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Loving BDSM — 300 episodes · page 2 of 3
Obedience in Power Exchange
Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic?
Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities
Q&A: Am I Really Submissive?
Getting Our D/s Life Back in 2025
Q&A: What Happens If You Can’t Agree That a Sub Broke a Rule?
Looking Back at our D/s Relationship in 2024
Q&A: Does the Kink Community Welcome All Body Types?
Answering More Vanilla Relationship Questions
Q&A: How Do We Find the Balance Between Our Power Exchange Needs?
Navigating the Holidays in Power Exchange
Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?
BDSM Reddit Response
Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?
Kinky Q&A
Q&A: How Do I Talk About My Mental Health?
Assertive Submissives
Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community?
Dominants and Communication
Q&A: How Can I Motivate My Dom to Bring D/s Out of the Bedroom?
Old Relationship Energy in Power Exchange
BDSM Reddit Response
Q&A: Can We Go Back to Normal?
When Life Interferes with Your Power Exchange | Back to Basics Series
Q&A: How Do I Enjoy Scenes with a Nervous Domme?
Where to Find a Dominant or Submissive Partner | Back to Basics Series
Q&A: Is It Okay to Enjoy Our Power Dynamic Without Labeling It?
What to Watch Out for in New D/s Relationships | Back to Basics Series
Q&A: How Do I Move Past Bad Memories to Enjoy Old Kinks?
Consent in D/s Relationships | Back to Basics
Q&A: Can I Avoid an Active Member in My Local Community?
Starting a New D/s Relationship | Back to Basics
Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant?
Kinky Q&A
Things We’ve Learned About Power Exchange in Nine Years of Podcasting
Q&A: Can We Be Switches in Different Ways and Still Have a Good D/s Relationship?
The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance
Q&A: How Can My Dom Become Comfortable Initiating Free Use?
Imposter Syndrome in Power Exchange and Kink
Q&A: What If a Dom Doesn’t Always Want to Lead?
BDSM Reddit Response
Q&A: When is the Right Time to Meet in Real Life?
Answering Cute and Spicy Questions
Q&A: How Do I Trust My Dom Again?
Radical Honesty in Power Exchange
Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want to Switch?
Needing External Motivation in Power Exchange
Task Creep in Power Exchange
Celebrating 400 Episodes with Kinky Q&A
BDSM Reddit Response
Over Communication in Power Exchange
Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?
Submission With Control Issues
Q&A: How Do We Get Our Kink Life Back After Having a Baby?
What Grounds or Centers You in Kink?
Q&A: How Do I Help My Dom Act More Commanding?
Responsibilities to Your Power Exchange
Q&A: Should I Just Let My BDSM Relationship End?
Answering Feel Good Relationship Questions
Q&A: What Make Good Punishments and Rewards?
BDSM Reddit Response
Q&A: What Do I When People Reject Me For Being Kinky?
A Bonus Section Episode
Q&A: Are Most Kinky People Also Non-Monogamous?
Building Confidence in D/s and Your Kink Identity
Q&A: What Kinky Lingerie Options Are Available for Big Breasts?
Do Submissives Really Have All the Power in D/s?
How Do I Introduce My Kink Partner and Honor the Requirements of My Divorce?
Answering Random But “Deep” Relationship Questions
Q&A: How Do I Connect With People in My Local Kink Community?
Responding to Your Kinky Hot Takes and Unpopular Opinions
Q&A: Will These Household Items Work as Pervertables?
Ask Us Anything!
Q&A: How Do I Navigate a Complex Poly and Kink Relationship with Two Partners?
Submission and Pleasure
Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play?
What is a Pleasure Dom?
What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load?
BDSM Reddit Response
Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla Friend?
The State of Our Power Exchange
Q&A: Is Anger Part of Dominance?
Age Gaps in Power Exchange
Q&A: How Do We Make the Most of Our LDR?
How We Show Up in Our D/s Relationship
A Commercial Break Ramble
How Do We Renegotiate Our Marriage For D/s?
Free Use and Blanket Consent in Power Exchange
Q&A: How Do I Get Kinky Punishment Without Sex?
Our 2024 Kinky Goals and Plans
Q&A: Is This Past Trauma or a New Beginning for My Submissive?
BDSM Reddit Response
How Do I Negotiate When They Want to Experiment With Kink?
BDSM in the News
Can a Submissive Negotiate Their Rewards?
How Well Do We Know Each Other | Answering Relationship Questions
What Do I Do When My Dominant Wants Something Silly?
Pure Randomness | A Bonus Section Episode
What We Find Easy and Hard About Kink
How Can We Have the D/s We Planned While We Were LDR?