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Bare Marriage — 343 episodes

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Episode 326: The Problems with For Men Only by Jeff & Shaunti Feldhahn

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Episode 325: I Belong to Me with Tia Levings

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Episode 324: Who Bears the Emotional Labor and Mental Load for Sex?

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Episode 323: A Step-By-Step Guide to Vetting a Church's Website to See if They're Heathy!

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Episode 322: Why Is Every Man's Battle So Creepy? A Harrowing Example

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Episode 321: New Research into Modesty Messaging, Sexual Harassment in Church, Plus We Answer Your Questions!

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Episode 320: Let’s Talk Adult ADHD and GENDER ROLES!

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Episode 319: Did Purity Culture Cause Developmental Trauma--and Kill Libido?

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Episode 318: You're Allowed to Want Stuff! Talking Desire with Jay Stringer

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Episode 317: Famished--How Purity Culture Taught Women to Shrink with Anna Rollins

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Episode 316: What Still Surprised Us Making the Love & Respect Docuseries

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Bad Stats, Editing the Bible, and Recycling 1970s Ideas: A Love & Respect Deep Dive Part 2

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Happily Never After: The Curious Case of Love and Respect (Deep Dive Part 1)

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Episode 313: To Heal or To Harm: Making Sense of Weaponized Bible Verses feat. Steven Tracy

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Episode 312: Why The Complementarian Bar for Men is in the Basement

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Episode 311: The Misleading Tactics of Complementarianism feat. Lydia Kaiser

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Episode 310: Desiring God Thinks Marriage Is Like Peddling Furiously on the Back of a Tandem Bike

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Episode 309: Evangelicals Shouldn't Be Embarrassing: The Oklahoma Student's Essay and How Our Faith Has Changed

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Episode 308: “We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza!

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Episode 307: How the Stories of Missionary Kids Unmask the Myths of Evangelicalism (and Purity Culture!)

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Episode 306: Thalidomide, Bad Marriage Books, and a Jesus Who Laughs

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Episode 305: All the Problems with Complementarianism in a Nutshell--And How They Try to Make it Sound Pretty

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Episode 304: Francine Rivers' And the Shofar Blew Part 2: What Can We Learn from Christian Fiction?

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Episode 303: Francine Rivers' And the Shofar Blew—Let’s Examine Christian Romance Fiction Part 1

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Episode 302: For the Love of Women feat. Dorothy Greco

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Episode 301: The 4 Categories of Euphemisms about Sex--that All Drive Us Batty!

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Celebrating Episode 300! With the Best of Becca's Bloopers and One Liners

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Episode 299: What Does the Bible Say about Divorce for Abuse? Feat. Helen Paynter

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Episode 298: Purity Culture, Date Rape, and Porn: plus Joash Thomas and the Justice of Jesus

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Episode 297: The Myth of Good Christian Parenting

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Episode 296: How to Avoid Inadvertently Giving Your Kids Sexual Hangups

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Episode 295: Does More Sex Make Marriage Happier?

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Episode 294: 4 Christian Women Talk Menopause--and Perimenopause!

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Episode 293: Better Ways to Read the Bible feat. Zach Lambert

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Episode 292: Hear Sheila Answer Men’s Questions about Healthy Marriage & Sexuality

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Episode 291: How Professor Neil Reaches Young Men Stuck in Misogyny

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Episode 290: What Does Authoritarianism Have to Do with Complementarianism? (with a test!)

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Episode 289: Why Fiction Makes You a Better Person (Why We Don't Hate ALL Books!)

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Episode 288: Is Sex a Want or a Need?

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Episode 287: What is “Headship” in Ephesians 5 and 1 Corinthians 11? Feat. Marg Mowczko

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Episode 286: Our Best Christian Dating Advice--that you've all been asking for!

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Episode 285: Are Soul Ties Real? Overcoming a Purity Culture Teaching

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Episode 284: The Problems with the Book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley

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Episode 283: When the Church Stole Your Sex Life

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Episode 282: What Makes Men Cheat? New Research Spotlight

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Episode 281: You Shouldn't Iron Your Cheating Husband's Clothes--Plus We Answer Your Questions!

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Episode 280: The Problems with the Book The Love Dare--And How It Papers Over Real Problems

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Episode 279: Saving Face: Finding My Self, God, and One Another Outside a Defaced Church (feat. Aimee Byrd)

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Episode 278: Why Don't Evangelical Women Want to Marry Evangelical Men?

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Episode 277: Why Emotions Aren't Feminine (and Why Women Aren't More Emotional!)

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Episode 276: Is Reading Romance Novels for Women the Same as Watching Porn?

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Episode 275: Becoming the Pastor's Wife feat. Beth Allison Barr

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Episode 274: The Marriage You Actually Want

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Episode 273: Are Traditionally Christian Marriages Linked to More Immaturity? The Data Speaks!

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Episode 272: Is "Acts of Service" Love Language Really a Cry for Help? All New Bonus Stats!

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Episode 271: What the Unfairness Threshold Tells Us About Marriage (and Mental Load!)

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Episode 270: What Does Prioritizing Marriage Look Like? Plus Do You Have to Choose Between Being a Good Wife and a Good Mom?

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Episode 269: The Marriage Hierarchy of Needs—and Why Compromise Doesn’t Work

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Episode 268: Why Data Shows That Teamwork, Not Hierarchy, Is the Key to a Great Marriage!

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Episode 267: Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Often Backfires

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Episode 266: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)

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Episode 265: Culture Wars vs. Jesus: How to Not Get Sucked in To Toxic Teachings

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Episode 264: It’s the Peer Reviewed Celebration! Plus a Plea to Respect Science

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Episode 263: Even After Everything—Loving Anyway, Despite the Risks

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Episode 262: Problems with Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans

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Episode 261: Her Rites: The 6 Rites of Passage in a Woman’s Life feat. Christy Bauman

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Episode 260: Shame Must Switch Sides: It’s Not Shameful to NOT Want Pornified Sex

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Episode 259: Avoiding Power Struggles with Your Kids (Plus are you an unintentionally permissive parent?)

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Episode 258: They’re Coming After Bluey Now? What’s Wrong with Involved Fathers?

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Episode 257: Little Girls in Church Parking Lots in BaptistLand

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Episode 256: How Should You Handle the Sex Talk with Your Kids?

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Episode 255: For Our Daughters—Plus Why Sex Abuse Scandals Keep Happening

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Episode 254: The 5 Myths of Purity Culture with Dr. Camden Morgante

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Episode 253: The 93% Myth: That Stat That Says Fathers Are More Important Than Mothers Is Made Up!

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Episode 252: Flourishing Families

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Episode 251: All About Orgasms! Let’s Close the Gap!

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Episode 250: Not All Men—But How Do We Tell?

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Episode 249: Rebecoming: Figuring Out Why You’re Stuck feat. Dr. Merry Lin

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Episode 248: Making Faith More Tangible in the Holy Everyday feat. Karen Stiller

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Episode 247: Ask Sheila and Rebecca Anything! We Tackle Your Questions

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Episode 246: How Toxic Marriage Advice Mirrors Coercive Control

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Episode 245: The Problems with The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace

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Episode 244: A Well-Trained Wife with Tia Levings

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Episode 243: Modesty vs. Vanity: Maybe We Need to Shift the Conversation!

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Episode 242: Spot the Propaganda and Logical Fallacies feat. Scott Coley

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Episode 241: Both Hurt and Healed by the Church

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Episode 240: Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy (feat. Cait West) plus Why People Deconstruct

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Episode 239: Who Are Exvangelicals? feat. Sarah McCammon

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Episode 238: The Problems with Lies Young Women Believe by Dannah Gresh and Nancy Wolgemuth

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Episode 237: Do We Have to Frame All Dads as Heroes?

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Episode 236: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman

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Episode 235: Wolves, Chimpanzees, and Deer: Let’s confront the Alpha Male Myth

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Episode 234: Pastors’ Wives Spill the Tea on Church Life—and the search for authenticity and friendship

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Episode 233: The Backlash from Those Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner

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Episode 232: When Submission "Cults" Groom for Abuse: One Woman's Story

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Episode 231: Are We Saying that Wives Don't Have to Have Sex?

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Episode 230: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

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Episode 229: A Victim-Centered Approach to Forgiveness After Trauma

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Episode 228: How Our Stories Influence Our Marriage Choices feat. Natalie Hoffman

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Episode 227: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism? We Respond to Critics

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Episode 226: What We've Learned 3 Years After Great Sex Rescue

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Episode 225: Do You Even Want This Kind of Marriage?

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Episode 224: Lies Women Believe Part 2: Is God a Monster?

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Episode 223: The Problems with Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth

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Episode 222: How Sex Is Like Chef Boyardee–and Other New Research Findings!

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Episode 221: Let Men Be Dads! Why Do So Many Evangelical Resources Portray Men as Pathetic Dads?

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Episode 220: Why is Emerson Eggerichs Afraid of Women Talking? A Deep Dive into Love & Respect

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Episode 219: Let Men be Men - Because We Believe Men are Great!

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Episode 218: Let’s Pivot to Healthy Churches feat. Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer

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Episode 217: When Religion Hurts You feat. Laura Anderson

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Episode 216: Perceived Autonomy vs. Actual Autonomy: It’s Okay to Say No to Controlling Church Spaces

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Episode 215: A Jesus-Centered Faith vs. Nationalism feat. Andrew Whitehead

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Episode 214: What if Momma Ain’t Happy? Why It’s Okay to Sweat the Small Stuff

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Episode 213: Stained Glass Ceilings: How the church does gender ft. Lisa Swartz

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Episode 212: Do Women Really Initiate 70% of Divorces for Frivolous Reasons?

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Episode 211: Bullied for Leaving an Abusive Husband ft. Naghmeh Panahi

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Episode 210: The Enneagram and Marriage ft. Christa Hardin

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Episode 209: Why Don't Evangelical Sex Teachers Know What They Don't Know?

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Episode 208: What Happens When a Pastor Sets Out to Prove Complementarianism? ft. Terran Williams

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Episode 207: The Ultimate Anti 'Obligation Sex' Episode

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Episode 206: A Deep Dive into 'For Women Only' by Shaunti Feldhahn ft. Meghan Tschanz + Devi Abraham

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Episode 205: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A response to Nancy Pearcey

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Episode 204: Untangling Toxic Teachings on Suffering ft. Rebecca Davis

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Episode 203: Parenting without Yelling: Discipline & Kindness Can Go Together! ft. Wendy Snyder

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Episode 202: The Barbie Movie, South Korean Women, and the Evangelical Church

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Episode 201: What Does a Biblical Marriage Look Like?

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Episode 200 Special! - Our "Brio Magazine Deep Dive" PJ Party!

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Episode 199: Jane Austen, Pride & Prejudice, and Marriage Advice!

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Episode 198: The 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Keith Takes on the Danvers Statement)

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Episode 197: How The Power of a Praying Wife Can Go Horribly Wrong

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Episode 196: New Research on the Effects of Obligation Sex! (It's Bad...)

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Episode 195: How To Support Your Wife in an Equal Relationship feat. Todd Korpi

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Episode 194: Male-Centric Sex vs. the Female Sexual Response Cycle

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Episode 193: Tell Her Story: The Forgotten Women of the Bible with Nijay Gupta

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Episode 192: How 'Every Young Man's Battle' Makes Everything Worse ft. Andrew Bauman & Zachary Wagner

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Episode 191: Finding a Healthy Church with Beth Allison Barr

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Episode 190: 'Pink' and 'Blue' Faith -- Plus we take a submission quiz! ft. Aimee Byrd

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Episode 189: Non-Toxic Masculinity ft. Zachary Wagner

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Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road

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Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know

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Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes

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Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain

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Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape

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Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us

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Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up

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Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data!

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Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking

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Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline?

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Episode 178: Fixing Conversations Together! ft. Ngina Otiende & Philip Payne

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Episode 177: The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ft Philip Payne

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Episode 176: Bring Back 'Vanilla' Sex!

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Episode 175: How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect ft. Nijay Gupta

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Episode 174: Why You CAN Trust Your Emotions ft. Becky Castle Miller

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Episode 173: The Strike at Putney: What Would Happen if Women Just Stopped?

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Episode 172: We Are Not Spiritually Homeless Anymore! A Personal Christmas Update

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Episode 171: Identifying Spiritual Abuse and Trauma ft Dr. Foluso and Johnna Harris

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Episode 170: Does God Hate Divorce? plus The Women Carved in Ebony

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Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens

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Episode 168: The Myth of the Magical Penis

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Episode 167: 'Unwanted' - Discovering our Route to Sexual Healing ft. Jay Stringer

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Episode 166: A Deep Dive into Ephesians 5 - Why Hierarchy in Marriage Doesn't Work

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Episode 165: The 3 Types of Libido

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Episode 164: Scary Body Language & Telling on Yourself

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Episode 163: Let's Talk Ogling and Dressing for Attention - Research Deep Dive Episode!

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Episode 162: Why We Need a New Standard for Healthy Teaching Today

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Episode 161: Should Pastors be Expected to Give Sex Advice?

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Episode 160: How Marriage Advice can be Misdiagnosed

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Episode 159: How Christian Marriage Books Set Me Up For Failure ft. Natalie Hoffman

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Episode 158: Pastors Plagiarizing: An Example Using Josh Howerton--with Scot McKnight's commentary

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Episode 157: Celebrities for Jesus -- Who should we follow? ft Katelyn Beaty

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Episode 156: How The Authors We Critiqued Responded to The Great Sex Rescue

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Episode 155: The Rise of Lonely Men - Plus How to be Inspiring!

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Episode 154: Katharine Bushnell: Another Hero you NEED to know ft. Kristen Kobes Du Mez + Julie Coleman

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Episode 153: Josephine Butler: The Hero You Never knew

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Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex? (Rerun Summer Episode)

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Duty Sex isn't Sexy! (Rerun Summer Episode)

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Can We Stop Talking About Girls Being Stumbling Blocks and Causing Men to Lust? (Rerun Summer Episode)

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Unconditional Respect is NOT a Thing! (Rerun Summer Episode)

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Episode 152: What is Killing Women's Libido?

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Episode 151: Why John Piper Should Stop Speaking on Marriage -- and turning the other cheek!

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Episode 150: Escaping a Sex Cult: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 2

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Episode 149: Groomed for an Abusive Arranged Marriage: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 1

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Episode 148: Is Sex a Yes Space For Men? And What Does That Do to a Woman's Libido?

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Episode 147: The Porn Triage

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Episode 146: Let's Talk Attachments Styles and Marriage with guests Milan & Kay Yerkovich

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Episode 145: Connection Not Punishment: A Better Way to Parent feat. Wendy Snyder

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Episode 144: How To Misuse Statistics for Dummies - feat Wendy Snyder

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Episode 143: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? (Start Your Engines)

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Episode 142: No, Christians Don't Always have Better Marriages and Sex Lives--a response to Josh Howerton

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Episode 141: The Most Misunderstood Women in the Bible - and Research! ft Mary DeMuth

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Episode 140: A Victim of Bill Gothard's Story: Escaping a Cult & Finding Freedom with Emily Elizabeth Anderson

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Episode 139: How Many Men Are Sexually Safe?

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Episode 138: Echoes of Menstruation (...really, Focus on the Family?!)

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Episode 137: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea About Lust

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Episode 136: The Uncomfortable Truth About Waiting for Marriage for Sex

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Episode 135: How Much Sex Have We Rescued? Plus, Elizabeth Fisher Good!

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Episode 134: What Guys Can Do If They've Messed Up

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Episode 133: Birth Control & Lust Control

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Episode 132: All About the Sexual Response Cycle

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Episode 131: The woman who was crying in the shower is here!

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Episode 130: It's Time to Jump out of the Boiling Water

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Episode 129: The Podcast Where Emerson Ignores Marital Rape

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Episode 128: How YOU Can Make the Church a Healthier Place for Marriage

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Episode 127: Putting the 'Christ' back in Christian Marriage

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Episode 126: The Disease That Must Be Named + feeling less homeless!

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Episode 125: Why is Marriage Advice Mostly Aimed at Women?

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Episode 124: Does Your Vagina Have a Brain? The Mind-Body Connection

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Episode 123: Let's talk Sexual Favours Postpartum

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Episode 122: The Making of Biblical Womanhood ft Beth Allison Barr

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Episode 121: Finding Your Own Path ft hosts of NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Podcast

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Episode 120: Why Too Many Can't Let Go of the 'Obligation Sex' Message

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Start Your Engines Ep. 17: How To Be Sex Positive Without Being Creepy

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Episode 118: What Are Christian Resources NOT Telling You About Abuse? ft. Gretchen Baskerville

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Episode 117: All about BOOBS!

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Episode 116: Why Teenagers SHOULD know lots about Sex!

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Episode 115: Are 'Pink Brains' and 'Blue Brains' Real?

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Episode 114: Life Hacks to Help Know Which Christian Book are Toxic

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Episode 113: Are You Doing Sex on Hard Mode?

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Episode 112: You're Supposed to be a TEAM!

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Episode 111: Are We Making Christian Marriage Harder Than It Needs To Be?

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Why Do Christian Books Make Men Sound So Fragile?! - Start Your Engines Ep. 19

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Episode 109: A Journey of Faith (Special BTS look at our 'Unfiltered Podcast!)

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Episode 108: Direct Communication 101

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Episode 107: Sex and the Sixth Reformation (Or Fourth. Or Second?)

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The Slippery Slope of Putting Men in Charge of Women - Start Your Engines Ep. 18

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Episode 105: The Pelvic Floor Episode! (Plus, can you say 'vulva'?)

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Episode 104: Jesus and John Wayne -- the bits about sex!

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Episode 103: Great Sexpectations and Birthing Babies

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Do You Know What the #1 Marriage Speaker in the US Military teaches about Sex?

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Episode 101: How Do Our Beliefs Affect Human Sex Trafficking?

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Episode 100: Is Premarital Sex Dehumanizing?

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Episode 99: Don't Let Your Voice be Small Just Because You're a Woman

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Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex? - Start Your Engines 17

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Episode 97: That Weird 70s Sex Era

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Episode 96: Let's Turn Toxic Church Cultures into Goodness Cultures! ft Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer

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Episode 95: How to Talk about Sex with Your Teens so You Don't Scar Them for Life

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Episode 94: Logical Fallacies in our Marriage Advice! The Power & Statistics Episode

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Start Your Engines Ep. 16: Can We Be a Church that Doesn't Gaslight Abuse Victims and Bounce our Eyes?

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Episode 92: All about Orgasms!

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Episode 91: The Thalidomide Test: What Makes a Marriage Book Good?

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Episode 90: The book launches, Becca breaks down... and should you kiss before marriage?

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Episode 89: Can we please not be weird about sex?

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Episode 88: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Sex

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Episode 87: Duty Sex isn't Sexy

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Episode 86: You are NOT methadone for your husband's porn use!

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Start Your Engines Ep. 15: What if Lust ISN'T Every Man's Battle?

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Episode 84: On Sexual Boundaries and Rape Culture in the Church ft. Ruth Everhart

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Episode 83: Talking Back to Purity Culture ft. guest Rachel Joy Welcher

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Episode 82: Stripping Everything Bare (New Year, New... Name?!)

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Episode 81: 'Churchianity' vs Christianity - Our Year of Feeling Homeless

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Episode 80: Unconditional Respect is NOT a Thing.

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Episode 79. Can We Stop Talking about Girls Being Stumbling Blocks and Causing Men to Lust?

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Start Your Engines Ep. 14 Guys and Emotions: They're Not Polar Opposites ft. Andrew J. Bauman

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Episode 78. What Does Emotional Maturity Look Like? ft. Marc Alan Schelske

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Episode 77. Why It's Hard For Victims to Share Their Stories of Abuse

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Start Your Engines Ep. 13: On Arousal Non-Concordance and the Sexy Sex

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The One MAJOR Roadblock to Orgasm

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Episode 74. Having Troubles with Orgasm? You are NOT Broken!

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Episode 73. Questions on Sexual Abuse and the Road to Recovery

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Start Your Engines Ep. 12: On Frequency and Feeling Sex-Starved

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Episode 72. What if Frequency and Libido Differences AREN'T the Real Issue?

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Episode 71. Are Sex and Talking Really the Same Thing?

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Episode 70: How To Handle Complicated Engagements

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Start Your Engines Ep. 11: How NOT to Flirt With Your Wife

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Episode 69: Let's Talk Sexual Favours... and Pain?

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Episode 68: Are Women Responsible For Their Own Orgasms?

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Episode 67. TMI: All about PERIODS!

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Start Your Engines Ep. 10: How Husbands can be Sex Heroes!

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Episode 66: The WEIRD Sex Questions!

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Episode 65: Awkward Newlywed Sex Questions

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Episode 64: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina!

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Episode 63: Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor

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Start Your Engines Ep.9: Honey, Just Give Me a List!

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Episode 62: Are We Man-Bashers Now?

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Episode 61: Are Your Standards for Housework Unreasonable?

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Episode 60: Splitting the Mental Load of Housework

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Start Your Engines Ep.8: What About Gender Differences?

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Episode 59: Should Women be the Gatekeepers of Sex?

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Episode 58: Quarantine with Your Spouse

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Start Your Engines Ep.7: Is Your Wife Being Held Back by the 'Duty Sex' Message?

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Episode 57: Marital Rape, Consent, and Obligation Sex

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Episode 56: "Sheet Music" is Really Explicit!

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Episode 55: Reacting to "The Act of Marriage"

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Episode 54: What do Porn and Coronavirus Have in Common?

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Start Your Engines Ep.6. Do All Men Lust?

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Episode 53: Re-imagining the Sunday Service?

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Episode 52: Are You a Community Giver or Taker

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Episode 51: So Many Reader Questions!

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Start Your Engines Ep.5: Finding Good Sex Advice

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Episode 50: Recovering Your Sex Life After a Baby

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Episode 49: What Does it Mean to Be a Sexual Being?

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Episode 48: How Do You Feel Comfortable in Your Body

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Start Your Engines Ep.4: When Your Wife Won't Have Sex

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Episode 47: When Something is Bugging You in Your Marriage

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Episode 46: Love and Respect Wrap Up

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Episode 45: Drawing Boundaries Around a Spouse's Bad Behaviour

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Episode 44: Last Year's Frightening Revelation About Christian Teachings on Sex

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Start Your Engines Ep.3: Give Your Wife the Gift of Good Sex

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Episode 43: Family Trouble Around the Holidays

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Episode 42: Is It Your Fault If He Watches Porn?

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Episode 41: All About Erections

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Episode 40: How Do You Know When Someone is Grooming You?

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Episode 39: Postpartum Blues

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Start Your Engines Ep. 2: Starting Conversations About Sex

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Episode 38: How To Actually Get Your Life Together

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Episode 37: "We Have a Newborn, Husband Wants and Xbox!" and More Reader Questions

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Episode 36: The Honeymoon Years of Sex (Figuring it Out)

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Start Your Engines Ep. 1: Understanding Female Sexuality

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Episode 35: Using the Bible to Gaslight Women?

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Episode 34: Sexonomics

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Episode 33: What's Stressing Out Your Marriage?

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Episode 32: What Does Headship in Marriage Really Mean? It's All Greek to Me!

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Episode 31: The Only Way to Grow Your Marriage

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Episode 30: Yoga Pants and Why We Need a Better Shame-Free Message

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Episode 29: The Lonely Generation

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Episode 28: Taking Back Sexy

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Episode 27: The Purity Culture and the Prosperity Gospel

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Episode 26: Communicating with Your Grown Up Kids

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Episode 25: Making Marriage Easier and Pregnancy Etiquette

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Episode 24: I Was Naive But Now My Eyes Are Open

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Episode 23: Emotional Needs and Emotional Affairs

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Episode 22: How Sex Can Start Off Badly

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Episode 21: Resolving Conflict With 5 Why's

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Episode 20: Horrible Scorecards for Wives

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Episode 19: Sex Ed for Adults

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Episode 18: Remebering Rachel Held Evans: Don't Let the Church Drive You Away From Jesus

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Episode 17: Can We Stop with Gender Stereotypes Already?

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Episode 16: Forgiveness, Healing, and Lust

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Episode 15: Women and Porn, Creepy Men, and More

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Episode 14: Seriously? Are Women Actually Stumbling Blocks?

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Episode 13: Speak Up in Your Marriage

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Episode 12: The Burden of the Household

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Episode 11: A New Take on Resolving Conflict

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Episode 10: A New Definition of Sex

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Epidode 9: Two Keys to a Successful Marriage

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Episode 8: Who's being deprived

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Episode 7: How Our Bodies Work, Sexual Health, and More!

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Episode 6: Valentine's Day! Being a Sexually Confident Woman

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Episode 5: Hot and Holy Sex, Control Freaks, and More!

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Episode 4: You Don't Get to Be Selfish

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Episode 3: Creating Conditions for Success in Marriage

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Episode 2: Love and Respect

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Episode 1: Health, Sex, and Wine Culture