Vagina Whispering

This one’s a little extra woo-woo—and also deeply human.A real conversation about loving someone who may be nearing the end of their life, and the emotions that come with it.We talk about the question “Did I do enough?”, what it means to be present when you can’t fix anything, and how love shows up in those moments.Take the intuitive parts however they land for you. At its core, this is about connection, vulnerability, and being there when it matters.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

What if one of the most freeing realizations is that… no one is actually paying that much attention to you?In this episode, we explore self-image, aging, and the pressure to look or be a certain way—and how much of that pressure is actually internal.From makeup and confidence to body image and self-talk, this conversation looks at how we relate to ourselves and how we can begin to soften that relationship.We also explore: Why we assume others are judging us  How aging changes self-perception  The difference between self-expression and seeking approval  Letting go of perfection and embracing authenticity  Finding peace in discomfort (yin yoga and beyond) A grounded, honest conversation about learning to feel more comfortable in your own skin—without needing to be perfect.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode of Vagina Whispering, we have a wide-ranging, deeply honest conversation about listening to the body—physically, emotionally, and energetically.We talk about creativity as medicine, perimenopause and depression, guilt around rest and money, the consciousness of the body, and how naming what we feel can begin to loosen its grip. We explore past-life memory, grief held in the land, caring for ourselves from the inside out, and what it means to “begin again” without shame.This is not a polished or prescriptive conversation—it’s a real one. A reminder that our bodies are not problems to fix, but allies that carry wisdom, memory, and compassion.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Is he a “bad man”… or just honest about sex?A real conversation about desire, rejection, and what happens when sexual needs don’t match—especially in the context of low libido, pain, and long-term relationships.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

This episode of Vagina Whispering is a candid, wide-ranging conversation about life, relationships, and the process of becoming more honest with yourself over time.We move between humor and reflection as we talk about aging, communication, anger, intimacy, and the everyday moments that shape how we feel about ourselves and our lives.This isn’t a structured or polished discussion—it’s real, honest, and evolving.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode of Vagina Whispering, we have a wide-ranging, deeply honest conversation about listening to the body—physically, emotionally, and energetically.We talk about creativity as medicine, perimenopause and depression, guilt around rest and money, the consciousness of the body, and how naming what we feel can begin to loosen its grip. We explore past-life memory, grief held in the land, caring for ourselves from the inside out, and what it means to “begin again” without shame.This is not a polished or prescriptive conversation—it’s a real one. A reminder that our bodies are not problems to fix, but allies that carry wisdom, memory, and compassion.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In Part 1 of this two-part Vagina Whispering conversation, we talk honestly—and with humor—about what it’s actually like to live in a body after everything.This episode includes real, unfiltered stories about:Mammograms and body languageBeing naked, vulnerable, and unashamed in a locker roomLiving with a post-cancer body and a “shrinky-dink” boobWhat colon hydrotherapy is really like (including the magic wand part)The unexpected appearance of a Barbie shoe—and what that says about bodies holding storiesThis is not medical advice. It is a deeply human conversation about embodiment, curiosity, and letting the body be what it is—without shame, polish, or pretending.You can check out Grace Goldsher's (the colon hydrotherapy practitioner Noelle worked with) at www.sandiegocolonhydrotherapy.com or call her at 858-733-0326🎧 This is Part 1 of 2.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life.In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort episode of Vagina Whispering, Noelle and Jen cover everything from colon hydrotherapy and “don’t trust a fart” moments… to vaginal dryness, painful sex, sex after breast cancer, and whether your loved ones in spirit are actually watching you in the bathroom or bedroom.We dive into:🚽 What really happens in a colonic (and why you might want a Depends for the drive home)💩 Chronic constipation, vegan pooping superpowers, and how chewing + fiber + water change everything😬 Braces, digestion, swallowing half-chewed food, and why it messes with your gut🌵 Vaginal dryness — moisturizers, lube, toys, dilators, and “use it or lose it” truth bombs🩺 Sex after cancer & breast cancer — pain, partners who panic, partners who get it, and how to feel safe again💞 Intimacy without penetration — how honesty, trying together, and vulnerability deepen connection🔮 Mediumship & sex — setting spiritual boundaries, calling in support, and who’s actually “in the room”This is a safe, non-judgmental space to laugh, cry, snort, learn, and remember that your body is not the enemy — and your pleasure is still absolutely worth fighting for.💌 Questions or guest ideas?Email us at [email protected]🔔 If this episode supports you, please subscribe, rate the show, or share with a friend who’s navigating body changes, cancer recovery, or intimacy challenges.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life.In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort episode of Vagina Whispering, Noelle and Jen cover everything from colon hydrotherapy and “don’t trust a fart” moments… to vaginal dryness, painful sex, sex after breast cancer, and whether your loved ones in spirit are actually watching you in the bathroom or bedroom.We dive into:🚽 What really happens in a colonic (and why you might want a Depends for the drive home)💩 Chronic constipation, vegan pooping superpowers, and how chewing + fiber + water change everything😬 Braces, digestion, swallowing half-chewed food, and why it messes with your gut🌵 Vaginal dryness — moisturizers, lube, toys, dilators, and “use it or lose it” truth bombs🩺 Sex after cancer & breast cancer — pain, partners who panic, partners who get it, and how to feel safe again💞 Intimacy without penetration — how honesty, trying together, and vulnerability deepen connection🔮 Mediumship & sex — setting spiritual boundaries, calling in support, and who’s actually “in the room”This is a safe, non-judgmental space to laugh, cry, snort, learn, and remember that your body is not the enemy — and your pleasure is still absolutely worth fighting for.💌 Questions or guest ideas? Email us at [email protected]🔔 If this episode supports you, please subscribe, rate the show, or share with a friend who’s navigating body changes, cancer recovery, or intimacy challenges.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle talk about realizing the ruts that are easy to fall into within long term relationships and being open to new things including thinking about how to Spice Ourselves up and using baby steps to do make changes. Perimenopause and medication related hormone changes are talked about and how it feels on the inside.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle catch up about hormonal, seasonal and other changes, the mixed feelings of being uncomfortable in your own body and smarter ways to communicate about that. A lovely message from Jen's Spirit Guide comes through with words of affirmation including "Enjoyment (of the season of life you are in) is in the meaning."Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle talk about possible past/parallel life impacting today including choices, decisions and growing past being stuck and bringing your energy with you. Jen shares about a Shamanic visit with her recently departed dad. Lots of vulnerability and some genuine laughs. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen shares about how getting braces has impacted her. Noelle talked about some of her own self-consciousness that is coming up at this time. Both look for ways to outgrow self-consciousness and do things to feel good now.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer, really graces us with her presence, wisdom and passion for teaching women about their vaginas, pelvic floor needs and so much more. Her book, FLOORED: A Complete Guide to Women’s Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage is her first book, is available through Amazon and will start shipping on June 10th. Here is the link: https://a.co/d/[email protected] on IG@thevagwhisperer on TikTokwww.thevagwhisperer.comInstagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle interview Maria, an intuitive medium, looking for more connection and communication with her body. Lots of metaphors, loving suggestions, humor, a bit of snark and lots of info to get back to be more fully alive and integrated. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ourselves and that "pleasure is the fuel for your productivity." She brings in BDSM principles, conscious kink, TAG (trauma informed training) and much much more. Whitni hosts the Podcast 🌈 "Own Your Pleasure." She shares tips and ideas on her various platforms such as Instagram (bde.moves) and TikTok. Whitni offers many resources on her website and through: Patreon.com/bdemoves (self-guided intimacy coaching)You can learn more about Whitni through her website: https://www.bde-moves.com/ including how to work with her individually and more about her 12 week Deep Intimacy Program and Queer Couples Costa Rica Retreat in January 2026. You can also email her: [email protected]: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ourselves and that "pleasure is the fuel for your productivity." She brings in BDSM principles, conscious kink, TAG (trauma informed training) and much much more. Whitni hosts the Podcast 🌈 "Own Your Pleasure." She shares tips and ideas on her various platforms such as Instagram (bde.moves) and TikTok. Whitni offers many resources on her website and through: Patreon.com/bdemoves (self-guided intimacy coaching)Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Francoise Ginsberg, Tantra teacher for 40 years joins Jen and Noelle to share about the deeper meaning behind Tantra being the idea of expansion. She also talks about different ways to connect using the principles of acceptance and connection with one's own body, surrender being key to pleasure, alchemy versus chemistry and what men and women need to be healthy and connected. Francoise Ginsberg is available for private sessions as well to individuals and couples. You can learn more about Francoise on her website: https://tantrafg.com/ She can also be reached her through: [email protected] or 858-531-1028.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Timeless classic, The Five Love Languages, is broken down and applied with the help of Jen, Noelle and ChatGPT. As always, honesty, humor, friendship and caring as we talk about tending to the relationships in our lives. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Timeless classic, The Five Love Languages, is broken down and applied with the help of Jen, Noelle and ChatGPT. As always, honesty, humor, friendship and caring as we talk about tending to the relationships in our lives. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle talk about different ways of connecting including their recent in-person meeting, the biggest lesson from Jen's daughter, Teal's intense sensory therapy and how a non-verbal/verbal-ish person got Noelle to bring her pear sauce.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle start out just catching up and launch into the episode. Growing through the habit of avoidance and neglecting certain areas of our lives. "I treated my vagina like a good bag of weed - like 'hey you want some'."Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Jen and Noelle start out just catching up and launch into the episode. Growing through the habit of avoidance and neglecting certain areas of our lives. "I treated my vagina like a good bag of weed - like 'hey you want some'."Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Using "You Can Heal Your Body" as a guide, Jen and Noelle dive into some of Louise Hay's insights and suggestions. They focus on learning the core emotion behind some of their issues with female body parts. And of course, some giggling about anuses. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

First Vagina reading recipient and empowered badass, Brittany, shares about her personal journey of self-healing, attuning herself being able to listen to the hum of her body. She received updated vagina readings from Jen and Noelle to hear about her own progress and to gain more insight. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In today's episode, Jen and Noelle do their 1st live vagina reading with recipient and empowered badass, Brittany, who shares about her personal journey of self-healing, attuning, and being able to listen to the hum of her body. She received updated vagina readings from Jen and Noelle to learn about her own progress and to gain more insight. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Today, Noelle and Jen chat about the very important role meditation plays in allowing us to be more connected with self, the frustration of UTI’s post-sex, and the best ways to generate self-compassion. What's super fun is Jen’s dad, who recently passed away, pops in to offer some very kind words to Jen!!!  This brings lots of extra juice to this episode...and tears!And don't miss out, Jen and Noelle are offering 2 FREE Vagina readings our  listeners.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Vicki Grove, EMDR trained MFT, talks with Jen and Noelle today about being comfortable with your own body, talking with kids and adults about body parts, sexual trauma and its many effects, energetic orgasms, and SO MUCH MORE. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Noelle shares a message that came through from her grandmother in spirit, centered on honoring the path you’ve walked.The conversation explores themes of resilience, growth, and finding meaning in both the challenges and the beauty of life. It offers a reflective perspective on how our experiences shape us and how we can begin to appreciate the full scope of our journey.A heartfelt and meaningful episode about connection, perspective, and honoring where you’ve been.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Jen and Noelle explore fantasy, vulnerability, and the process of making real progress in personal growth.They discuss how fantasy can sometimes serve as a form of avoidance, creating distance from what is actually happening in your life and relationships. The conversation also includes Noelle’s experience of listening more deeply to her body and inner guidance, and what it means to follow that toward healing.A thoughtful look at choosing honesty, presence, and vulnerability as part of growth.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

Juan Angel, Marriage and Family Therapist, joins Jen and Noelle to explore relationships, attachment styles, and the patterns that influence how we connect with others.They discuss conflict, adaptability, and how couples can work through challenges by better understanding themselves and their partners. This conversation highlights the importance of awareness, communication, and normalizing the difficulties that can arise in relationships.You can reach Juan Angel, MFT at JuanAngeltherapy.com or intuitivecounseling.orgInstagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Jen and Noelle explore the experience of perimenopause, including the physical, emotional, and mental shifts that can arise.They discuss the confusion around changing hormones, the impact on mood and identity, and how difficult it can be to recognize what’s happening in your body when things start to feel unfamiliar. This conversation brings both honesty and humor to a stage of life that is often misunderstood or overlooked.A relatable look at navigating change and building awareness during hormonal transitions.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Noelle shares openly about her experiences in her mid-20s, reflecting on both her sexual history and the development of her intuitive and psychic awareness.She discusses shame, personal responsibility, and the lessons that shaped her ethics, boundaries, and integrity. This conversation highlights how past experiences—especially the ones we may struggle with—can become meaningful foundations for growth and alignment.A candid and reflective look at learning through experience and becoming more grounded in who you are.oy!Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Jen and Noelle explore their experiences of losing their virginity, including what influenced those moments and what they remember—or don’t—about them.They discuss social and cultural pressures around sex, the role of messaging and expectations, and how early sexual experiences can shape identity, self-worth, and connection. The conversation also touches on sexual trauma and the process of reclaiming ownership of yourself and your body.Honest, reflective, and at times challenging, this episode opens space for deeper awareness and personal truth.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Jen and Noelle dive into timing, growth, and what happens when new awareness changes you in ways you can’t undo. Once you learn something—about yourself, your relationships, or your sexuality—you can’t unlearn it.They explore the “point of no return” in personal growth, where insight creates both expansion and discomfort. This conversation looks at what it means to keep evolving, even when it challenges what once felt normal or familiar.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

In this episode, Noelle and Jen share why they named the podcast Vagina Whispering—and why it’s intentionally not “Vagina Whisperer.” This conversation centers on self-connection, personal agency, and the idea that you are your own “vagina whisperer.”They also explore a playful and intuitive moment where Jen connects energetically and shares messages that came through for Noelle. Light, curious, and a little woo-woo—while still meaningful.Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F

 In this first episode of Vagina Whispering, Jen and Noelle share why they created a podcast about women’s sexuality, intimacy, orgasms, and how these conversations evolve as women mature.A candid starting point for exploring connection, desire, and honest conversations about the body. Instagram: @VaginaWhisperingEmail Jen and Noelle at [email protected]: www.VaginaWhispering.comDisclaimer:While Noelle Deane is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the state of California, she does not provide any psychotherapy or other licensed health care services as the host. Any action you take based on the information contained herein is strictly at your own risk. Please refer to the Podcast disclaimer in the show notes for further information.  Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/corals/blossomLicense code: WUMBPOWTLJJPNZ0F