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Obedience in Power Exchange

102

Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic?

103

Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities

104

Q&A: Am I Really Submissive?

105

Getting Our D/s Life Back in 2025

106

Q&A: What Happens If You Can’t Agree That a Sub Broke a Rule?

107

Looking Back at our D/s Relationship in 2024

108

Q&A: Does the Kink Community Welcome All Body Types?

109

Answering More Vanilla Relationship Questions

110

Q&A: How Do We Find the Balance Between Our Power Exchange Needs?

111

Navigating the Holidays in Power Exchange

112

Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?

113

BDSM Reddit Response

114

Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?

115

Kinky Q&A

116

Q&A: How Do I Talk About My Mental Health?

117

Assertive Submissives

118

Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community?

119

Dominants and Communication

120

Q&A: How Can I Motivate My Dom to Bring D/s Out of the Bedroom?

121

Old Relationship Energy in Power Exchange

122

BDSM Reddit Response

123

Q&A: Can We Go Back to Normal?

124

When Life Interferes with Your Power Exchange | Back to Basics Series

125

Q&A: How Do I Enjoy Scenes with a Nervous Domme?

126

Where to Find a Dominant or Submissive Partner | Back to Basics Series

127

Q&A: Is It Okay to Enjoy Our Power Dynamic Without Labeling It?

128

What to Watch Out for in New D/s Relationships | Back to Basics Series

129

Q&A: How Do I Move Past Bad Memories to Enjoy Old Kinks?

130

Consent in D/s Relationships | Back to Basics

131

Q&A: Can I Avoid an Active Member in My Local Community?

132

Starting a New D/s Relationship | Back to Basics

133

Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant?

134

Kinky Q&A

135

Things We’ve Learned About Power Exchange in Nine Years of Podcasting

136

Q&A: Can We Be Switches in Different Ways and Still Have a Good D/s Relationship?

137

The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance

138

Q&A: How Can My Dom Become Comfortable Initiating Free Use?

139

Imposter Syndrome in Power Exchange and Kink

140

Q&A: What If a Dom Doesn’t Always Want to Lead?

141

BDSM Reddit Response

142

Q&A: When is the Right Time to Meet in Real Life?

143

Answering Cute and Spicy Questions

144

Q&A: How Do I Trust My Dom Again?

145

Radical Honesty in Power Exchange

146

Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want to Switch?

147

Needing External Motivation in Power Exchange

148

Task Creep in Power Exchange

149

Celebrating 400 Episodes with Kinky Q&A

150

BDSM Reddit Response

151

Over Communication in Power Exchange

152

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

153

Submission With Control Issues

154

Q&A: How Do We Get Our Kink Life Back After Having a Baby?

155

What Grounds or Centers You in Kink?

156

Q&A: How Do I Help My Dom Act More Commanding?

157

Responsibilities to Your Power Exchange

158

Q&A: Should I Just Let My BDSM Relationship End?

159

Answering Feel Good Relationship Questions

160

Q&A: What Make Good Punishments and Rewards?

161

BDSM Reddit Response

162

Q&A: What Do I When People Reject Me For Being Kinky?

163

A Bonus Section Episode

164

Q&A: Are Most Kinky People Also Non-Monogamous?

165

Building Confidence in D/s and Your Kink Identity

166

Q&A: What Kinky Lingerie Options Are Available for Big Breasts?

167

Do Submissives Really Have All the Power in D/s?

168

How Do I Introduce My Kink Partner and Honor the Requirements of My Divorce?

169

Answering Random But “Deep” Relationship Questions

170

Q&A: How Do I Connect With People in My Local Kink Community?

171

Responding to Your Kinky Hot Takes and Unpopular Opinions

172

Q&A: Will These Household Items Work as Pervertables?

173

Ask Us Anything!

174

Q&A: How Do I Navigate a Complex Poly and Kink Relationship with Two Partners?

175

Submission and Pleasure

176

Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play?

177

What is a Pleasure Dom?

178

What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load?

179

BDSM Reddit Response

180

Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla Friend?

181

The State of Our Power Exchange

182

Q&A: Is Anger Part of Dominance?

183

Age Gaps in Power Exchange

184

Q&A: How Do We Make the Most of Our LDR?

185

How We Show Up in Our D/s Relationship

186

A Commercial Break Ramble

187

How Do We Renegotiate Our Marriage For D/s?

188

Free Use and Blanket Consent in Power Exchange

189

Q&A: How Do I Get Kinky Punishment Without Sex?

190

Our 2024 Kinky Goals and Plans

191

Q&A: Is This Past Trauma or a New Beginning for My Submissive?

192

BDSM Reddit Response

193

How Do I Negotiate When They Want to Experiment With Kink?

194

BDSM in the News

195

Can a Submissive Negotiate Their Rewards?

196

How Well Do We Know Each Other | Answering Relationship Questions

197

What Do I Do When My Dominant Wants Something Silly?

198

Pure Randomness | A Bonus Section Episode

199

What We Find Easy and Hard About Kink

200

How Can We Have the D/s We Planned While We Were LDR?