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Work it, Live it, Own it!
by SaCola Lehr
Are you tired of the constant pressure to hustle harder, to be a "Boss Babe," to rise and grind until you burn out? Do you feel like you're stuck on a treadmill, chasing a version of success that doesn't feel like your own, while your personal life, passions, and well-being take a back seat? If you're a woman who is ready to say "no more" to burnout and "yes" to a life of authentic achievement and joy, you're in the right place. Welcome to Work it, Live it, Own it!, the podcast for women who are done with sacrificing their sanity for success. This is your home for finding work-life harmony. Join your host and work-life harmony strategist, SaCola Lehr, as we dive into practical, real-world concerns and strategies to help you: Rediscover Your Priorities: Get clear on what you truly want in your career and life, not what you've been told you should want. •Truly Rejuvenate: Learn sustainable practices for restoring your energy that go far b
Episodes
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Why You’re So Tired: The Mental Load You Carry Without Realizing It
Why can you feel completely depleted even when your visible to-do list does not look that long? In this episode, SaCola Lehr names the invisible load: the mental, physical, and emotional work of remembering, anticipating, coordinating, caring, and following through. You will learn why capacity is...
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You've Set a Boundary. So Why Do You Feel So Bad?
Have you ever set a healthy boundary, said no to the extra request, protected your time, or closed your laptop, and then spent the next few hours feeling guilty anyway? In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, SaCola Lehr sits down with Dr. Kim Foster, a former family physician, TEDx…
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When Asking for Help Suddenly Feels Like a Mistake
Have you ever asked for help, set a reasonable boundary, or admitted that you could not take on one more thing, and then immediately wanted to take it back? You may replay the conversation, question your tone, draft an apology, or feel compelled to prove that you can still handle everything. That...
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Feeling Unsupported? Who Do You Rely On?
The stronger you look on the outside, the more isolated you become on the inside. When you are everyone else's rock, who is yours? True brilliance requires genuine connection. SaCola Lehr tackles a truth about leadership and high achievement that is rarely spoken out loud: the stronger you look…
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When the Show Must Go On & So Must You
SaCola Lehr sits down with Nick Strand, keynote speaker, author, and resilience expert, who spent twenty years building world-class stages for Beyoncé, Taylor Swift, and Stevie Wonder zero-margin environments where thousands of people are watching and there is no fallback plan. What the crowd…
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Beyond Survival Mode: How to Pause Without Guilt
Episode Summary: In this powerful bonus episode, SaCola Lehr tackles the pervasive "Guilt of the Pause", the feeling that rest must be earned, not simply taken. She challenges the "rise and grind" mentality, revealing how it sabotages our brilliance and leads to burnout. SaCola shares a personal...
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When Your Body Says "Enough": Burnout Warning Signs & What to Do Next
Are you ignoring your body's warning signs in the name of "hustle"? In this bonus mini-episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, SaCola Lehr gets incredibly honest about the dangerous reality of survival mode. Society rewards women who can "do it all," conditioning us to view exhaustion and brain fog...
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You Know How to Succeed, but Do You Know How to Rest?
Are you exhausted from optimizing your rest? Discover why high-achieving women struggle to truly rest and how to reclaim genuine restoration without guilt. Rest is not a reward for exhaustion. It is a requirement for brilliance. If you are treating rest like a metric to conquer, or a luxury you...
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Running on Empty: How to Tell Your Loved Ones Without the Fight
If you listened to our main episode, "The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One," you know that functioning while depleted is a survival strategy. But here is the hardest part about taking off that mask: when you have spent years making it look easy, your sudden need for help can feel to the people...
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The Hidden Cost of Being the "Strong One"
Are you the go-to person at work, the anchor for your family, and the sounding board for your friends? Being the "strong one" is often praised as a personality trait, but in reality, it is a survival strategy. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, work-life harmony strategist SaCola Lehr...
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How to Shut Down the Questions You're Tired of Answering
Caring about someone and being entitled to their life plan are two entirely different things. In this bonus episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, we are taking the concept of society's timeline out of the abstract and into the real world—specifically, the family dinners and school pickup lines...
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How to Stop Living on Someone Else's Timeline
You are not behind. You are on someone else's timeline. And those are two very different problems. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, we are dismantling the invisible schedule that tells you when you should be promoted, when you should have children, when you should have it all figured...
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When Your Partner Doesn't Get Why You're Unhappy: How to Talk About it Without Pushing Them Away
Have you ever felt like you're speaking a completely different language from your partner? You're going through this huge internal shift, realizing that the successful life you've built together feels... empty. But when you try to share this vulnerable feeling, you're met with a blank stare,...
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The Hidden Pain of a Picture Perfect Life
In this episode of "Work It, Live It, Own It," SaCola Lehr discusses the concept of the success paradox, where individuals may feel empty despite achieving societal-defined success. She explains that this paradox occurs when people have followed a prescribed script for success but now need to...
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Be the Hero of Your Work Day by Resisting the Overdelivering Trap
If you feel like your hard work is only rewarded with more work, and you're tired of feeling drained and resentful, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to reclaim your time and energy. You'll learn how to break free from the cycle of overdelivering and start building a career and…
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Mindset to Movement: Execute with Purpose
SaCola sits down with Dr. JaNee' Mobley, a wife, mother, coach, and strategist, who rebuilt her life after homelessness, repossession, financial collapse, and public assistance. With vulnerability and strength, Dr. JaNee' Mobley shares how she turned her lowest moment into a launching pad by...
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Break the Burnout Cycle: Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Time
In this final episode of the Suck it Up, Go-it-Alone series, SaCola Lehr addresses the hidden dangers and immense challenges of excessive self-reliance and the habit of 'sucking it up' alone. She revisits three key energy drainers: fear of confrontation, misguided optimism, and persistent...
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84: The Myth of Constant Availability: Why Being "Always On" is Burning You Out
The Myth of Constant Availability: Why Being "Always On" is Burning You Out In this powerful fourth installment of the "Suck It Up, Go It Alone" series, Work-Life Harmony Strategist SaCola Lehr dives deep into a subtle, yet deeply damaging habit: persistent availability. We live in a world of...
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83: Why Trying Harder Isn’t Working (Misguided Optimism)
In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it! we explore the hidden trap of misguided optimism, that well-meaning belief that if you just try harder, others will notice, help, or finally step up. Spoiler alert: that pattern drains your energy and feeds burnout. Host SaCola Lehr breaks down how...
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82: Can the Fear of Confrontation Drain You Emotionally?
Have you ever walked away from a conversation wishing you’d spoken up — but instead, you stayed silent to avoid conflict? You’re not alone. For so many sandwich generation women, the fear of confrontation quietly drains energy at work, at home, and in caregiving roles. In this episode of Work it,...
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81: Why Suffering in Silence is Holding You Back
In this episode of "Work It, Live It, Own It," host SaCola Lehr delves into the hidden costs of the 'suck it up' mentality. Discover how this mindset, often mistaken for strength, leads to burnout, resentment, and silence. SaCola shares personal insights and practical strategies to break free…
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80: The Nutrition Reset: Boost Energy, Beat Burnout with Alana Bonnemann
The Nutrition Reset: Boost Energy, Beat Burnout: Simple Food Shifts for Women Ready to Feel Like Themselves Again Tired of feeling exhausted, foggy, and stressed—even after a full night’s sleep? The solution might be closer than you think… on your plate. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own...
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79: Can You Really Have It All? Harmony, Trade-offs, and Timing That Works
If you’ve been chasing work-life balance and feeling like you’re failing, you’re not alone. Here’s the truth: balance is a myth. And the more you chase it, the more stressed and guilty you’ll feel. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, SaCola Lehr is breaking down why balance doesn’t...
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78: What to Do When You Think Your Best Isn’t Enough
Do you ever feel like you’re giving your all—and it still isn’t enough? You’re showing up, working hard, doing everything “right,” and yet you feel like you’re falling short. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, we’re getting real about those...
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77: True Friendship vs. Fake Support: How to Build a Circle That Lifts You Higher
Are the people in your life lifting you up — or quietly weighing you down? In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It, we’re diving deep into the power of true friendship and what it really means to build a supportive, purpose-aligned community. Whether you’re navigating workplace drama, feeling...
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76: Why We Turn to Alcohol: The Hidden Emotional Triggers Behind Drinking to Cope
Are you reaching for a drink to relax… or to escape? In this powerful episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, we dive deep into the emotional triggers behind alcohol use with special guest Gina Kunadian—a TEDx speaker and women’s alcohol-free sobriety coach. If you’re a high-functioning woman...
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75: The Courage to Change: How to Grow Even When It Hurts
Are you standing at the edge of a new chapter, torn between who you were and who you’re becoming? This episode of Work it. Live it. Own it. explores the raw emotional journey of change—what it means to lead yourself through evolution when it’s uncomfortable, lonely, and misunderstood by others....
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74: Navigating the "Messy Middle" with Sabine Gedeon
Have you ever felt stuck between where you started and where you're trying to go? That space—full of uncertainty, discomfort, and growth—is what today’s guest, Sabine Gedeon, calls the “messy middle.” In this empowering episode, we explore what it really takes to navigate the in-between moments…
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73: What to Do When Caring for Everyone Else Leaves You Empty
Are you a woman constantly pouring into others—whether you're raising kids, caring for aging parents, or supporting extended family—and finding yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally drained? In this powerful episode of Work it, Live it, Own it, we explore the hidden cost of caregiving,...
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72: How to Prioritize Yourself Without Feeling Selfish
Do you ever feel guilty when you take time for yourself? You're not alone. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it, we dive into why women often struggle with guilt when they prioritize themselves—and how to finally break free from that cycle. You’ll learn where the guilt really comes from…
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71: Could Lightening Your Mental Load be the Secret to Ending Overwhelm?
Ever feel like your mind is juggling a thousand things and you’re still forgetting something? That’s the invisible mental load — and it’s draining your energy more than you realize. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, we’ll dive deep into what the invisible load really is, why decision...
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70: Your Career Isn't Your Baby - Stop Nurturing it Like One
Do you feel like your job or business is running you instead of the other way around? You’re constantly checking emails, working late, and putting everything else on hold just to keep up. But here’s the truth—your career is not your baby, and treating it like one is leading you straight to…
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69: Are You Battling Hidden Burnout Without Realizing It?
In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It, host SaCola Lehr, a work-life harmony strategist, breaks down the concept of hidden burnout—an overlooked form of exhaustion that affects both men and women, often without clear warning signs. If you’ve ever felt drained despite following common...
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68: Balance or Harmony: Which is the Key to YOUR Success?
Summary In this episode, SaCola Lehr explores the concept of work-life harmony, emphasizing the flaws of the traditional work-life balance model. She discusses the importance of prioritizing oneself and how self-care is essential for maintaining energy and clarity. The conversation shifts to...
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67: Living a Passionate Life with Pamela Thompson
Want to thrive in body, mind, and spirit while living your passion? In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, I’m joined by Pamela Thompson, founder of Female Wave of Change Canada, international consultant, and author of Learning to Dance with Life. Pamela shares her inspiring journey of...
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66: Prioritize Your Needs Without Overwhelm
In this episode, SaCola Lehr discusses the challenges of setting and achieving goals without feeling overwhelmed. She introduces the Three P's Method—Personal, Professional, and People goals—as a framework for prioritizing and managing goals effectively. The conversation emphasizes the importance...
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65: Achieving Harmony in 2025
Start 2025 with intention and grace! In this episode, we discuss how to align your goals with your core values, set SMART objectives for family, business, and self-care, and create a sustainable plan to maintain balance. Learn how to embrace flexibility and thrive in every area of life. SaCola…
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64: Year-End Reset: Finding Clarity & Calm Amid the Chaos
Tune in for actionable tips and inspiration to close out the year feeling grounded and empowered! Are you feeling overwhelmed by the year-end rush? In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, SaCola Lehr shares how to find clarity and calm amid the chaos. Discover how to reflect on the wins of...
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63: Manage Perimenopause Naturally to Boost Your Work-Life Performance with Dana LaVoie
In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it, we're joined by licensed acupuncturist and women’s health expert Dana LaVoie, who has over 16 years of experience helping women navigate perimenopause and menopause with natural remedies. Dana shares insights on how perimenopause symptoms—like brain…
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62: The Surprising Way She Helps Business Owners Own the Spotlight with Linda Ugelow
In this episode, transformational speaking coach Linda Ugelow shares her personal journey from fearing public speaking to embracing it with confidence. Linda dives deep into the roots of public speaking anxiety, exploring how past traumas and experiences can hold people back. She highlights the...
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61: Expert Visionary Coach Shares Top Entrepreneur Survival Tips with KC Cohn
Join me and KC Cohn, visionary coach and founder of House of Vision, as she shares her inspiring journey of overcoming self-doubt and unlocking the power of epiphanies in business. KC explains her holistic coaching approach, blending emotional intelligence with practical strategies to help women...
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60: Embrace the Chaos: Turning Entrepreneurial Fear into Fuel
Hey there, friends! In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It, we’re diving deep into a topic every entrepreneur faces: navigating uncertainty in business. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the unknown, this episode is for you! Today, I'll share why shifting from a mindset of fear to one of...
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59: Get Fired Up, Not Burnt Out
We're discussing actionable strategies to prevent burnout and maintain high energy levels as a business owner. SaCola emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of burnout, setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, pursuing passions outside of work, and continually learning and growing....
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58: Is There Shame in Having a Side Hustle?
Ever wondered how to juggle multiple passions and side ventures successfully? Or have you ever been shamed for your side hustle? Like you don't take it seriously enough? Learn why "side hustle" often carries negative connotations and how to reshape the narrative. Career Fulfillment: Explore how...
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57: Creators Rewriting the Rules to Success with Jermane Cheathem
Summary Jermane Cheathem shares his story of resilience, strategic thinking, and the power of choosing to be a creator rather than a victim in both life and business. He discusses how his early challenges shaped his approach to building a successful life and business. Jermane also talks about his...
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56: The Power of Purpose-Driven Business Marketing with Chase Friedman
Chase Friedman, founder of Vanquish Media Group, shares his insights on integrating social impact with business success. He believes that every business has the ability to do good and do well, and standing up for what you believe in is becoming a necessity in today's marketplace. Chase emphasizes...
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(Preview) Setting Boundaries: In Business & Life with Chase Friedman
In this episode preview, SaCola Lehr asks Chase Friedman of Vanquish Media Group about the setbacks they have faced and the strategies they have used to overcome them. The Chase shares his journey of starting a business, facing challenges, and finding their purpose. They discuss the importance of...
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55: From Professional Athlete to Real Estate Capital Raiser with Igor Shaltanov
Igor Shaltanov, a former professional athlete, discusses the challenges of transitioning from a professional sports career to the real estate industry. Learn about transformative moments and overcoming obstacles in this insightful discussion. Takeaways -Transitioning from a professional sports...
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(Preview) The Mindset and Discipline of a Successful Capital Raiser and Real Estate Investor with Igor Shaltanov
In this episode of the "Work It, Live it, Own it!" podcast, I sit down with Igor Shaltanov, a seasoned capital raiser and real estate investor. He shares his inspiring personal journey of transitioning from a professional athlete to capital raiser, highlighting how his mindset and discipline are...
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54: Living Practically Free: The Power of House Hacking with Jacob Reeves
Jacob Reeves shares his experience with house hacking and how it has allowed him and his wife to live for free by renting out a portion of their home on Airbnb. He provides tips on setting up a space on Airbnb, finding the right property, and managing a rental property. Jacob emphasizes the...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Are you tired of the constant pressure to hustle harder, to be a "Boss Babe," to rise and grind until you burn out? Do you feel like you're stuck on a treadmill, chasing a version of success that doesn't feel like your own, while your personal life, passions, and well-being take a back seat? If you're a woman who is ready to say "no more" to burnout and "yes" to a life of authentic achievement and joy, you're in the right place.
Welcome to Work it, Live it, Own it!, the podcast for women who are done with sacrificing their sanity for success. This is your home for finding work-life harmony. Join your host and work-life harmony strategist, SaCola Lehr, as we dive into practical, real-world concerns and strategies to help you:
Rediscover Your Priorities: Get clear on what you truly want in your career and life, not what you've been told you should want.
•Truly Rejuvenate: Learn sustainable practices for restoring your energy that go far b
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Are you tired of the constant pressure to hustle harder, to be a "Boss Babe," to rise and grind until you burn out? Do you feel like you're stuck on a treadmill, chasing a version of success that doesn't feel like your own, while your personal life, passions, and well-being take a back seat? If...
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