All Episodes

EP 74: Are We... Old Now?

EP 73:The Older You Get... The Weirder Life Gets

EP 72: Solo Maxing Won't Fix This

EP 71: The Dating Recession Is Real

Gentle Parenting, Red Flags & Your S3x Life's Yelp Review

EP 70: Gentle Parenting & Midlife Transitions

EP 69: Comfortable Alone: When Independence Becomes Protection

EP 68: Are We Dating Wrong?

EP 67: Pleasure Over Pressure

Ep 66: Dating Intentions & Messy Reality Checks

EP 65: Disney Adventures and Finally got my Lipo!

EP 64: Glow-Up Guilt, Unsupportive Partners, and Soft Exits

EP 63: White Couch Era, Tax Season Scams & Lawsuits

EP 62: New Year, Same Us

EP 61: Let's Run It Back: The Best Moments of the Year

EP 60: 2025 Was Wild…

EP 59: Why I'm Choosing Experiences Over Perfection

EP 58: Is Holiday Season Making Us Delusional… or Honest?

EP 57: Rooted in Scripture, Surrounded by Foolishness

EP 56: Fall Feelings, Family Nonsense & Friendsgiving Joy

EP 55: One Year Later: So What Now?

Facing Death Without Fear: The Heart Behind Dead Honest

EP 54: Robots Are Coming! Automation, Innovation, and a Little Confrontation

EP 53: Let's Get Spooky! From Face Creams to Fatal Attractions

EP52: Not Sure If This Is an Ebb or a Flow, But We're Here for It

EP 51: The Math Ain't Mathin – Life Path Numbers & Listener Letters

EP 50:Black Cat Energy: Is Dex Pivoting her Opinion on Men?

EP 49: Did The Rapture Happen? + Cardi's Baby Daddy Drama & Platonic Marriage Proposals

EP 48: Pop Culture, Probable Cause & Pretty Girl Preferences

EP 47: Security Guards, Spoilers & Side-Eyes

EP 46: AI Dating Concierges, $1K Pre-Date Deposits & Free UK Childcare?!

EP 45: For Men Only: Proposals, Budgets & Back Door Business

EP 44: Brunch Budgets, Water Bill Nightmares & Khloé's Caretaking

EP 43: Mailbag: Marriage Pressure, Broke Behavior & Too Independent?

EP 42: Wife Material & Mom Mode: We Can't Catch a Break

EP 41: Traci's Luggage, Kamala's Future, and Karrueche's Dating

EP 40: Multitasking, Mess, and a Little Mayhem

EP 39: Cakes, Confessions, and Coldplay Chaos

EP 38: Hot Takes, Bali Dreams, and Petty Truths

EP 37: Are You Too Comfortable? Here's What That Could Be Telling You

EP 36: Fasting, Ghosting & Pardoning – Just Another Week in America

EP 35: Voicenote Devotionals, Selfie Request and The Last Straw

EP 34: Body Language, Dating Games & Big Beautiful Bills

EP 33: Single Mom to CEO: Jena Mehlberg on Faith and Raising Boys

EP 32: Pro-Choice, Pro-Chaos, Probably Problematic

EP 31: What She Wore vs. What He Did: The Real Issue

EP 30: Babies on Board, Husbands at Risk & $5K Ain't It

EP 29: Serving Hottie Sauce, Auntie Vibes & Labor Glam

EP 28: Birthday Blues & Ride-or-Die Red Flags

EP 27: Did We Self-Love Ourselves Into Loneliness?

EP 26: The Truth About 50/50 Love and Trauma Bonds

EP 25: Dex Is a Liar & Carla's in Denial — 25 Questions for 25 Episodes!

EP 24: The Parenting Debate "Do Kids Need Their Own Room?" + Friendship Breakups? We Went There!

EP 23: Ozempic Regrets, Disney Trips Without Kids, and Why Moms Can't Win

EP22: She Had the Baby Anyway—Was That a Mistake? Plus Too Old for Nudes, Too Grown for Bad Baby Daddies?

EP21: Casey Anthony the Advocate?! Girl, Be Serious

EP20: Why You're Always Tired, Craving Chocolate, Gaining Weight, and Coach Netra on PCOS

EP19: Dex is Messy, Carla is Cutting People Off, & the Internet is Wild

EP 18: Is Gentle Parenting Making Our Kids Soft? and Would You End a 20-Year Friendship Over a Man?

EP 17: Red Flags & Maternal Regret: Are We the Problem?

EP 16: Ex-posed: When Outing Your Ex Goes Too Far & Unpacking Love Themes in Classic Black Cinema

EP 15: Roses Are Red, Kirk's Lies Never End, Cleo Had Drama, Here's A Playlist We Recommend

EP14: Hookah, Hookups, and Hopes for Something More

EP13: Beyoncé Cancels, Carla Confesses, and LA's Crisis

EP12: What is Closure??

EP11: Libido Low, Vibrator on High: Moms Need Lovin Too!

EP10: Goodbye 2024: We Came, We Saw, We Hit Record

EP9: Parenting Without Help: Defiant Teens, Deadbeat Dads, and the Fight for Control

EP 8: The Real Cost of Influencing: Plastic Surgery & Keeping up with the Joneses

EP 7: Holiday Drama, Traditions, and Boundaries: Surviving Toxicity During the Holidays

EP 6: Burnout Diaries: Navigating Motherhood and Rediscovering Joy

EP 5: It's Giving Thanks: Gratitude, Ambition & the "Miracle Baby"

EP 4: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids & The Power of Saying No

EP 3: Still Processing Rejection

EP 2: Motherhood in the Digital Age & Evolving Friendships

EP 1: GUESS WHO'S BACK! The Official Reunion

So What Now? Coming 11:11

EP 239: Spooky Stories: High Speed Chase, Professor Exposing Himself, Dating and Held Hostage

EP 238: Life After Freedom ft Melodia Shekia

EP 237: Hidden Gems: Lessons from Women Evolve

EP 236: Breaking the Mold (Ft Ariana Gonzalez aka Ari ADHD)

EP 235: Breaking Rules and Breaking Barriers

EP 234: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 2. (Ft Attorney James Smith)

EP 233: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 1. (Ft Attorney James Smith)

EP 232: Humor in the Hustle: Entrepreneurial Wins (Ft. Didi Ramos)

EP 231: Running On Crazy

EP 230: Dealing with Conflict

EP 229: Overcoming Challenges with Hope and Humor

EP 228: Miami Madness and Real Talk (Feat Dexty)

EP 227: Intersection of Mental Health and Security (Feat. Ariel B)

EP 226: Laughter, Loss, and Spiritual Growth

EP 225: Heartbreak to Healing: Love's Turbulence

EP 224: Navigating Life and Success Behind the Scenes (Feat. Andrew Nguyen)

EP 223: Family Hustle (Ft. Carlos & Carolina Flores)

EP 222: Fitness, Fun, and Family Feels ft Dexty

EP 221: Learning How To Receive (Ft Antoinette)

EP 220: Behind Closed Doors: The Ashley Madison Controversy

EP 219: I'm Not a Victim..But Sure Felt Like It All Over Again

EP 218: Finding Balance and Authenticity with Sofia Aguilar

EP 217:Breaking Barriers in Business with Denise Woodard

EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna González

EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional Triumphs

EP 214: Should I Get a Doula?

EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres

EP 212: He Married/Divorced a Narcissist TWICE!

EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-Discovery

EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat Dexty

EP 209: How ADHD Became Our Superpower

EP 208: High Maintenance Friendship as Adults ft Dani aka Splenda

EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN?

The Best of 2023 - Going Down Memory Lane

EP 205: Necole Kane Pivoting LIFE After a Failed Blind Date - From Gossip Queen to Happy Flo

EP 204: The Pursuit of Purpose: Navigating Activism and Advocacy feat Tiffany D Loftin

EP 203: Reflecting on Five Years of Entrepreneurship

EP 202: 7 Kids and 7 Baby Mamas Ft. Comedian TK Kirkland

EP 201: It's Step Daddy Season - Navigating Parenting and Dating with Ariel B

Its a Celebration 200 EPISODES !!!! Road to Redemption

EP 199: I am EVOLVING Through Vulnerability

EP 198: From Addiction to Motherhood with Jessica Rose

EP 197: The Struggles of Back To School Life as a Single Mother and Creating Your Tribe

EP 196: Manifesting Friendships as Adults and Creating Healthy Boundaries feat May Tsehay

EP 195: AN Unexpected and Unpredictable Life from Parental Separation to Medical Diagnosis feat Kay-Lani (viva_glam_kay)

EP 194: "They Always Say The Ex is Crazy" Feat. THE EX

EP 193: Focusing on Self-growth After Break-ups with Mandii B.

EP 192: The Story of Realtor Linda Jokbengboon: Refugee Camps, Gambling Addiction, and Growing up Asian

EP 191: The Impact of Liars, ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles, and Finding Strength in Faith

EP 190: Behind the Laughter: A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod about Marriage, Blended Family, and Children with Autism

EP 189: Birth Doulas, Manifesting Pregnancy, and Finding Your Purpose without Kids

EP 188: Ask And It Shall Be Given ft Fabianna Ferrarini

EP 187: From Crack Baby to Superstar Comedian feat Akeem Woods

EP 186: Falling Into Satan's Trap

EP 185: My First Psychic Reading Almost Destroyed Me

EP 184: Tulum, Shroom Trips, & Cougar Season

EP 183: Healers are Masters of the Darkness ft Daniela Kura

EP 182: My Therapist Ghosted Me

EP 181: I Found God Through Astrology feat Gigi

HOW WE GET FREE

EP 180: God Will Humble You feat. Justin Gatlin

EP 179: Baby Daddy Newsletter

EP 178: It's Time To Pivot Again

EP 177: What Does Rest Even Mean?

EP 176: He's Aware That He's A Narcissist

EP 175: Airport Lounge Access Granted feat Dexty

EP 174: Yo Quiero Dinero, a Prenup, and to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres

EP 173: Absent Parents, Gay for Pay, & Dismissive Mothers

EP 172: 'm Committed to Being Single AF

EP 171: The Family Secret - A Mother's Lie About Adoption ft Ariel Brown

Working On a Huge Project!

EP 170: Toxic Mentality, Radical Honesty & Marriage ft. Laron Profit

EP 169: Mommy Issues After Sexual Trauma ft Samia Burton

EP 168: He Left Me For Dead, Bloodied, but I Still Loved Him - A Story of Survival

EP 167: Meet The Team- Mentorship, Adding Value, and Why You're Only As Good As Your Team

EP 166: What I'm Leaving Behind in 2022 feat Dexty

EP 165: Origin Story, Exposed On Social Media, And I'm The Blue Check Now w/ Mandii B

EP 164: Busy, Petty and Don't Come to Me As A Woman

EP 163: Mean Girl Era, Sexual Curiosity, and Tupperware Parties

EP 162: Gratitude Is My Superpower

EP 161: Soft Life vs Hyper-Independence, Sassy Men, and Hinge Chronicles

Ep 160: After 35 I've Become A Total Introvert Plus 16 Personalities

EP 159: Hickeys, Blow Up Dolls, and IDC About Your 750k views

EP 158: Changing Lives, Threesomes, and IDK who Ice Cube Is

EP 157: Time over Money, Vasectomies, and Deadbeats

EP 156: Toxic Positivity, Unplugging & Online Dating In DC

DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Man Asks Us to Fire His Brother's Girlfriend From High End Family Restaurant for Not Showing Up to Staff Meeting

EP 155: Love is Blind, Imposter Syndrome, & Carla Almost Gets Arrested

EP 154: New Job...Who's This?

EP 153: Single and Ready to Mingle..MAYBE

EP 152: Law and Order: Blood Ain't Thicker Than Water

EP 151: Why He Married and Divorced a Narcissist TWICE!

EP 150: The Tarot Card Reader That Jump Started My Healing Journey

EP 149: Getting Rid of Shame & Finding My New Purpose

EP 148: Love Bombing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

EP 148: Love Bombing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

EP 147: Signs You're Dating/Dealing With a Narcissist

EP 146: Self Love, Expectations, & Dating Again

EP 145: Turning 35, Single Mom of 2, and Broken

EP 144: I Shouldn't Be Depressed!

EP 143: Carla Has A Podcast Bro!

EP 142: The Highs & Lows of Mom's in Business Including the Dark Side of Wanting to End it ALL

EP 141: Finding Purpose After a Loss

EP 140: This Feels Like A Life Sentence

139. I Played Myself! - I Don't Know How to Be a Mompreneur

EP 138: Pivoting & Leveling TF Up!

EP 137: My Testimony before The Beginning

136: I Had a C-Section Now I Want A Natural Birth: Should I Get a Doula?

EP 135: True Confessions From The Lady Waxing Your Vagina Ft. Jena

EP 134: Checking In Before Wrapping Up 2020

EP 133: What Happens When Your Dreams Become a Reality Feat The Ladies

EP 132: Divine Feminine Energy & The Power of Manifestation…With a Dash of Ratchet

EP 131: Traveling While Chubby Ft. Jeff Jenkins

EP 130: Phenomenal Black Boy, Rachel Dolezal 2.0, & Colorism

EP 129: Intuition, Astrology, & Yoga Ft. CheCheBabe

EP 128: Black People Don't Swim, US NAVY, Defense Mechanisms Ft. Jordan Hunter

EP 127: COVID Pregnancy, Threesome Homicide, and Unsolicited Advise Ft. Wax Kyng

EP 126: I'm In Love But Hoe Is Life Ft. Mandii B

EP 125: The "So...What Are We?" Talk Ft. Need To Know Podcast

Don't Miss Out! Annoucements!

EP 124: An Audio Adventure: Oldies But Goodies

EP 123: Adoption & Identity W/ Jeannine McKnight

EP 122: True Story: Wax Is Out On Bail

EP 121: Food, Body Image, & Learning Patience W/ Steph Styuhls

I Can't Do This Anymore

EP 120: Sex Clubs, Micro-Cheating, & Porn Hub

EP 119: WTF, Am I Lonely? Feat Nami

EP 118: What I Know for Sure! F*ck Fear

EP 117: Myspace, Technology, and Our Post-Quarantine Future feat Assante

EP 116: Cheating Husbands, Thumb Sucking & Narcissistic Friends

EP 115: Hating Friends, Fake Pregnancies, & Karens

EP 114: Attachment Styles, NFL Doctors, & Bad Pussy feat WaxKyng

EP 113: Finding Your Purpose in Your 30's feat Charlamagne tha God

EP 112: New Hobbies & Pandemic Struggles with Medinah Monroe

EP 111: Therapy, Celibacy, & Healing feat Hey Fran Hey

EP 110: Speaking Out - Sexual Assault Awareness Month

EP 109: Marijuana and Our Kids with Good Moms Bad Choices

EP 108: "I Wasn't Lost" feat WaxKyng Quarantine Bonus

EP 107: Parenting Special Needs Children & Anti-Vaxx Opinions

EP 106: Rona, Dating, & Non-Supportive Friends feat Imani Blair

EP 105: My Triggers are Changing & I think I am an Ambivert

EP 104: Do I Even Need a Psychiatrist? feat Angel Adams

EP 103: Daddy's Girl | The Race Against Time

Mindful Mondays: There is No Testimony Without a Test

EP 102: Dating, Divorce, Dropping Out of College! feat Krysta Monet

EP 101: "The Boss From Hell" Navigating the Corporate World

Mindful Monday: Don't Fight Fire with Fire

EP 100: We Made It! but What Did it Take?

Mindful Monday: Know Your Worth

EP 99: From Lonely Young Mother to Thriving Confident Business Woman feat Shanicia Boswell

Mindful Mondays: Gratitude

EP 98: "The Other Woman" A Story of Growth and Forgiveness

EP 97: All My Men Get a Million Chances feat Passport Cutty

EP 96: Mindful Mondays 1 - Hard Work, WORKS

EP 95: You've Got Mail! #UnsolicitedAdvice with WaxKyng

EP 95: You've Got Mail! #UnsolicitedAdvice with WaxKyng

Ep 94: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable!

EP 93: Marriage & Monogamy feat Lover's Quarrell

EP 92: Do You Have a Condom? feat WaxKyng & MandiiB

EP 91: Grateful for Spicy Yams feat JustLatasha

EP 90: Coping with Break Ups in Your 30's ft Ashley Rose

EP 89: Goals Check In with a Secret Story Twist feat KPB

EP 88: Dating, Polygamy, and Living with Herpes in your 30's feat Carolyn Toney

EP 87: Submission, Blended Families, & Not Being Black Enough? feat Leticia Marie Gardner

EP 86: To Believe or Not Believe? feat Psychic Medium Nicola

EP 85: Foreplay Objects, Nude Rules, & Penny Flights feat Lex & Drea

EP 84: The Pursuit of Success feat Ryan Plaza

EP 83: Hating ex NFL Players, Wrong Kind of Sugar Daddies & Bitter Baby Mamas

EP 82: Did You Say I Am Too Opinionated? feat Mandii B

EP 81: Priviledge & Dating 101

EP 80: Official Draft of the Cuffing Season

EP 79: Pop a Molly to Treat this Anxiety & Depression?

EP 78: Burning Forest, Dealing with Death, and Chicken Sammiches

EP 77: Body Counts & Boundaries In Relationships

EP 76: The Reality of Impostor Syndrome

EP 75: You're Triggering Me!

EP 74: Entrepreneurship, Copy Cats, & Free Loading Brothers with Dave Anderson

EP 73: Phobias, Fucking Married People, & Alot of Sh*t Talk! feat WaxKyng

EP 72: It's A Hot New York Summer

EP 71: Nala Simone Toussaint

Episode 2 Patreon

EP 70: I Lost $4 Million In 24 Months

EP 69: Colorism in America feat Ericka Dunlap (Miss America)

EP 68: Big News & Let's Talk About Sex Baby!

EP 67: Black,Gay, Converting to Islam

EP 66: Light It Up - "Decriminalization/Legalization of Marijuana & Prison Reform"

EP 65: I'm Not Your Cultural Ambassador

EP 64: Summer Love

EP 63: "Take Your Ass to Sleep" Mental Health Awareness

EP 62: Free The Pussy "Decriminalization of Sex Work"

EP 61: Culturally Lost

EP 60: Is It Trust Issues?

EP 59: An Open Letter to Mommy Dearest

EP 58: Broke & Happy (Big Announcement)

EP 57: You're Such A Narcissist

EP: 56 Gentrification & Stalking Drive-Bys feat @itsJameer

EP 55: Teeth, Titties, & Toes ft WaxKyng

EP 54: Faking Cancer, Men in Tights, & Does Money Equal Happiness? feat Justin Gatlin

EP 53: Start Building in YOUR City First! feat Young Scholar

EP 52: Divorce, Personalities, and Sh*t Taaalk! ft Tony The Realtor

EP 51 Entrepreneurship: Parties & Podcasts feat Chris Stylezz

EP 50: Erotica, Abductions, & Bad Hygiene

EP 49: Motherhood Behind Prison Walls - 13 Years Later

EP 48: Cutty Keeps it Real "Starting Over in Your 30's"

EP 47: There's A Thin Line Between an Entrepreneur and a Scammer

EP 46: Student/Teacher Confrontations, Titan Games Challenges, The R.Kelly Cover Up

EP 45: Dear Future Homeowner - Real Estate Advice w/ Anthony Bertram

EP 44: Tax Season/Scam Season & Loyalty in Friendships

EP 43: Am I Becoming An Introvert in my 30's? ft Anthony Bertram

EP 42: Its Zoe Kelly

EP 41: SH*T You Should Know! - AIDS is an Epidemic

EP 40: Thank You, Next 2019

EP 39: 35 Year Old Virgin, & Recovering from Porn Addiction "Life After Freedom" ft Melodia Shekia

EP 38: Eat Pray Thot feat Savoy

EP 37: The Hustle Never Stops

EP 36: I'll Just Have a Baby by Myself! feat Caddy

EP 35: Caught Having Sex With Your Sister? feat The Oprah Rose Show

EP 34: From the NFL to Politics - Politiscope ft Walter Powell & Jackson White

Bonus: OH Sh*t! It's a WHOREIBLE Takeover!

EP 33: Infertility, Mood Swings & Weight Gain - That Girl with PCOS ft Cash Arroyo

EP 32: Family Matters...Kinda ft Laura Diaz

EP 31: I DID IT!!!! We Went LIVE & Let's Rock The Early Vote

EP 30: All the SH*T You Should Know ft Mandii B

EP 29: Brothel On An Army Base? ft James Smith Esq Criminal Defense Attorney

EP 28: How I Met My Idol Charlamagne Tha God

Hurricane Maria's First Flight Out with Ruthie Fonseca

EP 26: Balancing Being a Mom & Having Fun w/ Jena M

Live Podcast Show! Oct 20th

EP 25: Dream Chasin' ft. Dexty

EP 24: Girl Boss ft Ivana Cora

EP 23: Mental Health "I'm Speaking Up" feat Anthony & DJ

EP 22: Anger Management "Unlearning What Our Parents Taught Us"

10K! Unsolicited BONUS

EP 21: You're Throwing Your Money in a Fire Pit feat Anthony Bertram & Gabby Aparicio

EP 20 Stripping: An Alternative Lifestyle - "A 9 to 5 Is Not For Everyone" feat Ekah Love

EP 19: Making Money Moves feat Kimberly Stewart & Mandii B

EP 18: Health, Yoga, & Piss "Fitness is for the Mind, Body, &...Sex?"

BONUS EP 03: Double Standards "That's $40 P*ssy!"

EP 18: Thots on F*ck Boys "Fake Belts & Shirts Tucked in Tight"

EP 17: SH*T! Can We Grow Up? feat Mandii aka @fullcourtpumps

EP 16: Raising a Teenager "When Is This Going to be OVER?"

EP 15: Platonic Relationships "We're not gonna say names... *BLEEP*"

EP 14: What Does it Mean to Forgive?

BONUS EP: 02 Unsolicited Advice

EP 12: "I Don't Want To Be Broke No'Mo!"

EP 11: Shooting the Sh*t - "Living As Gay Black Man in America"

EP 10: Starting Over "Misery Loves Company"

BONUS EP: 01 Unsolicited Advice

EP 09: Domestic Violence : Sticks and Stones Break Bones and Words Hurt Too!

EP 08: Body Image & Self Love "Running On Crazy"

EP 07: Conflict "I Love You So I Have To Punch You"

EP 06: Parenting "I Lay Down the Law"

EP 05: Plastic Surgery "Can I Put This in My A**?"

EP 04: Breakups "What the F**k is Closure?"

EP 03 FRIENDSHIPS

EP 02 Dating

EP 01 WELCOME TO SH*T I'M 30!