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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People — 219 episodes

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Worth Repeating: Protecting Your Job When Home Life Turns High Conflict

2

Worth Repeating: Why Some People Go Zero to Sixty with Anger (And Others Don't)

3

Worth Repeating: A Retired Judge's Playbook for Family Court Success

4

Worth Repeating: Parental Alienation, False Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting in Family Court

5

From Case-by-Case to Conflict-Smart: High Conflict at Work, Part 4 of 4

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From Reacting to Responding: High Conflict at Work, Part 3 of 4

7

What HR Keeps Missing: High Conflict at Work, Part 2 of 4

8

Why Workplace Conflict Is Surging: High Conflict at Work, Part 1 of 4

9

Accepting the Limits of a High Conflict Relationship

10

How to Leave a High Conflict Relationship Without Escalating

11

How Validation Calms the Brain: The Science of EAR Statements

12

When It's Not Your Fault: Blame, Backlash, and Setting Limits

13

When No One Believes You About High Conflict

14

When Addiction Meets Custody: Building a Plan That Holds, Part 2

15

When Addiction and Antisocial Behavior Collide in Custody

16

Why Your Child Absorbs Your Emotions

17

Passive Aggressive Behavior: Is It High Conflict?

18

Conflict Creators: Why Drama Gets Into Our Heads

19

High Conflict Behavior at Work Part 2 with Michael Lomax

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High Conflict Behavior at Work with Michael Lomax

21

Setting Boundaries in High Conflict Situations

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Can High Conflict Relationships Ever Become Truly Mutual? Setting Realistic Expectations and Boundaries

23

Beyond No-Contact: High Conflict Skills for Family Relationships

24

SLIC Solutions for Limits: How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work (with Ekaterina Ricci)

25

Self-Compassion and DBT: How New Treatment Approaches Transform BPD Recovery with Amanda Smith

26

Worth Repeating: Protecting Elderly Loved Ones from High Conflict Manipulation

27

Worth Repeating: Setting Limits Without Public Exposure to Manage Difficult Behavior

28

Worth Repeating: Skills Over Discipline to Transform Workplace Conflict with Cherolyn Knapp

29

Worth Repeating: Finding Your Path Forward with High Conflict Parents

30

Worth Repeating: Turning Down High Conflict at Work with Cherolyn Knapp

31

Worth Repeating: High-Conflict Holiday Guide

32

Setting Limits That Stick: The SLIC Method for Effective Boundaries

33

Choosing Safe Partners: Understanding Red Flags in Dating with Dr. David Wexler

34

Healthcare Conflict Solutions: Managing Hospital Tensions in High-Stress Environments with Dr. Jeff Stuart

35

Family Boundaries: Supporting Children Through High-Conflict Divorce

36

High Conflict Communication Skills: Navigating Personal Change and Blended Family Dynamics

37

Hostile Neighbor Conflict: How to Handle Community Harassment and Stay Safe

38

Setting Boundaries in High Conflict: Your Questions About Difficult Relationships

39

High Conflict Listener Questions: When Different Personalities Collide in Families

40

High Conflict in Court: Managing Charm, Control, and Challenging Testimony

41

Falsely Blamed? How to Protect Yourself and Respond • REBROADCAST

42

The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3) • REBROADCAST

43

Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors • REBROADCAST

44

High Conflict Patterns: Understanding Situational vs Long-Term Behavior • And We Introduce Conflict Influencer!

45

Child Abuse Allegations: Finding Truth and Safety in Family Court with Dr. Wendy Bourg

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Trauma vs. Entitlement: Finding Balance in High Conflict Situations

47

Female Teacher Sexual Misconduct: Understanding Power Dynamics and Emotional Drivers

48

High Conflict Surprises: How to Recover When You Never Saw It Coming

49

“Why Don’t You Just Leave?”: Understanding Abuse & Finding Your Way Out

50

Histrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6) • REBROADCAST

51

Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5) • REBROADCAST

52

Recognizing High Conflict Patterns: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 1) • REBROADCAST

53

Royal Family Fallout: How Public Scrutiny Damages Family Reconciliation

54

Borderline Personality Disorder: Courts, Recovery & Reform with Shehrina Rooney

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Hidden in Plain Sight: Decoding the Doomsday Mom's High-Conflict Personality

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Listener Q&A: Breaking Through High Conflict Patterns & Building Better Relationships

57

Family Q&A: Real Solutions for High Conflict Relationships

58

DNA Surprises & Family Secrets: Managing Genetic Identity Discoveries with Kara Rubenstein Deyerin

59

Negotiation's Missing Peace: Finding Humanity in High Conflict with Michèle Huff

60

Be Assertive, Not Aggressive: Winning in Family Court with Judge Bruce Cohen (ret.)

61

Zero to Sixty: Understanding Why Some People Can't Control Their Anger

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Big Emotions Explained: Understanding Emotion Dysregulation and BPD

63

Calm Before Think: Mastering Emotional Management in Professional Settings

64

When Home Hurts: Managing High Conflict's Impact on Your Career

65

Seeds of Personality: Understanding Psychopathy's Origins and Impact (Part 2)

66

Beyond the Mask: Understanding Psychopathy in Modern Society (Part 1)

67

Meet Judge Bruce R. Cohen (ret.): Family Court Success from Both Sides of the Bench

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REBROADCAST: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

69

REBROADCAST: Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner

70

REBROADCAST: Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations

71

Safeguarding Seniors: Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities

72

More High Conflict Questions Answered: Self-Discovery, Court Battles & Family Dynamics

73

Family Court Q&A: Parental Alienation, Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting

74

Paranoid Personality Profiles: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 7)

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Histrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6)

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Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5)

77

Asked and Answered: Your Questions on High Conflict Personalities, Relationships, and Self-Improvement

78

Empowering Domestic Violence Victims: Law Enforcement Strategies for High Conflict Situations with Nick Hartbauer

79

High Conflict and Intimate Partner Violence: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 4)

80

The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3)

81

The Antisocial Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 2)

82

Recognizing High Conflict Patterns: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 1)

83

The High Conflict Personality Experience: Insights from Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman

84

Navigating High Conflict Loved Ones: Answering Listener Questions

85

Transforming High Conflict Co-Parenting: Raising Thriving Teens with Kevin Chafin

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Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner

87

Asked and Answered: Navigating High Conflict Personalities with Practical Strategies

88

REBROADCAST: Red Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1

89

REBROADCAST: Setting Limits Without Going Over the Line

90

REBROADCAST: Walking Away

91

REBROADCAST: Let a Win Be a Win in High Conflict

92

World of Bullies #5: Strategies for Dealing with Bully Neighbors

93

World of Bullies #4: Recognizing and Confronting Bullying Behavior in Leaders

94

World of Bullies #3: Unveiling the Invisible Enemy - Confronting Family Bullies

95

World of Bullies #2: Unmasking Bullies in the Workplace and Mediation with Michael Lomax

96

World of Bullies #1: Navigating the New World of Adult Bullying

97

Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part Two with Guest Amanda Smith

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Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part One with Guest Amanda Smith

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Bringing It to Life #5: Navigating Money and Corporate Complexities in High Conflict Divorces with Guest Kate Merrill

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Bringing It to Life #4: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in Academia

101

Bringing It to Life #3: Dealing with Parental Alienation

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Bringing It to Life #2: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in the Workplace

103

Bringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation Part Two

104

Bringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation & Poll Results

105

Exploring the Path to Mediation: A Conversation with Sonja Wood

106

Defusing Workplace Drama: Expert Advice for Managing High Conflict Personalities

107

The Great Custody Debate: Sole vs. Joint in High Conflict Divorces

108

Married or Divorced? Examining Women's Happiness in Relationships

109

Navigating Concerns of Factitious Disorder: When High Conflict Distorts Perceptions

110

Drawing the Line: Setting Boundaries for External Conflicts at Work

111

Red Flags in Teen Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 2

112

Red Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1

113

Setting Limits Without Going Over the Line

114

Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations

115

Pulling the Plug on a Hostile Conversation

116

Falsely Blamed? How to Protect Yourself and Respond

117

Civil Communications for Lawyers and Law Offices

118

Grief Over the Death of a High Conflict Loved One

119

The Art of Mindful Engagement: Using EAR Statements Judiciously

120

Floundering Into Adulthood: Overcoming Alienation and Parents with Personality Disorders

121

When Grandkids Get Caught in High Conflict

122

Manipulators in Plain Sight: Spotting Antisocial Personality Disorder

123

Surviving High Conflict Divorce, Custody Battles, and Parental Alienation

124

Over the Fence: High Conflict Neighbor Disputes

125

Family Feuds: Navigating High Conflict Personality Clashes

126

Caught in the Crossfire: Escaping High Conflict Contagion

127

Workplace Gaslighting: Two-Person Conflict or One High-Conflict Person?

128

Group Dynamics Decoded: Taming High Conflict Drama and Disruptions

129

High Conflict Under the Microscope: Unveiling New Insights from a Summer of Reflection

130

REBROADCAST: 10 Paradigm Shifts of High Conflict Mediation with Guest Michael Lomax

131

REBROADCAST: The New Elephant in the Room: Personality Disorders

132

Walking Away

133

Apology Quicksand

134

HOA Headaches with High Conflict Complaints

135

REBROADCAST: TikTok Famous: Parental Alienation and Barricaded Bedrooms

136

REBROADCAST: Parental Alienation in Divorce with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker, Part 2

137

REBROADCAST: Parental Alienation in Divorce with Dr. Amy J. L. Baker, Part 1

138

The New Ways for Families Program

139

Exposure and Humiliation as a High-Conflict Strategy

140

Let a Win Be a Win in High Conflict

141

Narcissists Who Endanger Their Countries

142

TikTok Famous: Parental Alienation and Barricaded Bedrooms

143

HCPs in HR, Genuine vs. Feigned Empathy, and Child HCPs

144

Blamers Who Call CPS, Minimizing Contact with HCPS, and Quiet HCPs

145

High Conflict People in Mediation, Emotional Triggers in BIFF Responses, and Hereditary Antisocial Personality Disorder

146

Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors

147

The Alex Murdaugh Con and How to Avoid Being Conned

148

Alex Murdaugh’s Personality: Is He a Sociopath, Psychopath, Antisocial?

149

Why Connection Is So Important in High Conflict Interactions

150

High Conflict Workplace Investigations with Guest Host Cherolyn Knapp and Guest Bob Stenhouse

151

Divorce Radio and Celebrity Divorce with Guest Ilyssa Panitz

152

10 Paradigm Shifts of High Conflict Mediation with Guest Michael Lomax

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Family Law in Israel with Guest Michal Fein

154

Telling a High Conflict Spouse That You Want a Divorce

155

Getting it Backwards in Family Court—Winners & Losers

156

The New Elephant in the Room: Personality Disorders

157

Confirmation Bias in High Conflict Situations: How to Avoid Being Fooled by High Conflict People

158

Times of High Risk: The Most Dangerous Times with HCPs

159

Dilemmas & Decisions: Why It’s So Hard to Stop Yourself from Over-reacting in High-Conflict Situations

160

How Brainwashing Works on a Child’s Brain

161

Yes, And—Improvisation & Creativity in Conflict Communication with Guest Kelly Leonard of The Second City

162

Erasing Family with Guest Director Ginger Gentile

163

Transforming Inmates into Peacemakers, with Guest Doug Noll: Part 2

164

Transforming Inmates into Peacemakers, with Guest Doug Noll: Part 1

165

Solutions for High Conflict at Work with Guest Cherolyn Knapp

166

What is the Difference Between Alienation & Estrangement?

167

What are the 4 Fuhgedaboudits When Interacting with Someone with a High Conflict Personality?

168

What is the High Conflict Personality Theory?

169

When to Stop Trying with Someone with a High Conflict Personality

170

Parental Alienation in Divorce with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker, Part 2

171

Parental Alienation in Divorce with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker, Part 1

172

REBROADCAST: Domestic Violence in Family Law: Part 1

173

REBROADCAST: Using BIFF Responses

174

REBROADCAST: High Conflict Emotion Contagion

175

REBROADCAST: Part 2: Borderline Personality Disorder for Family Members

176

REBROADCAST: Narcissistic High Conflict People

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REBROADCAST: Who Are High Conflict People?

178

Are Personality Disorders a Mental Illness?

179

Narcissists: The Great Dividers

180

What If I’m High Conflict?

181

Can People with High Conflict Personalities Change?

182

Q and A Lab: Paranoid Personalities

183

A Conversation with Amanda Ripley: a Best-Selling Journalist’s View of High Conflict

184

On Being a Megaphone: Should You Tell the Judge, Boss, HR, or Others That the other Person is High Conflict?

185

High Conflict in Education: Chaos, Attrition, and Fear with Guest Sandra Just

186

New Ways for Families

187

A High Conflict Divorce with a (rare) Successful Outcome

188

Johnny Depp & Amber Heard: Are Domestic Violence Allegations True or False?

189

Bullies at Work with Catherine Mattice

190

Q&A Lab - Answering Listener Questions

191

Part 2: Borderline Personality Disorder for Family Members

192

Part 1: Borderline Personality Disorder for Those Who Suffer

193

Will Smith: High Conflict or Just Upset?

194

When a High Conflict Decision-Maker Uses BIFF & EAR on You

195

High Conflict Certification for the Workplace

196

Finally Figuring It Out: Learning From a Late-in-Life Bi-Polar Diagnosis with Dr. Jay Lieberman

197

Putin’s Potential: Is Putin a Malignant Narcissist? Part 2

198

Is Putin a Malignant Narcissist? If So, Can We Predict His Future Actions?

199

Using Empathy, Attention and Respect to Calm Current Conflicts

200

Q&A Lab: Dating Edition

201

Dating Radar: Your Blind Spots

202

Dating Radar: How HCPs Jam Your Radar

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Dating Radar: High Conflict Types You Might Want to Avoid

204

High Conflict Emotion Contagion

205

Q & A Lab

206

Domestic Violence in Family Law: Part 2

207

Domestic Violence in Family Law: Part 1

208

Harm Reduction with YouTube Influencer & Author Dr. Todd Grande

209

Holiday Conflict Reduction

210

Living on the Edge: Borderline High Conflict People

211

Living With Suspicion: Paranoid High Conflict People

212

Dealing with Drama: Histrionic High Conflict People

213

The Sociopath: Antisocial High Conflict People

214

Narcissistic High Conflict People

215

The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

216

HCPs in the Workplace & Using BIFF at Work

217

Using BIFF Responses

218

Who Are High Conflict People?

219

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