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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships — 541 episodes

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594 - Open Up Your Relationship in X Easy Steps

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Summer Break

3

593 - The Lost Science of Flirting

4

592 - Intimacy When Sex Is Off the Table - Listener Q&A

5

591 - Shift Anxious Attachment with Your Body, Not Your Brain (with Orit Krug)

6

590 - Is Non-Monogamy Worth the Struggle?

7

589 - This Too Shall Pass: The Science of Acceptance

8

588 - Bridging Financial Gaps in Polyamory

9

587 - Discomfort Around Sex: Listener Q&A

10

586 - How to Support Your Partner Through a Breakup

11

585 - The First Study on Relationship Anarchy with Dr. Nicole Thompson

12

584 - Buddhist Perspective on Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin

13

583 - Is It a "Me" Problem or a "We" Problem? How to Know What to Bring to Your Partner

14

582 - Long Distance Relationships: Are They Worth It?

15

581 - Humor and Attraction with Dr. Paul Eastwick

16

580 - Actually, You Should Be Testing Your Partner

17

579 - Polysaturation vs. New Poly Energy: Listener Q&A

18

578 - Getting Back Together with an Ex: Great Idea or Terrible Idea?

19

Take Our Listener Survey

20

577 - Should You Push Through the “Ick”?

21

576 - In Praise of Indirect Communication: Is Directness Actually Superior?

22

575 - I’ll Never Be Their First Priority: Listener Q&A

23

574 - How to Make Calendaring Not Suck

24

573 - Is the Non-Monogamy in Vicky Cristina Barcelona Realistic? Film Critique with Love Factually

25

572 - Building Commitment Off the Relationship Escalator

26

571 - They're Unwinding from Monogamy. Should I Wait Around? Listener Q&A

27

570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware from Breakthrough Play and Normalizing Non-Monogamy

28

569 - Why is Everyone So Tired of Dating?

29

568 - When You Want More Time But Your Partner Won’t Give It

30

567 - Is Toxic Individualism a Real Problem?

31

566 - More Than a Numbers Game: Dating Truths from Feeld's Data Team

32

565 - Results Are In: The Largest Non-Monogamy Study

33

564 - Help! My partner's dates are difficult to endure! Listener Q&A

34

563 - The Episode to Share with Your Parents: Remastered

35

562 - Polyamory in a Red State with Stacey McLarty

36

561 - Level Up Your Polyamory: Common Newbie Mistakes (and How to Fix Them)

37

560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A

38

559 - The Struggle of Loneliness

39

558 - This Is Your Brain on (Jealousy) Drugs

40

557 - Is Sexual Rejection Hurting Your Relationships?

41

556 - How Much is Too Much Information About My Other Relationships? Listener Q&A

42

Let's Have Some Fun For a Change! See You On The Foosball Court - Relationship Recess 2026

43

555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polyamorous Person with Brian G. Murphy

44

554 - Persuasion or Coercion? Navigating Polyamory Under Duress

45

553 - What Can Swingers and Polyamorists Learn From Each Other? With Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast

46

552 - Why Your Partner Doesn’t Plan Stuff (And What You Can Do About It)

47

551 - My Partner Dates People Just Like Me: Listener Q&A

48

550 - We Still Play Medieval Dating Games

49

549 - What's Really Driving Your Love Life: The 8 Worldly Concerns

50

548 - Conversations to Have Before Moving in Together

51

Help us make history: The biggest non-monogamy study ever conducted!

52

547 - Help! My Partner is Dating My Best Friend: Listener Q&A

53

546 - Therapy Myths That Hurt Your Relationships (with therapist Joe Nucci)

54

545 - AI Relationships: Ethics, Intimacy, & Algorithms with Dr. Julie Carpenter

55

544 - Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships by Seeking Security?

56

543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A

57

542 - Is Emotional Intelligence the Key to Getting Out of Our Own Way?

58

541 - Make Agreements with Yourself, Not With Your Partner

59

540 - Banish the Ghost of Relationships Past

60

539 - Introducing My Polyamorous Partner to My Monogamous Parents: Listener Q&A

61

538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Better

62

537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control

63

536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships

64

535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

65

534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)

66

533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

67

532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

68

531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A

69

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

70

529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

71

528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation

72

527 - Why Your Search for Closure Isn't Working

73

526 - How do you make space for a primary relationship while keeping a non-primary one? Listener Q&A

74

525 - Your Metamour is Not the Villain with Alex Alberto

75

524 - From Worried to Empowered: Taking Action for Relationship Rights with Experts Diana Adams and Brett Chamberlin

76

523 - How do I cultivate polyamorous community? Listener Q&A

77

Our Audiobook is here!

78

522 - The Power of Denial: Are You Lying to Yourself?

79

521 - Finding Fairness in Non-monogamy

80

520 - Do You Treat Your Partner Worse Than You Treat Your Friends?

81

519 - Competing for Attention: Why Your Partner's Distraction Hurts

82

518 - Talking to Kids about Non-Monogamy (with Evolving Love)

83

517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle

84

516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?

85

515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?

86

514 - My Metamour is Convinced I Hate Her. Help! Listener Q&A

87

513 - Our Body and Brain are Not Always on the Same Page: Remastered

88

512 - Before, During, and After Opening Up Your Relationship

89

511 - Protecting Your Relationships from the News

90

510 - Don't Let Envy Ruin Your Relationship

91

509 - Frank Smith Gets Real about Queer Polyamory

92

508 - Four Steps to Stop a Conflict Spiral

93

507 - Putting Your Values into Action with Jaime Gama

94

506 - How do I prioritize my career and my relationships? Listener Q&A

95

505 - Do We Need to Get Married, Really?

96

504 - Decolonizing Love with Millie and Nick

97

503 - Normalizing Non-Monogamy: Bru + Mark

98

502 - Help! My relationship is going TOO well! Listener Q&A

99

501 - Are you having sex or is sex having you? A conversation with Dan Savage

100

Big News! Memberships are Now Sliding Scale!

101

500 - 500 Freaking Episodes

102

499 - Post-Nonmonogamy: Navigating Life After Polyamory with Andrea Zanin

103

498 - Is it possible to limit the expansion of our feelings for others? Listener Q&A

104

497 - I Hate the People My Partner Dates

105

496 - Trying Monogamy After Non-Monogamy with Rachel Krantz

106

495 - Anger & Anxiety: The Unexpected Couple Ruining Your Relationships

107

494 - Can We Be Compassionate Towards One Penis Policies? Listener Q&A

108

493 - But What if I Want the Relationship Escalator?

109

492 - Workaholics Aren’t Actually More Productive

110

491 - What We Can Learn About Love from the Animal Queendom with Owen Ever

111

490 - I can't get over mistakes my partner made early on: Listener Q&A

112

489 - Multiamory Presents: Unmet Needs in Polyamory

113

488 - Out and Empowered: Protections and Visibility for non-monogamy with OPEN

114

487 - Diagnosis: Depression (The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me)

115

486 - Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center with Rhaina Cohen

116

485 - My Ex Hurt Me Deeply. Can We Still be Friends? Listener Q&A

117

484 - Compersion is a Spectrum with Dr. Marie Thouin

118

483 - Why Do We Lead With Fear?

119

482 - Un-Diagnose Yourself with Todd Baratz

120

481 - Can You "Fix" Your Partner's Insecurities?

121

480 - Communication Hacks: Remastered

122

479 - Grief, Breakups, and Hope for What Comes Next

123

478 - “I’m a relationship anarchist, but no one knows what that is."

124

477 - I Love You But I Don't Like You

125

476 - "My monogamous partner fell in love with someone else."

126

475 - Is It Better to Settle in Relationships?

127

474 - "How can I know if sneakiarchy is happening in my relationship?"

128

473 - Love Languages Might Be Bullsh*t

129

472 - "Is it possible to get ahead of couples' privilege?"

130

471 - Possessiveness Might Help Your Non-Monogamous Relationship

131

470 - "I want foreplay to start at breakfast."

132

469 - Discomfort is Good For You

133

468 - "I want to fix our desire mismatch, but my partner doesn't."- Listener Q&A

134

467 - "You're gonna need therapy until you die" - A Conversation with TherapyJeff

135

466 - "I have lost all enthusiasm for my relationship." - Listener Q&A

136

465 - Is Single Life Superior? Why Independence Matters for Everyone

137

464 - This Is Why You Struggle with Honesty

138

463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think

139

462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love

140

461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A

141

460 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (Multiamory’s Interview on Better in Bed with Sara Sense)

142

459 - Non-Monogamy in the Workplace Part 2

143

458 - Non-Monogamy In the Workplace Part 1

144

457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski

145

456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman

146

455 - My Brain Understands, But My Body is Panicking (with Orit Krug)

147

454 - When Someone You Love Wants to be Monogamous

148

453 - Your Regrets are Here to Help You

149

452 - Navigating Unrequited Feelings - Listener Q&A

150

451 - Multiamory Presents: Defining Non-Romantic Relationships and More (Multiamory's Interview on The Wright Conversations)

151

450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley

152

449 - When Life Demands Get in the Way of Love

153

Presenting: Private Parts Unknown: How a Happy Ending Massage Expanded Her Mind on Sex, Pleasure & Non-Monogamy with Courtney Kocak

154

448 - A Polyamory Devotional: Conversation with Evita Sawyers

155

447 - De-Escalation to Re-Escalation: Listener Q&A With Amanda Katherine

156

446 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Abuse as a Non-Monogamous Person (Dedeker's Interview on Initiated Survivor)

157

445 - Yes, Some People Need Drama

158

444 - Assert Yourself Without Being an Asshole

159

443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory

160

442 - Do You Trust Your Partner With Your Emotions?

161

441 - Multiamory Presents: The Art of Boundaries (Dedeker's Interview on Help Existing)

162

440 - We Have All Violated Consent - Listener Q&A with Kitty Stryker Pt 2

163

439 - We Have All Violated Consent - Listener Q&A with Kitty Stryker Pt 1

164

438 - Aromantic Partnerships Matter Too

165

437 - Relationships Can Save Your Life (Even if You’re an Introvert)

166

436 - What If You’re the Toxic One

167

435 - Why Won't My Partner Sext Me? Listener Q&A with Leanne Yau

168

434 - The Polyamory Paradox with Irene Morning

169

433 - Avoidance or Enlightenment? Spiritually Bypassing Relationship Problems

170

432 - The Episode to Share With Your Parents

171

431 - Q&A: Sex, Religion, Veto, and the 80/20 Rule with Billy Procida

172

Presenting: Shameless Sex - How to Talk Dirty with Sexpert Lola Kat

173

430 - Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

174

429 - Is Ambiamory Right for You?

175

428 - Unraveling Jealousy in Five Steps with Dr. Joli Hamilton

176

427 - Is Non-Monogamy Just Commitment Phobia? Crossover Episode with Natasha Chandel of Kinda Dating

177

426 - Repulsed by Romance or Just Numb? Listener Q&A

178

425 - Polyamorous Legal Rights: The Fight for Equality with Diana Adams Esq. and Dr. Heath Schechinger

179

Presenting: Sluts and Scholars: Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas

180

424 - Polysaturation: Exploring the Limits of Love

181

423 - Boundaries are all about YourSELF

182

422 - Are You Polyamorous or Just Pretending? Listener Q&A with Jessica Esfandiary

183

421 - Infla-Dating: Love on a Budget

184

420 - Courage for Hard Conversations

185

419 - Beyond Monogamy: Overcoming Hurdles and Strengthening Bonds Listener Q&A

186

418 - Spring Cleaning Your Relationships

187

417 - Are "Safe Spaces" Possible in Relationships?

188

416 - Neurodiversity and the Benefits and Challenges of Non-Monogamy (with author Alyssa Gonzalez)

189

415 - Tricky Relationship Situations: Rebuilding Friendships, Setting Boundaries, and Managing Trauma

190

Presenting: Double Teamed with Cami & Niki: Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWB

191

414 - To Come Out or Not to Come Out with Martha Kauppi

192

413 - Gay and Polyamorous Representation with Frank Smith

193

412 - Judaism and Polyamory (with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi)

194

411 - What’s Your Price of Admission?

195

Book Release Announcement!

196

410 - Fallen Out of Love or Faded NRE? Listener Q&A

197

409 - Can a Ritual Save Your Relationship?

198

408 - When Work Gets in the Way of Relationships

199

407 - Love Bombing: Is it Bullshit?

200

406 - Open to Poly but Unwilling to Communicate (Listener Q&A w/ Dr. Zhana Vrangalova)

201

405 - Are Relationship Doubts Normal?

202

404 - Break Free of the Dating Loop (with Damona Hoffman)

203

403 - When Friends Kick You to the Curb

204

402 - Looking Back on the Polyamorous Commune (with authors Glen Olson and Terry Lee Brussels)

205

401 - Are Elders Better at Polyamory? with Kathy Labriola

206

400 - Behind the Scenes at Multiamory

207

399 - Love Won't Make You Happy with Carrie Jenkins

208

398 - Monogamy and Relationship Anarchy

209

397 - My Partner Won’t Talk About the Future & Other Listener Questions

210

396 - The Most Successful Online Dating Practices (with OkCupid's Michael Kaye)

211

395 - 50 Ways to Handle Jealousy - Part 2

212

394 - 50 Ways to Handle Jealousy - Part 1

213

393 - Polysaturated But Still Thirsty - Listener Q&A Episode

214

392 - What to Do When You Are Way More Stressed Than Your Partner?

215

391 - Are Polyamorous People Addicted to Love?

216

390 - What It’s Really Like to Be a Polyamorous Parent (with Jessica Daylover from Remodeled Love)

217

389 - Struggling with Honesty & NRE (Patreon Q&A with Libby Sinback)

218

388 - How to Gain Self-Worth and Stop Comparing Part 2

219

387 - How to Gain Self-Worth and Stop Comparing Part 1

220

386 - Compersion: Is It Necessary? (with Dr. Marie Thouin and Dr. Sharon Flicker)

221

385 - Keep Conflict from Destroying Your Relationships

222

384 - Imperfect Polyamory, Personal Growth, and Emotional Labor (with Normalizing Non-Monogamy)

223

383 - Non-Monogamy: What Does the Research Say? Part 2 of 2

224

382 - Non-Monogamy: What Does the Research Say? Part 1 of 2

225

381 - OPEN with William Winters

226

380 - Sex Work and Pleasure in Film (with Director Sophie Hyde)

227

379 - Relationship Science for your Friendships (and Vice Versa)

228

378 - The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy with Lola Phoenix

229

377 - Polyam Beginners, Healthy Boundaries, and Ethical Hierarchy

230

376 - Having a Good Relationship After Leaving a Bad One

231

375 - Building a Foundation of Trust

232

374 - Friends to Lovers and Other Relationship Escalations

233

373 - Listener Q&A with Kate Loree

234

372 - Needs, Desires, Boundaries, and More

235

371 - Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns Part 2 of 2

236

370 - Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns Part 1 of 2

237

369 - Navigating Multiple Partners in the Same Space-Time

238

368 - Sex Talk with My Mom Presents: Sex Scripts with Dr. Ian Kerner

239

367 - FWB, Polyam-to-Mono, and More Listener Questions

240

366 - Desirability

241

365 - Heartbreak and Recovery

242

364 - Polyamory and Disability

243

363 - Q & A with Multiamory

244

362 - Sluts & Scholars Presents: Come As You Are (with Emily Nagoski)

245

361 - More Than Words by John Howard

246

360 - Lawyer Up!

247

359 - Porn, Health, and Relationships

248

358 - Managing Emotions and Expressive Suppression

249

357 - Impostor Syndrome

250

356 - Open: Non-monogamy and Sexual Liberation (with author Rachel Krantz)

251

355 - Singlism and the Truth About Being Single

252

354 - Rethinking Resentment

253

353 - De-nesting Without De-escalating

254

352 - Safer Sex Part 2

255

351 - Safer Sex Part 1

256

350 - Abundance and Scarcity

257

349 - Trauma, Shame, and Post-Pandemic Recovery with Brian D. Mahan

258

348 - Transforming Feelings Into Words

259

347 - Good Enough Sex

260

346 - Is Seeking a Third Ethical?

261

345 - Sex Education with Sam Cat

262

344 - Handling Rejection

263

343 - Autism, Neurodiversity and Relationships with Stevie Lang

264

342 - To Forgive or Not To Forgive

265

341 - Cheating in Non-monogamous Relationships

266

340 - Polyamory and Therapy (with Martha Kauppi)

267

339 - The Smorgasbord of Relationships

268

338 - The Science of Relationship Maintenance

269

337 - Kids, Consent, and Sex Education

270

336 - Queerplatonic and Alterous Relationships

271

335 - Nonverbal Communication

272

334 - What Makes a Good Hinge Partner

273

333 - Multiamory Stories: Kori Nicole Williams (Finding Family in Relationship Anarchy)

274

332 - Transactional Relationships

275

331 - Business Time

276

330 - Identity in Relationships

277

329 - Validation Variety Pack

278

328 - Relationship Standards: Too High? Too Low?

279

327 - Compassion Fatigue

280

326 - The View from 30,000 Feet

281

325 - Age, Generations, and Relationships

282

324 - Toxic Positivity

283

323 - You Won't Like Me When I'm Angry

284

322 - From the Kitchen Table to the Parallel Universe

285

321 - Navigating Big Life Changes

286

320 - Limerence and NRE: The Dark and Light Sides of the Force

287

319 - What Are Your Values?

288

318 - Party For One: Dating Yourself

289

317 - Multiamory Stories: Michelle Hy (Polyamorous While Asian)

290

316 - Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn

291

315 - RADAR Troubleshooting

292

314 - Deconstructing Jealousy

293

313 - Compersion Season 2: Roundtable Discussion

294

312 - Psychological Flexibility is (also) a Triangle

295

311 - Metamour March

296

310 - Polyamory Reminders with Evita Sawyers

297

309 - Love is a Triangle

298

308 - Fun Matters

299

307 - Chosen Family

300

306 - Bonding Styles with Dr. Eli Sheff

301

305 - Why Won't You Listen?

302

304 - Community Diversity and Tokenism with Crystal Byrd Farmer

303

303 - Is Your Partner Going to Change?

304

302 - Challenging Polyamory Concepts for Advanced Students

305

301 - Solo Polyamory with Tristan Taormino

306

300 - 300th Episode!!!

307

299 - Thirsty Sword Lesbians with April Walsh

308

298 - Eustress, or Are You a Good Stress or a Bad Stress?

309

297 - Your Brain in a Bad Relationship (with Dr. Rhonda Freeman)

310

296 - Relationship Health Checkup (with Erin Tillman)

311

295 - Polyamory and Intimate Partner Violence (with Christy Croft)

312

294 - Triads and Throuples, and Quads, Oh My!

313

293 - Should you go to therapy? Pt 2

314

292 - Should you go to therapy? Pt 1

315

291 - Attachment Theory and Polyamory

316

290 - Is Polyamory Feminist? With Laurie Penny

317

289 - De-Coupling

318

288 - Repair Attempts

319

287 - Getting Closure

320

286 - Ghost(ing) Busters!

321

285 - Compersion Research with Marie Thouin

322

284 - Daily Transitions

323

283 - Language in Relationships

324

282 - The Shame Game 2: Endshame

325

281 - The Shame Game 1: Origins

326

280 - Receiving and Giving Apologies

327

279 - Relationship Strengths and Weaknesses

328

278 - Growing Through Criticism

329

277 - Religion, Shame, and Identity with Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti

330

276 - I'm Not Your Mother

331

275 - Demon Dance Battles

332

274 - Compassion

333

273 - Money & Multiple Partners

334

272 - Consent is Sexy (and Professional)

335

271 - The Power of Receiving "No"

336

270 - Habitual Mindstates

337

269 - Close Quarters Relationships

338

268 - Sex Worker Rights with Alice Little

339

267 - Reducing Stress Together

340

266 - The Worst Relationship Advice

341

265 - Real Voices of Multiamory

342

264 - Are You a Chewer or Spewer?

343

263 - Health and Wellness

344

262 - Making a Polyamorous Dating App

345

261 - Restorative Justice

346

260 - Black Poly Pride with Chanee Jackson Kendall and Cheri Calico Roman

347

259 - What NOT to do in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Liz Powell

348

258 - Minimalism

349

257 - Codependency

350

256 - Polyamory and the Trans Experience with Marissa Alexa McCool

351

255 - Why You Make Bad Decisions

352

254 - When You're Unsure about an Open Relationship

353

253 - Resilience and Overcoming Obstacles: More Tools!

354

252 - Reflection, Impending Plans, and Our Appreciation (short episode)

355

251 - Polyamory in Science Fiction with Kevin Patterson

356

250 - Mental Health with Ruby Bouie Johnson

357

249 - Scheduling and Productivity

358

248 - Playing Monogamy with Simon(e) van Saarloos

359

247 - Why Your Relationship Needs a Date Night

360

246 - Non-Monogamy Misperceptions (with Cate from Swinging Down Under)

361

245 - Your Ex’s Social Media

362

244 - Avoiding Emotional Burnout with Queersplaining

363

243 - How Compatible Are You Really?

364

242 - Queer Theology with Brian G. Murphy

365

241 - Five Ways to Suck Less at Communication: The Revival

366

240 - Refreshing our Love Languages

367

239 - Guilt In Relationships

368

238 - The Polyamory Breakup Book with Kathy Labriola

369

237 - What Monogamous People Can Learn From Polyamory

370

236 - Progressive Love Academy with Kenya K. Stevens

371

235 - Live Call-in Show: Multiamory Answers Your Questions

372

234 - SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight

373

233 - Polyamory Toolkit with Erotic Awakening

374

232 - Criticism or How To Doom Your Relationship

375

231 - Help! My Friend is in a Bad Relationship!

376

230 - WTF is Positive Masculinity?

377

229 - Live: Ask Multiamory

378

228 - Pursuit and Withdrawal

379

227 - Rules vs Agreements feat. Boundaries

380

226 - Sex Talk With My Mom

381

225 - Real Relationship Talk with Lola Phoenix

382

224 - Feelings Are Not Facts

383

223 - Six Secretly Toxic Relationship Behaviors

384

222 - Zen and the Art of Relationships

385

221 - A Best of Episode

386

220 - Secrecy vs Privacy

387

219 - Labels By Any Other Name

388

218 - I've HALTed. Now What?

389

217 - Commitment in Non-Monogamy

390

216 - What is Emotional Support?

391

215 - The Science of Jealousy

392

214 - Ghosts of Normativity Past

393

213 - Relationship Goals

394

212 - Relationship Baggage

395

211 - Thinking Critically about Sex Positivity and Sex Negativity

396

210 - Take the Fight Out of Your Fights

397

209 - To Cohabitate or Not to Cohabitate, that IS the Question

398

208 - Failure is an Option

399

207 - Self-Sabotage

400

206 - Attraction Perceptions & Misconceptions

401

205 - Anger is Good for You

402

204 - Metamour Troubles & Struggles

403

203 - Tackling Insecurities

404

202 - Polyamorous Superhero Fiction

405

201 - Are you ready to be polyamorous?

406

200 - 200 Episodes Later

407

199 - Visibility and Worthiness with Kat Blaque

408

198 - Supporting a Partner through Loss

409

197 - HIV with Liz Sutherland

410

196 - Am I Still Polyamorous If...

411

195 - Wellbeing and Online Dating

412

194 - Recovering from Infidelity

413

193 - Making Long Distance Relationships Work

414

192 - Self-Esteem Boost

415

191 - Toxic Relationships

416

190 - Surviving and Thriving in NRE

417

189 - Handling Backlash

418

188 - What Hierarchy Means to Me

419

187 - Break Free of Relationship Drama

420

186 - Reconnecting When You Don't Want To

421

185 - Can Men Get Along with their Metamours?

422

184 - Multiamory Answers Your Questions Vol. 3 (Live from Lake Tahoe)

423

183 - Equal and Equitable Relationships

424

182 - Gamify Your Life

425

181 - Settler Sexuality (with Dr. Kim Tallbear)

426

180 - The Mono/Poly Paradox

427

179 - Anxiety and Relationships

428

178 - The Basics of Boundaries

429

177 - This is Your Brain on Love

430

176 - Christianity and Polyamory

431

175 - Adventures in Online Arguments

432

174 - Numerous Non-Binary Identities (with therapist Dara Hoffman-Fox)

433

173 - Transitioning Relationships

434

172 - Polyamory in Movies and TV (Live Show)

435

171 - Polyamory, Family, and Children (with Dr. Eli Sheff)

436

170 - Taking for Your Pleasure (with Melissa Mango and Cosmo Meens)

437

169 - Unapolygetic

438

168 - Communication Hacks: Booster Pack

439

167 - Polyamory and the Law

440

166 - Impromptu Bible Study

441

165 - Polyamory Finishing School

442

164 - The Relationship Escalator & Solo Polyamory (with author Amy Gahran

443

163 - Inspiring Relationships - Part 2

444

162 - Inspiring Relationships - Part 1

445

161 - Love is Not Colorblind with Kevin Patterson

446

160 - Find Your Biases, Have Better Relationships

447

159 - The Triforce of Communication: DLC Expansion Pack

448

158 - Beyond Blue and Pink

449

157 - Disability After Dark with Andrew Gurza

450

156 - How To Get Over Your Ex

451

155 - How to Build Trust in a Relationship

452

154 - Getting Real about Sexual Health

453

153 - Building Consent Culture (with author Kitty Stryker)

454

152 - Polyamory: The Most Common Questions

455

151 - Conflict Crash Course

456

150 - Relationship Anarchy 101

457

149 - One is (Not) The Lonliest Number

458

148 - Your Narcissistic Ex (Is Probably Not a Narcissist)

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147 - Relationship RADAR: Scrum 2.0

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146 - Fear of Missing Out

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145 - Why Gratitude Isn't Bullshit (#Blessed)

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144 - (Japanese & English Version) Multi-Cultural Dating and Culturally Intelligent Relationships (Live Show in Tokyo)

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144 - Multi-Cultural Dating and Culturally Intelligent Relationships (English-only Version)

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143 - Mindful Sex and Ethical Porn (with author Jessica Graham)

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142 - Do You Have Healthy Relationship Expectations?

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141 - Solving Sexual Incompatibility

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140 - The Jealousy Survival Guide (with author Kitty Chambliss)

468

139 - Love is (Not) All You Need

469

138 - Conscious Monogamy

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137 - Intersectionality and Polyamorous Communities (with therapist Ruby Bouie Johnson)

471

136 - Healing Old Wounds and Resentment in Relationships

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135 - What's Your Apology Language?

473

134 - Legal Protections for Polyamorous Families (with lawyer Diana Adams)

474

133 - 6 Questions You Must Ask Your New Partner

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132 - The Ethical Slut 20th Anniversary with Janet Hardy

476

131 - Dumpster Fire Relationships

477

130 - Emotional Labor

478

129 - Multiamory Answers Your Questions (Vol. II)

479

128 - How To Support Your Partner Through a Breakup

480

127 - Relationship Agreement Pitfalls

481

126 - Building Intimacy with Multiamory

482

125 - Researching Non-Monogamous Relationships (with researcher Ryan Witherspoon)

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124 - The Dating Advice Girl Talks Polyamory

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123 - The Science of Happy Relationships

485

122 - Multiamory Answers Your Questions

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121 - Social Media and Relationships

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120 - 7 Strategies for Successful Long Distance Relationships

488

119 - Asexual Polyamory

489

118 - Helping Your Partner Open Up

490

117 - Why Do You Want What You Want?

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116 - Being Polyamorous in a Monogamous World (Live Show)

492

115 - Cooper S. Beckett on Swinger Resorts and Sexy Vacations

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114 - Privilege and Polyamory

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113 - What is Romantic Love? (with philosopher Carrie Jenkins)

495

112 - Choking on the Red Pill

496

111 - Polyamory-Friendly Counseling

497

110 - Deconstructing Jealousy

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109 - Ethical Unicorn Hunting (live show)

499

108 - Solo Polyamory (Live Show)

500

107 - A Very Polyamorous Valentine's Day (Live Show)

501

106 - 7 Habits of Highly Effective Poly People (Live Show)

502

105 - The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory

503

104 - Polyamory in Movies and TV (Live Show)

504

103 - Relationship Agreements with Eri Kardos

505

102 - Emotional Responsibility aka Owning Your Shit

506

101 - Gender Non-Conformity 101

507

100 - Relationship Resolutions

508

099 - I Got 99 Problems but 2016 Ain't One

509

098 - Happy Holidays Part 2: This Time It's Personal

510

097 - Agile Scrum Your Relationships

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096 - Polyamorous Storytelling and Diversity with Jackie Stone

512

095 - Consent with Sex Nerd Sandra

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094 - Multiamory has Group Sex with Billy Procida

514

093 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First

515

092 - Should You Come Out of the Closet?

516

091 - The Polyamorous Man: Masculinity and Non-Monogamy

517

090 - Polyamory Processing Groups

518

089 - Make Polyamory Great Again

519

088 - Do You Feel Special?

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087 - Five Mistakes Polyamory N00bs Make

521

086 - Sustainable Relationships

522

085 - Meeting Your Metamours

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084 - Zen and the Art of First Dates

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083 - The Triforce of Communication

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082 - Multiple Attachment Styles for Multiple Partners

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081 - Multi-versary: The Sequel

527

080 - Multiple Love Languages, Multiple Lovers

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079 - Polyamory and Spirituality

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078 - Gender, Bisexuality, and Fairness

530

077 - Life Changes and Polyamory

531

076 - Emotional Abuse and Polyamorous Relationships

532

075 - Primary Partners and Priority in Polyamory

533

009 - Fundamentals: Attachment Theory and Polyamory

534

008 - Fundamentals: Demon Dance Battles

535

007 - Fundamentals: SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight

536

006 - Fundamentals: Polyamory - The Most Common Questions

537

005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)

538

004 - Fundamentals: The Basics of Boundaries

539

003 - Fundamentals: Relationship RADAR: Scrum 2.0

540

002 - Fundamentals: The Triforce of Communication

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001 - Welcome to Multiamory