All Episodes

Ep. 184 - (BPM #66) Protecting yourselves with strong boundaries in regards to drinking; physical contact in the niddah period; social media and the importance of watching your eyes, which we emphasized to the wives as well.

Ep. 183 - (BPJ #70) Marital Intimacy #3.

Ep. 182 - (BPJ #69) Marital Intimacy #2.

Ep. 181 - (EX #29) Harchakos on Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av. Insight from Rav. Cahan

Ep. 180 - (BPJ #68) Marital Intimacy #1.

Ep. 179 - (BPJ #67) The inner dimension of physical intimacy; this shiur while very important and fundamental, and needs to be given, one should wait to listen to it for a night when physical intimacy takes place; because ...

Ep. 178 - (BPM #65a) The power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 177 - (BPM #65) The power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive.

Ep. 176 - (BPJ #66) (SB # 422); understanding dynamics of physical desire for a couples can heal their marriages in this area of their lives.

Ep. 175 - (BPM #64) There is always the gift of renewal in marriage; physical intimacy looked at as a "mitzvah" the right way increases joy and pleasure; sexual desire is designed by Hashem, is good, but needs to be channeled.

Ep. 174 - (BPJ #65) Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 2.

Ep. 173 - (BPM #63) Healthy balance in regards to physical enhancement (wearing lingerie); trying new things (sexual experimentation); physical beauty and being sexually suggestive is important, but not to be taken to extremes.

Ep. 172 - (BPJ #64) Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 1.

Ep. 171 - (BPM #62) Rav Yaakov Emden on intimacy; avoiding negative unhealthy understanding of busha (shame), ; and seeking guidance for the balance of the 2 extremes of overindulgence and excessive stringencies.

Ep. 170 - (BPJ #63) Combining the 2 aspects of boundaries (walled off vs. boundaryless) and self-esteem (shame vs. grandiosity) to create 4 quadrants and to identify yourselves so as to self-correct.

Ep. 169 - (BPM #61a) The joy and mystique of intimacy. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 168 - (BPM #61) The joy and mystique of intimacy.

Ep. 167 - (BPJ #62) Boundaries; walled off vs. boundaryless, and skill to reach healthy middle road; real intimacy (both physical and emotional) can only be reached if a spouse attains this balance.

Ep. 166 - (BPM #60) The positive effect of watching your eyes, not just spiritually, but physically beneficial for sexual intimacy in marriage; dangers of pornography harming sexual health in marriage.

Ep. 165 - (BPJ #61) One is blocked from being intimate with your spouse if you have excess grandiosity or shame; how to heal from these extremes and be in that middle healthy zone which will heal your marriage, and your love for each other will grow.

Ep. 164 - (BPM #59) Not to misuse the concept of isha kesheira doing the will of the husband; working towards aligning with each other sexually; avoiding unhealthy perfectionism; healing aspects of sexual intimacy when used correctly.

Ep. 163 - (BPJ #60a) Anava (Humbleness) - Ga’ava (Haughtiness). (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 162 - (BPJ #60) Shame and grandiosity (arrogance) and to work toward the healthy middle self-esteem, and how this work heals your marriage.

Ep. 161 - (BPM #58) Elevating your thoughts for physical intimacy; concepts of after chatzos and Friday nights; avoiding perfectionism in marriage; sexual maturity and responsibility increases pleasure and enjoyment, not decreasing it.

Ep. 160 - (EX #28) Regarding Tefilah for Men prior to intimacy and important concepts to always keep in mind.

Ep. 159 - (BPJ #59) Practical exercises to transform from adaptive child to wise adult.

Ep. 158 - (BPM #57) Value of the marriage, independent of having children; thoughts regarding public displays of affection.

Ep. 157 - (BPJ #58) concept of "us"; being an enlighten "team"; true liberty and path to a healing happy marriage is to have freedom from our own automatic responses.

Ep. 156 - (BPM #56) Honoring Hashem while working with one another when thier desires for intimacy don't always align; understanding difference between spontaneous and responsive desire.

Ep. 155 - (EX #27) How to Fall in Love with Your Wife. (Rabbi Benzion Shafier)

Ep. 154 - (BPJ #57) Healing yourself, healing your marriage; transforming from adaptive child into wise adult.

Ep. 153 - (BPM #55) Soul in "drivers seat" but needs to have empathy for the Body's needs and provide it in a healthy way.

Ep. 152 - (BPJ #56) Achieving small successes generates hope and confidence that things will improve; expect success; remembering good times; listening to each others point of view.

Ep. 151 - (BPM #54) Everything, including marital intimacy, was created for Hashem's honor; husband needs to make filling his wife's sexual needs and her pleasure a priority.

Ep. 150 - (BPJ #55) Avoid dangerous feelings; to trust your commitment and true values in marriage more than your feelings.

Ep. 149 - (BPM #53a) Marital relations in the early morning, Bedi’eved…? (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 148 - (BPM #53) Why the emphasis to be intimate at night and in the dark; when one may want ask a rav regarding intimacy by day; guidelines of sexual activity when couple can't complete it until later...

Ep. 147 - (EX #26) How to Fall in Love with Your Wife. (Rabbi Benzion Shafier)

Ep. 146 - (EX #25) What Couples Fight About. (Rabbi Benzion Shafier)

Ep. 145 - (EX #24) How to listen so that your Wife talks. (Rabbi Benzion Shafier)

Ep. 144 - (BPJ #54) Making the choice to work as a team; healthy sacrifice; have a positive hopeful vision for your marriage; to truly believe that change is possible.

Ep. 143 - (BPM #52) How the lessons of Kidushin and wine at our wedding profoundly influences our current married life; the deep soul bond between husband and wife; elevating physical sexual pleasure; emotional intimacy.

Ep. 142 - (EX #23) Rabbi Simon Jacobson - Marriage: The Secret. (Sinai Indaba)

Ep. 141 - (BPJ #53) Marriage is about choices: choosing to love your spouse is the day-to-day decision you make; 3 ways to resolve conflict; compromise; trade-off; allow the person most affected to prevail.

Ep. 140 - (BPM #51) Channeling sexual energy and all physical desires in healthy ways; bring down deep Torah thoughts into our practical day-to-day life.

Ep. 139 - (BPJ #52) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #25.

Ep. 138 - (BPM #50) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #9.

Ep. 137 - (BPJ #51) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #24.

Ep. 136 - (BPM #49) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #8.

Ep. 135 - (BPJ #50) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #23.

Ep. 134 - (EX #22) Emuna (Faith) and B'tachon (Trust and confidence) in G-od - Powerful message from Rabbi Alon Anava.

Ep. 133 - (EX #21) Why Do You Matter? (Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center)

Ep. 132 - (BPM #48) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #7.

Ep. 131 - (FI #94) Using the concept of Pas Besalo in a healthy way; using sex for ONLY physical release is destructive, but is a perfectly valid healthy need when it's not the Tachlis.

Ep. 130 - (BPJ #49) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #22.

Ep. 129 - (BPM #47) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #6.

Ep. 128 - (BPM #46) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #5.

Ep. 127 - (EX #20) Everything HaShem does is the Ultimate Good. (Rav Cahan)

Ep. 126 - (EX #19) Personal message.

Ep. 125 - (BPJ #48a) Insight from Rav Cahan on BPJ # 47, 48.

Ep. 124 - (EX #18) Do Men really "NEED" SEX? (Jimmy on Relationships)

Ep. 123 - (BPJ #48) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #21.

Ep. 122 - (EX #17) Never get comfortable with their Disrespect. (Jimmy on Relationships)

Ep. 121 - (BPM #45) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #4.

Ep. 120 - (BPJ #47) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #20.

Ep. 119 - (BPM #44) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #3.

Ep. 118 - (BPJ #46) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #19.

Ep. 117 - (EX #16) THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT: Are men allowed to cry? (Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center)

Ep. 116 - (BPM #43) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #2.

Ep. 115 - (BPM #42) What husbands need to do to heal their marriages. Part #1.

Ep. 114 - (BPM #41a) Insight from Rav Cahan on BPM # 41.

Ep. 113 - (BPM #41) Greatest way to influence your wife is by improving your own behaviors.

Ep. 112 - (BPJ #45) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #18.

Ep. 111 - (BPM #40a) Insight from Rav Cahan on BPM # 40.

Ep. 110 - (BPM #40) Gift of marriage; giving your wife special attention; davening for Sholom Bayis does turn your wife's heart towards you.

Ep. 109 - (BPJ #44) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #17.

Ep. 108 - (BPM #39a) Insight from Rav Cahan on BPM # 39.

Ep. 107 - (BPM #39) Chizzuk for married men; learning to infuse meaning and simcha in our lives especially in regards to work and marriage.

Ep. 106 - (FI #84a) Insight from Rav Cahan on FI #84.

Ep. 105 - (FI #84) The importance of physical intimacy in a marriage.

Ep. 104 - (EX #15c) PS for to Ex #15b.

Ep. 103 - (EX #15b) BRING YOUR MARRIAGE BACK FROM THE BRINK. (Michele Weiner-Davis). (Divorce Busting)

Ep. 102 - (EX #15a) Special Message in regards to Ex #15b.

Ep. 101 - (BPJ #43) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #16.

Ep. 100 - (BPM #38) Ways you can hurt your wife and to correct it. Part #2.

Ep. 99 - (BPJ #42) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #15.

Ep. 98 - (BPM #37) Ways you can hurt your wife and to correct it. Part #1.

Ep. 97 - (BPJ #41) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #14.

Ep. 96 - (BPM #36) How being kind and tender towards your wife helps heal her emotional wounds, depression, and anxiety.

Ep. 95 - (BPJ #40) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #13.

Ep. 94 - (BPM #35) Reasons why a wife can become less important to her husband and how to correct it.

Ep. 93 - (EX #14) The Secret to A Successful Marriage! (STEVE HARVEY). (Living L'chaim)

Ep. 92 - (BPJ #39) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #12.

Ep. 91 - (BPM #34) Regaining your wife's love and trust in you.

Ep. 90 - (EX #13) The Difficult Conversation About Intimacy (with Rabbi Dr. Simcha Feuerman). (Living L'chaim)

Ep. 89 - (BPJ #38) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #11.

Ep. 88 - (BPM #33) 100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #5.

Ep. 87 - (BPJ #37) "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #10.

Ep. 86 - (EX #12) This video is a VACCINE against stress. (Rabbi Simon Jacobson)

Ep. 85 - (BPM #32) 100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #4.