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This Cant Be Lyfe Podcast
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A woman who approaches the mic with transparency and voices her thoughts and opinions unapologetically. Instagram: @kaytherebelEmail: [email protected]
Episodes
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S1 Ep2- Where Is The Community
This week Kay poses a question regarding the lack of support and compassion for one another amongst Black folks. Where is the community? Why are we so quick to dismiss each other's pain/trauma? Why are we so comfortable turning the cheek when we see someone stumbling or falling? Where is the...
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S1 Ep 1- The Journey
S1 Ep 1- The Journey by ThisCantBeLyfe Podcast
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Episode 157- The Value Of A Man
After yet another hiatus, KayTheRebel returns with an uncomfortable topic. This episode she does a break down and deep analysis on why in the past she has stated "I don't need a man". She mentions her first experience/introduction to what a man should be and also took a deeper look at both her...
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Episode 156- Random Ish Vol. 1
This week KayTheRebel revamps an old segment but with a new name. Anything goes on this episode where she discusses the flip side of grief and how you can grieve people who are still alive. She gave her opinion on Summer Walker's rant this week and is convinced she is the problem. Do you ever…
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Episode 155- Never Know (Recurrent Triggers)
This week KayTheRebel releases a 2nd episode surrounding mental health. She spoke about the misconceptions surrounding being "healed" and chimed in on how the process is not as black & white as folks make it seem. While giving a real life example of her childhood trauma (being bullied as a kid),...
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Episode 154- Self Reflection & Therapy Sessions 3.0
KayTheRebel returns this week and delivers content centered around mental health. While providing her listeners with an explanation for her 2-3 month absence, she shared all of her moments of self-reflection within the past 6-9 months in the most organic/transparent way. She discussed why she...
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Episode 153- Short End Of The Stick
On this week's episode, KayThe Rebel talks about a trigger of her which she remains silent about; feeling unappreciated. She touches base on getting the short end of the stick in a lot of situations in love, friendship and even family. It is very bothersome how people don't return the same...
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Episode 152- Spinning The Block (Why Me)
After another brief hiatus, KayTheRebel returns with a short and sweet episode addressing an issue that she no longer glorifies; exes reconnecting and re-engaging without pure intentions. She talked about how it can be damaging sometimes or that she often feels triggered by it. Do these men do…
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Episode 151- Triggers Ft. Bam
This week KayTheRebel sits down with "Bam", the host of the Bam LaFlare Podcast and chops it up about triggers. First, they kept it light and discussed hot topics in Hollywood and then proceeded to discuss their personal triggers as well as triggers of some of their listeners. Does being w/ a...
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Episode 150- No Husband, No Problem
After hearing all of the chatter regarding black women not being married, KayTheRebel decided it was best to approach the mic and spin her perspective on the topic. She shared an argument from a popular influencer on Instagram which helped guide her thoughts/opinions about women who are in their...
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Episode 149- Get Me Outta Here
This week KayTheRebel talks about what the year 2022 looked like when it came to dating. She shared stories of experiences she had throughout the year which led to her decision to stop dating altogether. Finding someone who aligns with you and someone you can have organic chemistry with seems far...
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Episode 148- Pick Someone Else
After a very long break, KayTheRebel comes through emptying the entire clip as she expresses her disdain for the "Protect black women" movement. She addresses the inconsistencies within the movement and questioned when or why it even started. For a person who is not gender-biased, she really…
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Episode 147- Lessons For My Daughter
This week KayTheRebel returns with a heartfelt episode regarding parenting. She spoke in depth about what her experience is raising a daughter and how it has never been easy. There have been many lessons; some she learned, ones that she taught her daughter and also some lessons her daughter…
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Episode 146- Yall Fumble Your Friends Too
This week KayTheRebel returns from a two month break and discusses friendships amongst women. She discussed her experience with coming to the realization that although someone is your close friend, there are sometimes levels to it. Just because someone labels you a "bestie" doesn't mean that you...
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Episode 145- IDK Who Needs To Hear This
This week KayTheRebel dropped an episode filled with unsolicited advice. LOL. Be happy when people find love (even if it doesn't fit your standard). Many of y'all have twisted the definition of loyalty to your liking & need to quit the BS. Forgiveness is trash; it doesn't do anything except...
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Episode 144- Dying Alone
This week KayTheRebel talks about an uncomfortable topic and shares her thoughts on it. After witnessing so many people say they're giving up on love or just feeling like love is hiding under a rock for most single folks, she openly admitted she is okay with "dying alone". She made reference to...
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Episode 143- Please Stfu
On this 90 min episode, KayTheRebel and her guest @WittyEmpress918 practically emptied the entire clip. After months of watching men on social media platforms overly use 2 words (submission & aggression), they felt it was time to speak up and set the record straight. Both ladies felt those words...
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Episode 142- Be Mindful
This week KayTheRebel returns and discusses infidelity from the perspective of a woman. While watching this season of Marriage Bootcamp: Hip Hop Edition, she became triggered while watching Rich Dollaz speak with Lyrica about how she needed to push forward and fully forgive her husband.…
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Episode 141- Create Your Own Love/ Am I Tripping?
This week KayTheRebel shares her perspective on how folks should start shying away from saying they want love like someone else (whether celebrities, movies, parents etc). She feels that in matters of love, people should want to create their own stories in real time because no 2 love stories will...
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Episode 140- Lies & False Equations
This week KaytheRebel brings back her favorite guest @WittyEmpress918 who posed a question "Would you prefer a traditional or millennial marriage"? The inspiration behind the question came from a new series on NetFlix titled "The Ultimatum". They discussed finances in a marriage and/or long term...
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Episode 139- Who Taught You
After being missing for a month, KayTheRebel returned with an insightful episode. This week she talked about all of the things that her mother taught her growing up and how it showed up in her adult life. She also talked about lessons she wish she had learned such as vetting men properly…
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Episode 137- Staying Too Long
This week KayTheRebel records an episode that was pitched by a faithful listener. She discussed her first-hand experience with staying too long in a relationship that no longer served her. How most of the times we stay in relationships longer than we should when mistreated because we don't always...
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Episode 133- Good @ Goodbyes
This week KayTheRebel takes the time to reflect on her first year as a single women. She discussed the highs, the lows and still felt it was a positive year even with disappointments and annoyances. She shared stories to support why she has non-negotiables about being courted and how she became a...
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Episode 131- Fathers Pt. 2
As a follow up to Fathers Pt. 1, KayTheRebel also pens an open letter to the two fathers of her children.
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Episode 130- Fathers Pt. 1
KayTheRebel drops her first episode of the new year after a short hiatus. It is an open letter to her father based off of an assignment during one of her therapy sessions.
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Episode 129- Luv Songs & Fairytales
This week KayTheRebel gets in her feelings and expresses how she feels about love songs and the emotions that come along with them. She played a few tracks and used them as a way to express her thoughts on love and her admiration for people who fall in love fearlessly. While having flashbacks of…
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Episode 128- Friendship & Anxiety
This episode started off with bloopers & drunk auntie laughs. Months ago, KayTheRebel talked about anxiety and how it shows up in her life. This week her best friend @WittyEmpresss918 joined her to discuss how anxiety also can be triggered in our friendships. Sometimes friends don't show up as…
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Episode 127- Think Twice
This week Kay The Rebel talked about a few different things. First, she addressed how not all family is family and can be considered the opps too. She talked about those who live in glass houses and throw stones. There was a moment of accountability and she voiced her perspective on people…
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Episode 126- Fake & Hypocritical AF
This week KayTheRebel hit yall with a dual topic. First she discussed ghosting in friendships and how she does not always respect it. In certain instances it is cowardly and fake af. Next, she went on a mini rant about dating and men who intentionally show up with the bare minimum with new...
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Episode 125- The Purge IX
This week KayTheRebel felt like it was time for another venting session. She brought on her bestie @WittyEmpress918 to add a different perspective to her thoughts/opinions. Her first area of concern was discovering that men hate on women just as hard as females. Do "big mouth" black women have a...
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Episode 124- Really Love
This week KayTheRebel gave a review on Netflix's new film release titled "Really Love". [Spoiler Alert] She discussed the timeline of Isaiah and Stevie's relationship; both the ups and downs. Their relationship gave her the opportunity to reflect on finances in a relationship. Should we chase our...
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Episode 123- Modern Women, Love & Success
This week KayTheRebel decides to set the record straight surrounding the constant bashing and unpopular opinions of modern women. She talked about their power to choose and how their opportunities are limitless. They should NEVER be compared to traditional women. Throughout the episode, she...
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Episode 122- A King's Perspective Pt. 3
For a second week in a row, KayTheRebel brings on a guest to aid her in continuing the King's Perspective segment. Mitchell, a black man who loves both his career and his woman approached the mic and kept it real about his strengths and weaknesses. He talked about his growth and how his mistakes...
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Episode 121- The Bigger Picture
This week KayTheRebel is joined by her bestie Natasha aka @WittyEmpress918 who posed a question "Should you be responsible for your partner's mental health"? Both ladies agreed that they feel you should be partially responsible for paying attention and/or addressing mental health concerns with…
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Episode 120- Self Reflection & Therapy Sessions 2.0
This week KayTheRebel was super vulnerable and decided to record a sequel to a episode 22 from 3 years ago when she spoke in depth about her experience with therapy. She returned to therapy this year and did a comparison to how far she has come. It was tough to admit, but she came to terms with…
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Episode 119- Watch Your Mouth
This week KayTheRebel approaches the mic with guns blazing and ready to take down any and all folks who have ever formed an opinion or have spoken ill of single mothers. You don't know their stories or their struggles was one of her continuous arguments. As a single mother of two children, she...
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Episode 118- The Purge VIII
This week KayTheRebel felt it was time to purge again. She started with her views on Sha'Carri Richardson and how she doesn't agree with the boycott (baby girl needs to be accountable). Next, she weighed in on Erica & Safaree's pending divorce and relationships which include emotional negligence....
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Episode 117- Friendship Is Not A Chore
This week KayTheRebel gives some advice regarding friendships. Throughout the episode she shares a story of someone who wanted to know if they should try to "fix" their friendship or just ghost their bestie and walk away from it all. She stressed the point of friendship feeling more like a...
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Episode 116- A King's Perspective Pt. 2
KayTheRebel continues her new segment and brings one of her favs out from the podcasting community out of retirement. "Darnell" from Talking Greasy lived in his truth and admitted that he has struggled with setting boundaries in life. He discussed how as a black man he has "no choice" but to…
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Episode 115- A King's Perspective Pt. 1
This week KayTheRebel begins a new segment where she will sit down with black men and take the opportunity to both learn and understand how men think and/or feel about certain aspects of life. She uses Mac The Therapist's list of 13 things he encourages black men to do more of. The segment starts...
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Episode 114- Sanctuaries, Babies & Bad Timing
This week KayTheRebel discusses how she has often felt unprotected or unsafe in her relationships. She takes a trip down memory lane and how she felt when she read words from Lauren London, stating that Nipsey was her "sanctuary". She also shared a rare perspective on those who are in their 30s…
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Episode 113- Black Owned Everything (Motivated By Muffin)
This week KayTheRebel continues to carry out her black owned business segment and highlights one of Boston's fitness trainers, "Muffin", the owner of Motivated by Muffin. She spoke in depth about what fitness means to her and how it will always play a role in her life. KayTheRebel gave her the...
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Episode 112- The Let Down (HyperIndependence)
This week KayTheRebel came to the defense of women who are viewed as being "overly independent". She discussed her upbringing and how life lessons also have taught her to be independent. While taking a look at her life, she came to the conclusion that maybe being overly independent is a trauma...
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Episode 111- The Purge VII
This week KayTheRebel had a little to say about a bunch of things. For starters she discussed her experience with visiting Chicago for the first time. Next, she talked about not being a fan of Mother's Day, Porsha from RHOA being engaged to the African man, women standing their ground in...
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Episode 110- Raw & Unpolished
This week KayTheRebel digs a little deeper internally and discussed how she comes to terms with the fact that she does have a type which are men who are "hood". She discusses Kevin Samuels and his theory on black women not wanting or attracting high value men and admitted to her struggles with...
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Episode 109- Weave & Anxiety
This week KayTheRebel discusses her level of dedication when it comes to her hair. In a perfect world, she would have perfect hair everyday. She talked about the lengths she goes style her hair and aim for perfection. A friend suggested that she try to use that same approach when it comes to...
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Episode 108- The Purge VI
This week KayTheRebel purged about what has been on her mind this week. She encouraged listeners to get better about sharing words of affirmation within friendships. "Suffering in silence" during relationships, self-awareness, The Game's controversial tweet about taking care of his woman, people...
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Episode 107- Sick & Tired
On this week's episode, KayTheRebel lists everything that she is sick & tired of. There were challenges in which she feels are preventing her from being the best version of herself. Doing the work has been exhausting!! She revisited the discussion of her struggles with anger and aggression. The...
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Episode 106- Don't Tell Me How To Feel
On this week's episode, KayTheRebel discusses her issues surrounding individuals who like to tell another person how to feel. She also briefly touched on how in today's society it is a crime to be "in your feelings" and that growth and wisdom has taught her that it is okay to tap into your...
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Episode 105- Black Owned Everything Vol. 2 (Passionate Rebel)
This week KayTheRebel continues her segment to highlight and promote black owned businesses. She chopped it up with Newark native El-Amin Jumuah, the CEO of Passionate Rebel LLC. While discussing being a black business owner, El-Amin shared with KayTheRebel how he bridges the gap between fashion...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
A woman who approaches the mic with transparency and voices her thoughts and opinions unapologetically. Instagram: @kaytherebelEmail: [email protected]
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