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Help Me Be Me — 361 episodes
Ep 275: Loss and Fear – Facing uncertainty as with a job loss
EEp 274: Fear Loops and How to Move Through Them
EEp 273: Healing Loneliness - Allowing Universe Energy
Ep 272: What Healing Looks Like – Taking the You Out of It
EEp 271: What is my place in this world? Grounding in change
EEp 270: Dealing with Overwhelm + Calming Self
Ep 269: Soothing the Pit of Anxiety: Working through catastrophizing
Ep 268: Prompting Life - You are what you believe
EEp 267: Negative Feedback Loops + Reviving Love
EEp 266: Riding the Wave of Self
EEp 265: Winter Creative Restoration
EEp 264: Visioning + Energy Clearing for the new year
EEp 263: Enforcing Healthy Boundaries – Cake eaters + crumb beggars
EEp 262: Protecting Your Drive – Channeling Life Force
EEp 261: Guilty Blocks: Finding the way forward
Ep 260: Cultivating a Dream - Reclaiming a lost self
EEp 259: On Losing – Pivoting When You Feel Less-Than
EEp 258: Hello Soul: Designing your life around meaning and purpose
EEp 257: Love Bombing – What it is, why it happens
EEp 256: Caregiver Relationships: Setting Healthy Boundaries
EEp 255: Seeing Success as Small: a path to growth
EEp 254: Being Seated in Self: Setting Boundaries Confidently
EEp 253: Happiness Growth: Stopping the Loop of Dissatisfaction
EEp 252: Breakup Loss: The Mirror of Completeness
EEp 251: A Midlife Reckoning - Reassessing Happiness
EEp 250: Boundarying Conflicting Relationships
EEp 249: Emotional Reinforcement - Building Confidence with Love
EEp 248: Learning to Act While Anxious – Growing Trust in Self
EEp 247: The Power of Our Energy – Cleansing it + curating positivity
EEp 246: The Things We Do to Ourselves
Ep 245: Know Your Thrive Zone – for feeling alienated from yourself
EEp 244: The Pleasing Trigger - Social Grasping and Neediness
EEp 243: Fear of Inadequacy - Graduating Your Consciousness
Ep 242: Befriending Yourself – Growing self-respect
Introducing: “Mantra with Jemma Sbeg"
Ep 241: Easy Does it: Collecting self in times of overwhelm
EEp 240: Inspirational Thinking - A New Year Clips Show
EEp 239: Doom Spiral – Sorting between old and new feelings
EIntroducing: 3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms
Ep 238: Giving Grace to Self and Others
EEp 237: When Relationships Grow Distant and Rigid
EEp 236: Boundaries with Family – staying above it all
Ep 235: I’m a Failure – a mindset reset
EEp 234: Falling in Love with Potential – Choosing unhealthy partners
EEp 233: Your Feelings Hurt My Feelings – Breaking Thought Cycles
EEp 232: Guilt – Growing Through It
EEp 231: Putting Down Coping Mechanisms That No Longer Serve You
EEp 230: Light Up Your Life and the World
EEp 229: Curbing Multitasking - A joy tune up
EEp 228: Quieting the Inner Committee - Thought Filtration
Ep 227: At a Breaking Point – A calming episode
EEp 226: Zak Rosen + Making Waves of Positive Change in Your Life
EEp 225: Stuck in a Relationship You Hate
EEp 224: Moving Through Pain Toward Transformation
Ep 223: Relationship Checkup - Is it working or not
Ep 222: Befriending Yourself + Grounding Confidence
EEp 221: Redefining Yourself - Shedding Older Selves
EEp 220: Remembering Yourself – Trust + Positivity Exercises
EEp 219: Designing a Supportive Life – Living from Love
Ep 218: Humanely Navigating Long-term Relationships
EEp 217: Creating Meaning in Your Life – Making the Space for Joy
Ep 216: Beautiful Humanity – Regrowing a sense of vitality and inspiration
EEp 215: Professional Mojo – Renewing Energy and Motivation When in a Rut
EEp 214: A New Year Fresh Start – Personal Inventory Reflection
Ep 213: Gratitude + Grounding - Practices for moving through the holidays
EEp 212: Self-forgiveness – Releasing a regret you are holding onto
EEp 211: Creative Work Refresh – Tapping into your creative voice + letting it flow
Ep 210: Letting Go of a Small Self - Tools for openness as we enter the holidays
Ep 209: A Thriving Design – Building the Life Conditions for Happiness
Ep 208: Confronting Big Life Changes: Separation, divorce or letting go of an addiction
Ep 207: The Long Game – Healthy Boundaries for Complicated Arrangements
EEp 206: Not Falling Into Someone Else – Staying confidently yourself in relationships
Ep 205: Course Correcting - Taking an inventory of change
Ep 204: Over-Giving in Relationships: A Codependency Workshop
Ep 203: A Personal Check-in: Where do I stand + where am I going?
Ep 202: Tapping Into Your Dreamer: Big You and Little You
EP 201: Working With the Energy of Scarcity - Choosing fulfillment
Ep 200: Getting Back Into the Energy of Limitlessness: Mental Tuning Exercises
Ep 199: Healing from Choosing Bad Relationships: Coming Back Home to Yourself
EEp 198: Fear of Conflict: Getting comfortable voicing your needs in your relationship
Ep 197: Creative Power: Fully Tapping Into Your Creative Voice
Ep 196: Curating the Space to Know What’s Important
Ep 195: Breathing Through the Discomfort of Imposter Syndrome
Ep 194: Turning Inward - A Path to Confidence, Creativity and Excellence
Ep 193: Getting in the Energy Path of Change
Ep 192: Changing Your Life: Remembering a sense of possibility
Ep 191: The Roles We Play + how they encode us with meaning
Ep 190: Self-Regulation - Tools for calming anxiety and fear forecasting
Ep 189: Self-Compassion – Untraining unhelpful thought patterns
Ep 188: Let’s Plant Some Seeds: Reflections and intention-setting for the new year
Introducing: Sorta Awesome
Ep 187: Stepping Back: How to come back to yourself when fixated on the feelings of others
Ep 186: Life and Death - Making the Most of Time with Our Loved Ones
Ep 185: Getting Out of Your Own Way
Ep 184: Creating sanity in the face of gaslighting or a person with bad boundaries
Ep 183: Pump it up! An energy tune for if you’re feeling less-than, drained, jaded
Introducing: ReThinking: Allyson Felix on Defeating Disappointment and Savoring Success
Ep 182: Codependency in Relationships – Stepping back from a habit of controlling
Ep 181: Breaking Up With Your Thoughts: An interview with Byron Katie
Ep 180: How to Let Go of Shame Over a Past Life
Ep 179: Difficult Relationships + the power of projection
Ep 178: Inner Shine: Curating joyful energy + a sense of aliveness
Ep 177: Couples Counseling – when to do it + the ways it can help
Ep 176: The Power of Openness– An interview with author Pam Grout
Ep 175: Non-Stop Seeking – For feeling empty, never enough and unfulfilled
Ep 174: Relationship Ambivalence: Stuck in fight loops + wanting change
Ep 173: Owning Yourself - Being fully embodied and unapologetically yourself
Ep 172: Reflecting on Your Relationship: When Things Require Some Work
Ep 171: An Introduction to Dream Work
Ep 170: Inner Listening – Curating Private Psychic Space
Ep 169: Know Thyself - Moving through fear + ambivalence + growing self-trust
Ep 168: Loving Yourself Enough to Let Someone Go
EP 167: Moving Out of Jealousy + Comparison - How to Let Creativity Unfold
Ep 166: Grounding + Growing Through Ritual – An interview with Becca Piastrelli
Ep 165: Curating Life - Stepping back from thought patterns + elevating our energy
Ep 164: Bad Relationship – Dating a person who is cheating + lying, feeling powerless
Ep 163: Parents + Family Who are Emotionally Hurtful
Ep 162: Chasing Beauty – A painful fixation on our looks
Ep 161: Building a Vision
Ep 160: Holiday Feels – Ways to Stay Centered in the Face of Holiday Stress
Ep 159: Paths Back to Worthiness
Ep 158: Hearing the Change You Want
How to grow your sense of self
A reflection on play and feeling fully alive
Ep 157: Lauri Burns of The Teen Project: Growing Your Intuition + Sense of Spirituality
Ep 156: Emotional Scripts - When Family Emotional Patterns Repeat
Ep 155: In Love With an Addict - Codependent and obsessed with someone else’s using
Ep 154: How to Set Boundaries with Family + Loved Ones
Ep 153: Letting Go of an Addiction – Smoking, drugs or something else that’s killing you
EEp 152: Good Boundaries – What they are, how to set them + how to be self-loving
Ep 151: Easy Does It – Dealing with a stressful life
Ep 150: Painful Comparison - Why it’s happening and how to find relief
Ep 149: How to Move On Without Closure
EEp 148: Stuck in a Codependent and Bad Relationship – Tools for strength-building
Ep 147: Our Words: Becoming Aware of the Stories We Tell Ourselves and Others
Ep 146: Love Reset: For when reactivity and oversensitivity takeover healthy relationships
Ep 145: Regaining Confidence and Autonomy When Feeling Clingy + Small
EEp 144: Creative Fertility + Inspiration - Tools For Creative Burnout
EEp 143: Fostering Enoughness - Tools for combating envy
EEp 142: Self-Dialoguing - How to Do Self-Work in a Journal
EEp 141: Imposter Phenomenon - Feeling Like You Don’t Deserve the Good in Your Life
EEp 140: Dealing With Loneliness - Tools for Mid-Pandemic
EWorking in a Vacuum: Inspiration for when you feel groundless
EEp 139: Comedian Sam Tallent on How to Create Art for Joy + Being True to Yourself
EGrieving the loss of time
ESelf-Help for people who hate self-help
EWhen Life Feels Limited - Open a Window
EEp 138: Negotiating Messy Family Relationships
ESeriously Burned Out
EEp 137: Fight Loops in Relationships - Finding Empowerment
EDon’t Forget Yourself: Keeping Lightness in Your Life
EEp 136: Rock Bottom - Where to Go From Shame
EEp 135: Empty on the Inside - Attention-Seeking on the Outside
EEp 134: How to Stop Insecurities From Hurting Your Relationship
EWhen the Narcissist Contacts You Out of the Blue
EEp 133: Stuck + Ambivalent: When You Can’t Make a Decision or Let Go
EEp 132: Not Good Enough: Obsessing About Our Faults + What to Do About It
EEp 131: Working as a Creative + Sharing Yourself With the World
EFeeling Unstable: For Those Having a Hard Time Emotionally Processing
EAudience Q&A’s: On the Fence About Having Kids (part 2)
EEp 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great
EEp 129: Caregiver Burnout + Secondary Trauma: When the suffering of others gets to you
EEp 128 : Totally Overwhelmed: Keeping Calm + Thinking Rationally
EEp 127: Dealing with Overwhelming Stress, Anxiety + Worry due to COVID-19
EEp 126: Problems Oversharing in New Relationships
EAudience Q&A’s: Dealing with Rejection
EEp 125: Base-Level Self: When You're Acting Like a Person You Hate
EEp 124: Living From the Neck Up - When You’re Not as Happy as You “Should be”
EEp 123: Giving Up on Change + Feeling Stuck
EA Self-Awareness Reflection as You Start the New Year
EEp 122: Shame and Trauma: Unseen Bruises that Define Self
EEp 121: Inner Dialogues: When Others Trigger Us + We Get Stuck in Our Heads
EEp 120: Study Your Inner Scripts + Negative Self-Talk
EEp 119: Emotional Spending + self-soothing habits that hurt
EEp 118: Being Treated Like Crap – What to do, how much to take
EEp 117: Self-Care + Mental Maintenance: Building Your House Right
EEp: 116 Chronic Emptiness & Depression: The Body’s Way of Mourning Life
ETools for Self-Regulation: Staying in the “Chill Zone”
EEp 115: How to deal with people who trigger you
ESelf-Advocacy: Tips for Growth in the Workplace
EEp 114: Painful Perfectionism
EManaging Stress & Avoiding Burnout
EEp 113: How to Stop Being a Controller
EEp 112: Dating Anxiety – How to deal when your brain stops working
EEp 111: How to Tell if You’re Dating a Narcissist
EEp 110: Owning Your Power - A New Years Reflection Exercise
EAud Q&A’s: How to Stick to a Breakup When You Feel Weak and Confused
EAudience Q&A's: How to Deal with Self-Doubt Around Applying for Jobs
EAudience Q&A: Questioning Worth & Life Decisions
EEp 109: Breaking Up with Ed - overcoming a binge-eating disorder
EDetaching From Ego & Connecting to Higher Self
EEp 108: Ghosting – Why’d it happen & what to do if it happens to you
EEp 107: Kicking a Toxic Love - Relationship Withdrawals
E21 Days of Happiness Challenge
EThe Self-Care Tools I Use the Most(Currently)
EEp 106: Fear of Intimacy + Commitment
EAudience Q&A’s: Partner With Boundary Issues + Unrequited Love
EEp 105: Inner Unworthiness + Self-Judgment
EAudience Q&A’s: What to do - BF cheating on Grindr + Ghosted after job loss
EEp 104: Messy Loss: How to approach the death of someone you've had lots of conflict with
ECurbing Smartphone Addiction & FOMO
EEp 103: How to Keep Your Balance During Times of Life Chaos and Hardship
EAudience Q&A: How to Build Positive Friendships
EAudience Q&A: Painful Infatuation, Feeling Empty & Lost, Needing Instant Friends
EEp 102: Why Won't He Sleep With Me? When Relationships Become Sexless
ELook Forward to the New Year – A Journal Reflection Exercise
EEp 101: How to Find Your Passion & Choose a Career Path
EAudience Q&A's: How to Trust Your Gut + Stop Focusing on Expectations of Others
EEp 100: How to Deal with Getting an STD
EAudience Q&A's: How to Deal with the Pain of Future Loss + Repeatedly Being Broken Up With
EEp 99: Constructive Criticism: How to Grow a Thicker Skin as a Creative Person
EUnsure About Having Kids: Help Making Big Life Decisions
EMy Life Hurts: When A Problem is Really, Really Bad
EHealing a Possibly Scarring Experience Into a Resilience Booster
EEp 98: Resilience for Codependents and Those Experiencing Adult Hardships
EEp 97: Improv Therapy- Being Awesomely Yourself w/ Billy Merritt of Upright Citizens Brigade Theater
EAudience Q&A's: What To Do if You’re Stuck and Passionless, Stuck and Hopeless, Stuck and Friendless
EThe Self-Work Vortex: Why Am I Still Unhappy?
EAudience Q&A’s: Obsessed About Ex Moving On Soul-Mates + When to Start Dating Again
EEp 96: Sibling Rivalry – Why We Can’t Stop Fighting, Blaming & Resenting
EBrain Clutter: Creating Mental and Spiritual Space for Yourself
EEp 95: Forgiveness: How to let go of hurt and anger, and why to do it at all
EEp 93: Relationship Fight Loops and Distance: Why We Lose Access to Intimacy
EPreventative PMS: How to protect those you love and balance your bod
EAudience Q&A's: Obsessed Exs, Depressed Partners and Getting Ghosted
EEp 92: Confidence in Love - A Core Workout
EEp 91: Rules of Courtship, Dating & Sealing the Deal w/ Alicia Marder
EEp 89: How to Deal with Emotional Dysregulation with Dr. Sharon Flynn
EHow to deal with rejection
EEp 88: What to do when you can’t speak your truth
EHoliday Reflection Exercise: glance back on your year
EAudience Q+A's: Guilt, ish w/ family, unfollowing ex's, dating anxiety & universal stuckness
EEp 87: What to do When You Have Feelings You Don't Want to Feel
EHate relief: How to stop hating and how to heal from a hate crime
EEp 86: Love Anxiety - How to Deal with Fear Forecasting in New Relationships
EGratitude Joy-State Powerup
EEp 85: How to Stop Bad Relationship Loops
EEp 84: Therapy 101 - What Kind of Help to Get, Why + How
E30 Days of Gratitude Challenge
EEp 83: Balanced Goal Setting - Enjoying Life While Achieving
EChronic Fomo: A Recalibration Exercise
EEp 82: When We Lose Friends to Love - the Pairing-Off Process that is Adulthood
ECollege Essay Rough Draft C, or Why Therapy is Worth It
EBe Alive! Enjoy Being Simply - Yourself
EEp 81: Stress Eating and the Difference Between Good Stress and Bad Stress
EEp 80: I Want My Ex Back - Best Practices Toward Loving Outcomes
EA Grounding Talk for Confronting What Feels Impossible
EEp 79: In Living Color: Self-Examination Exercises to Get More Out of Experiences
EGrief & Deep Sadness - a meditation exercise for releasing and passing pain
EI Am So Upset!!! (Anger Fixation Relief - Part Deux)
EEp 78: Codependency: I Need to Find Someone Who Will Make Me Whole
EEp 77: Something's Wrong: When Worry, Hurt, Stress and Sadness Make You Stuck
EWhen Life Gives You a Wedgie and Smashes Your Confidence
EAnger Fixation Relief: A gratitude reflection exercise
EEp 76: Dirty Tactics: When Someone Uses Manipulation to Make You Feel Crazy
EEp 75: WTF Happened? When Great Relationships Suddenly Turn Bad
EEp 74: Self-Sabotage: Why We Betray Ourselves and Destroy Our Relationships
EThe Invisible Wall Blocking You From Change
EHow to Be There: A Simple Way to Make Life More Meaningful
EEp 73: Love & Honesty: What We Hide and Why
EAn Introduction to "The Break-Up Album" (in honor of Valentine's Day)
EEp 72: Toxic Love: I Need Her, Don’t Leave Me, I Can’t Live Without Him
EA Gratitude New Year Reflection Practice, To Do With a Friend or Solo
EEp 71: Creating Your Worth: How to Ask for a Raise and Interview With the Best Outcome
EEp 70: Weak and Insecure: How to Grow Your Strength and Confidence at Work and in Life
EA Simple Reflection Exercise for Clarity and Awareness
EEp 69: How to deal with family who are unwelcoming and mean
EEp 68: Burnout – How to Deal With Creative and Motivational Exhaustion
EEp 67: Living As A Fraud: When you have a voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough
EEp 66: How to Use Compassion to Rise Above the Hate & Intolerance of Others
EEpisode 65: Stuck, Depressed and Full of Self-Hate
EEpisode 64: Trivial Couple Fights: For Getting Stuck in Battles of the Technicalities
EEpisode 63: How to Love – Giving to Your Relationship in the Best Way Possible
EA Teaspoon of Happy
EEpisode 62: Where We Hold Pain: How Negative Emotions Get Stuck in Our Bodies
EWhat's the Rush?
EEpisode 61: Frustration and Dissatisfaction: I’m Not Where I Want to Be and That Sucks.
EEpisode 60: Crankiness: For Anger, Meanness and Chronic Negativity
EEmotional Heaviness: Releasing Sorrow, Stress and Emotional Muck
EEpisode 59: Ex-Obsessed: Emotionally Devastated and Driving Yourself Insane
EEpisode 58: The Importance of Being Present
EEpisode 57: The Average Case of Body Dysmorphia - Ugliness In the Eyes of the Beholder
EEpisode 56: How to get over it: How to stop old conflicts from stunting your present life
EEpisode 55: Jealousy – How to Rise Above Your Weakest Self
EEpisode 54: Stuck in Survival Mode – When Worry Takes Over Your Life
EEpisode 53: Love Languages: Overcoming Emotional Baggage So You Can Better Receive and Give Love
EEpisode 52: How to Stop Negative Thoughts
EEpisode 50: How To Break Away From A Narcissist Relationship
EEpisode 51: We Are The Slashies - 5 Ways to Grow as a Working Creative
EEpisode 49: Emotional Eating: How to Tackle Negative Soothing Habits Tied to Food
EManufacturing the Capacity for Happiness
EEpisode 48: Busyness Junkies: Breaking the Habit of Stress and Over-Scheduling
ENego-Habit Shift: Make One Small Change to Make a Massive Difference
EEpisode 47: What to Look For in a Therapist
EEpisode 46: Going Nowhere: Stuck in a Bad Relationship
EPersonal Happy Place: For When You're Stuck in a Place in Life You Don't Want to Be
EEpisode 45: What's the Work in Self-Work - Sizing Up the Personal Growth Ahead
EEpisode 44: Personal Priorities Pond - A Self-Esteem Building Exercise
EEpisode 43: Parents Just Don’t Understand: for the pain caused by parents who didn’t do their job
EEpisode 42: Prison of Thoughts-Recognizing the Ego That Has Blocked You from Happiness
EEpisode 41: What Do They Think: How to Stop Obsessing About Other People’s Thoughts
EEpisode 40: Personal Goal Misalignment - When You're Not Getting the Results You Want
EStruggling to Keep Up the Work When You Haven't Seen Results
EFeeling Isolated When You're Working Hard to Make Positive Change
EEpisode 39: Finding a State of Inner Balance-Tools for Strength-Building
EBrain Chatter Relief: A Daily Quieting Meditation
EEpisode 38: Emotionally Raw and in a State of Pain
EOutsmarting Negative Thought Patterns
EEpisode 37: Training in a Positive Mindset
EEpisode 36: The Badges That Define You and Dictate Your Self-Worth
EEpisode 35: Justin Lyon on Yo Gabba Gabba, Inspiration and Success
EEpisode 34: Besties: Zooey Deschanel on Childhood Memories and What Makes a Friendship Last Forever
EEpisode 33: Blindsided with a Broken-heart: When you lose something you thought you had forever.
EEpisode 32: Sticktoitivness: When You Want to Give Up is When it's Most Important to Keep Going
EEpisode 31: Self-Control: Why a lack of it isn’t your fault, plus a couple ways to improve it.
EEpisode 30: Mourning and Dealing with the Pain of Loss
EMini-Mindfulness Meditation
EEpisode 29: How to Stop Thinking So Much - Tools for Chronic Overthinking
EWhen will my self-work start working? An emotional power-up when you’re discouraged and dwelling.
EEpisode 28: Regret: Relief from the Self-Inflicted Pain that Drives Us Mad
EEpisode 27: Nine Tools to Build Successful Friendships
EEpisode 26: Going Back Home for the Holiday - Tools for Managing Hurtful Family Dynamics
EExtra-Strength Lightening Bolt: For Prolonged Bad Moods and a Jolt Out of Negativity
EEpisode 25: Vengeance of the Heart - When you've been burned and you're all-consumed
EAnger-Soothing Meditation: For When You're Stuck in Actively Painful Situations
EWhen You're Hating On Yourself and Feel Like a Loser *Contains Sparse Profanity
EA Visualization Exercise for Putting Painful Feelings Away
EEpisode 24: The Smart Way to Quit with Entrepreneur and Fashionista, Jennifer Puno
EEpisode 23: Where to start the process of personal growth
EEpisode 22: Create Awesomely - Movie-Monster-Maker Mark Shostrom on Letting Your Creative Soul Shine
EEpisode 21: Undoing Negative Muscle Memory or When Your Body has a Mind of Its Own
EBalance Meditation and Personal Awesomeness Visualization (Sans Music)
EEmotional Balancing & Soothing Reflection Exercise
EEpisode 20: I Thought I Had it All Figured Out
EYou are Spectacular
EEpisode 19: The Mind Body Connection
EI should be doing better
EEpisode 18: Learning How To Trust Again - Getting Over Bad Experiences
EEpisode 17: Diet Fear - When Your Body Feels Like an Alien
EEpisode 16: Why Don't They Like Me
EEpisode 15: Great Expectations - When People You Love Disappoint You
EEpisode 14: Holistic Beauty - An Interview With Celeb Choreographer Sophie Olson
EEpisode 13: Detaching with Love
EEpisode 12: The Good Fight: Tools for constructive fighting
EEpisode 11: Looking For Love in All The Wrong Places
EEpisode 10: Commit to Happiness
EEpisode 9: Shame Shame Shame
EEverything's Alright Alright
EIt's Never Too Late
EEpisode 6: The Dating Game
EEpisode 7: Self-Love from Scratch
EEpisode 5: Letting Go
EEpisode 4: Stuckness
EEpisode 3: Frenemies
EHelp Me Be Me: A Case of Malaise
EStop Self-Doubt
EDon't Be Discouraged!
EHelpMeBeMe: All worry is wasted
EEpisode 8: Walking the Inspired Path
EEpisode 2: Fat Thoughts
EEpisode 1: "The Why"
E