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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer — 372 episodes

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1

Let's Talk About Pornography | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

2

Trauma & The Sexual Self

3

What About Sex for Older LDS Singles?

4

Growing Beyond Duty Sex [Remix!]

5

Motes and Beams | Self-Deception and Marital Growth

6

When Love Hurts | Painful Intercourse Q&A

7

The Silent Treatment | Withdrawal, Punishment, and Control

8

Tener Sexo vs. Hacer el amor [Having Sex vs Making Love]

9

Desire & Devotion

10

When Attraction Fades (or was never there...) | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

11

High Achievers and Marriage

12

Learning From Resentment

13

La Soledad en el Matrimonio [Loneliness in Marriage Q&A]

14

What Parents Need to Know About Sexual Integrity

15

Men and Intimacy [ONE DAY SALE!]

16

The Parent Trap | How Caretaking Kills Desire [Room for Two Preview]

17

Mid-Singles and Sexuality Q&A

18

Mixed-Faith Marriages | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

19

Desarrollo y Madurez Espiritual [Developing Spiritual Maturity]

20

Rethinking Obedience

21

Finding Joy

22

Grace & Growth: Parenting Special Needs Children

23

Known and Loved | A Mother's Day Tribute

24

What Marriage Asks of Us

25

Having Sex vs Making Love

26

Sex with Soul

27

Wired Differently | ADHD in Relationships Q&A

28

Understanding the Enneagram | Q&A with Ian Morgan Cron

29

Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

30

The Sex Talk Your Kids Actually Need

31

Using the Enneagram to Understand Your Relationship | Room for Two Teaser

32

ADHD in Marriage

33

Keeping the Spark Alive

34

Making Peace with Our Sexuality

35

New Year, Same You? | Creating Change That Lasts [Q&A with Dr. Jennifer]

36

When Good Women Stop Being Nice

37

What Busy Parents Need to Know About Sex | Part 2

38

What Busy Parents Need to Know About Sex | Part 1

39

Desire, Difference, and the Path to Intimacy - Part 2

40

Baby, It's Cold INside: How Critique Chills Connection | Room for Two Teaser

41

Desire, Difference, and the Path to Intimacy - Part 1

42

Amor Incondicional y Sexo en Etapa 3 [Wholehearted Loving and Stage 3 Sex]

43

Let's Talk Libido

44

Extended-Family Relationships | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

45

Understanding Sexual Shame

46

Afrontar el Conflicto [Coping With Conflict]

47

When is it Time to Leave? | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

48

Intimacy in Midlife

49

We Need to Talk About Pornography

50

Intimacy Beyond Validation

51

Shame and Suppression | The Silent Struggle of Men

52

Reconciling Spirituality and Sexuality

53

Talking to Teens About Sex | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

54

The Truth About Men's Sexuality

55

When Desire is Difficult (and what to do about it!) | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

56

Desire, Divinity, and Intimate Love | A Conversation with Faith Matters

57

That We Might Have Joy | Author Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

58

A Meaningful Hurt: How Marriage Pressures Growth

59

What To Do When Things Need to Change in Your Relationship

60

Be Bold, Be Brave: Healing After Divorce

61

Neurodiversity in Relationships | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

62

Developing Strength | A Deep Dive on Masculinity

63

What if Your Spouse Won't Choose You?

64

How Can Leaders Talk About Sex Without Fueling Fear or Shame?

65

Fantasy [Q&A Discussion]

66

Redefining Strength: The Power of Femininity in Relationships and Society

67

Pornography Use: A New Perspective [Room for Two Teaser]

68

When Sex Isn't Easy [Q&A Discussion]

69

Courageous Conversations

70

The Dangers of Duty Sex [Q&A Discussion]

71

The Divinity of Desire

72

What Women Want: Understanding Female Arousal and Orgasm [Q&A Discussion]

73

The Problem with Pornography [Fearless Sexuality Summit]

74

Midlife and Menopause

75

Keeping Passion Alive [Q&A Discussion]

76

Keeping the Pilot Light Burning

77

How to Talk to Our Kids (and Ourselves!) About Sex

78

Modesty (Unscripted!)

79

Betrayal Trauma and Restoring Trust [Q&A Discussion]

80

When Paths Diverge | Parenting Through Faith Shifts

81

Christmas and Conflict and Chaos (oh my!) [Q&A Discussion]

82

Healing Your Relationship to Sexuality After Betrayal

83

Lower-Desire Men [Q&A Discussion]

84

Preparing Teens for Healthy Intimate Relationships

85

Healing and Wholeness | Sexuality After Trauma [Q&A Discussion]

86

Embracing Change: Intimacy During Pregnancy and Postpartum

87

Making Sense of Shifting Faith [Q&A Discussion]

88

Engage in the Process

89

Building Relationships That Transcend Conflict

90

Loneliness in Marriage [Q&A Discussion]

91

The Art of Cherishing

92

3 Ways to Become a Better Partner

93

The Problem with Indecision (Straddling)

94

Curious About Retreats?

95

Movement and Motherhood

96

Let's Talk About...Talking to Kids About Sex

97

Sexuality and Selfhood: Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships

98

Eros and The Light of Christ [Restore 2023 Presentation]

99

Losing or Choosing: A Little Ditty 'Bout Jack and Diane || Room for Two Teaser

100

Intimate Deception [Q&A Discussion]

101

Do Teens Map Our Minds?

102

The Gift of Men's Sexuality [Q&A Discussion]

103

Help! I'm Not Attracted to My Spouse! [Q&A Discussion]

104

How Can I Claim My Sexuality?

105

Parenting Neurodivergent Children

106

Emotional Infidelity [Q&A Discussion]

107

Teens and Screens

108

Regret, Remorse, and Resentment

109

Parenting and Partnership

110

Underinvested: The Disappointing Dividends of a Role-Based Marriage || Room for Two Teaser

111

Learning to Love, Respect, and Accept Yourself

112

Navigating Desire Differences in Marriage

113

Understanding Sexual Inhibitions

114

Loss and Its Impact on Desire

115

Masculinity and Sexual Shame

116

Coping with Conflict: Moving Beyond Losing Strategies

117

Reconcilable Differences: Finding Common Ground in a Mixed-Faith Marriage

118

Something is Already Working: A Discussion on Embodiment, Vulnerability, and Mindfulness with Thomas McConkie

119

Discomfort for Growth: A Crash Course in Differentiation Theory

120

The Messy Middle: Midlife Crisis Facebook Live Q&A

121

Coaching Our Children: Self-Authoring, Belonging, and Personal Authority

122

Overcoming the FEAR of Intimacy

123

Love, Loss, and Living Life on Life's Terms: A Conversation with Dr. Adam Miller

124

Heart & Hustle: Cultivating Intimacy in Busy Lives

125

Developing Sexual Wholeness

126

The Challenge of Pornography in Marriage

127

Modesty From the Inside Out

128

Three's a Crowd [Triangulation in Relationships]

129

Divorce and Differentiation

130

What to Do When Your Spouse Hates Sex

131

Authenticity and Self-Acceptance: A Discussion with Lift + Love

132

Trouble at Bayside: An Unexpected Disclosure || Room for Two Teaser

133

Overcoming Sexual Struggles In Marriage

134

Building Better Relationships

135

Sexual Integrity for Singles

136

Love Over Ideology

137

Sex Worth Wanting

138

Want vs Desire

139

Young Adulthood and Self-Definition

140

Self-Expansion

141

Belief, Belonging, and Boundaries

142

Enriching Your Sexual and Emotional Relationship

143

The Divine Gift of Sexuality

144

Building Godly Marriages - A Valentine's Day Special

145

Self-Abuse vs Self-Love: A Thoughtful Discussion About Masturbation

146

Teaching Children Healthy Sexuality

147

Fearless Sexuality: Overcoming Unwanted Porn Use

148

Owning Your Life and Reclaiming Your Sexuality

149

Dating for a Differentiated Marriage

150

Sexual Development and Maturity

151

Relationship Red Flags

152

Uncharted: Finding Peace and Stability in New and Uncertain Territory || Room for Two Teaser!

153

Understanding Anxiety

154

Conflict in Relationships

155

Discomfort for Growth: Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Personal and Professional Journey

156

Understanding Overfunctioning

157

Growing Beyond Duty Sex

158

Rethinking Modesty

159

Pornography and Self-Compassion

160

Cutting the Apron Strings

161

Sexuality as a Force for Good

162

Crossing Ideological and Interpersonal Divides: How to Create Unity in Conflict

163

JFF Talks TikTok: Salt Lake Tribune Interviews Dr. Jennifer on LDS Non-Monogamy

164

Traditions and Truth

165

Accountability in Relationships

166

Overfunctioning, Competitiveness, and Superiority in Relationships

167

Lessons from King David: Self-Deception, Honesty, and Spiritual Development

168

Women and The Church

169

Coping with The Fallout After Betrayal || Room for Two Teaser!

170

Faith, Integrity, and Spiritual Development

171

How to Talk to Your Kids (and others!) About Sex

172

Workshops and Retreats

173

Healthy Sexual Development

174

Sex and Motherhood

175

Navigating a Midlife Crisis

176

Understanding Men's Sexuality

177

Parenting a Perfectionistic Child Part 2

178

How to Discuss Sexuality with your Children

179

Parenting a Perfectionistic Child Part 1

180

Curfews, Crop Tops, Choices & More

181

Improving Your Marital Relationship

182

Boundaries

183

Reawakening Suppressed Sexuality || Room for Two Teaser!

184

Answers to FAQ About Sex

185

Women's Sexual Agency in a Context of Patriarchy

186

The Divine Feminine

187

The Courage to be Disappointed: Giving Up Covert Control for Marital Growth || Room for Two Teaser!

188

Betrayal Trauma, Pornography & Sex

189

Navigating Religious Challenges with Integrity

190

Parents' Hardest Questions Answered

191

Addressing Resentment in Marriage

192

Spiritual and Sexual Development + the Power of Lipstick

193

From Cellmates to Soulmates || Room for Two Teaser!

194

Teens, Confidence, and Sexuality

195

Bridging the LGBTQ Gap in the LDS Church

196

Exploring Masculinity

197

Coping With Lack of Desire in a Mixed-Orientation Marriage

198

You Say it Best When You Say Nothing at All || Room for Two Teaser!

199

Mormonism and Sex

200

The High Cost of Cheap Sexual Validation || Room for Two Teaser!

201

True Partnership in Marriage

202

The Courage to Disappoint || Room for Two Teaser!

203

Becoming a Better Spouse

204

Helping Teens Navigate Their Sexual Identity

205

Sexual and Emotional Intimacy

206

And They Lived Resentfully Ever After || Room for Two Teaser!

207

Closing the Orgasm Gap

208

Sexuality, Motherhood & Personal Identity

209

Embracing Your Sexuality

210

How Hierarchies Undermine Happiness

211

Understanding Infidelity

212

Equality in Marriage

213

Wisdom for Mid-Singles

214

Modesty and Moderation

215

Be Anxiously Engaged in a Good Cause

216

Beauty

217

Owning Your Spirituality

218

Engage in the Process | Part 2

219

Engage in the Process | Part 1

220

Belonging and Boundaries

221

Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood

222

Navigating Differences with Integrity

223

Developing Intimacy

224

The Sex Talk We All Deserve

225

Sexuality After Betrayal

226

Tolerating Dissent

227

Parenting and Self-Definition

228

The Divine Feminine

229

Growth Through Crisis

230

How Personal Freedom Impacts Sex Drive

231

Pornography and Your Marital Sexual Relationship

232

Sex in Literature

233

Sexuality and Being Single

234

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 32

235

The Beauty and Challenge of Intimacy

236

Intimacy in Mormon Marriages

237

Valentines Day and Improving Your Sex Life

238

Growing Beyond Transactional Faith

239

How to Strive for Excellence (and Still Be Human!)

240

Betrayal Trauma, Part 1 & 2

241

The Teachings of Dr. David Schnarch

242

Dr. Finlayson-Fife Talks With Colleague About Dr. Schnarch's Impact and Differentiation-Based Work

243

Supporting Healthy Sexuality and Identity in Our LDS LGBTQ Children

244

Whole Hearted Loving & Stage 3 Sex

245

Creating Intimacy and Friendship in a Two-Career Household

246

When You Feel Like You’re Trying More Than Your Spouse

247

Developing Spiritual Maturity

248

LDS Female Sexuality - Part 3

249

LDS Female Sexuality - Part 2

250

LDS Female Sexuality - Part 1

251

Overcoming Unwanted Pornography Use

252

How to Own Your Desires & The Art of Intimacy

253

Sex Advice For Women

254

Chastity, Consent, and Other Sexy Things

255

Why The Struggle Is Worth It

256

How to Improve Your Relationships By Improving Yourself

257

How to Fix Your Relationship With a Partnership Mindset

258

What to Do When You Hate Sex

259

Sexuality & Happiness, A Positive View of Sex and Sexuality

260

Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

261

Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

262

Why You Really Need Self-Compassion

263

Finding Common Ground in a Mixed-Faith Marriage

264

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

265

How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

266

How to Choose More Happiness

267

Sexuality and Modesty Discourse in LDS Culture

268

Obedience and Integrity

269

Men and Intimacy

270

Defining Ourselves Through External Influences

271

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 31 - Live

272

The Psychology of Men's Sexuality

273

How to Own Your Highest Desires

274

Interfaith Relationships & Faith Crisis During Marriage

275

Self-development for Men - Part 2

276

Self-development for Men - Part 1

277

The Higher Desire Wife

278

Sex after Loss

279

Developing Emotional Maturity

280

Women's Bodies and Cultural Religious Mixed Messages

281

Integrity, Self-Honesty and Pornography

282

Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human

283

Resentment and How It’s Affecting Your Marriage

284

Setting Boundaries

285

Understanding Sexual Development

286

Understanding Desire

287

Interview With my Mom - (AKA Dr. Finlayson-Fife)

288

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Mormon Sex Therapist Talks About Integrity and Sexuality

289

How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Healing Your Body Image

290

Choosing Your Partner

291

Goal Setting and Collaboration in Marriage

292

Improving Intimacy Q&A with Dr. Finlayson-Fife

293

The Lower Desire Wife

294

Raising Our Children in an Over Sexualized World

295

Singles and Sexuality - Navigating With Clarity and Integrity

296

Betrayal Trauma Part 2

297

Betrayal Trauma Part 1

298

The Art of Belonging

299

Developing Selfhood

300

Can You Choose Love?

301

Women's Sexuality, Desire, Pornography, and Talking to Our Kids About Sex

302

Virtue, Passion, and Owning Your Desire

303

The Law of Chastity - Shame Free

304

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Therapist, Counselor, Mormon

305

Developing a Relationship With Your Sexuality and Desire

306

The Higher Desire Partner

307

Sexuality and Healthy Marriage Relationships

308

Help! I Want to Change My Spouse!

309

LDS Conceptions of Motherhood

310

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 29 - LIVE

311

Cognitive Dissonance and Faith Transition

312

Dealing With a Pornography Disclosure

313

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 28 - LIVE

314

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 27

315

Overcoming Painful or Uncomfortable Sex

316

Modesty

317

On Women and Sexuality

318

Partner Desirability and High/Low Desire Dynamics

319

Keys To Marriage Relationships That Last

320

Body Image

321

Why You Need to Know Who You Are (& How)

322

Improving Your Love Life By Loving Your Body

323

The Perils of Perfectionism

324

Approval-Seeking VS. Goodness

325

"Get Over Yourself" - When Perfectionism Undermines Your Development, Relationships, And Peace Of Mind

326

Healthy Perspectives On Sexuality

327

Single Moms Thriving

328

Being a Whole Woman Part 2

329

Being a Whole Woman Part 1

330

Differing Views and Beliefs Part 2

331

Talk to Your Kids About Sex - Shame Free

332

Why the Sex Talk is More Than Just a Talk

333

When You Have a Desire... For More Sexual Desire

334

How to Talk to Your Kids About Abuse

335

How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex

336

Differing Views and Beliefs Part 1

337

Is it Ever Virtuous to Submit?

338

Thinking and Acting For Yourself

339

Forgiving Others

340

What Happened to My Sex Drive? And What Can I Do to Get it Back?

341

Indulgent Suffering

342

How to Create and Maintain a Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood

343

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 26

344

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 25

345

The Living Nature of Mormon Covenants - Part 1

346

The Living Nature of Mormon Covenants - Part 2

347

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 24

348

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 23

349

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 22

350

Reorienting to Desire

351

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 21

352

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 20

353

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 19

354

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 18

355

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 17

356

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 16

357

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 15

358

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 14

359

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 13

360

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 12

361

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 11

362

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 10

363

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 9

364

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 8

365

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 7

366

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 6

367

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 5

368

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 4

369

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 3

370

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 2

371

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 1

372

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