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back from the borderline — 337 episodes

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1

The Intelligence of Madness, Part One: Who Gets Called Insane?

2

Why Your Mind Feels Broken in the Age of Babel

3

Stop Healing Your Inner Child and Shed Your Dead Trauma Skin

4

The missing piece of your soul and the lost technology of Mary Magdalene

5

Why your repetitive trauma cycles are fueling a reality that feeds on you

6

The Internet is Dead and The Goddess is SO Back [April 2026 - Week 1]

7

Being a Young Woman Feels Like Being HUNTED

8

Stop Blaming Yourself for the Mother Wound

9

Why the Elite Rely on Your Spiritual Ignorance

10

How to Sniff Out and Stop Tolerating Bullshit

11

The Loneliness at the End of Manifestation Culture (Part 1)

12

Your Existential Dread is a Completely Rational Response

13

Unbothered & Feral: Astrology & Tarot for March 7 - 14 (2026)

14

AI is a Time Machine: The Vertical Plane, UFOs & The Digital Daimon

15

The Sunday School Psyop: How the Ancient Priests Invented God and Erased His Wife

16

Epstein, Eugenics, and the False Gods of Silicon Valley Buried in the Dirt at Zorro Ranch

17

How to Outsource Your Biggest Problems to Your Intuition

18

The PINK Psyop: Les Wexner, Epstein & The Occult Inversion of the Angel

19

The Machines Are Praying: Moltbook, Gnosticism, & The Digital Mirror

20

Why the Death of TikTok is a Spiritual Crisis

21

Girl on Girl: The Erotic Haunting of Female Friendship

22

Escaping the Trap of Perpetual Girlhood (He’s Not “Avoidant,” You’re Just Bored)

23

why everyone is hot and no one is happy: bodies as product, desire as labor (pt 2)

24

Sex in the Third Person: Why You Leave Your Body to Watch Yourself Perform

25

why everyone is hot and no one is happy: the men women want (part 1)

26

The Voice You’re Using Isn’t Yours

27

The Cool Girl Myth and Trend Culture as Self Abandonment

28

the cassandra curse: feeling “crazy” when you’re actually right

29

why you can’t relax: the 5 survival spells running your life

30

why you’re obsessed with people who can’t love you back

31

nick fuentes and the cult of irony

32

when you’re done being the good daughter

33

how to ACTUALLY stop giving a f**k about what people think of you

34

how AI is rewiring the human psyche

35

the female market, part 2: the cost of freedom

36

the female market, part 1: the price of desire

37

the occult truth about heartbreak

38

the holy grail and the lost wisdom of the west

39

how we all became a little satanic

40

digital scapegoats and the ritual of outrage

41

the unhappy woman: against the cult of calm

42

the age of AI slop and the birth of a new renaissance

43

the magician who invented the modern world: john dee and the lost birth of science

44

the IFS takedown: my unfiltered response to the psych industry’s victory lap

45

the world isn't real (and why that might actually be a good thing)

46

dark enlightenment: the forbidden philosophy behind the tech elite

47

when stillness feels dangerous (hypervigilance as a religion)

48

enchantment in the age of disenchantment w/ dr. teddy hamstra

49

trauma fossils: when survival becomes a ghost in the soul

50

the hidden AI system monitoring your emotional state

51

the alchemy of sleep and how your roots decide what you dream

52

aleister crowley: the man, the myth, the shadow

53

ufo disclosure bombshell [part 2]: why masculine thinking is killing disclosure

54

why i hope we're living in a simulation

55

the ufo disclosure bombshell [part 1]: human trafficking in black programs exposed

56

occult statecraft: how demons, magicians, and intelligence agencies shaped the modern world

57

everything we now call "drugs" used to be how humans touched god

58

anomalies, intuition, and the edge of what we know with jeffrey mishlove, PhD

59

the forgotten codes of love i'll teach my daughter [part 2]

60

the forgotten codes of love i'll teach my daughter [part 1]

61

your pain is real but your suffering is a story

62

why medieval witches and modern alien experiencers are describing the same thing

63

when magick went underground

64

religious trauma and the silent toll on female emotional development (a roundtable with stephanie ann and alyssa grenfell)

65

the 1000-year-old tibetan secret that makes western psychology look like child's play

66

selective spiritual technophobia: why mystics and scientists are both getting AI wrong

67

why shadow work is making you worse

68

meme magic, hot mess eras, and digital disappearance with aiden arata

69

the death of the people-pleaser: how self-abandonment becomes a survival strategy

70

TDC_21: the secret sauce to awakening? paradox.

71

cutting the cord, keeping the thread: how to stop repeating your parents’ coping mechanisms in adult life

72

why age gap relationships aren’t normal: grooming, power, and emotional maturity

73

the emotional cost of always being available (why you’re drowning in unread messages)

74

you can’t domesticate venus: sex, power, and the archetypes running your life with dr. laurence hillman

75

your whole childhood wasn’t bad: the danger of “all-trauma” narratives

76

disordered desire: performing connection, numbing pleasure, forgetting yourself

77

what they're hiding about your mind

78

why psychiatry failed her: laura delano on misdiagnosis, medication, and coming back to life

79

the real reason you’re afraid of the devil (you’re possessed, and it looks nothing like the movies)

80

the psychology of love island USA S7: why it broke the internet (and what it says about us)

81

you’re NOT crazy, you’re remembering the real world.

82

why personality ISN'T a prison (unless you let it be)

83

what you're calling a breakdown might be a dark baptism

84

let them cook: shadow work, shame, and the stew of self

85

dancing with the devil part 2: the return (how to grow the f*ck up and quit calling red flags soulmates)

86

motherhood as death ritual (a rite of passage for women with or without children)

87

dancing with the devil part 1: the descent (why you keep ignoring your gut instinct and mistaking danger for ‘chemistry’)

88

psychic hygiene in the age of AI

89

unlearning toxic shame through sacred speech (a guided journey)

90

chatGPT told him he was god (what no one’s saying about AI and spiritual delusion)

91

are you emotionally feral?

92

why you reject the love you crave (emotional maturity, trauma, and learning to receive)

93

healing the christian wound: empire, myth, and the pattern beneath it all

94

the death of celebrity culture is here (and why it's good for your mental health)

95

emotional alchemy: a guide for when everything falls apart

96

how to surrender to the mystery and let go your need for certainty

97

what does AI believe? (the hidden soul inside the machine)

98

nobody's watching. nobody cares. you're free now.

99

communication mastery series part 3: stop people pleasing, start owning your space

100

healing in a world that won't heal

101

communication mastery series part 2: the stoic art of emotional control

102

i miss who i was before the internet knew me

103

communication mastery series part 1: command your voice, command your life

104

you're sleepwalking: it's time to wake up to what's ACTUALLY real

105

why you crave chaos in love

106

the demons you bury are the lessons you need to learn

107

how the energy you carry is secretly controlling your life

108

you say you've changed — so why does your life look the same?

109

the truth about healing: you’ll never be who you were

110

what you lose when you share too much

111

why limerence FEELS like love, but isn't

112

will AI set you free or control your mind? (psychiatry, mental health, and the machine age)

113

what stories are you telling yourself about your suffering?

114

dysfunctional family roles – part 5: hidden agendas (the peacemaker/mediator and narcissistic traits) [preview]

115

mind unveiled part 6: the individuation process as spiritual ascent (integrating outer psychology, personality types, and the mystical qabalah)

116

dysfunctional family roles – part 4: avoidance strategies (the mascot/clown and the lost child/rebel) [preview]

117

mind unveiled part 5: the shadow (working with your dark side)

118

dysfunctional family roles – part 3: responsibilities and escape (the parentified child and the addict) [preview]

119

mind unveiled part 4: the psyche as a living reality (exploring consciousness and the collective unconscious)

120

dysfunctional family roles – part 2: the extremes of family focus (the golden child and the scapegoat) [preview]

121

mind unveiled part 3: unmasking the soul image (the false self, archetypes, the anima and animus)

122

dysfunctional family roles – part 1: decoding the dynamics of dysfunction [preview]

123

mind unveiled part 2: carl jung and the advent of spiritual psychology

124

anatomy of evil: britney spears (from pop princess to public prisoner – a story of exploitation and control) [preview]

125

mind unveiled part 1: the birth of psychotherapy and the theories of sigmund freud

126

from hashtag to holy: reclaiming the mystical art of manifestation from the clutches of social media [preview]

127

what if the chains of your past are looser than you think? (breaking free from trauma bonding and repetition compulsion)

128

introducing my new podcast, “back from the borderline baby.”

129

self-mastery part 2: embracing the journey through life and soul cycles

130

the systemic grooming of a generation (part 1): the unseen puppeteers of the media and pharmaceutical conspiracy [preview]

131

self-mastery part 1: becoming a free agent and understanding the cycles of life

132

sleeping with 100 men in a day: a psychological deep dive into sex, self-harm, and lily phillips

133

new age or new cage? (walking the tightrope of digital spirituality) [preview]

134

the millennials who were groomed by the internet: my story, jay-z and diddy

135

anatomy of evil: h.h. holmes (how victorian vice shaped the mask of a gentleman killer) [preview]

136

unplugging from the matrix: 10 arguments for deleting your social media right now

137

“when trauma becomes your identity, that’s a dangerous thing” [preview]

138

the inner temple: an ASMR ceremony of self-initiation

139

do you act like you were never held as a baby? (how unmet needs in infancy might be sabotaging your ability to find love)

140

could your entire life be a virtual simulation? (unveiling what lies beyond the illusions we accept as reality) [preview]

141

are you turning self-care into a form of self-punishment? (moving beyond hyper-control, emotional numbing and the body-mind disconnection)

142

this episode isn’t about UFOs – it’s about YOU [part 2]

143

has adulthood robbed you of youth’s magic? (reclaiming healing in unscheduled moments) [premium preview]

144

is social media convincing us that everyone cheats? (unraveling the myth of universal infidelity)

145

this episode isn’t about UFOs – it’s about YOU [part 1]

146

no f*cks given: inside the rise of emotional detachment (and what it's doing to us)

147

how to recognize (and break) the cycle of relationship OCD

148

are you in your drama era? (how to cleanse your life of conflict once and for all) [preview]

149

beyond black and white: navigating moral purity in the age of cancel culture

150

anatomy of evil: the fear of female rage [preview]

151

for anyone who lies awake at night wondering wtf the point is (transforming existential terror into acceptance of life’s impermanence)

152

in a world where we are glorifying and glamorizing our psychological suffering, are we losing the ability to overcome it? [preview]

153

healing childhood trauma with fairy tales: transforming emotional wounds with the handless maiden

154

is it your attachment style, or is it just the wrong relationship? [preview]

155

when self-help stops helping: recognizing when therapy and introspection might be doing more harm than good

156

is there a ‘normal’ amount of sex in a relationship? [preview]

157

unlock higher states of consciousness by understanding the different levels of thinking (exploring ken wilber’s AQAL integral theory)

158

anatomy of evil: the salem witch trials (puritan paranoia, mass hysteria, and social scapegoating) [preview]

159

are we blind to our own cultural sickness? (lessons from the mouse utopia experiment and behavioral sink)

160

the dark side of cosmetic surgery: real stories of regret [preview]

161

too much to handle: understanding the power of your emotional intensity, sensory sensitivity, and overexcitabilities

162

the 48 laws of power: episode 3 (laws for self-protection) [preview]

163

were you under-mothered? exploring the generational impact of “mother hunger”

164

the 48 laws of power: episode 2 (laws for taking your power BACK) [preview]

165

the new gods: how commercialized spirituality and therapy culture have become dogmatic modern religions

166

the 48 laws of power: episode 1 (laws to recognize signs of manipulation) [preview]

167

exposing the troubled teen industry: surviving ‘the harvard of therapeutic boarding schools’ (ft. nick taber)

168

anatomy of evil – aileen wuornos (challenging the “monster myth:” trauma, gender bias, systemic failures and media exploitation) [preview]

169

rose cartwright’s path from the poster girl for OCD to psychedelic awakening and holistic healing

170

the interstitium uncovered: trauma, healing, and your body’s hidden fluid spaces [preview]

171

girlbosses and tradwives: embracing fluidity in parenthood and partnership

172

how to stop turning every minor concern into a major meltdown [preview]

173

mean girls: healing from and overcoming the hidden harms of female bullying

174

anatomy of evil: charles manson (charisma, manipulation, and control) [preview]

175

online stigma and BPD: reacting to the internet's worst takes on pete davidson and jenna ortega

176

the antidepressant controversy: inside the heated debate over SSRI withdrawal symptoms

177

how to work with your dreams: uncovering your soul’s messages and transforming trauma with louise rosager

178

takedown: laila mickelwait’s battle to expose the 'executive megapimps' behind pornhub's sex crimes

179

mending mind and spirit: the path of sacred psychiatry with dr. judy tsafrir

180

old tricks, new faces: modern female pickup artists and their (outdated) 90s dating playbook [preview]

181

how psychiatry became the fast food of mental health treatments: exposing systemic failures and hidden agendas with dr. roger mcfillin

182

the evolution of melancholia: from ancient narratives to modern depression [preview]

183

healing your dysregulated nervous system: from flailing through life to micro-dosing silence with elisabeth kristof

184

the beauty paradox: unpacking our toxic obsession with youth and appearance [preview]

185

from labels to liberation: exploring the power threat meaning framework with dr. lucy johnstone

186

lessons from the borderline (how BPD is a disorder of relationship, NOT of personality) [preview]

187

the curse position: exploring trauma and the supernatural in psychotherapy with alex monk

188

when your spirit feels broken: how to recognize and survive a dark night of the soul [preview]

189

how psychiatry lost its way: bad science, bad medicine and the mistreatment of the mentally ill with robert whitaker

190

are you guarding your heart too much? (how to break down your emotional walls) [preview]

191

taylor swift’s teenage dream: a depth psychological tour through ‘the tortured poets department’ and the puella aeterna archetype

192

“when will it be my turn to find love?” (the dumpster fire of modern dating) [preview]

193

childhood emotional neglect part 11: healing (transforming suffering into strength and crafting a new narrative)

194

reclaiming your spiritual path after religious trauma and commercialized spirituality [preview]

195

childhood emotional neglect part 10: healing (reclaiming your power and understanding threat responses)

196

exposing miss USA’s dark secrets: title holder resignations, misogyny, corruption, and 'everywhere like such as’

197

BPD as hysteria in sheep’s clothing: the persistent myth of female instability from ancient greece to modern psychiatry [preview]

198

childhood emotional neglect part 9: signs and symptoms – internalized anger, lack of self-discipline, and alexithymia

199

the healing power of labyrinths and EMDR [preview]

200

drake vs. kendrick: the battle over allegations of grooming and underage girls in the digital age

201

“why did you even have kids?” (how different generations have transmitted emotional neglect) [preview]

202

childhood emotional neglect part 8: signs and symptoms – skewed self-perception, lack of self-compassion, and toxic shame

203

how a dysfunctional family system functions like a cult [preview]

204

childhood emotional neglect part 7: signs and symptoms – chronic feelings of emptiness and counter-dependence

205

childhood emotional neglect part 6: linking past pain and present health while challenging the myths of modern recovery methods

206

reparenting visualization series introduction [free premium offering]

207

childhood emotional neglect part 5: sociopathic, childlike, and well-meaning-but-neglected-themselves parents

208

childhood emotional neglect part 4: workaholic, perfection-obsessed, and special-care parents

209

is avoiding discomfort by self-censorship halting your healing process? [preview]

210

childhood emotional neglect part 3: divorced, grieving, addicted, and depressed parenting

211

when you feel like an alien in your own family: defying dysfunction through healing [preview]

212

childhood emotional neglect part 2: narcissistic, authoritarian, and permissive parenting

213

beyond the mother wound: healing neglect and trauma with the black madonna [preview]

214

childhood emotional neglect part 1: the silent legacy of invisible wounds

215

breaking down to break through: psychiatry, covert abuse, and awakening [preview]

216

the "sharenting" trap: protecting children's digital footprint in the age of gen alpha influencers

217

the SSRI lie: the fraudulent study that laid the groundwork for psychiatry's greatest deception [preview]

218

surrender and heal: a guided trauma recovery ritual through visualization

219

VN30: the impact of emotionally absent mothering [preview]

220

spiritual emergency pt 3: uncovering pathways for self-healing and professional help

221

finding secret delight in the downfall of others: exploring schadenfreude [preview]

222

spiritual emergency pt 2: a guide to recognizing the different types of transcendent crises

223

spiritual emergency pt 1: mental breakdown or spiritual awakening?

224

down-to-earth awakening beyond the woo-woo and delulu (ft. christian bradley west)

225

the hidden toll: carrying the mental load in relationships [preview]

226

sacrificing our mental health at the altar of social media (ft. thanasi dilos)

227

show me your scars and i’ll show you how deep you are (ft. laurence hillman)

228

the radical therapist: silent screams from the asylum [preview]

229

consciousness-expansion and deeper healing through the power of myth

230

the radical therapist: unmasking the systemic stagnation of psychiatric training [preview]

231

trauma worlds: embodied healing beyond shame’s shadow [part 3]

232

the radical therapist: challenging psychiatry - care or control? [preview]

233

trauma worlds: navigating the hidden realms of fear and disconnection [part 2]

234

the radical therapist: therapy means change, not adjustment [preview]

235

trauma worlds: when negative experiences meet unique human beings [part 1]

236

the alchemy of self-knowledge: jungian insights on synchronicity

237

are mental disorders brain diseases ‘in waiting’? [preview]

238

from coercion to consent: WHO and UN say psychiatry must change entirely

239

the healing power of somatic breathwork [preview]

240

the bledsoe family's cosmic rebirth: unveiling non-human intelligence

241

from human doing to human being [preview]

242

healing from religious trauma using the philosophy of the mystics

243

venting or vicious: escaping the grip of toxic gossip [preview]

244

embracing your crazy while falling apart and coming back together

245

unlocking emotional freedom: a guide to EFT tapping [preview]

246

from mainstream to energy medicine with dr. larry burk

247

"my phobia of death and dying is making it impossible for me to truly LIVE” [preview]

248

processing complicated feelings around death and grief through working with the unseen worlds

249

why you keep falling in limerence with unavailable people who break your heart [preview]

250

unlock the source code to your imagination matrix with stephen aizenstat, Ph.D

251

our paradigm-shifting UAP experience with the bledsoe family [free preview]

252

creating a map through the hell of depression toward a radical elsewhere

253

accessing your innermost wisdom through dreamwork

254

tapping into your unconscious repressed anger as a highly sensitive person

255

pov: your big sister is erykah badu and she's giving you some tough love

256

family scapegoating abuse part 3: grief, acceptance, and healing

257

family scapegoating abuse part 2: signs, effects, and misdiagnosis

258

family scapegoating abuse part 1: the black sheep

259

are you going to fit in or find your path? (ft. james hollis)

260

living in the shadow of your family tree (interview with family constellations therapist marine sélénée)

261

it makes perfect sense why we're all sick and fucking tired

262

the crisis of contemporary psychiatry with dr. bruce levine

263

the repressed anger to manipulation pipeline (free preview)

264

shame series part 8: religious trauma, rigid sex roles and cultural suppression of emotion

265

the dystopian "NPC" TikTok trend is melting our brains

266

shame series part 7: unmet childhood needs, perfectionism, and public shaming

267

shame series part 6: toxic shame in the aftermath of sexual and physical abuse

268

shame series part 5: unraveling the impact of abandonment

269

shame series part 4: how toxic shame fuels dysfunctional family systems

270

shame series part 3: toxic shame and 'disordered' or 'dysfunctional' personality traits

271

shame series part 2: when toxic shame becomes who you are

272

shame series part 1: healthy shame makes you human

273

healing parental wounds through spiritual practice

274

daddy issues: recognizing and healing the father wound

275

the mother wound: sacred scars as a portal to healing

276

this high school dropout is transforming the failing public school system by following her bliss

277

finding a sense of self as a trauma-dumping emotional vampire

278

ending your self-destructive patterns of relationship sabotage once and for all

279

recovering human connection through rupture and repair

280

fear of abandonment and the mother wound in fairy tales

281

find your life's purpose with the japanese philosophy of ikigai

282

deepfakes, revenge porn, and the impact on body autonomy

283

are you an approval addict?

284

completely transform the way you view your mental health symptoms with this reframe

285

emotional reactivity and toxic friendships

286

developing a growth mindset to overcome splitting and perfectionism

287

healing control and codependency issues to get your needs met in a healthier way

288

your personality masks are blocking access to your TRUE self

289

sober curious: a fresh and dialectical approach to alcohol use

290

"am i crazy, or are they gaslighting me?"

291

blindsided by betrayal: learning to love again after being cheated on

292

breaking the cycle of pain: moving on and healing from a traumatic breakup

293

overcoming executive dysfunction: "why can't i just do the thing?!"

294

mental illness is not in your head: evolving beyond the medical model in recovery

295

how scott broke the cycle of generational family trauma while parenting with emotion dysregulation

296

understanding the different models of mental health can help you find a helpful therapist (and avoid harmful ones)

297

what to do when you finally wake up to the pain you've caused the people you love

298

when your emotional dysregulation makes it hard to hold down a job

299

transforming and healing your intimacy issues (ft. zaz)

300

transcending the self: the importance of gaining a higher perspective in your recovery journey

301

all the rage: healthy ways to to respond to (and work with) anger

302

dissociation, depersonalization and derealization: understanding these common responses to trauma

303

identity disturbance: why your search for a "sense of self" might be keeping you stuck

304

using the narrative therapy framework to get to the root cause of your suffering

305

from disorder to design: flipping the script on "mental health symptoms" with philosopher justin garson

306

are your caveman desires standing in the way of true happiness?

307

underrated recovery hacks to change the beliefs that are holding you back

308

manipulative love: narcissistic mothers, enmeshed parentified children, and emotional incest (reviewing jeanette mccurdy's book "i'm glad my mom died")

309

can chronic porn use destroy your sex life? (billie eilish thinks so)

310

are you at rock bottom and questioning the point of life? (this one's for you)

311

your symptoms of "mental illness" might be hidden spiritual gifts (ft. dr. lisa miller)

312

pete davidson: understanding patterns of unstable relationships and self-harm

313

the root cause of your deep fear of abandonment

314

how to cope when you feel like you have no control over your explosive emotions

315

using radically open dialectical behavior therapy (RO DBT) to overcome issues with overcontrol

316

how trauma throws you off balance (understanding your window of tolerance) [+ a discussion on asexuality]

317

signs you lack personal boundaries (feeling used and drained by other people)

318

are you mentally ill or spiritually starved? (the problem with "disorder" and "dysfunction" labels)

319

no strings attached: the impact casual sex can have on our mental health

320

understanding hyper-sexuality: how a history of trauma leads to sex as self-harm

321

reclaiming your sexual agency after chronic objectification with dr. alexandra solomon

322

witches and borderline bitches: exploring the rampant sexism in psychiatry

323

overcoming existential dread, death anxiety, and religious trauma

324

radical self-compassion: learning to love yourself (and finding your "touch tree")

325

finding natural relief from PMS and PMDD with menstrual cycle awareness

326

channeling your emotional intensity into artistic expression

327

when your body isn't your own: what abusive relationships and grooming taught me about love

328

stuff i've learned the hard way so you don't have to (my most powerful recovery lessons)

329

why you keep repeating the same dysfunctional relationship patterns (ft. the holistic psychologist)

330

using the power of self-inquiry and your window of tolerance in trauma recovery

331

overcoming extreme emotion dysregulation and suicidal ideation (ft. CJ THE X)

332

how learning to live within your integrity may be the key to resolving your identity issues

333

learning to accurately label your emotions with psychoanalyst dr. jayce long

334

understanding your unconscious mind with psychoanalyst dr. jayce long

335

tarot therapy for trauma recovery and shadow work with dr. elliot adam

336

are you emotionally overcontrolled or undercontrolled? (ft. dr. anita federici)

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→ your transformation starts here ←