuality with Gigi EngleIn this episode, we dive deep into sexuality, intimacy, and diverse relationships with Gigi Engle, a renowned sex and relationship psychotherapist. Starting with Gigi's formative years and journey in sex education, the discussion spans various topics including the pitfalls of traditional sex education, the impact of pornography on young minds, and the importance of pleasure-based sex education. Gigi shares insights on the dynamics in kinky and polyamorous relationships, the significance of open communication, and how societal norms shape our views on intimacy. They also discuss Gigi's forthcoming book 'Kink Curious,' shedding light on its contents and its aim to guide beginners and seasoned kinksters alike. The conversation further touches on the intersectionality of gender, sexuality, and disabilities in sex therapy, and ponders the future of sexual wellness in the age of AI and virtual connections.00:00 Introduction to Gigi Engle01:04 Formative Years and Early Career03:55 Sex Education and Societal Norms05:45 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality12:00 Redefining Sex and Pleasure16:26 Communication and Consent in Relationships25:46 Exploring Kink and BDSM29:07 Insights from Writing 'Kink Curious'30:20 Introduction to the Book30:35 Book Structure and Content31:58 Exploring Unique Kinks33:01 Non-Monogamy and Polyamory36:39 Jealousy and Relationship Dynamics41:26 Therapist's Personal Journey49:44 AI in Sexual Wellness53:22 Future Trends and Final Thoughhttps://www.missgigiengle.com/https://www.missgigiengle.com/portfolio/books

Exploring Power, Art, and Intimacy: A Deep Dive with Mistress MalisandreMistress Malisandre, an artist, author, and power dynamic educator, discusses how her work with the House of Embers explores the transformation of power through art and immersive experiences. She shares her journey into power dynamics, beginning with observing power in her formative years and eventually becoming a professional dominatrix. Malisandre elaborates on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM and how she integrates elements of power dynamics into the lives of vanilla couples, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent. She also reflects on the vulnerability involved in her role, the ritualistic aspects of her practice, and her efforts to mentor others in the community. Additionally, Malisandre talks about her ongoing projects, including writing a book, and her mission to change conversations around power dynamics and therapy. The conversation touches on themes of intentional living, self-acceptance, and the necessity of maintaining boundaries.00:00 Introduction to Mistress Malisandre00:42 Early Life and Power Dynamics03:21 Exploring Power in Relationships04:50 Journey into BDSM08:47 Misconceptions About BDSM13:13 Communication in Relationships18:24 Professional Domination and Personal Growth31:15 Art and Ritual in Domination41:17 Empathy and Holding Space42:05 Freedom Through Control42:52 Understanding Power Dynamics44:07 The Process of Release48:09 Setting Boundaries in Domination53:35 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing58:54 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength01:08:32 Future Aspirations and Projectshttps://www.instagram.com/malisandres_place/https://substack.com/@malisandrehttps://www.mistressmalisandre.com/

Exploring Erotic Integrity with Dr. Claudia SixDr. Claudia Six, a clinical psychologist, couple’s counselor, and author with over 35 years of experience, discusses her journey from a shy teenager to a renowned sex therapist. She shares her background, influences, and key concepts from her book 'Erotic Integrity: How to Be True to Yourself Sexually.' Dr. Six elaborates on the challenges couples face regarding sexual satisfaction, authenticity, and connection. She also addresses the impacts of body image issues, pornography, and the evolving nature of relationships throughout different life stages. Additionally, she offers insight into the importance of self-awareness and honesty in sexual relationships and discusses her own aspirations for personal and professional growth.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Claudia Six00:55 Teenage Years and Early Influences02:39 Journey to Becoming a Sex Therapist08:58 Understanding Erotic Integrity13:51 Navigating Sexuality in Relationships20:14 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships34:41 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality37:17 The Role of Porn in Sexual Education37:41 Talking to Kids About Porn38:31 Porn as Entertainment, Not Education39:28 Authenticity in Relationships40:37 The Door Handle Moment41:04 Challenges in Modern Relationships42:15 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy43:24 Understanding Infidelity48:29 Role Play and Sexual Exploration50:13 Cultural Differences in Sexuality52:36 Faulty Beliefs and Relationship Dynamics56:23 The Loneliness Epidemic01:00:57 Future Planshttps://drsix.net/tedx-austin-south-congress-video-what-happened-to-sex-in-our-relationships/https://drsix.nethttps://www.facebook.com/claudia.sixphd/https://x.com/drsixnethttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_KRHr7JJOs5XoZ8amEtzaghttps://www.instagram.com/drclaudiasix/https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudiasixphd/https://substack.com/@itsneveraboutsex

The Sacred Undressing Journey with Nedjma BelaidIn this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, host Andrew welcomes Nedjma Belaid, founder of With Kind Awareness. Nedjma, a former pharmacist turned empowerment coach, shares her inspiring journey from people-pleasing to deep self-love and authenticity. She discusses her diverse experiences, including her transition from mathematics to pharmacy to spiritual coaching, and the various coaching modalities she has mastered.The conversation delves into topics such as overcoming people-pleasing, the process of 'sacred undressing,' the balance of masculine and feminine energies, and the importance of self-responsibility. Nedjma also touches on the challenges of adapting to life changes, supporting others on their journeys, and the potential impact of AI and virtual reality on personal connections and coaching.00:00 Introduction to the Intimacy Inquiry00:56 Nedjma Belaid's Formative Years01:58 From Mathematics to Pharmacy03:55 Struggles with People Pleasing06:26 Journey to Self-Love and Authenticity10:10 The Sacred Undressing Journey12:53 Non-Pharmaceutical Approaches to Mental Health20:35 Embracing Feminine Energy in Business30:37 Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships34:40 Navigating Personal Growth and Relationships35:31 Sobriety and Social Reactions36:31 Veganism and Social Perceptions39:11 Processed Foods and Personal Choices41:17 Dealing with Disappointment and Inner Work45:17 Exploring Plant-Based Medicines and Psychedelics50:03 AI Companions and Virtual Reality57:08 Coaching and Personal Wellbeing01:00:33 Future Aspirations and Global Impact01:04:31 Final Thoughts and Farewellhttps://www.facebook.com/withkindawareness/https://www.instagram.com/withkindawareness/https://www.linkedin.com/in/nedjma-belaid-a3619144/https://www.withkindawareness.com/https://www.withkindawareness.com/sparkle

Kimberly Braun: From Monastic Solitude to Spiritual LuminaryIn this episode, former Carmelite nun Kimberly Braun shares her profound journey from the cloistered life of a monastery to becoming a spiritual luminary, retreat leader, and author. She explores the evolution of her spirituality, the mystical experiences that shaped her, and the reasons behind her decision to leave the monastic life. Kimberly discusses how her lifelong practices of meditation, presence, and contemplation have transformed her, leading her to guide others in integrating spiritual wisdom into everyday life. The conversation delves into topics like the nature of reality, the essence of prayer, the impact of technology on human connection, and the concept of home. Throughout, Kimberly’s insights into intimacy, joy, and love offer a compelling narrative of spiritual exploration and service.00:00 Introduction to Kimberly Braun01:04 Early Life and Spiritual Awakening06:09 Journey to Becoming a Carmelite Nun06:47 Mystical Experiences and Monastic Life24:48 Leaving the Monastery and New Beginnings41:28 The Smartphone Distraction Epidemic42:46 The Evolution of Human Connection46:01 The Paradox of Technology and Spiritual Growth48:28 The Complexity of Intimacy in Modern Times50:05 The Joy of Simple Pleasures58:46 Writing and Publishing a Book01:16:07 The Concept of Home and Belonginghttps://www.kimberlybraun.com/https://www.facebook.com/kimberlybraun.mahttps://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybraunmediahttps://www.instagram.com/kimberlybraun09/https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlybraunma/

Reclaiming Pleasure and Intimacy: A Conversation with Kayla MooreIn this episode, Kayla Moore, a certified sex therapist and pleasure coach, discusses her journey and mission to help women and couples reclaim sex, intimacy, and embodiment as sacred and life-giving parts of their lives. Kayla shares insights from her upbringing influenced by strong female role models, her transformation from traditional psychology to becoming a sex therapist, and her shift towards integrating spirituality and sacred feminine healing into her practice. She highlights the importance of understanding and dismantling patriarchal narratives around sexuality, the necessity of addressing systemic issues, and fostering genuine connections. Kayla also talks about the significance of pleasure in various forms, the impact of pornography on sexual expectations, and the vital role of communication and consent in relationships. This episode is a profound exploration of human connection, vulnerability, and the pursuit of authentic pleasure.00:00 Introduction to Kayla Moore01:02 Kayla's Upbringing and Spiritual Journey07:02 Transition from Therapy to Pleasure Coaching08:20 Challenges in the Therapy Profession14:31 Embracing the Sacred Feminine15:20 The Role of Priestesses in Ancient and Modern Times21:53 Healing the Divine Masculine and Feminine29:23 Reclaiming Sexuality and Pleasure32:42 Addressing Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships33:37 Redefining Sex and Pleasure46:57 The Quick and Hurried Nature of Male Self-Exploration47:28 The Importance of Self-Pleasure and Communication47:55 Debunking Myths About Self-Pleasure in Relationships48:47 Slowing Down and Exploring the Body51:48 The Fear of Receiving and Building Trust55:24 The Role of Consent and Communication in Long-Term Relationships59:35 Addressing Pornography and Its Impact on Expectations01:07:24 Finding Pleasure in Everyday Life01:15:55 The Power of Love and ConnectionPlease take the chance to join the waitlist for Kayla's Sacred Desire course:When you sign up for the waitlist you get Kayla's FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Experiencing Pleasure and you'll also get a FREE 45 minute Desire Discovery Call with Kayla before needing to commit and put a deposit down to solidify their spot in the circle. Here is the link to the waitlist sign up page. https://connected-pleasure-coaching.kit.com/sacreddesirehttps://connectedpleasurecoaching.com/https://instagram.com/connectedpleasurecoaching

Navigating Life and Love with Psychic Medium June EdwardIn this episode, award-winning author, psychic medium, and relationship coach June Edward delves into her life story and spiritual journey, discussing how her early psychic experiences and a near-death event shaped her understanding of life, relationships, and the soul’s journey. She explains her seven-week relationship mastery program, which helps individuals transform their relationships through understanding energy and self-worth. June shares insights on how meditation led to the full awakening of her psychic abilities, the nature of different types of relationships, and the importance of raising one's vibration for attracting positivity. The conversation also touches on the spiritual aspects of death, dealing with toxic relationships, and the balance between good and evil in the universe. June emphasizes the significance of gratitude, self-love, and the seemingly small interactions that can profoundly impact others.00:00 Introduction to June Edward01:10 Discovering Psychic Abilities03:12 Near-Death Experience and Awakening11:26 Understanding Relationships and Energy19:16 The Importance of Self-Worth26:52 Embracing the Flow of Life27:13 Gratitude for Past Relationships27:46 Understanding Soul Visits29:13 Navigating Toxic Relationships30:23 Life as a Play36:18 The Power of Vibration38:18 The Role of Angels40:43 Impact of Social Media on Youth44:33 Energy in Relationships46:10 Finding Love After Loss49:56 Setting Intentions with the Universe55:19 The Importance of Small GesturesHTTPS://Twitter.com/junemassmediumHttps://instagram.com/JuneedwardmassmediumHttps://Facebook.com/juneedward111HTTPS://linkedin.com/juneedwardhhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B07H7LH293/aboutttps://juneedward.com/https://www.youtube.com/@juneedward3760/community

Anastasia Pierce: Empowerment and Strategy in the Adult IndustryIn this episode of 'Intimacy Inquiry,' the host welcomes Anastasia Pierce, a figure who seamlessly blends artistry, entrepreneurship, and personal empowerment within the adult industry.Anastasia, with a unique dual perspective from her background in both accounting and performance, discusses her journey from a shy girl in Switzerland to a top business coach for creators on platforms like Loyal Fans. The conversation delves into topics like treating adult content creation as a business, empowering performers to think like CEOs, and the changing dynamics of the adult industry in a digital age.Anastasia also offers valuable insights into the importance of consistency, authenticity, and strategic planning for long-term success. The episode underscores the evolution of societal acceptance of adult content creation as a viable career path and the critical need for financial planning and self-care within the industry.00:00 Introduction to Anastasia Pierce01:06 Anastasia's Formative Years02:39 Journey into the Adult Industry04:37 Embracing Sexuality and Confidence06:37 Transition to Camming18:35 Building a Business in the Adult Industry27:24 The Importance of Loyal Fans Platform30:51 The Challenges of Running an Online Business32:36 The Evolution and Acceptance of Online Careers34:40 Balancing Personal Creativity and Fan Demands36:09 Exploring Diverse Content and Personal Growth37:37 The Artistic Side of Adult Content47:00 The Future of Adult Content with Technology51:29 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing and Financial Planning56:09 Final Thoughts and Advicehttps://allmylinks.com/anastasiapiercehttps://www.loyalfans.com/anastasiapiercehttps://www.instagram.com/AnastasiaPierceOfficial

Exploring Intimacy and Connection: A Conversation with Holly NelsonIn this episode, we speak with Holly Nelson, the founder of the Connection Couch and a licensed professional counselor specializing in intimacy, sexuality, and emotional connection. Holly shares her journey from a rebellious LDS upbringing to becoming a sex-positive, queer and kink-affirming therapist. She discusses her various certifications, including EMDR and advanced EFT training, and her passion for helping clients through shame, trauma, and anxiety related to sexuality. Holly also dives into her reasons for founding the Connection Couch and the importance of communication and negotiation in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Additionally, she addresses the impact of cultural and religious teachings on sexual shame, the role of feminist porn in healthy sexual relationships, and her techniques for helping clients recover from sexual trauma. Finally, Holly highlights the significance of self-love and the therapeutic practices that individuals and couples can incorporate into their daily lives to foster intimacy and connection.00:00 Introduction to Holly Nelson and Her Work01:11 Holly's Teenage Years and Early Influences02:38 Exploring Sexuality and Overcoming Shame05:09 Journey into Sex Therapy07:06 Creating the Connection Couch10:40 Navigating Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships18:11 The Importance of Self-Love and Personal Growth24:44 The Impact of Pornography on Society26:01 Couples and Pornography: Challenges and Misconceptions27:40 Exploring Feminist and Holistic Porn29:16 Common Kinks and Desires in Therapy30:41 Approaches to Sex Therapy for Individuals and Couples33:30 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory35:55 Addressing Sexual Trauma in Therapy41:25 Therapist Self-Care and Wellbeing43:16 Future Aspirations and Closing Thoughtshttp://www.theconnectioncouch.com/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091893859082https://www.instagram.com/sextherapywithholly/https://www.tiktok.com/@sextherapywithholly?lang=enhttps://www.reddit.com/user/TheConnectionCouch/

Empowering Your Intuitive Self: A Conversation with Spiritual Guide Gloria BattiniIn this episode, Gloria Battini, a renowned spiritual guide, psychic, medium, astrologer, and transformational teacher, discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their intuitive intelligence and heal from past traumas.Sharing insights on tarot, oracle cards, and astrology, Gloria emphasizes that psychic abilities are innate and can be developed by anyone. She also shares her personal journey through severe OCD and emotional abuse, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery and authenticity.The conversation touches on societal conditioning, the power of vulnerability, and practical guidance on using spiritual tools for self-awareness and growth.00:00 Introduction to Gloria Battini01:50 Gloria's Personal Journey and Mission02:07 Understanding Psychic Abilities03:07 Experiences with Intuition and Energy04:46 Society's Disconnection from Intuition15:58 The Role of Astrology24:37 Astrology and Personal Healing32:54 Mediumship and Translating Energy36:40 The Importance of Practice37:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Physical40:10 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing44:18 Leaving a Toxic Relationship50:00 Finding New Love and Trust54:41 Reconnecting with Childhood Joys58:53 Understanding Tarot and Oracle Cards01:04:33 Protecting Your Energy01:08:17 Hopes for the Futurehttps://www.gloriabattini.com/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Lzf1AT9bSdbL8EB3LGQFghttps://www.instagram.com/gloriabattini/https://www.tiktok.com/@gloriabattini

Exploring Intimacy and Identity with Tonya ToddTonya Todd, a Las Vegas-based author, actress, and activist, delves into her life and work in this engaging script. Known for her evocative stories about passionate women, her new book '52 Love' offers bite-sized lessons on intimacy.Tonya champions marginalized voices and shares her journey from being painfully shy to becoming empowered through acting. She discusses her writing process, the significance of representation in media, and her penchant for vampire literature.Tonya also reveals her insights on cosplay and the importance of creative resistance. This script highlights her commitment to storytelling that reflects diverse experiences and relationships. 00:00 Introduction to Tonya Todd01:10 Early Life and Struggles02:18 Overcoming Shyness Through Acting07:31 Defining Powerful Women in Writing08:27 Challenges of Gender and Inclusion15:26 Writing vs. Acting: A Creative Journey18:06 The Writing Process and Future Projects25:05 Exploring Comic Books and High Art31:56 Embracing Character Confidence32:31 Role Play and Cosplay in Relationships35:13 The Birth of '52 Love'36:19 Navigating Love During Turbulent Times37:45 From Blog to Book and Podcast40:08 Exploring Love Languages42:38 The Importance of Communication47:00 Vampire Fascination and Writing56:14 Balancing Creativity and Downtime59:33 Final Thoughts and Future Planshttps://www.imdb.com/name/nm8904672/https://www.mstonyatodd.com/https://www.instagram.com/mstonyatodd/?hl=enhttps://www.facebook.com/tonya.todd.9440https://www.youtube.com/@mstonyatodd

The Journey of Resilience: Ms. Elite USA 2024 Koya Bakare on Healing and Self-WorthIn this episode, Koya Bakare, Ms Elite United States 2024, shares her incredible journey from trauma to triumph. As a speaker and mindfulness coach, Koya discusses her formative years, her relationship with her mother, and the pivotal role of pageantry in her life. She opens up about overcoming bulimia, suicide attempts, and sexual assault, revealing how these experiences have shaped her mission to empower others. Koya also talks about her spirituality, the importance of self-love, and finding joy in life's simple pleasures. This deeply moving conversation highlights the power of authenticity, resilience, and staying true to one's purpose.00:00 Introduction to Koya Bakare00:53 Reflecting on Teenage Years03:02 Mother's Influence and Support08:06 Journey into Pageantry13:33 Therapy and Healing26:09 Romantic Relationships and Trust31:52 Self-Love and Personal Growth32:58 Embracing Self-Love and Identity33:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery34:30 Guidance for Women on Self-Confidence35:19 Writing as a Tool for Healing36:53 Practices for Self-Love and Well-Being40:12 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Perception48:48 Balancing Service and Self-Care53:41 The Role of Spirituality in Life57:10 Future Plans and Aspirations01:00:26 Legacy and Life Reflectionshttps://www.instagram.com/koyamaisha/?hl=enhttps://www.tiktok.com/@koyabakare

Navigating Modern Love: Insights from Dating Coach Noah Heymann In this episode, Andrew interviews Noah Heymann, a dating and relationship coach who helps individuals find love through his website datecoach.com and Instagram handle datecoach.com.Noah's expertise covers areas such as in-person approaches, online dating profiles, communication techniques, body confidence, and intimacy. He shares his journey from a closeted teenager to a full-time coach, emphasizing the influence of past experiences on current dating behaviors.Noah also discusses the importance of candid communication in relationships, different dynamics in online dating for various genders, and the role of data in improving dating success. Additionally, he touches upon open relationships, BDSM, and navigating modern dating challenges. Noah underscores the value of authenticity and offers strategies for effective communication and dating in both new and long-term relationships.00:00 Introduction to Noah Heymann01:25 Noah's Personal Journey04:01 Challenges in Modern Dating06:40 The Science of Online Dating15:48 Differences in Dating Dynamics27:50 Navigating Authenticity in Relationships31:16 Overcoming Childhood Challenges32:22 Impact of Past Relationships on Self-Sabotage34:02 Navigating Vulnerability in Dating34:14 Discussing Kinks and Fetishes35:32 Tools for Better Communication in Relationships37:14 The Importance of Open Discussions39:49 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships49:07 Modern Dating Dynamics and Apps54:28 The Joy of Personalized Coachinghttps://www.datecoach.com/

Unlocking Lasting Love with Relationship Coach Bernando MendezIn this episode, we sit down with Bernando Mendez, a renowned relationship and dating coach who guides women globally to lasting love by understanding the masculine mindset, building self-worth, and creating genuine romantic connections. Bernando shares insights from his own transformative journey and coaching experiences, detailing how he helps women release limiting beliefs and attain dating clarity. We delve into his background, his personal struggles, and his professional shift from entrepreneurship to relationship coaching. Bernando also discusses the importance of self-love, navigating modern relationship dynamics, and developing an effective, attuned dating plan. The conversation covers various topics, including attachment styles, emotional alignment, and practical tips for successful dating. Inspirational success stories of his clients illustrate the profound impact of his guidance. Join us for an enriching discussion filled with actionable advice and heartwarming anecdotes.00:00 Introduction to Bernando Mendez01:22 Early Life and Personal Struggles03:45 Journey into Coaching08:26 Understanding Attraction Blind Spots12:52 The Importance of Self-Love15:14 Modern Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics23:05 Navigating Dating and Relationships30:08 Understanding Emotional Attunement in Relationships31:57 Creating the Best Scenarios for Meeting Good People35:38 Handling Different Dating Challenges41:31 Identifying the Right Partner46:08 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships48:43 Success Stories and Personal Growth53:10 Maintaining Mental Wellbeing as a Coach58:10 Future Plans and Visionhttps://www.instagram.com/bern_mendez/?hl=enhttps://www.youtube.com/@BernMendezhttps://bernmendez.com/

Exploring Energy, Spirituality, and Personal Empowerment with Aude FirminIn this episode, Andrew engages in an insightful conversation with Aude Firmin, a London-based spiritual mentor, intuitive business coach, and reiki practitioner. Aude shares her journey from dealing with personal trauma and societal conditioning to emerging as a guide for others on their spiritual and self-discovery paths. She delves into her youth, experiences in the tech industry, and how she integrates spiritual wisdom with practical guidance. The discussion covers topics such as healing from past traumas, understanding energy and spirituality, challenges and boundaries in her work, and the role of intimacy and sexuality in personal growth. Aude also shares her thoughts on the impact of technology on human connections and the potential for spiritual awakening in a technologically driven world.00:00 Introduction to Aude Firmin01:37 Aude's Formative Years and Early Challenges03:35 Journey to Spiritual Awakening10:09 Understanding Energy and Spirituality17:59 Navigating Client Relationships and Boundaries27:52 Discovering Psychic Abilities32:40 Personal Reflections on Grief and Healing35:06 The Role of a Psychic Medium36:02 Connecting with Ancestors39:07 Healing from Past Relationships44:28 Challenges of Dating a Psychic52:43 The Impact of AI on Human Connection57:40 The Power of Human Energy01:00:40 Concluding Thoughts

Unlocking Intimacy: Amy Rowan's Journey and Insights on SexologyIn this insightful episode, board-certified sexologist Amy Rowan shares her personal and professional journey in the realm of sex and intimacy. Amy, a cancer survivor and mother of three, opens up about her early fascination with vinegar, how her upbringing influenced her career, and the pivotal moments in her discovery of sexology.She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's body, communication in relationships, and the role of pleasure in sexual experiences. Amy also delves into her battle with cancer and how it affected her sense of self and sexuality. The discussion extends to the impact of pornography on youth and the need for comprehensive sex education. Amy's dream of establishing a sexual wellness center that integrates multiple facets of sexual health highlights her dedication to improving people's sex lives. This episode is a thoughtful exploration of the complexities and rewards of a well-rounded approach to sex and intimacy.00:00 Introduction to Amy Rowan00:23 Amy's Personal Life and Interests00:55 The Vinegar Obsession02:17 Early Curiosity About Sexuality05:07 Challenges in Female Sexuality07:33 Journey to Becoming a Sexologist09:37 Client Transformations and Success Stories10:47 Understanding the Role of a Sexologist12:12 Addressing Common Sexual Issues18:15 The Importance of Emotional Connection27:27 Navigating Sexual Desires and Fantasies32:06 Overcoming Cancer and Its Impact on Intimacy40:05 Lack of Guidance from Medical Professionals40:47 The Need for Sex and Intimacy Specialists43:20 Sexual Health and Aging46:04 Creative Approaches to Intimacy54:17 Parenting and Sex Education59:50 The Impact of Pornography on Youth01:02:57 Healthy Conversations About Sex and Consent01:09:44 Personal Reflections and Future Plans 01:17:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughtshttp://www.suburbanintimacy.com/http://www.suburbanintimacyshop.com/https://www.facebook.com/amyrowanintimacycoachhttp://www.instagram.com/amyrowanintimacycoachhttps://www.youtube.com/@sensationalsexpodcast

Exploring Pleasure and Sexuality with Suzannah WeissIn this revealing conversation, Suzannah Weiss, a certified sex educator, sex and love coach, and writer, discusses her journey from dealing with teenage insecurities and body image issues to becoming an advocate for feminist sexuality and ethical non-monogamy.She shares insights from her books 'Subjectified' and 'Eve's Blessing,' and her experiences with psychedelics, orgasmic birth, and OnlyFans. Suzannah emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, redefining pleasure, and the potential of psychedelics in sexual healing.The discussion also touches on societal norms around sexuality, the impact of culture on sexual behavior, and the joys of living a life that balances work and personal well-being.00:00 Introduction to Suzannah Weiss00:58 Formative Years and Early Influences02:47 Journey to Sexual Confidence04:28 Cultural Influences on Sexuality07:52 Professional Path and Achievements13:14 Exploring Sexual Desires and Communication18:22 Redefining Pleasure and Sensuality26:49 Ethical Non-Monogamy27:27 Exploring Non-Monogamy in Relationships29:37 Are Humans Naturally Monogamous?34:02 The Role of Psychedelics in Personal Growth41:55 The Concept of Orgasmic Birth 46:55 Embracing Sexuality and Self-Expression53:41 Future Aspirations and Personal Growthhttp://www.suzannahweiss.com/https://twitter.com/suzannahweisshttp://www.linkedin.com/in/suzannahweiss/https://www.amazon.com/Subjectified-Becoming-Subject-Suzannah-Weiss/dp/1509560181/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1https://www.amazon.com/Eves-Blessing-Uncovering-Pleasure-Behind/dp/1509566171/

Creating Inclusive Wellness Spaces: A Conversation with Dr. Syd YoungDr. Syd Young, founder of Out Wellness in Austin, Texas, discusses the importance of creating inclusive, queer, and trans-focused wellness spaces. They share their personal journey from being a competitive tennis player to becoming a physical therapist and advocate for trans rights.Dr. Young elaborates on the challenges faced by marginalized groups in traditional healthcare environments and the transformative mission behind Out Wellness. The interview covers topics including the impact of body image in sports, societal biases against larger bodies, and the significance of providing safe, supportive communities. Dr. Young also shares insights into the physical and emotional challenges trans individuals face, especially during hormone treatment and post-surgery, and emphasizes the importance of holistic well-being.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Syd Young and Out Wellness00:35 Formative Years and Tennis Journey 01:35 Body Image and College Experience03:41 Serena Williams and Body Size Stigma04:57 Personal Experiences with Weight and Health10:35 The Biggest Loser and Societal Assumptions16:16 Founding Out Wellness18:34 Creating a Safe Space for All20:36 Holistic Wellness Approach28:35 Personal Fitness Journey31:52 Emotional Immaturity and Life Skills32:49 The Intensity of College Sports33:32 Body Image and College Recruitment35:47 Discrimination and Safety Concerns37:08 Challenges in Starting a Nonprofit38:54 Creating a Safe and Inclusive Space43:14 Transphobia and Media Representation54:42 Toxic Masculinity in Sports59:28 Nourishing Mental Wellbeing01:01:48 Conclusion and Future Aspirationshttps://www.instagram.com/drsydpt/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/outwellnessatx/?hl=enhttps://outwellnessatx.com/

Navigating Intimacy and Sex Therapy with Keri GreenIn this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist, Keri Green, discusses her journey into sex therapy, drawing from over 20 years of experience. She shares personal stories, details her motivation for entering the field, and emphasizes the importance of communication and self-care.Keri explores topics like mismatched sexual desire among couples, the impact of early sexual experiences, and the societal taboo surrounding discussions about sex. She provides insights into ethical non-monogamy, the potential issues of sex and porn addiction, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. Throughout, Keri highlights the importance of being open, empathetic, and the need for continuous exploration and communication in one's sexual journey.00:00 Introduction to Keri Green 00:46 Early Life and Formative Years04:53 Journey into Sex Therapy08:09 Challenges in Discussing Sexuality13:41 Mismatched Desire in Relationships26:26 Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy29:50 Revitalizing Long-Term Relationships30:12 The Power of Small Changes31:05 Role Play and Novelty in the Bedroom32:12 Embracing Playfulness and Fun33:46 Exploring Personal Comfort Zones35:13 The Importance of Sexual Education38:59 Navigating Porn and Sex Addiction47:03 Therapist Self-Care and Future Plans51:19 Final Thoughts and Gratitudehttps://kerigreenlmft.com/https://www.facebook.com/LMFTsandiegohttps://instagram.com/keri_green_lmfthttps://linkedin.com/

Exploring Heart-Centered Healing and Divine Connection with Monica BermudezIn this episode, Monica Bermudez, a heart-centered spiritual coach and energy healer, shares her transformational journey and the intricacies of her work through Sacred Heart Awakenings.Focusing on helping empathic women and high-achievers reclaim their inner power, Monica discusses quantum energy healing, intuitive insight, and ancient wisdom as tools for overcoming grief and emotional blocks.Delving into her teenage years and personal awakening, she outlines the importance of self-love, the integration of divine feminine energy, and the profound healing roles of nature and intimacy. The conversation further explores the protective measures needed when opening up channels and how science is catching up to these ancient practices.Monica also highlights the importance of authenticity and sovereignty in one's spiritual journey.00:00 Introduction to Monica Bermudez01:13 Monica's Teenage Years and Early Struggles03:08 Discovering Mysticism and Psychic Abilities04:51 Science and Spirituality: Bridging the Gap06:19 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing12:05 Embracing Sacred Heart Awakening21:54 Healing Ancestral Trauma and Intimacy29:39 The Power of Divine Feminine Energy33:08 Understanding Clairaudience and Empowerment34:15 Managing Overwhelm and Protection Techniques37:11 The Importance of Discernment and Protection40:58 Discovering and Embracing Your Soul Purpose47:35 The Power of Nature and Grounding55:30 Intimacy, Pleasure, and Self-Understanding59:02 Exciting Future Plans and Personal Insightshttps://www.sacredheartawakenings.com/home

Navigating Intimacy and Emotional Healing with Wendi DumbroffIn this episode, licensed professional counselor Wendi Dumbroff discusses her journey and commitment to helping individuals and couples with their intimacy and communication issues. She emphasizes the importance of creating a non-judgmental, safe environment for emotional healing. Wendi shares insights on the pervasive impact of shame on sexual well-being and highlights the significance of normalizing open conversations about desires and fantasies in relationships. Additionally, she discusses how redefining sex, understanding grief, and overcoming societal norms can foster healthier intimate connections. Wendi also touches on the growing interest in non-monogamy and the unique challenges it presents. Throughout the conversation, Wendi reinforces the value of mindfulness, self-care, and continuous learning in her practice.00:00 Introduction to Wendi Dumbroff00:57 Early Life and Formative Years02:44 Body Image and Societal Pressures04:14 Impact of Pornography on Perceptions of Sex06:41 Family Dynamics and Sexual Issues09:42 Wendi's Journey to Becoming a Therapist12:38 Self-Care and Mindfulness in Therapy17:54 Misconceptions About Sex Therapy20:43 Addressing Shame and Guilt in Sexuality29:56 Redefining Sex and Intimacy31:54 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Traditional Sex32:16 The Importance of Affectionate Touch32:54 Redefining Sex and Intimacy33:02 The Role of Daily Interactions in Sexual Relationships34:00 Addressing Relationship Issues Before Sexual Problems35:12 Understanding Grief and Its Impact on Intimacy39:08 Reconnecting After Children Leave Home43:16 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations50:53 Navigating Non-Monogamy and Open Relationships55:14 The Joys and Challenges of Parenthood57:07 Looking Forward: Hopes and Plans for the Futurehttps://wendidumbrofftherapy.com/press/

From Trauma to Triumph: Anu Verma's Journey of Resilience and HealingIn this episode, Anu Verma, founder of Victim to Victor, shares her inspiring journey from childhood abuse to becoming a fierce advocate for survivors. Through her bestselling memoir and podcast, Anu combines personal experiences with professional expertise in mental health, bodywork, and trauma recovery. She discusses the challenges of acceptance, the power of forgiveness, and the importance of intimacy in healing relationships. Anu's story is a powerful testament to resilience, self-worth, and the transformative power of holistic healing.00:00 Introduction to Anu Verma and Victim to Victor01:35 Anu's Turbulent Childhood02:32 Struggles with Self-Worth and Relationships04:57 Journey to Healing and Acceptance07:19 Cultural Sensitivity and Family Dynamics12:07 Forgiveness and Moving Forward18:32 Intimacy and Personal Growth27:20 The Power of Vulnerability and Writing28:34 Facing PTSD and Trauma29:52 The Healing Power of Talking31:51 The Role of Support and Supervision32:41 Embodiment and Somatic Healing34:39 The Importance of Affirmations and Gratitude44:01 Setting Boundaries and Self-Worth47:38 Supporting a Partner Through Trauma49:54 Living with Self-Love and Future Plans53:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Projectshttps://victim2victor.net/https://www.facebook.com/anuvermaV2V

Exploring Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Susan MilsteinIn this episode, Dr. Susan Milstein, a renowned health education specialist, certified sexologist, and co-host of the podcast 'Unzipping Taboos,' shares insights from her extensive career. Dr. Sue discusses the challenges and breakthroughs in sexual health education, both in her formative years and in professional life. She highlights the critical role of conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and healthy relationships, emphasizing the need for comprehensive sex education. Dr. Sue also delves into the evolving landscape of sexuality, the impact of AI and digital trends on sexual education, and the importance of physical touch and skin hunger. The discussion further explores the dynamic changes in gender roles and expectations in modern society, providing listeners with a nuanced understanding of sexual health and well-being across different life stages.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Susan Milstein01:03 Formative Years and Early Influences04:27 College Years and Advocacy06:48 Professional Path and Health Consulting09:39 Sex Education and Public Perception12:39 Pleasure and Intimacy Across Ages19:38 Changing Attitudes Towards Sex31:36 The Importance of Self-Exploration31:57 Challenges in Sex Education32:07 Masturbation and Media Representation32:35 Gender Norms and Masturbation33:46 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Orgasm36:28 The Role of Touch and Intimacy39:09 Skin Hunger and Human Connection42:55 Men's Struggles with Modern Masculinity51:04 AI and the Future of Intimacy59:30 Personal Joys and Future Aspirationshttps://milsteinhealthconsulting.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-milstein-16b4a49/https://www.instagram.com/heydrsue/?hl=enhttps://www.facebook.com/MilsteinHealthConsulting/https://www.youtube.com/user/drsuemilsteinhttps://heydrsue.substack.com/

Understanding Sexuality: A Conversation with Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones PhDThis episode features an insightful discussion with Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones, a clinical sexologist, relationship therapist, and intimacy advisor based in California. Dr. Jones shares her experiences growing up in a repressive environment and how she overcame those challenges to become an expert in human sexuality. The conversation delves into topics such as the importance of self-acceptance, the difference between intimacy and sex, the effects of societal norms on women's sexuality, and the role of fantasies and role play in enriching sexual experiences. Dr. Jones also addresses the impact of pornography, the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, and the significance of dealing with anger related to sexual issues. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Jones emphasizes the need for open communication, self-exploration, and the importance of creating a safe, shame-free space for healing and growth.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones01:12 Formative Years and Early Challenges02:14 Journey to Sexual Healing04:00 Understanding Intimacy and Pleasure13:00 Role Play and Cosplay in Sexual Healing20:22 Client Experiences and Therapeutic Approaches26:01 Labels, Kinks, and Fetishes33:32 The Danger of Being Boxed In34:02 A Positive Backlash Against Control34:44 The Pursuit of Happiness Over Materialism37:22 Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy42:26 The Nature of Monogamy and Control44:22 Anger and Its Impact on Sexuality50:14 The Impact of Technology and Pornography54:33 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing as a Therapist56:52 Final Reflections and Future Aspirationshttps://www.instagram.com/drstephaniehunterjones/https://www.stephaniehunterjones.com/

Journey of Self-Discovery: Ava Pikul on Tantra, Healing, and Embodiment In this episode, Ava Pikul delves into her transformative journey from yoga instructor to authentic tantra practitioner. Ava shares the profound life lessons she learned from her time as an erotic dancer and her deep immersion into tantra and spiritual practices.Initiated into a Tibetan tantric Buddhist lineage, she now integrates clinical expertise with sacred embodiment to offer a holistic approach to healing and self-worth. Ava discusses the importance of understanding one's sexuality, overcoming shame, and the significance of deep intimate connections.She also touches on the influence of her upbringing, her work with clients, and future aspirations to create an immersive healing retreat focused on connecting with the earth and each other. The conversation sheds light on the intricate balance of power, control, and education in achieving profound personal growth and empowerment.00:00 Ava Pikul's Journey: From Yoga to Tantra01:07 Early Experiences and Formative Years05:25 Navigating Teenage Years and Early Adulthood08:06 The Dual Life: Yoga Instructor and Stripper16:30 Discovering Tantra and Its True Essence20:44 The Responsibilities of a Tantra Practitioner28:20 Tantra and Psychedelics: Exploring Connections31:49 The Dangers of Ungrounded Psychedelic Use32:40 Exploring Human Senses Beyond the Basic Five33:36 Advocating for Extraordinary Sexual Experiences34:11 Addressing Sexual Disconnect in Relationships35:16 The Importance of Self-Love in Sexual Liberation35:47 Reconnecting Women with Their Bodies47:45 The Role of Vulnerability in Intimacy50:15 Programs for Sexual Healing and Growth54:36 Balancing Personal Boundaries and Client Care57:53 The Impact of Digital Age on Human Connection01:03:50 Future Aspirations for In-Person Healing Retreatshttps://www.diamondascension.org/https://www.instagram.com/ava.pikulhttps://www.facebook.com/avapikulhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/ava-pikul

Navigating Life's Complexities: A Deep Dive into Grief and Resilience with Edy NathanEdy Nathan, a licensed and certified sex therapist with extensive training in EMDR, hypnotherapy, and Family Systems, discusses her approach to understanding and living alongside grief. With decades of experience, she helps individuals navigate their pain with self-compassion and resilience. Nathan, an expert in grief and sexual grief, talks about the significance of viewing grief as a dance of self-discovery rather than a linear process. The conversation explores the developmental and traumatic aspects of grief, the concept of sexual grief, and the Liberation Protocol she developed to help others find their own healing. Nathan also delves into her personal experiences, the physical and emotional impacts of grief, and how she maintains her own emotional well-being. The dialogue highlights the importance of community, empathy, and embodied curiosity in the grieving process.00:00 Introduction to Edy Nathan01:11 Early Life and Sensitivity02:55 Understanding Grief and Trauma07:55 The Role of Theater in Edy's Life11:31 Transition to Therapy and Personal Loss15:08 Combining Theater and Therapy19:10 The Concept of Sexual Grief22:05 Physical and Emotional Aspects of Grief35:24 The Liberation Protocol38:41 Empowering Clients for Self-Healing39:05 Embodied Curiosity: The First Step to Liberation39:38 Somatic Work and Anxiety41:52 Reframing Negative Cognitive Messages42:39 Exploring Grief and Unresolved Relationships43:31 Changing Neural Pathways Through Somatic Exercises45:04 Understanding Sexuality and Intimacy55:19 Menopause and Sexual Grief01:01:30 Guilt and Grief: Navigating Complex Emotions01:05:39 Transition and Legacy in Grief01:11:01 Self-Care and Emotional Wellbeing01:13:27 Concluding Thoughts and Future Aspirationshttps://edynathan.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/edy-nathan/https://www.instagram.com/edynathan/https://www.facebook.com/EdyNathanPsychotherapy/https://edynathan.substack.com/

Shattering Taboos: Dr. Kelly Barron on Menopause and EmpowermentIn this episode, Dr. Kelly Barron, host of 'The Kellfire Show,' discusses her mission to revolutionize the perception of menopause by empowering women to break free from societal taboos and stereotypes. She shares her personal journey, from her upbringing in Long Island and dealing with a traumatic assault in her twenties, to becoming an advocate for women's health and empowerment. Dr. Barron emphasizes the importance of fitness, nutrition, and self-care, and stresses the significance of communicating openly about menopause and sexual health. She also talks about her experiences with powerlifting, MMA fighting, and her passion for inspiring women to address life's challenges with confidence and grace.00:00 Introduction to the Kellfire Show01:40 Kelly's Teenage Years and Early Adulthood03:56 A Life-Changing Incident06:32 Overcoming Trauma and Finding Strength08:53 Journey into MMA and Powerlifting17:28 Embracing Menopause and Empowering Women33:12 Reflecting on Life's Achievements34:00 The Birth of the Kellfire Show34:57 Empowering Women Through Stories39:09 Discussing Menopause and Intimacy46:06 The Importance of Communication in Relationships54:25 Personal Success and Self-Love01:01:12 Future Plans and Aspirationshttps://mytempesta.com/https://drkellfires.com/https://www.thekellfireshow.com/

Gigi Patsy: Unveiling the Realities of Online Adult Content Creation and Sex WorkGigi Patsy, a British online adult content creator and call girl, shares her candid insights into the world of sex work, her journey, and the stigmas surrounding the industry. Gigi uses VivaStreet https://www.vivastreet.co.uk/escort/gb to allow potential clients to reach out to her.Recognized for her work by Paddle Magazine and Snap Awards, Gigi delves into her past, discussing her upbringing, self-confidence, and how she transitioned into the adult industry. Balancing her work between content creation and escorting, Gigi explains her methods for maintaining her mental health and the importance of treating her work with professionalism.She also touches on societal views on sex work, the importance of financial planning, and her aspirations for the future.As Gigi navigates her career, she highlights the need for respect, proper sex education, and support systems for women in the industry.00:00 Introduction to Gigi Patsy00:58 Early Life and Teenage Years05:18 Journey into the Adult Industry08:22 Balancing Filming and Escorting13:02 Client Interactions and Challenges25:11 Dealing with Stereotypes and Stigma34:31 Navigating Public Scrutiny35:03 Social Media Accountability36:37 Double Standards in Media37:56 Age Verification and VPNs38:55 Challenges in Content Creation40:28 Sex Education and Realistic Expectations42:01 Consent and Communication in Intimacy48:34 Awards and Recognition56:51 Balancing Personal and Professional Life01:03:48 Financial Independence and Future Planninghttps://www.vivastreet.co.uk/escort/gbhttps://www.facebook.com/Gigi.Patsy/about/?_rdrhttps://www.escortrankings.uk/gigi-patsy-escort-stevenage-251723https://www.instagram.com/gigipatsyx/?hl=enAll My Links

Navigating Love and Trauma: A Conversation with Riana MilneIn this episode, Andrew interviews Riana Milne, a globally certified life, dating, and relationship coach specializing in trauma recovery and cultivating healthy love. They discuss Riana's background, including her challenging childhood, and how it shaped her career in trauma counseling and relationship coaching. She shares her insights on the importance of emotional health, communication in relationships, and her unique approach to coaching. Riana also provides practical advice on dating, dealing with trauma, and maintaining long-term relationships. The conversation delves into her personal experiences, her trauma recovery programs, and the impact of mindset on personal and professional success.00:00 Introduction to Riana Milne01:11 Riana's Early Life and Influences03:19 The Impact of Trauma and Career Beginnings04:26 Mindset and Personal Growth07:56 Building a Career in Coaching and Counseling10:19 Understanding and Healing Trauma15:16 The Coaching Model vs. Traditional Therapy17:49 Communication and Relationship Dynamics30:42 Awareness and Modern Challenges32:10 Concerns About Modern Communication32:30 The Impact of Technology on Relationships34:08 Vacation and Quality Time36:04 Finding Love and Building Relationships36:49 The Five Fs of Emotionally Healthy Love40:29 Navigating First Dates and Early Relationships46:13 Maintaining Intimacy and Pleasure49:20 Balancing Work and Personal Life53:26 Future Goals and Retirement Plans57:37 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsLINKS to Social Media & Free Gifts...https://flow.page/rianamilne Website: https://RianaMilne.com Podcast: https://LessonsinLifeandLove.com * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RianaMilne/videos