Untidy Faith
by Kate Boyd
Transforming faith after fractureThe Untidy Faith podcast is where we have honest conversations and gentle encouragement for when following Jesus gets messy.Join your host, Kate Boyd - author, speaker, and gentle guide for Christians who are disentangling their faith from culture, rebuilding their relationship with Scripture, and desiring to find joy in following Jesus again - each week to find your life and faith after deconstruction. kateboyd.substack.com
Episodes
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KJ Ramsey | Joy That Doesn't Require Your Life to Get Better
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with KJ Ramsey, trauma therapist and author of The Place Between Our Pains, for a conversation about what happens when the faith language you’ve published books about stops working—and why joy might still be available in the middle of a...
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Kat Armas | How Colonialism Shaped What You Believe About God
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Kat Armas for a conversation about what “empire” actually means once you strip away the buzzword—and why decolonizing your bookshelf and diversifying it are not the same project. Topics Covered * How empire shifted from a ruler over his...
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Anna Rollins | Purity Culture and Diet Culture Taught You the Same Thing
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Anna Rollins, author of Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a “Good Girl,” for a conversation about the shared script underneath purity culture and diet culture—and why knowing the promise is false doesn’t make it stop working on...
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Kristin Mockler Young | Why Certainty Isn't Faith
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Kristin Mockler Young, author of The Other Side of Certainty, for a conversation about what certainty is actually doing for us—and why the thing we were handed as faith might have been a tool for detachment all along. Topics Covered *…
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Tyler Hill | From Original Sin to Original Goodness
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Tyler Hill for a conversation about what changes when you start your story with belovedness instead of brokenness—and why the exhaustion so many of us carry comes from chasing something we’ve had in our pocket the whole time. Topics...
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Kristel Acevedo | Atonement Beyond Transaction
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Kristel Acevedo, author of Liberated at the Cross, for a conversation about what we lose when the cross gets flattened into a single transaction—and why a theology that has been used to justify suffering, silence, and submission might...
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God is a Mother Too | Elizabeth Berget
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Elizabeth Berget, author of Love Like a Mother, for a conversation about what happens when we take maternal metaphors for God as seriously as paternal ones—and why the church’s exclusion of feminine language for God isn’t just...
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Celeste Irwin | Trans and Christian
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Celeste Irwin for an honest conversation about what it’s like to be trans in Christian spaces—from childhood shame over “transy thoughts” with no language for them, to losing every friend when coming out, to discovering that transition...
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Alisha Roth | Christians and Divorce
Join me and Alisha Roth for a honest conversation about what it takes to leave a marriage when you’ve done everything “right”—the Christian college, the missionary training, the four daughters—and why the church’s fear and control around divorce leaves women trapped in unsafe situations. Topics...
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Why is Christian Art so Bad? | I Read Something Bad
Join us for this podcast crossover episode! I’m bringing you our I Read Something Bad discussion about bad Christian art. If you’re into spicy fantasy books and spiritual formation, check out I Read Something Bad Podcast biweekly! Today your Matron Saints of Spice are tackling the...
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Matt Matson | Practicing vs Performing
In this episode … Topics Covered * Understanding the difference between performance and presence * How busyness and transactional living keeps us from noticing sacredness, but the deeper barrier is internal fear—not of other people but of what we might reveal if we stopped performing and showed…
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Shannan Martin | Balancing the World's Heaviness
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Shannan Martin, author of Counterweights, for a grounding conversation about how her dad’s blue-collar farm wisdom—”carry something equally heavy in the other hand”—became a daily practice for staying upright in a world that feels...
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Joash Thomas | Colonized Christianity
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, I sit down with Joash Thomas, author of The Justice of Jesus, for a conversation about how colonization shaped Western Christianity to resist justice, and what recovering our authentic identities—indigenous, spiritual, and human—has to do with…
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Marissa Burt & Kelsey Kramer McGinnis | The Parenting Prosperity Gospel
In this episode, I sit down with Marissa Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis, authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting, for a sobering conversation about how the Christian parenting industry sold families impossible promises wrapped in biblical authority. Critiquing parenting books is…
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Zach Lambert | Rehabbing your relationship with the Bible
In this episode, I sit down with Zach Lambert, author of Better Ways to Read the Bible, for an honest conversation about how to read the Bible in ways that bring life instead of harm. This isn’t just about finding better interpretations—it’s about recognizing how literalism, apocalypticism,...
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Jared Stacy | Conspiracy Thinking in American Evangelicalism
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Jared Stacy, author of the forthcoming book Reality in Ruins, for a nuanced conversation about why conspiracy theories have become so pervasive in evangelical Christianity and what the church can do about it. This isn’t just...
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2 Samuel 23 & 24 | Are we great yet?
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd wraps up the year-and-a-half journey through 2 Samuel with returning guests Jenai Auman and Liz Daye, examining chapters 23-24—David’s self-congratulatory final words followed by a devastating census that reveals how little he’s actually...
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Beth Allison Barr | Becoming the Pastor's Wife
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Dr. Beth Allison Barr, historian and author of The Making of Biblical Womanhood and Becoming the Pastor’s Wife, for a fascinating conversation about how the role of pastor’s wife has functioned to limit women’s leadership in…
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2 Samuel 21 & 22 | When Victors Write the History
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd, Jenai Auman, and Liz Daye continue their exploration of 2 Samuel, examining chapters 21-22—a jarring collection of appendices that reveal David’s legacy through violence, political maneuvering, and self-congratulatory poetry. This isn’t a...
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Hidden Grief of Deconstruction | Mandy Capehart
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Mandy Capehart, author of Restorative Grief, for an intimate conversation about how faith deconstruction is actually a complex grief process that affects every dimension of our lives. This isn't just about changing your...
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2 Samuel 20 | The god of Christian nationalism
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, we continue our deep dive into 2 Samuel with Kate Boyd, Jenai Auman, and Liz Daye — examining chapter 20 and its stark contrasts between violence and peacemaking, power and wisdom. This isn't just ancient history—it's a cautionary tale about what…
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Embodied Faith Beyond Evangelicalism | Rohadi Nagassar
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Rohadi, author of When We Belong, for a provocative conversation about the difference between progressive Christianity and truly decolonized faith. This isn't about finding a more liberal church or updating your theology—it's...
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The Desert Fathers and Mother | Lisa Colon Delay
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Lisa Colon DeLay, author of The Way of the Desert Elders, for an illuminating conversation about ancient Christian wisdom that speaks directly to modern faith struggles. This isn't just church history—it's a roadmap for...
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2 Samuel 19 | Split Loyalty
In 2 Samuel 19, we witness David's complicated return to power after Absalom's death—a chapter that reveals the messy intersection of grief, politics, and justice. Through three pivotal encounters on his journey back to Jerusalem, we see how David's approach to leadership prioritizes political...
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Money, Power, and Faith | Malcolm Foley
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, Kate Boyd sits down with Rev. Dr. Malcolm Foley, author of The Anti-Greed Gospel, for a bold conversation about money, power, and faith that most churches avoid. This is about more than stewardship. It's a prophetic call to reimagine what Christian...
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Julia Rocchi | Asking Better Spiritual Questions
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd sits down with Julia Rocchi to explore how design thinking principles can transform our approach to spiritual questioning. Julia, a practicing Roman Catholic with expertise in design thinking and facilitation, shares how asking better...
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Sharifa Stevens | Honest Prayer
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd welcomes back guest Sharifa Stevens to discuss her new book about prayer and poems. Their conversation explores how many Christians struggle with barriers to authentic prayer, often feeling they must approach God in a "perfect" way....
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2 Samuel 18 | The Tragic End of Absalom
In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most bizarre and tragic chapters in the David narrative - the death of Absalom. Set against the backdrop of a father-son civil war, 2 Samuel 18 tells the surreal story of Absalom getting caught in a tree while riding a mule, and Joab's brutal decision...
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Liz Charlotte Grant | Reclaiming Scripture After Evangelical Upbringing
Join Kate and Liz Charlotte Grant as they explore how to approach Scripture when traditional, literal interpretations no longer serve believers who are deconstructing or reframing their faith. Grant shares her journey of finding new ways to engage with biblical texts through literary analysis,...
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Jennifer G. Layte | The Pilgrimage of Faith
In this enlightening episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd sits down with Jennifer Layte to explore the concept of stages of faith. Despite many Christians being taught that faith is static or linear, Jennifer shares insights from both James Fowler's modern framework and Teresa of...
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MaryB. Safrit | Learning to Belong
In this episode of Untidy Faith, we dive into a thoughtful conversation with MaryB. Safrit about the valuable perspectives and insights that LGBTQ+ Christians bring to faith communities. MaryB. shares her personal journey and wisdom on how straight Christians can learn from queer believers to...
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2 Samuel 17 | The Cycle of Violence
Join us as we dive into 2 Samuel 17, examining the complex power dynamics between Absalom and David, the manipulative counsel given by advisors, and the troubling absence of God's voice amid human schemes for revenge and power. Topics Covered: * The contrast between Ahithophel and Hushai's advice...
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Self Care and Communal Flourishing
In this episode, Tiffany Bluhm returns to the Untidy Faith Podcast to help us reframe self-care as an essential component of both personal wholeness and communal flourishing. Moving beyond the commercialized wellness industry, Tiffany offers a powerful perspective on how caring for ourselves in a...
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Reading Scripture with the Wesleyan Quadrilateral
In this episode, Kate explores the Wesleyan Quadrilateral as a valuable framework for reading and interpreting scripture. This approach offers a more balanced and holistic way to engage with the Bible, especially for those who are deconstructing or reconstructing their faith. Kate shares how this...
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White Supremacy in Deconstruction Spaces
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd is joined by Trey Ferguson and Robert Monson from the Three Black Men crew for a thoughtful conversation about white supremacy in deconstruction spaces. They explore how patterns of white supremacy continue to manifest even after people...
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2 Samuel 16 | Empire Business
Content Warning: Sexual assault, violence Power, betrayal, and justice collide as David’s reign looks like it’s unraveling, and as he grasps for allies, we see just how far some will go to keep what they believe to be theirs. Join us to explore how systems of power perpetuate cycles of harm — as…
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Erin Moon | Dealing with Doubt and Holding onto Hope
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd welcomes Erin Moon, a writer, podcaster, and storyteller, to discuss the nuances of faith, doubt, and the many questions that arise along the journey. They explore why many feel uncomfortable expressing doubts about their faith and…
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What are God's pronouns?
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd delves into the nuanced and often controversial topic of pronouns for God. Addressing the limitations and constraints of language, Kate explores how our choice of words and metaphors shape our understanding of God. She makes a compelling...
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Jonny Morrison | Does your "good news" pass the vibe check?
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd dives into an in-depth conversation with Jonny Morrison, co-lead pastor at Missio Dei in Salt Lake City and author of 'Prodigal Gospel.' They discuss the complexity of understanding the gospel, reflecting on how traditional narratives...
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2 Samuel 15 | Which King Do We Serve?
In this episode, we dissect the political and familial intricacies of Absalom's coup against his father, King David -- shedding light on the manipulation, subterfuge, and fractured relationships that underpin this biblical narrative. Then we discuss the ethical implications of David's actions…
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Pricelis Perreaux-Dominguez | Trauma-Informed Church
In this episodes we discuss ... integrating trauma-informed care in church practices unlearning toxic patterns creating safe faith spaces the biblical literacy epidemic how individuals and churches can transform to better serve their communities Pricelis Perreaux-Dominguez (MSW, MSEd) is a...
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Prophecy: Future Telling or Truth Telling?
Join me to explore the true nature of biblical prophecy and challenge the common dispensationalist view of prophecy as future telling. Through examples from the Hebrew Bible and Revelation, we will see how prophecy focuses on calling people back to God's covenant and priorities, offering...
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Dr. Camden Morgante | The Trauma of Purity Culture
Listen in for a discussion with Dr. Camden Morgante about the harmful myths of purity culture, its lasting impact, and how to heal from the associated shame and trauma. They also explore ways to create healthier conversations around sexuality for the next generation. Dr. Camden Morgante is a...
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For the Heretics and Apostates (And Whatever Else They Call You)
There's nothing like saying you're deconstructing to get people to call you all kinds of things -- heretic, apostate, false teacher. But I find these are easy "insults" with few who use them actually applying them correctly. So join me in this episode for ... clear definitions of orthodoxy,...
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2 Samuel 14 | Living From a Father Wound
Join us as we jump into 2 Samuel 14 to discuss ... the chaos within King David's monarchy the parables used to confront him (and David's staggering lack of self-awareness) how deeply unresolved wounds can affect one's actions and leadership the ways we have seen choosing leaders botched in…
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The Women in Jesus's Genealogy and God's Heart for Justice
In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, we take a little dive into the lives of the women in Jesus's genealogy and the powerful lessons they impart. We talk ... Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba, and Mary and their extraordinary faithfulness and how they embodied God's priorities the importance…
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A Covenant Keeping God
Join me to dive into the concept of 'Covenant' in the Bible, explaining its importance in understanding the Hebrew Bible and its narratives. What you'll learn ... - How God chose to engage in relationship with Israel - Common elements of covenants - The 5 covenants in the Bible - Why…
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Chris Morris | Harmful Ideas on Mental Health
In this episode, you will ... uncover the realities of dealing with depression and anxiety within the church learn how mental illness shows up in Scripture recognize the misconceptions and harmful messages propagated explore holistic approaches to mental health that embrace both spiritual and...
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How to Avoid Bad Theology
When we're in the midst of deconstructing our faith and reworking our beliefs, it becomes hard to know what ideas to land on. In today's episode, we will discuss how to rethink our theology well. You'll hear ... - how our theology shapes our life (and vice versa) - the one thing we must AVOID in...
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2 Samuel 13 | How Generational Sin is Passed Down
In 2 Samuel 13, we see David's bad habits being handed down to his children in more ways than one ... and we see how many in the church react to scandal and moral failure in a faulty way. Listen in as we discuss ... How David's sins came back to haunt him What David valued (and how it speaks to…
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Transforming faith after fractureThe Untidy Faith podcast is where we have honest conversations and gentle encouragement for when following Jesus gets messy.Join your host, Kate Boyd - author, speaker, and gentle guide for Christians who are disentangling their faith from culture, rebuilding their relationship with Scripture, and desiring to find joy in following Jesus again - each week to find your life and faith after deconstruction.
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