The Real Enneagram, a Podcast by the Institute for Conscious Being

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we delve into the tender and complex topic of grief, how the mind often struggles to comprehend the depth of grief, and the overwhelming emotions that accompany it.We begin by examining the first stage of grief, denial, as outlined by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, and how different ego types may experience grief in varied ways. Dr. Joe shares his personal experiences with grief, particularly the loss of his two children, and emphasizes that grief is not something that can be fully healed or resolved but rather something we learn to carry with us.The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the soul qualities that we may have lost contact with during our grief. We discuss how these qualities can serve as a healing balm, allowing us to express our feelings and acknowledge our significance in the face of loss.Dr. Joe recounts his journey of rediscovering his soul child through creative expression, specifically through drawing mandalas during therapy sessions. This practice not only helped him cope with his grief but also fostered a deeper connection with his clients, illustrating the unity of suffering that exists among us all.As we reflect on the nature of grief, we acknowledge the commonality of suffering and the importance of being present for one another. We encourage our listeners to consider where in their lives their minds may be working hard to understand or manage something that instead calls for presence and compassion.Thank you for joining us in this heartfelt discussion. We hope it resonates with those who may be navigating their own grief and loss.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, I, we explore the fascinating topic of the head center of intelligence and look into how our thoughts shape our identity and experience. We discuss the profound question of who we are beyond our thoughts, emphasizing that our true essence lies in our soul, which transcends the ego-driven narratives we often find ourselves caught in.Dr. Joe shares insights from his paper on the head center, explaining that many people mistakenly identify with their thoughts, while in reality, we are much more than that. He introduces the concept of "soul language," which communicates through impressions rather than words, allowing for a deeper knowing that guides our actions.Scott adds to the conversation by highlighting how our culture often prioritizes doing over being, leading us to become overly attached to our thoughts. We reflect on the importance of reconnecting with our soul child—the innocent part of ourselves that remains connected to the divine—and how this connection can help us navigate life with more grace and presence.Throughout the episode, we share personal anecdotes and practical strategies for tapping into our soul child, such as dedicating time for reflection and using tangible reminders from our past. We also address the challenges faced by those with difficult childhoods, emphasizing the importance of seeking professional help for trauma before embarking on the journey of self-discovery.As we conclude, we invite our listeners to engage in a reflective inquiry about where they rely on thought for safety and meaning, and what might be possible if they allowed a deeper intelligence to emerge. Thank you for joining us, and we hope you find inspiration in this exploration of the head center of intelligence.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the heart center of intelligence within the Enneagram framework. We explore the significance of emotional intelligence, particularly how it relates to our experiences and interactions in the world.Scott, a type five, shares his journey of reconnecting with his emotions, emphasizing the importance of feeling and accepting our feelings rather than analyzing them solely from the head. He discusses how this process began with grounding himself in his body and learning to embrace his heart's intelligence.We also touch on the societal conditioning that often discourages us from expressing, or even feeling, our emotions, leading to a disconnect from our true feelings. Joe adds depth to our conversation by distinguishing between egoic emotional intelligence and the deeper, soul-level emotional intelligence that fosters genuine healing and connection.As we reflect on the nature of relationships, we highlight the difference between seeking someone to complete us versus finding a partner who complements our wholeness. We emphasize the importance of nurturing love at a soul level, which allows for vulnerability and support in our relationships.In closing, I offer a prayer for our listeners, encouraging them to remember their holy origin and to let go of the need to earn love through ego-driven strategies. We invite you to engage in self-inquiry, pondering where in your life you may still be seeking validation and what it would look like to embrace love simply as you are. Thank you for joining us today!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we kick off the new year by discussing aims, how telling the truth can be an essential spiritual practice, and the importance of honoring the humanity of others even when we disagree with them.  We hope you find some useful insights in today's episode, and Happy New Year!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue our heart series, diving deeper into the theme of healing the heart. We explore the complexities of the heart's emotional landscape, including its capacity for both tenderness and turmoil. We also discuss the concept of emotional self-regulation and how the heart can be affected by negative passions such as envy, pride, and shame, particularly in the context of Enneagram types two, three, and four.Joe shares insights on the Enneagram's understanding of passions, which correlate with the seven deadly sins, and how these passions can dominate our emotional experiences. We emphasize the importance of recognizing these patterns as the first step toward healing. Scott reflects on his personal journey of navigating anxiety and the walls he built around his heart for self-protection, highlighting the necessity of extending grace and love to ourselves and others.Throughout the conversation, we touch on the significance of equanimity and groundedness in achieving emotional balance. We encourage our listeners to consider how they can let the divine regulate their emotions and restore balance within, especially during challenging times. As we wrap up this episode, we remind our audience that healing the heart is a divine work that requires community support and self-compassion.As we take a break for the holiday season, we express our gratitude for our listeners and invite them to stay connected through our website and social media. We look forward to returning in the new year with more enriching discussions. Thank you for joining us!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the profound topic of the heart's intelligence and its role in awakening compassion within us. We explore how our heartstrings serve as a moral compass, guiding us toward empathy and understanding, especially in today's challenging world.Joe shares a poignant personal story from his childhood that illustrates the moment he first became aware of his heart's guidance, emphasizing the importance of listening to our hearts. We discuss the historical origins of the term "heartstrings" and how it has evolved to represent the emotional connections we feel.Scott reflects on his journey of reconnecting with his heart after struggling with anxiety and depression, highlighting how an open heart can serve as a portal to sensitivity and connection with others. We emphasize the significance of being present and vulnerable in our relationships, as true connection requires mutual respect and empathy.Throughout our conversation, we touch on the importance of seeing and acknowledging the humanity in others, especially in a world where many feel unseen. We conclude with an inquiry for our listeners to reflect on: "When your heartstrings are pulled, what truth about love or justice is your heart trying to reveal to you?"Join us as we explore the depths of the heart's wisdom and the transformative power of compassion in our lives. Thank you for listening!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue our two-part series on overcoming obstacles and challenges in life, focusing specifically on the obstacles posed by our own ego.  We delve into the teachings of George Gurdjieff and the concept of the "fourth way," which emphasizes the importance of the soul in navigating our three centers of intelligence: the head, heart, and body.We discuss how the ego seeks control, validation, and security through these centers, but ultimately, these pursuits are fleeting and illusory. Instead, we explore how love—the universal law—infuses our experiences and helps us transcend the limitations of the ego. We reflect on the idea that true security and validation come from a connection to the divine, rather than external circumstances.Throughout the conversation, we emphasize the importance of personal responsibility and the need to view obstacles as opportunities for growth and learning. We also touch on the role of mindfulness and spiritual practices in helping us recognize our triggers and reconnect with the divine love that sustains us.As we wrap up, we invite our listeners to reflect on the obstacles in their own lives and consider what truths they may reveal about their hearts. Thank you for joining us, and we hope you find inspiration in this exploration of love, ego, and personal growth.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the theme of obstacles and how they can serve as profound teachers for our souls. We explore the idea that obstacles, while challenging, can lead to personal growth and deeper understanding.Dr. Joe shares a personal story from his journey through a PhD program in clinical psychology, highlighting a particularly daunting course in multivariate statistical analysis. He reflects on how he initially felt overwhelmed but ultimately found solace in the belief that if it was meant for him, the divine would help him overcome this obstacle. This led to a surprising outcome on his final exam, which he describes as a spiritual event that reinforced his calling to serve others.We discuss how obstacles can help us clarify our true desires and aspirations, emphasizing that they often prompt us to ask what we genuinely want in life. The conversation also touches on the collective obstacles faced by society, suggesting that these challenges can lead to greater truths and understanding.Additionally, we introduce the concept of the "trickster," an archetype that can lead us to confront our own truths, often through moments of humiliation or unexpected realizations. We also address the inner critic, a common obstacle that many face, and emphasize the importance of seeking support to overcome its harsh judgments.As we wrap up, we invite our listeners to reflect on a thought-provoking question: "When you face an obstacle, how does your heart receive love instead of shame?" We hope this episode inspires you to view obstacles as opportunities for growth and deeper connection with your true self. Thank you for joining us, and we look forward to continuing this conversation in our next episode!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the profound topic of peace, its connection to our soul child and how our early experiences shape our understanding of peace and how our ego can often lead us away from it.Joe shares insights from his daily reflections, emphasizing that while life can be fraught with anxiety and conflict, our essence is inherently tied to peace, which is a quality of the soul. We discuss how each Enneagram type has its unique fixation that can obscure the peace that is already within us.Scott reflects on his personal journey, highlighting the importance of self-love and acceptance in overcoming self-criticism, which can block our access to peace. We also touch on the significance of spiritual practices in reconnecting with our divine origin and embodying true peace rather than merely conceptualizing it.To conclude, we invite our listeners to engage in a reflective inquiry: "What is it about love that makes you feel most alive? And how might embodying that love bring greater peace into your life and your relationships?" We hope this episode inspires you to reconnect with your inner peace and the love that flows through you. Thank you for joining us, and we look forward to our next conversation!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the profound topic of peace, a universal desire that transcends all Enneagram types and explore how peace is not merely a reaction to our circumstances but a deeper quality of the soul that can be accessed regardless of external chaos.We begin by discussing Viktor Frankl's insights from his book Man's Search for Meaning, highlighting how he maintained a sense of peace even in the most horrific conditions of the Holocaust. This leads us to reflect on our own lives, where many of us struggle with anxiety and anger in response to the turmoil around us. Joe shares a personal story about losing his job and how he and his wife cultivated peace through gratitude, transforming their kitchen into a reminder of what they still had.Scott adds to the conversation by emphasizing the importance of being present and how peace cannot be imposed but rather is an emergent quality. We discuss the challenges each Enneagram type faces in maintaining peace and the practices that can help, such as self-inquiry and mindfulness.As we wrap up, we encourage our listeners to consider how they can cultivate peace in their own lives and relationships, especially in a world filled with conflict. We close with an inquiry for reflection: "How might you use your body, your breath, your posture, your stillness, as a doorway back to peace when your type's ego pattern disrupts it?"Thank you for joining us today, and we hope this discussion inspires you to seek and nurture peace within yourself and your communities.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue our exploration of the three levels of soul development, focusing on the concept of the palpable soul. We delve into the significance of the I-Thou relationship, as introduced by theologian Martin Buber, which emphasizes honoring the soul of another person rather than merely engaging with their ego.We reflect on our previous discussions about the obscured and emerging souls, noting how the obscured soul often views the world in a dualistic manner, while the emerging soul begins to experience moments of self-remembering and connection with others. Dr. Howell shares personal anecdotes about palpable souls he has encountered, highlighting the deep sense of love and spiritual hospitality they exude.Scott emphasizes the importance of embodiment practices in developing our soulality, suggesting that awareness of our energy and presence can help us navigate our spiritual journeys. We discuss the necessity of community in soul development, recognizing that while individual practices are valuable, true growth often occurs in relationship with others.As we conclude, we reflect on the hope we find in the growing awareness of spirituality in the world today, particularly through practices like yoga and meditation. We invite our listeners to engage with our community at the Institute for Conscious Being, encouraging them to explore their own paths toward soul development. Thank you for joining us in this enlightening conversation!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue our exploration of the three major levels of soul development as outlined in Dr. Joseph Howell's book, Know Your Soul, and we dive deeper into the concepts of the obscured soul and the emerging soul.We begin by summarizing the obscured soul, which represents the starting point of many individuals on their spiritual journey. This stage is likened to a moon hidden by clouds, where the soul exists but is obscured by the unchecked ego. We discuss how suffering often prompts individuals to seek relief, leading them to uncover their true essence.Next, we explore the emerging soul, which signifies a shift towards consciousness. This stage involves recognizing one's fixation and its impact on life, ultimately leading to a desire for peace and connection with the soul. We reflect on how our early experiences of love and peace shape our understanding of what it means to live authentically.Scott shares insights on the struggle between ego and soul, emphasizing the importance of choice in our daily lives. We discuss the challenges of navigating this conflict and the significance of surrendering to the soul, especially during times of crisis. The conversation touches on the cultural context that often prioritizes ego over soul, highlighting the need for a collective shift towards deeper spiritual awareness.Throughout the episode, we emphasize the role of relationships in soul development. We discuss how emerging souls can support those in the obscured stage by sharing their experiences and being present for others. The importance of genuine connection and the power of presence in conversations are underscored as vital practices for fostering understanding and healing.As we wrap up, we acknowledge the ongoing journey of soul development and the hope that comes from recognizing our shared humanity. We invite listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can contribute to a more soulful world. Thank you for joining us, and we look forward to continuing this important conversation in our next episode.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the concept of soul development, a central theme from the book Know Your Soul. We explore the three major levels of soul development, starting with the first level, which we refer to as the "obscured soul."Dr. Howell shares insights on how this level represents an unawakened state, where distractions, ego, and various fears obscure our true essence. He emphasizes that many people live in this obscured state, unaware of the beauty and potential of their souls. We discuss how suffering often acts as a catalyst for awakening, prompting individuals to question their assumptions and seek deeper understanding.The conversation touches on the role of the "trickster," a concept introduced by Carl Jung, which highlights how our subconscious can push us to confront our inner challenges. Both Scott and Dr. Howell share personal experiences of how anxiety and suffering have led them to explore their souls more deeply, ultimately recognizing that true peace and joy come from connecting with our inner selves rather than clinging to ego-driven pursuits.As we wrap up, we acknowledge that while the journey of soul development is ongoing, glimpses of our true selves can provide hope and encouragement. We look forward to continuing this discussion in our next episode, where we will explore the next level of soul development, the "emerging soul." Thank you for joining us today, and we hope you found value in our conversation.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming our friend and local sound healer, Danielle Hall, the founder of Sound Embrace. Danielle shared her inspiring journey from a career in commercial photography to discovering the transformative power of sound healing after facing significant health challenges.She opened up about her skepticism towards alternative therapies and how a health crisis at the age of 28 led her to explore new avenues for wellness, ultimately guiding her to sound healing. Danielle explained what a sound bath is and how it can help individuals regulate their nervous systems, reduce stress, and facilitate their own healing.Throughout our conversation, we discussed the importance of curiosity in exploring health and wellness, and how sound healing can create a space for individuals to connect with their inner selves. Danielle emphasized that sound healing is not just about spirituality; it can also be a scientific approach to well-being that anyone can benefit from, regardless of their beliefs.We also touched on the emotional responses that can arise during sound baths, highlighting that these experiences are opportunities for self-discovery and healing. Danielle shared her personal experience of overcoming a car accident that injured her and destroyed her crystal singing bowls, illustrating her resilience and commitment to her practice.As we wrapped up, Danielle provided insights on how sound healing helps individuals connect with their souls by fostering presence and awareness in a fast-paced world. We encourage our listeners to explore her work through her website, Sound Embrace, and to consider participating in her sound healing sessions or certification programs.Thank you for joining us in this enlightening conversation, and we hope you feel inspired to embrace curiosity in your own journey!To learn more about Danielle and her offerings, visit: soundembrace.comTo learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Jennifer Joss, a psychologist and leadership coach who has been using the Enneagram in her work for many years. Dr. Joss shared her journey with the Enneagram, which began in 1993, and her recent deep dive into understanding the Enneagram symbol itself.She discussed how her exploration was sparked by a transformative experience during a workshop led by Uranio Paes, where she felt a profound connection to the Enneagram as a map for personal and spiritual growth. Dr. Joss emphasized the importance of the Enneagram's three laws— the law of one, the law of three, and the law of seven— and how they reflect universal patterns of creation and renewal.Throughout our conversation, we explored the idea that the Enneagram is not just a tool for understanding personality types but a deeper symbol that can guide us toward wholeness and integration. Dr. Joss highlighted the significance of holding paradoxes and the necessity of coming apart in order to experience a new level of being.We also touched on her coaching approach, which she describes as hermetic philosophy, focusing on distilling truths from various spiritual and philosophical traditions. Dr. Joss expressed her desire to create a workbook to make her insights more accessible and practical for those looking to navigate their own journeys.This episode was rich with insights and reflections on how the Enneagram can serve as a powerful tool for personal transformation and understanding our interconnectedness. We hope you enjoy this enlightening discussion and find inspiration in Dr. Joss's journey and insights.To learn more about Dr. Joss and her offerings, visit: jumpingcurves.comTo learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue to delve into the theme of "Know Your Soul," exploring the profound benefits of understanding our deeper selves, beyond the confines of our surface personalities. Joined by my co-hosts Scott Smith and Dr. Joseph Howell, we discuss the pervasive divisiveness in today's world, particularly in the realms of politics and personal relationships.We reflect on how our egos often trap us in cycles of judgment and conflict, making it challenging to engage with those who hold differing views. Joe shares a personal story about overcoming his ego's resistance to connect with someone who had harmed his family, illustrating the power of approaching others from a place of soul rather than ego.Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of curiosity and receptivity in our interactions. We highlight that true listening involves being open to being changed by others, fostering empathy and understanding even in the most volatile discussions.Ultimately, we recognize the power of being present and reverent to one another and open in our interactions, even when faced with challenging perspectives. Our hope is that by embracing these principles, together, we can contribute to a more peaceful and compassionate world. Thank you for joining us, and we look forward to continuing this journey of consciousness together.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Kate Finlayson, actor, and creator of Dancing the Enneagram and UnDance. Kate shared her transformative journey, which began in Hollywood as an actor and evolved through her experiences with the Enneagram, Nia, dance, and various healing practices.Kate recounted her introduction to the Enneagram in 1996 and how it profoundly impacted her relationships. She emphasized the importance of integrating physical movement and music with the Enneagram types, which she now teaches through her unique dance movement classes called UnDance. These classes focus on helping individuals connect with their bodies and emotions, allowing for a deeper experience of their authentic selves.Throughout our conversation, Kate reflected on her healing journey, discussing the challenges of chronic pain and how movement has played a crucial role in her recovery. She highlighted the significance of being present in the body and the balance between the head, heart, and body centers of intelligence in the Enneagram.We also explored the evolution of Kate's acting career, noting how her approach to theater has changed since embracing the Enneagram and embodiment practices. She now experiences a greater sense of freedom and connection with her audience, focusing on the joy of sharing stories rather than seeking validation.Kate's insights into the Enneagram, healing, and the power of movement were both inspiring and enlightening. We are grateful for her presence and the wisdom she shared, and we look forward to having her back on the podcast in the future.Thank you for joining us today, and we hope you found this episode as enriching as we did!To learn more about Kate and her offerings, including Dancing the Enneagram and UnDance, visit: katefinlayson.comTo learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we welcomed back our own Reverend Dr. Drexel Rayford, a senior faculty member at the Institute for Conscious Being. Our conversation centered around the discipline of silence and its profound role in contemplation, as well as the tenacity of the ego and its resistance to what it perceives as its diminishment.Drexel shared a poignant story from his graduate school days that highlighted the essence of spiritual maturity, emphasizing the importance of humility and the acknowledgment of not knowing. We explored how silence can create space for the soul to flourish, allowing us to listen to a deeper presence beyond our constant thoughts and ego-driven chatter.We also delved into the complexities of self-forgiveness, discussing how the ego often struggles to see itself as part of the problem in interpersonal conflicts. Drexel reflected on his own journey of understanding and forgiving himself for past actions, recognizing that we are all shaped by our experiences and the systems around us.Throughout the episode, we highlighted the contrast between the ego's judgment and the soul's curiosity, encouraging listeners to embrace their shadows and the interconnectedness of our human experiences. Drexel's insights reminded us that true spiritual growth comes from surrendering control and allowing our souls to guide us toward healing and authenticity.We hope you find this conversation as enriching as we did, and we invite you to join us in exploring these themes further in your own lives. Thank you for listening!To hear Drexel's music, including "Nine Prayers of the Soul" and "The Seeking Soul," visit: vagrantschapel.comTo learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the theme of meditation, specifically focusing on a "know-your-soul" meditation. Joe shares his insights on the importance of understanding our essence and soul, emphasizing that our true identity goes beyond the mind.We discuss Joe's personal journey with meditation, recalling his first experience at a study group during his time as a graduate student at Yale. He reflects on how meditation has transformed his life, allowing him to find stillness amidst the chaos of daily life.Joe also touches on Heartfulness meditation, a practice that emphasizes the heart as the primary organ for connecting with our soul. He recounts his experiences at an ashram in India, where he learned this unique approach to meditation.Before guiding us through a meditation session, Joe offers valuable advice for those new to meditation or returning after a break. He encourages a gentle approach, emphasizing relaxation and the importance of being present without expectations.We conclude the episode with a guided meditation that invites listeners to connect with their inner selves, embodying aspects such as compassion, creativity, wisdom, and joy. This meditation serves as a reminder of the wholeness and serenity that can be accessed through mindful practice.Thank you for joining us today! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your friends and family.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we delve into the profound ways the Enneagram can help us understand our souls during moments of daily struggle. Co-hosts Dr. Joe Howell, Nanette Mudiam, and Scott Smith discuss how, while many people are drawn to the Enneagram through a critical mass of suffering, the Enneagram is also brilliant at helping us navigate the smaller, day to day challenges that life throws at us.We explore these everyday challenges that can lead to small sufferings, such as losing keys or dealing with family dynamics, and how these situations can trigger our ego patterns. Dr. Joe shares a personal story about losing his keys at the gym, illustrating how stress can cloud our judgment and lead us to blame others or ourselves. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the ego's narratives and how they can distort our perception of reality.The conversation shifts to how the soul can guide us through these challenges by encouraging us to ask what we can learn from our experiences. We discuss the significance of virtues and holy ideas in helping us respond to life's difficulties with awareness and compassion, rather than falling back into our ego's traps.Ultimately, we remind our listeners that the Enneagram is not just a tool for understanding ourselves but a means to navigate the complexities of daily life with greater consciousness. We hope this episode inspires you to apply the wisdom of the Enneagram in your own daily struggles and to recognize the opportunities for growth that lie within them. Thank you for joining us!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Dr. David Gruder, a self described "recovering psychologist and professional troublemaker." Dr. Gruder shared his unique perspective on the Enneagram and how he integrates it into his work with leaders across various industries, including government and business.We explored his five-step Enneagram Strategy, which helps individuals identify their primary Enneagram type, nuance their understanding of subtypes and wings, heal core wounds, appreciate the strengths of other types, and ultimately transcend their primary type to access the "superpowers" of all nine Enneagram types.Dr. Gruder also discussed the importance of understanding one's core wounds, using his own experience as an Enneagram 1 as an example. He emphasized the significance of healing childhood wounds and how they shape our adult behaviors and interactions.A key theme of our conversation was the evolution of the marketplace, moving from a focus on products to experiences, and now towards a transcendent marketplace that prioritizes spiritual development. Dr. Gruder highlighted the role of integrity in leadership and how it connects to being a whole and complete person.We also delved into the importance of the lover archetype in the workplace, particularly in the context of HR, and how leaders can create a culture that values both beingness and doingness. Dr. Gruder provided insights on how to help leaders embrace their vulnerabilities and the necessity of balancing different archetypal energies for effective leadership.Finally, we discussed Dr. Gruder's offerings, including his role as a fractional chief people officer and his resources for male leaders seeking to elevate their leadership skills. His books, The Nimble C-Suite and The Nimble Company, focus on fostering innovation and resilience in business.  More information about Dr. Gruder's offerings can be found at drgruder.com.We hope you enjoyed this enlightening conversation and gained valuable insights into the Enneagram and its application in personal and professional development. Thank you for listening!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming special guests Theresa Hubbard and Walker Bird, who shared their unique journey into the realm of self-discovery and inner knowing. We engaged in a deep conversation about the transformative power of firewalking, a practice that Theresa initially explored as a means to connect with her body and emotions.Theresa recounted her personal journey, highlighting how firewalking helped her break through mental barriers and access deeper emotional truths. She emphasized the importance of listening to our bodies and trusting our inner knowing, which aligns beautifully with the Enneagram's focus on the mind, heart, and body centers. Walker shared his own experiences with firewalking and how it has influenced his perspective as a trial attorney, illustrating the balance between vulnerability and strength in both his professional and personal life.Throughout the episode, we explored themes of vulnerability, the importance of community, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. Theresa and Walker discussed their podcast, My Inner Knowing, where they delve into various topics related to personal growth and consciousness. They also shared insights about their retreats, which combine experiential learning with mindfulness practices, fostering a safe space for participants to explore their inner selves.As we wrapped up the conversation, we reflected on the shared goal of helping others navigate their own journeys toward self-awareness and authenticity. We encourage our listeners to check out Theresa and Walker's work at MyInnerKnowing.com, where they can find resources, podcasts, and information about upcoming retreats.Thank you for joining us today, and we hope you found inspiration in our discussion about the power of inner knowing and the transformative experiences that can arise from stepping into the unknown.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we continue our exploration of Dr. Joe Howell's new book, Know Your Soul: Journeying with the Enneagram and delve into the practical applications of the Enneagram, emphasizing that the ultimate goal is to deepen our understanding of our souls rather than merely improving our egos.Joe shares his insights on how each person is a, "living document," with unique experiences that shape their understanding of the universe and spirit. He discusses the concept of "shock points"—moments in life where we face dilemmas that challenge our capacities and require us to seek deeper truths. We explore how spiritual practices, such as mindfulness meditation and embodiment practices, can help us recognize when our unchecked ego is dominating our lives.Throughout the conversation, we highlight the importance of inquiry as a tool for self-discovery. Joe recounts a profound experience of inquiry that led him to realize that the expectations he felt were imposed by his parents were, in fact, expectations he had internalized himself. This realization brought him a sense of freedom and empowerment.Scott shares his own experience with inquiry, illustrating how it helped him cultivate self-compassion and shift his inner dialogue from self-judgment to curiosity. We emphasize that the journey of knowing our souls is not about achieving a destination but about navigating the complexities of life with awareness and openness.As we wrap up, we encourage our listeners to recognize that their souls are always available to them, offering guidance and insight as they navigate life's challenges. We hope this episode inspires you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and soul knowledge. Thank you for joining us!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, co-hosts Nanette Mudiam, Dr. Joe Howell, and Scott Smith dive deep into the theme of the year for the Institute for Conscious Being: "Know Your Soul." We explore Dr. Joe's new book, Know Your Soul: Journeying with the Enneagram, which emphasizes the Enneagram as a journey toward understanding our true essence beyond mere personality traits.We discuss the origins of the Enneagram, tracing its roots back to George Ivanovich Gurdjieff and the ancient wisdom he uncovered. Dr. Joe shares his personal journey with the Enneagram, highlighting how it has been instrumental in his work as a psychologist and in his own spiritual growth, especially following the profound loss of his son. This experience led him to a deeper understanding of the Enneagram, revealing that it is not just about personality but about connecting with our soul.Throughout the conversation, we touch on the concept of the "soul child" and how it relates to our spiritual journey. Dr. Joe emphasizes that while we all possess various soul energies, each of us has a primary energy that shapes our essence. We also discuss the importance of community in deepening our understanding of the soul and how spiritual awareness can lead to transformation.As we wrap up, we invite listeners to reflect on their own journeys and the maps they use to navigate their spiritual paths. We encourage everyone to explore the insights shared in Dr. Joe's book and to join us in future discussions as we continue to uncover the depths of the Enneagram and its relevance to our lives. Thank you for tuning in!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we wrap up our series on the Holy Ideas and Virtues, reflecting on the profound insights shared by our guests over the past nine episodes. Joined by Dr. Joe Howell and Scott Smith, we delve into the concept of amnesia surrounding our holy ideas and explore why we often forget these integral aspects of our true selves.Dr. Joe explains that the holy ideas represent the way we perceived the world as soul children, free from the constraints of our egos. However, as we grow, we often lose sight of these ideas, leading to a sense of disconnection from our essence. The ego drives us to justify our existence, creating a narrative that we must earn our place in the world. This quest for validation can lead to feelings of inadequacy and fear, as we strive to meet external expectations rather than embracing our inherent worth.Throughout our discussion, we emphasize the importance of remembering our holy ideas and virtues as a means of healing and reconnecting with our true selves. We share personal experiences and practical practices that can help nurture these ideas, highlighting that the journey involves intentionality and self-awareness. Ultimately, we encourage our listeners to engage with their spiritual practices, as they are essential for integrating the wisdom of the Enneagram into daily life.As we conclude this series, we express our gratitude to our guests and invite our audience to continue exploring these concepts with us at the Institute for Conscious Being. Thank you for joining us on this journey, and we look forward to our next series!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the privilege of hosting Gladys Schaefer, a dear friend and dedicated student from the Institute for Conscious Being (ICB). As a fellow type nine, Gladys shared her insightful journey of discovering her Enneagram type and the profound impact it has had on her life.Gladys began by recounting how she found ICB through a Google search while seeking a name for her dyslexia tutoring business. This search led her to a conference where she was first introduced to the Enneagram. Initially identifying as a type two, she ultimately found her true identity at the nine table, where she connected deeply with others who shared her worldview.During our conversation, we explored the common challenges faced by nines, particularly the struggle with self-love and the difficulty in recognizing personal needs. Gladys emphasized the importance of diligence as the virtue of the nine, contrasting it with the busyness that often obscures deeper issues. She shared her passion for literacy, which was ignited by her experiences with her daughter, and how this passion has driven her to pursue a career in education, helping others overcome their challenges.We also discussed the significance of community for nines, highlighting how it provides the support and energy necessary for engaging in diligent action. Gladys illustrated her recent efforts to build connections within her church and writing classes, demonstrating how being part of a community can invigorate and motivate us.As we concluded the episode, we reflected on the journey of self-compassion and the importance of recognizing our own worth. Gladys's story serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative potential of the Enneagram and the growth that comes from embracing our authentic selves.Thank you for joining us today. We hope you found inspiration in Gladys's journey. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your friends and family!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming our dear friend Valerie Wheat, an instructor at the College of Education at Jacksonville State University. Valerie shared her journey with the Enneagram, which began about ten years ago when a friend introduced her to the concept. Initially, she approached it superficially, but as her friendship with Dr. Joe Howell deepened, she began to explore the Enneagram more profoundly, ultimately identifying as an Enneagram Type 8.We discussed the common misconceptions surrounding Type 8s, including the shame some feel about their assertive nature. Valerie reflected on her experiences and how her son Jonathan encouraged her to embrace her identity as an 8, highlighting the healthy aspects of this type. We also explored the holy ideas and virtues associated with Type 8, particularly focusing on holy truth and holy compassion, as well as the virtue of innocence.Valerie shared a poignant personal story about her quest for truth during a crisis of belief in her 20s, which resonated deeply with her understanding of the holy idea of truth. She emphasized how this journey has shaped her life and her approach to challenges, including her husband's serious health issues over the past few years. Valerie's self-awareness and growth have allowed her to navigate these difficulties with grace and empathy, transforming her interactions with students and others around her.Throughout the episode, we highlighted the importance of doing the inner work associated with the Enneagram, recognizing that while it can be challenging, it ultimately leads to personal growth and deeper connections with others. We are grateful for Valerie's vulnerability and insights, which serve as a testament to the transformative power of understanding oneself through the lens of the Enneagram. Thank you for joining us, and we hope you find inspiration in Valerie's journey!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming Art Wimberly, an adjunct faculty member of the Institute for Conscious Being and a vibrant Type 7. Art shared his journey of self-discovery, which began during a silent retreat where he stumbled upon the Enneagram through a book by Father Richard Rohr. He discussed how his initial understanding of the Enneagram was more theoretical, lacking the depth of inner work until he encountered a teacher who helped him integrate the two systems of recovery and the Enneagram.Art opened up about his long-term recovery journey, highlighting the struggles he faced with addiction. He emphasized the importance of facing pain and how the 12-step program helped him process his experiences. This journey led him to a significant turning point in his life, where he began to embrace wisdom and the idea of a holy plan, which resonated deeply with his Type 7 nature.We explored the integration of the Enneagram into recovery work, discussing how understanding one's type can provide valuable insights for both individuals in recovery and their loved ones. Art shared practical ways he incorporates the Enneagram into his coaching, helping clients recognize patterns and make healthier choices.As we wrapped up, we reflected on the power of the Enneagram in revealing the unique traps and strengths of each type, particularly in the context of addiction and recovery. We encourage our listeners to explore the upcoming conferences and resources available through the Institute for Conscious Being, especially for those affected by addiction in any capacity.Thank you for joining us today, and we hope you found Art's insights as inspiring as we did!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we are thrilled to welcome Leigh Anne Taylor, a recent graduate of the Institute for Conscious Being. Leigh Anne shares her journey as a Type 6, highlighting her experiences with fear, anxiety, and the importance of self-understanding. She reflects on her initial struggles to identify her Enneagram type, revealing how reading Joe Howell's book, Becoming Conscious, helped her feel seen and understood.Leigh Anne discusses her role as an encourager in her professional life, serving clergy and churches in Virginia, and her passion for music and writing. She also opens up about her personal journey, including her co-authored memoir, Our Family Outing.Throughout the conversation, we delve into the unique challenges and strengths of Type 6 individuals, particularly the balance between vulnerability and courage. Leigh Anne shares a poignant story from her childhood that illustrates her journey toward integration and healing, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness.As we explore the Enneagram's role in personal growth, Leigh Anne highlights the significance of community and the safe space provided by the Institute for Conscious Being. We conclude with reflections on how embracing our vulnerabilities can lead to greater strength and self-acceptance.Join us for this insightful discussion that not only resonates with Type 6 listeners but also offers valuable lessons for everyone on the path to self-discovery and integration. Thank you for listening!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of turning the tables and welcoming our own Scott Smith as a guest. Scott, who is typically behind the scenes as our producer and editor, shared his personal journey with the Enneagram, particularly as a Type 5.Scott recounted how he initially dismissed Dr. Joe Howell's book due to his narrow understanding of spirituality and his rationalistic worldview. However, after experiencing a significant period of suffering, he found himself drawn to both Joe's book, Becoming Conscious, and Philip Shepherd's Radical Wholeness. These readings opened him up to new perspectives on spirituality and self-understanding, leading him to embrace the Enneagram and TEPP (The Embodied Present Process) as tools for personal growth.We delved into the virtues and holy ideas associated with Type 5, particularly focusing on the virtue of detachment and the holy ideas of omniscience and transparency. Dr. Joe Howell articulated how detachment is not about withdrawing, but about letting go of our attachments to ideas and concepts that can limit our understanding of reality.Scott shared a profound experience he had during a retreat, where he practiced a meditation technique that allowed him to open to a deep sense of peace and connection to something greater than himself. This moment of grace highlighted the importance of being present and receptive, rather than chasing after spiritual experiences and ideas.Throughout the episode, we emphasized that the qualities of peace, grace, and presence are available to everyone, regardless of their Enneagram type. We hope that Scott's journey and insights inspire our listeners to explore their own spiritual paths and recognize the potential for growth and connection in their lives.Thank you for joining us today, and we encourage you to continue exploring the Enneagram and its transformative power. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your friends and family!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming Pavan Mudiam, a former student of the Institute for Conscious Being, to discuss his journey with the Enneagram and the significance of virtues and holy ideas in his life.Pavan shared how he was introduced to the Enneagram through his mother, Nanette, and how his initial curiosity led him to attend a transformative ICB conference at Kanuga. We explored his experience of discovering his ego type as a Four, and how this understanding has shaped his emotional landscape, particularly in relation to his virtue of equanimity and holy idea of holy origin.Throughout our conversation, Pavan reflected on the challenges he faced, including the profound impact of losing a close friend in college. This loss served as a pivotal moment in his life, pushing him to seek deeper meaning and authenticity. He articulated how pain can be a powerful teacher, guiding him toward personal growth and a clearer understanding of his purpose.We also discussed Pavan's marriage to Chelsea, who is also a Four, and how they navigate their relationship by balancing each other's strengths and weaknesses. Parenthood has further grounded Pavan, as he learns to embody equanimity for the sake of their daughter, Raina.As we wrapped up, we emphasized the importance of recognizing the ongoing journey of self-discovery and the role of the Enneagram as a tool for understanding ourselves and our relationships. Pavan's insights and experiences serve as a reminder of the beauty and complexity of the human experience, and we are grateful for his willingness to share his story with us.Thank you for tuning in to this episode, and we hope you find inspiration in Pavan's journey as much as we did!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we dive into the complexities of Type 3, the Winner, with our special guest, Reverend Barrett Owen, who is a dear friend of the Institute for Conscious Being. Barrett shares his journey as the senior pastor of First Baptist Wilmington, North Carolina, and reflects on his experiences with the Enneagram, which he first encountered during his college years.Barrett discusses the unique challenges and motivations of being a Type 3, particularly the feelings of shame that often accompany the desire to impress others. He emphasizes the importance of truthfulness and how it has transformed his approach to leadership and communication within his church community. As we explore the holy ideas associated with Type 3, Barrett highlights the significance of holy harmony and the realization that we are not separate from the divine, which alleviates the pressure to constantly achieve.Throughout the conversation, we touch on the interconnectedness of the Enneagram types, particularly how Barrett's experiences resonate with Nanette's as a Type 9 and Joe's as a Type 6. We reflect on the importance of self-awareness and the journey toward embracing our true selves, rather than the personas we often feel compelled to present.Join us as we learn from Barrett's insights and experiences, and discover how embracing our authentic selves can lead to a more harmonious existence. Thank you for listening, and we hope you find inspiration in this episode!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we had the pleasure of welcoming Beverly Casey, a graduate of the Scholars Program at the Institute for Conscious Being. Beverly, a mental health clinician from Cleburne County, shared her transformative journey with the Enneagram, which she began nearly 15 to 20 years ago.As an Enneagram Type Two, Beverly discussed the challenges she faced before discovering the Enneagram, including feelings of chaos and the desperate need to please others. She candidly reflected on how her desire to help often stemmed from a place of need rather than genuine altruism, leading to burnout and strained relationships. However, through her work with Dr. Joe Howell and the Enneagram, she found a path to greater self-awareness and healing.Beverly emphasized the importance of humility and grace in her life, noting how these virtues have allowed her to nurture her relationships without the expectation of receiving something in return. She also shared insights into how the Enneagram has positively impacted her marriage and family dynamics, providing a common language for understanding each other better.In her professional role, Beverly has been able to guide other clinicians, fostering an environment of grace and calm in crisis situations. She highlighted the ripple effect of this work, as it not only benefits her colleagues but also the clients they serve.Throughout our conversation, Beverly's passion for her community and her commitment to personal growth shone through. We discussed her creative pursuits, including writing and community theater, which have helped her reconnect with her joyful soul type.As we wrapped up, it was clear that Beverly's journey exemplifies the profound impact of the Enneagram on personal and professional lives. We are grateful for her insights and the light she brings to her community. Thank you for joining us today, and we hope you found inspiration in Beverly's story.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Real Enneagram, we kick off our series on the virtues and holy ideas associated with each Enneagram type. I, Nanette Mudiam, along with my co-host Dr. Joe Howell, am thrilled to welcome Dr. Renee Harmon, our first guest, who identifies as an Enneagram Type One.Dr. Renee shares her journey as a family medicine physician and the profound impact of her late husband Harvey's diagnosis with younger onset Alzheimer's disease. We discuss how this life-altering experience shaped her understanding of herself and her Enneagram type. Dr. Renee reflects on her initial reluctance to embrace her identity as a Type One, often associated with perfectionism, and how she has come to appreciate the concept of "holy perfection" as wholeness rather than flawlessness.Throughout our conversation, we explore the importance of serenity in her life, especially in the face of challenges. Dr. Renee shares her love for hiking, which became a significant source of solace and connection to nature during her husband's illness and after his passing. We also touch on her advocacy work for Alzheimer's care, her writing endeavors, and her upcoming hiking challenge of Mount Kilimanjaro.As we delve into the qualities of her soul child, Dr. Renee reveals how reconnecting with her inner joy and spontaneity has enriched her life. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of resilience, growth, and the beauty of embracing our true selves amidst life's complexities.We hope you enjoy this enlightening discussion and find inspiration in Dr. Renee's journey. Don't forget to subscribe and share this episode with your friends and family!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailICB adjunct faculty member Tom Miller-Price rejoins us to share another guided meditation he has written, this time on the subject of amalgamation.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailICB adjunct faculty member Tom Miller-Price joins us to share a guided meditation he has written on the subject of the soul child.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailICB faculty member Drexel Rayford joins Nanette and Dr. Joe to discuss his new album, "Nine Prayers of the Soul."To listen to more of Drexel's music, including "Nine Prayers of the Soul," visit: vagrantschapel.com/musicTo learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailHi friends, Scott here with a brief update on The Real Enneagram podcast:Our upcoming season, in which we’ll dive deeply into the virtues and holy ideas with a guest for each Enneagram type, is taking a little longer than we originally expected.  We’re now expecting it to be out this fall.In the meantime, we have some bonus episodes for you!  This week, we have an episode in which ICB faculty member Drexel Rayford joined Nanette and Dr. Joe to discuss his new album, Nine Prayers of the Soul.  That episode is available now!Next week, we’ll have two episodes featuring guided meditations by ICB adjunct faculty member Tom Miller-Price.As always, to learn more about the ICB and its offerings, you can visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week, Nanette and Dr. Joe conclude our series on Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway with a discussion on Chapter 18, "The Flowering of Consciousness."  In this season finale, we explore consciousness and its unfolding in the present moment.   We also look into how consciousness can bloom at different times, and the various levels through which it progresses.   Dr. Joe closes the season with a hopeful prayer.Thank you for listening to our series on Becoming Conscious! We're going to take a short break, then later this spring we'll return with a new season of weekly episodes in which we dive deeply into the holy ideas and virtues of each Enneagram type, plus a few special episodes, and some wonderful guests.In the meantime, please check out our extensive backlog of episodes, which include over four years of content!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week, ICB faculty member and ordained minister Nancy Hornsby joins us as we discuss Chapter 16, "The Eyes of the Kingdom," and Chapter 17, "The Beatitudes," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.   Nancy shares her own spiritual journey working with the Enneagram as a pathway to consciousness, and we reflect how different Beatitudes correspond with the nine types of the Enneagram.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week, Nanette and Dr. Joe explore Chapter 15, "The Return to Essence," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  Dr. Joe offers his definition of the meaning of Essence, and shares personal stories from his own experiences with Essence and the soul child in his professional practice.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week, Nanette and Dr. Joe discuss Chapter 14, "Prayers for the Types," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  Dr. Joe shares about how he was inspired to write these prayers.  We also explore spiritual practices for re-embodying your soul child and what is meant by amalgamation.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week, Barbara Sloan joins us as we circle back to Chapter 9, “The Enneatypes in Cinema,” from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  Barbara is a member of the ICB faculty and author of Theatre Is My Life! Thoughts on Play Quotes: a Book of Meditations for Each Day of the Year.   We explore how creativity, fiction, and the performing arts intersect with the Enneagram, and the Enneatypes of various characters from popular fiction.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.infoTo get a copy of Barbara's book, you can visit: https://a.co/d/4ea4Kb5

Send us Fan MailThis week, Nanette and Dr. Joe explore Chapter 13, "The Holy Ideas," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  We discuss the irreducible nature of the holy ideas, the role that George Gurdjieff, Oscar Ichazo, and Claudio Naranjo played in discovering them, and how the holy ideas can facilitate growing in consciousness.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week we delve into Chapter 12, "The Soul Child," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  We discuss the origin of the concept of the soul child, its role as a gateway to the soul, and the healing that the soul child can provide on the individual and collective level.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week we discuss Chapter 10, "The Emergence of Consciousness," and Chapter 11, "Christ, Children & Consciousness," from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  We take a closer look at the Stages of Consciousness Emergence, found on page 193.  Dr. Howell expounds on the Flowering of Consciousness and helps us navigate the stages of the ego as it emerges, experiences suffering, searches for relief, and finds the hope for consciousness to emerge. 

Send us Fan MailThis week we explore Chapter 8, "The Instinctual Subtypes of the Enneagram" from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  We discuss the instinctual subtypes of each ego type, which are the self-preserving, social affiliation. and sexual syntonic, and the relationship between our ego type and our subtype.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week we take a break from our series on Becoming Conscious to bring you a special interview with Phil Cousineau, author of The Art of Pilgrimage. A true renaissance man, Phil is an award-winning writer, filmmaker, story consultant, editor, travel leader, and inspirational speaker.  Phil joined us at a recent ICB staff retreat, and he was kind enough to sit down with us for an interview afterward.  Listen in as Phil discusses the art of storytelling, the power of myth, and the spiritual practice of pilgrimage.Our series on Becoming Conscious resumes next week!To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.infoTo learn more about Phil and The Art of Pilgrimage:  www.philcousineau.net

Send us Fan MailThis week we dive into Chapter 6, "The Secret Passageways of the Arrows," and Chapter 7, "The Wings of Each Enneagram Type" from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  In this episode, we discuss the inner flow of the Enneagram, also known as the arrow theory.  We also discuss the ego types on either side of our own ego type, our wings.To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info

Send us Fan MailThis week we discuss Chapter 4, "The Ego, Its Fixations and Suffering," and Chapter 5, "The Three Levels of Functioning and Consciousness within Each Type" from Becoming Conscious: The Enneagram’s Forgotten Passageway.  In this episode, we focus on the ego and its unhealthy fixations and take a look at the suffering that the ego can cause.   We also explore the three levels of functioning of each ego type. To learn more about the Institute for Conscious Being, visit: theicb.info