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Porn Free Radio — 374 episodes

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372 - Are my tight restrictions making things worse?

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371 - Live Above The O-Line

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370- Breaking Shame Pt. 2

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369 - Breaking Shame Pt.1

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368 - Instagram Audit

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367 - Me Without Beer One Year

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366 - My No Ghosting Policy for 2026

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365 - The ONE Thing That Made 15-Years Porn Free Possible

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364 - What do you get out of being bored?

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363 - Owners, Not Renters

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362 - Integrity Gaps

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361 - Advanced Recovery pt. 3: How Men Build Friendships Beyond Recovery

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360 - Advanced Recovery pt. 2: Identity and Performance w/ Dick Ryan

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359 - Advanced Recovery Pt. 1: D.I.R.E. Traits w/ Hope Ray

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358 - Real Guys Living Porn Free 3 Yrs And Beyond (Roman, Steve, & Nathan)

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357 - The 2025 NFL Preview Show

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356 - Expense vs. Investment (Updated)

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355 - Intention Vs. Commitment

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355 - Intention Vs. Commitment

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354 - Don't Just Change What You're Doing. Change Who You're Being.

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353 - The Surprising Way To Meet Almost Any Need

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352 - Potential Vs. Capacity

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352 - Potential Vs. Capacity

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351 - Freedom Questions

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350 - Pure Freedom

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349 - When are you going to stop living like you're never going to die?

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348 - High Bottom Porn Use

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347 - Dan Miller's 15% Rule for New Year Goal Setting

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346 - What's The Difference Between a Relapse and a Slip?

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345 - Confessions of a Recovered News Junkie

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344 - Diagnose Any Relapse and Get Better Faster

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343 - The 2024 NFL Preview Show

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342 - How to Avoid Getting Addicted to Porn

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341 - Examining Our Thoughts w/ Dr. Amy Johnson

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340 - 90% Of Your Relapses Are Predictable

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339 - Are You Still In the Porn Bubble?

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338 - I'm not a bad person getting good, I'm a sick person getting well (a PFR Listener Story)

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337 - My 12 Provocations Pt. 2 with Vern Tompke

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336 - My 12 Provocations Pt. 1 with Vern Tompke

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335 - PFR 10th Anniversary Show

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334 - Whole vs. Broken

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333 - Honesty vs. Hiding

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332 - Fact vs. Fear

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331 - Calm vs. Stress

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330 - Recovery vs. Relapse

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329 - Consistency vs. Intensity

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328 - Skills vs. Willpower

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327 - Solution vs. Problem

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326 - Owner vs. Victim

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325 - Don't Call It A Comeback: 13 Years Porn Free

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324 - Is Your "Personality" Blocking Your Recovery?

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323 - PFR Classic: 5-Minute Self Care Habits

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322 - Eliminate Your Weakest Link

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321 - 17 Porn Free Pro Tips

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320 - Help, I'm Sick! How Do I Stay Porn Free?

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319 - PFR Classic: The 12 Commitments That Led To Mastery

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318 - It Takes Less Work To Succeed Than To Fail (Punk Episodes Pt. 4)

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317 - The 2023 NFL Preview Show

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316 - 10 Ways To Speed Up Your Recovery (Punk Episodes Pt. 3)

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315 - Maximize Your Success (Punk Episodes Pt.2)

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314 - Maximize Your Dream (Punk Episodes Pt.1)

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313 - 2 Years Porn Free with Michael and Aaron

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312 - PFR Classic: Automatic Thoughts

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311 - Assessing Problematic Porn Use w/ Bill Herring

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310 – PFR Classic: The 7-Day Porn Free Plan

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309 - Is There Hope For Me?

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308 – Finding Your Harmonious Passions (Updated)

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307 - Obsessive Passions and Harmonious Passions

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306 – PFR Classic: How Successful Guys Overcome Edging

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305 - All Progress Starts By Telling The Truth w/ Jay Pyatt

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304 - Recovery Lessons From a Golf Pro

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303 - Excuses Pt. 2: Overcoming Denial (Updated)

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302 - Excuses Pt. 1: The Top 50 Revealed w/ Vern Tompke and Jason George (Updated)

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301 - Relapse is a State, Not An Event

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300 - Be Your Future Self Now with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

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299 - What can you do to guard yourself against temptation?

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298 - 10 Keys to Long-Term Sobriety

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297 - Silicon Valley Success, Porn Addiction, and the Road to Healing w/ Jason Portnoy

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296 - Should We Track Porn Free Days?

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295 - PFR Classic: My 10 Porn Rules

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294 - The 2022 NFL Preview Show

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293 - Janice Dobschuetz Tells Her Story with Hope Ray

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292 - PFR Classic: The 5 Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn (Updated)

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291 – Winning with Coach Eberflus' HITS Principal

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290 - PFR Classic: Unwanted with Jay Stringer (Updated)

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289 - Recovery Happens Best When You're All In w/ Nick Stumbo (Updated)

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288 - The Road to Earned Secure Attachment w/ Dr. Jake Porter (Updated)

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287 - PFR Classic: The Most Satisfactory Years of Your Existence Lie Ahead

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286 - Questions Partners Ask w/ Hope Ray (Updated)

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285 - How To Understand Your Sexual Fantasies w/ Drew Boa (Updated)

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284 - Questions Porn Free Men Ask About Their Partners w/ Hope Ray

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283 - 10 Ideas To Electrify Your Summer (Updated)

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282 - Reframing Summer (Updated)

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281 - Why Nice Guys Recover Last

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280 - Aaron: 1 Year Porn Free (a PFR Listener Story)

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279 - Craig Perra Straight From Coachella

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278 - The Power of Groups w/ Trevor Winsor and Nick Stumbo

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277 - Return of the Pirate Monks

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276 - Unleashing The Man Within w/ Sathiya Sam

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275 - The Opposite of Addiction

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274 - The Creativity That Comes in Recovery w/ Steve Chandler

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273 - PFR - Beyond the Battle w/ Noah Filipiak

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272 - Porn is Not the Problem. It's the Solution.

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271 - 10 Bold Recovery Ideas for 2022

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270 - Doing Life Together w/ Chris White

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269 - Find Your Why in 3 Steps

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268 - Relapsed Again? Good.

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267 - Major X Flies Again

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266 - The Tipping Point for Long-term Success w/ Vern Tompke

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265 - Mapping Habits for Greater Freedom

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264 - The Gap and The Gain with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

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263 - The 2021 NFL Preview Show

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262 - Relapse Without Relapsing

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261 - BS: Your Happiness is Determined By Your Life Conditions

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260 - BS: Your Value Comes From What People Think of You

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259 - BS: Your Past Performance Indicates Your Future Results

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258 - BS: Your Personality Is Permanent

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257 - Partner Focus Pt. 2 with Hope Ray

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256 - Partner Focus Pt. 1 with Shawna Meek

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255 - Loaded Questions

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254 - Relationships and Recovery w/ Brendan Burns

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253 - I'm not like these people. I'm different.

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252 - Craving Is Not Something That Happens To You

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251 - Why Do I Look At Porn (The Short Answer)

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250 - Perfectionism Pt. 2

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249 - Perfectionism Pt. 1

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248 - Personal Mastery Pt. 3: Create Your New Normal

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247 - Personal Mastery Pt. 2: Learning To Leverage Triggers

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246 - Personal Mastery Pt. 1: Change Your State

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245 - Accountability 2.0

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244 - The Power of Being 3% Better

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243 - Understanding the Two Secret Instincts of Men

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242 - How To Avoid A Big Crash

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241 - My 10 Porn Rules

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240 - The Difference Between Failure and Results

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239 - Are you ALL IN?

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238 - Welcoming Being Misunderstood (Updated)

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237 - Why Now Is The Best Time To Make Positive Changes In Your Life w/ Brendan Burns

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236 - The Social Self Vs. the Authentic Self

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235 - Reclaiming Your Creativity and Imagination

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234 - Sobriety For What?

142

233 - Pure Desire Podcast with Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor

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232 - Avoiding Pain and Seeking Pleasure

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231 - The Myth of Unaccountable Time

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230 - Your Recovery Advantage

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229 - The 5 Anchor Habits You Need Right Now

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228 - Recovery Is Not About Making My World Small with Jay Pyatt

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227 - How I Do One Thing Is How I Do Everything with Kris Pavone

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226 - What Does This Make Possible with Brendan Burns

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225 - Welcoming Fear And Anxiety

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224 - By Endurance We Conquer: How To Deal With Uncertainty In Turbulent Times

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223 - The 4 C's of Recovery

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222 - Are We Powerless Over Porn?

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221 - The Most Satisfactory Years of Your Existence Lie Ahead

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220 - Forget About Goals

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219 - We're Happy When We're Growing with Brendan Burns

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218 - Nobody Cares. Work Harder!

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217 - The Powerful Daily Habit You're Missing

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216 - Who Do You Need To Be To Recover?

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215 - Why Fear-Based Recovery Doesn't Work

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214 - Dobber and the Pirate Monks

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213 - Are You An Owner Or A Victim?

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212 - Why Do We Struggle With Commitment?

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211 - Automatic Thoughts

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210 - The Most Unpleasant Success Principle In The World

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209 - Commitment Wanes; It Eventually Dies

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208 - How Our Pain Is Transformed

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207 - Pain Not Transformed is Transmitted

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206 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 5: Kicking Ass In Life

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205 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 4: How Our Excuses Reveal Our Beliefs

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204 – My Horrific, Porn Withdrawal Experience

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203 – We Feel What We Focus On

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202 – Unwanted with Jay Stringer

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201 – Being Kind To Yourself

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200 – Superfan Takeover

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199 – PFR: Behind The Music

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198 – Getting Caught or Getting Courage

178

197 – What Does the Porn I Look At Say About Me?

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196 – John Wick Focus

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195 – Mistaken Belief: If I Don't Try, I Can't Fail

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194 – How Do You Rebound After Edging? (Updated)

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193 – Digital Minimalism Pt. 2

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192 – Digital Minimalism Pt. 1

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191 – Rejection

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190 – 7-Day Stretch Goals

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189 – Becoming the type of man that does not look at porn pt. 2

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188 – More Hope

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187 – What I want to do, I can't do. I do what I hate.

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186 – Success Comes From 50% Recovery Work And 50% Kicking Ass In Life (Updated)

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185 – How Successful Guys Overcome Edging

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184 – How Successful Guys Overcome Boredom

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183 – How Successful Guys Overcome Relapsing

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182 – How Successful Guys Overcome Shame

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181 – How Successful Guys Overcome Lack of Motivation

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180 – How to Overcome Triggers And Craving

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179 – Coffee with the Dobber: Flow

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178 – Matt, What's Your Plan Look Like?

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177 – Reservoir of Hope with Brian and Clay

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176 – There's A Part Of You That Doesn't Want To Give Up Porn

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175 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 3: Accountability As Ownership

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174 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 2: What Gets Scheduled Is What Gets Done

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173 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 1: Six Human Needs

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172 – Do You Have a B.S. Problem?

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171 – Love People Use Things with Noah Church

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170 – Are You Waiting For Motivation? (Updated)

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169 – Are You Living Fully Alive?

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168 – Real Recovery Requires Transformation (Updated)

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167 – My Porn Free Philadelphia Trip Plan

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166 – Mindless Recovery

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165 – Getting Back On Track After Relapse

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164 – Decrease the Hesitation… Men Are Waiting

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163 – How Long Does It Take To Recover?

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162 – Mind Playing Tricks On Me

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161 – We all have an intense longing for inspired masculinity

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160 – Jason George "The Griz" Pt. 2

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159 – Jason George "The Griz" Pt. 1

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158 – Most Wanted Pt. 3: Single vs. Married

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157 – Most Wanted Pt. 2: Fetishes and Going Porn Free

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156 – Most Wanted Pt. 1: Masturbation and Going Porn Free

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155 – Overcoming Addiction

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154 – Resistance In Recovery Pt. 3 – 90 Days Plus

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153 – Resistance In Recovery Pt. 2 – Days 31-90

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152 – Resistance In Recovery Pt. 1: First 30 Days

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151 – Up Late. Can't Sleep. Uh-oh!

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150 – Ego Is The Enemy Pt. 2

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149 – Ego Is The Enemy Pt. 1

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148 – Greatest Hits of Pornfree Radio Vol. 1

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147 – Working At Home Without Relapsing Pt. 2

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146 – Working At Home Without Relapsing Pt. 1

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145 – Isn't Self-Reliance the Goal of Recovery?

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144 – Your Recovery Is Not Your Relationship…

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143 – Dave's 5 Mistaken Beliefs About Porn

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142 – Your Porn. Her Pain. How Partners Heal w/ Lori and Jay Pyatt

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141 – When does quitting porn get easier?

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140 – My Amazing Porn Discovery!

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139 – Pornfree Radio Live! New Years Day (Updated)

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138 – Thank You For 2 Years Porn Free

238

137 – 5-Minute Self Care Habits (Updated)

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136 – Looking At A Woman And Not Seeing

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135 – Breaking Free with Michael Leahy, Author and CEO of BraveHearts

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134 – Motivation Pt. 3: The ONE Thing

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133 – Motivation Pt. 2: Internal Locus of Control

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132 – Motivation Pt. 1: The Myth of Self Discipline

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131 – Things were going so well and then you looked at porn again!?!

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130 – Back 2 Basics: What Is Self Care?

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129 – The 7 Lies of Hugh Hefner

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128 – The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails Pt. 2

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127 – The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails Pt. 1

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126 – Road Trip: Porn on I-75

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125 – Know You're Not Alone w/ Sam Dobschuetz

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124 – How To Porn-Proof Your Home

252

123 – Start Before You're Ready

253

122 – 3 Questions To Laser Focus Your Recovery This Week

254

121 The Hero's Journey with Ben Fraser

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120 – School's Out Syndrome (Updated)

256

119 – Riding the Recovery Roller Coaster

257

118 – Redefining Identity with Crystal Renaud

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117 – 3 Common Mistakes Guys Make After A Relapse

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116 – How To Deal With Pornographic Thoughts in Public

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115 – Warning: Matt Gets Fired Up

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114 – Smart Phones, Smart TVs, and Whatever Comes Next

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113 – Becoming the type of man that does not look at porn

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112 – Avoiding Failure

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111 – The Top 3 Lies Partners Believe with Hope Ray

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110 – Do I have to hit rock bottom to recover?

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109 – What we live for is more important than what we give up

267

108 – 110 Days Porn Free While Studying For The Bar Exam

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107 – Back 2 Basics: The 7-Day Porn Free Plan

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106 – Back 2 Basics: F.A.S.T.T. Check-Ins

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105 – Back 2 Basics: Daily Tracking

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104 – How To Deal With Depression

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103 – How To Take Massive Action

273

102 – How Do You Sustain Long-Term Sobriety?

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101 – The Most Important Recovery Book You've Never Read

275

100 – Nice to meet you, I'm addicted to porn

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099 – How do I start to feel again?

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098 – Do you have any tips for finding a group?

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097 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 3: Your Tribe

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096 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 2: Your Plan

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095 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 1: Your Why

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094 – My Intentions Are Good, But My Follow Through Sucks

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093 – Back 2 Basics: Morning Routine

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092 – Back 2 Basics: Edging

284

091 – The Feeling Wheel

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090 – I'm Not Perfect…But I'm Good At Not Relapsing

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089 – Social Recovery with Alex Lerza from rTribe

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088 – What I Found When I Searched for "Porn Addiction" on Amazon.com

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087 – A Man Divided Cannot Stand

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086 Missing In Action

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085 The Worst Men's Group Ever

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084 More Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn

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083 Ask More Questions

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082 The 5 Characteristics of Great Accountability Partners

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081 Up In Your Business w/ Angus Nelson

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080 The 1 Habit You Need To Stay Porn Free

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079 The 3 Choices You Have When Dealing With Porn

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078 The Biggest Mistake People Make When Quitting Porn Pt. 2

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077 Seven Deadly Excuses

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076 The #1 Thing Porn Costs Us

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075 The 5 Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn

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074 Hope Ray Returns: Partners' Q&A

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073 Ten Porn Free Hacks For Summer

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072 Can A Recovering Porn Addict Be An Artist?

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071 Why Men Look at Porn

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070 Hope for Partners, Wives, and Girlfriends with Hope Ray

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069 Sex In Recovery From Porn?

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068 How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn?

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067 Killing The Passive Will

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066 IMPORTANT: Do you want to fix this?

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065 Not Safe For Work Pt 3: Getting Things Done

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064 Not Safe For Work Pt 2: The Impotent Leader

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063 Not Safe For Work Pt 1: Risky Business

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062 A Bone To Pick

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061 The Strength To Delete It All

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060 Going 5 Years Porn Free

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059 Fail Better Pt 2: Preventing Relapse

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058 Fail Better Pt 1: Recovering From Relapse

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057 Go Porn Free in 2016

319

056 A Letter From The North Pole

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055 I Just Completed a Massive Binge…

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054 The 5 Essential Habits of Porn Free People

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053 How Do I Know If I'm Getting Better?

323

052 What Does Your Smartphone Look Like?

324

051 Slips Vs. Acting Out

325

050 The Real Scandal Behind Ashley Madison

326

049 Why Did I Binge After 30 Days of Success?

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048 Home Alone Syndrome

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047 I Lived With A Porn Star Pt 2: Craig Perra

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046 I Lived With A Porn Star Pt 1: Craig Perra

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045 Temptation Pt 2: The Way of Escape

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044 Temptation Pt 1: Your Desire

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043 Porn Addiction Side Effects

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042 Getting Started Pt 3: Your Plan

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041 Getting Started Pt 2: Phone A Friend

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040 Getting Started Pt 1: Hitting Rock Bottom

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039 Avoiding The Porn Checkout Line

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038 Where Are You Moving?

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037 The Fastest Way To Freedom

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036 Finding Your Motivation

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035 - Rethinking 12 Step With Craig Perra From The Mindful Habit (Updated)

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034 Hope for the Porn Addicted Christian

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033 Hope for the Porn Addicted Agnostic

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032 Am I A Porn Addict?

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031 The Turning Point In My Recovery

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030 Going Porn Free in 2015

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029 The Wrestler

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028 3-Day Ditch and Porn Fantasies in the Bedroom

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027 How Idiots Track Success

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026 Shame and Porn Addiction

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025 - The Pornification of Culture: Surprising Advocates (Updated)

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024 Creativity and Recovery with Ben Fraser, Creator of Brick House

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023 Our Greatest Trap in Life

353

022 The Biggest Warning Sign of a Relapse

354

021 Feedback: Forgiveness, Nostalgia, and Voyeurism

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020 Celebrity Nudes: How To Avoid Powerful Triggers

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019 My Wife Caught Me Looking At Porn. Now What?!?!

357

018 Pornfree and Single

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017 How To Stop Objectifying and Oogling with Craig Perra of The Mindful Habit

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016 Escaping Porn Addiction with Craig Perra of The Mindful Habit

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015 Porn! Recorded Live in Indianapolis

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014 Seven Things To Know When Starting a Support Group for Porn Addicts

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013 Top 5 Benefits From Helping Others With Porn Addiction

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012 Is Masturbation Without Porn Bad?

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011 Technology and Porn with Luke Gilkerson of Covenant Eyes

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010 Four Porn Pitfalls With Popular Media

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009 The Key To Successful Porn Addiction Recovery

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008 Bonus Episode Father's Day

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007 What My Dad Didn't Tell Me About Porn

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006 Life After Porn Addiction: The Good Stuff

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005 Pornfree Travel, Hotel Tips, and Trip Planning

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004 The Biggest Mistake People Make When Quitting Porn

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003 Dumb Smartphones and Master Locks

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002 - Unlovable (Updated)

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001 – Coming Clean