All Episodes

Ep. 284 - (BPJ #112) Setting a Table for Two #27.

Ep. 283 - (EX #39) A revolutionary new approach to preventing divorce in our community (Eli Goldbaum)

Ep. 282 - (BPM #107) Nothing in life will affect you as much as your relationship with your wife; unintentional pain and betraying of trust will hurt your marriage as surely as intentional ones will, only slower.

Ep. 281 - (BPJ #111) Setting a Table for Two #26.

Ep. 280 - (BPM #106) Invalidation threat #3 is creating defenses for pain-causing behaviors; how often do you remember your wife when you make decisions?

Ep. 279 - (BPJ #110) Setting a Table for Two #25.

Ep. 278 - (BPM #105) Good people can be bad spouses; avoid the invalidating triple threat; the first two is responding that your wife's thoughts were wrong or feelings were wrong.

Ep. 277 - (BPJ #109) Setting a Table for Two #24.

Ep. 276 - (BPM #104) How good people 'accidentally' hurt and betray their wives being unaware of the damage until its too late; how to prevent this; most marriages are harmed not by major blows but a series of 10,000 paper cuts.

Ep. 275 - (BPJ #108) Setting a Table for Two #23.

Ep. 274 - (BPM #103) Be your wife's best friend; creating a safe space for her; be truthful, loyal and full of integrity towards her; honor her; do things together; step into her world.

Ep. 273 - (BPJ #107) Setting a Table for Two #22.

Ep. 272 - (BPM #102a) To know another person. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 271 - (BPM #102) Your wife's need for encouragement; give her first priority; point out her potential; the power of encouragement (very moving true story).

Ep. 270 - (BPJ #106) Setting a Table for Two #21.

Ep. 269 - (BPM #101) Meeting your wife's emotional intimacy; listening; give her attention and affection.

Ep. 268 - (BPJ #105) Setting a Table for Two #20.

Ep. 267 - (BPM #100) Providing emotional intimacy for your wife will open up the safe space for sexual intimacy.

Ep. 266 - (BPJ #104) Setting a Table for Two #19.

Ep. 265 - (BPM #99) Friendship deepens love; be a help and comfort to your wife; friendly climate at home; having fun; making the home a safehaven.

Ep. 264 - (BPM #98) Intimacy of touch; intimacy of kindness; forging friendship.

Ep. 263 - (BPJ #103) Setting a Table for Two #18.

Ep. 262 - (BPM #97) 3 modes of connection.

Ep. 261 - (BPJ #102) Setting a Table for Two #17.

Ep. 260 - (BPM #96) Identifying disconnecting behaviors.

Ep. 259 - (BPJ #101) Setting a Table for Two #16.

Ep. 258 - (BPM #95) Expanding commitment; focus on positive; resist the fear to connect; the beauty and gift of long-term committed marriages.

Ep. 257 - (BPJ #100) Setting a Table for Two #14.

Ep. 256 - (BPM #94) Honesty with sensitivity; building trust through fidelity; overcoming your resistance of developing trust; say what you are going to do, then DO it; checklist of the 3C's.

Ep. 255 - (BPJ #99) Setting a Table for Two #14.

Ep. 254 - (BPM #93) To learn how to be clear, reasonable, flexible and fair; true love is built on a foundation of trust.

Ep. 253 - (BPJ #98) Setting a Table for Two #13.

Ep. 252 - (EX #38) Where is Hashem? (R. Zecharia Wallerstein)

Ep. 251 - (BPM #92) The 3 Cs: 1. chemistry, 2. compatibility, 3. commitment.

Ep. 250 - (EX #37) The Message the Rebbe Sent to Famed Psychiatrist Dr. Victor Frankl. (Rabbi Yaakov Biderman)

Ep. 249 - (BPJ #97) Setting a Table for Two #12.

Ep. 248 - (BPM #91) How physical intimacy, always connected to emotional intimacy, needs to be a priority in every marriage; adapting in a healthy way to differences in sex drives between spouses.

Ep. 247 - (JH #2) Julie Hartman: The majority of what we worry about is silly.

Ep. 246 - (JH #1) Julie Hartman: How the brain and eyes work.

Ep. 245 - (BPJ #96) Setting a Table for Two #11.

Ep. 244 - (BPM #90) The 3 Cs: 1. chemistry, 2. compatibility, 3. commitment.

Ep. 243 - (BPJ #95) Setting a Table for Two #10.

Ep. 242 - (EX #36) How to Make Our Prayers More Powerful. (Charlie Harary)

Ep. 241 - (EX #35) Resilience vs. Fear Part 2. (Charlie Harary)

Ep. 240 - (EX #34) Resilience vs. Fear During Challenging Times Part 1. (Charlie Harary)

Ep. 239 - (BPM #89) To avoid withdrawal; defensiveness; contempt is poison; avoid having a "frozen fixed" image of your wife; renew your marriage; gathering new information regarding the specialness of your wife.

Ep. 238 - (BPJ #94) Setting a Table for Two #9.

Ep. 237 - (EX #33) Esther's Secret: Why Jews Celebrate Her Every Year on Purim. (Rabbi Simon Jacobson)

Ep. 236 - (BPJ #93a) Be truthful. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 235 - (BPJ #93) Setting a Table for Two #8.

Ep. 234 - (BPM #88) Loving behaviors keep couples together; a low point in a marriage is simply Hashem telling you to make healthy adjustments; NOT to spiral downward into criticism or blame; behind criticism is often a healthy desire.

Ep. 233 - (BPJ #92) Setting a Table for Two #7.

Ep. 232 - (BPM #87) Discovering each other and gathering information even after MANY years of marriage; risking rejection; looking at yourself in the mirror.

Ep. 231 - (BPJ #91) Setting a Table for Two #6.

Ep. 230 - (BPM #86) The highs and lows of love; pursuer and distancer; managing negative states of your spouse.

Ep. 229 - (BPJ #90) Setting a Table for Two #5.

Ep. 228 - (EX #32) Kesher Nafshi Presents: Crisis Chinuch Panel Rabbi Shimon Russel and Rabbi YY Jacobson - PART 2. (Kesher Nafshi)

Ep. 227 - (EX #31) Kesher Nafshi Presents: Crisis Chinuch Panel Rabbi Shimon Russel and Rabbi YY Jacobson - PART 1. (Kesher Nafshi)

Ep. 226 - (BPM #85) Tips for lagging or uneven libido. Part #2.

Ep. 225 - (BPJ #89) Setting a Table for Two #4.

Ep. 224 - (BPM #84) Tips for lagging or uneven libido. Part #1.

Ep. 223 - (BPJ #88) Setting a Table for Two #3.

Ep. 222 - (BPM #83) Infatuation. Part #4.

Ep. 221 - (BPJ #87) Setting a Table for Two #2.

Ep. 220 - (BPM #82) Infatuation. Part #3.

Ep. 219 - (BPJ #86) Setting a Table for Two #1.

Ep. 218 - (BPM #81) Infatuation. Part #2.

Ep. 217 - (BPJ #85) Marital Intimacy #18.

Ep. 216 - (BPM #80) Infatuation. Part #1.

Ep. 215 - (BPJ #84) Marital Intimacy #17.

Ep. 214 - (BPM #79a) Breaking the limited false assumptions about love that causes the terrible breaking up of marriages. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 213 - (BPM #79) Breaking the limited false assumptions about love that causes the terrible breaking up of marriages; how marriages of 20+ years can be completely renewed and beautifully transformed; saving you from tha...

Ep. 212 - (BPJ #83) Marital Intimacy #16.

Ep. 211 - (BPM #78) Avoiding misconceptions of what a happy stable couple should be like; this knowledge can save so many marriages and so much heartache.

Ep. 210 - (BPJ #82) Marital Intimacy #15.

Ep. 209 - (BPM #77) The truth about love; with hard work and understanding a couple can avoid the heartache of sexual frustration and emotional withdrawal; to see clearly the blessings of marriage, not feeling burdened or ...

Ep. 208 - (BPJ #81) Marital Intimacy #14.

Ep. 207 - (BPM #76) Making your wife a priority; praying for your marriage; praying together; being emotionally communicative; dating your wife; finding sexual agreement with each other.

Ep. 206 - (BPJ #80) Marital Intimacy #13.

Ep. 205 - (BPM #75) Flossing away the "plaque" in marriage; being a loyal husband sexually, financially, spiritually; creating a safe and healthy structure for your wife to feel safe and secure.

Ep. 204 - (BPJ #79) Marital Intimacy #12.

Ep. 203 - (BPM #74) Moving from being a 'sexual child' and 'sexual adolescent' towards becoming a healthy 'sexual adult' in marriage.

Ep. 202 - (BPJ #78) Marital Intimacy #11.

Ep. 201 - (BPM #73) Three-dimensional sexual intimacy; gets better and more enjoyable as years go by; the emotional and spiritual connection in sexual intimacy enhances the physical enjoyment.

Ep. 200 - (BPJ #77) Marital Intimacy #10.

Ep. 199 - (BPM #72a) Honoring each other's emotions; importance of non sexual intimacy; the power of touch. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 198 - (BPM #72) Honoring each other's emotions; importance of non sexual intimacy; the power of touch.

Ep. 197 - (BPJ #76) Marital Intimacy #9.

Ep. 196 - (BPM #71) Achieving emotional intimacy; skill in handling emotions in a healthy way; nurturing each other consistently.

Ep. 195 - (BPJ #75a) Marital Intimacy #8. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 194 - (BPJ #75) Marital Intimacy #8.

Ep. 193 - (BPM #70) Searching and achieving genuine intimacy; honesty; commitment; intimacy with wife opens the door of being intimate with Hashem; every spouse is a precious child of Hashem.

Ep. 192 - (BPM #69) Importance of cuddling after intimacy; to overcome tiredness after first release of zera and to continue being with your wife fulfilling her sexual needs in a selfless way, which will cause a husband to...

Ep. 191 - (BPJ #74) Marital Intimacy #7.

Ep. 190 - (BPJ #73) Marital Intimacy #6.

Ep. 189 - (BPM #68) Open Letter #2.

Ep. 188 - (BPJ #72) Marital Intimacy #5.

Ep. 187 - (BPM #67) Open Letter #1.

Ep. 186 - (EX #30) Dr Joanne on "It's NOT about the Nail" (Dr. Joanne Stephenson)

Ep. 185 - (BPJ #71) Marital Intimacy #4.